JustPearlyThings - April 28, 2023


Delusional Feminist Claims That Women DONT NEED Men


Episode Stats

Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

218.47307

Word Count

2,564

Sentence Count

3

Misogynist Sentences

26

Hate Speech Sentences

20


Summary

In this episode, I sit down with my good friend, academic and sexual health advisor, Dr. Claire Hart, to discuss the controversial topic of abortion and fatherhood in modern society. We discuss the pros and cons of abortion, fatherhood and the role of fathers in society.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 the the female guest is not reasonable at all abortions are not self-paid by the public tax
00:00:05.340 dollars allowing for someone else to address that abortion without care or concern is the very
00:00:09.960 definition of irresponsible here in the uk they are so i was a sexual health advisor i worked for
00:00:14.560 bpass i help women um access abortions uh here in the uk they are so that's probably a yes yeah
00:00:22.140 okay wait these these might be towards you because my audience is more like agreeing with me no that's
00:00:27.420 absolutely fine reproductive responsibility or lack thereof is clearly illustrated by many
00:00:32.040 articles such they're of the university of massachusetts medical school titled who are
00:00:35.940 these four american women who chose abortion shows the reasons again it's very u.s yeah it's very
00:00:42.140 u.s based whereas i am uk so i think a lot of my background and research that's it professor roger
00:00:47.740 ingram and professor claire hart if you look at their work in the psychology of attractiveness
00:00:52.600 and relationships and psychology of um sexual health and reproduction that's where a lot of my
00:00:57.080 bias comes from so you know i acknowledge my bias i acknowledge and i acknowledge your difference like
00:01:02.840 obviously your experience your knowledge um i'm not gonna argue with you i'm gonna say yeah cool like
00:01:08.260 yeah difference i'm comfortable with it like okay the the foster child who is forced to be born because
00:01:13.880 they weren't asked let's turn that around maybe the fetus within the womb wants to be born but the
00:01:18.700 selfish woman overvalues themselves over the child and it beforehand but then we can ask is it a selfish
00:01:25.040 man that wants to come inside you like there's a lot of oh yeah i've been telling them they should
00:01:29.680 wrap this up there's a lot there's a lot of i've been saying like but then and that's it it's really
00:01:35.200 not black and white because then we'll get men who are like oh you're pregnant you want an abortion
00:01:39.940 but i want that kid and then it's like well wait wait a minute it's not your do you think you
00:01:44.040 should have a say in abortion like i'm gonna be real no no i'm gonna be real no because it's not
00:01:50.580 your body i would then say if mankind have a say in abortion which i kind of low-key agree with
00:01:56.560 then men should be able to opt out of fatherhood responsibility in the eyes of the law yeah you
00:02:02.420 agree with that i do agree with that if a man didn't want to become a father and ah it's really
00:02:07.860 so for example so here's the thing no no wait so so here's the thing right here's the thing right
00:02:12.500 i knock you up you get pregnant i don't want the kid you want the kid right i am saying i should be
00:02:17.960 able to go you know what i want nothing to do that kid and you cannot legally take me to court for any
00:02:21.560 child support for any help whatsoever right i have the option to opt out of fatherhood do you agree with
00:02:26.840 that i do and i think like that's it if if i came to you and i went hey look um if you do xyz i'm
00:02:34.440 gonna get pregnant and you went ahead with it no but then that's still that's still technically on
00:02:38.960 me to be like if you went oh okay i'm gonna fuck you anyway and then i'd be like well no amy like
00:02:44.220 you need to we do all need to prioritize our own self-interest so i'm personally like i'm quite
00:02:50.680 responsible in that i'm like you know what it's on me i'm i'm not gonna drag anyone i'm not gonna like
00:02:56.280 it's on me to deal with my own bullshit so i would personally be like yeah like and especially when
00:03:01.640 that's why a lot of people choose single parenthood um if someone gets you pregnant
00:03:06.380 not particularly though like because you can go after a man's financial like i mean girls are trying
00:03:12.140 they're trying to get you they're trying to get a kid i think i do think that's the minority
00:03:18.140 that are trying to like trap a man i'll be honest i've had two women in my life which i guess isn't a
00:03:24.320 lot but i've had two women try and trap me before and if they got pregnant by me i wouldn't be able
00:03:32.320 to opt out of fatherhood or responsible i mean i wouldn't anyway but i'm just saying like i what
00:03:37.340 i'm trying to say is it it not that it happens a lot like i'll be honest like yeah i'm an actor like
00:03:42.860 i'm doing well but i'm not a superstar by any means but purely because of where they perceive i am
00:03:47.260 what i can do and they were older as well they were like well i know that if i trap this guy like
00:03:54.340 i i know who he can provide for me do you know what i mean and i'll be honest that is actually
00:04:00.160 a really big reason why i've been more selective with who i get myself involved in because i feel
00:04:08.240 like i'm getting to that point where the the age of women that i'm dating now that's within the realm
00:04:13.720 of their consciousness does that make sense it's so it's so crazy like if you're saying that yeah
00:04:19.160 especially if you're dating older women um to a point where they're like i need security yeah so
00:04:23.260 do you i don't so i'm not sure if you answered the question do you think that's fair though like
00:04:28.660 so if a woman can get oh no i don't i don't think it's fair so i don't know i'm saying like do you
00:04:33.240 think they should legally he could say like let's say he he gets you pregnant he he can legally say
00:04:39.820 look i want her to get an abortion she has a choice to get it she's not getting it no
00:04:43.700 i want to opt out of the financial responsibility i know i think it's all on the woman i'm like you
00:04:49.160 you're a grown woman at that point that if you want the kid or you don't want the kid
00:04:55.280 respectfully fuck what the guy thinks and i know that oh he's half of like there's a lot of things
00:05:00.360 that come into it but i'm but i'm just like yeah i'm asking about the money part you're okay so like
00:05:04.620 he he pays nothing he can oh yeah yeah no no no if i get pregnant and a man is like i don't want
00:05:11.460 anything to do with this kid i'm not going to go back and be like oh well you didn't wrap up you
00:05:15.460 didn't i'll be like nope this is on me this is my decision i'm gonna own it and you and i would not
00:05:20.140 no no i'd be like okay as far as i'm aware my kid doesn't have a dad as far as i'm aware i i am the
00:05:26.000 one parent that's that's my personal like thing yeah yeah i wouldn't do it and i i personally think
00:05:31.460 that women that do that i'm like i i think it's more selfish to be like well you want this kid this
00:05:37.840 is this is your this is how your life is but no i'm personally like if a guy got me pregnant and was
00:05:44.480 like i don't know so we agree there yeah yeah something we agree 100 i'd be like i'd be like
00:05:49.380 like you've got to own your own bullshit at the end of the day because yeah the only person you ever
00:05:52.980 have 100 in your life is yourself so you gotta own your bullshit you gotta back your bullshit but
00:05:57.280 then you've got to like we're not all victims we're not yeah and so it's like so yeah so you
00:06:02.520 agree that it's it's the majority the woman's fault if you get pregnant like it's it's your own fault i
00:06:08.280 think i think fault is the wrong word i would use but in terms of responsibility that's the right
00:06:12.700 responsibility responsibility of choice responsibility of choice so it's your fault no no because fault fault
00:06:18.460 is got negative connotations uh-huh so responsibility of choice it's your body and so if you were like let's
00:06:25.300 say you're in a loving relationship yeah and you get pregnant and the guy's like well i really want
00:06:29.260 to be a dad at that and you really don't want to carry a baby to term you really don't want to
00:06:33.820 lose your job you don't want to do this you then have to decide and if he's like if he's like well
00:06:39.700 i'll leave you and i'll be feel betrayed you then have to decide okay do i care more about him and our
00:06:45.180 relationship or do i care more about myself and it's like we have got we've got autonomy we've got
00:06:51.840 choice we've got responsibility and i think that we need to stop pretending that women are like
00:06:56.360 pathetic or need a man or xyz it's like no baby back yourself yeah we do need men though we do we
00:07:03.500 don't need them because they're lesbians who do you who do you call to get your car fixed a man or a
00:07:09.260 woman your toilet breaks down who do you call so i i fix my own car i can i can do i'm motor mechanics
00:07:14.780 your power your power supply who runs it who runs the infrastructure of society men or women
00:07:19.380 oh at the moment men obviously because of patriarchy oh no do i need a man no this is i'm obsessed with
00:07:28.520 being a woman in a male-dominated industry i do all of my own carpentry right but but regardless of
00:07:34.500 that like you agree that men run the infrastructure so therefore at the moment yeah men run the world
00:07:38.920 so they we need men yeah we yeah on a wider scale yes yeah wider scale on a personal scale no
00:07:45.760 because you don't need a man to provide for you right you can earn our own wage but we need men
00:07:49.980 to run the industries that keep us alive and well not necessarily no so because i know female
00:07:55.340 mechanics engineers right but remember remember that's exception like those industries are like
00:08:00.160 99 male yeah but for now right now do you and we can change that we can't but do we do it but do we
00:08:06.660 want to change that some women do some women don't how do you know the difference between women
00:08:10.480 picking the industries they want to pick and and trying to fuck the patriarchy no no no i'm saying
00:08:17.220 like like how do you know the difference between women picking the industries they want to pick
00:08:22.600 so like i don't know a lot of girls that want to be plumbers mechanics engineers and all that stuff
00:08:27.400 right but you're the exception you're not the rule i don't know many that's what i'm saying so
00:08:31.760 so when you say things like it's because of i'm still valid but you're still valid but i'm saying
00:08:36.000 when you say things like because of the patriarchy that's why women are in those fields how do you
00:08:40.060 know it's the patriarchy and not women choosing what they want to choose we don't and that's not
00:08:44.500 my business right yeah i know but like why do you automatically assume patriarchy i don't know
00:08:48.980 but that's why we need men because of the patriarchy right because they are the ones who at the moment
00:08:55.240 control most of the world that's why we need how do you know women don't control most of the world
00:09:00.220 because they don't pick the industries where they're like in control it's not buckle white it's that's
00:09:04.820 gray area right right right but i'm saying like could it possibly just be like i don't think
00:09:09.680 there's anything stopping women from getting a job today i don't think we have anything i think it's
00:09:13.420 easier for women than men yeah like and yeah yeah that's that's it again it depends what industry
00:09:18.220 it depends what like and even this whole like the concept of sleeping away to the top women will get
00:09:23.960 oh yeah yeah but but then it's like oh she was and it's like well actually we're not then saying
00:09:32.480 you didn't respect a woman's capability qualifications and you know you actually
00:09:38.760 disrespected her and were like you're only valuable for your sexual like well i think i think it's
00:09:45.200 because like women do that but yeah right and they get like met and like women i don't think kamala
00:09:51.540 would be in the position that she's in if she didn't do it yeah yeah but then it's like people
00:09:56.200 who have issues and it rates back to body count it's like right i feel very powerful when i sleep with a lot
00:10:01.060 of men i feel very powerful because i'm like i i i feel like i've like frauded half of them i'm like
00:10:05.960 you think that i'm good i was like i'm i'm nothing compared to half these bitches out here like i'm
00:10:10.040 um but then like only fans as well it's a real dichotomous like people being like is it female
00:10:17.320 empowerment to make money off of your body or is it disrespectful is it and i'm very much a middle
00:10:24.120 ground well i'm okay with people like choosing what they want to choose but i just think we're not
00:10:28.760 honest with women about the consequences so like even with body count but then it depends who cares
00:10:33.300 because i don't care about the consequences right i would happily i would have a porno and be like
00:10:37.380 people like do you care of your family i don't give a fuck about my family that's totally fine like i'm
00:10:42.820 all for empowering women to do what they want to do like if you if you want to go start your only
00:10:47.680 fans career go ahead i'm not gonna stop you go crazy like get that back but but what i do think
00:10:54.980 we do is like lie to younger women and tell them there's no consequences for that stuff
00:10:59.380 and and and so we'll say like oh do sleep with whoever you want and men won't care they shouldn't
00:11:05.620 care but they do care but it's only uh it depends if you think it's a lie it really it's really like
00:11:10.600 it's not it's not it's not if i think it's a lie it's like i have these i've 99 male followers i
00:11:16.020 listen to men talk every day they do care and biologically there's a reason they care yeah i mean
00:11:20.420 do they care less than they did a hundred years ago sure sure yeah yeah i don't think like most
00:11:25.320 guys want a virgin but then we can talk about i think most guys don't as many of you know i was
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