JustPearlyThings - August 14, 2023


Delusional Modern Woman Keeps Contradicting Herself


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Length

9 minutes

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199.2017

Word count

1,963

Sentence count

181

Harmful content

Misogyny

27

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Hate speech

13

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How many bodies should a woman need to have for her to be considered a high value woman? Is there a limit to how many bodies a woman should have for a man to consider her high value? In this episode, we discuss this and more.

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00:00:00.000 How many bodies does a girl have to have for high value to go off the table? 1.00
00:00:08.400 So she no longer, yeah, I know you said 20.
00:00:13.960 She's got a generous man over here.
00:00:16.600 What do you think?
00:00:21.220 Whatever the guy thinks, like whatever.
00:00:25.080 I'm asking what you think.
00:00:26.080 Like, personally for me, I feel like body count shouldn't matter.
00:00:33.800 But I feel like if there was a number, I don't want to say because like I have friends with higher body count, you know, I don't want to like.
00:00:43.820 I mean, high values, it's like saying I'm not a millionaire.
00:00:48.440 Not everyone can be a millionaire.
00:00:50.100 Not every girl can be high value. 0.99
00:00:52.220 It's not an insult.
00:00:53.240 If I say to you, you're not a millionaire, are you insulted?
00:00:56.080 No.
00:00:58.040 So if I say you're not a high value woman, it shouldn't be insulting.
00:01:05.000 I honestly don't know.
00:01:06.480 Like, I feel like every man has their own.
00:01:09.340 Like, he said 20.
00:01:10.500 Like, some guys don't care about body count.
00:01:13.820 Okay, I know, but I'm asking what you think.
00:01:15.980 Okay, what about if he had a brother?
00:01:18.460 Yeah, I have a brother.
00:01:19.120 Okay, so for his girlfriend, what's the most?
00:01:26.380 I'm not sure, but I'm thinking the same, like 20 as well.
00:01:31.540 All right, 20.
00:01:32.700 Okay, what do you think?
00:01:34.340 I don't think body count matters one bit because we're all born with, you know, private parts and stuff, and they're there to be used.
00:01:44.020 If you want to do that of 100 people a week, do that.
00:01:47.900 It's there for a reason.
00:01:49.560 It's there to be pleased on both ends.
00:01:52.160 And I just don't think we're in a generation now where really body count, like, no.
00:01:58.980 Why are you nodding?
00:02:00.100 Oh, my God.
00:02:01.660 This is what I mean.
00:02:02.700 This is what I mean.
00:02:03.700 It's different for everyone.
00:02:05.260 I'm going to give you stats.
00:02:06.000 I'm just curious if it will change your opinion.
00:02:08.660 So a girl, if she's a virgin on her wedding night, 80% chance of a happy marriage. 0.99
00:02:12.260 If she sleeps with more than five people, do you know what it drops down to? 0.99
00:02:15.800 Very low.
00:02:17.320 20%.
00:02:17.720 Yeah.
00:02:18.040 So knowing that, you don't think that it would be better for a guy to pick a girl that has an 80% chance of a happy marriage,
00:02:24.220 and that would make her more valuable than a girl that's in love with 100 people?
00:02:28.440 That's like every, I don't even know 100 people.
00:02:31.580 Just an example.
00:02:34.700 I guess when you put it like that.
00:02:36.320 You found 20 dudes you couldn't keep, you couldn't keep one out of 20.
00:02:39.880 But you know what, though?
00:02:40.800 I do know quite a lot of people where they don't want anything serious, and they like doing that, and they actually enjoy it.
00:02:47.280 And maybe it doesn't make them a higher value, but if that's what someone enjoys, go do it.
00:02:53.780 Oh, yeah.
00:02:54.240 So first of all, notice that these girls are actually arguing against each other, but they don't realize it, right?
00:02:58.460 Because this young lady here, she's like, I don't want to say a number because I have friends above that number.
00:03:02.560 Are you insinuating that being above that number is going to be somehow offensive to your friends?
00:03:06.580 Like, you're literally saying, with saying that, that, oh, high number is bad.
00:03:10.060 My friends will feel bad about themselves, and I'll make them look bad.
00:03:12.520 Well, if numbers don't matter, wouldn't they just not care?
00:03:14.880 Just tell us, what's that number?
00:03:16.240 Tell us how many bodies is too much so that your friends aren't going to get offended because your friend here said that it doesn't matter, does it?
00:03:24.120 No, I agree with her.
00:03:26.380 Like, I feel like body count shouldn't matter, but I'm saying, like, for men.
00:03:28.980 And yet you won't tell us.
00:03:30.600 And yet you won't tell us what that number is.
00:03:32.380 Because I don't know what's a high number.
00:03:33.480 No, you said, well, my friends are going to get offended because they've had more bodies.
00:03:36.900 Are you insinuating that more bodies is bad?
00:03:38.720 Because that's what it sounds like.
00:03:40.220 No.
00:03:40.860 Really?
00:03:41.280 Then tell us what's that number.
00:03:42.220 Like I said, like, I don't think, but, like, no, because she said if my brother was to marry someone, like, what would his, like, body count would be with that woman?
00:03:54.240 So I wouldn't know.
00:03:55.940 But I feel like body count shouldn't matter.
00:03:58.060 Like, like I said, a guy cares about a woman's past or how many guys they slept with.
00:04:04.020 Did she not, did I hear her wrong?
00:04:06.000 Correct me, guys, if I'm wrong.
00:04:06.760 Did she not say five minutes ago, she said that I don't want to say a number because my friends might be offended because their number.
00:04:12.220 Their numbers are higher.
00:04:12.980 Does that insinuate that a higher number is bad by her trying to protect her friends then?
00:04:16.580 Yeah, it does.
00:04:17.040 So she's arguing against herself.
00:04:19.140 Now, let me tell you why these girls are saying it. 1.00
00:04:20.640 Do you guys understand why women say that body numbers don't matter, but they actually think they do? 0.93
00:04:24.940 Women are insinuating that it's good to have an open sexual marketplace because they know that high number of partners discounts and disvalues other women. 1.00
00:04:31.700 So they're like, you go, girl, you get that D.
00:04:33.520 You get whatever you want, blah, blah, blah.
00:04:35.040 But in their head.
00:04:35.760 Yeah, because if everyone was a virgin, the girls that weren't, like, they would be way less valuable.
00:04:41.240 Yes.
00:04:41.600 So that's why men should raise their standards. 0.97
00:04:43.740 It's the same thing that women are like, oh, you go, you're 300 pounds, Lizzo, you're beautiful. 1.00
00:04:48.020 Woo.
00:04:48.200 It's like they don't, the women themselves don't believe that. 1.00
00:04:50.300 I think men do this, too.
00:04:51.560 I think men do this, too.
00:04:52.660 They don't want the market to change and they don't want to, like, discount.
00:04:55.320 Oh, they're just trying to get laid. 1.00
00:04:56.080 No, yeah, they're trying to get laid. 1.00
00:04:57.560 So they're like, yeah, we don't care about the high body count for the night.
00:05:01.240 Right.
00:05:01.660 For the night.
00:05:02.440 But later, they'll care.
00:05:04.080 They'll care.
00:05:05.020 No offense.
00:05:05.520 It's not just you.
00:05:08.320 It's a lot of guys.
00:05:09.220 No.
00:05:10.420 But, like, come on.
00:05:11.480 Sir, you want a girl that's slapped with 20 dudes? 1.00
00:05:15.560 Really?
00:05:16.100 That's your mother of your kids? 0.99
00:05:17.920 You know what?
00:05:18.660 That's your wifey, you know, she slept with Tom, Dick, Harry, Jeremy, Tyrone, Alex, Brian, Austin, Adam, Dimitri, and she'll never forget it. 1.00
00:05:39.080 Yeah, yeah.
00:05:40.120 Sorry, I'm not even, I couldn't even think of 20 names.
00:05:42.620 Yeah, like, it's because you guys are making it, like, real.
00:05:46.660 But it's like, let's see, before, Donovan, Eric, Jeremy, Tyrone, too, Chad, I'm almost, you know.
00:06:04.900 You almost wrote it out.
00:06:05.860 Yeah, yeah, I see.
00:06:06.900 I can't even.
00:06:08.080 Give some nerdy names. 0.67
00:06:09.180 Phillip.
00:06:09.760 Phillip.
00:06:11.160 Jeff.
00:06:12.080 You know what I'm writing.
00:06:12.800 And you're like, you know what, baby, that's all right.
00:06:17.360 Yeah.
00:06:17.880 I'm so happy to walk you down this aisle in the white dress in front of the whole crowd of people we know.
00:06:25.440 Five guys she slept with is in the crowd. 1.00
00:06:28.760 Yeah, yeah.
00:06:29.560 Nah, it's different, though, because, like, thinking about it logically, thinking about it, it will be like, I would, if I know the person, like, deeply enough.
00:06:42.400 Like, that wouldn't care.
00:06:44.060 But initially, going to find someone, I would prefer someone that's, like, below, like, five or something.
00:06:52.560 You know what I mean?
00:06:52.940 Thank you for being honest.
00:06:55.420 Thank you for being honest.
00:06:57.400 Well, you know what I mean?
00:06:57.920 But if I have to, like.
00:06:59.140 She could get away with 20 if you had to.
00:07:02.000 If I.
00:07:02.540 But if you had two women exactly the same, one's 20, one's five, you're going to. 0.99
00:07:06.840 Yeah.
00:07:07.360 Yeah.
00:07:07.960 Yeah.
00:07:08.620 Yeah.
00:07:08.860 Thank you for being honest.
00:07:10.720 I knew I would get it out of you.
00:07:13.060 I knew I would.
00:07:14.420 It's okay.
00:07:14.860 He's young.
00:07:15.660 He's young.
00:07:16.220 It's not as young, though.
00:07:17.400 It's like, you know, there's less guys in there.
00:07:21.440 You know, you feel somewhat more like, yeah, cool.
00:07:24.200 Wait, it makes you feel more secure in yourself?
00:07:26.180 I wouldn't say secure.
00:07:27.580 It would be like, all right, less guys as touch her.
00:07:31.880 You know what I mean?
00:07:32.220 Like, she's like my.
00:07:34.000 Precious.
00:07:34.480 She just said something really interesting, and I think that's worth noting.
00:07:37.280 She said it makes you feel more secure about yourself, and that's a gaslighting technique.
00:07:40.780 And if you want, I can really dig into this one.
00:07:43.120 Yeah, go ahead.
00:07:43.840 Go dig in.
00:07:44.940 Because she's saying, like, well, if you, you know, with a woman that had less partners,
00:07:49.140 it means that, you know, you're just insecure being with a woman with a very high body count, right?
00:07:52.660 But that's actually shifting the blame and the accountability of your behavior on him.
00:07:57.720 It's not his behavior that caused that, right?
00:07:59.400 Now, biologically, men are predisposed to do what?
00:08:01.740 To reproduce.
00:08:02.460 And for that, we need to have a paternity guarantee.
00:08:04.920 That's why we want, that's why virgins are very highly valued through history. 0.98
00:08:07.800 We want a guarantee of paternity.
00:08:08.800 We want to make sure the kids are our kids, right?
00:08:11.260 And we know that after, what, five partners, pair bonding basically drops.
00:08:14.400 And that's a vasopressin chemical thing you get into that. 0.92
00:08:16.560 The biggest drop is from, like, one to two.
00:08:19.520 Yes.
00:08:19.780 It's, like, 80%.
00:08:21.500 It depends on the study.
00:08:22.700 Then after five, it starts to drop again.
00:08:24.300 Yeah, yeah.
00:08:24.480 Yeah.
00:08:24.860 No, five is, like, it's, like, no, like, gone, you know, gone forever.
00:08:29.580 But, like, one to two, it goes from, like, 80% to, like, 40%.
00:08:32.840 Yeah.
00:08:33.540 So, it's, like, yeah, you're insecure because you wouldn't take a chick with a high body count.
00:08:37.220 That just sounds like a chick with a high body count doesn't want to take accountability for her actions. 1.00
00:08:42.040 But as a man, we know that pair bonding decreases with a woman that has a high body count. 0.99
00:08:45.660 We also know there's a significantly higher opportunity or actually a chance for her to cheat. 1.00
00:08:49.880 Because when women cheat, if you actually look at, like, at the data who they cheat with, it's usually somebody they slept with in the past. 0.97
00:08:54.880 There's a, she's an alpha widow. 0.97
00:08:56.120 Really?
00:08:56.380 Of course, yeah.
00:08:57.220 Really?
00:08:57.680 That makes perfect, yeah, of course.
00:08:58.660 Where did you find that?
00:08:59.380 I didn't know her.
00:08:59.900 I've never heard of that.
00:09:00.100 Yeah, we can get into that.
00:09:01.140 I've got some books you can read, right?
00:09:02.200 Because it's, like, a woman, for her to start a new relationship with a man, she's not doing it for the sex. 0.98
00:09:06.740 She's doing it to leave the relationship. 1.00
00:09:08.040 Women cheat to leave relationships. 1.00
00:09:09.260 There's a lot of data to actually back it up, right?
00:09:11.160 I agree.
00:09:11.540 The data to back it up is very simple.
00:09:13.160 A woman's propensity to cheat drops significantly with the income of her partner. 1.00
00:09:16.480 The richer her husband, the less a woman cheats. 1.00
00:09:18.660 And this has been proven over and over and over and over and over.
00:09:21.200 Most of the cheating, there's about 20% of women that are, you know, statistically shown to be cheating in their marriages. 0.62
00:09:28.080 Overwhelmingly, those are swayed towards men that are earning below average incomes versus men with higher incomes tend to cheat more, but their wives tend to cheat significantly less.
00:09:36.100 So why do women cheat? 1.00
00:09:37.920 Acquisition of resources.
00:09:38.940 Why do men cheat?
00:09:39.600 Spread the seed paternity, right? 0.95
00:09:41.060 Because men have more opportunities with the higher income.
00:09:43.220 So it's like, well, you don't want a woman with low body counts because you're insecure in yourself.
00:09:46.420 No, that you're insecure in yourself and you want to blame the man for it.
00:09:49.520 And that's just like a really toxic behavior.
00:09:51.100 So it's like, yeah.