JustPearlyThings - Conservative Men Allow Their Wives To Humiliate Them On Social Media

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00:39:29.520 What's the bad.

00:39:59.520 Okay, so she's,

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00:41:29.520 Okay, so,

00:41:59.520 you know there's like crock pots now like you could make some chili in the morning and at night

00:42:06.600 I mean that's a family of four because I think it says she has four kids every day when you drop

00:42:11.260 off the kids at daycare you ask me what they need in their back okay so she has daycare

00:42:15.280 but what he did that was so bad you ask me what they need in their backpack so

00:42:24.420 okay so the mental load is having to choose what to eat for dinner and packing their backpacks

00:42:32.740 okay I am the project manager of this home and I need you to do more

00:42:39.820 okay she is the project manager of the home and he looked at me and he said okay just tell me what

00:42:50.540 to do okay so again doesn't seem like this terrible guy if he said she says I need help he

00:42:58.760 says okay what do you need you didn't say you're wrong you're not he said okay that sounds like a

00:43:04.240 reason doesn't that sound like a reasonable guy to you what would warrant the possible divorce

00:43:10.840 right every woman has heard this just tell me what to do and I'll do it and I said okay you know

00:43:15.140 something so if every woman has heard tell me what to do and I'll do it that's a guy with no frame

00:43:22.800 because that he doesn't understand women you're like oh you guys so funny you guys will be like

00:43:28.540 just tell me what to do we don't even know what to do like we can't even make good decisions for

00:43:37.360 our lives okay we have all this debt we date guys that don't want to commit to us we make bad choices

00:43:45.640 and you're like the guys are like just tell me what choice I need to make to make you happy we can't

00:43:52.020 even make choices to make ourselves happy dumb question dumb question I think that would make my life

00:44:02.740 easier is if in the mornings when I came downstairs with the four kids because I do mornings by myself

00:44:07.580 the dishwasher was emptied the dishes were put away and the trash was taken out okay so

00:44:13.060 she doesn't have to hand what I'm hearing is she doesn't have to hand wash she has a

00:44:19.740 he got her a dishwasher okay I lived in England do you know how much more time cooking takes when you

00:44:26.700 have to hand wash all you have to do now is just plop plop okay that would make my pearl women can't

00:44:36.700 handle making decisions yes they can women make a lot of decisions they make decisions of where to

00:44:42.700 get their Botox done their lip fillers um BBLs boob jump women can make decisions but they want we're lazy

00:44:51.900 so we want you to do it for us we totally can do it we make the decision to dump you

00:44:58.100 that's a decision we make

00:45:01.900 yeah okay life so much easier because when I've got the four kids running around and the baby crying

00:45:09.820 I can't be looking for their favorite water bottle in the dishwasher I just need to know it's clean

00:45:13.340 I can't okay now if you have one dish it takes like five minutes to clean it I know I just said

00:45:21.580 it kind of contradicts but I'm saying when it's like a big load right not a little one and he said

00:45:27.560 yeah of course what yeah I'll do that that's no problem and so of course he does it but then I have

00:45:33.700 to remind him and then he forgets and I have to remind him again there was this one morning where I

00:45:37.820 woke up and I went to put something in the trash and it was overflowing and here's the thing men would

00:45:44.380 rather have a messy house than a nagging wife they would rather look they would rather you not

00:45:52.420 clean at all and just shut the fuck up instead of nagging them right and I went pearls blackpilled

00:46:00.120 yep I am to get my son's water bottle and it was in the dishwasher with all the other yeah the guys

00:46:06.800 are already coming up with solutions they're like paper plates

00:46:09.640 they're like we don't need to do dishes get the what do we need dishes for

00:46:16.100 men are so funny clean dishes and I felt so disrespected and unseen and unvalued at that

00:46:25.360 point in time and I remember texting my husband being like what happened like why didn't you do

00:46:29.240 this and he said sorry I was running late for work and I remember thinking oh my god he doesn't see me

00:46:35.120 because what he's done has now made me late for work and he doesn't care about that he doesn't

00:46:40.840 care about the impact on me and he doesn't see how every single thing in our home happens because

00:46:46.920 I ask him to do it or because I do it myself so again to me this is just a narcissism because

00:46:52.820 that looks like a big house do you think that she fixes things when the dishwasher breaks

00:46:59.740 this is the this is what happens women do things but the difference is men are like good people

00:47:06.440 right not all not all so when they do something nice they don't keep track of it they're like here

00:47:12.160 I did this to be nice but women it's a scorecard so women we have like this mental tracker that's

00:47:19.120 just there so when we do something it's like here then we do something else and we do something else

00:47:23.360 and we do something else and we do something else then three years in we list all of those things

00:47:27.580 and the guy's like I wasn't even keeping track we were supposed to keep track the guy's like I don't

00:47:35.240 even remember the things I did I do stuff for you all the time and she's like I did this this this this

00:47:40.620 this and you did this wrong that wrong that wrong and he's like we were keeping score

00:47:45.320 he's like I didn't know I was supposed to keep score and then you guys lose every argument

00:47:54.420 you guys got to play chess not checkers because I planned and organized it the diaper bag is full

00:48:01.340 because I filled it right okay so her contributions are taking out the trash the dishwasher and filling

00:48:08.680 a diaper bag I don't know I can't say but what's really happening below the surface is she's mad she

00:48:15.980 reproduced with him so she's trying to women don't get mad at men they're happy they reproduced with

00:48:21.640 right and the thing is remember we can't be happy anyway so don't take it personal fellas like we

00:48:26.480 it takes so much like but for whatever reason our wires go and she's convinced she could have did

00:48:34.240 better with the youth she had she met him in high school so she's like I could have did better in

00:48:38.500 college I saw all my friends do better in college and then it just goes off right so now you know she's

00:48:45.640 she's mad she reproduced with him and now she's rationalizing put the wipes in there and I felt

00:48:54.040 so frustrated and I remember thinking what's the point what's the point of doing this with someone

00:48:59.240 else I might as well just do it at home and it's not because my husband didn't love me or he did

00:49:02.840 anything to okay so again he loved me he didn't do anything to me but I can sit I'm considering a

00:49:08.160 divorce and not to the point that she's putting it on the internet look we're human everybody's got

00:49:13.800 thoughts we're not proud of the men think I want to bang that hot girl at work right

00:49:19.440 the women think I want to leave this is world war three but you know what you can do you can complain

00:49:26.920 to maybe your immediate family or whatever but not the internet right to me and it's not because I

00:49:35.880 didn't love him but because I felt so taken advantage of in our relationship and this dynamic

00:49:40.780 it doesn't happen I hope he goes and finds a 22 year I wish you all a 22 year old it's a better

00:49:47.180 experience I know it's a little hypocritical because I'm old now but you know I'm just saying

00:49:53.520 they're much more pleasant I accident right it's not like my husband did it to me but we've been

00:49:58.060 raised in this society that tells men and women who they should be in marriages and and what it looks

00:50:02.640 like to be a good mom versus a good dad and we know the bar for moms is way up here and the bar for

00:50:06.500 dad's way down here and we fell into these norms we fell into these roles in our family despite the

00:50:12.260 fact that we never wanted to and I'm lucky and I say lucky because I have a partner who I know

00:50:18.080 loves me and wants me to be happy and was willing and able to change and so we did the work to figure

00:50:24.520 out what equity looked like in our relationship and I can tell you now three years so now translation

00:50:28.920 he does whatever I say now that's what that means like when we did the work it means now the

00:50:36.480 relationship I used to let him not do whatever he wants but have some things that he enjoys

00:50:42.280 now he has nothing that he enjoys I have ruined I have taken away all joy from him years later that we

00:50:49.320 are happier than ever our kids are thriving our home runs like a well-oiled man translation he does all

00:50:55.280 the work now and I I put a dish in the dishwasher and he allows me to feel like I did more than I did

00:51:03.040 because he doesn't want me to divorce him so he he does the work I'll take the credit that's what

00:51:09.540 that means machine and that took a lot of work I want to say it took like 18 months to get there

00:51:13.360 and it was well worth it but it is not uncommon and so if your wife is coming to you and she's saying

00:51:18.980 I'm burnt out by the mental load and I need you to do the mental load okay again so let me get this

00:51:23.840 straight the mental load is garbage dishwasher and packing a backpack okay more she's not just

00:51:32.700 saying that because she wants you to do more chores she's saying that because truly it can hurt your

00:51:36.980 relationship it can ruin your marriage if you do not participate in an equitable way in your home and

00:51:42.280 so what does that look like I want to I want to boss him around in the house I want this to be my

00:51:47.580 house not his house what does it look like to change these dynamics

00:51:50.380 I want to dictate the way everything's done yes but we need to really assess in our homes

00:51:58.340 what the work looks like because in most homes the the data supports this women do a disproportionate

00:52:05.360 amount of work men actually work longer hours and they only count the chores that women tend to do

00:52:13.100 like kitchen chores they don't count the yard work chores how many women mow the grass

00:52:18.420 will fix anything so it's it's like imagine it's kind of like the it's kind of like the wnba where

00:52:28.000 women don't do as much but like they give them more free media attention and even though they operate

00:52:34.900 at a loss they keep paying them that's the equivalent of how women feel like they're doing everything in

00:52:39.560 the house they just do they do more of the cooking and the cleaning and the laundry and the the child

00:52:44.540 care while also working full-time and men have more time for things like their hobbies like golf

00:52:49.140 for example or just okay that is just not true so when men get into a relationship they tend to give

00:52:56.480 up their hobbies because women calendar block so they make you to go go to all these stupid events

00:53:02.020 you don't want to go to so men are the ones that give up their hobbies so you can go to the the

00:53:08.600 sports games visit her sister visit her mother do all this stupid stuff you don't even want to do

00:53:15.480 where women keep their hobbies but protect which i mean most women's hobbies are social media

00:53:22.920 gossiping and watching the kardashians or some dumb shows like that so we keep those right going to see

00:53:29.620 our friends but we hate anything that makes men happy that doesn't benefit us so that's why we hate

00:53:36.260 video games that's why she's bitching about golf because it doesn't directly benefit us

00:53:40.660 working out running a marathon right and so we need to have hard conversations about what our time

00:53:47.260 looks like what our labor in the home looks like what is invisible labor we have to talk about these

00:53:52.020 things and when we don't the alternative is that you no longer have a marriage or you don't have a

00:53:56.880 happy one i will divorce you if you don't do chores that's what she's saying and so i share this story

00:54:03.500 because i don't think i'm alone in this experience because women in the western are terrible lives

00:54:09.060 and i want people to know that there's hope you can control your husband you can you can you can make

00:54:16.680 him simp and that if you have a willing and able partner i'll show you how to get a simp you can

00:54:22.400 change this you can absolutely change here's how to get more power and control in your relationship

00:54:27.820 dynamic there you go so let's look at this woman's page she's a demon i can just tell oh men's hobby

00:54:37.400 this is a really weird comment but i'm going to use it as all right it says god forbid a man have

00:54:41.060 hobbies that don't revolve around women oh i just she's going to dig her grave to talk about hobbies and

00:54:46.500 specifically the difference is between men and women when it comes to hobbies now i don't know if

00:54:51.020 you're familiar but there's actually a leisure gap between men and women where men have more time for

00:54:55.100 things like hobbies and leisure than women do and this is directly correlated with the fact that women

00:54:59.620 tend to do more domestic labor the cooking the cleaning the laundry and they do more caretaking for

00:55:04.840 children so they're spending more time with their kids on average i'm a working mom of four and i do

00:55:08.720 morning this is oh my gosh this is a really weird comment but i'm going to use it as an opportunity to talk

00:55:13.540 about hobbies and specifically the differences between men and women when it comes to hobbies now i don't know if

00:55:18.860 you're familiar but there's actually a leisure gap between men and women where men have more time for

00:55:22.940 things like hobbies and leisure than women men work more hours it's just simply not true do and this

00:55:30.160 is directly correlated with the fact that women tend to do more domestic labor the cooking the cleaning

00:55:34.400 the laundry and they do more caretaking for children so they're spending more time with their

00:55:38.680 kids on average than men are daycare is a billion dollar industry billion with a b and this women are not

00:55:45.820 having children either or not this means that men have more time for hobbies they have more time for hobbies

00:55:51.860 that take them out of the house let's think golf hunting fishing working on cars right all of these things

00:55:57.380 take them outside of the home and typically are not done with kids whereas women's you can fish with a kid

00:56:03.820 you can golf with a kid doesn't trump golf with his grandkids like aren't they like pro golf

00:56:11.520 okay let me go back i want to i want to hunting fishing working on cars right

00:56:18.520 those are all things that you could do i mean maybe not under like three but

00:56:27.000 could could you bring a baby fish i don't fish so this this is probably a stupid question but like

00:56:35.540 i don't see why you couldn't like if you bring the baby bag and stuff get some shade or whatever

00:56:42.200 i don't understand fishing you guys just stare at the water for hours it just couldn't be me but

00:56:47.860 again could you guys have that peace inside of you i'm a woman right so there's no peace here

00:56:53.580 like we have to like wrestle the mental energy really is just arguing with ourselves

00:56:58.520 that's the mental load she's talking about it's not him it's in us right all of these things take

00:57:06.620 them outside of the home and typically are not done with kids whereas women's hobbies they don't

00:57:11.400 revolve around men but they typically are done in the home and can be done while watching children

00:57:15.840 women will say their hobbies are things like reading knitting gardening okay because i'm thinking

00:57:21.460 reading i understand you're in the home

00:57:23.620 but aren't you just kind of sitting there when you fish i don't know if this is a dumb question

00:57:30.680 you guys have to forgive me i don't fish i'm not a fisher but this is like she's playing 4d chess with

00:57:40.180 how she's rationalizing how women's hobbies benefit the family while men's don't baking and men they have

00:57:48.360 hobbies that take them outside of the home and these hobbies oftentimes don't just happen over an hour or

00:57:52.740 two they happen over extended periods of time sometimes a full day or even a weekend hunting

00:57:57.620 right aren't their kids dying now because their mom left them home alone to go like clubbing

00:58:03.380 so when women complain about men's hobbies like golf or fishing or hunting it's not because they

00:58:10.840 want their husband's hobbies to revolve around women they want their partners to be more involved in

00:58:15.620 the house in the caretaking they want their partners to be an active participant and they also want

00:58:20.440 hobbies to hobbies that they don't have to do in between nap time and dinner they want time for

00:58:25.200 rest and relaxation in the same way that men get it and so no women don't hate it when men have

00:58:29.860 hobbies that don't revolve around them what they probably don't like is the fact that their partner

00:58:33.300 gets a lot more time to themselves than they ever had this woman's a demon

00:58:37.640 oh my gosh the comments section is i find that women have to make time for our hobbies wake up at

00:58:47.280 5 a.m to work out where men can take time for theirs but men do you know what men are better at they're

00:58:52.080 better at incorporating their kids into their hobby like i went on this business trip the other day

00:58:57.780 and the guy that um like drove us around his kid was with them the into us the entire time so we're like

00:59:04.560 doing all this stuff and the dad and he's so excited his kids there where mom the mom's like

00:59:09.040 don't like when you have the kid with them they're like complaining about the kid they're like ah i mean

00:59:15.900 that's just what i've seen right so hypothetically like the same way the dad brought the kid to the

00:59:22.320 business meeting and he was fine the kid was like really well behaved the mom could take the kid to the

00:59:27.940 gym but then they'd have to like i would think i mean maybe not a big gym but i'm saying like an

00:59:35.620 at home like you can buy some weights or whatever

00:59:37.900 i mean teach them how to do a push-up i don't know like okay also no knitting sewing crafting

00:59:47.840 gardening and baking all produce outcomes that are reinvested into the home

00:59:51.360 okay yeah but what women i have never met a woman my age or younger or 10 years older that knits

00:59:59.440 i don't know are you guys meeting women that knit

01:00:02.920 let's be honest even their household chores are child free

01:00:07.460 that is not true i know so many guys that would work on cars with their dad

01:00:15.220 my dad knew i was useless when it came to fixing cars so he didn't even try

01:00:20.100 sorry dad you know what i mean that there's things i'm good at that's not it

01:00:25.780 um how come women's hobbies are always trying to be monetized i started crocheting all i heard is oh

01:00:32.620 you can sell that why can't i do something for the joy of it

01:00:35.680 i'm a distance runner it takes a lot of times to run 26 miles and i have to fight for it

01:00:45.200 yeah distance do you know what though the men do you know what the men do i've seen it because i ran

01:00:51.000 a marathon this fall the men will bring out their kids and push them

01:00:55.820 so i'm just thinking through what i've seen and like if a man and a woman does a hobby the man will

01:01:03.640 figure out a way to incorporate the kid so it's like something like my dad coached me in basketball

01:01:08.000 and he loved it oh my gosh that's like my favorite memory with my dad it was like fifth grade and we

01:01:13.380 were like missing layups and he's like go go he's like screaming

01:01:16.200 he's like coaching fifth grade he still to this day talks about like

01:01:21.780 um we won like our fifth grade championship and like it it's one of my favorite childhood memories and

01:01:28.140 i think a lot of people have that experience where something they did with their father

01:01:32.360 um that was their favorite memory where the moms don't incorporate you as much into the hobbies

01:01:39.700 that's just not that's what i've seen okay um pearl reed is there a simple way to fix this would be to

01:01:46.600 get him interested a simple way to fix this would be to get interested in his hobbies and join him

01:01:52.180 men are so pragmatic men's hobbies usually involve a skill or some kind of type of activity that can

01:02:00.500 translate to practical use women's hobbies no way i think that women um and are that women and

01:02:08.280 tommy lauren this woman and tommy lauren would get along really well the modern woman wants an

01:02:14.280 ambitious accomplished man to marry her then set aside his ambition and assertiveness to help her

01:02:18.980 achieve her selfish desires when i hear the word equity all i hear is someone bitching about how unfair

01:02:25.020 life is um pearl how many women get injured mowing how many women get injured doing household chores

01:02:33.360 and how many women get injured doing housework it's sad that women feel entitled to determine what

01:02:39.460 equity is in a relationship in a household um she's bragging about domestically grooming her husband this

01:02:46.740 is fun to watch i also think that guys as guys we just put up with crazy victimship because we want

01:02:53.400 peace and it's easier to achieve peace if we don't say anything it's not simping it's peace seeking

01:02:58.540 pearl i want you to want to oh we should watch that video that is so one of the most famous videos um

01:03:06.680 like movie clips jennifer aniston dishes and women love this breakup scene so this couple is um dating

01:03:18.780 and um this this is how women feel when they do the chores okay

01:03:26.260 i'm gonna go do the dishes cool it'd be nice if you help me

01:03:35.180 no problem uh get them pearl reed she's telling the female friendly version of the story the female

01:03:42.880 friendly version is where the woman is the hero and the victim at the same time a little bit later i'm

01:03:48.700 just gonna get the streets here for a little bit carrie come on i don't want to do them later let's

01:03:51.860 just do them now take 15 minutes oh honey i am so exhausted i just honestly want to relax for a

01:03:56.240 little bit if i could just sit here let my food digest and just try to enjoy the quiet for a little

01:04:03.120 bit get some get some get some that's what happens and we will you know we can clean the dishes

01:04:08.300 tomorrow you know i don't like waking up to a dirty kitchen who cares i care all right i care

01:04:13.640 i busted my ass all day cleaning this house and then cooking that meal and i worked today it would

01:04:18.660 be nice if you said thank you and helped me with the dishes

01:04:21.420 fine i'll help you do the damn dishes oh come on you know what no that's see that's not what i want

01:04:28.720 and i'm telling you guys women love this said that you want me to help you do the dishes i want you

01:04:36.100 to want to do the dishes why would i want to do dishes why see that's my whole point let me see

01:04:44.000 if i'm following this okay are you telling me that you're upset because i don't have a strong desire

01:04:48.140 to clean dishes no i'm upset because you don't have a strong desire to offer to do the dishes i just did

01:04:53.480 after i asked you guys women love this movie we do jesus brooke you're acting crazy don't you call

01:05:03.980 me crazy i am not crazy i didn't call you crazy i didn't call you crazy no i didn't i said you're

01:05:08.420 acting crazy you know what gary i asked you to do one thing today one very simple thing to bring

01:05:12.700 me 12 lemons and you brought me three damn it if i knew that it was going to be this much trouble

01:05:17.620 i would have brought home 24 lemons even 100 lemons i know what i wish i wish everyone that was at that

01:05:22.200 goddamn table had their own little private bag of lemons it's not about the lemons that's all you're

01:05:26.120 talking about i'm just saying it'd be nice if you did things that i asked it would be even nicer if

01:05:30.800 you did things without me having to ask you please read my mind read my mind and do whatever i say

01:05:38.060 well i do seem to remember doing something for you this morning without you asking gary come on

01:05:46.080 i'm serious no i'm serious i really am come on you knew i was working today and i made

01:05:52.100 that meal and you could have thought to yourself you know what you could have said

01:05:55.960 yeah i think i'm gonna get brooke some flowers you said on our very first date that you don't

01:06:02.020 like flowers that they're a waste of money

01:06:03.820 every girl likes flowers gary you say that you don't like flowers i'm supposed to take that to

01:06:12.660 mean that you do like flowers no this is not about you're not you're you're you're that you're not

01:06:17.760 getting it you're not getting this gary okay it's not about the lemon he's so confused

01:06:21.620 it's not about the flowers it's not about the dishes it's just how many times do i have to drop

01:06:29.660 hints about the ballet you know i can't brooke come here we talked about the damn ballet i hate the

01:06:35.660 goddamn ballet you got a bunch of dudes in tights flopping around for three hours it's like a medieval

01:06:40.060 techno show it's a nightmare i sit there in a sweat the whole thing i do i wonder when the hell's the

01:06:44.120 goddamn nightmare gonna end go to a damn ballet it's not about you loving the ballet gary it's

01:06:48.120 about the person that you love loves the ballet and you don't want to spend time with that person

01:06:52.580 not when they're at the ballet forget the ballet forget the ballet we don't go anywhere together

01:06:59.320 we just went to ann arbor together to ann arbor to the michigan notre dame game you think you think

01:07:07.480 screaming drunk kids and leprechauns doing backflips that's fun that's fun for me

01:07:12.480 come on man i did that for you what do you how do you show up for me i'm up on the bus every

01:07:18.000 goddamn day for you come on i'm busting my ass to be the best tour guide in the damn city so i can

01:07:23.060 make enough money to support both of us and hopefully you won't have to work one day i want

01:07:27.300 to work all i ask brooke is that you show a little bit of appreciation that i just get 20 minutes to

01:07:32.520 relax when i come home instead of being attacked with questions and nag the whole damn thing you think

01:07:38.020 that i nag you that's all you do all you do is nag me the bathroom's a mess your belt doesn't match

01:07:43.980 hey gary you should probably go work out nothing i ever do is ever good enough i just want to be left

01:07:50.080 the hell alone

01:07:51.280 really is that what you want gary is that what you want yeah that's what you want yeah fine great do

01:08:03.980 whatever the hell you want you leave your socks all over this house dress like a pig play your

01:08:08.960 stupid ass video game i don't care i'm done women love this scene women do i mean you you see how

01:08:15.820 effed up we are when you see what movies we like it's like we like this handmaid's tale 50 shades of

01:08:21.420 gray we are weird creatures you know what i mean what i am done i don't deserve this i really do not

01:08:28.260 deserve this and you know what's crazy he's probably thinking with the because men they

01:08:33.360 really like to do their hobbies and stuff more alone like they like how do i put this we don't

01:08:40.860 always add to the experience of like nobody no guy's at a boy's night and thinks that he like

01:08:46.640 wants his girlfriend there do you know what i mean it's always the guy brings his girlfriend and

01:08:52.180 like ruins it for the guys so he was kind of probably thinking he was doing her a favor by

01:08:59.280 letting her go to this like game right this i deserve somebody who gives a shit i'm not spending

01:09:04.860 one more second of this life with some inconsiderate prick you're a prick

01:09:10.060 yeah

01:09:14.160 they broke up let me read the chat

01:09:19.260 holidays is another big topic men will plan a family holiday to include the entire family what

01:09:26.260 they like doing and so on women just find a nice resort to sunbake or a place with a gym

01:09:31.880 um pearl check your messages let me see

01:09:36.300 i guess there's another one um my hobbies evolved to include the kids that's what you do as a dad

01:09:48.280 i catch at least one good fish each time but i don't go fishing to catch fish

01:09:54.260 pearl screw this bitch most men don't care about the house as much as women we will leave dishes in

01:09:59.880 the sink i know it's like it's like the women are like i want the house to be perfect and

01:10:06.280 the men are like okay then clean it i don't care and the women are like care about what i care

01:10:12.580 about and the men are like i got better things to do than make sure this house is spotless

01:10:16.180 i don't care oh let's let's get paper plates and the women are like i don't want paper plates

01:10:22.500 um and the women are like i will divorce you if you don't do the dishes pearl i used to take my

01:10:30.300 kids on the job i when i finished basement to give my wife a break i would take them for 10 to 14

01:10:36.400 hours a day at work they loved watching daddy work and learning to climb ladders a simple way to fix

01:10:42.280 this would be to get oh i read that already um if i didn't have kids to care for i'd just pack my

01:10:49.220 bag and drive around the country pearl i taught my wife to paint so we could paint together and all

01:10:54.200 she did was complain um my wife mlb rivals is a great escape uh for me of dealing with my girlfriend

01:11:06.080 bitching yeah because men can do things by themselves so this argument where she's like we

01:11:12.660 don't we don't do anything together and he's like i give up my piece at the house for you

01:11:17.680 okay now here's another one oh here's another scene from this i don't feel like you appreciate

01:11:26.480 me that again that's our favorite line that's our favorite i don't feel appreciated it's like do you

01:11:33.640 know what it's like this thing in the back of our head that's like he's not doing it so yeah

01:11:42.060 now remember remember jesse lee peterson says it if she's crying she's lying don't believe those

01:11:51.460 tears are you okay i'm fine you sure what's up what do you want

01:11:59.220 i just want to say i'm sorry that i missed the concert and

01:12:06.140 let me know what that ticket costs i'll pay you back for it

01:12:09.660 just leave me alone gary

01:12:16.100 i plan

01:12:21.260 i already know you guys you guys have fold who would fold one in the chat if you saw this would

01:12:27.860 you fold i even almost want to fold she's so pretty

01:12:31.820 i'm not going to the concert it's just i stopped by johnny oh it doesn't fucking matter okay would

01:12:38.320 you just leave my room and shut the door jesus please

01:12:43.120 i didn't really know that the concert mattered all that much to you exactly

01:12:50.920 hold on a second here let me talk for a second gary brooke

01:12:55.660 you broke up with me

01:12:58.760 then you have guys coming over here for dates and all of a sudden you asked me to go to some

01:13:05.600 concert i mean i just figured that you know

01:13:07.720 harry

01:13:08.680 yeah so she was bringing over dudes

01:13:12.920 and then she asked him to go to a concert he didn't go and now she's crying

01:13:17.240 pearl actually i would put her over my knee and spank her ass thank

01:13:23.620 thank you for that kenny thank you that's that's exactly what i was all right

01:13:30.280 i just i don't know how we got here

01:13:33.220 our entire relationship i've gone gone above and beyond for you for us

01:13:44.460 so again this is women again we're narcissistic so when we do things we remember and we think about

01:13:51.980 it and we build our self-esteem and when men do things we're like

01:13:54.760 we're like don't care we forget if you guys think that your devotion

01:14:04.140 or like being a good person matters to women you might as well cut that shit because we don't care

01:14:11.580 we write love letters to ted bundy

01:14:14.580 and i mean i've i've cooked i've picked your shit up off the floor i've laid your clothes

01:14:23.500 out for you like you were a four-year-old

01:14:25.420 yeah doesn't that kind of take away from the niceness of it

01:14:30.400 do you know what i mean like if i if i give you a plate of food and then i say you're like a

01:14:36.980 kid you can't cook for yourself doesn't that kind of this is what i mean it's not really

01:14:42.500 likability has got to be the number one draft pick for what men pick it's not purity they try to sell

01:14:48.400 it as purity but men know that we're liars anyway so they don't even ask about body count

01:14:54.680 women are like the most deceptive creatures on the planet so men will never really know

01:14:59.040 um but it's really just being a nice person now are there correlations where obviously the

01:15:06.360 whores they go through a lot they become more jaded yeah i mean you know but why did some of

01:15:12.160 these porns why did riley reed find a hot husband not just a cute he was a good looking

01:15:17.400 probably top 10 20 percent of looks she paid attention to what men wanted and if you watch

01:15:22.940 her interviews she's pleasant she's not aggressive she's just happy pleasant she's like i love gang

01:15:29.560 you know she's like i love getting dicked down on camera you know that's what she did

01:15:34.280 but you know you can have the non-whore here and i'm not making a case for whores they have a whole

01:15:40.480 heap of problems but that's how sometimes they win right because they pay more attention to what

01:15:47.980 the men actually like and respond to where she just you know it's the passive aggressive

01:15:53.080 i support you i supported you your work if we ever had dinner or anything i make the plans i take care

01:16:03.360 of everything and i just don't feel like you appreciate any of it i don't feel you appreciate me

01:16:12.640 and all i've all i want is to know is for you to just show me that you care

01:16:21.180 what he should have said is that's way too hard

01:16:26.640 he's gonna fold though right

01:16:31.200 why didn't you just say that to me

01:16:35.840 i feel like there's so many women that have to mimic this scene after like

01:17:05.780 we're just such group thinkers so imagine you come home right

01:17:10.400 and your girlfriend or your wife is like crying like this and you're like what's wrong

01:17:16.660 you just don't appreciate me you are who you are and see the men you know she's listing all of his

01:17:24.660 flaws is he listing her flaws is she perfect no

01:17:27.820 all he's saying is hey can you not nag me he didn't say you're a bitch you did this you don't do

01:17:35.180 this you know right now just shut my door

01:17:37.180 pearl reed didn't the late kevin samuels mentioned something about spanking the wife i don't know

01:17:46.180 i don't know about that she might he might have i don't know i look i i want to be out of the

01:17:51.760 spanking conversation that's a little too you guys do what you do i want i want out of that one

01:17:57.140 all right gary just please just leave leave the room listen to me gary just i don't want to be

01:18:01.980 near you right now please just shut the door please

01:18:06.800 yeah

01:18:20.980 it's off the screen now right yeah okay so i'm gonna get the i guess doug sent me a new message

01:18:28.660 here we go

01:18:31.480 yeah okay i thought the kids could go fishing

01:18:45.040 how you doing tighten us up oh gosh that's a good one come on i thought i thought the kids could fish

01:18:53.080 i thought that was over exaggerating if i talk to him private get him off really come on come on

01:18:57.820 come on come on don't let him pull you in come on come on come on come on real real real real son

01:19:03.800 that's a big one come on stay on him don't let him jump don't let him jump come on son

01:19:07.500 let's get him in the middle of the floor oh my gosh man what a freaking giant hey let's go baby

01:19:35.540 oh give me five oh see what happens when attitude change and you just finish

01:19:42.160 men are so much better people when women use their kids for clout it's always like the signal of the

01:19:53.040 message is i'm a good person it's like look at me being a good mom but this guy's just so proud of

01:19:58.880 his kid that's so cute oh that's so cute um let's see what else we got here uh in hiring contracts if

01:20:09.620 you hire women spanking should be a part of the hr

01:20:12.380 oh my gosh you guys why would that be a good idea why would

01:20:19.960 all right i don't see any super chats let me see what a wholesome video um okay well

01:20:33.800 i think that's all i got for you guys today

01:20:37.140 but yeah i mean all in all as a woman i really think we should just strive to be as good a people

01:20:47.320 as men we can't do it it's not in us right we're too selfish and like but maybe someday we can be as

01:20:53.880 awesome as the men are to us so let me know what you guys think in the comments please make sure you

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JustPearlyThings - April 03, 2025

Conservative Men Allow Their Wives To Humiliate Them On Social Media ｜ Pearl Daily

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