JustPearlyThings - April 19, 2023


Sneako VS DENALVA


Episode Stats

Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

233.10236

Word Count

2,736

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

10

Hate Speech Sentences

8


Summary

In this episode of Thick & Thin, the girls discuss feminism and its impact on our society and the way we navigate the world. We discuss the importance of calling people stupid when they say stupid things and how we need to learn to differentiate between what we're feeling and what's actually facts.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 made a good point in the sense that like when is that's then the thing is with feminism is never
00:00:04.760 ending every week every month there's a new issue it's so unnecessary that these feminists won and
00:00:10.500 it's just like when are you guys going to be satisfied that's my problem and that's when it
00:00:14.600 becomes destructive but i don't think you can say that is unnecessary to them because if they fall
00:00:18.500 away they fall away so i don't think they can feel stupid they can have stupid beliefs and feelings
00:00:23.080 yeah but that doesn't make it reality just because they feel aware just because the girl feels like
00:00:28.180 she was discriminated because of her gender doesn't mean that she was and that's the big problem of
00:00:32.620 this generation is we don't know how to differentiate between what we're feeling and what's actually
00:00:36.420 reality like i get that's what they're feeling but right now i'm feeling like a dog am i a dog no
00:00:41.640 exactly so we have to learn to differentiate between what we're feeling and what's actually
00:00:45.380 facts and we need to do that by calling people stupid or saying that they're acting like dickheads
00:00:49.420 when they are like if someone says you're vibrating with misogyny that should be called stupid like
00:00:54.200 respectfully like that that was a stupid thing to say it's an analogy it's a figure of speech as
00:00:58.480 well don't be so mean what's the analogy the analogy is basically saying you're coming to be
00:01:02.340 aggressive your energy is coming a bit tense i even felt it so i i reworded what she said tense
00:01:07.080 and misogynistic no i know but i reworded it for her two very different things yeah but the accusation
00:01:13.040 was real it wasn't a figure of speech the accusation is real and that's fine she does stand on it so you're
00:01:18.280 trying to justify it and that's my point like we need to call that stupid when people say stupid
00:01:23.340 things like that and what do those accusations do i mean you know sneaker is a bit different because
00:01:27.420 i mean his his industry is to get canceled but exactly that's why in a way but it's like for
00:01:33.220 the average person that you label them that that could ruin their entire career yeah it's a bit like
00:01:37.540 it's a bit like using the term creepy isn't it and then it's sort of like if a woman calls a guy creepy
00:01:41.240 just the fact that she said it is it's believed because she she says i felt that he was creepy so it's like
00:01:47.340 oh right okay so therefore he was creepy because you you're saying you felt like that but where's
00:01:51.420 the where's the sort of foundational truth of that statement right and it's like saying
00:01:55.260 vibrating with misogyny okay well okay it was tense but we're in a debate right so what's the
00:02:01.400 misogynistic element of that they were just having a debate because why is he looking at her as an op
00:02:05.780 just because she's a girl but what he's not like if there was four guys sitting on the couch and they
00:02:14.420 were making the same point that's what a debate they would they would have said if we have
00:02:17.420 different points of view we are disagreeing but you don't know me so don't go against me
00:02:20.900 because we could actually agree on things that's the whole point against me gender-based i don't
00:02:26.440 like that that's given misogyny that was my that was the vibe i don't know if it was off the gender
00:02:31.920 i'm sorry it's just a debate it was just different opinions it has nothing to do with womanhood
00:02:37.020 it was just because you are a woman because your your boundaries of like aggressive like um
00:02:43.560 tonality in the way you speak you don't you know i think that's the difference between speaking
00:02:47.820 aggressively and speaking assertively you monetize off it which is a good thing i got canceled for
00:02:51.300 talking about covid in the election had nothing to do with vibrating misogyny i don't know you you
00:02:55.240 feel a little bit aggressive i'm not gonna lie someone said something along the lines of don't go
00:02:59.520 against me isn't this a debate like for and against yeah but when you immediately have to go
00:03:04.240 against like come on you opened it up by saying i'm a black immigrant i mean look you guys are
00:03:10.640 victims until somebody calls you out it's it's just none of this makes any sense you're gonna go
00:03:15.120 and say that i'm a victim i'm black so i have a hard time in life and then somebody disagrees with
00:03:18.760 you and then you're even a victim more do you know why we disagree and that i'm aggressive and
00:03:22.380 you're pointing at me and interrupting me but i'm aggressive but you're i was aggressive there still
00:03:26.240 you have been the whole time but i'm aggressive i'm i don't say that you're vibrating with
00:03:29.760 misandry yeah exactly my whole point of this argument is that my whole point is that people
00:03:34.700 now and especially people my age i'm 24 we have such a victim mindset that makes us feel like we
00:03:40.300 can navigate the world a certain way and that everything is against us and we don't do that
00:03:43.940 because the world is against us it because it makes us feel better about our life path and our
00:03:47.460 decisions and about our place in the world that is the number one thing that will hold people back
00:03:51.740 i'm an immigrant i'm black you're misogynistic you're racist i'm stop acting like that's a
00:03:57.520 victimization that's exactly what it is i already explained to you why that is my superpower i simply
00:04:03.840 pointed out the fact that it is an extra obstacle that some people may not have but for me it's a
00:04:08.280 good thing it makes me fitter saying that you have an obstacle spicy and prettier that's why i like
00:04:12.700 having also saying that you have an believing that you have an obstacle is exactly i know because i felt
00:04:17.760 it i've had to overcome several times just because you haven't lived my life don't bloody so we
00:04:22.900 encourage me from telling what i feel because that's what i've experienced sneaker what you're trying to
00:04:26.640 say is that we should disregard our traumatic experiences for that have brought like you know
00:04:33.040 even if you were traumatized if you had a terrible experience for good things right if the kkk was
00:04:37.960 burning crosses and like what will hold you back more is still thinking about that you're traumatized
00:04:42.960 is thinking that the world is against you that will hold you back even more than anything else that
00:04:46.920 anyone's going to tell you that any industry will say that anything that i believe how misogynistic and
00:04:51.700 racist i am you believing that you're traumatized and navigating the world that way is going to hold you
00:04:55.880 back more than anybody else and that's the number one thing i would say for anyone here watching this
00:05:00.200 right now get rid of that mindset because that was programmed into you by the news you're talking
00:05:04.080 about mainstream media showing this one afro dude they do that so that we stay down it's not because
00:05:09.200 they actually care about racism you think the news cares about this afro guy no they care about
00:05:13.640 programming george floyd you think that goes viral because they care about george floyd no it's to get
00:05:18.740 everybody riding and to keep everybody confused and to keep everybody outside no and to keep everybody
00:05:23.340 distracted and angry a lot of people leveled up because of that a lot of addressing these issues
00:05:27.740 actually is quite empowering because you start to what did blm publish let me tell you let me tell
00:05:31.560 you to some people to some people i lived in i lived in milwaukee during like the blm protest there
00:05:39.100 were some shops that didn't open back up of course like there let me tell you something right things
00:05:44.840 like blm things like wakanda what it is why it's actually something that is is a good thing to even
00:05:50.500 talk about these things and be gassed about the fact that black people start to go to the forefront
00:05:54.500 is because even though some people may take it as a victimization there are people that actually take
00:05:58.940 it to be an empowerment there are people that feel inspired exactly but people still feel inspired so
00:06:04.660 let's talk about how do you how do you know if the outcome of something is good i know basically i know
00:06:11.660 because within my business wait wait basically within my business i see the change i see how many people
00:06:17.200 okay okay so you would say so you would say it would be the results right yeah the results of
00:06:21.820 course so it's good the government okay okay so it's out for black people to do things okay okay
00:06:25.900 okay so if the results of those protests were that some shops did not open back up and the whole
00:06:32.660 business was a scam how is that a good result well it's the same way that people go to war people do a
00:06:38.120 million things that with good comes bad that's no but i'm asking like what good came what good came
00:06:42.920 what did blm accomplish oh blm accomplished a lot within the creative industry here in the uk
00:06:47.620 a lot of black people start making money since blm awareness awareness since blm a lot of people
00:06:53.680 have still died the same way george floyd did it didn't change the main factor which was white cops
00:06:57.780 killing black people yeah white cops kill white people too so what did blm accomplish at blm in the
00:07:04.500 uk the government started giving funding to black businesses a lot more they started putting a lot of
00:07:08.580 projects to big up black people and put them on so actually was a good thing for the uk
00:07:12.480 i'm not gonna lie a lot of people got really good opportunities because of that situation
00:07:17.260 whatever then the nature of the cops not have guns here no well some of them do some of them
00:07:23.560 why was the uk even giving money to black businesses here when this had nothing to do with black people
00:07:27.880 so you got some money like yeah a lot of people made money what how was racism solved at all do you
00:07:32.640 know if it's not about racism being sold that's what black lives matter but what it did it actually gave
00:07:38.200 extra leeway for people to now go and do more it gave you an encouragement to say actually
00:07:42.980 forget about being black you know this happened but look we're gonna help you go go go then take
00:07:46.720 advantage and you win and you grow it's a good thing so when you talk about this and you expose it
00:07:50.940 i have a question i have a question do you think throwing money at a problem solves it of course not
00:07:55.920 so so like throw it at me you will solve it yeah are you a stripper can i also make one point you
00:08:02.140 said that um black lives matter helped businesses and black people build their brand or whatever but
00:08:07.660 i think we need to also question how long is that going to last because i feel like this is just going
00:08:11.340 to last for like the last two five years and after that it's going to go back to use your program
00:08:14.700 it's already blown over yeah well it's it's going starting to withdraw the people that got
00:08:20.040 leg up they got leg up even if it did solve that problem in a sense where they're supporting black
00:08:24.260 businesses it didn't solve the main matter at hand it put people representing on the youth on tv like
00:08:29.100 zz mills is on channel four now but i wasn't the main is there with another sister presenting prime
00:08:33.620 time the problem was white cops killing black people the problem wasn't not having her answer
00:08:37.540 was they put a black person on t-shirt representation you inspire other people to want to do the same
00:08:42.220 the problem no the problem doesn't get solved like this zz mills is on tv because she's talented
00:08:48.600 to insinuate it's because of blm pretty racist yeah i'm not gonna lie if you understand the
00:08:54.740 industry you know i ain't lying come for me if you want to wait so there we go hold on one point
00:08:59.260 who understands the industry better than me well in the uk in london yes i built the biggest podcast
00:09:05.040 in london you built the biggest podcast what do you know about the london people them here
00:09:08.940 not as much as i do i've lived here for longer than you i've met hundreds in the past you've met them
00:09:13.140 do you know their history you don't so you can't actually tell me that you know more about the
00:09:16.760 do you think zizi mills is on tv because she's talented i'll tell you why she's yes or no i think
00:09:23.040 she's talented but guess why she's on tv and why she was given prime time because they want to now
00:09:27.180 make inclusivity and diversity something that's the forefront of a lot i have a question there
00:09:32.160 there have been black there have been black presenters on tv since the 80s or 70s but it also
00:09:37.520 sounds like you're admitting that there's an advantage for being black and it has nothing to do with
00:09:40.840 skill set and diversity and inclusion so where's the mindset that black people are oppressed
00:09:44.600 no if you're getting a job for representation this is not what i said i said the fact that
00:09:49.360 people are talking about certain situations is making other people give our community more
00:09:54.480 opportunities which then creates more representation more inspiration the problem starts to get so
00:09:58.880 sounds like you're getting jobs over your skin color no but it doesn't matter because the whole
00:10:03.200 point is at least i'm there when flying a plane it matters well uh zizi mills is talented that's why
00:10:08.520 they picked her they wouldn't just pick you know why can't it be that because i feel like
00:10:11.320 her over someone else but i feel like saying it's because she's black takes away from her skill set
00:10:15.020 you're taking away from her 100 let me tell you people i take cancel me if you want but diversity
00:10:20.580 inclusivity is now something that every corporate company is talking about they're raving about it
00:10:24.740 so take opportunity because it doesn't matter what you do with the opportunity is up to you but if
00:10:29.560 you're smart to take this opportunity because right now you can make a lot are you oppressed or not
00:10:34.000 i'm not of course not that's why i said me being black is actually a superpower it depends actually
00:10:37.980 i'm not a victim if he was gonna run for a prime minister that you would be fake
00:10:42.540 wishy sunak is prime minister and he's brown isn't he yeah
00:10:46.080 yeah nah i mean i don't agree with that i mean he didn't get elected we do have a female black
00:10:52.400 vice president his representation right we did obama i mean it is possible guys it is possible
00:10:57.520 and if you look at like the percentages of white people versus black people just the actual percentages
00:11:02.040 you know y'all do really really well y'all have a lot of millionaires like we do i tell you who i
00:11:06.900 really admire who i really admire is little wayne he's one of my favorite people because when he asked
00:11:11.960 about that he he doesn't live in that way and he was so fucking successful not living that way and
00:11:17.080 just doing his thing and i just i know i've said it three four times i just want every young person
00:11:22.080 seeing this to hear it you can do it bro you really can and don't live any other way but you can
00:11:27.460 that's it as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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