JustPearlyThings - March 27, 2023


Boss Babe Claims That Men Want Independent Women


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15 minutes

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197.14172

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2,998

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313

Misogynist Sentences

44

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23


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00:00:00.000 I'm gonna do it again.
00:00:00.840 Modern women are crappy wives.
00:00:03.340 So, today my first question is,
00:00:05.480 do you wanna be a wife?
00:00:07.060 Yeah.
00:00:07.900 And if so, what makes a good wife?
00:00:10.540 So starting here and then go around.
00:00:14.140 What makes a good wife?
00:00:16.260 I think companionship, like definitely friendship.
00:00:20.220 I think that's a big thing in a marriage.
00:00:23.320 I wouldn't know that because I'm not married,
00:00:24.620 but you know, something I want
00:00:26.580 is to be literally my partner's best friend.
00:00:30.000 Do you think men want a best friend?
00:00:32.220 Yeah, 100%.
00:00:33.220 100%.
00:00:34.220 Okay.
00:00:35.220 Yeah.
00:00:36.220 Really?
00:00:37.220 I think so.
00:00:38.220 Do you think men want to talk to women all the time?
00:00:39.220 Yeah.
00:00:40.220 Not all the time though.
00:00:41.220 That's what they say.
00:00:42.220 Not all the time.
00:00:43.220 Too much is too much.
00:00:44.220 Not all the time.
00:00:45.220 Okay.
00:00:46.220 Anything else?
00:00:47.220 Just to be there, to show up.
00:00:51.220 Okay.
00:00:52.220 Yeah.
00:00:53.220 Women don't have to do anything
00:00:54.220 but be a best friend and show up to be a wife.
00:00:56.220 Okay.
00:00:57.220 Not just that.
00:00:58.220 I need to elaborate.
00:00:59.220 So I'm just going to go off of what you say, so.
00:01:02.440 Um, just, I don't know.
00:01:06.440 Okay.
00:01:07.440 I just, um, because we live in this, in a society like this, in terms of like cooking
00:01:12.220 and like traditional things, I genuinely feel like it should be like, you know, divided.
00:01:16.440 I think it should be half-half.
00:01:17.440 I think it should be half-half.
00:01:18.440 Yeah.
00:01:19.440 Divided.
00:01:20.440 Definitely.
00:01:21.440 So I don't think it's like a compulsory thing.
00:01:22.440 Do you think all the, like, fixing stuff around the house should be divided half-half,
00:01:25.440 fixing the car?
00:01:26.440 I mean, the oil.
00:01:27.440 I mean, if you can do it.
00:01:31.440 Should the dates be half-half?
00:01:33.440 I'm just, I'm just, you know, we're gonna, this is the energy, right?
00:01:36.440 Okay.
00:01:37.440 Yeah.
00:01:38.440 And that would be a good wife.
00:01:39.440 Yeah.
00:01:40.440 I'll split the chores with you.
00:01:41.440 I'll be your best friend.
00:01:42.440 Yeah.
00:01:43.440 Okay.
00:01:44.440 Okay.
00:01:45.440 Go ahead.
00:01:46.440 Do I think a wife should be...
00:01:47.440 Do you want to be a wife and what makes a good wife?
00:01:50.440 Yeah, I do want to be a wife.
00:01:52.440 I would say what makes a good wife is being the type of woman that can motivate and inspire
00:02:02.440 a man to be the best version of himself.
00:02:04.440 Because I feel like with a good woman by his side, supporting him, a man can do incredible
00:02:12.440 things.
00:02:13.440 And I feel like some men are lacking that in their lives.
00:02:17.440 Like they don't have that woman that's there guiding them and like being supportive and
00:02:23.440 motivating him and lifting him up.
00:02:25.440 And how would a girl do that?
00:02:28.440 Just inspiring a man to be the best version of himself.
00:02:31.440 Like...
00:02:32.440 How?
00:02:33.440 So like if I said, I want to be a good wife and I'm coming to you, how can I inspire?
00:02:39.440 Well, I feel like you, you have to be a good woman yourself first.
00:02:44.440 Like you have to be, like you have to be basically having your own things.
00:02:51.440 Like you have to be independent.
00:02:52.440 You have to be like cultured, worldly, intellectual.
00:02:57.440 Um, you have to have things that also inspire the man.
00:03:00.440 And I feel like when you have those things as a woman, you can bring those into the relationship
00:03:05.440 and the man sees you, he sees your worth, he sees your value.
00:03:08.440 And he's like, I've got to set my game up.
00:03:10.440 Like I've got to be the best man for her.
00:03:12.440 Um, because you inspire him to be like that, you know?
00:03:16.440 And where did you learn this?
00:03:17.440 Is this from your parents or did you learn it somewhere else?
00:03:20.440 Um, I learned it from my parents.
00:03:22.440 Yeah, I did.
00:03:23.440 I think my mom really helped my dad become the best version of himself.
00:03:27.440 She helped him on the straight road.
00:03:30.440 She made him cut out a lot of toxic things.
00:03:33.440 How did she do that?
00:03:35.440 Um, because of her morals.
00:03:37.440 Like she had real strong morals.
00:03:39.440 He saw her value.
00:03:40.440 He saw what type of woman she was and he wanted to lock it down straight away.
00:03:44.440 He was like, this is like a real good woman.
00:03:47.440 Like she's, you know, there for me.
00:03:50.440 She's supporting me.
00:03:51.440 She's trying to help me build.
00:03:53.440 She wants to help me build this empire.
00:03:55.440 So I've got to get my act together.
00:03:56.440 So yeah, I did watch my mom and dad like that.
00:03:58.440 Cause my question is more, you said independent.
00:04:00.440 And I just went in history, have independent women, have men wanted independent women?
00:04:05.440 Like when men have always wanted women that relied on them.
00:04:09.440 When I'm, when I meant, sorry, I just want to rephrase that.
00:04:12.440 When I meant independent, I meant as in like, she is able to stand on her own two feet.
00:04:16.440 Like she doesn't need him.
00:04:18.440 She's not constantly needing him.
00:04:20.440 She doesn't give off that like needy clinginess.
00:04:22.440 Like she can do things around on her own, but she would rather let the man do things for her, if that makes sense.
00:04:28.440 But if he wasn't around and God forbid something happened, then she'd be able to stand on her own two feet.
00:04:33.440 Cause I feel like men do want that.
00:04:35.440 They don't want to know that you like constantly like need them emotionally, mentally, everything.
00:04:43.440 I've never heard a guy say that he doesn't want a girl that needs him.
00:04:46.440 There's so many guys that get turned off by it.
00:04:48.440 If they don't like you.
00:04:50.440 If like, usually it's like a girl that's like a little bit too ugly for him.
00:04:54.440 Like typically, like she's a little bit below his typical league.
00:04:57.440 And like, that's why she's annoying to him.
00:04:58.440 Cause she's not in his like league.
00:05:02.440 Yeah.
00:05:03.440 Like, have you ever had a guy that was into a girl that's like, oh, she's too needy.
00:05:06.440 She wants me too much.
00:05:08.440 I mean, I have heard men say that, but I guess maybe they're with the wrong woman.
00:05:13.440 I guess.
00:05:14.440 Okay.
00:05:15.440 Okay.
00:05:16.440 What do you think?
00:05:17.440 Well, I think the woman needs to look after the house.
00:05:21.440 I think she have to, um, be there for him, like to support him.
00:05:27.440 And I think the friendship, it's important as well.
00:05:31.440 Um, I dunno, the respect as well.
00:05:35.440 Okay.
00:05:36.440 So you think she should take care of the house.
00:05:38.440 She's respectful to him.
00:05:39.440 Yeah.
00:05:40.440 Friendship.
00:05:41.440 I think that's important.
00:05:42.440 Okay.
00:05:43.440 They can be friends.
00:05:44.440 They can do things together.
00:05:45.440 They can even house things they can do together.
00:05:48.440 Okay.
00:05:49.440 All right.
00:05:50.440 Go ahead.
00:05:51.440 It's a weird one for me.
00:05:52.440 Do you want to be a wife?
00:05:53.440 And did you say, do you want, you want to be a wife?
00:05:55.440 Well, it's a tricky one for me because I actually was a wife.
00:05:59.440 Okay.
00:06:00.440 Uh, but now I'm single.
00:06:01.440 So, yeah, I want to be a wife.
00:06:03.440 Okay.
00:06:04.440 All right.
00:06:05.440 Go ahead.
00:06:06.440 Sorry.
00:06:07.440 I just love love.
00:06:08.440 I love love.
00:06:09.440 I love love.
00:06:10.440 Um, I kind of like the idea of being a wife, equaling things.
00:06:17.440 If that makes sense.
00:06:18.440 So like paying for dates, supporting our family, supporting a house when it comes to building
00:06:23.440 stuff.
00:06:24.440 And I think so.
00:06:25.440 I like it though.
00:06:26.440 I love it.
00:06:27.440 Um, so you'll half the money.
00:06:29.440 Yeah.
00:06:30.440 You'll do 50, 50 on the money.
00:06:31.440 But again, I, I, I understand it comes to some extent.
00:06:35.440 So obviously we get pregnant.
00:06:37.440 We, um, leave obviously because we are with child.
00:06:44.440 Um, so.
00:06:46.440 I like the way you said that.
00:06:48.440 With child.
00:06:49.440 With child.
00:06:50.440 I was like, how can I phrase this?
00:06:52.440 But with child.
00:06:53.440 Um, what's your question actually?
00:06:57.440 What makes a good, what makes a good wife?
00:06:59.440 What makes a good wife?
00:07:00.440 Morals.
00:07:01.440 Morals.
00:07:02.440 And I think.
00:07:03.440 Would you include like loyalty in that?
00:07:04.440 Absolutely.
00:07:05.440 Okay.
00:07:06.440 So you'd say a woman's a bad wife if she leaves.
00:07:07.440 No.
00:07:08.440 Right?
00:07:09.440 No.
00:07:10.440 I, I disagree.
00:07:11.440 No.
00:07:12.440 You disagree.
00:07:13.440 Yeah.
00:07:14.440 But how are you a good wife if you leave?
00:07:15.440 Well, if you don't have the reason to stay, you, you have to leave.
00:07:18.440 You know, commitment.
00:07:19.440 Vows.
00:07:20.440 I think like, um, to be married and to have a family, like.
00:07:28.440 I think that's beautiful.
00:07:29.440 And it can be beautiful.
00:07:31.440 Um, it's, it's, it's a commitment and it's hard.
00:07:36.440 Mm hmm.
00:07:37.440 And I feel like a lot of people don't like to go through the hardship, but the hardship
00:07:43.440 makes you stronger.
00:07:44.440 But the good wives go through the hardship and the bad wives leave.
00:07:47.440 No.
00:07:48.440 No.
00:07:49.440 I was asking her, but you can.
00:07:51.440 Sorry.
00:07:52.440 Um.
00:07:53.440 I'm going to think about that one.
00:07:55.440 I'm just, I'm trying to, I'm trying to understand.
00:07:58.440 I don't know.
00:07:59.440 Like there's so many.
00:08:00.440 I would just think if you're good at something, you get it done.
00:08:02.440 Yeah.
00:08:03.440 Um, it goes down to like being a team, you know, and like working on things together
00:08:10.440 and progressing the relationship together, you know?
00:08:14.440 Um, you know, so if someone's slacking, fair enough.
00:08:19.440 Mm hmm.
00:08:20.440 And if it is a long period of time or it does affect the relationship or, you know.
00:08:26.440 Then you got to cut it.
00:08:28.440 Basically.
00:08:29.440 All right.
00:08:30.440 All right.
00:08:31.440 What do you think makes it good?
00:08:32.440 Actually, I want to do the girls first and then the video.
00:08:33.440 Okay.
00:08:34.440 So what do you think?
00:08:35.440 Do you want to be a wife and what makes a good wife?
00:08:37.440 I want to be controversial and say, not really.
00:08:39.440 Don't want to be a wife.
00:08:40.440 No, I only want, I would only get married if it was something that the other person felt
00:08:46.440 really strongly about.
00:08:47.440 Mm hmm.
00:08:48.440 But to me, if you're in a relationship and you're that committed to that person, what,
00:08:53.440 what is a marriage going to do?
00:08:54.440 Like, what is that commitment saying to other people?
00:08:57.440 Exactly.
00:08:58.440 Yeah.
00:08:59.440 And if I'm not committed to someone that I feel like I should be married to them,
00:09:04.440 unless I believe in the religious beliefs behind it.
00:09:07.440 Mm hmm.
00:09:08.440 I just don't see it as being a bigger progression in the commitment.
00:09:12.440 I should be committed regardless.
00:09:13.440 Okay.
00:09:14.440 And there shouldn't be something on paper to state that I have to be that way.
00:09:17.440 Mm hmm.
00:09:18.440 It should just be a mutual agreement that you're both.
00:09:21.440 Just a feeling.
00:09:22.440 And committed and committed and nothing's going to change about that.
00:09:25.440 So personally, it's not something that I like will ever try to force down someone or something
00:09:31.440 that I really want, but if they feel very passionately about it and I feel like it's the right time,
00:09:36.440 I'm okay with that.
00:09:37.440 Okay.
00:09:38.440 But it's just something I don't feel like.
00:09:40.440 What do you, what do you think makes a good wife?
00:09:44.440 So, in all honesty, I think just being there as the other half.
00:09:53.440 Like, I know you discuss about it as being.
00:09:56.440 You just complete them, basically.
00:09:57.440 Yeah.
00:09:58.440 I know you discuss it as being like, you know, a woman has a role in a relationship,
00:10:02.440 but I'm actually bisexual.
00:10:03.440 So to me, it could work either way.
00:10:05.440 Okay.
00:10:06.440 And to me, I feel like 50-50 is where that kind of stuff needs to fall into place.
00:10:11.440 50-50 on everything?
00:10:12.440 Because.
00:10:13.440 Not necessarily.
00:10:14.440 Give and take.
00:10:15.440 Okay.
00:10:16.440 If you have to look at the person's attributes, what they give to a relationship and break
00:10:21.440 it down that way.
00:10:22.440 I don't think it's a one size fits all.
00:10:24.440 I don't think everyone can say, right, you're going to do this.
00:10:27.440 You're going to do that because you're the man.
00:10:29.440 That man could be shit.
00:10:30.440 He could be really bad at it.
00:10:32.440 He could be amazing at it.
00:10:34.440 Perfect.
00:10:35.440 Let them work to their strengths.
00:10:37.440 I think that's what works in a relationship when you let the other person work to their strengths.
00:10:40.440 I agree with you working together.
00:10:41.440 Yeah.
00:10:42.440 Sure.
00:10:43.440 I think there are some things that, regardless whether you're traditional or not, there are
00:10:47.440 some things that naturally a man might be better at.
00:10:50.440 A woman might be better at.
00:10:51.440 We're very different biologically.
00:10:53.440 So there's always going to be things that a man's going to be slightly better at than
00:10:56.440 a woman, unless you're an anomaly and you're going to be 10 times stronger than
00:11:01.440 a man.
00:11:02.440 That's unlikely.
00:11:03.440 So I think, yeah, give or take.
00:11:05.440 I think everything has to be looked at retrospectively and it has to be broken down about each person's
00:11:10.440 attributes and what they can give to the situation.
00:11:12.440 Yeah.
00:11:13.440 So what do you think makes a woman a good wife?
00:11:15.440 Like what's just specific?
00:11:17.440 This is just a bit broad.
00:11:18.440 So I'm just trying to, trying to reign it in.
00:11:20.440 No, fair enough.
00:11:21.440 Um, so being able to provide in a sense that you can provide emotionally, whether you can
00:11:29.440 provide financially is irrelevant.
00:11:30.440 If the other person can provide financially, perfect.
00:11:33.440 You then need to make up for the other gaps.
00:11:36.440 So as a wife, you might need to be able to kick, be able to look after children or be
00:11:40.440 able to look after the man or the man be able to look after you and you be receiving to
00:11:45.440 that.
00:11:46.440 Cause I think a lot of women nowadays look at a relationship and think the man should
00:11:51.440 have to make the first move.
00:11:52.440 Do everything.
00:11:53.440 Do everything.
00:11:54.440 Yeah.
00:11:55.440 But that makes a lot of men very, not a lot of men, but nowadays it makes them quite
00:12:00.440 intimidated.
00:12:01.440 And then they get nervous and then they think, Oh, what if I can't do that?
00:12:05.440 You have to be receptive to what they want to do.
00:12:07.440 If they want to buy food for you, let them.
00:12:09.440 If they want to take you out on a date and they want to pay for everything, let them.
00:12:12.440 I'm asking what does she have to do?
00:12:13.440 She, she has to be receptive to it.
00:12:15.440 Other than receive.
00:12:16.440 What else does she have to do?
00:12:17.440 Um, I can't see cause it's something that I personally, you don't know.
00:12:24.440 It's something that I wouldn't really have values on.
00:12:27.440 So I don't really think what I'm going to say is going to give you much, much information
00:12:32.440 to be honest.
00:12:33.440 Okay.
00:12:34.440 No worries.
00:12:35.440 All right.
00:12:36.440 So question.
00:12:37.440 Do you want to be a husband?
00:12:38.440 Do I want to be a husband?
00:12:39.440 I am not enthusiastic about it with the way that marriage is with, with laws and just
00:12:45.440 with the way the culture is in general.
00:12:48.440 Um, and I've been that way for a long time.
00:12:50.440 I mean, like as it was, my parents divorced when I was a kid.
00:12:53.440 So I never really had a great argument, uh, you know, great example for sort of marriage
00:12:58.440 and that kind of thing anyway.
00:13:00.440 And obviously as time's gone on, you know, we've seen what's happened in terms of the
00:13:03.440 way that society is here in the USA and Canada and Australia, you know, those Western
00:13:08.440 countries, it's, it's, it's not a good deal.
00:13:11.440 To be honest, it's never been something that I've been particularly keen on.
00:13:13.440 I've become less keen on the idea as I've gone on really now, in a sense, I agree with
00:13:18.440 what you said, because I think longterm relationship, fine commitment.
00:13:22.440 Fine.
00:13:23.440 Do you want to put a ring on it?
00:13:25.440 Probably not.
00:13:26.440 You know, there'd have to be a very good reason for doing it or do it somewhere else.
00:13:29.440 Like do it over in, um, maybe one of the Latin, you know, Latin American countries
00:13:33.440 or something like that.
00:13:34.440 Okay.
00:13:35.440 And, um, out of, what did you hear?
00:13:37.440 Who would I marry out of them?
00:13:39.440 No, no, no, no, no.
00:13:42.440 I was going to say, what did you hear today?
00:13:44.440 Was there anything you heard that you thought, yes, that would make a good way?
00:13:48.440 I think a lot of the women were a bit light on specifics to, to, to be honest, you know,
00:13:54.440 there's a lot of stuff.
00:13:55.440 Yeah.
00:13:56.440 Support and blah, blah, blah.
00:13:57.440 But there's, there's, there's a lot, there wasn't much specifics in terms of what, what is
00:14:00.440 a woman actually going to bring to the table?
00:14:02.440 So, um, I would say that, but I mean, I, I think really you want somebody who is going
00:14:11.440 to support you.
00:14:12.440 Who's going to be easy to be around, you know?
00:14:14.440 Um, and I think marriage worked pretty well back in the day when things were more traditional
00:14:21.440 to, to be honest.
00:14:22.440 And I think now we've come away from that.
00:14:24.440 It just doesn't work as well, you know?
00:14:26.440 And, um, we're seeing that.
00:14:27.440 And you know, as we know, the majority of divorces are caused by women, you know, 70%
00:14:32.440 of divorces are initiated by women.
00:14:34.440 So it's women who are.
00:14:35.440 Which is why, which is why modern women are shitty wives.
00:14:38.440 Exactly.
00:14:39.440 Exactly.
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