Do Work Husbands Save Marriages？？
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss cheating, work-life balance and why we should or shouldn't get married because of work. We also talk about why women cheat on their husbands and why they stay in relationships because they have a work husband.
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reason of like oh you're gonna have to work an extra 15 hours a week that that is solid because
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he's like no no i don't want you doing that i want you you know here with us i think the work
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husband is solid too you don't need marriages ending divorce because of work no i get it no
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i get it no completely completely i'm just i'm just saying from a woman's point of view though
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could that not come across as being a little bit needy because she's like well hang on a minute
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most women would take that as needy i don't think that mindset is common yeah but how many how many
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men how many women stay in relationships because they have a work husband oh my god
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what's your story go ahead it wasn't me specifically but this guy at my old workplace
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he literally slept with all the members in the gym just to keep his um classes popular like his
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fitness class is popular but he tried to control the situation and say to the women these married
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women ah just let's just keep it between us so he was the work husband not for one but for all those
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ladies in that fitness class so he was a community yes yeah but the day he got the day he got snitched
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on and people started complaining oh he got fired wow yeah so the work husband this was like
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work husband on steroids he was everybody's work husband unreal unreal no but relationships do stay
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together if the woman is satisfied right define satisfied oh so you're saying she cheats with the
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husband at work and gets what she needs from him and then goes home to the other husband yeah so she
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doesn't need to leave so how many relationships have stayed because of the work husband as opposed
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to left because of the work husband 70 percent of women have to finish themselves off so i mean
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wait what what's that seven don't give me bug state no bug um what do you call it statistics man
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70 percent what do they go in the bedroom and check
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like after like after they've had sex with their partner because like not a lot of well only 30 percent
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of women can come from penetration they then end up having to finish themselves off because they've
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already pleased their husband or their partners so 70 percent of women tend to please themselves after
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all yeah so am i surveys are always so what i know one-sided it's like what if they asked the men
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about how the women were in bed well men men i mean technically i please myself anyway
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because i'm doing the work in it i'm pleasing myself you're not doing nothing i'm doing it
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so i'm pleasing myself um is that why people divorce it's because they're not
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pleasing each other in the bedroom do you think that's wait wait do you think that's a valid
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reason for divorce your husband's not good at sex you should know that before you get married to
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be fair i'm just saying his game went downhill after yeah but what what if like people obviously
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they believe in um no sex before marriage and then when they get married they're like oh my what
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is this but how would they know they got nice to compare it to yeah and i think it i think it is a
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reason for divorce actually because i saw and this is a bad quoting of stats here but i saw
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something uh just the other day saying that actually um falls in male libido are one of the
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key reasons why marriage is end because the guy goes off sex the woman's not getting satisfied then
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all of a sudden she's like hang on a minute what's this and you know and then the marriage breaks
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up so i reckon it it is actually a factor i think she's not getting satisfied sexually they make
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it too strategic so in her head she's like all right let's do this i'm gonna have have sex once a
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week you know i mean like i'm not really built like that as a man like sometimes the breeze might
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blow and i'm like you know i'm active now she's like no we really did it do so it's like i've got
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into the routine of getting it once a week so it's like it gets becomes more of a routine for me as
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opposed to that yeah but that's the problem with cohabiting though isn't it just once a week
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but is that a reason to contribute to um a couple divorcing no i don't think i don't think it should
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be i don't think it should be but just like i reckon it probably is because again it's all about
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feels isn't it that's why viagra is like that's why you get into a relationship in the first place
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don't even have ads in america would you stick out a sexless marriage for your children yeah
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no well there's a lot of toys i mean no no there's a lot of toys maybe i don't know
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there's yes or no yeah you would stick it out yeah yeah i mean i have three others but you
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wouldn't stick out cheating no isn't a sexless of marriage worse than cheating at least you're
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i'm married i wasn't married okay no different i wasn't married if you were married you would
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have stuck out the cheating well yeah it would have been harder for me to just be like okay we're
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not doing this anymore okay okay is that how you said it huh is that how you said it a sexless
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marriage but then you're going to be frustrated all the time then you'll start projecting that
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stress and that frustration on people you have to get it on oh no no no no you wouldn't stick it out
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stick it stick out you wouldn't stick it out a sexless marriage for the kids or wait till the
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kids are older oh but uh so you got a five-year-old
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you can do tantra there's so many other ways that you can penetration is like probably the least
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element of a woman's sex life i think it's dependent on the reasons why you know like if it's due to like
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a to like medical issue or like busyness or something like that i feel like
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that's workable but if it's due to like a complete lack in like attraction for your partner
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and i don't really think that's you know okay so so no it depends okay okay so let's say he just
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has a low sex drive now a low sex drive i mean yeah i would say i would stick it out yeah okay
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what about you would you stick it out amiri yeah of course
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i'll stick it out you'd stick it out yeah depends on long photo
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the rest of your life no of course not what's the point in it
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i found out that i found the most interesting stat i want to pull it up
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the sexless marriage is very different by age so it's like
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um of of people married over of people married over 70 54 are sexless so if you make it to 70
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you're probably half her sexless and then it's like 60 to 90 is 38 percent
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and then 50 to 59 is 22 percent and married people 40 to 49
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eight percent so it's like it's like very much dependent on age
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yeah but isn't that how it's meant to go though because like as you get older it becomes more of a
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companionship yeah and you know yeah i get probably
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also your body is less you know you can't really love it
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i've also heard that like nursing homes have the worst std rates
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no one's gonna worry about getting pregnant as well so that's why they don't strap up
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well that obviously says that we're not doing something right
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like all the things that come with single women