JustPearlyThings - August 22, 2023


Dating DEBUNKS Body Positivity

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Interesting Denalva Versus Jean Sold
Pearl DESTROYS Feral Feminist for Saying This She DATED a Broke Guy Because of this.... 😱😱😱😱

Episode Stats


Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

177.48

Word count

1,805

Sentence count

32

Harmful content

Misogyny

11

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Toxicity

11

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Hate speech

7

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about body positivity, plus size representation in the media, how we should be more "real" about our bodies, and why we need to be more honest about our weight and body image. We also talk about the difference between men and women when it comes to their physical appearance.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Yeah, but my point isn't like that may be true, but my point is we shouldn't be promoting it for sure
00:00:05.700 Like I just I have a problem when we start putting that on the cover of magazines because like a model supposed to be the epitome of beauty 0.99
00:00:12.520 But it's supposed to be like the top 10 15% of beauty just like in the NBA 0.56
00:00:16.820 You go to see the top 10 15% of NBA players
00:00:19.700 And now we're putting people that are overweight and unhealthy on the covers of magazines and trying to make it normal
00:00:25.100 Yeah, and it's not like in Asia that trend is not picking up and they're like looking at America 0.95
00:00:29.760 And they're like what the fuck are these Americans doing well the average the average woman in the u.s. Is five five hundred seventy pounds 1.00
00:00:35.680 It's overweight. Yeah, I know. Yeah, and it's because there's high for there's high fructose corn syrup in everything in America 0.99
00:00:41.540 That's the main reason there's literally high fructose corn syrup and seed oils and everything that are just killing people the chemicals
00:00:47.860 Jean ah, okay
00:00:49.800 My opinion is I think people just need to be real 12 stone. Sorry 12.1 stone
00:00:55.820 What about kilos average I thought stone isn't that what you guys do here?
00:01:02.240 I'm Australian. So I get my kilos 77 78
00:01:06.440 77 78 yeah 77 kilos good you in your head
00:01:11.080 I live in Japan my my scale is in my scale is in kilos in the state in Japan. Yeah, sorry go ahead
00:01:19.740 Um, I totally understand what you're doing. Um, what you guys are saying
00:01:26.060 Um, I just think people just need to be more real especially plus size people like with me
00:01:30.700 I'm not about the i'm not trying to lie here. I'm not trying to promote anything
00:01:36.140 But the truth is when for for example when you're shopping for clothes as a child
00:01:41.660 Imagine perform from from four years old. I was always a bigger child
00:01:46.060 And so I've always six foot clothes never fit
00:01:51.420 Imagine imagine now you're buying clothes you're going shopping you want to buy clothes
00:01:55.820 I still can't buy clothes especially here
00:01:59.020 So for plus size the way is is they just they're basically just made anyhow in any cuts
00:02:04.060 So you can get something and it will look like you're wearing like blinds or something or some sort of
00:02:10.220 You've just wrapped anything around you like that's how it looks
00:02:12.940 So that's why it's important to have the representation, but I honestly think
00:02:17.820 Plus size people should should just be real 1.00
00:02:20.620 It isn't it is unhealthy being big
00:02:24.780 But what are you doing about it? I know what i'm doing. I'm eating properly. I'm making sure i'm having my green juices
00:02:31.020 I'm making sure i'm having porridge 0.85
00:02:32.700 So all the rubbish comes out and and when I pig out I do pig out and I love it 0.63
00:02:37.580 But I just think that's a bit like entitled to say oh because i'm big now 0.52
00:02:41.900 I need to see this on the cover
00:02:44.220 Maybe not maybe not you saying that but i'm just saying like that
00:02:46.700 That's what the body positivity movement seems to be pushing like we're a big we need that representation like i'm a ginger
00:02:52.220 Where's my ginger representation?
00:02:58.220 Like I just think like models are supposed to be the top like 10 percent of beauty like that's supposed to be 0.99
00:03:03.260 Like I I kind of want to look at a magazine and see something. I will never attain
00:03:07.980 But pearl that's the 1.00
00:03:10.940 I'm
00:03:11.340 I don't want to say that's the
00:03:13.260 That's not the right way
00:03:14.220 If I go to the nba
00:03:15.900 I know I will never be as good as those wnba players, but it's okay because that's the top 10 percent of talent
00:03:21.420 But that's the thing you're your own self
00:03:23.180 Just like you've got this successful podcast. That's you. That's what you're good at
00:03:27.340 That's your skill like people have their own things that they're good at and and and
00:03:32.220 We should also celebrate as human beings the stuff that we're good at our individuality
00:03:37.580 It's also a big difference between men and women too because like
00:03:40.700 Metal watch like predator and be like 0.83
00:03:42.940 I bet you I could figure out how to use steroids and like look that good
00:03:48.140 A guy will think like I can I can up my protein I can get a gym partner like you know
00:03:52.380 They they lead in their delusion in a positive aspect, but then like in from my experience like you know if you were to just
00:03:58.700 Tell a woman that any part of her physical appearance was 0.99
00:04:04.380 Maybe not up to par according to your personal standards as a man
00:04:08.220 You know, they take it as a personal attack. Yeah, and that's when they're like well, yeah
00:04:12.460 You have fake teeth and your fucking suit is ugly 1.00
00:04:17.180 You know so it's big difference between the genders for sure 1.00
00:04:19.660 I'm
00:04:20.220 I just if you look at it right because it's kind of disingenuous to if you're intellectually sound enough to
00:04:27.580 Perceive the reality of the situation that like it's a it's a gigantic
00:04:34.300 Marketing campaign towards women
00:04:37.180 Versus men because if there was body positivity we're talking about the entire body correct
00:04:43.180 Like how many women often make fun of guys who are short?
00:04:47.580 It's like part of the culture like well, he's five foot five 0.99
00:04:50.860 Short man's short man syndrome short man in syndrome small dick energy 0.98
00:04:56.060 You know the 0.98
00:04:59.260 Imagine if guys said small tit energy
00:05:01.260 I said oh
00:05:04.140 Like with girls my age like we all like my type right is like tall you need to be like minimum like five ten 1.00
00:05:12.140 Yeah, if I look past someone that's like five five for me. I'm just like no, sorry instantly and
00:05:18.780 nowadays
00:05:20.140 That's like that's not good for us girls to like 1.00
00:05:23.660 Say that that is like a thing
00:05:25.180 But you don't see the men coming forward and saying get short men on the cover of magazines
00:05:30.380 short man representation
00:05:32.380 Yeah, and this all goes back to money because it's all about
00:05:35.820 and it's sad to say but
00:05:37.820 Modern day marketing if you look at it, it is all geared towards
00:05:42.060 Financially extorting women and you look at like for example, I'm american again. I'm using american example 0.92
00:05:46.860 But over two-thirds of the student loan debt in america is owned by women and then on the flip side of that 1.00
00:05:54.860 the top ten lowest
00:05:57.100 earning
00:05:58.700 College degrees
00:06:00.300 Are all majority dominated by women as well. So they're taking the tons of tons of debt 1.00
00:06:07.020 And getting the most worthless jobs
00:06:10.300 And they're later in life like yeah, I want to marry like they find out the sky is amazing whatever
00:06:16.780 They want to get married. She's like, oh, yeah, but I have like
00:06:19.100 150 thousand dollars student loan debt and the guy's just like, oh, well you give me my girlfriend
00:06:25.820 You know, do you still have to pay that off though? Yeah, you have to
00:06:30.300 You have to that's and in america
00:06:33.260 Sorry, i'm american. So i'm just giving guys american side of things. That's the only
00:06:38.220 Debt you cannot erase by filing bankruptcy so you can file bankruptcy like a credit card debt of mortgage debt car loans everything
00:06:46.540 We cannot get rid of that loan to the united states government. Wow student loan debt
00:06:53.100 Um, so we have a video we're going to show could you show the couple one first
00:06:57.580 Um, okay, i'm going to read the super chats really quick while we're waiting for him to bring it up
00:07:10.540 Denalva it's so funny. They made an account denalva denalva denalva denalva the actual corn industry industry really sold
00:07:17.820 upon the public a bill of goods
00:07:20.380 Sold us waste corn and byproducts and surplus and cereal and told us it was healthy
00:07:26.540 um
00:07:27.660 All of those juices are full of sugar. That's not what you want a huge contributor to the weight epidemic is propaganda by the food industry
00:07:33.980 Sugar and carbs in any form are going to be stored as fat
00:07:38.380 um
00:07:39.980 Let me
00:07:41.420 One second guys also make sure you like the video guys again. Just a reminder. We are going to open up the chat
00:07:47.740 at um
00:07:48.940 one thousand five hundred likes
00:07:52.460 and then
00:07:54.140 i just want to see how many it was oh is it just the two okay it doubled are you are you ready with it all right
00:08:11.180 Interesting did she make that that's why
00:08:13.020 she made it no no no no no no no no no that's actually it's funny because
00:08:19.980 i'll be like what the hell i've been going unhealthy throughout the years 0.53
00:08:23.340 because she's that's the thing
00:08:25.260 there's there's a yes she's celebrating herself but the way it's done with happy music
00:08:30.220 i'd be i'd be actually no i can't say i can't don't want to say anything but
00:08:34.460 i don't know like i put on up i was 28 stones
00:08:40.140 and one thing that i know i guess people are different and it's good she's celebrating herself
00:08:45.900 but again that's the type of i see how
00:08:49.340 when skinnier people skinnier than me look at this video i can i can imagine what they think
00:08:56.220 so i know that you guys aren't also what do you think they think they think oh gosh she's dying
00:09:03.580 she is
00:09:05.020 her insides are growing older and and i'm not gonna lie same with me
00:09:10.140 when i'm when i'm eating certain things i'm thinking oh gosh
00:09:14.220 oh gosh like something and you know with big people as well like
00:09:18.140 like yeah uh let me give some big plus size facts when you have to go to the loo i'm telling
00:09:24.780 you it feels like fireworks are in your belly and and there is a pressure so but like all these
00:09:32.300 plus size okay sorry i think i'm going sorry guys sorry i'm the thing is this for me like so
00:09:37.980 i'm a big fan of love i'm a big fan of like being in love and being in relationship having a good woman
00:09:42.780 in your life and for me like i just maybe this is selfish but like you need to stay skinny so you
00:09:49.660 don't die because i don't want to do this again i don't want to fall in love and lose you and all
00:09:54.460 that so anytime i'm in a relationship with a girl whether she works out or not she's going to start 1.00
00:09:59.660 working out when she's dating me so i would just hate to see that as a person dating someone who is
00:10:05.340 gaining weight and then i have to be like looking and dealing with the health issues