She Gets FINISHED for Lying To Women That Men Loves Fat-Chicks
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In this episode of the podcast, we have our first guest on the show and we discuss the controversial topic of fat women vs skinny women and how fat women are more likely to die early and die alone. We also discuss why fat women aren t getting married as much as they used to and why this is happening.
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and fat women are more likely to die early and die alone right that's no you see the problem
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the problem we're having here in this society is that women get very confused very quickly because
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men will give sexual attention to any type of yeah that is the problem yeah so a woman will
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sit here and argue yeah men like fat women because they know that men will still sleep
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because they know they want to sleep with a girl with a big fat bum exactly and big but the reality
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think about it if you were to really think about it when men want to settle down they are not going
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to step out and pick the first fat woman that they can find if you like fat girls you like fat girls
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i'll tell you why i'm telling i'll tell you why most men that would do that are probably very
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ignorant because the reality is when you're overweight it comes a lot of health complications
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and if you're choosing a life partner that is you literally picking potential future problems
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okay what's the statistics about how many how many larger women there are in the country to how
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many thinner the women are in the country um i know in the u.s. it's about the average woman's 170
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pounds it's like average size is like 14 or 16 in the uk right that's what i heard yeah yeah 14 or 16
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yeah yeah and women are not getting married as much as they used to it takes about three years to get an
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engagement from a guy we're not having kids like we're used to and we're not in relationships like i think
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because they're not settling and it's hard i would say that men are refusing to settle for women i would
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say it's the other way around i would say women i would say that women think they're the ones in
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charge but we're really not because really uh most women are just chasing after 10 percent of men because
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the number one way people are meeting now is instagram and dating apps women find 80 percent of men is
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unattractive and ugly and i have a plethora of women that tell me about their ex-boyfriends that cheated
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on them meaning that a lot of us are sharing men meaning that really we're all just fighting over a
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small percentage of guys i mean we'll set into different statistics because that's probably your
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statistic because i may not be trying to chase that oh it's worse okay let me let me let me break it
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that you're you you have a boyfriend yeah my status is private but yeah
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it's completely private okay let's say either either your boyfriend now or your last boyfriend
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let's say how tall is he um just an irrelevant height
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let's say hypothetically i would not tend to tip if you go below six foot but yeah okay so six foot
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how much money does he make typically rich but okay would you say he's good looking
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this is the thing that's very subjective isn't it because for me but the pause is telling okay okay
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okay let's just say he's ugly even if he's ugly six foot i don't i don't believe he is but let's
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just say he is just just for stats possibly yes okay so this you're and does he make over six
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figures uh you said rich so i don't know what is rich to you this is the thing he's a ballpark figure
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isn't it you know to one person give me okay okay he's poor over six figures he's a midget he's poor
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okay she's cupping out don't no come on don't cap out i said just to say he's of average height and
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of average income let's go okay okay no no i want you to be honest i don't want to say let's just
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say i just want i want to have an honest like a hypothetical person no no because she's single
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i know you're not answering the question because i'm going to prove a point you said over six foot even
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by that alone you're only going for 15 percent of guys 15 percent of men are over six foot this is
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general because i have had partners of different heights and they're probably top 10 good looking
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because women find 80 percent of men ugly depends on your so so no it's not it's not depends it's not
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depends of course it is some people might think i'm hideous some people might think i'm attractive
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no there's nobody nobody no women women so they've replicated yeah they've replicated they have
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replicated these studies and like um dating events so like when people go one-on-one and do like um
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speed dating you can even see these you can even see these studies in real time if you watch like
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the bachelor or the bachelorette if you watch any of those love island shows they're always competing
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for the same guys i've had some guys that people think are actually hideous looking and i think
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they're the sexiest thing but yeah we can't really go but even if there's a little bit of a
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disagreement if you think oh he's a he's all right looking he's still in the top 20 percent of men
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the reality if yeah if women really thought beauty was subjective women won't be swiping right five
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percent of the time on on tinder this is the thing when you give someone it's more than just looks
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yeah you need to have that sex appeal and confidence for me but the reality is dating apps tell the truth
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when it comes to beauty standards what i'm telling you my opinion i've never been on tinder but but guys
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you could do the same thing with instagram you could do everyone is instagram here right i'm assuming
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that's how you got recruited right by the way i would say what they just said is an argument for people
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doing cold approach like approaching real life i mean you maybe you disagree paul because you'll say
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that the real life studies sort of bear out the online stats but i do think when you approach your
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real life you tend to get a few additional points yeah you're not gonna get 100 it's because i feel
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like interaction in a picture you might not be you might not be to that point to that point any guy
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who is confident enough to approach a woman in public is probably top 10 percent of men because he has
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no not true i'll tell you why i'll tell you why a guy a guy who is not attractive and who doesn't
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get women is not just going to out of the blue approach a beautiful man very true
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that's very true you guys don't live the life of a man i'm telling you king we live the life of
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women that men approach yes and i'm telling you and i'm telling you that the men that approach you
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and i'm telling you that the men approach you have been successful at approaching other women
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so you really think that if a man has approached 100 women and all of them have rejected him
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you would accept him no it's possible it's possible it's actually impossible
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unless unless you're telling me think about it think about it like this
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impossible we get chatted all the time pearl wanted to say something what did you want to say
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pearl um so question i like ugly men by the way just sooner who here who here has had a boyfriend
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that's cheated on them she okay probably all right everyone shit me too all right we're sharing that's
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the point we're sharing men we're literally sharing bed yeah but who has cheated on their man
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right when i was young when i was young i was young look but i cheated look at if we want to argue
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that we want to we want to argue if you want to argue that women are promiscuous this is the show
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but the point the point the point is the point is it's still a small percentage of men that we are
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going after that is the point yes and my point is you are lying to your friend you're lying to women
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i'm not always doing by always yeah you are you are absolutely right now the way society is set up
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you have you can't it's not i don't call it lying it's the way that society is set up you can't tell
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somebody that they're unattractive or you need to go and use weight or because no you can't but she's not
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unattractive but the problem the problem you're having is but i'm saying like you need to be
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honest with women and i'm saying i don't understand why you keep arguing for the exception
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i told her she's fat i said that okay would you also be able to tell her that the majority of men
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you're beautiful so if a man sees you on your twitter tinder and he sees your body shape because
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you show it a lot of guys do you like that and he wants to go on a date with you when he sees you
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will laugh a little bit oh she's fat no you can see you're fat but her pool of potential dudes
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would be bigger if she slimmed down a bit and that's by the by but the point i'm making is when
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she her story if she wants to maximize her her question to me was do you think when they meet me
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they'll be like oh she's fat and i said no because they can see your fat from your pictures
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and they've sorry babe and they've still chose chose to go on a date with you so they must like
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fat girls no no what i but that's not what i was i was referring to during this show i keep saying
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that men don't like fat chicks and you keep arguing with me i said some men and before you're right you
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keep arguing with me for the for the exception and i'm saying that's dishonest so if i say that if i say
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that and i'll tell you why if i say that women like rich men you know you could say but some women
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like broke men you know that would be i've been the breadwinner relationship i i don't know if
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that's a flex and you're aware but my question my question is are you with them now no exactly
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exactly exactly exactly but but my point my point if they had the things you were looking for you'd be
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with them women don't leave the men that have the things they want the thing and lack of money wasn't
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the thing it was obviously something it was obviously was something else because i'd still
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what okay tell me what was it what was it what was okay i know i want to hear what was it so the last
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main relationship i was in i just found him a little bit emotionally detached emotionally detached so
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this is what i call things women make up when they don't like the guy because he's not he's not
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doesn't do well enough i'm very tactile i'm very emotional i'm very loving and i just found him not
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to be that type of person doesn't make him a bad person just makes us very different people and that's
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okay you can come to that conclusion what do you fall without knowledge yeah how long were you
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together yeah yeah okay yeah i gave it i gave it a good run we gave it good innings didn't work
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it's okay so obviously come on stripper how long was you how long how long how long has been your
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relationship uh about uh about six hours 49 minutes when i was flying from new york to london uh most of it
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was conducted in the uh toilets yeah yeah yeah the physical intimacy didn't last for the six hours by the
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i think if the stats are but back to wait sorry go ahead i think if the stats are that most majority of
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men like in a woman is her is her mic off plus as a fat woman as a fat woman you just say just give
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up her love no but she can maximize her pool well i i would say i would say reality will hit you in the
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face anyways and i think a lot of times as women we shield each other from reality we say oh
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you'll there's someone for everyone i hear this all the time you realize 50 of us will end up
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alone 50 of women are going to be single child half of women are going to be single and childless
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half of the um and that doesn't even include the women that are single mothers they don't typically
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remarry really it's like less than i would argue roughly 20 of women that are predicted to have a
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happy ending so what do you feel like do you have a vision board where do i um i think there's a lot
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of people that lie to women i think women lie to each other and like they often make us like cope
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with poor choices so for example the fat friend instead of saying lose weight your life will be
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better if you lose weight you'll be healthier if you lose weight and you won't be insecure but um and i
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think and again and again and i think it's i think it's backed up um by the media and they have an
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entire industry dedicated to keeping us fat and alone and they just want to make money off of us
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i have a friend one of my best friends very large she's been with our husbands for years she's she's
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fat she likes being being big was she fat when they got married yeah there was she was over over
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overweight when she got married she's in a happy relationship she's got two beautiful kids she
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likes being bigger she's a she's a model as well an influencer and she's yeah so happy i like being
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fat and i i think it's actually quite selfish to be fat i think it's really selfish because your kids
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are the ones that are going to have to take care of you so you're basically saying i don't have any
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self-control and now my kids you're not going to have as long of a life with your children
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not everyone's fat because of the lack of self-control though so i think that's very
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generalizing no i would say you're fat because you eat too much and you don't exercise enough i hardly
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eat anything and i'm not skinny like a twig i i i would say that you probably eat more than you say
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i think women probably like women tend to lie about that so if i if i had a dollar
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weight is definitely very slim i might stand up yeah no one cares we're we're very very honest
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aren't we but to the point of being very blunt so it's like we're not protecting anyone's feeling
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sorry i'll be saying like oh babe but maybe yeah you could look better be a bit more like that's
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my sister she'll be like all right well too blunt wow you're a bit of fat now yeah your triceps
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have got a bit loose a bit tricepy and honestly for me a lot of guys that i um date they tend
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to say to me oh when i'm training you you're too slim they don't like it mm-hmm well i think they
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like i think men i think i think men typically like slim thick yeah you know you know they might
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like a big butt but they have you have to have the small waist it's like they've been like an
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hourglass figure who's hotter aliyah or lizzo none
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what do you guys say would you guys all right i have a question if i have a question women raise
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your hand if i said you have a body like lizzo would you take that as a compliment raise your
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hand if yes no this is what i mean when i say women lie i would no you all know
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but but my point is before no but the reason i said that is earlier i said that women or lizza i said
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that lizzo was unattractive and she said or i think there's a couple of you maybe that said
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that lizzo is attractive i said she's pretty i said she's fat but she's pretty that's what i said
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we all know that she's not yet if you said do i want lizzo's face this is a different i would say
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the fat ruins her face because there's all this blubber around it yeah i think she's pretty
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so i would say i'm gonna i'm gonna say so i think that the second i think that the second thing that
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women lie to each other about and this kind of goes to the housewife because for whatever reason when i
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have these conversations about like what what does it take to deserve to be a housewife we can always
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like talk about it in the abstract but when it comes to reality it's like we could never be honest
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um and the second thing i think that we lie to each other about is just how hard women have it i
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think women have it pretty easy especially compared to men i think you mentioned a patriarchy earlier
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i don't believe in that in the slightest i think you're given far more opportunity as a woman
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your opinion babe um and i think typically the women that argue about patriarchy are usually just lazy
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i can't lie i think we have it so easy and i'm so glad to be a woman
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yeah and i think there's a couple carry the baby i don't have to have hormones
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i would say there's a couple i would say there's a couple reasons solid relationship
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when it comes down to a solid solid solid relationship between a man and a woman
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who has got to do the most providing technically a woman the man but that's yeah but the woman
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usually wants that life more than the man anyways women usually want kids more than the man and want
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that lifestyle more than the man we go into a club and we flutter our eyelids of course
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yeah it's we have it 10 times easier there's all these special programs for women in most of my
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relationships so i don't see it like that well yeah right but wait okay what do you what do you do
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again what do i do yeah what do you do for a living i dance on a poem
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no no no i don't really i'm a singer and i'm an artist okay well i would argue that artists
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performers podcasters social media influences are all monetizing their looks you absolutely
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no but i'm just talking about being the breadwinner in a relationship what we say that what'd you say
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you're a podcaster you like the podcasters monetize their looks oh yeah no i think i think
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i think i think women have it easier i think it's and i've managed i could say this from managing i've
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managed social media accounts for women and for men oh my gosh it's so much easier if you're a chick
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chicks just have to do some reactions they're like ah no but if you're a hot man yeah i'll go crazy for
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that so i disagree well but hot men so so but men pay more because firstly well i no even as a hot
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guy it's way harder but everybody still have it easier because nobody's going to get up for a hot
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guy on the train but they'll get up for a hot girl on the train i would i would rather if i had to
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manage one or the other i would rather manage the average the slut the cute chick over the hot guy
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it's easier i'd manage the hot guy can he sell more though can he actually sell more than a woman
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can he can he genuinely sell you more products i mean if you look at if you look at social media
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accounts i mean even guys who are like is his mic off guys i can't even guys is my mic i don't feel
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like mine is either yeah some of these mics i can't hear myself either what huh we didn't get to
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answer the question engineer yeah i'm still there we've been going on about you know size who do you
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think's more sexual i think i think the way the media can everyone hear me yeah i can hear you
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not really not in the way so i think the way the media sort of has sort of created this perception
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of life of reality is you know right from when we're young and growing up you know we see the
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images of men being very sexual with tv american pie i've never seen movie a lot of movies and just a
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lot of things in media centered around men being sexual but the reality is women are more sexual and
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we see this everywhere like on the train we see women openly reading 50 shades of gray but we
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whereas obviously men are probably indoors watching con but men and women are more like
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liberated and sort of have this sort of standard of being able to express discreetly that they're
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sexual and is accepted whereas men are then seen by the society as this overtly sexual people
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and that's what there's all this image is about you know men if a man is looking at you too much
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you know they're probably thinking too much about too much about sexual stuff and things like that
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whereas the real truth is like women are just more sexual in my opinion
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i think that's where feminism like makes it easier for women then
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it's only now that we're seeing content around women being sexual
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no i just well i mean when you think about it women we could when you think of uh blessing i don't
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know what's going on i can hear you can you hear me when you when you think about it though it's like
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women she could have chosen to be anything you know we got all this freedom and a lot of us chose
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only fans there's more only fans models than teachers right now i'm a teacher i'm a qualified teacher
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what about men are there more uh only fans men than teachers are there more women teachers than
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male teachers what's the statistics i want to know so the male male to female teacher breakdown there's
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far more female teachers than male well we're winning already then okay so we're winning well i would say
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that they're not winning because women ruined education so in the 1850s it was primarily male
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teachers and you've seen iq drop really since the 1850s okay i actually have a child that's not been a
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change of the curriculum since having um a female teacher how do you know that was changing the
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curriculum as well oh well it did change the so the problem is when women go into a space and you
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kind of see it in this conversation women don't like to have hierarchy and rank each other so the
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same way i'll say hey men don't like fat chicks some of you were like okay yes true but then like some
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other people are like well but oh no women tend to like everything to be more egalitarian fair everyone's
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special participation trophies so when women infiltrate an industry it tends to get more
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or it tends to get less competitive what happened in education is they started grading things like
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papers homework and essays and attendance which kind of fluff up the grade where it used to just be iq tests
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so you don't think we should lead you don't think we should teach do you think that we should just be
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having the average lives and when i say average it means like yeah i have a house yeah i have things
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taken care of for me but i can't customize that life i didn't i didn't so i did i didn't say i didn't
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say that women shouldn't teach um i i just think that women by and large are not as good at teaching
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and they should be out of the managerial positions that are making decisions on education
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so they shouldn't lead education or in politics yeah i know i don't think women should be
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they should be led by men in all industries yeah just a quick question but why okay so i think
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there's a natural order in the world um and this kind of goes i'm catholic so it kind of goes to a
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religious point of view um i i i think it goes god men women children and i think when you start
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putting women above men that is typically where you see evil happen really yeah and i and you see it in
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society i'll give you an example like before um really i just think egalitarianism is evil um and the
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reason i think that sorry my voice is so much louder it's like distracting but um so typically
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what what you'll what you'll see is when women get power over men they're just not nice with it
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even when like women become queens and rulers they're more likely to be violent when women when women get
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power over children they're more likely to kill them women it's almost unheard of for men to kill
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their kids in the first year women do it all the time well you were talking earlier uh about female
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employers right and even women prefer to have male employers and i mean in my experience working
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corporate right when there's female bosses it's it could it could be a complete nightmare you know
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very machiavellian very dark triad very sort of like tough environment and the when you have male
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bosses that could also be a tough environment but it tends to be a bit i hate to say it but it tends
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to be a bit fairer and it tends to be a bit clearer and sort of more above board you know yeah even women
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don't yeah exactly exactly yeah i've worked with women and they've said jesus you know i wish we had
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our previous male boss again because this woman now is just a nightmare well women have again
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women default to egalitarianism so men are much more direct they prioritize information where women
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prioritize our feelings unfortunately so when you see women take over an industry the industry tends to
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go downhill an example of that is education it used to be primarily male and the results were much better
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now you see iq tests dropping you have people graduating high school they can't even do basic math
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so typically when women take over an industry just doesn't do as well so you don't think that
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we're evolving at all no i think i think i think we're devolving and i'll i'll answer that question i think
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we're devolving i think women are getting worse um and i i say that because i see women in thongs at the
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beaches i i think we're kind of prioritizing the wrong things okay forget the the minority that are in thongs at the
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beaches oh i would that's the majority so so yeah i know i get this a lot so so i i would say i would
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say that the re the way the reason i have been successful is i take a lot of guidance from my dad
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i don't think i i know i know i has nothing to do with it my mom does not give me the same type of
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guidance that my dad does she built so so you know i mean they work together they were they were a team
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but i i would say my dad just men give you a different type of guidance that has more structure
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and that's typically what women need you know i think i'm very i'm very my brother's helped me too
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actually do your brother get guidance from your mom or your dad um i would i would say for the things
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that require structure they go to my dad because my dad is very logical very structured he can help me
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with the accounting he helps me he helps me my housewife um my mom actually quit her job she was
00:25:19.840
going to be a teacher and she quit she quit wait she my my mom actually she was gonna my dad owned a
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company growing up and he was going to um my mom was going to be a teacher and then she quit that to
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go work for my dad to be house and they well they worked together they built like their business
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together so i mean it wasn't like a who did it it was like a it was like a teamwork thing but you know
00:25:46.960
it wasn't like keeping score housewife you know of your knowledge and your how you feel but it's
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the same everyone has a different upbringing they all have their parts to play yeah for us for my sister
00:25:59.200
and i we was solid for for my mom my mom worked um she worked on a building site she had a decorating
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company and she um took us how many how many employees did the decorating company have she had seven
00:26:15.040
okay yeah that's typically female businesses are not over it is i know right however where was my
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times as well so where was my dad we're evolving aren't we okay so wait where was your what's your
00:26:28.240
okay what happened your dad they got around it was not about okay what they were divorced they were
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not around okay what was were they dating before like how how did you get you just not around it was
00:26:37.680
not about a relationship and no but i'm i'm asking like um were they together when you were born the
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point wait wait wait wait wait so i'm asking were they together when when you were born oh that's
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yeah yeah no no it's really it is really relevant they were and when did when did he go out of the
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picture i have no idea okay and and this is based off of like what your mom told you you know he's not
00:26:58.400
around both told us he's now here for our lives yeah no no i'm asking like have you ever spoken yeah of course
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he's about now oh so you you see him now yeah and what did he say he's regret okay so he wasn't around
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like he she like how he should have been and she stepped up to the plate yeah and i'll tell you i'll
00:27:18.880
tell you i don't of course everyone has their different right and and are are you saying that
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your life would have been better with him there it would have had a different level of of course it
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would have two people two people three people four and it shows you well and it shows you the value of
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a father and men bring structure so we agree sure but i wouldn't say that one sex brings more value
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than the other that's correct because if if our father had done the same thing i don't think he
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would have stepped up to the plate and your mom wasn't around you exactly yeah you would have
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you would have missed having a mother always better than one they say it takes a child to raise a
00:27:55.200
village well i guess my first question would was my first question would be why did your mom pick
00:28:00.960
your dad it sounds like he wasn't too good of a guy we're not in her head but that's but that's
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that's my that's that's my point my point is i just think that both sexes bring different values
00:28:20.000
and i think the value that men bring is typically better in business because they have more order
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women are very creative i think women are more creative a lot of the times
00:28:30.000
no no i don't sorry i was just well i was i i thought about that and then i started thinking
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about all the like great architecture that like men have i'm like a freudian slip you think women
00:28:42.640
do have you know we you know what boss is come on no no no no i don't i think that if if women were
00:28:50.000
bosses the results would show that do you think there's anything that women do better i tried for
00:28:55.200
for months to think of something well it needs to be i tried i sweet i seriously tried so hard
00:29:01.200
i i thought we were more nurturing and then i found out the stats don't back it up like i'm big like
00:29:05.680
there has to be numbers in a way to measure it well women are better at only fans because it says
00:29:09.440
female only fans creators we got that down yeah 78 percent more they are 78 more than their male
00:29:17.440
counterparts on average so thank you troy thank you yeah we are they are better at sex no but that's
00:29:24.560
that's not because women are better that's because it's men that pay for only fans well and actually
00:29:29.360
try but here's here's the problem we're not even better the top only fans models are always managed
00:29:34.800
by men yeah yeah yeah and the average is only 150 yeah and that's and that's my point like if we
00:29:40.560
were making all of this money and so good at this stuff there would be results do you want to be a
00:29:46.880
man well you want to be a man or yeah what what do you feel comfortable being a man because you prefer
00:29:53.520
to be a man i love being a woman honestly because the men are so imperial well i i don't just because
00:30:00.560
someone's superior it doesn't mean you're bad i think that children i think that adults are superior
00:30:05.680
to children but children are not bad you're not a high value woman though are you i can't sew you've
00:30:11.520
got holes in your socks i didn't even see that no no i think that the most i think the most high value
00:30:20.880
women are married before 25. how do you know and just i'm over 25. awkward but it's not it's not an insult
00:30:29.200
guys it's like it's the same that's that's the thing like the best women get married before i i i
00:30:35.920
that's that's not my point though i'm saying just because it's like if we point in an nba player or
00:30:41.040
directly is i'd say they're the best or the wreck is the wreck team mad no it just is what it is
00:30:48.240
everything has hierarchy um so i think people are entitled to their own opinions yeah no no but i don't
00:30:55.360
see i don't believe that though i believe in results i believe that there is an alleged status quo
00:31:00.960
and that's fine it exists statistics exist but there are some men that like fat women
00:31:12.560
okay quickly guys just say something going by results if we're going by oh statistically blah blah blah
00:31:18.720
yeah so you you're now out of the statistics because you're not a high value woman because
00:31:24.720
you're out of the statistics are you not high value well i don't really believe that high value
00:31:29.200
women exist no no no no no so i don't i'll explain so so i don't for one i i only believe that high
00:31:35.760
value women have to be selected by a high value man so i again i i think that high value men are only
00:31:41.920
like 10 percent of men i think it's very rare i think it's the equivalent of high value no no i wouldn't
00:31:47.360
think that i am i i think i'm a high value man no i i i think that i think i'm a normal chick i think most
00:31:54.480
people are normal most people are average it doesn't make you evil bad it just i think most
00:32:00.240
people are normal can i just say in the comments if you like fat women can you just comment that you
00:32:06.080
like fat women like normal women give it up for the fat women in fact fat women would be considered
00:32:12.240
normal who's skinny nowadays she just said herself if you're everyone's normal it just there's she said
00:32:19.840
it herself but that's what i'm talking about all of this all of this propaganda like we just have so
00:32:26.880
much marketing towards us that's saying you're so special amazing awesome like women call themselves
00:32:31.600
queens like bitch you're normal not everyone can be a queen everyone's a queen i'm sorry i'm on that
00:32:37.600
everyone is a queen no no no no everyone's a queen like we even say we even say princess treatment
00:32:44.800
why why are you a princess i want it no some men think picking up from the airport is princess treatment
00:32:50.800
i'm just going to put that out that's standard behavior standard protocol is not princess treatment
00:32:57.440
in yourself and what you're doing 100 why would you not no i i actually think that we have a society
00:33:03.120
that values confidence too much i think humility is much more important yeah okay so if okay so if
00:33:08.800
a guy says to you what you deserve mcdonald's girl you deserve mcdonald's yeah i'm not a high value
00:33:17.360
girl i just don't well i don't really to be honest like i just okay what what is this situation like
00:33:23.360
why are we going to mcdonald's you're a high value girl put yourself up there go to mcdonald's that's fine
00:33:31.360
i will go to nando's i will go to chipotle nando's is good oh chipotle that's my number
00:33:36.480
one that's my number one did you see that little clip where we were asking the dude if chipotle for
00:33:43.120
a first date and he's like no i don't care yeah that's fine that's exactly exactly exactly but you
00:33:48.720
need don't don't disrespect to your yourself hmm why but what is what is i don't think it's disrespecting
00:33:55.920
yourself to be average i don't think most people everyone has a different average for me if you
00:34:04.400
say oh i'm going to take your pound shop i think everybody in this room is average i think most
00:34:09.520
people are average oh no we're all human beings but if you feel like you so if i win oscar tomorrow
00:34:17.120
then i'm above average you have to go above average if you want to impress someone it depends
00:34:21.920
in like with me like all right i know this guy like oh he shops at 99p show i'm like i will take
00:34:28.240
us to the pound store right what are you talking about there's no such thing as poundland anymore
00:34:34.560
poundland is like two pound fifty but but like you have to go above and beyond that's what you prefer
00:34:41.680
in the in the guys that are you're dating is what you're saying yeah what do you i'm not saying you
00:34:46.400
need to go and take me to huh what do you call it i think i think the problem is the ego it's the ego
00:34:51.200
trap isn't it you know we're all encouraged to be super egotistical now and it's all this you go
00:34:55.280
girl you know it's my i'm going i'm in my queen phase i'm in my princess phase and all that you know
00:35:01.520
i suppose i guess i think what pearls you know like the reality is we're most of us the majority of
00:35:06.720
people are just just kind of average and that's okay but we are encouraged as a
00:35:10.640
society to be incredibly egotistical let's really puff ourselves up particularly through social
00:35:14.560
media i don't think i don't think loving yourself is having is being egotistical i think if you're
00:35:20.000
ugly if you're fat well you're supposed to be crying but i'm just talking about the princess
00:35:29.360
now there's even like delude humble what does the average even mean but saying you're a beautiful
00:35:33.360
person doesn't necessarily apply to your exterior let's take it another level when i'm like i'm only
00:35:38.960
messing with people that are giving me princess treatment i think the conversation is saying
00:35:42.800
that maybe we are alluding to a certain type of treatment that not everybody can actually
00:35:46.880
actually as a pop culture but that's okay i'm gonna i'm gonna if that's your bag i'm that
00:35:52.720
percentage i agree no i don't agree but i think we also need to admit that if everyone is saying this
00:35:59.520
a lot of these people are saying this and they don't really know what it means and they don't
00:36:03.360
actually really qualify for what they think your friend is fat and your friend is ugly you should
00:36:07.840
be saying babes you're really ugly you know you're really fat why are you saying like oh my name
00:36:12.160
in a world where you can be anything be nice but you've got to go back you've got to go back to the
00:36:16.320
statistic which is that only a minority of women are going to get married and have kids is that that's
00:36:20.560
correct isn't it even even hot women aren't going to get married and have kids how about that but
00:36:25.440
why not skinny hot women why not opti why not optimize your chances in the market though because if
00:36:30.320
being say bigger is going to reduce the chances that you've got in the dating marketplace doesn't
00:36:34.960
it make sense to at least address that because there's going to be a handful of men there's going
00:36:39.440
to be a handful of men that like fat women yeah so wait yeah so you still got a good chance
00:36:47.040
then i would get i would be on board i get what you're saying it's like it's still like the women who
00:36:50.640
are over eight who are really like doing what they want to do out here even princess treatment women
00:36:55.600
don't like the men that give them princess treatment i do women no women don't i do
00:37:01.920
what women don't what woman doesn't like to be treated like a princess women women okay and i want my
00:37:08.240
big like love i i okay yeah but he's got to be hard though i have a question i have a no no i have a
00:37:16.640
question okay i have a i have a wait wait wait wait have you ever have you ever felt like in a
00:37:22.080
relationship that you did more for someone than they did for you uh yeah okay and how long were
00:37:28.240
you with them i was with them for a long time but however okay so there's my point that's my point
00:37:33.840
that's my point is women right now you just said you just no no you have to choose you have to choose
00:37:38.880
if you have one headline so guys guys what i do is i just look for patterns and trends that's what i do
00:37:46.400
i just look at society i interview all these people i see patterns and white but yeah it's not it's not
00:37:51.520
black and white i always i've said so many times there's exceptions to every rule but women like
00:37:56.240
the men that they do things for not the men that do things for them yeah so we're taught by this
00:38:00.800
society no we're you don't we're taught by you were with the guy for years that you said you did more
00:38:05.360
than the women if i talk to you physically and emotionally okay financially financially he did more for
00:38:12.080
that's you cannot tell me because like he would get louis vuitton on his birthday okay okay or gucci
00:38:17.920
on his birthday okay i'm happy you got your bag but but but typically it's it's the men that you like
00:38:24.720
the most are the ones that you did the most for typically and that's what we're told all this media
00:38:30.080
there's all this marketing there's all this okay there's all this marketing saying they have to do all
00:38:35.520
this stuff for us and it doesn't work yeah women like the men that they do the most for i'm not
00:38:41.040
saying they can't be nice i think it's the other way around i think if you really like them you do stuff
00:38:45.920
for them is that personally true for you there's a harsh the harsh the harsh reality the harsh reality
00:38:53.280
of the dating marketplace is when guys are too nice to women women reject them so i was talking to
00:38:58.720
i was talking to well yes it does but i was talking to donovan sharp uh in miami a couple of weeks ago
00:39:04.480
and he said on on this podcast we were on he said he said if you the best way to lose a girl in miami
00:39:10.560
is to send her a good morning dear text all right send her that good morning darling text and she
00:39:15.200
depends on the girl she blocks you okay and this is the point because if you're too nice if you're too
00:39:19.360
much of a like an inverted comma sim the girl's like fuck this dude i want the unavailable i love a good
00:39:24.320
morning beautiful if women really if women really if women really liked this stuff then why do we have
00:39:36.320
sayings like nice guys finished last as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are
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