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Summary
In this episode we discuss emotions and how to deal with them. How to control your emotions and the impact they can have on your mental health. We also discuss the difference between emotional men and emotional women and how emotional women deal with emotions.
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like kind of deviating is because we're speaking about emotions yeah and then and that's what
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like again not say you are you're not but the emotions start to jump out of you yes and all
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i'm trying to say as a man you said it's to be able to control your emotions i'm not saying cry
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or don't cry it's you've got to be able to control your emotions 100 what we've seen there is you've
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got emotional the mic's out and the answer you're not necessarily controlling your emotion and that's
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where in today's society a lot of men are emotional and that's why they do a right thing that's why
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gonna punch up this and do that but when you're in control of your emotions you're not really going
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to be thinking irrational because when you're women like get emotional and then they'll start
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for a cup at you are your bastard it is not gal i know but i'm saying that's generally yeah women are
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more emotional and they're going to do their things just like rip your jacket yeah yeah it's emotional
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yeah yeah but men are not really like that but if you are a man and you know how to control your
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emotions you're not really gonna be losing it here then everywhere controlling emotion comes down to
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the individual's character you know i'm saying to someone goes through certain trials and tribulations
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traumas and stuff like that and then like they be able to like if they go through that for me for
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instance yeah i've gone through personal issues like my dad had cancer yeah recently yeah and i went
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through that and obviously it hit me hard but obviously i've been using gym i've been working on myself
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mentally they manage my emotions for differently you know i'm saying to you i think there's a time
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and place also to like you know break down and stuff like that as well i don't think me personally
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i wouldn't go like if i was like seeing something i wouldn't go to the girl and break down to her
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so it's not my character i would just do it in my own time because i like to self-reflect as he is
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a man but i thought a lot of guys i know a lot of my friends they will be a bit more emotional though
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they will break down and and you know they want me to handle certain things and i think a lot of females
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do put a time limit until when okay cool you've been crying now for like three months when you're
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going to go and get your shit together do you know what i'm saying so i thought a lot of things will
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say oh i want a guy to be a bit more emotionally available but when he's way too much emotionally
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available then he's like okay cool i've lost the spectrum you know you've been down for like three
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months when you're going to get yourself together yeah women want strong men but i thought but there
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isn't a lot of strong men though that's the truth because if i was i'm a girl i feel like i'm a strong
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man yeah i understand i feel like it i move like it if i cry does that make me weak listen let me
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explain it don't make you weak right then so you know what i would say it makes you weaker yeah
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it depends how many times though i just think it's like it's like common sense it depends how
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many times though guys wait wait wait so if a guy's crying more than the guy who's not crying like i
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don't like what what the person the person who's not crying is boiling up their emotions they're going
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to be emotionally weak their mental health is going to be what i'm trying to keep compared to
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wait wait wait wait wait wait let me stop let me stop that's a feminine way to deal with things
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women bottle up our emotions and we explode men are not the same he just said so this is this is why we're in
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we're in a we're in a feminine like social order where the woman's like point of view is is assumed to
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be everybody's point of view but and we're teaching men to have a woman's point of view let me break it
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we're missing this is this will disappoint what you're missing because like early on when you
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explained something you said i go gym so there's no way that man can have physically you may be strong
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men i'm not saying you are but mentally you may be weak yeah and when pearly said about women
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rinsing out men men get to a certain age and they commit suicide to me yeah and i apologize to
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anyone who's knows someone who's committed suicide yeah but those people are mentally weak because to
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me like for you to take your life you understand because of whatever circumstances and the men that
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has a knock-on effect for all the people around your family your friends is that to me that's a
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weak it's an easy option out the intent yeah but i'll be honest with you i know i know i know someone
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that's committed suicide and i hear what you're saying in that but sometimes you're in it so much
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and it's like you're lost your soul because you can get lost you know this is where everyone's got
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to understand they're lost because they're not in control of their emotions it depends on the person
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no no no they're lost they're lost because we live in a world where literally we teach we
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men have no direction and they're taught to be women from like the age of like five years old where
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they're told don't fight on the playground being in control of emotions is skill you know it's a skill
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exactly it's not something that you just built with it's a skill and a lifestyle and situations
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will even make you or break you do you know what i'm saying and also people around you a lot of my
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me oh my generation a lot of man we didn't have no guidance we have no guidance we have no
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male guidance taking back a step bro it's a skill to be able to control your emotions for men and women
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it's not a great thing for even women to be losing their rag and getting over emotion it's not great
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like it doesn't serve anyone any purpose because when you get angry you start saying things you
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don't necessarily mean and it happens a lot of times in relationships and with women arguing even
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in the office they don't have to be women or men yeah but like women actually do get something out
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of it sometimes because like there's a reason we do the things we do right it's because we can
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exert control over men manipulation yeah yeah exactly and so like it's not a good thing oh it's not oh i
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didn't say it was a good thing i'm saying there's reasons that we do the things that we do you know
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it's historical i understand i understand that like why do you think women are always like you
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ever been in a relationship and you're like why is this girl always the victim like she's the victim
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but there's a reason because like historically they could get resources and protection from a
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guy if they were the victim so there's like biological like we don't undo biology that's what i'm saying
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women are smart women are manipulative that's right and men can never really win but again if you're
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and control your emotions and you've got your good sound faculties you know what it is you know
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women are most and you still have it accordingly but i think what you said where like a lot of men
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haven't been taught how to control their emotions wait wait wait so so i think like but i think your
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point um it shows how important it is that women keep the families together but right now we're in a
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society that women keep breaking up the families because we we leave men 80 of the time and a lot of the
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times when men leave it's like extreme situations like one of the number one things is she's abusive
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or i'm on substances like when men leave so and like so it kind of shows like how important it is
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that we keep the family together because we don't like we have so many emotional men but whose fault is
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is that the job is that the job for a female to keep to keep the relationship together a man should keep
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the family together that's the man's job the man doesn't have a choice exactly okay if me and you
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if me and you're in a relationship and i say or and you say i'm staying in this forever we have a
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kid where i'm staying in this forever and i say no i'm not feeling it i'm leaving whose fault is that
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mine i left yeah but then there's that i feel like a lot of men will be affected by that situation and
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they've been talking about all getting to mental health and all these other things but i feel a man
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that things can happen breakups happen all the time do you know what i'm saying to you a man can
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i think you know carrying your life yeah exactly adapt and move on and yeah well i agree but it's
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not that simple right no it's not that simple because a lot of times women financially ruin these
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men like if you get divorced it's like you have you have out of all marriages you have a 15 chance of
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a woman maliciously like taking away your kids and like going out to financially ruin you so out of
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every 10 that means 1.5 are like and that's that doesn't even include the women that still get child
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support still get alimony still take the kids away so that's one out of 10 where women are going out of
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their way to ruin men so it's like it's like you could say oh just move on but that's easy to
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know but i think some guys some guys become homeless some guys don't don't see their kids like they're
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they're taking away everything you know what i think i think a man prioritizes i think when a man
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prioritizes like the girl his girl over everything that's when these things can happen i think a man
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should be on his purpose and the man should be on his ground and create like his purpose and then
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everything will fit around you know what he's trying to do as well for sometimes when a man's just
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fully on just trying to make a girl happy and fully trying to
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you know please her all the time and then she gets frustrated and then you know you know lose
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respect for him and then these things can happen you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are
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