JustPearlyThings - July 10, 2023


Boss Babe EXPOSES This Fact About Women In The Workforce

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
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10 minutes

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2,031

Sentence count

250

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Misogyny

8

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Toxicity

6

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In this episode, we discuss the differences between men and women in the construction industry. We discuss the pros and cons of working in different industries, the benefits and the downsides of different career options, and what we would do if we didn't have to work.

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00:00:00.000 think, what do women bring to society that is essential? 1.00
00:00:04.260 Yeah, I agree with love.
00:00:06.540 Other words that come to me are sensuality and sensitivity,
00:00:11.340 I heard just then as well.
00:00:14.080 And sensuality can be anything like the appreciation
00:00:19.260 of your daily activity.
00:00:20.920 There's a beautiful flower.
00:00:21.920 There's some amazing architecture.
00:00:23.200 You're tuning into that frequency,
00:00:24.620 that emotional frequency that I think a lot of men
00:00:27.320 don't tend to normally have.
00:00:29.340 I think the argument here is about the argument we're
00:00:31.920 having here, a lot of your responses
00:00:33.360 have been emotional.
00:00:35.660 But there's a beauty in that as well,
00:00:37.420 because we can take that on board in a positive way.
00:00:50.720 So in the jobs that we listed earlier that men perform,
00:00:53.760 vehicle technicians, carpenters, electricians, metal workers,
00:00:57.660 plumbers, machine drivers, forklift drivers, vehicle delivery drivers,
00:01:02.940 onsite construction workers, and window fabricators.
00:01:08.400 How long do you think you would work in any of the 10 jobs listed
00:01:13.860 that men perform?
00:01:14.840 I wouldn't, because it's not my thing to do.
00:01:20.120 Yeah.
00:01:20.620 I'm not good at it.
00:01:21.160 Is that like, I can pick any one of them?
00:01:23.720 I can't.
00:01:24.460 Yeah.
00:01:24.720 So like, how long do you think you would last before you had to cut?
00:01:28.580 I mean, you know, it kind of depends on like the scenario.
00:01:32.400 Like, I'm quite into the idea of a zombie apocalypse,
00:01:35.080 and I reckon I could, you know, like cope if I really need it too.
00:01:39.560 But if you're asking me like, you know, I've got a choice here.
00:01:43.380 I can carry on leading the life I do live in which I sacrifice the amount of money
00:01:48.940 that I'm able to earn in order to be able to work from home for five days a week,
00:01:54.560 nine to five, and manage my own time because I have other priorities.
00:02:00.800 So yeah, if I have a choice that is not something difficult,
00:02:04.520 then I'm not doing something difficult now.
00:02:06.840 I think I'd last six months.
00:02:09.360 Yeah.
00:02:09.660 I think then I would quit.
00:02:11.220 I would last.
00:02:12.000 As a plumber, I would be gone.
00:02:14.040 I would last.
00:02:14.640 These are things I'm into, though.
00:02:16.140 I'm into building.
00:02:17.120 I'm into doing this.
00:02:18.020 So that stuff I wouldn't mind doing and perfecting.
00:02:20.320 Actually, you know, I do my own DIY, and like if there's, you know,
00:02:23.760 a sink that's blocked, I can deal with that myself.
00:02:26.860 Why aren't you doing it then?
00:02:29.080 Why aren't I doing it?
00:02:29.800 Well, no, I am doing it at home because...
00:02:32.460 I mean for the lady that likes to build. 1.00
00:02:34.320 Why aren't you building?
00:02:34.900 Oh, sorry.
00:02:35.540 Why am I not building?
00:02:36.820 Because I work a job where I'm able to make money to travel the world
00:02:40.240 because that's what I want to do right now.
00:02:41.740 I want to travel.
00:02:42.540 I'm trying to work on my acting.
00:02:44.200 I'm trying to do this and do that.
00:02:45.640 And why not?
00:02:45.720 If you can, why not?
00:02:46.440 That's why I'm not.
00:02:47.120 But guess what?
00:02:47.780 If I had money, if I had the money, what did I say the other day?
00:02:51.560 I want to go into mechanic school because I want to learn how to fix cars.
00:02:55.340 This is stuff that I'm genuinely...
00:02:56.500 It's survival.
00:02:57.800 I'm sorry.
00:02:58.260 I have a survival mentality.
00:02:59.680 So these are things I actually want to watch.
00:03:01.700 Yeah, and you want to watch zombie movies as well.
00:03:04.160 You said I watch zombie movies.
00:03:05.240 Yeah, yeah.
00:03:05.860 Wait, what's your day job?
00:03:08.080 Bartending.
00:03:09.360 And we make tips.
00:03:10.260 So I make a lot of money.
00:03:12.100 And that allows...
00:03:13.020 Okay, do you see the disconnect?
00:03:16.220 From what?
00:03:16.740 You're on survival, but your job is a bartender.
00:03:19.500 Yeah.
00:03:20.540 But if you need to survive, you do what you need to do, right?
00:03:22.640 Exactly.
00:03:23.240 I bartend at night.
00:03:24.220 I work on sets during the day.
00:03:25.780 Yeah.
00:03:26.200 I work two jobs.
00:03:26.860 There's nothing wrong with that.
00:03:29.020 But I'm saying that's not like what you're saying.
00:03:30.640 You like to build things.
00:03:32.160 But that is what I do.
00:03:33.120 I think you like to talk.
00:03:34.540 No.
00:03:35.100 Which is okay.
00:03:35.720 I like to talk too.
00:03:36.560 That's why I do what I do.
00:03:37.620 I actually like to build things.
00:03:39.380 Like I literally sit at home.
00:03:41.240 Like when I, let's say, move something breaks, I will fix it.
00:03:44.920 That's things that I actually like.
00:03:46.160 When things go wrong, I will fix them.
00:03:48.080 Yeah.
00:03:48.420 That's the point.
00:03:48.940 That's something I enjoy.
00:03:49.440 If you actually dedicate time to becoming a builder, you make way more money and a way better
00:03:54.340 career than what you're trying to do right now.
00:03:56.880 I would have to always work.
00:03:57.880 You just said you love building.
00:03:59.740 I would have to always work though, right?
00:04:01.400 I would have to always be at work, right?
00:04:03.080 I'm a person who I like freedom, right?
00:04:05.020 So my job gives me freedom.
00:04:06.360 I could take off whenever I can do it.
00:04:07.980 I don't have to come in for a month if I don't want to.
00:04:10.580 That's the type of freedom I like.
00:04:12.120 If I could be a builder, right, and still make the same amount of money a year, but only come
00:04:16.620 in half the year, why wouldn't I do it?
00:04:18.240 You would easily cut.
00:04:19.380 Why wouldn't I do it?
00:04:19.780 You would easily cut.
00:04:20.140 I don't have the same luxury of what you just said.
00:04:24.440 As in?
00:04:25.040 As what?
00:04:25.880 I can't choose a job where I can just get up and go whenever I want.
00:04:30.200 Why can't you?
00:04:31.160 There's a whole bunch of male bartenders I work with. 0.99
00:04:33.520 They do the same thing.
00:04:34.740 They travel the country singing.
00:04:36.320 This is why we say women can never understand the disconnect between women and men. 0.75
00:04:40.720 Just like, obviously, I'm doing a job I enjoy.
00:04:43.440 I'm doing a job I love.
00:04:44.460 And I appreciate having this kind of job.
00:04:46.600 Most people are not even in the position I'm in right now.
00:04:49.140 But I still can't just get up and go whenever I want because of the responsibilities that
00:04:54.400 I have as a man.
00:04:55.260 Yeah, you plan around, obviously.
00:04:56.800 If you want a construction job, tell me.
00:04:58.960 I have connections.
00:05:00.420 Oh, wow.
00:05:00.900 I want a construction job.
00:05:01.960 But that's the thing.
00:05:03.760 You're saying you don't have the luxury because, again, that is the job that you chose.
00:05:07.300 I chose a job that gave me those luxuries.
00:05:09.320 No, it's because the reason why I don't have the luxury to get up and go is not really
00:05:12.700 about the job.
00:05:13.300 It's about the goals I have for my life.
00:05:16.160 So if I were to be getting up and going whenever I wanted to or whenever I felt like, I'm literally
00:05:21.660 putting stops on my way to get into where I need to be in life.
00:05:25.340 But why is that?
00:05:26.220 I have goals, right?
00:05:27.260 I'm sitting here on a podcast, which is networking, which is furthering my goals.
00:05:32.880 Go and look at every successful person that has made any amount of money that you can
00:05:36.420 never be proud of or say, this is a good body of work.
00:05:39.840 They never had the luxury to get up and go whenever they wanted.
00:05:42.380 But we're saying again, women should be, you know, wives and teachers and not think about 1.00
00:05:48.180 money.
00:05:48.640 Men can't think like that.
00:05:50.000 And that's why men are where they are. 0.93
00:05:51.860 And because men would literally work 80 hours a week to get to where they need to get to.
00:05:56.180 But who says that I don't sit there and work?
00:05:58.840 I work 80 hours a week in a 40 hour amount of time.
00:06:03.180 What?
00:06:04.280 Easy.
00:06:04.840 Right?
00:06:05.000 So instead of working seven days a week, right?
00:06:07.780 Instead of working one job seven days a week, I'll work two jobs four days a week.
00:06:12.260 Same thing, right?
00:06:13.260 I'm putting the same time in.
00:06:15.000 And this is literally what I do.
00:06:16.920 And you know what I do in my off time?
00:06:18.360 I go to try to further what I'm getting into, right?
00:06:21.140 I'm trying to move to the UK soon.
00:06:22.780 So what am I doing?
00:06:23.860 Making a name for myself in the UK.
00:06:25.720 I'm still furthering my career.
00:06:28.280 We're doing the same thing.
00:06:29.520 We're just taking different routes to do it.
00:06:31.080 If a man decides that he needs to work 80 hours a week to further himself, that's on him.
00:06:36.340 I chose a job that's going to give me the luxury to do what I need to do for myself that works for me.
00:06:41.640 So tomorrow is your first day on the building site.
00:06:48.100 How long is it going to be until you're back doing what you're doing now?
00:06:52.160 Because I think that's more of the question, isn't it?
00:06:54.500 Is what?
00:06:54.960 If I start working on a building site?
00:06:56.320 Yeah, so construction.
00:06:57.040 How long do you think you'd last in a construction job?
00:06:59.100 In a construction job?
00:07:02.080 What is it?
00:07:02.700 You get two weeks out of vacation, three weeks vacation a year?
00:07:06.120 Maybe.
00:07:07.640 What are the wages?
00:07:09.440 So this is how I would think about it.
00:07:11.240 I would literally think about it like, okay, if I work a construction job for five years, right?
00:07:15.460 I'll work that job, make enough money to build my own whatever company, whatever like that,
00:07:22.080 and now start another business from that.
00:07:23.560 That's how my mind works.
00:07:24.800 Five years.
00:07:26.260 Five years to make enough money to have my own business.
00:07:29.120 It would last five years.
00:07:29.800 No, she's staying in, she's staying in the industry. 0.98
00:07:32.260 I'm staying in the industry.
00:07:32.620 Yeah.
00:07:33.020 But I'm just...
00:07:33.580 She's in for life.
00:07:34.500 She's starting tomorrow.
00:07:36.420 And the next, like, Trump Tower, it's going to be Peeps Tower.
00:07:40.280 Next door, next door, they're building a building.
00:07:41.820 I'll sign you up.
00:07:43.240 You can move to the UK.
00:07:44.420 I promise.
00:07:45.080 If they give me a visa, I promise I'll move here tomorrow and start building.
00:07:48.680 You can get a master's degree and get a visa, you know.
00:07:51.120 You can marry me instead. 0.99
00:07:52.900 There we go.
00:07:53.720 You can get a visa through a master's degree, though, just so you know.
00:07:58.260 What, here?
00:07:58.660 Yeah, you get it with a two-year visa or a two-year degree.
00:08:02.920 No, you can get a master's degree in a year, one year, and then get a visa at the end.
00:08:06.460 And they'll give you a visa.
00:08:07.460 What, indefinite visa?
00:08:08.580 Yeah, it's like two years or something.
00:08:11.340 What, you mean coming here, going to school here?
00:08:13.800 No, like, you get a work visa once you graduate.
00:08:17.400 That's what I'm saying, here or back in America?
00:08:19.240 No, UK.
00:08:20.060 So, do you want to move to the UK?
00:08:21.540 Okay, so just apply for school.
00:08:23.120 Yeah, okay.
00:08:23.860 I have a bachelor's.
00:08:25.120 That's what I did.
00:08:25.800 Yeah, thank you.
00:08:27.560 That was one of the best advice I've had so far.
00:08:29.980 I appreciate it.
00:08:30.620 Yeah, yeah.
00:08:31.120 Sisterhood.
00:08:31.920 Very nice.
00:08:32.300 Yeah, how long do you think you would work?
00:08:34.480 Have you ever worked construction?
00:08:36.020 Any blue collar?
00:08:37.360 Too good looking for that.
00:08:39.360 You know, when I was younger, like, Saturday jobs and stuff like this.
00:08:42.380 Oh, yeah.
00:08:42.700 How long do you think you could have worked a construction job?
00:08:47.680 Not very long, to be honest.
00:08:49.440 I mean, I don't find joy in it.
00:08:51.780 I get stimulation through the practicality of it, yes.
00:08:54.900 But, I mean, you know, I went to study engineering, you know,
00:08:58.760 so it's similar, but I quickly realized I didn't want to get my hands
00:09:01.500 studied for the rest of my life.
00:09:04.020 So, how long?
00:09:06.240 A year.
00:09:06.740 I said six months.
00:09:10.820 I was like, I couldn't be me.
00:09:13.540 I'm like, you're a good looking man.
00:09:14.880 Of course, you're not doing construction.
00:09:16.320 Come on.
00:09:16.980 That's not a construction phase.
00:09:18.360 That I love the buddy.
00:09:19.220 All right.
00:09:19.680 We're going to do one more question, then we're going to close out the show.
00:09:26.980 All right. 0.98
00:09:27.340 If a man were to get a maid, a prostitute, and a cook, 0.98
00:09:31.760 what would the man need a woman for? 0.99
00:09:33.640 To cuddle.
00:09:39.840 To listen to him, and to speak to him, and to be a companion,
00:09:45.000 and to grow together. 0.98
00:09:46.820 That's the prostitutes I have. 1.00
00:09:49.380 They do that with prostitutes now. 1.00
00:09:51.800 I'm sorry.
00:09:52.320 I'm not too involved in the business.
00:09:55.160 Yeah.
00:09:55.520 What services is he buying?
00:09:57.280 Is it the girlfriend experience?
00:09:58.760 Yeah.
00:09:59.260 This is a high-end.