Pearl's CRAZIEST First Date EVER
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about why men lie about their intentions on a first date, and why women lie about theirs. We also talk about what it's like to be a virgin in the modern dating world, and how to deal with it.
Transcript
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Can I respond to that? I think there's two points here.
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I think one, I think you're right. I think they do lie, or rather perhaps by omission, about intention.
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But having said that, I never get into the conversation on the first day,
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and I would advise any clients I have as well not to get into the conversation of,
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It's too transactional. It's a very normy way of going about it.
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I was offered marriage recently on a first date.
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Yeah, I wouldn't recommend guys do that, though.
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I thought it was going to be like a normal date, and then it was, yeah, he was like ready to get married.
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It's like weird going on a date with someone that knows everything about you.
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If you go on a date with me, but I can also look up everything about you online, then it's equal.
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And then I'm like telling a story, and I'm like, oh, he's heard this on my podcast.
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Wait, you say intention, but okay, Troy, what do you think?
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Yeah, I would say sexual performance slash intention.
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But after you said intention, I was like, no, no, no.
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Because I've lied about intention plenty of times on dates.
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Because I tend to finesse it a bit on these days.
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So I'm not sitting down on the date, and I'm not saying, so, tell me.
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What are your, you know, where do you see yourself in five years' time?
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You know, you want to keep your cards close to your chest.
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However, can I say hand on heart that I haven't been into date situations,
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and given the impression that maybe I'm looking for a little bit more than perhaps I am.
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Some of these, I don't know the conversions, so you might just get lucky.
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Oh, you know what that, I don't know what that means.
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Oh, I think, did Andrew Tate insult Hindu for views?
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Reaction channels are the epitome of amateur commentators criticizing Christian Rinaldo.
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They've just never tasted the sand of the arena.
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And then let me refresh it really quick to make sure I don't miss any...
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Guys, I've got a question for all three of you.
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How do you think life would've win if you were honest with your intentions during dating all the time?
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Like, we talked about, you know, Mango and physical escapades.
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I'm talking about before you could even become the person you are now with the experience you have now.
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I'm saying from birth, you've always been honest about dating from the get-go.
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I don't think it's a realistic question because I don't think anybody would know.
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You can still have the same game that you've got.
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You can still make a woman feel nice when you're speaking to them.
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All you have to do is just be honest in every single day.
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I think that if I were to have been more honest about everything from the get-go, I think
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When I was dating those three main girls and I was juggling five, and I was directly honest
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with all of them, I would go to bed and be like, damn, I'm a fucking man.
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Like these bitches know the truth and they keep coming back for more.
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But the thing is, it is a short lived victory because eventually, because every girl nowadays,
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They just think so highly of themselves and their ego can't handle the fact of truth and reality
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when that one girl's not good enough for you as a man.
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I think it's very difficult to be entirely honest because as a guy, maybe as a woman as
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well, I think as a guy, you know, we are programmed to want variety, right?
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And to have that conversation with somebody that you're in love with and she's deeply
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in love with you is a very difficult conversation to have.
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To sit down and say, oh, babe, this is so perfect.
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If another shorty will pass now, I probably would.
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So I think this is what I've said from the get go in a sense of, okay, that you are who
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I am truly investing in and who I'm taking seriously.
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And that this isn't saying that I am definitely going to go out there, be like trying to have
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such different girls, but it, but it may happen where I do that.
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We don't have to get into this, but then leave it and say it's up to you.
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I think, yeah, no, that's a, that's a good way of doing it.
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I think that sort of monogamous relationships though, there's a sort of almost like a shared
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fantasy that both parties enter into of like, that's true.
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And it's this kind of shared fancy, which everyone's sort of intellectually knows is
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But you have to sort of pretend in order to, to, to maintain the status quo.
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It's like, for example, so like that, you know, my girl now, right.
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Do you remember that conversation we were having on the balcony?
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Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait,
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Hey, guys, remember I said I will sip in my tea.
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she knows the deal but like his phone's blown up right now we went to we went to watch chris brown
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right we wanted to watch chris brown and like obviously chris brown pulls girls on stage all
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the time right and i'll be honest this sounds cringes fuck that's i know she's amazing i was
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like look babe if he if he pulls you up that's chris brown like cool do your thing i get it
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whatever right and she was like babe i would never do that to you that's a good girl that's
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what that's a good girl like i wouldn't want to do that anyway even though he's like my favorite
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artist that's a good girl you see little things like that that's a solid even if let's say notice
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but let's say her body count was 25 or something madness not even close but i'm saying let's
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pretend yeah just hearing that element there of her saying but babes i wouldn't even go on stage
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because i respect you and man values that up here yeah yeah yeah absolutely a lot of women
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aren't taught this they keep thinking that oh wait okay big breasts big ass look innocent that's
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what and and and and if anything outside of that yeah they'll attack you for it and it's like
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if they really understood the diameters of how deep it is i don't think they'll go for certain