JustPearlyThings - Sneako DISMANTLES Unhinged Feminist

00:00:00.000 today's topic i'm just going to get right into it do feminists crave destruction yes 1.00

00:00:04.960 explain right here just uh we started up the show with destruction ask me the question and then

00:00:10.220 you'll see okay um so she said you said yes why yes because the whole point of feminism is to 1.00

00:00:16.720 eradicate the importance of men and i don't see anything as destructive as eradicating the

00:00:21.900 importance of men in society that's a simple way to put it what do you think i agree with what she's 0.99

00:00:27.620 saying 100 did you actually agree or you're just trying to get to the next person no i agree with

00:00:33.020 what she's saying i think that a lot of i think the term feminism has been almost changed in modern

00:00:40.020 day time and made into almost like women need to overpower men and women need to take over the world 1.00

00:00:45.700 kind of energy i hear that no i don't agree okay what do you think um feminism is made 1.00

00:00:57.480 to empower women and show men the importance of women in society what's the importance of women in 0.90

00:01:04.200 society what what's the importance of women in society we are society that's not that what's your 1.00

00:01:13.080 importance what's your role in society if it's so important if you're that's the point of empowering

00:01:17.220 you what's your role well I'm not being funny um without where would the world

00:01:26.100 be without women like where would you you've come from a woman you've learned 1.00

00:01:31.560 most of what you've growing up he brought you up was it your mother or

00:01:35.220 your father who's so he's got core duties why do men go so hard so the

00:01:42.720 importance of a woman is motherhood no not just motherhood come back to me I

00:01:48.300 have to think about it but women you seem pretty set in stone on that I think we 1.00

00:01:52.720 just saw feminism in real time you said that it's in our role is really 1.00

00:01:57.900 important and then you just said motherhood which is that existed before 0.99

00:02:00.720 the feminist movement motherhood has always been important yeah it's always 0.99

00:02:04.200 been respect right you're right and it's pinnacle how do you think the world's

00:02:08.340 gonna continue to go on without motherhood we agree so would you be here if you 1.00

00:02:11.680 didn't have mother we agree 100 exactly so what is a feminist movement done to 0.99

00:02:15.400 prove that well the feminist movement if you're talking about what what's it 1.00

00:02:21.520 what's going on now the empowerment all this girl boss thing that's going on 1.00

00:02:25.760 right now no that's modern feminism that's what it's evolved to but 1.00

00:02:29.900 feminism in itself is made to make the world see the value they used to plan 1.00

00:02:35.300 assassinations in the early 1900s or feminist well um yeah terrorist groups

00:02:43.400 that men and women you know it's equality isn't it moving can be

00:02:47.360 terrorists too true that's why I think feminism in my opinion is the problem 1.00

00:02:54.480 when people want to label things you don't want all of the same things we are

00:02:58.160 all very different women we have different experience different careers

00:03:00.780 different ones so if you start saying feminism you start labeling everybody 0.95

00:03:04.260 it's a problem because a black woman's freaking experience is not the same as a 1.00

00:03:08.040 white woman so we are feminism doesn't look the same so when everybody say no 1.00

00:03:11.340 women empower yourselves we can't empower ourselves the same way some women work 1.00

00:03:14.580 some don't so with a mother some women are not mothers he's like don't put me

00:03:18.240 under the same what is a black woman what does that have to do with feminism it 1.00

00:03:21.020 has to do with feminism because for example for me just knowing the 0.86

00:03:24.900 difference between my empowerment and the empowerment of my white

00:03:28.380 girlfriends it's very different I have bigger struggles to overcome so when

00:03:32.100 somebody's telling me all feminism empower yourself we're all the same no 1.00

00:03:34.740 we're not we're quite different the same way that I don't believe that racism is

00:03:38.820 actually something that many people should be speaking on because even that

00:03:42.360 black experience is totally different depending on where you're from what class

00:03:45.780 you come from so women are not all the same just because we are women this is 0.99

00:03:49.560 like everything you're saying is why people think that feminists are just 1.00

00:03:52.260 chatting because like what does racism so I don't really care and I brought

00:03:55.860 feminism as a comparison point because I'm just trying to explain that when you 1.00

00:03:59.940 put people in the same bag every single time it causes problems so you don't

00:04:03.600 actually get to understand what the genuine problem is and you start saying

00:04:06.300 oh we want this but then you don't know what it's victim mindset yeah it's it's

00:04:10.500 having a victim mindset I'm black I'm a woman I need empowerment I need this

00:04:14.040 no it's not a victimization it's a fact because I know I lived that experience you may

00:04:18.600 not and on top of that I'm also an immigrant so I already know that my

00:04:21.500 experience is different so when I'm talking about empowerment and you're an

00:04:24.040 immigrant so there's a lot of ways you're victimizing yourself I'm not

00:04:27.220 victimized I'm empowering myself because I'm a G I made it through the

00:04:30.040 problem I don't really care about whether or not it was a situation but

00:04:32.920 that's wokeness you empower yourself by victimizing myself myself by

00:04:36.520 understanding that perhaps I may have a bigger hill to climb so I'll train

00:04:40.480 harder it's what you're leading with though it's certainly what you're leading

00:04:43.420 with your race your gender and you're in your immigration you're leading with that 0.95

00:04:47.980 is that your identity and understand that when I'm a feminist what about what 1.00

00:04:51.940 you've done in the world instead of all these other things in the world okay

00:04:54.760 then why not leave with those I'm an educator as well okay and I understand

00:04:57.940 the difference between me going into that that job versus other people I work

00:05:02.680 with different types of racism what I'm trying to say is I'm not trying to make

00:05:05.320 this about racism I'm simply making a comparison to explain but you did no no

00:05:09.120 I certainly do and let me tell you why because I'm making a comparison so it's an

00:05:12.720 analogy to explain another problem when you put everybody in the same basket it

00:05:16.900 doesn't work that's why feminism doesn't work it's not a good thing because I 1.00

00:05:20.620 don't relate to feminists because the problems are not just caused by gender 1.00

00:05:23.980 the problems are caused by these other factors that you're talking yes it's

00:05:26.560 caused by so many different things there's different elements to it so

00:05:29.020 don't box me in so that's why I don't think feminism is good you neglect the 1.00

00:05:32.440 people that actually do need empowering and I don't think it's fair to say that

00:05:35.740 she shouldn't lead with her race and all of these things because when you look at

00:05:39.100 us the first thing you do see is my race if I am a TV presenter you're not

00:05:41.980 going to see when it's the first thing you say when I see you I see a woman I don't 0.83

00:05:45.760 see a black girl maybe that's just you but the majority you're gonna already have this 1.00

00:05:48.700 stigma of me because here's the problem with you doing then I say this with 0.78

00:05:51.460 love but if you have that top of mind all the time you're gonna suppress

00:05:54.280 yourself but that's literally that's life that's gonna you're gonna suppress

00:05:58.000 yourself we can't change it and that is like that's like me assuming that y'all

00:06:00.940 gonna hate me because I'm a straight white male why would I think that about you

00:06:04.220 guys when we could just get along so I don't understand like why are you being so 0.92

00:06:07.720 challenging when I said because I hate to hear it coming out of your mouth

00:06:10.900 because it's a poisonous thing for you to think next to feminists and I'm saying 1.00

00:06:14.260 whatever your empowerment movement is is not the same as mine so don't

00:06:18.040 actually label me to be in that situation and say all women want oh I'm not

00:06:21.460 labeling you I'm simply telling you what exactly what you said exactly what you

00:06:25.780 said what do you think about feminine I said I'm black I'm an immigrant please so

00:06:35.280 essentially if I stand next to a feminist yeah for example a white woman I don't 1.00

00:06:39.800 relate to you because okay wait wait wait let me finish can I finish you're about to 0.87

00:06:43.540 say I can't box myself in with you because I'm black that's not what I'm 0.99

00:06:46.060 saying say it then what I'm saying is I am NOT the same woman as you what I want

00:06:50.260 and what I see to be empowerment is not the same whether it's culturally whether

00:06:53.560 it's racially whether it's professionally academically personally

00:06:56.500 whatever we are all very different women cannot be boxed into the same box 1.00

00:07:00.100 because we're not the same because you're different races because different

00:07:03.280 experiences as women so you're making an anti-feminist you're you're making an 0.97

00:07:06.520 anti-feminist you want to have other you want to have other things I've got I've 1.00

00:07:11.920 got a lot of victim balance I know the things are not right and I know the

00:07:16.540 things are right it's not just black and white there's great areas in the

00:07:19.760 middle that's why I mentioned for example things like race is a great area in

00:07:23.380 the middle that makes it say oh yeah feminism may not actually be as accurate 1.00

00:07:26.860 as people are saying that is why people come across feminists and they don't 1.00

00:07:29.920 know what they want because one wants this the other one wants this and the

00:07:32.840 other one wants this because they are different and that is why feminism in my 1.00

00:07:36.340 opinion is destructive and I don't think she's playing victim I think she's 1.00

00:07:40.420 just acknowledging a serious issue in society racism yes racism is not a

00:07:48.940 problem that's how they keep people broken at the bottom and arguing about

00:07:51.580 nothing and thinking that they're victims all the time like a problem it's not it's

00:07:54.840 not a problem that when you believe it you're okay my point is your existence is

00:08:01.180 a sum of your beliefs and your thoughts and if you're always thinking that I'm a

00:08:04.780 victim because I'm black I'm not a feminist because of this I'm an 0.95

00:08:07.560 immigrant then you know what's gonna happen you're gonna stay poor you're

00:08:10.760 gonna stay unhappy and you're gonna see racism everywhere at a certain level of

00:08:14.660 wealth and at a certain level of status people never discuss things like race

00:08:18.180 people never discuss like I'm an immigrant so it was hard you just want to

00:08:21.700 get to the next point winner winners only see green because the truth of the

00:08:26.320 matter is like I own a business right I have a bunch of employees if somebody turns up

00:08:30.440 and does their job and they're profitable for my company I cannot afford to give a 0.92

00:08:33.380 fuck about their race religion hair with gender any of that stuff because it's 0.82

00:08:37.860 too hard to find people that work really hard so a great example of that is 1.00

00:08:42.080 LeBron James has been in the NBA for years because he puts out motherfucking 0.97

00:08:45.120 results okay and he's not worried and he's not worried and living oh I'm black I 0.97

00:08:49.340 can't play in the league but you could say that for any I know plenty of

00:08:52.320 successful young black men and one thing I have a super big heart for is I play

00:08:56.200 college football and I cannot stand to see people put those young men in a box

00:09:01.480 and tell them from the jump that they are not gonna have a good shot at life 0.83

00:09:04.540 just because they're black can ask you that is that is putting them in a box 1.00

00:09:07.600 from the beginning in line to them sorry do you think that LeBron James had the

00:09:10.840 same journey as his white teammates that's what white teammates which you 0.52

00:09:15.820 want to talk about exclusion how many white people are in the NBA name a white NBA 0.98

00:09:21.280 player I feel left out fuck this I'm leaving no no no I'm just saying if okay 0.98

00:09:27.180 actually that's in America in the UK it's different my problem is telling young 1.00

00:09:31.960 black men that they don't have a shot because they're black is literally 0.99

00:09:35.380 handicapping them from the jump and I won't stand for it in the UK for 0.99

00:09:41.380 example the football leagues they are full of white boys and the white players are

00:09:44.380 actually quite physically endowed and they're quite talented they get they stay

00:09:47.860 behind a little bit more they're not selected first in the UK it's very

00:09:50.620 different that's why I say you shouldn't box people in and talk about

00:09:53.380 generally because culturally I call bullshit though I'll tell you why I'll

00:09:56.920 tell you why it's true an owner of a company whether it's a sports team or a 0.93

00:10:01.780 normal business cannot afford to choose somebody or not choose somebody based

00:10:06.580 off their race or gender but that's not true let me tell you why because the way 0.96

00:10:10.800 that you make money in the sport is you win fucking championships some of the best 0.94

00:10:15.500 players in the UK yeah they don't get the ratings for example in the World Cup three 0.98

00:10:20.020 black players scored but when they woke when the England was eliminated from the

00:10:23.780 World Cup those three players were the ones that were blamed and all the white 0.76

00:10:26.920 players were the ones are celebrated because that actually does happen in

00:10:29.980 this country so that's why I don't know anything but I'll say this sorry so are

00:10:36.960 both of you trying to say racism doesn't exist

00:10:39.100 all you try it holds you believing that you're a victim holds you back more than

00:10:43.900 any of the actual racism this right this is some it's really just poor people

00:10:50.440 coping yeah that like racism this is why I'm not successful this is why I'm unhappy

00:10:54.820 it's because of systematic oppression that mindset will hold you back more than

00:10:58.660 any white systems with that mindset that mindset will hold you it's gonna hold you

00:11:03.520 back way more than any race I will say is racism does exist absolutely it exists

00:11:09.280 everywhere exists it exists everywhere but obviously I wouldn't call myself a

00:11:13.900 victim I've experienced racism but I don't say I'm a victim I wouldn't I

00:11:17.900 wouldn't let that stop me from prospering do you have a harder time succeeding than a

00:11:22.600 white girl I don't know I feel like it's all about mindset to be honest okay if you if you

00:11:28.480 sit there and think oh I can't do this because of this or I can't do that then obviously that's a

00:11:31.900 negative mindset to have you're not gonna grow and you're not gonna be all about the

00:11:35.140 best version of yourself but if you think okay I might be different but that's not

00:11:39.160 gonna stop me from elevating and being the best version of myself as many of you

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JustPearlyThings - April 20, 2023

Sneako DISMANTLES Unhinged Feminist

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