Pearl DROPS The Mic With This Statistic
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Summary
In this episode, we are joined by social media expert, social media influencer, and author, to discuss the dangers of social media and dating in the 21st century. We discuss how social media has changed the dating game, the impact it has had on society, and why women are more likely to cheat on their husbands.
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i think social media kills relationships yeah yeah yeah years ago i think when there's no
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social media there was no phones people were still cheating in the slide are you just gonna
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find out until their funeral when their 10 kids came out the high profile doctors and
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everything that you speak of you found out at their funeral they're just keeping it on
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i think it's allowed women to just be like openly look for new men when you when you look at
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instagram profiles today that's what it is that's why that's why i was sort of saying when i was
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saying before about being married and like not being on social media i mean i'm not some like
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red pill like you know thumping the table women shouldn't be on instagram i'm not really like
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that but i do see the point because it's like basically you're putting out sexy pictures of
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yourself on instagram even if you're not but even if you're not intentionally doing that what's
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that going to do it's going to attract the attention of other dudes they could be sliding into the dms
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you know things in your main relationship things your marriage getting a little bit dry a little
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bit stale and then and then the temptation is there it's a bit like well yeah you kind of see where you
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share in the sexual market i would never date a man of instagram yeah but the thing is if you're loyal
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then it doesn't matter how many dms that you'll get yeah but it kind of tells you like oh wow
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like michael b jordan is into me you get like an idea of like oh i'm still i still got it
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if you're loyal then you're loyal it doesn't matter if anyone's slipping into your dms if you love your
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man you love your man you will not cheat but if you're if you're loyal if you're loyal but how does
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the before the guy goes into the marriage or even before the woman goes into the match how do you know
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they're going to be loyal and how do you know they're going to be loyal over the long term
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but women but women by and large are not loyal women i mean even when women win the lottery they
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leave their husbands they tend to when men win the lottery they tend to stay i don't know who these
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people are you're talking about it's not just the lottery it's also when women get promoted at work
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they're more likely to divorce where men are more likely to stay
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when women get leverage um in the relationship they tend to leave men when they get leveraged
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they tend to stay okay because probably the woman leveraged that man up to that position
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and the woman happens to be with that guy at that position and then she leveraged up herself
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but didn't but what didn't he leverage her probably not so statistically i want to show like this is
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gynocentric thinking so there's gynocentric propaganda like gynocentrism basically is women
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are amazing and special and more awesome than we are whenever a man accomplishes something we always
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attribute it to women but whenever a woman accomplishes something we never attribute it to
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the man she's with but did you not say that women are less likely to succeed in their
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own companies so obviously so then they're not being supported by men so no no i would i would say
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women only succeed when they are supported by men typically so like kim kardashian didn't become a
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billionaire until she was with kanye it's like a trend that i see where it's like when women come
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successful typically they have a strong man behind them so this is why they're leaving them because
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women typically are supporting men and then men are typically not supporting women so that's why
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no no i would leave them no no yeah i would i would say the men are supporting the women and a lot of
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times the men support the women and get them to a certain point and then the women leave because
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women are hypergamous you know we always want the guy to be above them so you hit that you hit that
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level what's that word hypergamous hypergamous you took me nowhere today thank you there you go so
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can you spell that hypergamous so hypergamous yeah thank you i'll give you another example of a trend
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that i see because the biggest thing is i kind of just look for patterns in like society and
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relationships and just like trends that i see one of them is women politicians they always seem to get
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like they get elected into an office and then they they screw someone at work
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there's a girl in the u.s that this just happened with lauren bobert something bobert she had four
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kids she literally gets elected one baby daddy no yeah one one one was your husband baby daddy but
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then she divorces her husband and then like six months later she's in the movie theater with some guy
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like what's super viral did you see that you don't talk about well liz trust got voted into office in
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the uk she screwed the whole country well let's go let's go let's go let's go let's go yeah do you
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like do you like it because she she took the economy and then she got chucked out well and that's why
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that's another trend i see like where i say women are bad at business and typically leadership roles
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all of the shortest um terms of like prime ministers and presidents are all like typically women
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that's what they say women have more opportunity than men in 2023 and we just still kind of suck
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with it it's only 2023 that you're gauging off of isn't it so maybe we've had another decade then
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you can give a more no that's what they say but it's been like 50 years it's no it's been like 50
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years of this yeah so we've had 50 years of like women's empowerment and that's super short
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but that's very short it's a patriarch and at the end of the day let's have this conversation again
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when we're like well how come back with us in my friends tell me what did you think everyone here
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is under 50 right well yeah right so i'm saying everybody's lifetime has had a ton of women's
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empowerment so you know it's a little bit more you're saying that women's empowerment but i was
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alive when there weren't any black people on the tv so i feel like the women's empowerment
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in what era even now when i was young in the music there was hardly any black people on the tv
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yes yes black people everywhere on the tv like commercials the phone would ring because oh my
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god there's a black person on the tv and i feel like this kind of empowerment of women and like
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that's come after the black people on the tv and it's going to take time it's going to take time
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i don't like i don't like women's empowerment i think it's actually really insulting
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i i to women i think it's very insulting because you're saying we need special treatment and
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privileges to do things more opportunities we just need more representation treatment we just
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need representation matters yeah it's very we know we all have feelings we have emotions we all
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have i i know of course we do you say no no no we do we don't say the exact same thing as that
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female politician but it's what i'm shaking my head is to you when you said we need representation
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i'm saying no i don't think we do need representation i think we need qualified people that are smart
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and competent and i think we keep putting women into positions we're not good at well maybe they're
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putting these certain women the wrong women to these positions to make an example of them say
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this is what happens when you put a woman in this position because again it's still a patriarchy and
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i ultimately feel like i disagree you disagree no i don't have the opportunity to know so you don't
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think women should be put in in play and in positions of power no but you don't think that it's a
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patriarchy i think i think it's a matriarchy actually i think women typically live life on
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easy mode i think where a woman's life is much easier than a man's life i think some women women
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no no so but what we actually i'll tell you you you you turn you turn 21 you have the option to
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monetize your beauty that that's what you're ugly yeah um even an ugly woman gets more attention
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than the average oh i disagree women and i'll give you an i'll give you an example women rate
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women if you're pretty women women rate 80 of guys as unattractive even if you're unattractive
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i'll give you an example lizzo has built an entire brand off of being unattractive she's not
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unattractive she's just overweight she's not ugly she's got a beautiful face yeah i think some men
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men don't buy a large like fat chicks i'm saying like okay if you go back if you go back 50 years
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right and she's not ugly if she was not i don't think she's ugly exactly i don't think she's a good
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example i would say she's unattractive because she's severely overweight oh in your opinion i would
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say jamaican men jamaican men love fat girls yeah i i think i think i think you know i've had i've
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king do african men love fat girl no you don't like this though jamaican men love fat girl
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okay okay good good point so what's kind of jamaican men like um fat girls is it the ones that
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typically have a lot of resources or the ones that broke and don't have anything i'll be honest and
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say i don't know the answer to that but i know for a fact i do that a lot of jamaican men love fat
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girl i love guys feel that yeah they're like big hills if you look at if you look at all the
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most successful men that i've ever walked to the earth how many of them have you seen walking around
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with the fat woman but also maybe they like fat girls but because i'm gonna i'm gonna guess i'm
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gonna guess something right now what about trisha i'm gonna i'm gonna guess something i'm gonna look
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up jamaica's richest man i'm gonna i'm gonna guess i'm gonna guess i'm gonna guess
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and let's look at what the men with the most choice pick okay i have no idea rebecca i could