JustPearlyThings - Sneako VS DENALVA

00:00:00.000 made a good point in the sense that like when is that's then the thing is with feminism is never 1.00

00:00:04.760 ending every week every month there's a new issue it's so unnecessary that these feminists won and 1.00

00:00:10.500 it's just like when are you guys going to be satisfied that's my problem and that's when it

00:00:14.600 becomes destructive but i don't think you can say that is unnecessary to them because if they fall 0.99

00:00:18.500 away they fall away so i don't think they can feel stupid they can have stupid beliefs and feelings 0.98

00:00:23.080 yeah but that doesn't make it reality just because they feel aware just because the girl feels like 0.99

00:00:28.180 she was discriminated because of her gender doesn't mean that she was and that's the big problem of

00:00:32.620 this generation is we don't know how to differentiate between what we're feeling and what's actually

00:00:36.420 reality like i get that's what they're feeling but right now i'm feeling like a dog am i a dog no

00:00:41.640 exactly so we have to learn to differentiate between what we're feeling and what's actually 0.99

00:00:45.380 facts and we need to do that by calling people stupid or saying that they're acting like dickheads 1.00

00:00:49.420 when they are like if someone says you're vibrating with misogyny that should be called stupid like 1.00

00:00:54.200 respectfully like that that was a stupid thing to say it's an analogy it's a figure of speech as 0.99

00:00:58.480 well don't be so mean what's the analogy the analogy is basically saying you're coming to be 0.93

00:01:02.340 aggressive your energy is coming a bit tense i even felt it so i i reworded what she said tense

00:01:07.080 and misogynistic no i know but i reworded it for her two very different things yeah but the accusation

00:01:13.040 was real it wasn't a figure of speech the accusation is real and that's fine she does stand on it so you're 0.99

00:01:18.280 trying to justify it and that's my point like we need to call that stupid when people say stupid 0.98

00:01:23.340 things like that and what do those accusations do i mean you know sneaker is a bit different because 0.98

00:01:27.420 i mean his his industry is to get canceled but exactly that's why in a way but it's like for

00:01:33.220 the average person that you label them that that could ruin their entire career yeah it's a bit like

00:01:37.540 it's a bit like using the term creepy isn't it and then it's sort of like if a woman calls a guy creepy

00:01:41.240 just the fact that she said it is it's believed because she she says i felt that he was creepy so it's like

00:01:47.340 oh right okay so therefore he was creepy because you you're saying you felt like that but where's

00:01:51.420 the where's the sort of foundational truth of that statement right and it's like saying

00:01:55.260 vibrating with misogyny okay well okay it was tense but we're in a debate right so what's the

00:02:01.400 misogynistic element of that they were just having a debate because why is he looking at her as an op

00:02:05.780 just because she's a girl but what he's not like if there was four guys sitting on the couch and they

00:02:14.420 were making the same point that's what a debate they would they would have said if we have

00:02:17.420 different points of view we are disagreeing but you don't know me so don't go against me

00:02:20.900 because we could actually agree on things that's the whole point against me gender-based i don't

00:02:26.440 like that that's given misogyny that was my that was the vibe i don't know if it was off the gender 0.99

00:02:31.920 i'm sorry it's just a debate it was just different opinions it has nothing to do with womanhood

00:02:37.020 it was just because you are a woman because your your boundaries of like aggressive like um 1.00

00:02:43.560 tonality in the way you speak you don't you know i think that's the difference between speaking

00:02:47.820 aggressively and speaking assertively you monetize off it which is a good thing i got canceled for

00:02:51.300 talking about covid in the election had nothing to do with vibrating misogyny i don't know you you

00:02:55.240 feel a little bit aggressive i'm not gonna lie someone said something along the lines of don't go

00:02:59.520 against me isn't this a debate like for and against yeah but when you immediately have to go

00:03:04.240 against like come on you opened it up by saying i'm a black immigrant i mean look you guys are

00:03:10.640 victims until somebody calls you out it's it's just none of this makes any sense you're gonna go

00:03:15.120 and say that i'm a victim i'm black so i have a hard time in life and then somebody disagrees with

00:03:18.760 you and then you're even a victim more do you know why we disagree and that i'm aggressive and

00:03:22.380 you're pointing at me and interrupting me but i'm aggressive but you're i was aggressive there still

00:03:26.240 you have been the whole time but i'm aggressive i'm i don't say that you're vibrating with

00:03:29.760 misandry yeah exactly my whole point of this argument is that my whole point is that people

00:03:34.700 now and especially people my age i'm 24 we have such a victim mindset that makes us feel like we

00:03:40.300 can navigate the world a certain way and that everything is against us and we don't do that

00:03:43.940 because the world is against us it because it makes us feel better about our life path and our

00:03:47.460 decisions and about our place in the world that is the number one thing that will hold people back 0.89

00:03:51.740 i'm an immigrant i'm black you're misogynistic you're racist i'm stop acting like that's a 0.73

00:03:57.520 victimization that's exactly what it is i already explained to you why that is my superpower i simply 0.93

00:04:03.840 pointed out the fact that it is an extra obstacle that some people may not have but for me it's a

00:04:08.280 good thing it makes me fitter saying that you have an obstacle spicy and prettier that's why i like

00:04:12.700 having also saying that you have an believing that you have an obstacle is exactly i know because i felt

00:04:17.760 it i've had to overcome several times just because you haven't lived my life don't bloody so we

00:04:22.900 encourage me from telling what i feel because that's what i've experienced sneaker what you're trying to

00:04:26.640 say is that we should disregard our traumatic experiences for that have brought like you know

00:04:33.040 even if you were traumatized if you had a terrible experience for good things right if the kkk was 0.95

00:04:37.960 burning crosses and like what will hold you back more is still thinking about that you're traumatized

00:04:42.960 is thinking that the world is against you that will hold you back even more than anything else that

00:04:46.920 anyone's going to tell you that any industry will say that anything that i believe how misogynistic and

00:04:51.700 racist i am you believing that you're traumatized and navigating the world that way is going to hold you

00:04:55.880 back more than anybody else and that's the number one thing i would say for anyone here watching this

00:05:00.200 right now get rid of that mindset because that was programmed into you by the news you're talking

00:05:04.080 about mainstream media showing this one afro dude they do that so that we stay down it's not because 0.97

00:05:09.200 they actually care about racism you think the news cares about this afro guy no they care about 1.00

00:05:13.640 programming george floyd you think that goes viral because they care about george floyd no it's to get

00:05:18.740 everybody riding and to keep everybody confused and to keep everybody outside no and to keep everybody

00:05:23.340 distracted and angry a lot of people leveled up because of that a lot of addressing these issues

00:05:27.740 actually is quite empowering because you start to what did blm publish let me tell you let me tell

00:05:31.560 you to some people to some people i lived in i lived in milwaukee during like the blm protest there

00:05:39.100 were some shops that didn't open back up of course like there let me tell you something right things

00:05:44.840 like blm things like wakanda what it is why it's actually something that is is a good thing to even

00:05:50.500 talk about these things and be gassed about the fact that black people start to go to the forefront 0.99

00:05:54.500 is because even though some people may take it as a victimization there are people that actually take

00:05:58.940 it to be an empowerment there are people that feel inspired exactly but people still feel inspired so

00:06:04.660 let's talk about how do you how do you know if the outcome of something is good i know basically i know

00:06:11.660 because within my business wait wait basically within my business i see the change i see how many people

00:06:17.200 okay okay so you would say so you would say it would be the results right yeah the results of

00:06:21.820 course so it's good the government okay okay so it's out for black people to do things okay okay

00:06:25.900 okay so if the results of those protests were that some shops did not open back up and the whole

00:06:32.660 business was a scam how is that a good result well it's the same way that people go to war people do a

00:06:38.120 million things that with good comes bad that's no but i'm asking like what good came what good came

00:06:42.920 what did blm accomplish oh blm accomplished a lot within the creative industry here in the uk

00:06:47.620 a lot of black people start making money since blm awareness awareness since blm a lot of people

00:06:53.680 have still died the same way george floyd did it didn't change the main factor which was white cops 0.95

00:06:57.780 killing black people yeah white cops kill white people too so what did blm accomplish at blm in the 0.96

00:07:04.500 uk the government started giving funding to black businesses a lot more they started putting a lot of 0.99

00:07:08.580 projects to big up black people and put them on so actually was a good thing for the uk 1.00

00:07:12.480 i'm not gonna lie a lot of people got really good opportunities because of that situation

00:07:17.260 whatever then the nature of the cops not have guns here no well some of them do some of them

00:07:23.560 why was the uk even giving money to black businesses here when this had nothing to do with black people

00:07:27.880 so you got some money like yeah a lot of people made money what how was racism solved at all do you

00:07:32.640 know if it's not about racism being sold that's what black lives matter but what it did it actually gave

00:07:38.200 extra leeway for people to now go and do more it gave you an encouragement to say actually

00:07:42.980 forget about being black you know this happened but look we're gonna help you go go go then take

00:07:46.720 advantage and you win and you grow it's a good thing so when you talk about this and you expose it 0.91

00:07:50.940 i have a question i have a question do you think throwing money at a problem solves it of course not

00:07:55.920 so so like throw it at me you will solve it yeah are you a stripper can i also make one point you

00:08:02.140 said that um black lives matter helped businesses and black people build their brand or whatever but

00:08:07.660 i think we need to also question how long is that going to last because i feel like this is just going

00:08:11.340 to last for like the last two five years and after that it's going to go back to use your program

00:08:14.700 it's already blown over yeah well it's it's going starting to withdraw the people that got

00:08:20.040 leg up they got leg up even if it did solve that problem in a sense where they're supporting black 0.82

00:08:24.260 businesses it didn't solve the main matter at hand it put people representing on the youth on tv like

00:08:29.100 zz mills is on channel four now but i wasn't the main is there with another sister presenting prime 0.90

00:08:33.620 time the problem was white cops killing black people the problem wasn't not having her answer 0.98

00:08:37.540 was they put a black person on t-shirt representation you inspire other people to want to do the same 0.93

00:08:42.220 the problem no the problem doesn't get solved like this zz mills is on tv because she's talented 1.00

00:08:48.600 to insinuate it's because of blm pretty racist yeah i'm not gonna lie if you understand the

00:08:54.740 industry you know i ain't lying come for me if you want to wait so there we go hold on one point

00:08:59.260 who understands the industry better than me well in the uk in london yes i built the biggest podcast

00:09:05.040 in london you built the biggest podcast what do you know about the london people them here

00:09:08.940 not as much as i do i've lived here for longer than you i've met hundreds in the past you've met them

00:09:13.140 do you know their history you don't so you can't actually tell me that you know more about the

00:09:16.760 do you think zizi mills is on tv because she's talented i'll tell you why she's yes or no i think 0.77

00:09:23.040 she's talented but guess why she's on tv and why she was given prime time because they want to now 0.99

00:09:27.180 make inclusivity and diversity something that's the forefront of a lot i have a question there

00:09:32.160 there have been black there have been black presenters on tv since the 80s or 70s but it also

00:09:37.520 sounds like you're admitting that there's an advantage for being black and it has nothing to do with

00:09:40.840 skill set and diversity and inclusion so where's the mindset that black people are oppressed

00:09:44.600 no if you're getting a job for representation this is not what i said i said the fact that

00:09:49.360 people are talking about certain situations is making other people give our community more

00:09:54.480 opportunities which then creates more representation more inspiration the problem starts to get so

00:09:58.880 sounds like you're getting jobs over your skin color no but it doesn't matter because the whole

00:10:03.200 point is at least i'm there when flying a plane it matters well uh zizi mills is talented that's why 0.93

00:10:08.520 they picked her they wouldn't just pick you know why can't it be that because i feel like

00:10:11.320 her over someone else but i feel like saying it's because she's black takes away from her skill set

00:10:15.020 you're taking away from her 100 let me tell you people i take cancel me if you want but diversity

00:10:20.580 inclusivity is now something that every corporate company is talking about they're raving about it

00:10:24.740 so take opportunity because it doesn't matter what you do with the opportunity is up to you but if

00:10:29.560 you're smart to take this opportunity because right now you can make a lot are you oppressed or not

00:10:34.000 i'm not of course not that's why i said me being black is actually a superpower it depends actually 0.89

00:10:37.980 i'm not a victim if he was gonna run for a prime minister that you would be fake

00:10:42.540 wishy sunak is prime minister and he's brown isn't he yeah

00:10:46.080 yeah nah i mean i don't agree with that i mean he didn't get elected we do have a female black 0.99

00:10:52.400 vice president his representation right we did obama i mean it is possible guys it is possible

00:10:57.520 and if you look at like the percentages of white people versus black people just the actual percentages

00:11:02.040 you know y'all do really really well y'all have a lot of millionaires like we do i tell you who i

00:11:06.900 really admire who i really admire is little wayne he's one of my favorite people because when he asked

00:11:11.960 about that he he doesn't live in that way and he was so fucking successful not living that way and 0.92

00:11:17.080 just doing his thing and i just i know i've said it three four times i just want every young person

00:11:22.080 seeing this to hear it you can do it bro you really can and don't live any other way but you can

00:11:27.460 that's it as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis

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JustPearlyThings - April 19, 2023

Sneako VS DENALVA

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