Men Logically Break Down Cheating To Women
Episode Stats
Words per Minute
183.24368
Summary
In this episode, the guys discuss cheating and the double standard when it comes to cheating amongst men and women. They discuss what cheating is, how cheating is done and how cheating should be dealt with in the dating world.
Transcript
00:00:00.000
Have you ever been cheated on and have you ever cheated?
00:00:07.540
I never cheat. You never cheat. How did you find out he cheated?
00:00:21.540
God loves me too much and they just show me little things. You're right. God God
00:00:30.000
And I knew he was cheating because I think men when they are cheating they they are way
00:00:40.200
They feel guilty and then try to make it up to you
00:00:44.280
So he was he was like buying you stuff and treating you well
00:00:48.820
Okay, and so then how do you get evidence or well? I just I'm not a person that go into someone's phone
00:00:56.400
Okay, so far. Yeah, but it just it just happened
00:01:00.220
For me to see okay, you saw like a message and I saw a message and then from there obviously I checked and yeah
00:01:06.680
And then like what it was him like messaging yeah over or something
00:01:11.460
No, it was more I can't really say it because it's a bit inappropriate
00:01:17.000
So it was like some sexual stuff. Okay. I feel like we got to qualify the question
00:01:22.000
What do you mean by cheating as in going the whole way or?
00:01:25.140
Mmm, what's cheating is such a loose that's a good that's a good question when I think of cheating. I think of like stuff
00:01:32.400
That's like sexual, you know, I would say kissing someone else is cheating
00:01:36.600
Yeah, but unless you're in like an arrange it's not cheating if you guys agree to the you know
00:01:41.420
What if it's like a just a flirty text message? Yeah, like text messages
00:01:48.100
But from there it's starting right premeditated
00:01:51.960
Because for me there's also emotional cheating like if you invest your most emotional energy in someone else
00:01:56.520
That's also cheating because I could be with a guy and then I'm investing my emotional energy into another guy
00:02:01.220
You're still cheating. I think I think that emotional cheating. That's a that's a woman thing. I think, you know
00:02:05.720
Like just you don't really care as a man, isn't it? See men men when it comes to men men cheat for different reasons
00:02:11.240
From when women cheat you understand what I mean
00:02:13.400
Yeah, that's why when women cheat people say that it hurts more. It hurts the man more, you know, I mean, because men
00:02:24.220
Like our penises are the ones that are making the decision certain times, you know, and once you've bust that nut and
00:02:36.220
Yeah, yeah, you bust that nut, you're like, oh, what am I doing here?
00:02:43.220
So that's why you're saying man do it, just to go bust there, and then after they come to me
00:02:55.220
Men can have full-blown sex with a woman and feel less than a woman sending a flirty text message
00:03:01.220
Like we can be more upset over them sending a text message than us having full-blown sex with a woman
00:03:07.220
My mum broke it down from a practical standpoint, right? This is genius
00:03:10.220
If you let someone into your home, that's slightly more personal than you going into someone's home
00:03:15.220
And women from a practical standpoint, they are allowing you access to their insides
00:03:21.220
You're just visiting, you can visit a hundred houses in a day
00:03:26.220
But I don't condone it, I don't suggest you do it
00:03:37.220
I'm trying to, there's some study, I'm trying to find it that like backs up what you guys are saying
00:03:42.220
Where they asked like married men that cheated if they still loved their wives
00:03:45.220
And it was like 85% or 80% roughly still said they did
00:03:49.220
I mean, it's not like they don't love them anymore
00:03:53.220
It's like maybe they want to try something different
00:04:02.220
Come on, any man says I haven't cheated they will lie
00:04:10.220
On the subject that you just said of married men
00:04:12.220
I remember being in the lift, I went to go clubbing with the guys who was in the lift
00:04:16.220
And we seen an older guy, he must have been around about, say about 65 years old
00:04:20.220
And he was like, oh lads, you gonna enjoy, like have a good night tonight
00:04:24.220
Then he was like, yeah, I'm on a prom looking for a woman tonight
00:04:28.220
He was like, I'm married by the way, but I'm bored
00:04:34.220
A friend of mine once said, behind every grey looking woman is a man sick of shagna
00:04:38.220
And I'm sorry to like, I know women don't want to hear that
00:04:44.220
Like, obviously there's exceptions, there's good guys out there
00:04:46.220
But I do feel like, men, we are programmed to want to multiply
00:04:53.220
We wake up every morning with a full sack and we're ready to go
00:04:56.220
And unfortunately for women, if you're not there
00:04:59.220
Like, that's why women unfortunately have to be on their A-game
00:05:07.220
For the simple fact of, you can be that woman, or that man
00:05:17.220
And yet still, somehow, some way, I can be submissive
00:05:22.220
I can give it to you as and when you want it, multiple times out of the day
00:05:27.220
But the truth is, if you want to go out and do that, you're going to do it
00:05:36.220
You know, to me, it's like, I've always looked at cheating
00:05:51.220
Okay, have I done something in order to not satisfy him?
00:05:57.220
What drove him to look at me, but you're telling me that you love me
00:06:09.220
But then you still feel, alright, I'm going to go out and demand him
00:06:12.220
Yeah, different area cold, they ain't going to know
00:06:19.220
Women, I believe, if you feel that you have to get to that point where you're cheating
00:06:27.220
Why haven't you sat down and had that A and B conversation?
00:06:33.220
Why did you choose the wrong men multiple times in a row then?
00:06:49.220
I'll answer because women in general like men that cheat
00:07:10.220
Like it's not like a good thing that makes women look good
00:07:13.220
Like two women have always reproduced for every one man
00:07:16.220
And while there have been, there have been monogamous
00:07:22.220
And the majority like of the population has been monogamous
00:07:25.220
But the top 15% of men have never been monogamous ever
00:07:34.220
Which has never happened in all of history, right?
00:07:36.220
And what has happened since we've gotten in control of sex?
00:07:39.220
We have been sleeping with a smaller and smaller percentage of men
00:07:43.220
We could have the monogamous guys, but none of us pick them
00:07:45.220
So, and we don't when we have the most youth and the most beauty
00:07:49.220
Because usually like we do go into monogamous relationships
00:07:54.220
Because the average age of first marriage is in 31
00:08:01.220
And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform
00:08:05.220
If you want to help, please consider sending a super thanks below
00:08:10.220
Every donation helps and it helps make what we do possible