JustPearlyThings - April 19, 2023


Bitter Bimbo Tried Shaming Andrew Tate


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10 minutes

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2,426

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187

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20

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5

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In this episode of the podcast, I sit down with my good friend and comedian, to talk about feminism and why it s a problem. We talk about the root cause of the problem and how to fix it.

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00:00:00.000 who are naturally in that state, who act like women, who don't prioritize rapping over being 1.00
00:00:04.780 mothers, people who are happy that there's a binary, that there's men and women. There's none
00:00:09.740 of this confusion. There's none of this back and forth. There's not this competition. That's what
00:00:13.680 the frustration is, is that this is not natural. The way that you're acting, your career path and
00:00:18.160 your dreams, your unwillingness to define misogyny, your worldview is frustrating to deal
00:00:23.340 with. It's not hatred. It's I'm trying to explain that and why men and probably why it's going to
00:00:28.100 be difficult for you to settle down with the husband because you don't want to submit to a
00:00:31.260 man. And that's how we're going to be happiest. That's why there's a rise in depression. That's
00:00:34.820 why there's a rise in suicide and antidepressants and all this. This is the root of the problem
00:00:38.420 is feminism. It's not, it has nothing to do with hatred. It has nothing to do with me hating 0.65
00:00:45.360 you. I honestly don't care about you. I probably wouldn't talk to you if this wasn't on a podcast.
00:00:49.100 I'm trying to explain a feeling that a lot of people are gravitating to and why Red Pill
00:00:52.380 is blowing up so much because it's tapping into this feeling that a lot of people realize now and
00:00:57.480 they don't really know why, but this is what it is.
00:00:59.640 Can I say something quickly? Do you know why I like African men more in terms of like my taste?
00:01:04.220 Because culturally, the same way that you're saying when you go outside the West, when you
00:01:07.900 go outside the West, when I go outside the West, I'm more likely to find your average guy as an 0.82
00:01:12.860 African man who has done a lot more manly things. The West, the men in the West, actually, they are a
00:01:18.020 bit soft in the sense of, yeah, you can go make your money and have a career, but being a man is more
00:01:22.820 than the money in your pocket. So actually, the problem goes both ways. There's a lot of men
00:01:27.280 that are not doing what they're meant to do as naturally masculine men.
00:01:31.220 No, absolutely. And I mean, I always say, because I travel around quite a lot, you know,
00:01:34.020 I've been to Eastern Europe and also into South America as well. And when you go outside of the
00:01:39.880 West, when you go outside of the Anglosphere, you see the difference. And a lot of this stuff
00:01:44.040 that we're talking about now is very culturally defined. It's a hothouse of this debate that's going
00:01:49.460 on in England, and it's going on in America, and it's going on in Canada and Australia.
00:01:53.120 Outside of these places, it's very, very different. It doesn't exist.
00:01:57.240 Yeah.
00:01:57.840 And my point is that it's not really what you naturally want. You've been programmed by social
00:02:01.800 media. You've been programmed. I guarantee you listen to Meg DeStallion and Cardi B. You follow a
00:02:05.900 lot of celebrities on Instagram, and I guarantee you have a lot of provocative pictures on Instagram.
00:02:09.900 This is what happens when you follow that path and when you think that being a mother
00:02:13.580 is comparable to being a cow. It's not what you naturally want. You have been brainwashed.
00:02:18.500 And you wouldn't be with a woman who makes more than you, so you're brainwashed yourself, 0.98
00:02:22.400 babe. You would find it emasculating. You don't like the fact that there's women now 1.00
00:02:27.220 who can earn the same amount as you, doing the same thing as you, actually earn more than
00:02:32.020 you, doing the same thing as you.
00:02:33.820 I asked you to name one relationship where that's worked, and you couldn't.
00:02:35.900 And I've asked you the same question, and you couldn't, so what's your point?
00:02:39.180 What is your point?
00:02:39.740 A relationship where the man's in charge, and the man makes more?
00:02:42.200 Can I tell a factual story?
00:02:43.920 My parents?
00:02:44.340 Sorry, Cardi B, one of the biggest rappers actually came out on Twitter, and she said
00:02:49.000 she wants to stop rapping and just focus on raising her children, because that's what 1.00
00:02:52.260 makes her happy. So do you still feel like, you know, being a rapper is what's going to
00:02:56.240 give you genuine happiness if the biggest rapper in the world is willing to give that
00:03:00.480 up?
00:03:00.860 She got cash.
00:03:02.500 And they sell you a lie. They go on a song and say, I don't cook, I don't clean, and
00:03:06.720 then they really want to. Or Beyonce will make a song, oh, the single ladies, and she's 1.00
00:03:10.420 married.
00:03:10.740 And stayed with the guy that cheated.
00:03:12.960 And they're instilling this brainwashing, because it sounds good, because it makes you
00:03:16.720 feel empowered, it gives you dopamine in the moment, but it's not really what gives you
00:03:19.640 long-term serotonin, actual happiness, actual higher purpose. It's a drug, it's like smoking
00:03:24.100 a cigarette.
00:03:24.800 Can you hunt?
00:03:26.920 Yeah, I can.
00:03:27.800 Yeah? Can you fight?
00:03:29.140 Of course.
00:03:29.780 Okay, that's good.
00:03:30.580 Yeah, but he thought, so you're good. You're still a hard man deep down. Even though you started
00:03:37.040 a career online looking for trouble, you're still a man.
00:03:39.460 No, I didn't start looking for trouble.
00:03:40.520 There's a lot of men. There's a lot of men that can't do that. I'll ask them, can you
00:03:44.220 hunt? They're like, can you fight?
00:03:46.020 And we tell them to. And this is the reason that Justin Waller is so successful, and why
00:03:49.220 people need this online, is because men can't live in this, I don't believe in, I'm not
00:03:53.900 going to say, you need to improve, or else you're going to fall behind. Women can believe 1.00
00:03:57.460 in this delusional, they can just believe in nothing. They can say, I'm going to be a rapper
00:04:01.480 with cats when I'm 65, and then people won't check you. And if I do check you, I'm misogynistic.
00:04:05.640 When you uplift men and you tell them the truth, it's like, yo, thank you for telling
00:04:08.960 me that. I need to improve. Women don't want to hear it. They want to stay in this cycle 1.00
00:04:12.900 of nothing.
00:04:14.040 Yeah. I guess, I mean, because obviously you're not sitting here with guys that are not like
00:04:18.440 you, then you can't sit here and obviously say, yeah, women are also acting a bit more 1.00
00:04:22.880 masculine.
00:04:23.140 I do. I have my friends from back in the day, from back in New York. A lot of them are still
00:04:26.220 in the same spot that they were in college, and I tell them, man, you got to step your game
00:04:29.320 up.
00:04:29.440 That's good.
00:04:29.920 I'll talk to them the same way. It sounds aggressive, but people need to hear that because no one talks to them
00:04:34.700 like that.
00:04:34.920 Okay. So that's nice because you saying that and you being able to own up to that brings
00:04:39.220 more balance to your argument because the problem is when we sit in these conversations, we're
00:04:42.960 usually saying women, women, women, women.
00:04:44.200 Well, the difference is for the men to get on this podcast, here's the difference. You
00:04:47.920 can just be a girl and be on this podcast. We don't really care what you've done. To
00:04:51.000 be a man on this podcast, you've had to have done something.
00:04:53.880 Yeah.
00:04:54.260 They're not just going to, you think they're going to go to a club and like recruit guys to
00:04:57.380 be here?
00:04:58.020 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:04:58.460 You wouldn't sit here. These guys are accomplished in their field. That's why we get to sit down with average
00:05:03.060 women. And do you know why you get to sit down with average women? Not me included, obviously. 0.99
00:05:07.620 You're above average. You're different.
00:05:09.360 Thank you. Because actually there's a massive need and, you know, urge for people to get
00:05:16.140 on to women, which I do get. But then there's also a moment where you have to chill out because
00:05:20.380 you're not actually speaking to just average women. You don't actually know this from anywhere.
00:05:24.140 So when you have an attitude of almost like wanting to make us patronize almost what we say
00:05:30.880 with such a challenge, yeah, that's why you come across as misogyny.
00:05:34.960 Well, I need to get through because this is a common problem that a lot of guys face.
00:05:37.940 She started off by saying she's vibrating with misogyny and then... 1.00
00:05:40.900 You're vibrating, not me. And what I feel to say...
00:05:44.340 And then people don't check that. Like, it's important to check that out. You can't just
00:05:47.760 let that slide.
00:05:48.240 What I feel to say... Hold on. What I feel to say... Actually, never mind.
00:05:52.180 Exactly. Like, you need to call it out when people make no sense or else we're going to
00:05:55.880 keep living in clown world.
00:05:56.580 Can I challenge you both? Can I challenge you both? So... 0.99
00:06:00.880 I feel like these new age internet men are like very destructive to these young men out 0.91
00:06:06.340 there because you have an opinion, you have a voice, you're very vocal about it and you
00:06:11.640 stand strong in your point and like, you know, you've got this Andrew Tate passport bros thing
00:06:15.820 is that what you're getting at because you're going back in different countries, women are 1.00
00:06:20.220 feminine, la-di-la-di-la, sounding like some nonsense stuff that other guys jump because 0.71
00:06:25.360 a guy's never going to look at a woman for influence. Like, let's be real. Well, not real men. 0.68
00:06:30.740 A lot of men will not look, and this is where in rap and other careers fields where women 0.72
00:06:37.280 are at the top, men will not, they don't look at you and think, oh, this person can influence
00:06:44.700 me or this person, it can't come from a woman. But whereas if Andrew Tate does it, it's like,
00:06:51.080 oh yeah, let's jump on the bandwagon because he's a guy, I'm a guy. Like, you only want to
00:06:54.740 relate to someone because of a gender role. Like, let's be real, let's be real.
00:06:59.700 One of the reasons that's happening though is because people like Tate and, you know,
00:07:03.160 the gentleman sitting here are redressing the balance because they're, and the reason
00:07:07.200 that they've been so popular and they've blown up to such an extent is because they're
00:07:10.420 going against what is the prevailing narrative. And the prevailing narrative is basically telling
00:07:14.500 guys, you know, be a nice guy, buy our flowers, you know, take on 15 dates, you know,
00:07:19.760 this kind of thing and all of that kind of thing hasn't worked. But the first thing that
00:07:23.580 he said is that he's a nice guy. So refine what you mean by that. But he's a nice guy.
00:07:26.820 Yeah. So what does that mean then? So he's a nice guy, but he's like this and he's like
00:07:30.340 that. Like, it's not making any sense. Like I said, these internet boys, a lot of men on
00:07:34.120 the internet are being brainwashed. Like, they are being, like the women, okay, yeah, the women 1.00
00:07:38.700 are being brainwashed, but yeah, we have maybe a few sensible men who can, you know, you're not
00:07:43.600 going to go for every single woman anyways. There's one wife. One wife, one wife. 1.00
00:07:47.100 What did they say? What did they say that's not true?
00:07:49.760 What have they said? Andrew Tate. Andrew Tate. One thing he said, not true.
00:07:53.760 I don't disagree with what Andrew Tate says. I'm just saying that he's influenced.
00:07:59.760 What did he say that's not true? It's how he's saying it. Like, there's a way to say it.
00:08:04.240 And I don't agree.
00:08:05.020 Okay. Okay. Feelings over time.
00:08:06.420 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. That's enough. That's enough. That's enough. That's enough.
00:08:09.360 That's the perfect point because brainwashing implies that you're lying, that you're feeding him
00:08:13.060 a lie. It's not what I'm saying because you can't refute any of it. It's how I'm saying it. And this
00:08:17.200 is the Western world. We prioritize the way you feel your vibrations of misogyny over
00:08:21.960 what is true and what's false.
00:08:23.480 But people are not going to listen to you if you're not telling the truth. What you're
00:08:26.480 saying is flying over a lot of people's heads. Yours.
00:08:29.660 What do you want? No, not mine. Because I don't believe in what you're saying anyways.
00:08:32.980 There you go.
00:08:33.280 Like, you said you know a woman's nature. Like, you don't. You will never know a woman's 1.00
00:08:38.320 nature. You don't bleed once a month, bro. You're never going to know what it's like.
00:08:41.100 That's got nothing to do with that.
00:08:42.060 No, but it's a woman's nature. So what are you talking about? It's a woman's nature. 1.00
00:08:45.800 Female nature. 1.00
00:08:46.720 Wait, wait.
00:08:47.040 It goes hand in hand. So what's your point?
00:08:49.100 Okay, okay, okay. I want to hear from you. I just, you haven't talked much.
00:08:52.160 Yeah, no. I don't think that's got anything to do with it. And another thing, I want
00:08:55.740 to go back to the misogyny thing. I feel like people just throw around whatever they feel,
00:09:00.800 whatever they want to say, but they don't want to hold accountability for it. Like, you
00:09:04.580 don't, you can just say whatever. You can say whatever, but he can't say the same thing
00:09:09.760 because then he will, you know, you will throw a bitch for it. 1.00
00:09:13.000 Can I challenge the both of you? I'm sure most of you guys can agree that men are becoming 0.98
00:09:17.320 more feminine. Can you kind of understand why that's forced women to almost become more 0.96
00:09:23.340 masculine?
00:09:23.840 But this is why, can we just say one thing though? This is why, because you've mentioned
00:09:30.480 Andrew Tate, people like that. And obviously, as you said, the gentleman here, the reason
00:09:34.520 that those people have risen to prominence is because the West is out of balance, right?
00:09:40.380 They are there redressing the balance. They're going against the prevailing narrative. And
00:09:44.240 the main thing that they're preaching, everybody, is self-improvement because men have to, like 0.97
00:09:48.380 you said, men have to step up. We don't get a choice to not step up. We can't just say,
00:09:53.540 oh, well, I'm just, you know, I'm just going to living my truth and, you know, it's all
00:09:56.620 going to be fine. We have to put in the work. Otherwise, we're just going to get left on
00:09:59.760 the sidelines. Women have more advantage than that for the most part. 1.00
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