Delusional Mother BETRAYS Tyrese Gibson
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about why women are leaving left and right for good reasons and why it s time to stop shaming women for wanting to leave abusive men and why they should stay in a situation that is worse than they imagined.
Transcript
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a lot of times on tick tock i just see these like crazy conspiracy theories about me or just all
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these people just you know i'm not too popular on tick tock i guess but there was a woman um
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that i guess destroyed me i guess i have been destroyed on tick tock and i'm very excited to
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see it i guess she gave me some logic and facts and i'm super excited to see it enlighten me
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feminist the people that believe in divorce go be in long-term relationships leave marriage
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for the people that actually believe in for better or for worse for richer or for poorer
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in sickness and in health till death do us part do you know what drives me nuts about this clip
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said she's operating off a premise that women are getting married with the intention of getting
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divorced but they're not making commitments with the intention of breaking them they're just making
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commitments to men who are careful not to reveal themselves until after the wedding is over and
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that happens because of how seriously women take their commitments they fight so hard to keep
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their families together and they've been conditioned to be the one who feels fault if it fails and people
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can end up taking advantage of that women end up staying when they should probably leave because
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they've been sold the myth of the infamous rough patch and they keep telling themselves it will get
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better despite the fact that it keeps getting worse they sacrifice themselves for what they've been
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told is the good of the family so these women end up being abused because of how sacred they hold
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their vows and yet you have the audacity to act like they're just walking away like it means nothing
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they're not just walking away because he's poorer than the day they met in fact she usually gets a
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second job if he loses his and continues to cook dinner nightly and that's also why she hasn't had her
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nails done in seven years if you even bother to ask her marriage vows means so much to so many people but
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you do not stand on an altar and say for better or for worse and to my own destruction women stay
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for the love they have for who that man used to be or because their family threatens to disown them
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or because a church told them that that's their duty or because they have a child who looks up at
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them and asks them where daddy is at bedtime this is not as easy as you make it out to be and you need
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to stop shaming people for living a life you've never lived you don't get to interpret someone's vows
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unless you've walked in their shoes and lived with their partner behind closed doors because for
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better or for worse should never mean staying in a situation that's worse than you ever could have
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imagined what well let me let me get this straight for better or for worse should not mean staying in a
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situation that is worse than you imagine well when women imagine that marriage is going to be this
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disney fairy tale that's so amazing and awesome of course i expect them to stay together even if
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it's worse than they imagined so let's let's go through her claims okay because i wrote some of
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these down one women are not getting abused left right and center no no no no no no that is not the
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case and i will have to beat this out of you guys no stop saying that women are the more likely party to be
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abused most abusive situations the parties are abusing each other sorry guys but you attract what
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you are if you are constantly attracting abusive partners it is possible that maybe you are abusive
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as well when it comes to one-sided abuse where one party is hitting the other and they are not reciprocating
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even with the under reporting that we know men under report this stuff women are more likely to be
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abusive than be abused women are just as abusive if not more abusive than men um the second thing that
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she points out i want you to see how women view commitment men care about actions your intentions do
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not matter i don't care if you took the vows and didn't intend to get divorced if you still got divorced
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because you saw some tiktoks sorry this idea that women are leaving left and right for good reasons
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it's just not true most of the time when women leave it's because they are not submissive they were
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not raised to be a wife and they do not take their vows seriously they were sold a disney dream that their
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husband should have everything and will have no flaws and are in a gynocentric social order that tells
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them they're amazing special and awesome all the time and never talk about what they do wrong in a
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relationship women overwhelmingly do not fight for marriages men put up with fat wives they put up
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with wives that do not sleep with them and they put up with controlling wives all because they care
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about the children but women will divorce men because the man says please don't go to the club sweetheart
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or maybe you don't get your nails done for seven years notice how in her language she talks about
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how getting your nails done is something you're entitled to even though she hasn't had her nails
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done in seven years ladies why is this stuff so important why do you feel entitled to make up
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botox and getting your nails done once you have a child it's not about you we live in a me me me me me
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world and they forget that really when you have children you're supposed to dedicate your life
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to those children your feelings don't matter anymore and women overwhelmingly do not get a second job
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even in relationships that are closer to 50 50 the man still out earn the women typically um so there
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were some comments you know of me just getting destroyed thank pearls just saying things to be honest
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and you'll notice that most of the my critics and detractors are overweight or older single women
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pearl doesn't think through what she's even saying no guys i've actually thought it through completely
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if you take a vow that says you are going to do something you should do it women do not take it
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seriously in 2023 they like the idea of marriage but when it comes to actually doing the hard stuff
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they don't stick it out so there was a woman that actually had a divorce party let's pull it up gabby
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what are we celebrating this this is disgusting it is absolutely disgusting that you would celebrate
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the erosion of a family guys when you grow up in a single mother home you are more likely to go to
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prison you are more likely to be a rapist you are more likely to be a mass shooter you are more likely to
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run away from home you are more likely to be enrolled in a mental institution you are more likely to drop
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out of high school every negative thing in society is linked to single motherhood and yet women parade
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and cheer each other on as they do it the last woman that was criticizing me said it's not like women
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just do this for no reason yet we have women throwing parties about something that is genuinely sad
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something that you are supposed to take seriously how can we say women are taking this seriously
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when we are having parties celebrating it that is disgusting that is disgusting in no world should
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you be celebrating a divorce and it's interesting guys notice that the comments section when it comes
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from men is a lot more honest than from women because women comments tend to cheer this on
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where male comments um tend to really tell you how it is so this guy but to bonnie says it doesn't
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look like she's happy about the divorce that's how it looks to me though um another commenter says
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i need a follow-up in a year to see if she sounds like tyrese's ex yes and a lot of women leave these
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situations thinking the grass is greener on the other side they think that all the men that give them
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attention actually want to date them when really they just want you for a weekend they don't want
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you long term i cannot stress this enough the majority of single mothers do not remarry and if they
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remarry they are more likely to divorce than they are to stay with their partner 15 roughly of single
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moms get remarried 22 get a guy to live with them meaning 60 the overwhelming majority do not remarry
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and why does every single mother think that she is special every child you have with a man decreases
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your sexual market value by at least a point at least it doesn't matter how good looking you are
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you have two three kids with another guy you're done don't expect to remarry and we see this in real
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time you know samantha lee had no problems getting divorced from tyrese everything seemed good she thought it
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was the right decision and last week we covered that it in fact was not good and now she's having
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second thoughts and regretting her divorce she went out there and dated again and realized the grass
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probably is not going to be greener on the other side she puts out a video saying that she regrets
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it and let's see tyrese's response the truth about the matter is that if i had different people in my
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ear at that time i would not have made that decision look man i was not going to respond to this video
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of my ex has now gone viral she is loving it congratulations you went viral again over something
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else that you said because you're trying to build up your youtube page and get your followers up
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listen man listen if you had people in your ear that influenced you into leaving your husband
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and your one-year-old child your innocent one-year-old child we both were divorcee kids grew up in toxic
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environments torn in between our old family new family stepfather stepmother
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packed up a one-year-old put a covet mask on top of the rain cameras
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and i was literally in an airplane on my way home to fight for my marriage and my family you're heartless
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and it's been three years i've moved on i'm with zellies you moved on i don't even want to tell
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niggas the first nigga you started dating when we broke up because you're gonna go viral from that
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if i were to tell niggas who you started dating as soon as we broke up you would go viral from that
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all you want is attention you want facebook followers you want instagram followers you're
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trying to be a life coach and you're trying to get niggas to drink the kool-aid you with a real one
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right here so a couple things that are interesting about this clip so he says
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if people were to know who you dated right after me you would go viral so i'm assuming it's some
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high profile guy that we know that would never commit to her that she probably thought she could
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get commitment from and probably did what men tend to do with single mother divorcees which is
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pass them on to the next sorry guys this is how men think and you can shoot the messenger but guys
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i interview thousands of men they typically think that divorcees are for fun only they don't see them
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as a long-term option and the data supports this most single mothers never remarry ever most can't even
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get a guy to live with them again that is the future this woman is asking for 20k a month to raise
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a child what on earth do you need 20k a month for i bet he would be fine with two grand that
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should cover all expenses even three i bet you he would even do five that that can get you a one
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bedroom apartment and pretty much any major city and i and i even think that's a bit extreme i i think
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if you choose to leave a marriage then you should have a plan to financially support yourself and
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the child the rest of your life no i do not think that you should be able to depend on the guy that
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you are no longer giving anything in return to i believe that is legal robbery and i think women
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that are legally robbing men should be treated as such criminals criminals the third thing he pointed out
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is that her mother was in her ear and ladies this is a tough pill to swallow a lot of your mothers do
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not want to see you succeed they want to see you just as miserable as them so you can be her emotional
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tampon the rest of her life because a lot of your mothers have failed again and again and again in
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relationships and they do not want to see you succeed there are mothers that are simultaneously
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telling their daughters that they love them and support them while trying to ruin their marriage
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this is common i would say this is more common than it is not