JustPearlyThings - March 16, 2023


City boy reveals the truth about nice guys


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13 minutes

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186.761

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2,543

Sentence count

229

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Misogyny

32

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Toxicity

76

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Hate speech

30

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On this episode of the WDFA Podcast, the boys talk about women and sex. Do you think men would act differently if women acted differently? Do you agree or disagree with the guys that are nice to women? What do you think about women ignoring the nice guys?

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00:00:00.720 Do you think you would act differently if women did? 0.99
00:00:05.720 Say again. 0.87
00:00:06.720 Would you act, do you think, I'm trying to rephrase this in a better way.
00:00:13.580 If we were in a more, like I'm just wondering, because they always say like women, like the way that men act are a result of the women, right?
00:00:21.140 So I'm just wondering if like women were acting in a different way if you would too. 1.00
00:00:25.620 If they act in a different way.
00:00:30.540 Yeah, like not.
00:00:31.420 What you mean? 0.99
00:00:32.120 You know, not like sluts. 1.00
00:00:35.680 Nah, because that shit was, I love sluts, man. 1.00
00:00:39.980 I love hoes. 1.00
00:00:40.780 I really do.
00:00:42.040 Like we try to act like we don't love hoes, but we really do love hoes. 1.00
00:00:45.040 We just don't want to love hoes. 1.00
00:00:46.540 You know what I'm saying?
00:00:47.300 We love hoes, but we just don't want to love hoes, like for real, for real. 1.00
00:00:50.760 Nah, I think, I think that's the hypocritical thing about it because now I have to actually get down. 1.00
00:00:57.000 I have to actually take my time to get to know a woman before she give me some pussy. 1.00
00:01:00.960 You know what I'm saying? 1.00
00:01:02.180 So you have to do that now?
00:01:03.980 They need it.
00:01:04.820 Oh, oh, you're saying. 0.94
00:01:06.320 But you'd have to get to know a woman if girls, if you didn't have like girls that were acting slutty, wouldn't you? 1.00
00:01:11.940 Like then you probably would, right? 0.82
00:01:14.340 Yeah, you'd be forced to.
00:01:15.940 Yeah.
00:01:16.720 But it's like when.
00:01:17.660 You'd be forced to.
00:01:18.140 So in a way, it's like men's behavior in a way is our fault.
00:01:24.720 You could say that.
00:01:25.760 You could say that.
00:01:26.440 I said, I said this one day. 1.00
00:01:27.740 I said, oh, shit, you're right. 1.00
00:01:29.980 Yeah. 1.00
00:01:30.440 Yeah, because it's going to, it's going to, it's going to control how we react and act towards women when it comes to sex. 0.99
00:01:37.520 When it's so easily able to get, then the women that men ignore is the women that's not giving the shit up. 0.99
00:01:46.060 And he go get to a woman, you know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:01:48.480 We pass up and get women all the time. 1.00
00:01:51.000 So it's just like, yeah.
00:01:52.520 It's a, it's a, it's a.
00:01:55.920 Sorry, keep going. 1.00
00:01:56.740 Oh, it's a, it's like one of them goddamn, I can't even, like a double-edged sword type shit. 0.99
00:02:04.560 Like women should, women should act a little bit more, I guess, reserved. 1.00
00:02:11.800 You feel me?
00:02:12.440 Do you think women ignore the nice guys?
00:02:20.360 Do you think that's true?
00:02:21.500 Like the guys that would treat them right and like would stick around, take care of the kid?
00:02:28.060 I think women ignore, ignore guys like that because they are born. 0.99
00:02:35.300 It's nice guys that add excitement to women's life.
00:02:37.960 But I, I do think the nice, most of these nice guys, they probably is born.
00:02:43.240 I'm a nice guy some type of way.
00:02:45.060 I might not just be nice to that particular woman.
00:02:48.040 So, yeah, yeah, they, they can, yeah. 0.90
00:02:51.040 I don't think, it's just lame dudes. 0.99
00:02:52.940 It's just lame dudes getting, yeah, they, these lame ass niggas, they getting ignored. 1.00
00:02:57.880 Yeah. 0.99
00:02:59.580 Do you want a blessing?
00:03:02.300 Do you, do you have the breakfast club clip?
00:03:05.020 I was going to see if we could react to it.
00:03:06.640 Are we able to do that?
00:03:07.960 Yeah.
00:03:08.220 Cool.
00:03:09.140 I was going to react, see if I could get your reaction.
00:03:12.040 Have you seen the breakfast club clip?
00:03:16.480 Yes.
00:03:17.200 Yeah, yeah.
00:03:17.740 Okay.
00:03:18.360 I heard it.
00:03:19.080 I ain't know if it's, I ain't know if it's a video or not.
00:03:24.380 Okay.
00:03:25.300 Let's see. 1.00
00:03:25.860 Damn, Solomon. 1.00
00:03:49.340 Okay. 1.00
00:03:50.180 Who got the donkey of the day today? 0.76
00:03:58.260 Well, Jess hilarious.
00:03:59.560 Donkey of the day for Monday, March 6th goes to a man with seven kids and seven baby mamas.
00:04:04.660 Now, I try not to pay attention to these people.
00:04:07.040 You know what I'm saying?
00:04:07.600 I see these people telling these outlandish stories on YouTube and TikTok because nowadays,
00:04:12.280 folks is saying and doing anything to get some attention and being that we live in a world where nobody cares about the truth.
00:04:17.980 If the lie is more entertaining, folks just be getting online telling these outlandish stories just to get some clicks and subscribers.
00:04:24.980 Now, I don't know if this story is real, but the idea is, and that's what I like to discuss and critique, the idea.
00:04:31.160 Okay, the idea that digital D-heads like this young man put on the FBI's internet. 0.98
00:04:35.960 Now, as I told you, this man got seven kids and seven baby mamas, but he don't take care of none of them.
00:04:41.020 Okay?
00:04:41.420 Not a one.
00:04:42.440 Why?
00:04:43.080 Because he said he told those young ladies from the beginning that he don't want them.
00:04:47.060 Now, let's go to the FBI's main source for Exhibit A's YouTube to hear this young man speak.
00:04:52.120 Now, for the past few days, I've been going live, telling my story, speaking my truth, and a lot of women having an issue calling me a deadbeat because I tell them I was being irresponsible yet not wearing protection. 0.72
00:05:03.880 But I always tell these women that I got pregnant that I do not want to be a father to these children, and I offer to pay for the abortion. 0.99
00:05:14.280 Majority of times, they'll either take the abortion or they'll take a plan B, but only these seven have kept these children.
00:05:22.120 But the crazy thing about it is, they want me to be responsible for some children I told them I did not want.
00:05:29.440 So, for some years now, some of them been trying to get in contact with me, access denied, because I don't really know why you're trying to get in contact with me.
00:05:37.640 I didn't told you I did not want them kids.
00:05:39.860 We both was irresponsible about the decisions we made that night.
00:05:44.380 Yeah, I could have pulled out, but I didn't.
00:05:46.300 And I didn't care to pull out, because I'm not the one that's going to have to carry a baby for nine months.
00:05:51.700 It's the woman.
00:05:53.000 In my opinion, women should be more careful on who they sleep with. 1.00
00:05:57.300 True.
00:05:58.500 Portia, you just said earlier that women need to watch who they sleep with. 1.00
00:06:02.340 I mean, damn. 0.99
00:06:03.980 I just just digested how savage this man is. 1.00
00:06:09.740 Listen.
00:06:11.280 I mean, okay, let's just be real.
00:06:14.200 He's not the first man to tell somebody to take a plan B.
00:06:17.060 He's not the first man to say he don't want a child.
00:06:19.020 So, at the end of the day, that's why we got child support.
00:06:22.340 You still got to pay for this child.
00:06:24.160 He need to be telling this story in jail, right around the lunch table.
00:06:27.860 Yes, he does.
00:06:28.880 Because just because you decided that you don't want to pay for the child don't mean that you shouldn't have to.
00:06:33.200 I feel that proper poo-poo management is essential for a healthier life. 1.00
00:06:37.840 I feel this man is out here passing along sexually transmitted demons, okay, to whoever wants them. 0.98
00:06:43.500 And, yes, this man is a demon, and they should change that purple smiling face emoji with horns to his face because this is true demon time. 0.96
00:06:49.780 And I really wish this young man would have made this video after baby mama number one. 0.94
00:06:55.300 Because if he would have made this video after baby mama number one, then he would have never gotten the seven baby mamas.
00:06:59.760 And if he did, then every single one of them deserved the baby father they got.
00:07:03.760 Because when the deadbeat tells you who they are, believe them.
00:07:06.620 And it does amaze me that this young man is putting the responsibility not to get pregnant solely on the woman.
00:07:12.960 Can I hear more of this guy?
00:07:14.760 Another thing is, these just jump-offs.
00:07:17.620 These are the type of women that I ain't even had to do nothing for. 1.00
00:07:20.500 The bad minimum, but they gave me access to their body. 0.68
00:07:23.740 And they think I want to be a father to a child for one of them?
00:07:28.700 Wait, I don't even have no type of love for these women. 0.96
00:07:32.480 How do they expect me to love these children?
00:07:34.700 I can offer to a pay-for abortion, but at what point can I force a woman to go get an abortion? 1.00
00:07:41.660 I cannot.
00:07:42.980 A woman say, my body, my choice. 0.99
00:07:45.800 But I say, it's my life, my choice. 1.00
00:07:49.060 Before y'all try to stitch this shit and be like, black man this, black man that, I don't give a f***. 1.00
00:07:53.660 I could have sworn he was going to say, she say, her body, her baby. 1.00
00:07:58.040 Because that's how he feel.
00:07:59.620 He's done.
00:08:00.320 I wish you could have saw your face when he said, these girls give me their body for the bare minimum. 1.00
00:08:06.280 Like, what?
00:08:08.680 What?
00:08:09.780 Oh, man. 1.00
00:08:10.760 This guy's disgusting. 0.99
00:08:12.280 Like, one thing I can say about Nick Cannon, this man has his baby. 0.99
00:08:15.580 Wait a minute, we on the subject of multiple babies and multiple mamas.
00:08:19.940 We got to bring him up.
00:08:21.160 Don't act like y'all didn't think this story was his name at first.
00:08:23.660 You know.
00:08:23.900 But anyway, at least he take care of his kids.
00:08:27.620 That is true.
00:08:28.120 He actually wants to populate.
00:08:30.060 I don't know if this man went to school.
00:08:31.560 Does he know what biology is? 1.00
00:08:32.920 When you put the vagina and the penis together, they could make a baby. 1.00
00:08:36.400 That's right. 0.99
00:08:36.920 That's how it works.
00:08:37.940 You know what I wish?
00:08:39.220 I wish that along with these babies that he didn't want, he would have got an STD he didn't want.
00:08:44.700 You know what I'm saying?
00:08:45.100 How you know he don't?
00:08:45.760 That is very true.
00:08:46.880 But I feel like if he was getting multiple STDs, he wouldn't be moving like this.
00:08:51.060 And that's the thing brothers and sisters don't understand when y'all out here, you know, raw-dogging randoms, okay?
00:08:55.480 Doing the DNA dance with any and everybody.
00:08:57.660 You're absolutely increasing your chances of catching gonorrhea herpes AIDS, okay?
00:09:02.540 Gonorrhea herpes AIDS is what irresponsible brothers should get.
00:09:05.500 And I wish it was one way gonorrhea herpes AIDS, okay?
00:09:09.160 Because, you know, I don't want the woman to get it. 1.00
00:09:11.560 Because it's one thing if he was telling these women his intentions before he slept with them.
00:09:14.820 But he's not.
00:09:15.620 He's telling them after the fact, after they have been manipulated to sleep with him.
00:09:19.220 I don't respect it because you're not giving these women a choice. 0.99
00:09:21.760 He said he did, Shara.
00:09:22.920 That's what he's saying.
00:09:23.440 After the fact, though.
00:09:24.380 Oh, he didn't.
00:09:24.940 No, I thought he said he told them before. 1.00
00:09:27.420 No, he said, listen, I'm going to have sex with you. 1.00
00:09:29.620 And if you get pregnant, I don't want it. 1.00
00:09:31.880 Oh, I didn't hear that part.
00:09:32.380 He didn't say that.
00:09:32.980 I thought he said after they have the baby.
00:09:34.720 Oh.
00:09:35.300 I would respect it if he did it before.
00:09:37.140 Okay.
00:09:38.500 I'm just saying, man.
00:09:39.340 No, he actually said he'd tell you after you need to take a plan B.
00:09:43.140 Oh, after he done.
00:09:44.100 But either way, he done manipulated.
00:09:45.640 When you feel that drip.
00:09:47.540 When you feel that drip.
00:09:49.220 You know what's going to go down.
00:09:50.880 Yo, I'm going to go take a plan.
00:09:52.080 Why would you think that he's going to take care of it if he hasn't done it?
00:09:57.860 Okay, hold on.
00:09:58.800 Hold on.
00:09:59.280 I'm going to wait.
00:09:59.680 I'm going to wait.
00:10:00.260 Seven baby mamas and seven kids, the biggest he are.
00:10:06.920 Now, I didn't hear the whole donkey.
00:10:10.180 You want to play a game?
00:10:11.440 I'm not playing a game.
00:10:13.000 I don't feel like playing a game.
00:10:13.920 Don't want to play a game?
00:10:14.800 Don't want to play a game.
00:10:16.760 Nope.
00:10:17.400 You don't want to play a game?
00:10:18.300 I don't want to play a game.
00:10:20.560 Sound white to me.
00:10:21.260 I'll just get curious.
00:10:22.120 Oh, okay.
00:10:25.420 What's his race?
00:10:26.480 I don't know.
00:10:27.660 I have no idea.
00:10:29.220 I just know.
00:10:29.640 It doesn't matter what his race is. 1.00
00:10:30.840 He's disgusting. 1.00
00:10:31.660 Okay. 0.99
00:10:32.120 Okay.
00:10:32.380 This is terrible human behavior. 0.99
00:10:33.860 He's black. 1.00
00:10:34.760 Wow, Portia. 0.82
00:10:35.800 Oh, yeah.
00:10:36.780 Uh-huh.
00:10:37.080 I saw it.
00:10:37.880 I saw him.
00:10:38.520 I don't like it.
00:10:38.860 And he's actually not black. 0.95
00:10:41.000 He is black. 1.00
00:10:42.020 He's a nigga. 1.00
00:10:42.480 Oh, he the old? 1.00
00:10:43.300 Oh, my goodness.
00:10:45.720 Don't do the dance, boy.
00:10:48.660 That's too funny.
00:10:49.800 The one thing I didn't understand they were talking about, why on earth would you think
00:10:53.240 a guy is going to stick around if he's invested?
00:10:55.900 Because that's what you said.
00:10:56.540 You invested nothing into these women.
00:10:59.720 Exactly.
00:11:00.480 And so it's like, why?
00:11:01.640 That's the other thing. 1.00
00:11:02.500 They always take accountability off of the women like we're stupid. 1.00
00:11:05.740 Why on earth would you be sticking around if you've done nothing for them? 1.00
00:11:11.980 When they have to get paid for somebody, like the breakfast club, they can't say what 0.99
00:11:20.440 the fuck they really want. 0.99
00:11:21.580 But I've seen some of their comments. 1.00
00:11:23.180 And I know some of their burnout accounts. 0.99
00:11:26.480 Because this is not my first time in media dealing with goddamn shit like this, but not 0.99
00:11:34.140 for myself. 0.99
00:11:34.780 Like, they agree with me on the backside when nobody's looking.
00:11:41.160 But over the waves, the airwaves of being politically correct, they got to say what they
00:11:45.980 got to say so they can pander into the feelings of women. 1.00
00:11:49.180 So I don't understand.
00:11:50.900 You feel me? 0.99
00:11:51.460 And I guess the girl, Portia, she's dealing with some child support shit. 1.00
00:11:56.480 You feel me? 0.98
00:11:57.160 But makes a lot of money.
00:11:58.700 But like, I don't understand.
00:11:59.660 And another thing with the child support thing, it should be some type of cap or some type
00:12:05.180 of realistic thing for them to create.
00:12:08.880 How much does it take to take care of a child? 1.00
00:12:12.920 It's motherfuckers paying, what? 1.00
00:12:14.380 Kanye West a fucking billion-out? 1.00
00:12:16.320 Kim Kardashian a billion-out? 1.00
00:12:17.800 He had to pay $200,000 in child support?
00:12:20.180 Like, this is what I'm saying.
00:12:22.580 This system is not for a man, bro. 0.99
00:12:26.180 And I didn't want to be extorted from the system, from having kids, but women, I really don't 1.00
00:12:32.860 know.
00:12:33.180 Yeah, it's me being irresponsible.
00:12:34.740 Yeah, it's me being mistakes. 1.00
00:12:35.840 Yeah, I made that shit a lot. 0.99
00:12:36.960 But we learn from it sometimes. 1.00
00:12:38.420 Got to learn from it.
00:12:39.520 But I wouldn't want to be exploited like that.
00:12:42.380 You feel me?
00:12:43.320 Especially if I told you that I don't want to have kids.
00:12:46.060 Now, it's the difference when we sit down there and we plan to have a family and a man 0.98
00:12:51.140 step the fuck out. 0.96
00:12:52.580 You feel me? 0.99
00:12:53.140 That's a bigger difference because you was expecting him to be there.
00:12:57.080 You was expecting him to support this child and things like that.
00:13:00.760 But I don't feel like I'm responsible, bro.
00:13:05.220 We both was there.
00:13:06.980 I do feel like I'm responsible.
00:13:08.880 I don't feel like I'm 100% responsible because we both have decisions to make.
00:13:13.380 It's just the outcome is not the one that you wanted because you eventually kept the kids
00:13:17.800 because you thought you was going to get a little money I got.
00:13:20.260 It don't work.
00:13:20.780 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on
00:13:27.340 this platform.
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