Deluded Feminists Start Arguing And Lying!
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the topic of divorce and how it affects women in the modern world. We also discuss what it means to be a woman in the 21st century and how women are treated by men and how they should be treated.
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i have a traditional mindset where if i'm gonna have a child it has to be within marriage um
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and me too the last resort is the brilliant because i care about my child and their upbringing
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and i do believe that two parents is better than one yes and you can get obviously there's um
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exceptions there's abuse there's yeah physical abuse whatever you want to call it but that's an
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exception then i would choose to leave but it will be the last resort and you've said exactly what
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we've just sat there and said exactly what we're saying no but you know what she did she explained
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the difference between the exception and the rule is what she did she didn't just say she wasn't just
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um blurting random facts he was understanding the difference between the two but she understands
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what we were doing because what you guys were doing i think i don't know i think what happened
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was you'd be more argumentative we weren't being argumentative it is because what we've said no
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no what we've said is very i feel like we've all kind of kind of been very clear everyone actually
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agrees just in their own way no i don't think we do though because again you're looking at the
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obsession instead of the exception i always look at the minority hold on one second say what you said
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again in a traditional mindset two is better than one right so divorce would be my last option right
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just so i don't break that family dynamic right and the child gets that normal upbringing yes both
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parents yes unless unless there's exceptions where there's abuse which were right okay so mental
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we said exactly the same they didn't say that everyone's saying the same thing we said exactly
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the same thing no but what i'm saying is when you're giving when you're giving that advice just have
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a base no no did you hear she didn't she didn't say with the adopted orphan
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is that you don't go for a whole road okay okay okay okay we're done we're done no no no we're done
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we're done we're done we're done okay we're gonna go to the next one the next thing that men want
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okay i thought we were past that no no no i've been trying to go back now man i want to hear from the men
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first you can tell me if i'm wrong or maybe i'm right but maybe i know nothing and i just don't
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look at facts ever just terrible let's let's let's show the next one not a complete whore yes so we're
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in 2023 so just so you guys know 100 years ago most women were virgins on their wedding days zero partners
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now the men are able to compromise now on this and really these days they just want not a complete whore
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they're like you know i mean honestly three partners was considered the town bicycle back in
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the day now that is a godsend zero to five is so so yeah zero to five is the new virgin which used to
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be the town bicycle so men do compromise they i know they're saying earlier men don't compromise they do
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so now they say not a complete whore men true or false true true true true true women true or false
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yes true true true wow this is amazing now the next one yeah we really needed the other two for
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this one oh that was yeah they almost they almost made it you know yeah they just started with this
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one yeah okay well you know all right the next one does not argue yeah men would just rather be with
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a chick that is not argumentative and doesn't argue then they should be with a man because every
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woman is opinionated no they're not whoa that's not true let me let me let me know i i'm giving you
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guys a lot of air time i want to let the men i want to i'm going to let the men and i'm going to let
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you go next go ahead yeah women um that all women are opinionated that's not true i feel like a woman
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that's um deep into a femininity will understand about being not argumentative i won't say that
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there's anything wrong with having a an opinion on something but being argumentative and having
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an argument with someone is very different than having an opinion on something what what a lot of
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women don't understand yeah is we're not saying sit there shut up and never ever talk that's my
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point right i'm the captain you're the first mate and if i respect you i'll take your opinion on board
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but ultimately the decision's mine but people don't want to do that that's but that's how it should be and i
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believe that's when women are the happiest to be honest with you they don't really want to think
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and plan things a lot of the time you know so i don't know maybe i'm wrong well the one's laughing
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okay wait wait wait wait i want to let the men go go ahead go ahead no for me i feel like it's just
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it's it's the tone like it's the voice because at some point it's it gets to a point where there's
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there's a disconnect and it's just whose voice is louder so that's kind of like where i lose complete
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focus you know so i feel like if you're if you're talking about you know like whether the the fact
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that men prefer like women that don't argue as much it's probably because of that single like
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thought in their minds that if we get to an argument it becomes a contest of who's louder
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like whose voice is louder so we're not even discussing the topic anymore we're just trying to
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like impose like okay my opinion is above yours game what do you guys think then i'll let you go
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yeah i mean i i agree i think um yeah i mean why would you want to be with a woman who argues so
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much like you just you know you want to come home to like peaceful environment you know someone who
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makes you feel comfortable and you don't constantly need to be like fighting with them or um but at the
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same time i feel like if you want a woman to be like that you also need to be showing that you
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have the qualities to be this masculine guy that you're saying um and the issue that women face at
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the moment is we're not seeing those qualities in the men so we're going no i'm gonna run shit basically
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i'm not sitting here saying it's right but that is the reality and this is why we have these problems
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right now where women are just kind of like no i'm not going to listen to the man because they feel
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like the man is not capable no but i actually don't agree we had the conversation right the reality
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what i have noticed in the west is women actually are shying away from masculine men because women
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want to be in control so most women are picking feminine men whether they know it or not the reality
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is most women want to be able to have their same relationship and when they're with a man that
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doesn't let them have their way they look at it as he's being misogynistic he's been controlling
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he's been this he's been that look at the pete david yeah but i feel like those those are certain
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types of women and i i would say that those type of women have things like hyperindependency and things
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like that they come with all sorts of trauma i feel like a woman who's just fully in her feminine
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energy she would be happy for the man to lee what woman is fully in her feminine energy when i'm with my
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partner i'll give an example i'm very successful in my line of job and when people see me talk you
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know you see i'm people usually say i'm quite dominant when i'm with my partner i want to switch
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my brain off like i will do what he says he will direct me he will tell me where we're going today
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oh we're getting on a plane he's got the passports you know what i mean i don't want to think
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and i want to feel like he can just lead and i know that a lot of women want that feeling with men
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but they're not getting that and i don't know what the problem is i really don't oh yeah what do
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you as well i agree with everything yeah we would love to just switch our brains no the reason why
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the reason why and i would say this i'm not even trying to poke into your relationship but the reason
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why you are in that situation is because your man i mean i might i might just be spitballing here
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but your man probably has a lot of money i would say if he didn't have the money he did
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no matter how masculine he is you wouldn't give him that respect so you're talking about oh i just
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want to switch off and give him the passport the moment you said passport i just knew the kind of
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mind you're speaking about and the reality is women of old would be with an average man and still
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respect him yeah i i agree with that um a lot of the time women don't give an actual safe space for
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them to be masculine look at the start of the show like we can't even just be direct and just say it
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is how it is without people saying oh no you can't talk like that and so it's not you're not creating
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and even like even to lead like not everyone's gonna be the perfect leader but if you don't make
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it a safe space to make mistakes and then rectify those mistakes yeah yeah but the problem is money
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equals power and that's probably why the women respect the men better who have more money
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but the thing is the thing is though the issue is we have average women that won't respect average
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men yeah i'll give you an example the tv present i don't know if you're you might have been on that
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show the ebony williams ebony williams she's a she's in a similar like line of work to us right tv
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presenter 39 40 years old okay um objectively that's a below average woman by that age men are
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exactly lined up to date 40 year old women in general right and she's saying that she won't
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respect her date a bus driver but really you know the bus driver can still have a normal family she
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can't and so what the issue i would argue is that women that are i would argue below average and
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following are mad at men for being below average and leading but it's like everyone's below average who
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i mean even i would argue even in two parent homes homes most people didn't see traditional
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relationships so everyone's just trying to figure it out but it's like the women have no grace for
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the men i agree i think for a relationship to work a man has to feel masculine i mean he has to feel
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masculine you don't want to come home i mean i voice my opinions okay but when it comes to relationship
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i know how to cook i know how to bake and i know how to make a man feel respected um and i think that
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there is sort of you know i think that's general if you want a relationship to work then you've got to have
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a man that feels more masculine than a woman and i personally wouldn't like to feel in a relationship
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like i'm more masculine i do think there are roles as well would you argue if everyone plays their role
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i was just saying you said that you've said quite a lot today that you don't want no man and that's
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like very off-putting for a guy as well i didn't say i don't want no man or like you're not looking
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it's not that it's not that just independent lady not looking for a man it's that focused if a right man
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comes along and we got connection and we get on then great but i'm not going to lose my focus and
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focus on trying to find a man so it's not i'm not looking for a man i want of course i want a man
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everyone wants a man of course but you know i'm a man i'm getting that vibe i don't know if everyone
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i'm just getting the independent lady don't need no man vibe that's all that's just all i'm just that's
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cool because you know it is what it is i'm independent i can focus on my own but the point is of course
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having a relationship is nice and i know how to respect respect a man treat a man cook for a man
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bake for a man you know what i mean i know how to treat man but the point is that if i don't have
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a man or i haven't found anyone that i ain't got that connection with i'm not gonna just sit around
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and be like oh my god i will focus on providing my kids with a life that i don't have a man that can
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provide that life to my kids for and i will do that and then i hopefully meet a man who can come and
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i have an interesting question for you i have an interesting question for you your success yeah your
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success you've got in your business your law firm and all of that did you get it by being passive
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and be like well i don't need this law firm i don't need this absolutely no yeah there's a point that's
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not how it is just by working hard no but exactly so my point is you get what you focus and work
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towards absolutely just about so by the fact that you've already said and i'm not even trying to go on
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but the fact that you've already said that you well you're not focused on having a man if he comes he
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comes yeah because that's not what you're looking for but that's my point but that's literally the
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reason why you're probably not going to get one it's terrible it's terrible let's compare it so if
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if i was focused on having a man and therefore i would have to be less focused on my career
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i would be broke and single not not necessarily though but it will be i'm just saying yeah it's
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just it's bad advice though because for me we keep referring to advice who's giving advice no i'm
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saying like i'm just saying like in general like it springs up people so i would just say that if
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you're focusing on you want to attract a certain partner you have to kind of be the way that person
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that you're trying to attract um attract want you to be i would literally so just a lot of women talk
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about walk and say oh the right man will come in my life now it's probably not the case you probably
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have to attract the guy that you want to you would just look that's all i'm saying you know