Boss Babe Claims That Men Want Independent Women
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss what makes a good wife and how to be a good one. We also talk about the importance of being an independent woman and how women should be able to stand on their own two feet.
Transcript
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I think companionship, like definitely friendship.
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Do you think men want to talk to women all the time?
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So I'm just going to go off of what you say, so.
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I just, um, because we live in this, in a society like this, in terms of like cooking
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and like traditional things, I genuinely feel like it should be like, you know, divided.
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Do you think all the, like, fixing stuff around the house should be divided half-half,
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I'm just, I'm just, you know, we're gonna, this is the energy, right?
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Do you want to be a wife and what makes a good wife?
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I would say what makes a good wife is being the type of woman that can motivate and inspire
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Because I feel like with a good woman by his side, supporting him, a man can do incredible
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And I feel like some men are lacking that in their lives.
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Like they don't have that woman that's there guiding them and like being supportive and
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Just inspiring a man to be the best version of himself.
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So like if I said, I want to be a good wife and I'm coming to you, how can I inspire?
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Well, I feel like you, you have to be a good woman yourself first.
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Like you have to be, like you have to be basically having your own things.
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You have to be like cultured, worldly, intellectual.
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Um, you have to have things that also inspire the man.
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And I feel like when you have those things as a woman, you can bring those into the relationship
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and the man sees you, he sees your worth, he sees your value.
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Um, because you inspire him to be like that, you know?
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Is this from your parents or did you learn it somewhere else?
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I think my mom really helped my dad become the best version of himself.
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He saw what type of woman she was and he wanted to lock it down straight away.
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Cause my question is more, you said independent.
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And I just went in history, have independent women, have men wanted independent women?
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Like when men have always wanted women that relied on them.
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When I'm, when I meant, sorry, I just want to rephrase that.
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When I meant independent, I meant as in like, she is able to stand on her own two feet.
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She doesn't give off that like needy clinginess.
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Like she can do things around on her own, but she would rather let the man do things for her, if that makes sense.
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But if he wasn't around and God forbid something happened, then she'd be able to stand on her own two feet.
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They don't want to know that you like constantly like need them emotionally, mentally, everything.
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I've never heard a guy say that he doesn't want a girl that needs him.
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There's so many guys that get turned off by it.
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If like, usually it's like a girl that's like a little bit too ugly for him.
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Like typically, like she's a little bit below his typical league.
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Like, have you ever had a guy that was into a girl that's like, oh, she's too needy.
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I mean, I have heard men say that, but I guess maybe they're with the wrong woman.
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Well, I think the woman needs to look after the house.
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I think she have to, um, be there for him, like to support him.
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And I think the friendship, it's important as well.
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So you think she should take care of the house.
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They can even house things they can do together.
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And did you say, do you want, you want to be a wife?
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Well, it's a tricky one for me because I actually was a wife.
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Um, I kind of like the idea of being a wife, equaling things.
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So like paying for dates, supporting our family, supporting a house when it comes to building
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But again, I, I, I understand it comes to some extent.
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We, um, leave obviously because we are with child.
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So you'd say a woman's a bad wife if she leaves.
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Well, if you don't have the reason to stay, you, you have to leave.
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I think like, um, to be married and to have a family, like.
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Um, it's, it's, it's a commitment and it's hard.
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And I feel like a lot of people don't like to go through the hardship, but the hardship
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But the good wives go through the hardship and the bad wives leave.
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I'm just, I'm trying to, I'm trying to understand.
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I would just think if you're good at something, you get it done.
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Um, it goes down to like being a team, you know, and like working on things together
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and progressing the relationship together, you know?
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Um, you know, so if someone's slacking, fair enough.
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And if it is a long period of time or it does affect the relationship or, you know.
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Actually, I want to do the girls first and then the video.
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Do you want to be a wife and what makes a good wife?
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I want to be controversial and say, not really.
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No, I only want, I would only get married if it was something that the other person felt
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But to me, if you're in a relationship and you're that committed to that person, what,
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Like, what is that commitment saying to other people?
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And if I'm not committed to someone that I feel like I should be married to them,
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unless I believe in the religious beliefs behind it.
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I just don't see it as being a bigger progression in the commitment.
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And there shouldn't be something on paper to state that I have to be that way.
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It should just be a mutual agreement that you're both.
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And committed and committed and nothing's going to change about that.
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So personally, it's not something that I like will ever try to force down someone or something
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that I really want, but if they feel very passionately about it and I feel like it's the right time,
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What do you, what do you think makes a good wife?
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So, in all honesty, I think just being there as the other half.
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I know you discuss it as being like, you know, a woman has a role in a relationship,
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And to me, I feel like 50-50 is where that kind of stuff needs to fall into place.
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If you have to look at the person's attributes, what they give to a relationship and break
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I don't think everyone can say, right, you're going to do this.
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You're going to do that because you're the man.
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I think that's what works in a relationship when you let the other person work to their strengths.
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I think there are some things that, regardless whether you're traditional or not, there are
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some things that naturally a man might be better at.
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So there's always going to be things that a man's going to be slightly better at than
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a woman, unless you're an anomaly and you're going to be 10 times stronger than
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I think everything has to be looked at retrospectively and it has to be broken down about each person's
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attributes and what they can give to the situation.
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So what do you think makes a woman a good wife?
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Um, so being able to provide in a sense that you can provide emotionally, whether you can
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If the other person can provide financially, perfect.
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So as a wife, you might need to be able to kick, be able to look after children or be
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able to look after the man or the man be able to look after you and you be receiving to
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Cause I think a lot of women nowadays look at a relationship and think the man should
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But that makes a lot of men very, not a lot of men, but nowadays it makes them quite
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And then they get nervous and then they think, Oh, what if I can't do that?
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You have to be receptive to what they want to do.
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If they want to take you out on a date and they want to pay for everything, let them.
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Um, I can't see cause it's something that I personally, you don't know.
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It's something that I wouldn't really have values on.
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So I don't really think what I'm going to say is going to give you much, much information
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I am not enthusiastic about it with the way that marriage is with, with laws and just
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I mean, like as it was, my parents divorced when I was a kid.
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So I never really had a great argument, uh, you know, great example for sort of marriage
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And obviously as time's gone on, you know, we've seen what's happened in terms of the
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way that society is here in the USA and Canada and Australia, you know, those Western
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To be honest, it's never been something that I've been particularly keen on.
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I've become less keen on the idea as I've gone on really now, in a sense, I agree with
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what you said, because I think longterm relationship, fine commitment.
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You know, there'd have to be a very good reason for doing it or do it somewhere else.
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Like do it over in, um, maybe one of the Latin, you know, Latin American countries
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Was there anything you heard that you thought, yes, that would make a good way?
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I think a lot of the women were a bit light on specifics to, to, to be honest, you know,
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But there's, there's, there's a lot, there wasn't much specifics in terms of what, what is
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So, um, I would say that, but I mean, I, I think really you want somebody who is going
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Um, and I think marriage worked pretty well back in the day when things were more traditional
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And you know, as we know, the majority of divorces are caused by women, you know, 70%
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Which is why, which is why modern women are shitty wives.
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