Do Men Hit The Wall？
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Summary
In this episode of the podcast, the boys talk about how to be a better man, what it takes to be the best man, and what to look out for in a woman in a relationship. We also talk about the importance of being a good man and how important it is to have a woman who gives you peace of mind.
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What are you what are you showing over sorry his girls texting him how sexy
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From the event we just went to right she sent me these photos and I was like B
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Why are you so pretty she was like because I have a sexy man next to me good man
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Men have emotions too you have to understand that to some degree you're like it's not even about
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Let's make this way. It's about some of these wanna feel nice as well
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You know and that respect is how I translate you are making me feel nice
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Respect is love for me respect is my type of that's like when you give me respect here
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I'm just like that appeals to my emotions, you know, yeah, that makes me feel positive happy
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Thought mean kicks in my head cuz I'm not to myself. Yo, you respect to me makes people
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I've got a solid team to take on the world, but it's like you're not respect to me
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Well, and boom and that's why that's why these girls still date a guy and he'll date him for like three four five years
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But he'll never put a ring on her finger. Yeah, but then
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He dates another girl and he dates one to two years and boom he makes you know, you know, you know why why cuz she gives him
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He's not my I'm sorry. I'm sorry. He's of my men now, you know
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I have to worry about her fuck what her ho ass friends texting her
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Yeah, was she posting some fucking haram ass shit on her Instagram like a man a man every day
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Has to wake up and doesn't matter if you're in the middle class top of the line
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Whatever the case may be every man every day a man has to wake up and fight the world damn sure
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And the last thing he wants to fight is some ungrateful bitch in his life
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He doesn't want to fight with that girl and a lot of guys they fucking
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Have to make a deal with the devil and kind of get with girls that aren't necessarily
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Checking all boxes that fight can be worse than then then any other fight really no, no
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It's it's the worst thing and a lot of guys settle because they don't have the they don't have the abundance mindset
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Yeah to think that they can get out there and get better or get a woman of quality
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But yeah, that's what that that's a big thing that a lot of women don't understand if you can bring your man
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No ho shit like peace of mind of you not going out there hoeing around like I need to go on this girl's trip
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I need to fucking up update my snapchat or any shit like guys don't want to deal like when a guy loves you
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The last thing he wants to do is imagine some dude banging you and if you're giving off all these symptoms of of ho shit
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Like I know like modern culture. We're supposed to well. You shouldn't do that
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you should respect the one more than a snapchat and all that, but in a dot an ideal situation a guy doesn't want to have to put up with that shit
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That's why when you have a girl that brings you peace of mind and just not a drip of hoe fucking activity around her
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No, you know he'll give her and that's why these girls like though
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They'll they'll date cuz the guy will be and put up with them for a couple years
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But then he dumps them and then he finds another girl who gives him that peace of mind. Yeah, it's over
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Do you feel like when men are ready to get married? They don't waste a lot of time. Yeah
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Yes, but it absolutely depends on the woman. Yes, absolutely depends on women
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You know like like like him like kids girlfriend texting him right now
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Like I would never go on stage with Chris Brown and you're such a sexy man and stuff like
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that right there that that's why he won the fucking Australia best actor award because he got a great woman at home supporting him
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Man, listen, you know what like for example, you know who's a great woman in this world?
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I don't know if you guys know who she is you guys know who Dee Devlin is?
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Yeah, and he she he was on welfare and she was working full-time to help that man out and you can see when you watch these
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Because and he says it all time if I didn't have this great woman with me
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There is no way I would have been able to ascend to such great heights
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But the reality is very very very very true when you have when you're a man and you have a good woman by your side
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That does not give you stress and she makes you feel safe and she knows that you like the world is you?
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That's why these guys conquer and then the other side of the coin is when you have a treacherous bitch in your life
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And you have seen great men fall in from these great heights
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Because they got some fucking hoe in the house with them with a ring on her finger and she thinks she knows some shit
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And that's how you see these guys. Well, it's not even necessarily treacherous
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It's just if she is not supportive of you and your goals
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I've noticed it seems like just from what I've seen
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Guys, it's like when they're ready to get married. It's kind of like that's like they're like a guy once he's got his money figured out
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He'll kind of look at the girl next to him and be like is it her?
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Yes or no then dump her if it's a no and then he's like on a mission to find the girl. He's right. Absolutely
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To marry when a guy when a guy really wants to get married him
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He he does like in his mind because you did like, you know, I'm kind of at that phase now
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Like I have made all the money. I've slept with all the girls and now I'm like I'm looking for
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the one like the not like saying like my soulmate or the one that I'm that I can trust bring into my life and have children with right and
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And when you're on that path, like you're very vicious in the sense like okay, like one red flag you're out
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Yeah, exactly. No, no time to waste. You know, I'm out like you're you did this. No, you're done
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You hate men. No, you're you have blue hair. You're feminist. No, you're done
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You know, I mean and like when you're in that mode, too
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Because I I'll tell you this too and I don't know if this is just subjective to me only
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But I feel like my like biological clock ticking like I I see kids like I want children. I want a son
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Yeah, and I I feel it. I like I feel that I want a son
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You're 37 37. Yeah, this is what I feel like so you at 37 now you're on a mission
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You're looking for a wife. Yeah, because if I were to get because what Tate was saying is true is so true
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Like what am I gonna do like go out there and just keep fucking hoes and keep like it's gonna get the same
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I think if a girl met you at 30, right, do you think that she could have gotten you to marry her at 30?
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No, because I was too stupid. Yeah, but that's that's what I I feel like sometimes girls will get bitter because they might date a guy
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Some girls can wait it out like if she met you at 30 and then at 37 like you look up you look you're ready to do that
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Oh, she's there. Yeah, no, no. I definitely agree with you. Yeah, but like it just you know
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It just it's a timing thing too is it really it and it's timing based upon maturity, and I think some guys
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They never mature to there. There's there's some guys like everybody like I think the world needs to realize like not everybody gets a happy ending
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Like not everybody gets happy. I do you think it's a lot to do maturity as well
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But there is a gigantic fear factor that as a man
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I'm putting myself on the line if I get married right now true like in England and especially it's only horrible here because in England
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I'm not sure how the the prenup thing works exactly no doesn't exist here. It doesn't exist here. They need prenups
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They also incentivize abuse allegations here because they give you a free lawyer if she accuses you of abuse
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Wow, yeah, yeah, it's really I'm doing a documentary on divorce right now. Okay. I didn't know that before
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You don't want to be me. I can't remember if you said you want to get married. I wouldn't legally
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No, I was I was talking to him. I'm gonna ask you next though. Don't worry. Oh shit. Me me personally. Um, I
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I'd never say never but getting legally married certainly is not high on the agenda
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No, do you want like kids and stuff again? I'd never say never but I wasn't I was never the most paternal of people
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Because I think because my family background was a bit screwed up and whatever. So I think I think there's been some some stuff there
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So so yeah, that's kind of where i'm sitting at it at the moment
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So this question doesn't really apply so i'm just curious because 37 now you're looking for a wife
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I'm curious what when's the ideal age for you? You don't marriage isn't high on the priority
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So what was the ideal age that you wanted to get married at me? Yeah, you
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Uh, well, I don't I wouldn't get legally married just because have children family. Yeah, uh, if i'm being honest
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I think the earliest I would look at would be like 35. How old are you? I'm 29. Oh, okay. Okay. Okay. Yeah
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Okay, so 35 is the ideal age for you. What about you?
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Yeah, I'd say that for me with absolute honesty
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I don't know when i'm ready when when I plan to be ready to be married only because it's like what I was saying earlier on a lot of
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What I'll look for in marriage is to do heavily with the person as well
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Growing into that marriage as well because like I could say to myself i'm ready for marriage
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Yeah, but if I don't feel this person's ready for marriage or we're compatible fully or or so
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Like not fully but like it worked like I like it has to do a lot with how's the relationship has grown into that marriage
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Too as well, and that's a difficult thing to predict
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It's hard to say like and like everyone that's ever gotten with an ex before thought it was going to last forever
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Everyone has got but in things it didn't it's statistics. It's just probability happens
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No, I think it's just more like when do you like your world like what stage do you think you'd be like?
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I'm ready to build a family was I'd say but this is the thing I could probably be at that stage right now
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Would not know it like it my things really to do like how my relationship is
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Yeah, and how we're developing into coming into those days because it's it's me also looking at how another human beings moving
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I'm not completely judging this off of my standards. So it's based on the relationship. You're in yeah
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Yeah, it's basically the relationship I mean and it's really is based off of like how things like develop like it's not to say that
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Like I'm not saying that oh, we won't get married. I just say that I'm literally is I feel like you will
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I'm watching the process and it's like I feel like oh
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Oh, you see like how you are at a stage of absolute certainty. Yeah, I think that would just kick in for me when
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When we get to that stage and that could just be like, you know now when we're married, but that could probably be tomorrow
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It could be two years from now be five. It could be I don't I don't want to say an answer and like, you know
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It's interesting how the age for marriages sort of moved moved back so much because you're like 23 my dad was 24 when he had me
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Because they just they just have you on this consumerism hedonism shit cuz like I thought like when you get rich like you're just gonna be always happy
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Shopping at Louis Vuitton and going to these like high-end restaurants and stuff
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Dan Bilzerian talks about it like Dan Bilzerian said back in the day
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I used to be really happy going to Outback like Outback was like a 10 out of 10 experience for him
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But then as he got rich like now it's like well going to Fleming's is a 10 out of 10 experience for me
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But even now going to Fleming's is like, you know
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Like a 6 out of 10 because it's like a regular day just like same thing like when you sleep with a new girl
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Like when you first when you just have sex in generally like yes
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I had sex, but then you start having sex with a bunch of girls like
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You know if you have sex like with two or three girls a day and you're like kind of used to it
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But you just keep on like you have to keep on raising the bar to keep on stimulating your dopamine
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But then you become like this dopamine slave that you're just like on this endless hedonistic treadmill
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That ultimately leads you nowhere and you have no fulfillment