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In this episode, we discuss the importance of loving your job and how important it is for women to have a job. Is it a privilege or a necessity to work? Are women entitled to a job because of their gender or because they are good at it?
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agree with the sentiment loving your job is a privilege not a right oh 100 yeah but actually
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i think um that there is a level of ingratitude that is um not helping people i think that people
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are not sufficiently aware that work really is a part of the human condition that we need
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for its own sake just you know to feel useful to have a reason to get up in the morning to
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be part of team um those things are inherently good for us so i think maybe people complain
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about jobs a little bit too much although you know i do think there is a toxification coming
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from having too many women in the workforce i agree with you and disagree with you loving your job is
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actually a necessity because if we love our what we do we are good at it and we want to strive in it
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and we enjoy it and as simple as that it's easy for us to do and we can give more to the society
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it's definitely a privilege because most people don't like where they work but if you like you
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said uh if you actually love where you work it won't feel like a job it only feels like a job when
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you don't like it so i agree it's a privilege it's not a right you're you're privileged even
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be employed with so with unemployment rate being so high you better be blessed and thankful you even
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have that job complain all you want but you better be thankful you have it yeah and i think um we often
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hear people not enjoying their job or the workplace the people they work with and i think when you catch
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yourself in that mindset perhaps just remind yourself what it allows you to go away and enjoy outside of
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work and you know in that sense it is a privilege to be able to to go to work to do that yeah there's
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some research that shows i think it's seven in ten men are work centered and so the you know
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part of their life that they get the most satisfaction from is work but that still leaves three in ten who
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actually need to work for various reasons including psychological but there are other parts of their
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life from where they're getting more satisfaction and then it's like four in ten women or something
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like that and so you know women are not prioritizing needing to love their jobs um you know some some do
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and that is lovely and i think you know it is there is so much utility in having people who are they have
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a calling and they're following their passion they really do give so much to society but that's not
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all of us and that's fine we all strive to grow right in our personal lives in our relationships and
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education in careers and things like that so if there is a necessity to have a job yes i will do any
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kind of work cleaning or barista whatever it's it's all jobs are a wonderful thing to have but
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eventually i will try to grow and develop into the things i enjoy doing in life and i'm good at
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if i have a talent in singing i want to be a singer eventually right so just just be yourself and grow
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and give yourself time and be proud are women advancement programs sexist of course no i have no
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idea no you are discriminating against men like discrimination is it's not discriminating it's just
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saying hey here's a program we need more women in this field so we offer this program as an incentive
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come on why are there no male um advancement programs in industries like only fans and modeling
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it's called the nba the nfl the mlb those are no no no i asked you i asked you i asked you you don't
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answer my question i asked you in um female dominating industries why are there no incentives
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for men to get equal pay there are advanced like teachers no no i was going to just say that teachers
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there are there are big incentives if you are a especially in in the black community i asked you
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about modeling and only fans but this is not a real job no no i asked you i asked you modeling
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and only fans we could do modeling that's a real job there are plenty of of there's no there's no
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there's no incentive programs and men make significantly less money than women and modeling
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correct anything in monetizing beauty women kill well think about it women in the acting field
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males still dominate everything in that so it's one and one entertainment field modeling only
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so i asked you i asked you modeling that's what i so i asked you in industries that are female
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led why are there not incentives how many men want to model how many women want to
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how many women want to know but but how many women want to be engineers we could do the same thing
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but no so i think a lot of men would look okay okay guys guys i work in fashion industry i have
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just curious i'm just curious the same amounts four random four random guys if you guys could just
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take pictures for money would you do it i have a field modeling career
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if you get paid another money take money out no i asked i asked if they got paid to do it
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of course i literally said i had a field modeling career i'm not i'm not lying about that
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yeah that's what i'm saying i'm hiding you but what i'm saying is that most men are not going to
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sit there and be like yeah i want to be a full-time model like they're going to want to go
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but it's like it's so funny you use the same argument like most women don't want to be engineers
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well yeah but they're all good at it i'm shit at being engineers so i don't want to be but if you
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told women if you told more women like hey if you become an engineer you can have a six figure
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need to go after the modeling and really if we told both of them the same thing they both would
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go for it if you told more women you can make over 500 grand a year why isn't it just what people
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like to do like in no in no industry are you going to get 50 50 like certain groups like certain things
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based on the culture one and two based on your gender your abilities also yeah based on your gender
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you are going to just like certain things like why do we need to like fix it like why do we need to
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change it like there's no law stopping anyone from doing anything so why do we need to encourage
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people to do other things why don't they just do what they like yeah then we'll have nothing to
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argue about but that's the thing you got to remember growing up you did not see women in
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wrong wrong it's so wrong because in the media that's all we have like watch any tv show it's always
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a woman doing a job that she would never in never do like you have all these women and these ceo no
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look at the media the last 50 years it's all women's empowerment bullshit the last 50 years
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when i was young you know what i saw things like married with children right stay at home mom
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dad who goes to work i saw every single family every cosby shows homer simpson he's the stupid dad the
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smart mom family guy the stupid dad the smart mom but and those still show that dad's going to work
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and mom is kind of a homemaker but they always paint the dad as dumb and the woman knows everything
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i i'm saying like the media like why are we trying to push people when there's no barriers anymore
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people do what they want to do so why do we need to change it people do and why do and why like don't
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feminists and women like yourself have the same energy for the men and female oriented careers i have
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the same energy no you don't listen if i grow up right growing up what the what do they encourage
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women to do be a teacher be a doctor these are fields they encourage you to do now with women
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advancement programs they're now saying we don't have to keep telling you go for these same five jobs
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there are other jobs out there you guys can go for and the women say no thank you still not i mean
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it depends yes not all the time if you if you exactly if you sit there and tell somebody right
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if i come from a poor household you sit there and tell me i could make 500 grand a year let's say as
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a engineer guess what i'm doing signing up for the first engineer class right yeah but you know what
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else you're doing after you've got into the engineer class and maybe you know spent a lot of
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taxpayers or parents money or whoever like whatever you are meeting a guy there who's so amazing
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and you are getting married and you're dropping out of the workforce so you've just wasted your
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time is that what happened to you in canada i wish in canada no but no it's it's just sort of you
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know quite a statistically common thing in canada they talked about it they can't pay women um jordan
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peterson talks about how you would coach women to get more money they could not pay female lawyers to
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stay because they would hit 30 they'd be on track to be partner and they would say you know what i want to go
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home so it's like why are we forcing women and encouraging women to do things that are not good
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for us we know it's not good for us to work the same way men do so it's like if anything i actually
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think it's really unkind to women to push us into these fields that we will one it's going to affect
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our relationships because we become too masculine and two and two we we don't like those jobs so we go
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into the jobs because the society's pushing us into a job we don't even want we do it and just
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like the girl that went through the engineering degree and what'd she do she dropped out