JustPearlyThings - July 10, 2023


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Length

9 minutes

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185.18146

Word count

1,837

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

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Hate speech

7

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the importance of loving your job and how important it is for women to have a job. Is it a privilege or a necessity to work? Are women entitled to a job because of their gender or because they are good at it?

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00:00:00.000 agree with the sentiment loving your job is a privilege not a right oh 100 yeah but actually
00:00:07.640 i think um that there is a level of ingratitude that is um not helping people i think that people
00:00:16.620 are not sufficiently aware that work really is a part of the human condition that we need
00:00:22.900 for its own sake just you know to feel useful to have a reason to get up in the morning to
00:00:29.040 be part of team um those things are inherently good for us so i think maybe people complain
00:00:37.180 about jobs a little bit too much although you know i do think there is a toxification coming
00:00:44.260 from having too many women in the workforce i agree with you and disagree with you loving your job is
00:00:51.300 actually a necessity because if we love our what we do we are good at it and we want to strive in it
00:00:56.860 and we enjoy it and as simple as that it's easy for us to do and we can give more to the society
00:01:02.100 it's definitely a privilege because most people don't like where they work but if you like you
00:01:08.080 said uh if you actually love where you work it won't feel like a job it only feels like a job when
00:01:13.840 you don't like it so i agree it's a privilege it's not a right you're you're privileged even
00:01:20.120 be employed with so with unemployment rate being so high you better be blessed and thankful you even
00:01:26.020 have that job complain all you want but you better be thankful you have it yeah and i think um we often
00:01:32.220 hear people not enjoying their job or the workplace the people they work with and i think when you catch
00:01:37.960 yourself in that mindset perhaps just remind yourself what it allows you to go away and enjoy outside of
00:01:43.200 work and you know in that sense it is a privilege to be able to to go to work to do that yeah there's
00:01:51.320 some research that shows i think it's seven in ten men are work centered and so the you know
00:01:58.500 part of their life that they get the most satisfaction from is work but that still leaves three in ten who
00:02:05.420 actually need to work for various reasons including psychological but there are other parts of their
00:02:13.180 life from where they're getting more satisfaction and then it's like four in ten women or something 1.00
00:02:18.740 like that and so you know women are not prioritizing needing to love their jobs um you know some some do 1.00
00:02:29.600 and that is lovely and i think you know it is there is so much utility in having people who are they have
00:02:38.560 a calling and they're following their passion they really do give so much to society but that's not
00:02:44.720 all of us and that's fine we all strive to grow right in our personal lives in our relationships and
00:02:50.340 education in careers and things like that so if there is a necessity to have a job yes i will do any
00:02:56.280 kind of work cleaning or barista whatever it's it's all jobs are a wonderful thing to have but
00:03:02.360 eventually i will try to grow and develop into the things i enjoy doing in life and i'm good at
00:03:07.840 if i have a talent in singing i want to be a singer eventually right so just just be yourself and grow
00:03:15.220 and give yourself time and be proud are women advancement programs sexist of course no i have no
00:03:24.060 idea no you are discriminating against men like discrimination is it's not discriminating it's just
00:03:32.300 saying hey here's a program we need more women in this field so we offer this program as an incentive 1.00
00:03:39.600 come on why are there no male um advancement programs in industries like only fans and modeling 1.00
00:03:46.620 it's called the nba the nfl the mlb those are no no no i asked you i asked you i asked you you don't
00:03:57.320 answer my question i asked you in um female dominating industries why are there no incentives 1.00
00:04:03.280 for men to get equal pay there are advanced like teachers no no i was going to just say that teachers
00:04:08.100 there are there are big incentives if you are a especially in in the black community i asked you
00:04:13.940 about modeling and only fans but this is not a real job no no i asked you i asked you modeling
00:04:19.560 and only fans we could do modeling that's a real job there are plenty of of there's no there's no
00:04:25.380 there's no incentive programs and men make significantly less money than women and modeling
00:04:30.600 correct anything in monetizing beauty women kill well think about it women in the acting field 1.00
00:04:37.020 males still dominate everything in that so it's one and one entertainment field modeling only 1.00
00:04:42.420 so i asked you i asked you modeling that's what i so i asked you in industries that are female 1.00
00:04:48.040 led why are there not incentives how many men want to model how many women want to
00:04:54.660 how many women want to know but but how many women want to be engineers we could do the same thing 1.00
00:05:00.240 but no so i think a lot of men would look okay okay guys guys i work in fashion industry i have
00:05:06.800 just curious i'm just curious the same amounts four random four random guys if you guys could just
00:05:11.960 take pictures for money would you do it i have a field modeling career
00:05:16.300 i'm hiding you would your dream job be a model
00:05:21.520 if you get paid another money take money out no i asked i asked if they got paid to do it
00:05:29.320 of course i literally said i had a field modeling career i'm not i'm not lying about that
00:05:33.800 yeah that's what i'm saying i'm hiding you but what i'm saying is that most men are not going to
00:05:37.840 sit there and be like yeah i want to be a full-time model like they're going to want to go
00:05:41.300 but it's like it's so funny you use the same argument like most women don't want to be engineers
00:05:47.020 well yeah but they're all good at it i'm shit at being engineers so i don't want to be but if you 0.72
00:05:51.580 told women if you told more women like hey if you become an engineer you can have a six figure
00:05:57.800 need to go after the modeling and really if we told both of them the same thing they both would
00:06:02.460 go for it if you told more women you can make over 500 grand a year why isn't it just what people
00:06:08.060 like to do like in no in no industry are you going to get 50 50 like certain groups like certain things
00:06:14.940 based on the culture one and two based on your gender your abilities also yeah based on your gender
00:06:21.320 you are going to just like certain things like why do we need to like fix it like why do we need to
00:06:26.520 change it like there's no law stopping anyone from doing anything so why do we need to encourage
00:06:31.420 people to do other things why don't they just do what they like yeah then we'll have nothing to
00:06:34.920 argue about but that's the thing you got to remember growing up you did not see women in 0.99
00:06:40.340 wrong wrong it's so wrong because in the media that's all we have like watch any tv show it's always
00:06:46.780 a woman doing a job that she would never in never do like you have all these women and these ceo no 1.00
00:06:53.640 look at the media the last 50 years it's all women's empowerment bullshit the last 50 years
00:06:59.920 when i was young you know what i saw things like married with children right stay at home mom 0.78
00:07:06.480 dad who goes to work i saw every single family every cosby shows homer simpson he's the stupid dad the 0.89
00:07:13.620 smart mom family guy the stupid dad the smart mom but and those still show that dad's going to work
00:07:19.920 and mom is kind of a homemaker but they always paint the dad as dumb and the woman knows everything 1.00
00:07:25.260 i i'm saying like the media like why are we trying to push people when there's no barriers anymore
00:07:31.360 people do what they want to do so why do we need to change it people do and why do and why like don't
00:07:37.240 feminists and women like yourself have the same energy for the men and female oriented careers i have 1.00
00:07:44.380 the same energy no you don't listen if i grow up right growing up what the what do they encourage
00:07:51.000 women to do be a teacher be a doctor these are fields they encourage you to do now with women
00:07:55.860 advancement programs they're now saying we don't have to keep telling you go for these same five jobs
00:08:00.740 there are other jobs out there you guys can go for and the women say no thank you still not i mean 0.86
00:08:07.720 it depends yes not all the time if you if you exactly if you sit there and tell somebody right
00:08:13.840 if i come from a poor household you sit there and tell me i could make 500 grand a year let's say as
00:08:19.820 a engineer guess what i'm doing signing up for the first engineer class right yeah but you know what
00:08:24.400 else you're doing after you've got into the engineer class and maybe you know spent a lot of
00:08:28.940 taxpayers or parents money or whoever like whatever you are meeting a guy there who's so amazing
00:08:34.880 and you are getting married and you're dropping out of the workforce so you've just wasted your
00:08:38.860 time is that what happened to you in canada i wish in canada no but no it's it's just sort of you
00:08:44.880 know quite a statistically common thing in canada they talked about it they can't pay women um jordan
00:08:49.980 peterson talks about how you would coach women to get more money they could not pay female lawyers to
00:08:55.100 stay because they would hit 30 they'd be on track to be partner and they would say you know what i want to go
00:09:00.960 home so it's like why are we forcing women and encouraging women to do things that are not good 0.96
00:09:06.520 for us we know it's not good for us to work the same way men do so it's like if anything i actually
00:09:12.860 think it's really unkind to women to push us into these fields that we will one it's going to affect 1.00
00:09:18.460 our relationships because we become too masculine and two and two we we don't like those jobs so we go
00:09:25.920 into the jobs because the society's pushing us into a job we don't even want we do it and just
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