JustPearlyThings - Do Men Hit The Wall？

00:00:01.000 What are you what are you showing over sorry his girls texting him how sexy

00:00:06.040 From the event we just went to right she sent me these photos and I was like B

00:00:09.680 Why are you so pretty she was like because I have a sexy man next to me good man 0.90

00:00:13.520 Lucky I should stop this

00:00:19.000 Men have emotions too you have to understand that to some degree you're like it's not even about

00:00:23.780 Let's make this way. It's about some of these wanna feel nice as well

00:00:26.700 You know and that respect is how I translate you are making me feel nice

00:00:31.180 Respect is love for me respect is my type of that's like when you give me respect here

00:00:34.600 I'm just like that appeals to my emotions, you know, yeah, that makes me feel positive happy

00:00:39.060 Thought mean kicks in my head cuz I'm not to myself. Yo, you respect to me makes people

00:00:42.660 I've got a solid team to take on the world, but it's like you're not respect to me

00:00:46.080 It's me versus you and the world

00:00:48.220 Well, and boom and that's why that's why these girls still date a guy and he'll date him for like three four five years 1.00

00:00:55.560 But he'll never put a ring on her finger. Yeah, but then

00:01:00.080 He dates another girl and he dates one to two years and boom he makes you know, you know, you know why why cuz she gives him

00:01:07.600 Peace of mind

00:01:09.600 He's not my I'm sorry. I'm sorry. He's of my men now, you know

00:01:14.200 I have to worry about her fuck what her ho ass friends texting her 1.00

00:01:18.080 Yeah, was she posting some fucking haram ass shit on her Instagram like a man a man every day 1.00

00:01:24.540 Has to wake up and doesn't matter if you're in the middle class top of the line 1.00

00:01:28.760 Whatever the case may be every man every day a man has to wake up and fight the world damn sure 0.99

00:01:34.900 And the last thing he wants to fight is some ungrateful bitch in his life 1.00

00:01:40.480 He doesn't want to fight with that girl and a lot of guys they fucking 0.99

00:01:44.180 Have to make a deal with the devil and kind of get with girls that aren't necessarily 0.96

00:01:47.840 Checking all boxes that fight can be worse than then then any other fight really no, no

00:01:53.220 It's it's the worst thing and a lot of guys settle because they don't have the they don't have the abundance mindset

00:01:58.200 Yeah to think that they can get out there and get better or get a woman of quality 1.00

00:02:02.940 But yeah, that's what that that's a big thing that a lot of women don't understand if you can bring your man 1.00

00:02:08.600 peace of mind it's and

00:02:11.340 especially 0.98

00:02:13.340 No ho shit like peace of mind of you not going out there hoeing around like I need to go on this girl's trip 1.00

00:02:20.160 I need to go to the club with this 0.99

00:02:21.400 I need to fucking up update my snapchat or any shit like guys don't want to deal like when a guy loves you 0.99

00:02:27.660 The last thing he wants to do is imagine some dude banging you and if you're giving off all these symptoms of of ho shit 0.99

00:02:34.860 Like I know like modern culture. We're supposed to well. You shouldn't do that 0.99

00:02:38.060 you should respect the one more than a snapchat and all that, but in a dot an ideal situation a guy doesn't want to have to put up with that shit 0.99

00:02:46.440 That's right 0.99

00:02:46.880 That's why when you have a girl that brings you peace of mind and just not a drip of hoe fucking activity around her 1.00

00:02:53.420 He will give her the entire world 0.87

00:02:55.640 No, you know he'll give her and that's why these girls like though 1.00

00:02:58.880 They'll they'll date cuz the guy will be and put up with them for a couple years

00:03:01.940 But then he dumps them and then he finds another girl who gives him that peace of mind. Yeah, it's over

00:03:07.400 Do you feel like when men are ready to get married? They don't waste a lot of time. Yeah 0.98

00:03:12.940 Yes, but it absolutely depends on the woman. Yes, absolutely depends on women 1.00

00:03:19.160 You know like like like him like kids girlfriend texting him right now

00:03:23.020 Like I would never go on stage with Chris Brown and you're such a sexy man and stuff like 0.95

00:03:28.460 that right there that that's why he won the fucking Australia best actor award because he got a great woman at home supporting him 0.95

00:03:36.900 That's a big part of it. Like are you man? 0.96

00:03:39.700 Man, listen, you know what like for example, you know who's a great woman in this world?

00:03:43.160 I don't know if you guys know who she is you guys know who Dee Devlin is?

00:03:47.500 Dee Devlin is Conor McGregor's wife and

00:03:51.860 She had supported Conor McGregor from day one

00:03:56.040 Yeah, and he she he was on welfare and she was working full-time to help that man out and you can see when you watch these

00:04:03.160 Interviews with him that woman is like

00:04:06.100 blindly loyal to McGregor in a great way and

00:04:09.360 Because and he says it all time if I didn't have this great woman with me

00:04:12.720 There is no way I would have been able to ascend to such great heights

00:04:15.820 And I'm not trying to like simp for women 0.98

00:04:18.040 But the reality is very very very very true when you have when you're a man and you have a good woman by your side

00:04:24.560 That does not give you stress and she makes you feel safe and she knows that you like the world is you?

00:04:31.520 There's no treachery. Yeah, you know I mean

00:04:33.460 That's why these guys conquer and then the other side of the coin is when you have a treacherous bitch in your life 1.00

00:04:38.940 And you have seen great men fall in from these great heights 1.00

00:04:43.740 Because they got some fucking hoe in the house with them with a ring on her finger and she thinks she knows some shit 1.00

00:04:49.960 And that's how you see these guys. Well, it's not even necessarily treacherous 1.00

00:04:53.080 It's just if she is not supportive of you and your goals

00:04:56.920 That's treachery in my book

00:04:58.920 Yeah, true

00:04:59.480 Fair, fair, fair

00:05:00.040 I've noticed it seems like just from what I've seen

00:05:04.280 Guys, it's like when they're ready to get married. It's kind of like that's like they're like a guy once he's got his money figured out

00:05:10.520 He'll kind of look at the girl next to him and be like is it her?

00:05:13.080 Yes or no then dump her if it's a no and then he's like on a mission to find the girl. He's right. Absolutely

00:05:18.200 To marry when a guy when a guy really wants to get married him 0.96

00:05:21.560 He he does like in his mind because you did like, you know, I'm kind of at that phase now

00:05:26.280 Like I have made all the money. I've slept with all the girls and now I'm like I'm looking for

00:05:31.240 the one like the not like saying like my soulmate or the one that I'm that I can trust bring into my life and have children with right and

00:05:39.080 And when you're on that path, like you're very vicious in the sense like okay, like one red flag you're out

00:05:46.200 Yeah, exactly. No, no time to waste. You know, I'm out like you're you did this. No, you're done

00:05:50.200 You hate men. No, you're you have blue hair. You're feminist. No, you're done 1.00

00:05:53.160 You know, I mean and like when you're in that mode, too

00:05:56.360 Because I I'll tell you this too and I don't know if this is just subjective to me only

00:06:01.320 But I feel like my like biological clock ticking like I I see kids like I want children. I want a son

00:06:07.880 Yeah, and I I feel it. I like I feel that I want a son

00:06:11.000 You're 37 37. Yeah, this is what I feel like so you at 37 now you're on a mission

00:06:17.080 You're looking for a wife. Yeah, because if I were to get because what Tate was saying is true is so true

00:06:22.120 Like what am I gonna do like go out there and just keep fucking hoes and keep like it's gonna get the same 1.00

00:06:28.040 I already am bored 0.98

00:06:30.040 I think if a girl met you at 30, right, do you think that she could have gotten you to marry her at 30? 1.00

00:06:35.320 No, because I was too stupid. Yeah, but that's that's what I I feel like sometimes girls will get bitter because they might date a guy 0.99

00:06:42.440 That's like at the wrong time. Yes

00:06:47.000 Some girls can wait it out like if she met you at 30 and then at 37 like you look up you look you're ready to do that 1.00

00:06:53.160 Oh, she's there. Yeah, no, no. I definitely agree with you. Yeah, but like it just you know

00:06:58.680 It just it's a timing thing too is it really it and it's timing based upon maturity, and I think some guys

00:07:04.920 They never mature to there. There's there's some guys like everybody like I think the world needs to realize like not everybody gets a happy ending

00:07:14.840 Like not everybody gets happy. I do you think it's a lot to do maturity as well

00:07:18.040 But there is a gigantic fear factor that as a man

00:07:22.360 I'm putting myself on the line if I get married right now true like in England and especially it's only horrible here because in England

00:07:28.840 I'm not sure how the the prenup thing works exactly no doesn't exist here. It doesn't exist here. They need prenups

00:07:33.960 Yeah, that's why in the states. So it is. Yeah

00:07:39.480 They also incentivize abuse allegations here because they give you a free lawyer if she accuses you of abuse

00:07:44.200 Wow, yeah, yeah, it's really I'm doing a documentary on divorce right now. Okay. I didn't know that before

00:07:52.120 Curious what

00:07:54.440 You don't want to be me. I can't remember if you said you want to get married. I wouldn't legally

00:07:58.840 No, I was I was talking to him. I'm gonna ask you next though. Don't worry. Oh shit. Me me personally. Um, I

00:08:05.160 I'd never say never but getting legally married certainly is not high on the agenda

00:08:09.780 No, do you want like kids and stuff again? I'd never say never but I wasn't I was never the most paternal of people

00:08:15.940 Because I think because my family background was a bit screwed up and whatever. So I think I think there's been some some stuff there

00:08:21.460 Um

00:08:22.580 So so yeah, that's kind of where i'm sitting at it at the moment

00:08:25.700 I'm, just okay

00:08:26.580 So this question doesn't really apply so i'm just curious because 37 now you're looking for a wife

00:08:31.620 I'm curious what when's the ideal age for you? You don't marriage isn't high on the priority

00:08:36.340 So what was the ideal age that you wanted to get married at me? Yeah, you

00:08:41.540 Uh, well, I don't I wouldn't get legally married just because have children family. Yeah, uh, if i'm being honest

00:08:48.500 I think the earliest I would look at would be like 35. How old are you? I'm 29. Oh, okay. Okay. Okay. Yeah

00:08:55.780 Okay, so 35 is the ideal age for you. What about you?

00:08:59.380 You're you're 25 three three three three

00:09:02.340 Yeah, I'd say that for me with absolute honesty

00:09:07.140 I don't know when i'm ready when when I plan to be ready to be married only because it's like what I was saying earlier on a lot of

00:09:14.900 What I'll look for in marriage is to do heavily with the person as well

00:09:18.500 Growing into that marriage as well because like I could say to myself i'm ready for marriage

00:09:22.820 Yeah, but if I don't feel this person's ready for marriage or we're compatible fully or or so

00:09:28.020 Like not fully but like it worked like I like it has to do a lot with how's the relationship has grown into that marriage

00:09:33.460 Too as well, and that's a difficult thing to predict 1.00

00:09:35.940 It's hard to say like and like everyone that's ever gotten with an ex before thought it was going to last forever

00:09:41.780 Everyone has got but in things it didn't it's statistics. It's just probability happens

00:09:45.780 No, I think it's just more like when do you like your world like what stage do you think you'd be like?

00:09:49.700 I'm ready to build a family was I'd say but this is the thing I could probably be at that stage right now

00:09:54.980 Would not know it like it my things really to do like how my relationship is

00:09:58.900 Yeah, and how we're developing into coming into those days because it's it's me also looking at how another human beings moving

00:10:05.380 I'm not completely judging this off of my standards. So it's based on the relationship. You're in yeah

00:10:09.460 Yeah, it's basically the relationship I mean and it's really is based off of like how things like develop like it's not to say that

00:10:14.100 Like I'm not saying that oh, we won't get married. I just say that I'm literally is I feel like you will

00:10:17.780 I'm watching the process and it's like I feel like oh

00:10:20.340 Oh, you see like how you are at a stage of absolute certainty. Yeah, I think that would just kick in for me when

00:10:26.020 When we get to that stage and that could just be like, you know now when we're married, but that could probably be tomorrow

00:10:30.340 It could be two years from now be five. It could be I don't I don't want to say an answer and like, you know

00:10:37.220 It's interesting how the age for marriages sort of moved moved back so much because you're like 23 my dad was 24 when he had me

00:10:44.020 You know

00:10:46.020 It's normal back

00:10:48.020 Yeah, exactly 0.94

00:10:50.180 Because they just they just have you on this consumerism hedonism shit cuz like I thought like when you get rich like you're just gonna be always happy 0.54

00:11:00.500 Shopping at Louis Vuitton and going to these like high-end restaurants and stuff 0.97

00:11:04.020 Dan Bilzerian talks about it like Dan Bilzerian said back in the day

00:11:07.740 I used to be really happy going to Outback like Outback was like a 10 out of 10 experience for him

00:11:12.660 But then as he got rich like now it's like well going to Fleming's is a 10 out of 10 experience for me

00:11:18.100 But even now going to Fleming's is like, you know

00:11:20.820 Like a 6 out of 10 because it's like a regular day just like same thing like when you sleep with a new girl 1.00

00:11:25.380 Like when you first when you just have sex in generally like yes 0.65

00:11:28.020 I had sex, but then you start having sex with a bunch of girls like 1.00

00:11:31.460 You know if you have sex like with two or three girls a day and you're like kind of used to it 0.99

00:11:35.940 You're kind of like well, you know, I was cool

00:11:37.540 But you just keep on like you have to keep on raising the bar to keep on stimulating your dopamine

00:11:45.140 If you really want to get down to it

00:11:46.740 But then you become like this dopamine slave that you're just like on this endless hedonistic treadmill

00:11:52.580 That ultimately leads you nowhere and you have no fulfillment

JustPearlyThings - June 27, 2023

Do Men Hit The Wall？

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