JustPearlyThings - Deluded Feminists Start Arguing And Lying!

00:00:00.000 i have a traditional mindset where if i'm gonna have a child it has to be within marriage um

00:00:06.480 and me too the last resort is the brilliant because i care about my child and their upbringing

00:00:13.760 and i do believe that two parents is better than one yes and you can get obviously there's um

00:00:19.920 exceptions there's abuse there's yeah physical abuse whatever you want to call it but that's an

00:00:25.920 exception then i would choose to leave but it will be the last resort and you've said exactly what

00:00:30.720 we've just sat there and said exactly what we're saying no but you know what she did she explained

00:00:36.480 the difference between the exception and the rule is what she did she didn't just say she wasn't just

00:00:40.560 um blurting random facts he was understanding the difference between the two but she understands

00:00:45.840 what we were doing because what you guys were doing i think i don't know i think what happened

00:00:51.520 was you'd be more argumentative we weren't being argumentative it is because what we've said no

00:00:56.560 no what we've said is very i feel like we've all kind of kind of been very clear everyone actually

00:01:02.000 agrees just in their own way no i don't think we do though because again you're looking at the

00:01:06.480 obsession instead of the exception i always look at the minority hold on one second say what you said

00:01:11.200 again in a traditional mindset two is better than one right so divorce would be my last option right

00:01:19.280 just so i don't break that family dynamic right and the child gets that normal upbringing yes both

00:01:25.760 parents yes unless unless there's exceptions where there's abuse which were right okay so mental

00:01:31.840 we said exactly the same they didn't say that everyone's saying the same thing we said exactly

00:01:36.720 the same thing no but what i'm saying is when you're giving when you're giving that advice just have

00:01:41.200 a base no no did you hear she didn't she didn't say with the adopted orphan

00:01:52.400 is that you don't go for a whole road okay okay okay okay we're done we're done no no no we're done

00:01:57.360 we're done we're done we're done okay we're gonna go to the next one the next thing that men want

00:02:01.440 okay i thought we were past that no no no i've been trying to go back now man i want to hear from the men

00:02:08.400 first you can tell me if i'm wrong or maybe i'm right but maybe i know nothing and i just don't

00:02:13.200 look at facts ever just terrible let's let's let's show the next one not a complete whore yes so we're

00:02:20.560 in 2023 so just so you guys know 100 years ago most women were virgins on their wedding days zero partners

00:02:27.840 now the men are able to compromise now on this and really these days they just want not a complete whore

00:02:35.360 they're like you know i mean honestly three partners was considered the town bicycle back in

00:02:42.640 the day now that is a godsend zero to five is so so yeah zero to five is the new virgin which used to

00:02:50.480 be the town bicycle so men do compromise they i know they're saying earlier men don't compromise they do

00:02:56.880 so now they say not a complete whore men true or false true true true true true women true or false

00:03:04.240 yes true true true wow this is amazing now the next one yeah we really needed the other two for

00:03:12.240 this one oh that was yeah they almost they almost made it you know yeah they just started with this

00:03:19.600 one yeah okay well you know all right the next one does not argue yeah men would just rather be with

00:03:28.320 a chick that is not argumentative and doesn't argue then they should be with a man because every

00:03:35.600 woman is opinionated no they're not whoa that's not true let me let me let me know i i'm giving you

00:03:41.760 guys a lot of air time i want to let the men i want to i'm going to let the men and i'm going to let

00:03:48.080 you go next go ahead yeah women um that all women are opinionated that's not true i feel like a woman

00:03:54.480 that's um deep into a femininity will understand about being not argumentative i won't say that

00:03:59.760 there's anything wrong with having a an opinion on something but being argumentative and having

00:04:04.560 an argument with someone is very different than having an opinion on something what what a lot of

00:04:09.280 women don't understand yeah is we're not saying sit there shut up and never ever talk that's my

00:04:13.360 point right i'm the captain you're the first mate and if i respect you i'll take your opinion on board

00:04:18.160 but ultimately the decision's mine but people don't want to do that that's but that's how it should be and i

00:04:23.680 believe that's when women are the happiest to be honest with you they don't really want to think

00:04:26.880 and plan things a lot of the time you know so i don't know maybe i'm wrong well the one's laughing

00:04:33.360 okay wait wait wait wait i want to let the men go go ahead go ahead no for me i feel like it's just

00:04:40.160 it's it's the tone like it's the voice because at some point it's it gets to a point where there's

00:04:44.800 there's a disconnect and it's just whose voice is louder so that's kind of like where i lose complete

00:04:50.480 focus you know so i feel like if you're if you're talking about you know like whether the the fact

00:04:56.000 that men prefer like women that don't argue as much it's probably because of that single like

00:05:00.800 thought in their minds that if we get to an argument it becomes a contest of who's louder

00:05:05.120 like whose voice is louder so we're not even discussing the topic anymore we're just trying to

00:05:09.600 like impose like okay my opinion is above yours game what do you guys think then i'll let you go

00:05:15.600 yeah i mean i i agree i think um yeah i mean why would you want to be with a woman who argues so

00:05:24.320 much like you just you know you want to come home to like peaceful environment you know someone who

00:05:32.240 makes you feel comfortable and you don't constantly need to be like fighting with them or um but at the

00:05:38.400 same time i feel like if you want a woman to be like that you also need to be showing that you

00:05:46.400 have the qualities to be this masculine guy that you're saying um and the issue that women face at

00:05:53.440 the moment is we're not seeing those qualities in the men so we're going no i'm gonna run shit basically

00:06:03.040 i'm not sitting here saying it's right but that is the reality and this is why we have these problems

00:06:07.840 right now where women are just kind of like no i'm not going to listen to the man because they feel

00:06:11.840 like the man is not capable no but i actually don't agree we had the conversation right the reality

00:06:18.080 what i have noticed in the west is women actually are shying away from masculine men because women

00:06:24.240 want to be in control so most women are picking feminine men whether they know it or not the reality

00:06:30.480 is most women want to be able to have their same relationship and when they're with a man that

00:06:34.640 doesn't let them have their way they look at it as he's being misogynistic he's been controlling

00:06:39.280 he's been this he's been that look at the pete david yeah but i feel like those those are certain

00:06:47.120 types of women and i i would say that those type of women have things like hyperindependency and things

00:06:51.760 like that they come with all sorts of trauma i feel like a woman who's just fully in her feminine

00:06:56.640 energy she would be happy for the man to lee what woman is fully in her feminine energy when i'm with my

00:07:02.640 partner i'll give an example i'm very successful in my line of job and when people see me talk you

00:07:07.360 know you see i'm people usually say i'm quite dominant when i'm with my partner i want to switch

00:07:11.760 my brain off like i will do what he says he will direct me he will tell me where we're going today

00:07:18.960 oh we're getting on a plane he's got the passports you know what i mean i don't want to think

00:07:23.120 and i want to feel like he can just lead and i know that a lot of women want that feeling with men

00:07:29.440 but they're not getting that and i don't know what the problem is i really don't oh yeah what do

00:07:33.600 you as well i agree with everything yeah we would love to just switch our brains no the reason why

00:07:39.360 the reason why and i would say this i'm not even trying to poke into your relationship but the reason

00:07:43.440 why you are in that situation is because your man i mean i might i might just be spitballing here

00:07:49.200 but your man probably has a lot of money i would say if he didn't have the money he did

00:07:53.600 no matter how masculine he is you wouldn't give him that respect so you're talking about oh i just

00:07:59.040 want to switch off and give him the passport the moment you said passport i just knew the kind of

00:08:02.400 mind you're speaking about and the reality is women of old would be with an average man and still

00:08:07.520 respect him yeah i i agree with that um a lot of the time women don't give an actual safe space for

00:08:14.640 them to be masculine look at the start of the show like we can't even just be direct and just say it

00:08:23.280 is how it is without people saying oh no you can't talk like that and so it's not you're not creating

00:08:27.600 and even like even to lead like not everyone's gonna be the perfect leader but if you don't make

00:08:31.600 it a safe space to make mistakes and then rectify those mistakes yeah yeah but the problem is money

00:08:37.360 equals power and that's probably why the women respect the men better who have more money

00:08:45.680 but the thing is the thing is though the issue is we have average women that won't respect average

00:08:50.640 men yeah i'll give you an example the tv present i don't know if you're you might have been on that

00:08:54.560 show the ebony williams ebony williams she's a she's in a similar like line of work to us right tv

00:09:00.880 presenter 39 40 years old okay um objectively that's a below average woman by that age men are

00:09:07.200 exactly lined up to date 40 year old women in general right and she's saying that she won't

00:09:13.360 respect her date a bus driver but really you know the bus driver can still have a normal family she

00:09:18.880 can't and so what the issue i would argue is that women that are i would argue below average and

00:09:25.760 following are mad at men for being below average and leading but it's like everyone's below average who

00:09:31.440 i mean even i would argue even in two parent homes homes most people didn't see traditional

00:09:36.160 relationships so everyone's just trying to figure it out but it's like the women have no grace for

00:09:40.480 the men i agree i think for a relationship to work a man has to feel masculine i mean he has to feel

00:09:46.400 masculine you don't want to come home i mean i voice my opinions okay but when it comes to relationship

00:09:51.920 i know how to cook i know how to bake and i know how to make a man feel respected um and i think that

00:09:57.840 there is sort of you know i think that's general if you want a relationship to work then you've got to have

00:10:02.400 a man that feels more masculine than a woman and i personally wouldn't like to feel in a relationship

00:10:06.880 like i'm more masculine i do think there are roles as well would you argue if everyone plays their role

00:10:12.560 i was just saying you said that you've said quite a lot today that you don't want no man and that's

00:10:16.400 like very off-putting for a guy as well i didn't say i don't want no man or like you're not looking

00:10:22.720 it's not that it's not that just independent lady not looking for a man it's that focused if a right man

00:10:27.920 comes along and we got connection and we get on then great but i'm not going to lose my focus and

00:10:32.320 focus on trying to find a man so it's not i'm not looking for a man i want of course i want a man

00:10:36.640 everyone wants a man of course but you know i'm a man i'm getting that vibe i don't know if everyone

00:10:41.920 i'm just getting the independent lady don't need no man vibe that's all that's just all i'm just that's

00:10:46.240 cool because you know it is what it is i'm independent i can focus on my own but the point is of course

00:10:51.520 having a relationship is nice and i know how to respect respect a man treat a man cook for a man

00:10:56.880 bake for a man you know what i mean i know how to treat man but the point is that if i don't have

00:11:00.880 a man or i haven't found anyone that i ain't got that connection with i'm not gonna just sit around

00:11:05.680 and be like oh my god i will focus on providing my kids with a life that i don't have a man that can

00:11:10.560 provide that life to my kids for and i will do that and then i hopefully meet a man who can come and

00:11:16.160 i have an interesting question for you i have an interesting question for you your success yeah your

00:11:20.640 success you've got in your business your law firm and all of that did you get it by being passive

00:11:27.440 and be like well i don't need this law firm i don't need this absolutely no yeah there's a point that's

00:11:32.000 not how it is just by working hard no but exactly so my point is you get what you focus and work

00:11:37.520 towards absolutely just about so by the fact that you've already said and i'm not even trying to go on

00:11:43.280 but the fact that you've already said that you well you're not focused on having a man if he comes he

00:11:47.120 comes yeah because that's not what you're looking for but that's my point but that's literally the

00:11:51.520 reason why you're probably not going to get one it's terrible it's terrible let's compare it so if

00:11:56.720 if i was focused on having a man and therefore i would have to be less focused on my career

00:12:02.800 i would be broke and single not not necessarily though but it will be i'm just saying yeah it's

00:12:08.400 just it's bad advice though because for me we keep referring to advice who's giving advice no i'm

00:12:13.280 saying like i'm just saying like in general like it springs up people so i would just say that if

00:12:17.280 you're focusing on you want to attract a certain partner you have to kind of be the way that person

00:12:21.440 that you're trying to attract um attract want you to be i would literally so just a lot of women talk

00:12:26.160 about walk and say oh the right man will come in my life now it's probably not the case you probably

00:12:29.200 have to attract the guy that you want to you would just look that's all i'm saying you know

JustPearlyThings - October 09, 2023

Deluded Feminists Start Arguing And Lying!

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