JustPearlyThings - November 10, 2023


Body Positivity Activist Gets A REALITY CHECK

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Michael Leachin Gucci
Rude Simp FRIES Everybody’s Brain Cells She Gets FINISHED for Lying To Women That Men Loves Fat-Chicks

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

176.36

Word count

1,567

Sentence count

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Harmful content

Misogyny

31

sentences flagged

Toxicity

18

sentences flagged

Hate speech

19

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss whether fatness is just not sexy for men, why women like fat women, why men prefer thin women, and why women lie to themselves about what men want and why they lie to each other about what they don't want.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Michael Leachin is one of them so I'm gonna pick this guy let's see what his
00:00:05.640 wife looks like Michael Leachin and it depends on your definition of fat because 1.00
00:00:09.780 what you may think is fat you know some men like big women not a fat chick 1.00
00:00:20.640 big women we should also factor in if we're making the argument then we should 1.00
00:00:37.260 also argue that women like short men like they're going for short men so why are 0.95
00:00:45.680 you having that reaction to women tolerate short men but they don't 0.92
00:00:49.020 necessarily like but she's she's right though in the same way like women 0.99
00:01:03.120 tolerate short men men tolerate fat women exactly it's the exact same men like some
00:01:08.160 women I'll tell you why that's not true because when you look at the men with the
00:01:15.840 most choice if you say if I say okay if I'm broke and I say I don't like Gucci
00:01:21.840 bags well you're broke of course you don't freaking like Gucci bags so if you look at
00:01:27.680 the men with the most choice the most ability to choose I just looked up
00:01:31.740 Jamaica's richest guy I know you said he was half Chinese but he's still half 1.00
00:01:35.320 Jamaican too right he has a thin wife but I also feel like there are people that when 0.98
00:01:42.360 they get to a certain position like for example and I'm gonna use again like a
00:01:45.780 lot of black footballers when they got to a certain position they all died dated
00:01:50.300 white skinny models yeah prior to them being footballers they weren't day in
00:01:54.900 white skinny models but when they got to a certain level white skinny model no but 0.91
00:01:58.560 they felt like it was the status quo so they felt like that's what they were expected to do
00:02:05.040 even if that's the case it supports this argument that's a narrative women tell themselves because 1.00
00:02:12.980 of what they see happening that's a narrative I've been told by these footballers actually
00:02:17.260 they feel like they're more accepted they're more accepted as a black man when they've got a skinny
00:02:23.360 white woman by their size I think when they become a rich black guy they can actually date certain 1.00
00:02:28.420 white girls so they give that a go no but also I feel like they feel more socially accepted 0.96
00:02:32.680 I don't believe that any guy dates somebody seriously for the social credit that they're
00:02:38.440 gonna get for that I think that you say that as a white man Troy I'm saying as a black man
00:02:45.080 when he's in certain environments to feel socially accepted he sometimes feels like he has to have 0.95
00:02:49.800 a skinny beautiful white woman in his arm instead of bringing a black woman on his arm 1.00
00:02:53.340 I'll actually say I agree with you he sometimes feels he needs a skinny woman not necessarily white 0.97
00:03:01.520 the problem is that there are too many black women that are just overweight so there are less 1.00
00:03:06.120 skinny black women to pick from that's the reality 1.00
00:03:08.660 he makes a good point because what about a skinny black woman because I've dated various black women 1.00
00:03:17.540 who were who were quite slender and quite shapely that's great but I would agree with the general
00:03:22.280 sort of concept here that the fatness is just not sexy for guys right whether they're black whether
00:03:27.800 they're white whether they're Asian you know whatever some men like fat women yeah but it's not the 1.00
00:03:37.000 majority but it doesn't matter we're just talking about it does it does it does matter it does matter and 0.80
00:03:46.180 the reason it matters is because if you keep lying to women about what men want they don't become what
00:03:51.300 men want and half of women are projected to die alone I'm not trying to be what a man wants I'm just
00:03:57.420 being me well height well you're born with that height isn't it but to to be a certain weight
00:04:03.420 sometimes I why do why takes a certain actually I have a question why do women lie to each other 1.00
00:04:08.220 about makes us feel better yeah like why I don't know why you keep lying when you know that men
00:04:13.500 like thin women okay okay she's very beautiful yeah wait wait wait wait you know that men prefer
00:04:32.100 thinner women some men you know you know you know my brother likes fat women you know you know my 1.00
00:04:38.560 brother goes out with a very very large girl can I just say something really really quick real real
00:04:42.960 real quick I believe that men prefer more of a woman in shape but there are a small percentage 0.54
00:04:49.800 like fat women yes right right and that's it but my question is why do we sell women dreams 0.99
00:04:57.480 well no I'm not selling anyone the fact I'm gonna say my friend she's a big girl yeah she's very 0.55
00:05:03.040 beautiful beautiful girl and like she goes on dating sites sometimes and she'll meet a guy and 0.54
00:05:07.740 she'll be like oh you know when he sees me in real life do you think he's not gonna like me because
00:05:11.340 I'm fat and I said babe you look fat in your pictures he knows you're fat so when he's meeting 0.93
00:05:16.160 you he knows you're a fat girl so he must like fat girls otherwise he's not going on a date with you 0.99
00:05:20.840 why wouldn't you tell her what would help her which is that if you're insecure about it you 0.98
00:05:29.860 should lose weight she does go on a diet she does diet all the time but she's just a bigger girl 1.00
00:05:34.200 and she struggles I'm saying one thing would help her if her problem is that she thinks
00:05:39.900 men are gonna think that she's fat the truth is wait wait the truth is that they will think she's 1.00
00:05:47.000 fat some men and that the truth is they will think she's fat because even those men are not blind
00:05:52.440 and she should lose weight I feel like they see they can already see that she's fat I have a lot of
00:05:58.200 clients that come into my salon that are what's your what's your um I I have clinics um around Essex
00:06:05.060 clinics for what clinics std how did you know
00:06:11.940 and some of my large ladies have more confidence than the smaller thinner ladies you know their 1.00
00:06:22.080 confidence is through the roof they don't want to lose weight they're happy in their skin okay so I
00:06:26.940 don't care about confidence I care about results and fat women have a harder time attracting men 1.00
00:06:34.460 and fat women are more likely to die early and die alone right that's no but you see the problem 1.00
00:06:41.980 the problem the problem we're having here in this society is that women get very confused very 0.93
00:06:47.480 quickly because men will give sexual attention to any type of yeah that is the problem yeah so a 0.99
00:06:52.620 woman will sit here and argue yeah men like fat women because they know that men will still sleep 1.00
00:06:56.460 because they know they want to sleep with a girl with a big fat bum exactly and big but the reality 0.99
00:07:01.340 if you think about it if you were to really think about it when men want to settle down they are 0.99
00:07:05.440 not going to step out and pick the first fat woman that they can find if you like fat girls you like 0.65
00:07:10.640 fat girls no but I'll tell you why I'll tell you why I'm telling I'll tell you why most men that would 0.96
00:07:13.980 do that are probably very ignorant because the reality is when you're overweight it comes a lot of 0.94
00:07:18.020 health complications and if you are choosing a life partner that is you literally picking potential
00:07:24.120 future problems okay what's the statistics about how many how many larger women there are in the 1.00
00:07:30.480 country to how many thinner the women are in the country um I know in the U.S. it's about the 1.00
00:07:35.700 average woman's 170 pounds it's like average size like 14 or 16 in the UK right that's what I heard 1.00
00:07:41.740 yeah yeah it's like 14 or 16 yeah yeah and women are not getting married as much as they used to it 1.00
00:07:47.860 takes about three years to get an engagement from a guy we're not having kids like we're used to and
00:07:52.640 we're not in relationships like I think because they're not settling and it's hard I would say that men are
00:07:58.520 refusing to settle for women I would say it's the other way around I would say women I would say 0.98
00:08:03.140 that women think they're the ones in charge but we're really not because really most women are 1.00
00:08:08.940 just chasing after 10 percent of men because the number one way people are meeting now is Instagram
00:08:13.700 and dating apps women find 80 percent of men is unattractive and ugly and I have a plethora of women
00:08:19.080 that tell me about their ex-boyfriends that cheated on them meaning that a lot of us are sharing men
00:08:24.280 meaning that really we're all just fighting over a small percentage of guys I mean we'll set into
00:08:29.500 different statistics because that's probably your statistic because I may not be trying to chase
00:08:35.340 that oh it's worse for us okay let me let me let me break it down are you you have a boyfriend
00:08:44.600 yeah my status is private but yeah
00:08:48.160 it's completely private okay
00:08:52.360 yes I do