JustPearlyThings - November 03, 2023


@christinegracesmith DEBUNKS Female Nature


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8 minutes

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180.5426

Word count

1,484

Sentence count

183

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Misogyny

15

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15

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In this episode, we discuss the role of women in society and the role that women play in society. We discuss the benefits and disadvantages of being a wife, mother and wife. We also talk about the benefits of being in a government-run marriage.

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00:00:00.000 Did women start doing that? 1.00
00:00:01.120 Where do they learn this from?
00:00:02.400 Where do they learn to keep the kids from the dad? 0.99
00:00:05.120 Each other.
00:00:06.260 They learn it from each other.
00:00:07.560 They tell each other, call someone up.
00:00:09.060 All you have to say is he abused you and then you get the kids.
00:00:11.220 And then you'll get money as well.
00:00:13.360 But didn't you say to call your friend if you're having an argument?
00:00:16.440 Isn't that the same friend?
00:00:17.600 No, no, no, no.
00:00:17.940 I did not say call your friend if you have an argument.
00:00:20.280 Absolutely not.
00:00:21.000 You don't tell people outside of your relationship about arguments.
00:00:23.760 I said if you have something that you're nagging about,
00:00:26.500 when I hear nagging, I think that that's something insignificant.
00:00:29.280 So for example, she gave the example of dishes.
00:00:32.340 If it's something like the dishes, ultimately that's her problem.
00:00:36.360 She's letting dishes annoy you. 1.00
00:00:37.520 If they annoy you that much, do it yourself.
00:00:39.300 So you could go and call your mum or tell your friend,
00:00:42.100 he didn't do the dishes and it drove me nuts because that's her issue.
00:00:45.200 An argument is an issue within the relationship.
00:00:47.640 That shouldn't go outside of the relationship.
00:00:50.060 I would never, ever tell anyone to take issues that are within a relationship
00:00:54.360 outside of a relationship because that's wrong on all levels.
00:00:56.980 It fuels it more.
00:00:59.280 Where are women learning? 1.00
00:01:00.620 I just think when women get power, we're bad people. 1.00
00:01:03.440 Yeah.
00:01:03.620 I don't know what it is.
00:01:04.680 Whenever.
00:01:05.700 Why?
00:01:06.060 Emotions.
00:01:06.960 Why?
00:01:07.520 Emotions.
00:01:07.880 It's the scorn of a woman. 1.00
00:01:10.580 Yeah.
00:01:11.140 I think, I mean, I'm Catholic.
00:01:12.840 I think there's a natural order in the world.
00:01:14.820 So I think it's supposed to go God, men, women, children. 0.70
00:01:19.480 Arguably government in there too.
00:01:21.220 But let's just stick to the family unit.
00:01:23.160 God, men, women, children.
00:01:24.360 I think evil happens when you tell women that they're equal to men. 1.00
00:01:28.280 And that's typically like the last hundred years.
00:01:30.340 What policies have women passed since they've gotten the most political power? 1.00
00:01:34.240 They've passed policies that oppress men.
00:01:36.980 But, Paul.
00:01:37.760 Yeah, go ahead.
00:01:38.140 And what King said earlier, that there was an equilibrium going on before where the women 0.99
00:01:46.420 would have to go out, go get a dinner and then build the home.
00:01:49.760 Is that what he said?
00:01:50.620 An equal.
00:01:51.160 Yeah, I said that.
00:01:51.980 But she was still under the authority of her man, even when she was working alongside him.
00:01:56.520 So she's got to do everything.
00:01:58.980 I'm not saying she has to do everything.
00:02:00.280 I mean, the man was still providing for the family, but the woman was working alongside
00:02:05.500 him.
00:02:06.660 Yeah.
00:02:06.980 Now, this idea that women, oh, it was way harder before. 1.00
00:02:11.580 Oh, my gosh.
00:02:12.260 Have you Googled, like, have you heard of Amish people anymore?
00:02:14.780 Yeah.
00:02:15.740 Google, like, a day in the life of the Amish and tell me if most women could do that 1.00
00:02:20.020 over a desk job.
00:02:21.220 Most women couldn't. 1.00
00:02:22.120 No, I couldn't.
00:02:22.500 No, for sure.
00:02:23.800 No, but that's like this idea that women were just at home, like, sitting, doing nothing. 1.00
00:02:28.200 I'm like, life was hard for most of history.
00:02:31.640 Like, I promise you, your desk job is not harder than what the women of times past did. 1.00
00:02:39.160 Physically.
00:02:40.000 Yeah.
00:02:40.660 Mentally.
00:02:41.420 Well, I would say it's harder on women to be away from the family, right? 1.00
00:02:44.700 That's what we got, like, work husbands. 1.00
00:02:46.480 You know, it's tough when you're around people all the time, you know, to not mix that stuff.
00:02:50.960 That's why they typically do.
00:02:55.680 Okay.
00:02:56.260 So what about you?
00:02:57.620 Men in marriage? 0.69
00:03:00.360 The traditional Western marriage? 0.77
00:03:02.200 Yeah.
00:03:03.220 They don't gain nothing, as you said previously.
00:03:06.880 They can get everything without being married. 0.89
00:03:09.600 Contracts.
00:03:10.400 Okay.
00:03:10.960 You don't need to sign a contract.
00:03:12.200 You can get it all.
00:03:13.480 Okay.
00:03:14.380 What about you, Sterling?
00:03:15.640 What should a guy get out of marriage? 0.63
00:03:17.180 Well, I mean.
00:03:17.820 Cow milking?
00:03:21.160 Chicken coop building and maintenance.
00:03:23.560 Yeah.
00:03:24.820 What a guy can get.
00:03:26.780 There's only one thing that a guy can actually get out of, like, a traditional, like, legal
00:03:32.480 government marriage.
00:03:33.820 And that's immigration papers.
00:03:35.760 Yeah.
00:03:36.200 Yeah.
00:03:36.540 Documents.
00:03:37.180 That's it.
00:03:37.880 That's it.
00:03:40.040 Passport.
00:03:40.840 And another passport.
00:03:42.040 Documents, basically.
00:03:43.540 That's the only circumstance.
00:03:45.800 That is the best answer.
00:03:47.040 Actually, also, I think potential alibi.
00:03:50.540 Yes.
00:03:51.540 Yeah.
00:03:52.180 You look like getting personal now, boy.
00:03:54.140 You look like getting real personal now.
00:03:55.860 Actually, I'll add to that.
00:03:58.360 Now you've mentioned it.
00:03:58.940 I'll add to that.
00:03:59.340 There is, like, nuance, depending upon how complex your business is.
00:04:03.880 You can put things in your wife's name that you couldn't put in a girlfriend's name.
00:04:07.900 Documents.
00:04:08.480 So, there are some paper.
00:04:09.900 So, basically, paper for more paper.
00:04:11.520 Paper.
00:04:11.800 Yeah.
00:04:12.340 Paper for paper.
00:04:13.240 Paper.
00:04:13.560 Yeah.
00:04:14.360 If there's no benefit in it, if there's no benefit for a man, why are you seeking that?
00:04:19.320 I don't want to get legally married.
00:04:21.580 I would get religiously married.
00:04:23.200 Okay.
00:04:23.440 Because that's, like, for me, that's...
00:04:26.340 In your mind, what's the difference?
00:04:28.160 Well, government has nothing to do with this.
00:04:30.460 Yeah.
00:04:30.600 I'm not signing any paperwork.
00:04:32.040 Keeping the government out is good.
00:04:33.420 It's done in a church with a priest and maybe a couple of family members, but it's under God.
00:04:37.360 The state has no goddamn business in it.
00:04:39.820 Like, that's why.
00:04:41.240 Yeah.
00:04:42.600 And it would probably be because I would primarily choose to be with a Christian girl.
00:04:45.760 Well, and he's marrying below 25, non-whore. 1.00
00:04:52.560 No kids.
00:04:54.560 Like, there's some benefit, you know, but...
00:04:57.460 Oh, loads of benefit.
00:04:58.240 Yeah, but he's not...
00:04:59.780 Yeah, he's not getting the old ladies, right? 1.00
00:05:03.720 That's what's back on me.
00:05:06.880 Okay.
00:05:07.900 What...
00:05:08.540 Okay.
00:05:09.040 What do you think?
00:05:09.880 Yeah, I mean, if we're thinking actual, physical, what can you gain?
00:05:16.680 I think that you've said everything, really.
00:05:19.200 I think if it's not a legal marriage and it's, say, a religious marriage, you know, what you should gain, if we say in an ideal world where women aren't incentivized to get divorced and take the kids, in an ideal world, you should get what the vows are.
00:05:34.020 Someone who is undoubtedly going to follow your lead, doesn't need to have everything ran by them, is just going to let you do whatever you want, not do whatever you want.
00:05:43.060 Like, you know, if you say, oh, I'm going to go out and do something that's going to get you hurt, you know, you would try and say maybe don't do that.
00:05:50.720 If they do it at the end of the day, like, it's someone who's going to stay with you in sickness and in health till death do us part, till death do us part, not when I'm no longer happy and I decide that I deserve something else at 55 or whatever it may be.
00:06:04.480 It should be what the vows are, but we don't live in an ideal world.
00:06:07.780 So, yeah, you don't really get anything out of it, apart from maybe a visa.
00:06:11.100 That was a good answer.
00:06:11.820 You guys are creative.
00:06:13.860 What about you?
00:06:14.980 What do you think men should get out of marriage?
00:06:16.680 Well, I mean, what they should get is, as the vows actually said, but what I believe that they should get is, if I'm going to marry you, you should start building my credit score or something.
00:06:27.080 Because I'm going to...
00:06:27.920 You're cheeky.
00:06:31.560 You should build my credit score, especially if it's only just me spending the money.
00:06:34.640 Oh, that's something else, actually.
00:06:36.320 In rare cases, I think you could gain status.
00:06:41.160 Credit.
00:06:41.220 So, like, you mentioned about credit scores.
00:06:43.820 So, for example, you know, when you get married and you go to get a mortgage, if you're with someone who, say, the woman's got a better credit score, you know, that way you guys might be able to get a house.
00:06:57.080 Or a guarantor.
00:06:58.940 Yeah.
00:07:00.220 I mean, that's the case.
00:07:01.060 That's the documents.
00:07:02.660 If you get Bill Gates' daughter.
00:07:04.820 Yeah.
00:07:06.260 Say that again?
00:07:06.900 No credit score.
00:07:07.720 King had some strong thoughts on that relationship, huh, King?
00:07:11.880 My man smiled, right?
00:07:13.000 I'm off on this one.
00:07:15.840 Okay.
00:07:16.780 What do you think?
00:07:18.180 If we're talking on the basis of the terminology, marriage, I just believe nothing.
00:07:23.240 I do agree with the vows.
00:07:24.940 And I do agree with what Sterling said.
00:07:27.960 And just respect.
00:07:29.360 And it should be the original vows.
00:07:30.920 Yes.
00:07:31.100 I want to clarify that.
00:07:32.060 Because I have spoken to people I know and asked them about the vow of to, I think it's to submit and obey.
00:07:43.320 And almost everyone says that they chose to have that taken out.
00:07:46.300 But it's the main part of marriage.
00:07:47.580 And I think that's disgusting.
00:07:49.060 Yeah.
00:07:49.320 So I guess the summary of all of this is that marriage by the state is designed for women.
00:07:56.440 Correct.
00:07:57.060 Yeah.
00:07:58.340 A thousand percent.
00:07:59.340 You want to pull up the video?
00:08:00.480 Okay.
00:08:00.720 Okay.
00:08:03.320 Okay.
00:08:09.480 Bye.
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