JustPearlyThings - Pearl DROPS The Mic With This Statistic

00:00:00.000 i think social media kills relationships yeah yeah yeah years ago i think when there's no

00:00:08.680 social media there was no phones people were still cheating in the slide are you just gonna

00:00:15.020 find out until their funeral when their 10 kids came out the high profile doctors and

00:00:19.920 everything that you speak of you found out at their funeral they're just keeping it on

00:00:23.080 i think it's allowed women to just be like openly look for new men when you when you look at

00:00:34.220 instagram profiles today that's what it is that's why that's why i was sort of saying when i was

00:00:39.540 saying before about being married and like not being on social media i mean i'm not some like

00:00:43.520 red pill like you know thumping the table women shouldn't be on instagram i'm not really like 0.99

00:00:47.260 that but i do see the point because it's like basically you're putting out sexy pictures of

00:00:51.040 yourself on instagram even if you're not but even if you're not intentionally doing that what's

00:00:55.640 that going to do it's going to attract the attention of other dudes they could be sliding into the dms 1.00

00:00:59.460 you know things in your main relationship things your marriage getting a little bit dry a little

00:01:02.960 bit stale and then and then the temptation is there it's a bit like well yeah you kind of see where you

00:01:08.280 share in the sexual market i would never date a man of instagram yeah but the thing is if you're loyal

00:01:12.600 then it doesn't matter how many dms that you'll get yeah but it kind of tells you like oh wow

00:01:17.860 like michael b jordan is into me you get like an idea of like oh i'm still i still got it

00:01:22.500 if you're loyal then you're loyal it doesn't matter if anyone's slipping into your dms if you love your

00:01:37.560 man you love your man you will not cheat but if you're if you're loyal if you're loyal but how does

00:01:43.020 the before the guy goes into the marriage or even before the woman goes into the match how do you know

00:01:46.660 they're going to be loyal and how do you know they're going to be loyal over the long term

00:01:49.500 but women but women by and large are not loyal women i mean even when women win the lottery they 1.00

00:02:01.380 leave their husbands they tend to when men win the lottery they tend to stay i don't know who these

00:02:05.840 people are you're talking about it's not just the lottery it's also when women get promoted at work 1.00

00:02:14.620 they're more likely to divorce where men are more likely to stay 1.00

00:02:17.660 when women get leverage um in the relationship they tend to leave men when they get leveraged 1.00

00:02:24.920 they tend to stay okay because probably the woman leveraged that man up to that position 1.00

00:02:28.960 and the woman happens to be with that guy at that position and then she leveraged up herself 1.00

00:02:35.300 but didn't but what didn't he leverage her probably not so statistically i want to show like this is

00:02:42.800 gynocentric thinking so there's gynocentric propaganda like gynocentrism basically is women 1.00

00:02:47.520 are amazing and special and more awesome than we are whenever a man accomplishes something we always

00:02:52.060 attribute it to women but whenever a woman accomplishes something we never attribute it to 0.99

00:02:55.860 the man she's with but did you not say that women are less likely to succeed in their 1.00

00:03:01.320 own companies so obviously so then they're not being supported by men so no no i would i would say

00:03:08.000 women only succeed when they are supported by men typically so like kim kardashian didn't become a 1.00

00:03:13.040 billionaire until she was with kanye it's like a trend that i see where it's like when women come 1.00

00:03:17.240 successful typically they have a strong man behind them so this is why they're leaving them because

00:03:22.740 women typically are supporting men and then men are typically not supporting women so that's why 1.00

00:03:27.520 no no i would leave them no no yeah i would i would say the men are supporting the women and a lot of

00:03:34.460 times the men support the women and get them to a certain point and then the women leave because

00:03:38.480 women are hypergamous you know we always want the guy to be above them so you hit that you hit that 1.00

00:03:42.940 level what's that word hypergamous hypergamous you took me nowhere today thank you there you go so

00:03:48.140 can you spell that hypergamous so hypergamous yeah thank you i'll give you another example of a trend

00:03:54.840 that i see because the biggest thing is i kind of just look for patterns in like society and

00:03:59.020 relationships and just like trends that i see one of them is women politicians they always seem to get 1.00

00:04:05.920 like they get elected into an office and then they they screw someone at work

00:04:10.700 there's a girl in the u.s that this just happened with lauren bobert something bobert she had four 1.00

00:04:18.740 kids she literally gets elected one baby daddy no yeah one one one was your husband baby daddy but 1.00

00:04:26.060 then she divorces her husband and then like six months later she's in the movie theater with some guy

00:04:31.940 like what's super viral did you see that you don't talk about well liz trust got voted into office in

00:04:37.420 the uk she screwed the whole country well let's go let's go let's go let's go let's go yeah do you

00:04:45.080 like do you like it because she she took the economy and then she got chucked out well and that's why 1.00

00:04:50.240 that's another trend i see like where i say women are bad at business and typically leadership roles 1.00

00:04:55.360 all of the shortest um terms of like prime ministers and presidents are all like typically women 1.00

00:05:01.180 she was she said like two days 0.97

00:05:04.540 that's what they say women have more opportunity than men in 2023 and we just still kind of suck 0.98

00:05:16.620 with it it's only 2023 that you're gauging off of isn't it so maybe we've had another decade then

00:05:21.120 you can give a more no that's what they say but it's been like 50 years it's no it's been like 50

00:05:26.820 years of this yeah so we've had 50 years of like women's empowerment and that's super short

00:05:31.360 but that's very short it's a patriarch and at the end of the day let's have this conversation again

00:05:35.440 when we're like well how come back with us in my friends tell me what did you think everyone here

00:05:40.380 is under 50 right well yeah right so i'm saying everybody's lifetime has had a ton of women's 0.96

00:05:48.760 empowerment so you know it's a little bit more you're saying that women's empowerment but i was

00:05:57.740 alive when there weren't any black people on the tv so i feel like the women's empowerment

00:06:02.940 in what era even now when i was young in the music there was hardly any black people on the tv

00:06:10.120 yes yes black people everywhere on the tv like commercials the phone would ring because oh my 0.97

00:06:17.400 god there's a black person on the tv and i feel like this kind of empowerment of women and like 0.94

00:06:21.760 that's come after the black people on the tv and it's going to take time it's going to take time 0.59

00:06:26.340 i don't like i don't like women's empowerment i think it's actually really insulting 0.98

00:06:30.720 i i to women i think it's very insulting because you're saying we need special treatment and

00:06:35.860 privileges to do things more opportunities we just need more representation treatment we just

00:06:41.580 need representation matters yeah it's very we know we all have feelings we have emotions we all

00:06:47.240 have i i know of course we do you say no no no we do we don't say the exact same thing as that

00:06:53.160 female politician but it's what i'm shaking my head is to you when you said we need representation 1.00

00:06:57.180 i'm saying no i don't think we do need representation i think we need qualified people that are smart

00:07:02.360 and competent and i think we keep putting women into positions we're not good at well maybe they're 0.98

00:07:08.040 putting these certain women the wrong women to these positions to make an example of them say 1.00

00:07:13.340 this is what happens when you put a woman in this position because again it's still a patriarchy and 1.00

00:07:17.460 i ultimately feel like i disagree you disagree no i don't have the opportunity to know so you don't

00:07:23.160 think women should be put in in play and in positions of power no but you don't think that it's a 1.00

00:07:27.880 patriarchy i think i think it's a matriarchy actually i think women typically live life on 1.00

00:07:32.360 easy mode i think where a woman's life is much easier than a man's life i think some women women 1.00

00:07:37.260 no no so but what we actually i'll tell you you you you turn you turn 21 you have the option to 0.98

00:07:45.540 monetize your beauty that that's what you're ugly yeah um even an ugly woman gets more attention 1.00

00:07:51.860 than the average oh i disagree women and i'll give you an i'll give you an example women rate 1.00

00:07:56.860 women if you're pretty women women rate 80 of guys as unattractive even if you're unattractive 0.85

00:08:08.280 i'll give you an example lizzo has built an entire brand off of being unattractive she's not 1.00

00:08:13.060 unattractive she's just overweight she's not ugly she's got a beautiful face yeah i think some men 1.00

00:08:19.520 men don't buy a large like fat chicks i'm saying like okay if you go back if you go back 50 years

00:08:29.580 right and she's not ugly if she was not i don't think she's ugly exactly i don't think she's a good 1.00

00:08:37.420 example i would say she's unattractive because she's severely overweight oh in your opinion i would 1.00

00:08:43.420 say jamaican men jamaican men love fat girls yeah i i think i think i think you know i've had i've 0.98

00:08:49.880 king do african men love fat girl no you don't like this though jamaican men love fat girl 0.97

00:08:56.040 okay okay good good point so what's kind of jamaican men like um fat girls is it the ones that 0.90

00:09:01.960 typically have a lot of resources or the ones that broke and don't have anything i'll be honest and

00:09:05.420 say i don't know the answer to that but i know for a fact i do that a lot of jamaican men love fat

00:09:11.420 girl i love guys feel that yeah they're like big hills if you look at if you look at all the

00:09:17.740 most successful men that i've ever walked to the earth how many of them have you seen walking around

00:09:23.400 with the fat woman but also maybe they like fat girls but because i'm gonna i'm gonna guess i'm

00:09:28.020 gonna guess something right now what about trisha i'm gonna i'm gonna guess something i'm gonna look

00:09:33.840 up jamaica's richest man i'm gonna i'm gonna guess i'm gonna guess i'm gonna guess

00:09:38.760 and let's look at what the men with the most choice pick okay i have no idea rebecca i could 0.98

00:09:50.160 be i could be wrong that's his wife 0.99

00:09:51.860 could be not

00:09:52.460 could be Louise

00:09:52.860 could be not

JustPearlyThings - November 10, 2023

Pearl DROPS The Mic With This Statistic

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