JustPearlyThings - June 28, 2023


Pearl's CRAZIEST First Date EVER

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Chris Brown Cristiano Ronaldo Andrew Tate David Bond Rambe Dakin Alice Chris John Troi
The SHOCKING Truth About VIRGIN WOMEN Why Modern Women Are Miserable

Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

189.28

Word count

1,710

Sentence count

187

Harmful content

Misogyny

9

sentences flagged

Toxicity

12

sentences flagged

Hate speech

8

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, we talk about why men lie about their intentions on a first date, and why women lie about theirs. We also talk about what it's like to be a virgin in the modern dating world, and how to deal with it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Can I respond to that? I think there's two points here.
00:00:02.760 I think one, I think you're right. I think they do lie, or rather perhaps by omission, about intention.
00:00:09.760 But having said that, I never get into the conversation on the first day,
00:00:14.760 and I would advise any clients I have as well not to get into the conversation of,
00:00:18.840 so, what are your intentions?
00:00:20.160 I hate when they ask that on daily.
00:00:22.160 It's not transactional.
00:00:23.160 It's too transactional. It's a very normy way of going about it.
00:00:27.440 I was offered marriage recently on a first date.
00:00:30.640 Woo! 0.99
00:00:31.640 Yeah!
00:00:32.640 Swap on.
00:00:33.640 Yeah, buddy.
00:00:34.640 Yeah, I wouldn't recommend guys do that, though.
00:00:37.640 Was he Muslim?
00:00:39.640 No.
00:00:40.640 No?
00:00:41.640 Yeah, no.
00:00:42.640 She's touching her hair, you know.
00:00:43.640 I thought it was going to be like a normal date, and then it was, yeah, he was like ready to get married.
00:00:53.240 I was like, oh, wow.
00:00:54.240 He's seen your bread-eating skills.
00:00:56.640 No.
00:00:57.640 No.
00:00:58.640 No.
00:00:59.640 No.
00:01:00.640 You know what's weird?
00:01:01.640 It's like weird going on a date with someone that knows everything about you.
00:01:05.640 Oh, yeah.
00:01:06.640 It's so charming.
00:01:07.640 It's not even, okay.
00:01:08.640 It wouldn't even be bad if it could be equal.
00:01:10.640 Because he's a YouTube fan?
00:01:11.640 Yeah, no, no.
00:01:12.640 Because imagine, imagine, okay.
00:01:13.840 If you go on a date with me, but I can also look up everything about you online, then it's equal.
00:01:18.840 Yeah.
00:01:19.840 Then it's equal.
00:01:20.840 We're on equal playing fields.
00:01:21.840 Yeah.
00:01:22.840 And then I'm like telling a story, and I'm like, oh, he's heard this on my podcast.
00:01:25.840 But what happened?
00:01:26.840 That is so cool.
00:01:28.840 That is so cool.
00:01:29.840 Definitely, I'd say, intention.
00:01:31.840 Wait, you say intention, but okay, Troy, what do you think?
00:01:34.840 Yeah, go on.
00:01:35.840 I think he's right.
00:01:36.840 I think...
00:01:37.840 Wait, Kit, what do you think?
00:01:38.840 Yeah, intention, for sure.
00:01:39.840 Yeah, I would say sexual performance slash intention.
00:01:41.840 But after you said intention, I was like, no, no, no.
00:01:43.840 Because I've lied about intention plenty of times on dates.
00:01:46.840 I think it's, yeah, no, 100%.
00:01:48.840 But it's about how it's conveyed.
00:01:50.840 Because I tend to finesse it a bit on these days.
00:01:53.840 So I'm not sitting down on the date, and I'm not saying, so, tell me.
00:01:56.840 What are your, you know, where do you see yourself in five years' time?
00:01:59.840 And all of that.
00:02:00.840 Because that is a bit normy.
00:02:01.840 It's a little bit, it's not very sexy.
00:02:03.840 You know, you want to keep your cards close to your chest.
00:02:05.840 You want to hold some things back and stuff.
00:02:07.840 However, can I say hand on heart that I haven't been into date situations,
00:02:10.840 and given the impression that maybe I'm looking for a little bit more than perhaps I am.
00:02:15.840 You know, I can't say that hand on heart.
00:02:18.840 Hold on, guys, I need to read Super Chats.
00:02:20.840 I meant to do this.
00:02:21.840 Read them, read them, read them.
00:02:22.840 Go for it, go for it.
00:02:23.840 Okay, guys, guys.
00:02:24.840 20 bucks and up, we read.
00:02:25.840 So, Zoo nushed something.
00:02:28.840 She was lying.
00:02:29.840 They also believed that she also was lying.
00:02:32.840 Some of these, I don't know the conversions, so you might just get lucky.
00:02:37.840 Rambe, Somalis don't move like that. 1.00
00:02:39.840 We don't claim her.
00:02:41.840 Inconsistent story, starting to get defensive.
00:02:45.840 Personal attack, she seems like a narcissist. 1.00
00:02:47.840 I questioned her motives being on the show.
00:02:51.840 Alright, Rambe, Somali, lost in London. 1.00
00:02:56.840 Tell her needs to, what's Dakin, Alice?
00:03:00.840 I don't know what that is.
00:03:01.840 Oh, you know what that, I don't know what that means.
00:03:05.840 L3 prank, he insulted Hindu for views.
00:03:09.840 Oh, I think, did Andrew Tate insult Hindu for views?
00:03:13.840 I don't know anything about that.
00:03:15.840 I think L3 means H3, H3.
00:03:18.840 They call him L3.
00:03:20.840 Then you need views.
00:03:21.840 Yeah, whatever.
00:03:22.840 Reaction channels are the epitome of amateur commentators criticizing Christian Rinaldo.
00:03:29.840 They're spectators, not players.
00:03:30.840 They've just never tasted the sand of the arena.
00:03:33.840 Shout out to John, MLD, for changing lives.
00:03:36.840 And then let me refresh it really quick to make sure I don't miss any...
00:03:41.840 No, that's it.
00:03:42.840 Okay.
00:03:43.840 Well, David Bond is watching.
00:03:44.840 Guys, I've got a question for all three of you.
00:03:46.840 How do you think life would've win if you were honest with your intentions during dating all the time?
00:03:51.840 Terrible.
00:03:52.840 I am honest.
00:03:53.840 Can I genuinely be a virgin then?
00:03:56.840 All you guys won't cook, you know?
00:03:58.840 I'm honest.
00:03:59.840 Actually, we had a conversation.
00:04:01.840 Like, we talked about, you know, Mango and physical escapades.
00:04:09.840 I'm straight up with that.
00:04:11.840 And I've had girls accept that.
00:04:14.840 But have you always been straight up? 0.95
00:04:16.840 You've been a liar before.
00:04:18.840 I'm not saying sometimes. 0.84
00:04:19.840 I'm saying 100% from childhood.
00:04:21.840 I'm talking about before you could even become the person you are now with the experience you have now.
00:04:26.840 I'm saying from birth, you've always been honest about dating from the get-go.
00:04:31.840 Yo.
00:04:32.840 No.
00:04:33.840 No.
00:04:34.840 I don't think it's a realistic question because I don't think anybody would know.
00:04:37.840 But that's a good question.
00:04:39.840 Ken, you don't lie anymore.
00:04:42.840 Yeah.
00:04:43.840 That's right.
00:04:44.840 You can still have the same...
00:04:46.840 Okay, cool, cool.
00:04:47.840 You can still have the same game that you've got.
00:04:49.840 You can still have the same type of...
00:04:51.840 You can still make a woman feel nice when you're speaking to them. 1.00
00:04:53.840 All you have to do is just be honest in every single day.
00:04:55.840 I'll answer that.
00:04:56.840 I'll answer that.
00:04:57.840 I think that if I were to have been more honest about everything from the get-go, I think
00:05:05.840 I would be way more confident than I am now.
00:05:08.840 You think?
00:05:09.840 Yeah, because the thing is this, right?
00:05:11.840 When I was dating those three main girls and I was juggling five, and I was directly honest 1.00
00:05:18.840 with all of them, I would go to bed and be like, damn, I'm a fucking man. 1.00
00:05:23.840 Like these bitches know the truth and they keep coming back for more. 1.00
00:05:28.840 But the thing is, it is a short lived victory because eventually, because every girl nowadays, 0.99
00:05:34.840 right?
00:05:35.840 They just think so highly of themselves and their ego can't handle the fact of truth and reality
00:05:44.840 when that one girl's not good enough for you as a man. 0.97
00:05:49.840 You know?
00:05:50.840 I think that really messes with them.
00:05:52.840 I think it's very difficult to be entirely honest because as a guy, maybe as a woman as
00:05:57.840 well, I think as a guy, you know, we are programmed to want variety, right?
00:06:01.840 And to have that conversation with somebody that you're in love with and she's deeply
00:06:05.840 in love with you is a very difficult conversation to have.
00:06:09.840 To sit down and say, oh, babe, this is so perfect.
00:06:11.840 Look at the sunset.
00:06:12.840 Oh, it's such a beautiful evening over London.
00:06:14.840 Do you know what?
00:06:15.840 You know, I can't offend the other girls.
00:06:16.840 If another shorty will pass now, I probably would.
00:06:20.840 So I think this is what I've said from the get go in a sense of, okay, that you are who
00:06:26.840 I am truly investing in and who I'm taking seriously.
00:06:30.840 Right.
00:06:31.840 And that this isn't saying that I am definitely going to go out there, be like trying to have
00:06:35.840 such different girls, but it, but it may happen where I do that. 0.85
00:06:40.840 Now, if that's not for you, that's okay.
00:06:41.840 We don't have to get into this, but then leave it and say it's up to you.
00:06:45.840 I think, yeah, no, that's a, that's a good way of doing it.
00:06:47.840 I think that sort of monogamous relationships though, there's a sort of almost like a shared
00:06:51.840 fantasy that both parties enter into of like, that's true.
00:06:54.840 I don't look at anybody else.
00:06:55.840 And she's like, I don't look at anybody else.
00:06:57.840 And it's this kind of shared fancy, which everyone's sort of intellectually knows is
00:07:01.840 not true.
00:07:02.840 Right.
00:07:03.840 But you have to sort of pretend in order to, to, to maintain the status quo.
00:07:06.840 You know what I'm saying?
00:07:07.840 Right, right, right.
00:07:08.840 For sure.
00:07:09.840 For sure.
00:07:10.840 I think, I don't know.
00:07:11.840 I think.
00:07:12.840 I don't want to sit down with my girl.
00:07:13.840 I don't want to sit.
00:07:14.840 Well.
00:07:15.840 Well, okay.
00:07:16.840 So like, okay.
00:07:17.840 It's like, for example, so like that, you know, my girl now, right.
00:07:19.840 We went to see Chris.
00:07:20.840 Which one?
00:07:21.840 Nah, stop it.
00:07:22.840 We got to give him another actor of the year.
00:07:35.840 Do you remember that conversation we were having on the balcony?
00:07:37.840 I don't understand.
00:07:38.840 I'm being consistent at the atmosphere.
00:07:39.840 Don't say that by me.
00:07:40.840 I'm a virgin.
00:07:41.840 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait,
00:07:47.840 Troi, tell me about the conversation.
00:07:48.840 Hey, guys, remember I said I will sip in my tea.
00:07:50.840 and guys remember i said i will sip in my tea
00:07:55.080 that's what i was doing
00:07:56.420 she knows the deal but like his phone's blown up right now we went to we went to watch chris brown
00:08:04.220 right we wanted to watch chris brown and like obviously chris brown pulls girls on stage all 0.84
00:08:09.180 the time right and i'll be honest this sounds cringes fuck that's i know she's amazing i was 0.84
00:08:12.700 like look babe if he if he pulls you up that's chris brown like cool do your thing i get it 0.95
00:08:18.500 whatever right and she was like babe i would never do that to you that's a good girl that's 0.73
00:08:22.500 what that's a good girl like i wouldn't want to do that anyway even though he's like my favorite
00:08:26.080 artist that's a good girl you see little things like that that's a solid even if let's say notice
00:08:33.360 but let's say her body count was 25 or something madness not even close but i'm saying let's
00:08:38.340 pretend yeah just hearing that element there of her saying but babes i wouldn't even go on stage 1.00
00:08:42.780 because i respect you and man values that up here yeah yeah yeah absolutely a lot of women 1.00
00:08:48.560 aren't taught this they keep thinking that oh wait okay big breasts big ass look innocent that's 1.00
00:08:53.620 what and and and and if anything outside of that yeah they'll attack you for it and it's like 0.98
00:08:57.280 if they really understood the diameters of how deep it is i don't think they'll go for certain