JustPearlyThings - She Gets FINISHED for Lying To Women That Men Loves Fat-Chicks

00:00:00.000 and fat women are more likely to die early and die alone right that's no you see the problem 1.00

00:00:07.020 the problem we're having here in this society is that women get very confused very quickly because 0.97

00:00:13.260 men will give sexual attention to any type of yeah that is the problem yeah so a woman will 1.00

00:00:18.020 sit here and argue yeah men like fat women because they know that men will still sleep 1.00

00:00:21.500 because they know they want to sleep with a girl with a big fat bum exactly and big but the reality 0.98

00:00:26.400 think about it if you were to really think about it when men want to settle down they are not going 0.99

00:00:30.840 to step out and pick the first fat woman that they can find if you like fat girls you like fat girls 1.00

00:00:36.260 i'll tell you why i'm telling i'll tell you why most men that would do that are probably very 0.90

00:00:39.980 ignorant because the reality is when you're overweight it comes a lot of health complications

00:00:43.780 and if you're choosing a life partner that is you literally picking potential future problems 0.98

00:00:50.300 okay what's the statistics about how many how many larger women there are in the country to how 1.00

00:00:56.300 many thinner the women are in the country um i know in the u.s. it's about the average woman's 170 1.00

00:01:02.240 pounds it's like average size is like 14 or 16 in the uk right that's what i heard yeah yeah 14 or 16

00:01:08.060 yeah yeah and women are not getting married as much as they used to it takes about three years to get an 1.00

00:01:14.540 engagement from a guy we're not having kids like we're used to and we're not in relationships like i think

00:01:19.260 because they're not settling and it's hard i would say that men are refusing to settle for women i would

00:01:25.440 say it's the other way around i would say women i would say that women think they're the ones in 0.99

00:01:30.380 charge but we're really not because really uh most women are just chasing after 10 percent of men because 0.99

00:01:36.240 the number one way people are meeting now is instagram and dating apps women find 80 percent of men is

00:01:41.600 unattractive and ugly and i have a plethora of women that tell me about their ex-boyfriends that cheated

00:01:46.120 on them meaning that a lot of us are sharing men meaning that really we're all just fighting over a

00:01:52.100 small percentage of guys i mean we'll set into different statistics because that's probably your

00:01:57.140 statistic because i may not be trying to chase that oh it's worse okay let me let me let me break it

00:02:08.440 that you're you you have a boyfriend yeah my status is private but yeah

00:02:13.180 it's completely private okay let's say either either your boyfriend now or your last boyfriend

00:02:22.100 let's say how tall is he um just an irrelevant height

00:02:26.960 let's say hypothetically i would not tend to tip if you go below six foot but yeah okay so six foot

00:02:37.360 how much money does he make typically rich but okay would you say he's good looking

00:02:45.880 this is the thing that's very subjective isn't it because for me but the pause is telling okay okay 0.87

00:02:52.460 okay let's just say he's ugly even if he's ugly six foot i don't i don't believe he is but let's

00:03:02.960 just say he is just just for stats possibly yes okay so this you're and does he make over six

00:03:09.740 figures uh you said rich so i don't know what is rich to you this is the thing he's a ballpark figure

00:03:15.260 isn't it you know to one person give me okay okay he's poor over six figures he's a midget he's poor 0.98

00:03:20.280 okay she's cupping out don't no come on don't cap out i said just to say he's of average height and

00:03:27.440 of average income let's go okay okay no no i want you to be honest i don't want to say let's just

00:03:32.140 say i just want i want to have an honest like a hypothetical person no no because she's single 0.89

00:03:38.160 i know you're not answering the question because i'm going to prove a point you said over six foot even

00:03:45.300 by that alone you're only going for 15 percent of guys 15 percent of men are over six foot this is

00:03:50.940 general because i have had partners of different heights and they're probably top 10 good looking

00:03:57.020 because women find 80 percent of men ugly depends on your so so no it's not it's not depends it's not 0.99

00:04:02.720 depends of course it is some people might think i'm hideous some people might think i'm attractive

00:04:06.420 no there's nobody nobody no women women so they've replicated yeah they've replicated they have

00:04:14.920 replicated these studies and like um dating events so like when people go one-on-one and do like um

00:04:20.940 speed dating you can even see these you can even see these studies in real time if you watch like

00:04:25.980 the bachelor or the bachelorette if you watch any of those love island shows they're always competing

00:04:30.560 for the same guys i've had some guys that people think are actually hideous looking and i think

00:04:36.220 they're the sexiest thing but yeah we can't really go but even if there's a little bit of a

00:04:46.580 disagreement if you think oh he's a he's all right looking he's still in the top 20 percent of men

00:04:53.040 the reality if yeah if women really thought beauty was subjective women won't be swiping right five 1.00

00:05:01.000 percent of the time on on tinder this is the thing when you give someone it's more than just looks

00:05:05.960 yeah you need to have that sex appeal and confidence for me but the reality is dating apps tell the truth

00:05:10.960 when it comes to beauty standards what i'm telling you my opinion i've never been on tinder but but guys

00:05:17.180 you could do the same thing with instagram you could do everyone is instagram here right i'm assuming

00:05:21.720 that's how you got recruited right by the way i would say what they just said is an argument for people

00:05:26.880 doing cold approach like approaching real life i mean you maybe you disagree paul because you'll say

00:05:31.000 that the real life studies sort of bear out the online stats but i do think when you approach your

00:05:35.280 real life you tend to get a few additional points yeah you're not gonna get 100 it's because i feel

00:05:41.720 like interaction in a picture you might not be you might not be to that point to that point any guy

00:05:47.080 who is confident enough to approach a woman in public is probably top 10 percent of men because he has

00:05:52.640 no not true i'll tell you why i'll tell you why a guy a guy who is not attractive and who doesn't

00:05:58.820 get women is not just going to out of the blue approach a beautiful man very true

00:06:03.220 that's very true you guys don't live the life of a man i'm telling you king we live the life of

00:06:09.380 women that men approach yes and i'm telling you and i'm telling you that the men that approach you

00:06:15.000 and i'm telling you that the men approach you have been successful at approaching other women

00:06:18.360 so you really think that if a man has approached 100 women and all of them have rejected him

00:06:30.000 you would accept him no it's possible it's possible it's actually impossible

00:06:35.040 unless unless you're telling me think about it think about it like this

00:06:41.720 impossible we get chatted all the time pearl wanted to say something what did you want to say

00:06:46.080 pearl um so question i like ugly men by the way just sooner who here who here has had a boyfriend 0.99

00:06:53.240 that's cheated on them she okay probably all right everyone shit me too all right we're sharing that's 0.99

00:07:01.380 the point we're sharing men we're literally sharing bed yeah but who has cheated on their man 1.00

00:07:06.560 right when i was young when i was young i was young look but i cheated look at if we want to argue

00:07:12.980 that we want to we want to argue if you want to argue that women are promiscuous this is the show 1.00

00:07:18.660 i'm just saying everyone cheats

00:07:20.340 but the point the point the point is the point is it's still a small percentage of men that we are

00:07:28.680 going after that is the point yes and my point is you are lying to your friend you're lying to women 0.92

00:07:34.660 i'm not always doing by always yeah you are you are absolutely right now the way society is set up

00:07:42.160 you have you can't it's not i don't call it lying it's the way that society is set up you can't tell

00:07:48.180 somebody that they're unattractive or you need to go and use weight or because no you can't but she's not 1.00

00:07:53.140 unattractive but the problem the problem you're having is but i'm saying like you need to be

00:08:03.280 honest with women and i'm saying i don't understand why you keep arguing for the exception

00:08:07.240 i told her she's fat i said that okay would you also be able to tell her that the majority of men

00:08:13.640 you're beautiful so if a man sees you on your twitter tinder and he sees your body shape because

00:08:19.020 you show it a lot of guys do you like that and he wants to go on a date with you when he sees you

00:08:22.840 will laugh a little bit oh she's fat no you can see you're fat but her pool of potential dudes 0.56

00:08:27.940 would be bigger if she slimmed down a bit and that's by the by but the point i'm making is when

00:08:33.160 she her story if she wants to maximize her her question to me was do you think when they meet me

00:08:38.540 they'll be like oh she's fat and i said no because they can see your fat from your pictures

00:08:41.780 and they've sorry babe and they've still chose chose to go on a date with you so they must like

00:08:45.900 fat girls no no what i but that's not what i was i was referring to during this show i keep saying 0.61

00:08:52.040 that men don't like fat chicks and you keep arguing with me i said some men and before you're right you 0.91

00:08:57.040 keep arguing with me for the for the exception and i'm saying that's dishonest so if i say that if i say 0.83

00:09:02.860 that and i'll tell you why if i say that women like rich men you know you could say but some women 1.00

00:09:08.440 like broke men you know that would be i've been the breadwinner relationship i i don't know if

00:09:15.940 that's a flex and you're aware but my question my question is are you with them now no exactly

00:09:22.560 exactly exactly exactly but but my point my point if they had the things you were looking for you'd be

00:09:30.120 with them women don't leave the men that have the things they want the thing and lack of money wasn't 1.00

00:09:34.780 the thing it was obviously something it was obviously was something else because i'd still

00:09:38.780 what okay tell me what was it what was it what was okay i know i want to hear what was it so the last

00:09:43.800 main relationship i was in i just found him a little bit emotionally detached emotionally detached so

00:09:49.360 this is what i call things women make up when they don't like the guy because he's not he's not 1.00

00:09:54.480 doesn't do well enough i'm very tactile i'm very emotional i'm very loving and i just found him not

00:09:59.540 to be that type of person doesn't make him a bad person just makes us very different people and that's

00:10:04.160 okay you can come to that conclusion what do you fall without knowledge yeah how long were you

00:10:10.060 together yeah yeah okay yeah i gave it i gave it a good run we gave it good innings didn't work

00:10:17.400 it's okay so obviously come on stripper how long was you how long how long how long has been your 1.00

00:10:24.700 relationship uh about uh about six hours 49 minutes when i was flying from new york to london uh most of it

00:10:36.580 was conducted in the uh toilets yeah yeah yeah the physical intimacy didn't last for the six hours by the

00:10:45.600 i think if the stats are but back to wait sorry go ahead i think if the stats are that most majority of

00:10:54.120 men like in a woman is her is her mic off plus as a fat woman as a fat woman you just say just give 1.00

00:11:03.760 up her love no but she can maximize her pool well i i would say i would say reality will hit you in the

00:11:09.440 face anyways and i think a lot of times as women we shield each other from reality we say oh

00:11:15.160 you'll there's someone for everyone i hear this all the time you realize 50 of us will end up

00:11:21.020 alone 50 of women are going to be single child half of women are going to be single and childless

00:11:28.080 half of the um and that doesn't even include the women that are single mothers they don't typically

00:11:32.620 remarry really it's like less than i would argue roughly 20 of women that are predicted to have a

00:11:38.940 happy ending so what do you feel like do you have a vision board where do i um i think there's a lot

00:11:45.220 of people that lie to women i think women lie to each other and like they often make us like cope 0.99

00:11:50.100 with poor choices so for example the fat friend instead of saying lose weight your life will be

00:11:56.320 better if you lose weight you'll be healthier if you lose weight and you won't be insecure but um and i

00:12:00.980 think and again and again and i think it's i think it's backed up um by the media and they have an

00:12:06.500 entire industry dedicated to keeping us fat and alone and they just want to make money off of us

00:12:11.840 i have a friend one of my best friends very large she's been with our husbands for years she's she's 1.00

00:12:18.460 fat she likes being being big was she fat when they got married yeah there was she was over over 1.00

00:12:23.720 overweight when she got married she's in a happy relationship she's got two beautiful kids she 0.96

00:12:28.780 likes being bigger she's a she's a model as well an influencer and she's yeah so happy i like being

00:12:35.200 fat and i i think it's actually quite selfish to be fat i think it's really selfish because your kids

00:12:40.880 are the ones that are going to have to take care of you so you're basically saying i don't have any

00:12:45.420 self-control and now my kids you're not going to have as long of a life with your children

00:12:50.620 not everyone's fat because of the lack of self-control though so i think that's very

00:12:54.180 generalizing no i would say you're fat because you eat too much and you don't exercise enough i hardly

00:13:01.060 eat anything and i'm not skinny like a twig i i i would say that you probably eat more than you say

00:13:07.020 i think women probably like women tend to lie about that so if i if i had a dollar 1.00

00:13:12.880 weight is definitely very slim i might stand up yeah no one cares we're we're very very honest

00:13:18.820 aren't we but to the point of being very blunt so it's like we're not protecting anyone's feeling

00:13:23.280 sorry i'll be saying like oh babe but maybe yeah you could look better be a bit more like that's 0.99

00:13:28.200 my sister she'll be like all right well too blunt wow you're a bit of fat now yeah your triceps

00:13:33.720 have got a bit loose a bit tricepy and honestly for me a lot of guys that i um date they tend

00:13:42.080 to say to me oh when i'm training you you're too slim they don't like it mm-hmm well i think they

00:13:49.700 like i think men i think i think men typically like slim thick yeah you know you know they might

00:13:58.040 like a big butt but they have you have to have the small waist it's like they've been like an 0.92

00:14:02.260 hourglass figure who's hotter aliyah or lizzo none 0.98

00:14:07.220 what do you guys say would you guys all right i have a question if i have a question women raise

00:14:24.660 your hand if i said you have a body like lizzo would you take that as a compliment raise your

00:14:29.180 hand if yes no this is what i mean when i say women lie i would no you all know

00:14:36.140 but but my point is before no but the reason i said that is earlier i said that women or lizza i said 0.95

00:14:46.220 that lizzo was unattractive and she said or i think there's a couple of you maybe that said 0.90

00:14:51.240 that lizzo is attractive i said she's pretty i said she's fat but she's pretty that's what i said 0.93

00:14:57.980 we all know that she's not yet if you said do i want lizzo's face this is a different i would say

00:15:04.720 the fat ruins her face because there's all this blubber around it yeah i think she's pretty

00:15:09.980 so i would say i'm gonna i'm gonna say so i think that the second i think that the second thing that

00:15:23.980 women lie to each other about and this kind of goes to the housewife because for whatever reason when i 1.00

00:15:28.760 have these conversations about like what what does it take to deserve to be a housewife we can always

00:15:35.000 like talk about it in the abstract but when it comes to reality it's like we could never be honest

00:15:39.640 um and the second thing i think that we lie to each other about is just how hard women have it i 1.00

00:15:44.940 think women have it pretty easy especially compared to men i think you mentioned a patriarchy earlier

00:15:50.200 i don't believe in that in the slightest i think you're given far more opportunity as a woman

00:15:54.980 your opinion babe um and i think typically the women that argue about patriarchy are usually just lazy 1.00

00:16:01.340 i can't lie i think we have it so easy and i'm so glad to be a woman

00:16:05.820 yeah and i think there's a couple carry the baby i don't have to have hormones 1.00

00:16:17.100 i would say there's a couple i would say there's a couple reasons solid relationship

00:16:21.900 when it comes down to a solid solid solid relationship between a man and a woman

00:16:26.880 who has got to do the most providing technically a woman the man but that's yeah but the woman 1.00

00:16:33.020 usually wants that life more than the man anyways women usually want kids more than the man and want 1.00

00:16:37.960 that lifestyle more than the man we go into a club and we flutter our eyelids of course

00:16:42.160 yeah it's we have it 10 times easier there's all these special programs for women in most of my 1.00

00:16:50.320 relationships so i don't see it like that well yeah right but wait okay what do you what do you do

00:16:54.540 again what do i do yeah what do you do for a living i dance on a poem

00:16:57.760 no no no i don't really i'm a singer and i'm an artist okay well i would argue that artists

00:17:06.000 performers podcasters social media influences are all monetizing their looks you absolutely

00:17:11.980 have an advantage as a woman as an entertainer

00:17:14.820 no but i'm just talking about being the breadwinner in a relationship what we say that what'd you say

00:17:20.820 you're a podcaster you like the podcasters monetize their looks oh yeah no i think i think

00:17:25.380 i think i think women have it easier i think it's and i've managed i could say this from managing i've

00:17:33.160 managed social media accounts for women and for men oh my gosh it's so much easier if you're a chick

00:17:37.960 chicks just have to do some reactions they're like ah no but if you're a hot man yeah i'll go crazy for 1.00

00:17:43.320 that so i disagree well but hot men so so but men pay more because firstly well i no even as a hot

00:17:51.240 guy it's way harder but everybody still have it easier because nobody's going to get up for a hot

00:17:55.200 guy on the train but they'll get up for a hot girl on the train i would i would rather if i had to 1.00

00:17:59.600 manage one or the other i would rather manage the average the slut the cute chick over the hot guy 1.00

00:18:05.540 it's easier i'd manage the hot guy can he sell more though can he actually sell more than a woman 1.00

00:18:11.680 can he can he genuinely sell you more products i mean if you look at if you look at social media

00:18:16.460 accounts i mean even guys who are like is his mic off guys i can't even guys is my mic i don't feel

00:18:22.040 like mine is either yeah some of these mics i can't hear myself either what huh we didn't get to

00:18:29.800 answer the question engineer yeah i'm still there we've been going on about you know size who do you

00:18:35.220 think's more sexual i think i think the way the media can everyone hear me yeah i can hear you

00:18:40.380 not really not in the way so i think the way the media sort of has sort of created this perception

00:18:50.980 of life of reality is you know right from when we're young and growing up you know we see the

00:18:55.680 images of men being very sexual with tv american pie i've never seen movie a lot of movies and just a

00:19:02.240 lot of things in media centered around men being sexual but the reality is women are more sexual and 0.99

00:19:08.060 we see this everywhere like on the train we see women openly reading 50 shades of gray but we 0.99

00:19:12.640 whereas obviously men are probably indoors watching con but men and women are more like

00:19:18.720 liberated and sort of have this sort of standard of being able to express discreetly that they're

00:19:26.580 sexual and is accepted whereas men are then seen by the society as this overtly sexual people

00:19:32.500 and that's what there's all this image is about you know men if a man is looking at you too much

00:19:36.960 you know they're probably thinking too much about too much about sexual stuff and things like that

00:19:40.980 whereas the real truth is like women are just more sexual in my opinion 0.99

00:19:44.120 i think that's where feminism like makes it easier for women then 1.00

00:19:48.240 it's only now that we're seeing content around women being sexual

00:19:52.360 no i just well i mean when you think about it women we could when you think of uh blessing i don't

00:19:59.640 know what's going on i can hear you can you hear me when you when you think about it though it's like

00:20:04.480 women she could have chosen to be anything you know we got all this freedom and a lot of us chose 0.95

00:20:10.080 only fans there's more only fans models than teachers right now i'm a teacher i'm a qualified teacher

00:20:14.860 what about men are there more uh only fans men than teachers are there more women teachers than 1.00

00:20:21.840 male teachers what's the statistics i want to know so the male male to female teacher breakdown there's

00:20:27.140 far more female teachers than male well we're winning already then okay so we're winning well i would say

00:20:31.840 that they're not winning because women ruined education so in the 1850s it was primarily male 0.99

00:20:37.260 teachers and you've seen iq drop really since the 1850s okay i actually have a child that's not been a

00:20:42.520 change of the curriculum since having um a female teacher how do you know that was changing the 0.99

00:20:48.120 curriculum as well oh well it did change the so the problem is when women go into a space and you 1.00

00:20:54.020 kind of see it in this conversation women don't like to have hierarchy and rank each other so the 1.00

00:20:59.180 same way i'll say hey men don't like fat chicks some of you were like okay yes true but then like some 0.98

00:21:05.160 other people are like well but oh no women tend to like everything to be more egalitarian fair everyone's 1.00

00:21:11.020 special participation trophies so when women infiltrate an industry it tends to get more 1.00

00:21:15.540 or it tends to get less competitive what happened in education is they started grading things like

00:21:20.880 papers homework and essays and attendance which kind of fluff up the grade where it used to just be iq tests

00:21:26.580 so you don't think we should lead you don't think we should teach do you think that we should just be

00:21:31.040 having the average lives and when i say average it means like yeah i have a house yeah i have things

00:21:35.680 taken care of for me but i can't customize that life i didn't i didn't so i did i didn't say i didn't

00:21:41.160 say that women shouldn't teach um i i just think that women by and large are not as good at teaching 1.00

00:21:46.780 and they should be out of the managerial positions that are making decisions on education

00:21:51.080 so they shouldn't lead education or in politics yeah i know i don't think women should be 1.00

00:21:55.900 they should be led by men in all industries yeah just a quick question but why okay so i think

00:22:01.820 there's a natural order in the world um and this kind of goes i'm catholic so it kind of goes to a

00:22:06.220 religious point of view um i i i think it goes god men women children and i think when you start

00:22:12.720 putting women above men that is typically where you see evil happen really yeah and i and you see it in

00:22:20.020 society i'll give you an example like before um really i just think egalitarianism is evil um and the

00:22:26.880 reason i think that sorry my voice is so much louder it's like distracting but um so typically

00:22:33.480 what what you'll what you'll see is when women get power over men they're just not nice with it 1.00

00:22:39.260 even when like women become queens and rulers they're more likely to be violent when women when women get 0.99

00:22:44.320 power over children they're more likely to kill them women it's almost unheard of for men to kill

00:22:48.200 their kids in the first year women do it all the time well you were talking earlier uh about female 1.00

00:22:53.620 employers right and even women prefer to have male employers and i mean in my experience working

00:22:57.500 corporate right when there's female bosses it's it could it could be a complete nightmare you know 1.00

00:23:02.020 very machiavellian very dark triad very sort of like tough environment and the when you have male 0.53

00:23:08.300 bosses that could also be a tough environment but it tends to be a bit i hate to say it but it tends

00:23:13.460 to be a bit fairer and it tends to be a bit clearer and sort of more above board you know yeah even women 1.00

00:23:17.780 don't yeah exactly exactly yeah i've worked with women and they've said jesus you know i wish we had 1.00

00:23:23.020 our previous male boss again because this woman now is just a nightmare well women have again 1.00

00:23:27.100 women default to egalitarianism so men are much more direct they prioritize information where women 0.98

00:23:33.780 prioritize our feelings unfortunately so when you see women take over an industry the industry tends to 1.00

00:23:39.500 go downhill an example of that is education it used to be primarily male and the results were much better 0.98

00:23:45.080 now you see iq tests dropping you have people graduating high school they can't even do basic math

00:23:50.480 so typically when women take over an industry just doesn't do as well so you don't think that 1.00

00:23:55.280 we're evolving at all no i think i think i think we're devolving and i'll i'll answer that question i think

00:24:04.480 we're devolving i think women are getting worse um and i i say that because i see women in thongs at the 1.00

00:24:10.000 beaches i i think we're kind of prioritizing the wrong things okay forget the the minority that are in thongs at the

00:24:16.480 beaches oh i would that's the majority so so yeah i know i get this a lot so so i i would say i would

00:24:29.200 say that the re the way the reason i have been successful is i take a lot of guidance from my dad

00:24:34.800 i don't think i i know i know i has nothing to do with it my mom does not give me the same type of

00:24:41.520 guidance that my dad does she built so so you know i mean they work together they were they were a team

00:24:48.960 but i i would say my dad just men give you a different type of guidance that has more structure

00:24:54.240 and that's typically what women need you know i think i'm very i'm very my brother's helped me too

00:24:59.200 actually do your brother get guidance from your mom or your dad um i would i would say for the things

00:25:07.280 that require structure they go to my dad because my dad is very logical very structured he can help me

00:25:13.680 with the accounting he helps me he helps me my housewife um my mom actually quit her job she was

00:25:19.840 going to be a teacher and she quit she quit wait she my my mom actually she was gonna my dad owned a

00:25:29.920 company growing up and he was going to um my mom was going to be a teacher and then she quit that to 0.99

00:25:36.240 go work for my dad to be house and they well they worked together they built like their business

00:25:40.960 together so i mean it wasn't like a who did it it was like a it was like a teamwork thing but you know

00:25:46.960 it wasn't like keeping score housewife you know of your knowledge and your how you feel but it's

00:25:52.560 the same everyone has a different upbringing they all have their parts to play yeah for us for my sister

00:25:59.200 and i we was solid for for my mom my mom worked um she worked on a building site she had a decorating 1.00

00:26:07.440 company and she um took us how many how many employees did the decorating company have she had seven 1.00

00:26:15.040 okay yeah that's typically female businesses are not over it is i know right however where was my 0.89

00:26:21.520 times as well so where was my dad we're evolving aren't we okay so wait where was your what's your

00:26:28.240 okay what happened your dad they got around it was not about okay what they were divorced they were

00:26:32.960 not around okay what was were they dating before like how how did you get you just not around it was

00:26:37.680 not about a relationship and no but i'm i'm asking like um were they together when you were born the

00:26:42.800 point wait wait wait wait wait so i'm asking were they together when when you were born oh that's

00:26:47.520 yeah yeah no no it's really it is really relevant they were and when did when did he go out of the

00:26:52.560 picture i have no idea okay and and this is based off of like what your mom told you you know he's not

00:26:58.400 around both told us he's now here for our lives yeah no no i'm asking like have you ever spoken yeah of course

00:27:05.040 he's about now oh so you you see him now yeah and what did he say he's regret okay so he wasn't around

00:27:12.560 like he she like how he should have been and she stepped up to the plate yeah and i'll tell you i'll

00:27:18.880 tell you i don't of course everyone has their different right and and are are you saying that

00:27:25.520 your life would have been better with him there it would have had a different level of of course it

00:27:30.320 would have two people two people three people four and it shows you well and it shows you the value of

00:27:36.320 a father and men bring structure so we agree sure but i wouldn't say that one sex brings more value

00:27:42.560 than the other that's correct because if if our father had done the same thing i don't think he

00:27:46.800 would have stepped up to the plate and your mom wasn't around you exactly yeah you would have

00:27:50.320 you would have missed having a mother always better than one they say it takes a child to raise a 0.99

00:27:55.200 village well i guess my first question would was my first question would be why did your mom pick

00:28:00.960 your dad it sounds like he wasn't too good of a guy we're not in her head but that's but that's

00:28:05.360 that's my that's that's my point my point is i just think that both sexes bring different values

00:28:20.000 and i think the value that men bring is typically better in business because they have more order

00:28:25.760 women are very creative i think women are more creative a lot of the times 1.00

00:28:30.000 no no i don't sorry i was just well i was i i thought about that and then i started thinking

00:28:36.880 about all the like great architecture that like men have i'm like a freudian slip you think women 0.54

00:28:42.640 do have you know we you know what boss is come on no no no no i don't i think that if if women were 1.00

00:28:50.000 bosses the results would show that do you think there's anything that women do better i tried for 1.00

00:28:55.200 for months to think of something well it needs to be i tried i sweet i seriously tried so hard

00:29:01.200 i i thought we were more nurturing and then i found out the stats don't back it up like i'm big like

00:29:05.680 there has to be numbers in a way to measure it well women are better at only fans because it says 1.00

00:29:09.440 female only fans creators we got that down yeah 78 percent more they are 78 more than their male

00:29:17.440 counterparts on average so thank you troy thank you yeah we are they are better at sex no but that's

00:29:24.560 that's not because women are better that's because it's men that pay for only fans well and actually

00:29:29.360 try but here's here's the problem we're not even better the top only fans models are always managed

00:29:34.800 by men yeah yeah yeah and the average is only 150 yeah and that's and that's my point like if we

00:29:40.560 were making all of this money and so good at this stuff there would be results do you want to be a

00:29:46.880 man well you want to be a man or yeah what what do you feel comfortable being a man because you prefer

00:29:53.520 to be a man i love being a woman honestly because the men are so imperial well i i don't just because

00:30:00.560 someone's superior it doesn't mean you're bad i think that children i think that adults are superior

00:30:05.680 to children but children are not bad you're not a high value woman though are you i can't sew you've 0.99

00:30:11.520 got holes in your socks i didn't even see that no no i think that the most i think the most high value

00:30:20.880 women are married before 25. how do you know and just i'm over 25. awkward but it's not it's not an insult 1.00

00:30:29.200 guys it's like it's the same that's that's the thing like the best women get married before i i i 1.00

00:30:35.920 that's that's not my point though i'm saying just because it's like if we point in an nba player or

00:30:41.040 directly is i'd say they're the best or the wreck is the wreck team mad no it just is what it is

00:30:48.240 everything has hierarchy um so i think people are entitled to their own opinions yeah no no but i don't

00:30:55.360 see i don't believe that though i believe in results i believe that there is an alleged status quo

00:31:00.960 and that's fine it exists statistics exist but there are some men that like fat women 0.99

00:31:12.560 okay quickly guys just say something going by results if we're going by oh statistically blah blah blah

00:31:18.720 yeah so you you're now out of the statistics because you're not a high value woman because 1.00

00:31:24.720 you're out of the statistics are you not high value well i don't really believe that high value

00:31:29.200 women exist no no no no no so i don't i'll explain so so i don't for one i i only believe that high 1.00

00:31:35.760 value women have to be selected by a high value man so i again i i think that high value men are only

00:31:41.920 like 10 percent of men i think it's very rare i think it's the equivalent of high value no no i wouldn't

00:31:47.360 think that i am i i think i'm a high value man no i i i think that i think i'm a normal chick i think most

00:31:54.480 people are normal most people are average it doesn't make you evil bad it just i think most

00:32:00.240 people are normal can i just say in the comments if you like fat women can you just comment that you 1.00

00:32:06.080 like fat women like normal women give it up for the fat women in fact fat women would be considered 1.00

00:32:12.240 normal who's skinny nowadays she just said herself if you're everyone's normal it just there's she said 0.94

00:32:19.840 it herself but that's what i'm talking about all of this all of this propaganda like we just have so

00:32:26.880 much marketing towards us that's saying you're so special amazing awesome like women call themselves 0.95

00:32:31.600 queens like bitch you're normal not everyone can be a queen everyone's a queen i'm sorry i'm on that 1.00

00:32:37.600 everyone is a queen no no no no everyone's a queen like we even say we even say princess treatment 1.00

00:32:44.800 why why are you a princess i want it no some men think picking up from the airport is princess treatment 1.00

00:32:50.800 i'm just going to put that out that's standard behavior standard protocol is not princess treatment

00:32:57.440 in yourself and what you're doing 100 why would you not no i i actually think that we have a society

00:33:03.120 that values confidence too much i think humility is much more important yeah okay so if okay so if

00:33:08.800 a guy says to you what you deserve mcdonald's girl you deserve mcdonald's yeah i'm not a high value

00:33:17.360 girl i just don't well i don't really to be honest like i just okay what what is this situation like

00:33:23.360 why are we going to mcdonald's you're a high value girl put yourself up there go to mcdonald's that's fine 1.00

00:33:31.360 i will go to nando's i will go to chipotle nando's is good oh chipotle that's my number

00:33:36.480 one that's my number one did you see that little clip where we were asking the dude if chipotle for

00:33:43.120 a first date and he's like no i don't care yeah that's fine that's exactly exactly exactly but you

00:33:48.720 need don't don't disrespect to your yourself hmm why but what is what is i don't think it's disrespecting

00:33:55.920 yourself to be average i don't think most people everyone has a different average for me if you

00:34:04.400 say oh i'm going to take your pound shop i think everybody in this room is average i think most

00:34:09.520 people are average oh no we're all human beings but if you feel like you so if i win oscar tomorrow

00:34:17.120 then i'm above average you have to go above average if you want to impress someone it depends

00:34:21.920 in like with me like all right i know this guy like oh he shops at 99p show i'm like i will take

00:34:28.240 us to the pound store right what are you talking about there's no such thing as poundland anymore

00:34:34.560 poundland is like two pound fifty but but like you have to go above and beyond that's what you prefer

00:34:41.680 in the in the guys that are you're dating is what you're saying yeah what do you i'm not saying you

00:34:46.400 need to go and take me to huh what do you call it i think i think the problem is the ego it's the ego

00:34:51.200 trap isn't it you know we're all encouraged to be super egotistical now and it's all this you go

00:34:55.280 girl you know it's my i'm going i'm in my queen phase i'm in my princess phase and all that you know

00:35:01.520 i suppose i guess i think what pearls you know like the reality is we're most of us the majority of

00:35:06.720 people are just just kind of average and that's okay but we are encouraged as a

00:35:10.640 society to be incredibly egotistical let's really puff ourselves up particularly through social

00:35:14.560 media i don't think i don't think loving yourself is having is being egotistical i think if you're 0.80

00:35:20.000 ugly if you're fat well you're supposed to be crying but i'm just talking about the princess 0.54

00:35:29.360 now there's even like delude humble what does the average even mean but saying you're a beautiful 0.99

00:35:33.360 person doesn't necessarily apply to your exterior let's take it another level when i'm like i'm only

00:35:38.960 messing with people that are giving me princess treatment i think the conversation is saying

00:35:42.800 that maybe we are alluding to a certain type of treatment that not everybody can actually

00:35:46.880 actually as a pop culture but that's okay i'm gonna i'm gonna if that's your bag i'm that

00:35:52.720 percentage i agree no i don't agree but i think we also need to admit that if everyone is saying this

00:35:59.520 a lot of these people are saying this and they don't really know what it means and they don't

00:36:03.360 actually really qualify for what they think your friend is fat and your friend is ugly you should 0.95

00:36:07.840 be saying babes you're really ugly you know you're really fat why are you saying like oh my name 0.99

00:36:12.160 in a world where you can be anything be nice but you've got to go back you've got to go back to the 0.99

00:36:16.320 statistic which is that only a minority of women are going to get married and have kids is that that's 1.00

00:36:20.560 correct isn't it even even hot women aren't going to get married and have kids how about that but 1.00

00:36:25.440 why not skinny hot women why not opti why not optimize your chances in the market though because if 1.00

00:36:30.320 being say bigger is going to reduce the chances that you've got in the dating marketplace doesn't

00:36:34.960 it make sense to at least address that because there's going to be a handful of men there's going

00:36:39.440 to be a handful of men that like fat women yeah so wait yeah so you still got a good chance

00:36:47.040 then i would get i would be on board i get what you're saying it's like it's still like the women who

00:36:50.640 are over eight who are really like doing what they want to do out here even princess treatment women 1.00

00:36:55.600 don't like the men that give them princess treatment i do women no women don't i do 0.96

00:37:01.920 what women don't what woman doesn't like to be treated like a princess women women okay and i want my 0.74

00:37:08.240 big like love i i okay yeah but he's got to be hard though i have a question i have a no no i have a

00:37:16.640 question okay i have a i have a wait wait wait wait have you ever have you ever felt like in a

00:37:22.080 relationship that you did more for someone than they did for you uh yeah okay and how long were

00:37:28.240 you with them i was with them for a long time but however okay so there's my point that's my point

00:37:33.840 that's my point is women right now you just said you just no no you have to choose you have to choose 1.00

00:37:38.880 if you have one headline so guys guys what i do is i just look for patterns and trends that's what i do

00:37:46.400 i just look at society i interview all these people i see patterns and white but yeah it's not it's not

00:37:51.520 black and white i always i've said so many times there's exceptions to every rule but women like 1.00

00:37:56.240 the men that they do things for not the men that do things for them yeah so we're taught by this

00:38:00.800 society no we're you don't we're taught by you were with the guy for years that you said you did more

00:38:05.360 than the women if i talk to you physically and emotionally okay financially financially he did more for

00:38:12.080 that's you cannot tell me because like he would get louis vuitton on his birthday okay okay or gucci

00:38:17.920 on his birthday okay i'm happy you got your bag but but but typically it's it's the men that you like

00:38:24.720 the most are the ones that you did the most for typically and that's what we're told all this media

00:38:30.080 there's all this marketing there's all this okay there's all this marketing saying they have to do all

00:38:35.520 this stuff for us and it doesn't work yeah women like the men that they do the most for i'm not

00:38:41.040 saying they can't be nice i think it's the other way around i think if you really like them you do stuff

00:38:45.920 for them is that personally true for you there's a harsh the harsh the harsh reality the harsh reality

00:38:53.280 of the dating marketplace is when guys are too nice to women women reject them so i was talking to

00:38:58.720 i was talking to well yes it does but i was talking to donovan sharp uh in miami a couple of weeks ago

00:39:04.480 and he said on on this podcast we were on he said he said if you the best way to lose a girl in miami

00:39:10.560 is to send her a good morning dear text all right send her that good morning darling text and she

00:39:15.200 depends on the girl she blocks you okay and this is the point because if you're too nice if you're too 0.99

00:39:19.360 much of a like an inverted comma sim the girl's like fuck this dude i want the unavailable i love a good 1.00

00:39:24.320 morning beautiful if women really if women really if women really liked this stuff then why do we have 0.98

00:39:36.320 sayings like nice guys finished last as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are

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JustPearlyThings - November 11, 2023

She Gets FINISHED for Lying To Women That Men Loves Fat-Chicks

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