JustPearlyThings - April 19, 2023


DELUSIONAL BIMBO Accuses Sneako Of This


Episode Stats


Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

238.0757

Word count

2,707

Sentence count

262

Harmful content

Misogyny

18

sentences flagged

Hate speech

20

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about racism, misogyny and the system that keeps us stuck in a victim mindset. We also discuss what it means to be a black man in the 21st century and why it's important to not be stuck in the victim mentality.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 They share these stories like George Floyd
00:00:02.520 and like that Afro nonsense that you saw on the news 1.00
00:00:04.560 in order for you to believe that there's a system
00:00:06.640 that's holding you back. It's not.
00:00:08.600 And you saw here, we're talking about race.
00:00:10.120 Hold on, so the man went online and was like,
00:00:11.840 I didn't get the job, sat there and didn't have it
00:00:14.020 at this point when he got on the news.
00:00:15.520 They pick and chose to run that story because it gives people like you
00:00:17.820 a reason to feel... Not people like me.
00:00:19.740 Exactly, people like you.
00:00:20.880 They used to want to give my mum free food in the market 0.78
00:00:23.140 because they didn't believe that white woman could have 0.99
00:00:25.400 three little kids with Afros.
00:00:27.320 They used to give her food because they used to think
00:00:29.500 that were little African children that suffer.
00:00:32.100 These times we were quite wealthy.
00:00:33.980 So, for example...
00:00:35.400 Okay, my overall point is that
00:00:37.240 people like to have a victim mindset, especially...
00:00:39.420 It's not a victimization, I'm just saying it exists.
00:00:41.000 Okay, that's it.
00:00:41.760 That's my point, is that we hear this victimized mindset right now
00:00:45.060 in order to give you a way to navigate the world
00:00:47.500 that justifies a lot of your thoughts and beliefs.
00:00:49.500 We're talking about race and you're like,
00:00:50.980 it's giving misogyny.
00:00:53.320 No, you are not...
00:00:54.580 What does call out the victimization of the race?
00:00:58.280 Vibration.
00:00:59.240 You feel the vibrations of misogyny?
00:01:01.260 Yeah, of your mentality.
00:01:03.220 Your mentality is one of...
00:01:05.500 You're a type of man.
00:01:06.920 That's what...
00:01:07.320 What type of man?
00:01:07.880 No, sister, they're just here trying to make you look stupid.
00:01:10.400 That's what their job is.
00:01:11.580 It's not that hard.
00:01:12.740 They like to make girls look dumb. 0.99
00:01:13.580 That's it.
00:01:13.680 It's not that fucking hard.
00:01:14.880 So, don't take it personal.
00:01:15.800 They literally just want to catch you out.
00:01:17.380 I'm trying to get to what she really believes.
00:01:20.660 King Richard trains me for this.
00:01:21.900 All right, what are the vibrations that I'm giving you that...
00:01:24.420 Let's give them misogynist. 0.92
00:01:25.940 Why?
00:01:26.400 What did we say...
00:01:27.220 Like you...
00:01:27.720 I'm not being funny.
00:01:28.720 What value do you see?
00:01:30.320 And how do you value women?
00:01:32.000 Do you see the value of women? 1.00
00:01:33.180 Like, are you for or against feminism? 0.95
00:01:33.720 I explained it five minutes ago.
00:01:35.360 You didn't.
00:01:35.900 I said that I'm against feminism and I said that... 0.99
00:01:37.700 And why?
00:01:38.200 Yeah, but if you're going to call him a misogynist...
00:01:40.760 She asked me a question.
00:01:41.540 I'm finished.
00:01:41.960 I said the value of a woman is motherhood is in raising children. 1.00
00:01:45.080 I said that we respect mothers.
00:01:46.680 I opened the show by saying that.
00:01:47.860 Okay, go on.
00:01:48.300 So what did I say that makes you think that I'm a misogynist?
00:01:50.500 That's a serious allegation.
00:01:52.540 I said it's giving misogynist.
00:01:53.960 What is giving misogynist?
00:01:55.200 Your vibration.
00:01:56.320 My vibrations?
00:01:57.040 Yeah, the vibes.
00:01:57.320 You're vibrating misogynist right now?
00:01:58.980 The vibes, no.
00:01:59.580 So are you vibrating with racism too?
00:02:01.540 No, you're moving a little bit mean though.
00:02:02.540 What goes on in women... 1.00
00:02:04.220 You're moving a little bit mean, that's why.
00:02:05.880 I'm moving mean?
00:02:06.500 A little bit.
00:02:07.300 No, you're trying to put your masculinity into...
00:02:09.300 Yeah, you become a bit aggressive.
00:02:10.580 ...insertive and I don't like that.
00:02:11.860 That's a bit misogynist.
00:02:12.780 It becomes a bit aggressive, right?
00:02:13.380 Yeah, it's...
00:02:13.860 You're speaking a bit like, ugh.
00:02:14.920 It's the masculinity, I can feel it, and it's like, you're trying to suppress my feminine.
00:02:19.120 It's not...
00:02:20.120 No, he's not.
00:02:21.280 He needs to be a bit more specific.
00:02:22.860 He's trying to suppress your dickhead. 0.54
00:02:25.540 Like, come on, bro.
00:02:27.300 Y'all look, y'all are all smart, pretty young women.
00:02:29.500 You can do anything you want to in this fucking world.
00:02:31.740 And my message is this, Oprah.
00:02:33.820 Listen.
00:02:35.260 Fucking, here's the thing.
00:02:37.080 And you swear a lot.
00:02:38.540 I do, a lot.
00:02:39.560 I'm sorry.
00:02:40.120 I do.
00:02:40.500 I know.
00:02:41.120 I do.
00:02:41.500 I'm going to keep doing that.
00:02:42.780 So, here's the thing.
00:02:44.340 I just, there's no planet where I'm going to allow particularly a young black man to think 1.00
00:02:48.400 that he can't go out.
00:02:49.860 What about a young white man?
00:02:50.640 Young white man?
00:02:51.220 Yeah, go on.
00:02:51.960 No, basically, sister, don't worry.
00:02:54.040 No, no, no, it's because...
00:02:56.340 White and black.
00:02:57.140 We didn't see contrast.
00:02:58.100 No, because we're talking about race particularly right now.
00:03:01.900 And I, like, no planet do I want to ever put out into the universe, or allow to be put
00:03:08.240 out in the universe, that a young black man is going to not be able to be successful
00:03:11.860 in his life because of his skin color.
00:03:13.780 There's no chance.
00:03:15.840 And I will sit here, and you can call me whatever you want, but I just know too many of them,
00:03:20.680 and I know too many that have been successful.
00:03:22.140 Yeah, but you're one of a few.
00:03:23.580 You're not, like, the majority.
00:03:24.740 But you have to understand how many people watch this show.
00:03:27.280 Can I say...
00:03:27.580 And how many people watch our channel.
00:03:28.940 Can I...
00:03:29.240 It's important.
00:03:30.020 No, you're not.
00:03:30.840 Can I challenge you guys?
00:03:31.420 I understand that, but in general, it does, it doesn't stop you, but it does make a little
00:03:35.420 challenge a bit harder in the world, just a little bit.
00:03:38.040 Can I...
00:03:38.860 He's like, he's like, you're one of the first white men that I've met who have this mentality.
00:03:43.520 Maybe it's...
00:03:44.220 No, no, no, no.
00:03:45.280 You know what I honestly...
00:03:46.740 I think most white men...
00:03:48.140 He's politically correct.
00:03:49.180 No, not most white men.
00:03:49.860 He's politically correct.
00:03:50.480 Prejudice exists.
00:03:51.780 Maybe not racism.
00:03:52.740 Let's adjust the word.
00:03:53.520 Not racism.
00:03:54.520 Prejudice is something different.
00:03:56.320 I do.
00:03:56.620 I believe that, and I think that there's prejudice all over the world.
00:03:59.560 There you go, then.
00:04:00.340 I was just a little bit strong and a little bit more negative.
00:04:02.840 And a bit lowly.
00:04:04.140 Sure.
00:04:04.740 And in countries like Japan that are very, you know, homogenous, they won't even let you 1.00
00:04:10.560 in the restaurant unless you're Japanese.
00:04:13.380 Like, you guys, you think you've seen racism.
00:04:15.680 Bro, there's some places in this world I've been that are turbo racist.
00:04:20.680 Outwardly, and get away with it.
00:04:22.600 I think a black person today has a better chance than they've ever had.
00:04:26.080 Is it completely fair?
00:04:27.100 No, I don't think so.
00:04:28.180 But I don't think life is completely fair at all.
00:04:31.080 And there's no way I'm going to let somebody mentally handicap themselves from the jump.
00:04:35.000 And, you know, it's true.
00:04:35.660 Don't assume that about me, Bridget, in making our contact.
00:04:37.700 I don't think it's an impairment to me.
00:04:39.520 I know it made me a bit stronger, but I know it exists, and it actually wasn't an obstacle.
00:04:43.440 Then for you, it's a superpower.
00:04:44.860 Yeah, that's it.
00:04:45.860 I just want to reframe it.
00:04:46.900 Thank you.
00:04:47.300 And have a different relationship with it.
00:04:48.760 I don't know how you called us victims at first, but for me, being a black, independent woman
00:04:51.820 is a superwoman. 1.00
00:04:52.580 Because she led with it.
00:04:53.720 I'm leaving with my superpower.
00:04:54.640 What do you want me to do?
00:04:55.140 As she said, I agree with that.
00:04:56.240 Yeah, but it didn't sound like a superpower then, did it?
00:04:58.080 No, because you didn't allow me to finish.
00:04:59.620 She started saying, no, you're leading with that. 0.95
00:05:00.740 What does that have to do?
00:05:01.500 You became challenging.
00:05:02.400 And this is the problem.
00:05:03.620 This is why she said, you guys are feeling a little bit like misogynistic.
00:05:06.600 But that's not what she means.
00:05:07.500 It's like, you're going to be very aggressive and very challenging.
00:05:10.160 They're just talking about passion because it's important.
00:05:13.040 It's important.
00:05:13.560 It's not beef.
00:05:14.060 It's important because you have to go out into the world with the absolute mindset that regardless
00:05:19.160 of your circumstances, regardless of your background or your racial ethnicity or anything,
00:05:23.840 that you can go out and you can make a success of your life.
00:05:26.560 We all have to do that 100%.
00:05:28.420 And that's why they're getting so passionate about it.
00:05:29.960 You know what real love...
00:05:30.340 Because it's really important.
00:05:31.760 Exactly.
00:05:32.200 No, he's dead on.
00:05:32.880 You know what real love looks like?
00:05:35.240 In my opinion, real love is dark and real love takes risks.
00:05:39.060 So let's say you're fucking up and let's just say it was racism.
00:05:42.400 I'm willing to step in front of you and have you be angry with me so I can somehow change
00:05:47.900 where you're fucking up and you can be mad at me if you want because most people, people 0.95
00:05:51.380 don't give a shit about you, will let you leave and be like, that bitch is fucking up. 1.00
00:05:54.840 I would much rather get into a heated argument with you and have the courage to sit in front
00:05:58.320 of you and tell you my truth and have the thought of somebody thinking that I'm racist
00:06:02.040 on the internet, I'd rather do that than let the young men that follow me believe they
00:06:06.640 don't have a shot.
00:06:07.380 I'd much rather sit in that.
00:06:09.420 And to me, that's the only kind of friends I want.
00:06:11.640 It's people that are going to tell me the truth and what I'm fucking up.
00:06:13.520 So you get mad at me, but I just hate to see it led that way.
00:06:16.860 I'd much rather hear about the skills you have.
00:06:18.840 And I'm with you, Pearl.
00:06:20.200 I'll triple the 200.
00:06:21.380 And then are you going to say well done to my skills?
00:06:23.060 Are you going to say go get in the kitchen?
00:06:24.900 Fuck yeah.
00:06:25.320 No.
00:06:25.580 You know how much women privilege you have? 1.00
00:06:29.500 You just got offered $1,000 to see if you could fix it.
00:06:32.920 And that's what I'm saying.
00:06:34.020 It's a superpower.
00:06:34.960 Should I take it black because you're a black girl? 1.00
00:06:36.920 No.
00:06:37.020 No.
00:06:37.320 Don't take it back.
00:06:38.320 I'm a hustler.
00:06:39.440 Actually, do you hear the black privilege too?
00:06:41.100 I peeped it a little bit earlier.
00:06:42.760 Black people and minorities in general have more freedom of speech than white people.
00:06:46.460 Because you just said that in my experience, white people aren't like this.
00:06:50.400 And he's the first white guy you've ever seen act that way.
00:06:53.000 You're able to say, and that's pattern recognition.
00:06:55.960 If a white person said the same thing, that would be seen as racist.
00:06:59.460 You can't make judgments about other minorities like that.
00:07:02.760 White people have the least amount of freedom of speech right now because immediately, and 0.98
00:07:05.520 especially right now, you call it saying that you're vibrating with misogyny because I'm
00:07:09.500 speaking aggressively towards you.
00:07:11.120 That victim mentality gives you a lot more free speech than you're really aware of.
00:07:14.520 If I say something that upsets you, it's misogynistic.
00:07:16.740 If you see patterns in different races, that's just seen as your worldview.
00:07:22.120 If he said the same thing, oh, you're the first black girl that talked that way, in my experience, 0.62
00:07:25.720 you would call him a racist.
00:07:27.240 Yeah, he makes a good point because if somebody, if one of us guys said, oh, this woman over 0.99
00:07:31.120 here, she's, I can feel the vibration of her toxic femininity, you know, we'd just be 1.00
00:07:35.560 like cancelled immediately.
00:07:37.060 Not really.
00:07:38.000 No, they would just call us retarded.
00:07:39.240 That's just a retarded thing to say. 0.99
00:07:42.320 I think racism and all of these issues do exist, but I feel like I agree with you guys
00:07:47.980 and thank you guys because you actually gave me a new way of thinking that we don't have
00:07:51.680 to use this as a barrier because at the end of the day, what we think is what will manifest.
00:07:54.960 They do exist.
00:07:56.140 They absolutely 100% do exist.
00:07:57.740 But regardless of that, you know, you still have to go out and you still have to go out
00:08:01.560 into the world and make it work for you because that's the only, that's the only thing that
00:08:05.080 we've got.
00:08:05.560 And think about it this way.
00:08:06.560 Like if racism was such this big barrier that you guys are exaggerating it to be, why
00:08:10.300 would we have black billionaires like Jay-Z and Kanye West?
00:08:13.120 Well, absolutely.
00:08:14.480 I mean, if you think about it, if you think about any, any ethnicity, any background, any social
00:08:18.140 class, there are examples of people who've gone on to become hugely, hugely successful.
00:08:23.080 So that's what you've got to look at.
00:08:25.180 At an incredibly disproportional rate.
00:08:27.400 Not the guy who.
00:08:28.360 Yes, but that's a really important point.
00:08:30.440 So in America, blacks are 13% of the population.
00:08:33.060 Of course, most of the white people are making the money.
00:08:36.060 It's a small population.
00:08:36.900 It's just the amount of people.
00:08:38.180 But at the same time, there's more poor white people than there are going to be poor black 0.83
00:08:42.580 people just by statistical numbers.
00:08:44.960 You know what I'm saying?
00:08:45.720 Like, of course, but the population of incarcerations, although it's only 13% of the black population.
00:08:51.340 So how much of it is crime though?
00:08:53.300 No, but I'm saying how much of it is crime though?
00:08:54.960 Regardless, still, but it's higher than the white people, right? 0.79
00:08:57.080 More black people in the in prison in by percentage. 0.98
00:08:59.720 So would you say that's, would you say that's suppression or black people's culture?
00:09:03.480 And this is the thing.
00:09:04.680 I'm asking.
00:09:05.400 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:09:06.040 You hit the best point.
00:09:07.240 And this is good.
00:09:08.560 It is a very much so.
00:09:09.580 Did you say culture?
00:09:10.140 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:09:10.940 What does that mean?
00:09:11.720 Wait, I want to say.
00:09:12.780 I'll tell you.
00:09:13.540 Can I say it?
00:09:14.200 Sure.
00:09:14.620 Right.
00:09:14.920 It is cultural because this is the thing.
00:09:17.140 Now with racism, because of culture and how things happen back in the day, people have
00:09:21.900 just been stuck in kind of like that limbo of like, okay, what do we do now?
00:09:25.600 Black people are still trying to catch up with a lot of things.
00:09:27.780 So that's why right now, yeah, it is still a cultural thing.
00:09:31.600 And what we can do is say the things that you were saying is empower yourself, regardless
00:09:35.120 of what you look like, because you are letting the cultural context ruin your prospects 0.99
00:09:41.740 because you're letting that make you be less when you're not.
00:09:44.060 And why are you acting so surprised when he said cultural?
00:09:46.600 Aren't you?
00:09:46.880 I'm surprised too.
00:09:48.000 I'm surprised.
00:09:49.080 Wait, wait, wait.
00:09:49.660 What do you mean?
00:09:50.140 Why am I acting surprised?
00:09:51.200 Aren't you a rapper?
00:09:52.320 So?
00:09:54.040 What does that mean?
00:09:54.860 What genre of music advocates for murder all the time?
00:09:57.940 Hip hop.
00:09:58.980 Hip hop.
00:09:59.560 Yeah.
00:10:00.580 So you're a rapper.
00:10:01.440 You know the genre is black dominated.
00:10:03.720 They advocate for violence all the time.
00:10:05.360 And you're going to be like, cultural.
00:10:06.380 You know what my problem with it is actually that I hate is when a young black man goes and 1.00
00:10:10.600 gets successful, and obviously because of the numbers and the businessmen in the world,
00:10:14.080 he ends up working white people and they call him an Uncle Tom.
00:10:16.280 And I think that's bullshit.
00:10:18.000 Truly.
00:10:18.380 What's that?
00:10:18.960 I think, no.
00:10:19.820 No, it is bullshit.
00:10:20.640 I think they only call you an Uncle Tom if you're acting a certain way.
00:10:24.560 Like speaking correctly?
00:10:25.900 No, no.
00:10:26.340 As in black.
00:10:27.180 No, no.
00:10:27.860 I'm not trying to be disrespectful.
00:10:29.320 I would never.
00:10:29.860 No, I agree with you.
00:10:30.540 But when I've seen people call someone an Uncle Tom is in a sense where you're just,
00:10:34.800 from what I've seen is they will like, when I watch NWA is they, they made all the black 1.00
00:10:40.200 guys just get on the floor for no reason just because they were black. 0.82
00:10:42.320 And the black policeman is just standing for it. 1.00
00:10:44.100 I would call that an Uncle Tom because you just, which happened in real life, by the way,
00:10:48.200 it's a documentary.
00:10:49.100 So it's not fake.
00:10:49.920 It's real.
00:10:50.200 It wasn't a documentary.
00:10:51.180 It happened in real life though.
00:10:52.660 That's what I'm telling you.
00:10:53.340 Can I ask you a question?
00:10:55.280 You know, a good like 40 to 50% of people that have been incarcerated is because of something
00:10:59.680 that they didn't do.
00:11:00.880 How is that culture for the people?
00:11:02.420 Do you think it's 40 or 50% of both?
00:11:04.200 I think it's a high percentage for black people.
00:11:06.440 Can I say something?
00:11:07.340 I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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