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Summary
In this episode, Shanell and I discuss abuse and how it affects women in general. We discuss emotional abuse, mental abuse, emotional manipulation, emotional abuse in relationships, and why women are always crying about it. We also discuss the difference between emotional abuse and mental abuse in men and women, and who is more abusive?
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the average man can beat up a woman pretty easy if you're fine if you don't have any visible no
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arms are broken no nothing my question is how is he abusing you what is abuse well there's
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all different types kinds of terms of abuse correct mental abuse okay okay right there
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right there right there mental abuse mental abuse who is more emotionally manipulative men or women
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women so why are the women always crying abuse like this is what i'm saying like and that's the
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problem you said emotional abuse that used to not even exist that term didn't even exist until like
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the 80s 70s or 80s they they got into the feminist got into the legal system added all these words
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that don't mean anything to convince women that were victims like they expanded the definition of abuse
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and so that that's what i mean like i i don't think it's that common for a man to beat a woman
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i would add to that and say i don't think most females are lying i would say they provoke the
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situation and they just don't want to admit that they even started it first or literally just provoked
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it i would agree with that yeah i just want to say for everyone who's watching this if you're going
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through abuse right now and you you know you find our stuff our conversation offensive please you know
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this is just our individual opinions and if you are going through it you know seek help
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and my love to you anyway sorry sorry i had to cut that yeah i still i totally agree i still think the
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majority are lying yeah i would say over i would say 80 percent lying and i think they over exaggerate it
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i think they don't talk about their part to play i think they emotionally abuse the men oftentimes they
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just snap because they emotionally abuse it i and i think it's funny because again women do it to men
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more than men do it to women yet women are always what whining i can agree with you i swear we're on
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the same team i swear to god i agree with you trust me but i'm telling you there's some people out there
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right now that are suffering and they're not they're not they don't even know how to speak abuse abuse
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abuse totally exists i'm mentally abused i'm not saying i'm not saying it doesn't exist but my
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whole point is like why wouldn't you go to the police and i and i think and no i think we got
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to end this narrative and they love them they love them it is what is they love them i think we gotta
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end the narrative i think as a woman you cannot accuse a man of being abusive without going to
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criminal court but then it's the same thing that you said it comes down to evidence correct and i
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with this there's not evidence okay any any guy in here any guy in here if he abused me you don't
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think there would be evidence oh come on again i'm i'm i'm i'm strong wait i i deadlift i deadlift 300
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pounds i can bench a plate i'm six foot i'm tall and strong for a chick any one of these guys could
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beat me up pretty easy to the point they're like there would be bruises there would be there would
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absolutely be evidence well i i agree with what's your name again sorry me yeah shanela i agree with
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shanela and again like i said you can't pigeonhole every situation yeah i'm not i'm not i'm not saying
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you are i'm not saying remember what i said before i'm talking about in general yeah so i'm not saying
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you are pigeonholing because like what you're saying yeah you are right there are some very
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manipulative women out there and when they can't get that they want yeah they may tell lies but then
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on the other hand which they're always at other hand there's generally women that are being
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literally abused yeah abusive women exist yeah i'm not saying they don't i mean you know it's yin and
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yang i mean there is and i feel like if guys as well you know like i feel like guys don't speak as much
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because simply the fact that it takes away their male masculinity and stuff like that and it will
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make them feel like i think i'm not a man guys don't speak because nobody would care
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they would still they would still paint the women i i've seen videos on tiktok of a woman like
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freaking out at a man and what and what what does everyone say in the comments well what did he do
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right i mean we had we had on uh we had anyone country fan country fan carrie underwood i dug my
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key into the side i was pretty lit you know the song right she she keys his car for cheating and if a
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guy did that to a woman everyone be freaking out i would even argue that if we're to use the same
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way that women define abuse to like look at all the cases that men go through i would argue that
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almost every woman has abused a man that they've been in a relationship with
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if we're to if we're to go by the same standards of the way women shout abuse
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i would say every single woman that has dated a man has abused that man yeah i agree
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you what sorry i feel like that just got a little late on me the drink kind of delayed a little bit
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oh he was saying that most women if we use the same definitions most women have abused men
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okay well i know someone really close to me that um is a man that has been abused by a woman
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yeah i know the word is just dramatic but anyway either way it is some sort of abuse
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no physical abuse my point i'm saying oh if we're to use the definitions of the way
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women claim abuse let's let's even take it out of in general i would say
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you sitting right there have abused almost every man you've been in a relationship with
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wait are you telling me that i have yeah oh really is that how i come across
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it's not about what you come across i'm just telling you how relationships go
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oh you so you're not telling me that i am abusive to a man
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he's saying by the definition that feminists use okay by the legal so coercive control emotionally
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manipulative narcissistic it's like women throw narcissists at men 24 7 when it's like who's more
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narcissistic we're the ones addicted to social media yeah we're all just basically corrupt aren't we
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yeah that's the whole point no one's special and no one's perfect she gets it wow
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um okay we're we're here's your turn go ahead um someone who smokes just because um that's a good deal
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breaker yeah yeah just makes me nauseous um someone who's not christian and someone who has a temper
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okay what about he's perfect but but he's he's barely been to church oh i think that's the topic
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for discussion no i'm just curious you personally probably not no no have you ever dated a non-christian
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before no okay uh what about you um a deal breaker um mine would be um aggressive if they come
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across quite aggressive um if they can't communicate um addiction etc okay yeah okay go ahead um i would
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say um lack of self-respect and also i just might come across a bit obviously but high body count
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i think a woman has got like obsessive sexual past kind of hard to how logically to i mean if she tells
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me if i don't know then i don't know if she if i know do you think you can generally tell when a woman
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woman has a high body count i don't think you don't think you can tell i mean by just looking at her
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no just by by dating her probably could yeah eventually how high is too high for you uh so
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it's a bit kind of no no i just want to i want to i want to pin you down like what depends how it
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depends how old she is okay let's do 25 30 let's do 25 no let's do 20 25 and 30. 20 yeah i think 20 probably
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like it's like two okay two at 20 too high all right no not not too high two at 20 i could deal
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with like four five 20 it's like okay okay now 25 25 it's like eight nine okay eight or nine too much
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all right 30. okay i could probably the same for 25 i feel like 25 you should have been in a serious
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religion for at least two three years or something like you should have just stayed with someone for a
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wow that's the most common answer i get is 10. okay like roughly 10 right that's yeah that's the
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most common answer i get from guys it's funny though i feel like the same way like all right women
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will give me a number for income but they really mean like 20 percent less i feel like when men say 10
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they really mean 15. if she's hot enough i mean it's nothing about that with me it's just i feel like
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women with high body count kind of like because i'm a guy and i'm thinking even me as a man in fact
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so many flashbacks got deal with how do you even like even if you find it even if you find a person
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for you like your soul mate you still got to deal with all the sexual encounters you've actually been
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through all the experiences right all the sobering and all the connection you've had with so many
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different people how do you then sit to settle one person yeah you can you could be with them because
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you like them but there's still so many things dragging you around that's okay question
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she slept with three men but one is drake i really don't care about that and then okay the
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guy doesn't matter yeah it doesn't really matter okay so if he was a loser or the best guy ever i mean
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i think i'd rather drake because to me that's like oh okay yeah i feel like yeah but if he's a loser
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then i feel like so the celebrities would be like a better yeah i mean better i mean yeah but someone is
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i feel like okay cool like hey shoot okay you're short rather than some gal thinking you didn't
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have any self-value like okay do you agree with that with what with his opinion like you know of
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which part like of the you know sleeping with drake it's like i don't care about all that do you feel
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like that's a problem i i don't know the type of gal that's gonna sleep with drake it's like i mean
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yeah i mean like she slept with three guys one of them is straight yeah yeah i mean i think most
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guys will take three though they're like all right that's like damn near that's damn near a virgin
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nowadays they're like so it's okay yeah it's okay no i didn't say okay actually i think it depends on
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and how drake sees her is it that as well or no if she didn't date drake then she's
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cancelled excommunicado yeah but there's still three though there are some girls dating uncle
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whatever anyone can hit it so if it's drake i don't matter to me it doesn't matter if she was
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drake's stylist or whatever she was the point is like if she's a girl that has ever slept with a guy
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for money or clout or any of that crap it doesn't matter if it's drake or if he's like uncle down the
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road yeah but i'm saying is if she is 30 or let's say 25 and the body count is free and one of them
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girls with drake personally i would not trip about that yeah i get it i get what you're saying but
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i'm saying i'm not even gonna ask i'm saying i'm saying if she was the type of girl that was like a
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groupie bruv oh okay but if she's a groupie then i'm sure her body count would be higher because
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drake's not the only celebrity so that means she'll smash some is so many other celebrities as well
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so i guess to me the body count is what i'm looking at life is free and drake is in there probably
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drake probably saw their dreams she probably just you know what i'm saying like oh yeah it's drake and yeah
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melissa don't know who drake is see now that's how you know am i the only person in the world who
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doesn't know who drake is no it's good it's good you're setting an example not everyone is in the
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life that everyone thinks that everyone's in does this make sure yeah she's a sex worker that's
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literally the whole no no no no no no no no no no she don't know who drake is like i can't
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ask most guys sex worker but doesn't know who drake it like yeah