JustPearlyThings - April 30, 2023


Divorce Attorney reveals the ugly truth b


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10 minutes

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2,216

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6

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36

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In this episode we talk about women in the workplace and how they are treated and treated by the system and how this affects the way they treat men and women in general. We also talk about how women are treated by society and the way men are treated.

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00:00:00.000 I don't think I don't think like all women are bad. I don't I don't think like 0.94
00:00:04.000 But the issue is that when you pick a girl like she it's always if like it's up to her 0.99
00:00:09.620 She has all the power in the relationship 1.00
00:00:11.860 Because at the end of the day like I talked to a divorce attorney about this and he said I'm not afraid of marriage
00:00:16.400 I'm afraid of children because once you have kids with a girl the kids aren't yours. They're hers. Well, that's so 1.00
00:00:21.760 That's so so so true my kids are mine. That is so
00:00:25.440 And to a situation
00:00:30.000 And so and some women aren't gonna do that 1.00
00:00:32.560 They're gonna let you like they're gonna watch you in the kids life
00:00:34.960 But like we all change when we're spiteful like I think everyone could say at some point you've probably done something when you're angry
00:00:40.880 You're not proud
00:00:41.600 Yeah, I certainly have and so it's like but when you have a system that likes that when few people are at their maddest
00:00:49.040 One has all the power like that's just a bad system
00:00:52.120 So and it puts like it has women make like worse decisions than maybe they normally would if they didn't have this much power 1.00
00:00:58.560 And again, it comes down to them emotions
00:01:01.120 I was just about to say that
00:01:03.120 You say manage emotions, but back to what you said before
00:01:04.960 Yeah, that's it. It just comes back down to that thing, yeah, and then in a situation
00:01:07.760 women's got the children and they 1.00
00:01:09.760 Act to emotional and irrational and it's it's just, yeah, and then it's a spiral
00:01:13.120 Downward spiral
00:01:15.120 Someone in the chat is saying lesbian couples have the highest domestic violence cases
00:01:19.120 Really?
00:01:20.640 Makes sense
00:01:21.280 Two women in a relationship
00:01:22.400 Makes sense though
00:01:22.640 So basically women are the 1.00
00:01:24.240 That's water tower
00:01:24.640 But one is going to try and be a man and that's how 0.98
00:01:26.560 Yeah, that's how it goes
00:01:27.740 And then it's like, yeah, you can
00:01:30.000 You can see things
00:01:31.680 How do you manage that then?
00:01:34.380 How does like on a woman level, yeah? 1.00
00:01:36.600 Like women, I'm chatting to the gal them now 1.00
00:01:38.400 How do you manage your behaviour?
00:01:42.320 Because it's always man I have to do this, man I have to do this, man I have to do this
00:01:45.920 What about the women and what do you do to manage your behaviour then? 0.64
00:01:49.760 Because there's a system for men, what they must do 0.97
00:01:52.480 We can't cry around, gal
00:01:53.960 Oh, you look too weak, you're weak, Lynn
00:01:55.920 Okay, cool
00:01:56.840 What is the next thing then?
00:01:58.580 What does the girls do then? 1.00
00:02:00.140 We're naturally emotional, so it is just being emotional
00:02:03.720 Yeah, but being emotional and then being evil and spiteful
00:02:07.280 And dealing with men wrong and using the system
00:02:09.180 And ruling them wrong
00:02:10.200 What's the next thing then?
00:02:11.820 Like, is there another way of you sorting out your issues?
00:02:14.080 Because men are
00:02:15.080 You're basically saying men are getting fucked over 24-7
00:02:18.940 What's the system to stop that, girls, then? 1.00
00:02:22.300 I mean, I think the only way to stop it is to change the laws
00:02:25.800 But again, it goes back to the same problem
00:02:27.880 How do you change the laws when the politicians have no incentive to do so? 0.88
00:02:31.920 You know, I mean, I think like on an individual level as women
00:02:34.900 Like, we can actually give good advice to the younger generation
00:02:38.080 Like, get married younger, have kids younger
00:02:40.200 You know, don't sleep around
00:02:42.080 Like, actually give good advice
00:02:43.500 But if I'm being realistic, again, I don't think the women 1.00
00:02:46.860 The younger women are going to be less promiscuous 1.00
00:02:49.600 I just don't think it's going to happen
00:02:51.180 I won't listen
00:02:52.300 Yeah, I mean, you could tell me you're 21
00:02:54.960 Yeah, I doubt they'll listen
00:02:56.080 22 or 12, yeah, 21
00:02:57.360 So, yeah
00:02:57.880 I doubt they'll listen
00:02:58.760 I doubt they'll listen
00:02:59.520 I don't think they would either
00:03:00.460 I think in their heads
00:03:03.500 Their way of life is empowering
00:03:07.020 But it's actually not
00:03:08.680 It's the way that they've been taught it
00:03:10.800 It's actually the opposite
00:03:11.800 Same thing with the OnlyFans thing
00:03:14.420 You think it's empowering, but it's not
00:03:15.860 And it's really sad, to be honest
00:03:18.020 Like, I don't think women are 1.00
00:03:19.140 Like, I don't think women are going to be happy at the end of it 1.00
00:03:21.560 No, me neither
00:03:22.300 No, and it's like
00:03:23.480 We're seeing a higher rate of women on antidepressants than ever before
00:03:26.580 Like, it's stupidly high
00:03:29.500 And so, I just
00:03:31.600 I think a lot
00:03:32.160 Like, the whole generation of women 1.00
00:03:33.480 We've been lied to
00:03:34.500 And it's like, you know
00:03:35.860 We wake up wanting to get married
00:03:37.440 But none of us really have the skills to be married
00:03:40.360 Yeah
00:03:40.720 It's a fairy tale
00:03:42.280 Again, women are 1.00
00:03:43.380 Like, giving that fairy tale
00:03:45.060 From Barbie and Ken
00:03:46.740 And from the beginning
00:03:48.220 That's been taught to us by women as well 1.00
00:03:50.320 And men are, too
00:03:52.080 To be fair
00:03:52.720 Like, are men really taught how to lead in a relationship?
00:03:56.140 No
00:03:56.500 Like, they're not even told they're allowed to in society
00:03:58.940 When men are supposed to lead 1.00
00:04:00.180 And women want men that lead 1.00
00:04:01.460 And women want men that are masculine 1.00
00:04:03.320 But it's like
00:04:04.180 Are men told and empowered to do that?
00:04:06.620 No
00:04:06.900 So, men are
00:04:08.040 Like, so it's almost like we have men and women
00:04:10.040 Neither of us have the skills to be together
00:04:11.980 And we're trying to switch what's always worked
00:04:15.040 Like, it is always worth men being the head of the household 1.00
00:04:18.040 And now we're trying something different
00:04:19.700 Is it working?
00:04:20.580 No
00:04:20.600 But again, all this is on purpose
00:04:23.040 Is that when you said how can you fix this
00:04:25.060 It's just like, crime
00:04:26.480 There's ways of going around and eradicating crime
00:04:30.480 Or lessen it
00:04:31.280 Let's not eradicate it
00:04:32.300 But lessen it
00:04:33.160 But crime makes the government
00:04:35.340 And makes the world a lot of money
00:04:36.500 So these people
00:04:37.000 They don't actually want to stop it
00:04:38.460 It's good for them
00:04:39.180 It's good business
00:04:39.720 Just like this whole thing
00:04:41.140 What's going on now
00:04:42.340 With men being less masculine
00:04:44.660 And women being more masculine 0.99
00:04:45.920 It's good business for them
00:04:47.640 Whatever their reasons are behind it
00:04:49.400 Like, it's on purpose
00:04:50.460 They're not doing these things by chance
00:04:52.320 This has been happening gradually over years
00:04:55.260 Because they've got a
00:04:57.380 There's a plan at hand
00:04:59.020 Which is unfolding
00:05:01.920 I feel like the government's control over people
00:05:04.620 That's why they do loads of things
00:05:06.040 Like, you think about the pharmaceutical industry
00:05:07.780 It's a multi-billion pound industry
00:05:09.800 Do you know what I'm saying to you?
00:05:10.700 People are antidepressants
00:05:12.100 For a reason
00:05:13.120 You know what I mean?
00:05:13.700 And I know family members are antidepressants
00:05:16.880 And I know they've gained weight
00:05:17.900 I know they're numb to their emotions
00:05:19.920 They don't feel anything
00:05:20.820 And it's like
00:05:21.400 When they come off the medication
00:05:23.540 For like one day or two days
00:05:24.640 They just have like mad panic attacks
00:05:26.380 They go crazy
00:05:27.260 And it's just like
00:05:27.860 This whole sort of control
00:05:29.280 Trying to control an individual
00:05:30.560 You know
00:05:31.660 I think that's a big thing as well
00:05:33.360 And the crazy thing is
00:05:34.180 They give you drugs
00:05:35.100 Before they switch your food
00:05:36.820 Exactly, yeah
00:05:38.400 So like someone will come in
00:05:40.360 And say I'm depressed
00:05:41.520 Well, of course you're depressed
00:05:43.320 You're overweight
00:05:44.040 And so if you're putting toxins into your body
00:05:47.720 You're going to be
00:05:48.580 And your sleep schedule is shit
00:05:50.400 And you're not going to be happy
00:05:52.180 And they'll put you on drugs
00:05:54.000 That you have to be on
00:05:55.400 For the rest of your life
00:05:56.420 Before they encourage you
00:05:58.200 To change your lifestyle
00:05:59.420 But again, that's right
00:06:00.800 Like you said
00:06:01.820 It's to do with money
00:06:02.840 And it's business
00:06:03.740 It's greed
00:06:04.300 That you can go to the doctors
00:06:05.740 They don't even know
00:06:06.280 What's wrong with you
00:06:06.900 And they're going to give you
00:06:07.620 Some kind of medication
00:06:08.800 But then if you go back
00:06:09.840 Years
00:06:10.600 Back, back, back
00:06:11.720 All these things
00:06:13.280 Were natural
00:06:14.060 They were natural
00:06:14.900 Remedies to heal you
00:06:17.040 And most of these
00:06:18.360 Like drugs
00:06:19.880 What they've made
00:06:20.420 They've made them off
00:06:21.560 Natural things anyway
00:06:22.940 You understand
00:06:23.260 They've seen something natural
00:06:24.780 And made it unnatural
00:06:26.020 It's got a percentage of it
00:06:27.620 So it still kind of half works
00:06:28.980 But it's unnatural
00:06:30.040 And it's money
00:06:30.660 Where most of these
00:06:31.540 Natural drugs are free
00:06:33.020 Like they don't want to
00:06:34.180 Again, it's money
00:06:35.400 And control and business
00:06:36.460 And I think they don't want
00:06:37.800 Like men and women
00:06:38.560 To get along
00:06:39.200 I don't think they want us together
00:06:40.520 I don't know why
00:06:41.260 But I think there's some agenda
00:06:42.460 That's like literally
00:06:43.120 Trying to break down the family
00:06:44.600 100%
00:06:45.440 So they can control
00:06:46.780 That's what I understood
00:06:48.340 From the feminist movement 0.53
00:06:49.540 It's control
00:06:50.400 They want to control people
00:06:51.660 And control money
00:06:52.940 And make money
00:06:53.820 And get people away from
00:06:54.900 Spirituality
00:06:55.940 So breaking down the family
00:06:57.120 The intent
00:06:57.680 They pay you to do it
00:06:59.040 I mean, I don't know
00:06:59.780 A lot of times
00:07:00.620 The laws in the US
00:07:01.500 And the UK
00:07:01.920 Are like semi-similar
00:07:03.440 But it's like
00:07:04.200 If you pay a girl 0.99
00:07:05.120 To divorce her husband
00:07:06.420 If she's not feeling it
00:07:08.060 She's going to do it
00:07:08.920 Like if you pay anyone
00:07:10.500 To do it
00:07:10.940 As we said earlier
00:07:11.900 In the show
00:07:12.420 You know, if you pay
00:07:13.100 Even you guys
00:07:14.420 Like you don't seem
00:07:15.420 Like you're out there
00:07:16.380 You know, doing anything crazy
00:07:17.640 Right?
00:07:18.160 But you might
00:07:19.080 If they pay you to
00:07:20.080 Like if they say
00:07:20.800 Hey, you get 500 bucks
00:07:22.020 If you go steal an iPhone
00:07:23.160 From Apple
00:07:23.920 You might
00:07:25.380 No, never
00:07:26.380 You might
00:07:27.080 Like
00:07:27.360 No, it's a principle
00:07:28.100 It's true
00:07:28.580 It's true
00:07:28.880 You know, and
00:07:30.120 I like to think
00:07:31.820 I wouldn't
00:07:32.520 Right?
00:07:32.840 But over 10 years
00:07:33.860 20 years
00:07:34.400 30 years
00:07:34.820 If I watch everybody
00:07:35.780 Stealing from Apple
00:07:36.880 Getting $500
00:07:38.260 Every time they steal
00:07:39.340 I might start to
00:07:40.460 You know, I'm human
00:07:41.480 I might start to think about it
00:07:42.740 I think it's mind over matter
00:07:43.800 Didn't you hear about that
00:07:44.700 Saying where the girls
00:07:45.400 Were going out to Dubai
00:07:46.300 And getting shit in their mouth 0.87
00:07:47.260 Yeah, yeah, yeah
00:07:48.060 Piss up in their face 0.99
00:07:48.860 But I know
00:07:49.280 That happens a lot though
00:07:50.320 Yeah, but Gala's doing that 1.00
00:07:51.720 Because they're like
00:07:52.340 Yeah, money
00:07:53.120 Money's evil, fam
00:07:54.540 Obviously we all know
00:07:55.320 But we all need it
00:07:56.240 Do you get me?
00:07:57.060 And it's pure pressure
00:07:58.300 And just having that
00:08:00.240 That brain in your head
00:08:01.760 I don't think it's pure pressure
00:08:02.700 It must be
00:08:03.440 Because you lot are broke
00:08:05.060 Not you
00:08:05.640 As in you
00:08:06.160 Gala ain't got no money 1.00
00:08:09.180 So they're feeling like
00:08:10.260 Oh, I'm going to dish out my body
00:08:11.300 And go Dubai
00:08:11.880 And let old man
00:08:12.980 Shit up on me
00:08:13.920 So I can get peas
00:08:14.660 Listen to what you just said
00:08:18.620 That's pure pressure
00:08:19.540 Right?
00:08:19.980 That's what you said
00:08:20.440 But this is what I think
00:08:21.460 Whenever a girl makes a poor choice
00:08:23.320 We always give her a bailout 1.00
00:08:25.060 Yeah
00:08:25.320 So I'm bailing her out right now
00:08:26.740 Yeah, because you're saying
00:08:27.340 Peer pressure's blaming on her friends 0.90
00:08:28.260 Instead of herself
00:08:29.180 Yeah
00:08:29.640 Let me not bail you out then
00:08:31.200 Fuck it
00:08:31.600 You did that because you wanted to then
00:08:33.100 Yes
00:08:33.400 You did that because you wanted to
00:08:37.020 No, but think about it
00:08:38.060 If a dude like
00:08:39.220 If a dude shoots somebody
00:08:41.640 Or does something super aggressive
00:08:43.000 Which is like the male 0.94
00:08:44.100 Like equivalent
00:08:45.020 Right?
00:08:45.340 Like if a woman does something 1.00
00:08:46.640 Like because that's something
00:08:47.920 Only women really can do 1.00
00:08:49.100 Where men like
00:08:49.640 They're more aggressive
00:08:50.340 So like extreme masculinity
00:08:52.180 Is like committing a crime
00:08:53.380 So if a man commits a crime
00:08:54.480 You don't really say
00:08:55.260 Oh, it was peer pressure
00:08:56.480 You say no, you're in jail
00:08:57.640 Yeah
00:08:58.160 You get your ass to prison
00:08:59.460 Yeah, yeah, yeah
00:09:00.260 It's true
00:09:00.660 Well, you know
00:09:01.140 A lot of girls actually 0.73
00:09:02.040 Want to be like housewives 0.99
00:09:03.160 And that as well
00:09:03.680 So maybe they want to like
00:09:04.780 Some girls want to like 1.00
00:09:05.680 Literally just want a man 1.00
00:09:06.680 To take care of them
00:09:07.400 And they just want to be at home
00:09:08.600 And sometimes maybe do certain things
00:09:10.260 That want to seek a rich guy as well 0.83
00:09:11.620 Which is fine
00:09:12.480 If you have the skills to do that
00:09:13.820 But that's the problem
00:09:14.480 It's like most girls 1.00
00:09:15.240 Don't have the skills
00:09:16.240 To be a housewife 0.75
00:09:17.300 So they're saying
00:09:17.780 Make me a housewife 1.00
00:09:18.920 But they're average looking
00:09:20.200 They've never
00:09:20.680 They've never even gotten like
00:09:22.520 Like they've never even cooked
00:09:24.000 For a whole family
00:09:25.160 They've never
00:09:25.900 Like think about it
00:09:26.740 Like what percent of girls 0.75
00:09:27.660 I mean you guys are out there dating
00:09:29.140 Like what percent of girls 0.75
00:09:30.000 Really know how to like
00:09:31.160 Cook
00:09:31.860 Like what percent of girls 0.75
00:09:32.900 Really know how
00:09:33.520 Like have their own recipes
00:09:34.820 That they make from scratch
00:09:36.180 Like what percent of women 0.99
00:09:37.400 Are qualified to be housewives 0.99
00:09:39.160 Only
00:09:39.780 And the stats will tell you
00:09:41.340 Only 20 percent of women 0.83
00:09:42.360 Get to be housewives 0.94
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