JustPearlyThings - July 13, 2023


Disadvantage Of Being An O.F Model


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Length

10 minutes

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210.73917

Word count

2,258

Sentence count

4

Harmful content

Misogyny

6

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Hate speech

10

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In this episode of the podcast I am joined by my good friend who is a porn star from Dublin. We talk about his life growing up in a catholic family and how he came out as gay at a young age.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 yeah where i come from in ireland like when my family found out and obviously i do stuff with
00:00:05.440 both men and women so my family are strong catholic traditional irish family all my uncles
00:00:12.160 i come from big families like i have six brothers and sisters my uncles have nine uncles and eight
00:00:17.840 aunties and yeah they pretty much disowned me straight away yeah and um my uncles were very
00:00:25.040 very masculine like my granddad was yeah extremely masculine well that's that's how i would imagine
00:00:30.560 masculine guys would respond but they're assholes let's be honest they're assholes you know i know i 0.94
00:00:35.520 i i don't mean like not a personal thing but it's like i i think that that's not a bad thing to like
00:00:42.160 disown like because that's like brings shame it brings shame upon your family so i i kind of
00:00:50.080 understand i totally get it you know um when my whole area found out because this doesn't happen
00:00:56.720 in dublin yeah it doesn't happen this is why i'm so popular i was i was so surprised in dublin how
00:01:01.760 progressive it was yeah now maybe but i started 14 years ago okay okay and um in the game yeah and i
00:01:09.600 got my brothers involved in my videos not together but like but in my videos um me and my brother we
00:01:15.760 we would you want your mom to get on not in your videos but um i don't know i see i lost parents
00:01:24.400 at a young age so i don't i don't i don't know what it's like to have parents so i don't have that
00:01:28.560 i had vanties and uncles around 12. oh wow that's so young so and i'm the oldest of six my youngest
00:01:34.320 brother was he was the oldest of six you lost your parents at 12. and my youngest brother was eight
00:01:40.320 months but he just started only fans now and listen listen i i was against this yeah i want to make
00:01:46.880 sure i'm on record but so yeah i started this psu porn star university and every single person who
00:01:53.760 comes to me i say to them are you sure this is what you want to do go and think about it once you put
00:01:58.720 this on the internet there is no going back you know this is not a get rich quick scheme like the media
00:02:05.200 portray it it's not 100 it's really not that's something i wish that
00:02:09.440 was talked about more honestly like you just talked about it by high earning only fans people
00:02:15.600 is that it is not this get quick rich game and it is forever and you see all this i earn five
00:02:21.600 figures a month maybe you did one month but let's be real you don't earn five figures a month don't
00:02:26.080 listen to this rubbish you know it's not it's not real and the mental health side of it is crazy
00:02:32.560 like you have to be very thick skin look on the internet look at that amount of crap i can imagine
00:02:37.760 how the crap you get you know i get it like i spank a sofa on tiktok you know i went viral
00:02:42.720 for spanking a sofa bit of fun you know i mean but the abuse we get you see it was just a bit of cheeky
00:02:50.480 fun like people say this guy's serious obviously i'm not serious it's a joke it's a bit of fun to get
00:02:55.600 attention does it bother you sometimes yeah when obviously so when when i done this tv show this was
00:03:02.560 me ripping the band-aid off tell it because for a long time i didn't tell everyone i done uh adult
00:03:07.920 videos and um especially when you're doing the stuff a catholic boy from dublin doing stuff with
00:03:13.280 guys as well you know this is where now are you you do stuff with like dude and dude yeah it's are you
00:03:20.160 are you gay or no wait so you're straight you'll do gay stuff for money no you're gay bro okay no no 0.92
00:03:27.360 no no listen listen no so this is a big thing for me if you want to sound gay that's your opinion i i 0.52
00:03:32.000 appreciate that you know i mean that's your opinion yeah for me i'm not attracted to males i i can like
00:03:37.200 he's a good looking geezer let's be honest yeah it's correct good looking geezer right the good looking
00:03:41.920 men you know i mean i'm not physically attracted to them but if you want to call me gay call me gay 0.91
00:03:46.320 doesn't affect no i can't even no i'm not picking on you okay okay so let me put like this right let me
00:03:52.160 put it like this i worked on a building site i worked on oil rigs 18 hours a day grafting my ass 0.88
00:03:59.200 off and i was bankrupt i cut i was walking around the supermarket counting how much money i had for
00:04:05.040 food and one day it clicked to my head i said this will never happen to me again i will do anything
00:04:11.120 you know i don't sell drugs i don't i don't have a criminal record i don't do any crime i live my life
00:04:15.920 in my little bubble i travel i come back to the uk i film and i travel again that's my life no so you're not
00:04:21.760 you're not a game man you just like to suck oh no i don't suck so no i'll be honest so i let go 0.97
00:04:29.600 i suck my cock yeah but i have that's that's up to me i'm a fully grown adult doesn't bother me 0.94
00:04:34.880 yeah you know what i mean if i can do that what difference would it make if you was gay anyway
00:04:38.320 like it doesn't it doesn't make no he's just categorizing i'm saying some people would view it
00:04:42.720 as gay if you get banged in the ass and for another bloke and you're a guy he's just saying he doesn't 0.88
00:04:46.800 really care just does it for the money yeah so and i know i don't look at sexuality anymore i think why
00:04:50.800 why do girls care that you do the gay stuff no so some some girls obviously will yeah i think 0.99
00:04:57.600 it's hot no but but i don't care so working with girls doesn't earn me that much money yeah you know 0.97
00:05:05.440 i i i'm not out slipping into all these girls dms asking to film with them like these other creepy
00:05:09.920 guys i will do what earns me money because it's a business to me and that's all and i and i enjoy what
00:05:15.360 i do i love it can i say pearl uh back to the original question was i think majority of the
00:05:20.320 women here did say that they wouldn't like their mum doing only fans i wouldn't care i was actually 0.99
00:05:26.560 the only one who said that i wouldn't like anyone to do only fans people i wouldn't advertise any fans
00:05:31.680 to anybody no you know it's i'm not only only fans adult industry in general it's so pressurizing in
00:05:38.640 every single way that's the difference i wouldn't encourage anyone to do it but if if one of my
00:05:43.360 family members was to do it i would still support them and i i wouldn't disown them but i wouldn't
00:05:49.920 encourage them to actively go out and sell pen only fans just for clarity who would uh want their mom
00:05:55.680 to do only fans out of women i don't think anybody would want to i'd like us to do only fans just
00:06:01.120 saying so we so how many of us but we would be supportive if they yeah but you wouldn't want it
00:06:07.840 i mean i would i wouldn't say i wouldn't want anybody to do you want it i wouldn't
00:06:11.600 no you don't want it doesn't want it doesn't want it so we've got majority don't want it right
00:06:17.680 so how do you think your future kids will feel no if i can't have kids so next question all right other
00:06:23.360 other women and the wise words of l brook they can cry on a ferrari obviously my kids don't want 0.99
00:06:30.400 me to do it but they still support me that's the difference the difference is i don't know
00:06:35.280 they're not encouraging me to do it they're not saying your mom go and do it it's it's they just
00:06:40.080 support me that's literally it like i i wouldn't want my mom to do it but if she did i would support
00:06:46.080 her who cares what your kids think anyways you're the boss yeah but why are people so 0.72
00:06:49.760 i pay your bills you eat my food you live in my house you do what i say end of you know i mean
00:06:56.720 i don't care what you think about me you're here because of me you know you're here where you are
00:07:01.280 you're the private education i pay for that's because of me but i mean if your kids had a
00:07:06.080 choice and they asked you to stop would you yeah but your kids wouldn't have a choice whether they're
00:07:09.520 born or not that's like that's like saying like i can do crack who cares it's my house maybe so but
00:07:14.720 people do if people do but and then people have your opinion on you that's fine yeah if your child
00:07:21.200 came to you and said mom could you please stop would you if my if my kids had a choice of to go
00:07:26.880 back to the life that we had or to continue the life that we've got now with the job that i've got
00:07:31.120 now i 100 guarantee that would pick the life that we've got now they would not go back to the life
00:07:36.640 that we had before i i 100 i could you answer his question if your if your child came to said mom
00:07:44.160 could you please stop doing only fans would you do it i don't know i don't i honestly don't know um
00:07:50.400 i feel like i'm i'm at a point now where i'm i'm making that money if i wasn't making any money then
00:07:57.760 obviously i would stop straight away but i'm at the point where i'm making the amount of money
00:08:03.200 that i need to better my life on their life and i don't i don't know if i'd stop or not yeah it
00:08:08.800 just sounds like when i hear this i i just wonder because you guys could have made good money in
00:08:14.320 like sales or something like i made i made good money in sales no i'm serious yeah i i i so i was in
00:08:20.640 sales i was in you guys are all pretty girls i'm like i could get you some coffee the thing is
00:08:28.720 time would be taken up as well i made actually working all the hours that god sends to make that
00:08:33.040 money i used to work like 40 hours a week i used to work 56 hours a week yeah working eight until 6
00:08:39.840 pm every single day and i would make like seven grand a month right which is a it's good money but
00:08:48.640 then i had no time to do what i wanted to do yeah i had no time if i wanted to make here then but then
00:08:54.240 it's like you could be 18. you guys are like you're all pretty enough you could go go get the
00:08:58.960 rich guys you know what i mean why would i want to do that before before like this before well no no
00:09:04.160 i'm saying before you got down here
00:09:06.960 why would i want to be a rich man well because you guys are all talking about money i was like
00:09:17.440 yeah but i don't care i just i was just wondering why isn't everyone doing it well because i think a
00:09:22.160 lot of women just i i think it okay because i'm thinking before i got to only fans i would think 0.96
00:09:28.480 let's go to like some rich bars and order a salad like just before i got to only would you not want to
00:09:36.400 be your own money though no i mean what does it matter but if you if your kid's coming to you
00:09:42.080 and says mom i don't want you to do it and you say no you know the money's good then it's really
00:09:46.560 if the price is right then you guys value money and that's the price i mean obviously obviously the
00:09:51.200 case for me is very different where i can't have children however the money that i've made so far i
00:09:56.320 could invest that into other things so i value that if i could potentially the hypothetical situation
00:10:02.560 of me having a child who told me to stop doing it i would invest it into other things and do other
00:10:06.160 things if someone told you it has a direct impact on your child's life negatively then obviously
00:10:11.760 would you still do it no why would it have a direct impact on your child's life i'm sure there's
00:10:18.720 parents should teach children not to bully other children not to it's not just that it's not just
00:10:23.200 bullying at the moment it's not having a negative impact on their life it's having a positive like
00:10:27.760 multiple things like it could be it could be uh their view on sex it could be how they view society
00:10:33.040 okay so that's what you have