JustPearlyThings - April 15, 2023


Does Pr0n Make Sexless Men Less Aggressive？？


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10 minutes

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195.62053

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2,150

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2


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 no no like i just don't feel i don't see a world where it is a good thing i can't lie
00:00:05.280 it's not do or die you will you will survive without it i don't think it's a good thing
00:00:10.400 but i i wonder if men like the bottom because they say that in societies that um
00:00:17.040 have a large group of sexless men those men become violent and so i wonder if
00:00:23.600 corn helps deter men from being violent because then they have access to sexuality in a way
00:00:29.520 these that these men they need god that's what they need oh amen amen to that i think that's what
00:00:34.000 they need i think it just i don't know i just feel like the way that sex is now is not the same like
00:00:43.440 people it's just not like maybe that's about love and intimacy it's just not about that it's just
00:00:50.880 about getting your nut in like well but that's why my question was is sex a need that men can't live
00:00:56.640 without long term anyways i don't like it is it depends on the generation no okay i'm not a man
00:01:04.800 regardless of the generation no because it could be somewhat no that's not true because there's some
00:01:10.320 men like i cool i have a great granddad yeah and he he didn't have no kids no he had a partner for a
00:01:18.080 while but then he went to the war and he just traveled around the world and that was his focus
00:01:23.200 that was his purpose so i think sometimes they can shift their purpose i don't yeah i think some
00:01:28.240 men are capable a lot more restraint when it comes to sex it's just that people don't have the mental
00:01:33.440 toughness anymore it's like everything's easy so you can there's no discipline who doesn't have the
00:01:37.040 mental toughness men or women are one in three women under 30 virgins i think no both both genders
00:01:42.240 don't have the mental toughness anymore right now uh what were you gonna say i was gonna say with your um
00:01:47.760 scenario with your granddad that could just be like out is that out of choice or is it not out of choice
00:01:52.320 do you know what i mean i want to say a joke though i just kind of like yeah do you know that that
00:01:57.120 tiktok one is like um really what i i i need to i need to think about it before
00:02:06.960 are you sure he's straight that's what i want to say he's definitely straight but he's like but he was
00:02:12.720 all into like the um like wildlife going for walks like he was just out here making memories but maybe
00:02:21.760 that's his age because he was like 90 something i don't know towards the end but i think like he
00:02:27.760 wasn't focused on that men can't ultimately be fulfilled like i don't like to like live without
00:02:32.400 it i mean it sounds like you know would the guy kill himself or something like that but yeah i don't
00:02:35.600 think they can ultimately be fulfilled because i've had lots of clients where they have every area of
00:02:39.200 life handled i'm sure you've seen this a lot of times if they don't have the girl that's like
00:02:44.400 life isn't complete they're not fulfilled they're not ultimately happy even if they've got the money
00:02:48.560 the body like everything they could have everything going on but without that partner by their side
00:02:52.400 they're not ultimately he had a companion for years but he never like it wasn't that kind of
00:02:59.040 relationship was just like a companion so i think that can be fulfilled with that loneliness not
00:03:04.960 necessarily like a sexual drive that can just be yeah men are not emotional you think about
00:03:14.000 so they can they i don't think they can't go without sex but they don't need that romance they
00:03:18.560 don't need that affection they don't need like we do so if they want to do whatever they're doing in
00:03:24.240 the bedroom watching whatever they want to watch that then they're happy with it i think i think
00:03:29.760 corn is a really actually i think it's kind of healthy because i believe like all men they need
00:03:36.320 sex yeah yeah i agree a thing that they need you know and like it's good that they at least have
00:03:44.320 corn you know at least they have that thing that's like oh cool and it's like what he does in private
00:03:49.360 at least like oh he really is i think it's something natural i think it shouldn't be like something
00:03:54.480 that have to be banned or oh look what these girls are doing here like okay they chose to do that they
00:04:00.880 chose to work like that so that's their problems you know don't look down on it yeah but they're like
00:04:06.320 um oh because there's type of corn that's like this there's type of corn that's like that that
00:04:11.840 they have all these ties because they have like a public for all these types otherwise they wouldn't
00:04:16.400 exist yeah so i think it's like it's like a necessity for them but imagine going on your partner's phone
00:04:22.960 right imagine going on okay imagine going on your partner's phone and seeing that they search for
00:04:36.400 a certain thing so it could be and it's not me is that an issue for you women why are you looking for
00:04:45.040 problems hey i'm not toxic so let's just but it's interesting though is that an issue for women
00:04:51.120 what their men no no no it can be cold stuff i've heard that's why what would you do like what would
00:04:57.680 you do if you saw your i don't want to know exactly i don't but are you okay with it are women generally
00:05:05.760 engaging with corn yeah as long as you don't cheat that's and as long as i don't know is it seen as
00:05:09.760 cheating because i'm waiting to say it's true yeah i've gotten yelled at a bunch for i'm curious
00:05:13.280 out of the girls here is corn cheating yes raise your hand no no yes yeah you guys say yes
00:05:20.720 no i have a question what if what if um so if you think corn is cheating if you say no to him for sex
00:05:28.800 can he then go do corn nah yeah but just not with me but all women are different can he go and just
00:05:35.520 yeah but can he go and just sleep with anyone else you'd rather him sleep with someone else i don't
00:05:40.000 rather him it's it's i'd rather not know about it and do whatever you want to do if you're going to
00:05:45.120 sleep with someone that person you i'd rather you pay that person and you never cheat on someone that
00:05:51.280 i personally know so i can just like at least and get to that situation but i'd rather not know so
00:05:56.640 is it cheating wait wait actually honestly but that's why i just it's so complicated it's not that easy
00:06:03.840 that's why i really don't want to know are you okay with that in your relationship what like cheating
00:06:09.600 as long as you don't know as long as you don't know no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no
00:06:17.040 cut the mic that exactly if i know it i i want ignorance but ignorant exactly i i honor that so
00:06:26.320 you just don't look you don't ever look for it yes almost unless there's something kind of
00:06:34.160 if my partner was okay with it i'd almost look at you less yeah yeah what do you mean because
00:06:39.200 that's a judgment that's his character yeah but but listen if you're gonna turn out why do you use
00:06:44.800 the word partner i like it's so common out here and i'm just like i don't want to date a partner
00:06:54.560 here's the thing about partnership right because we think boyfriend girlfriend blah blah blah all of
00:06:59.360 that with time partnership lasts yeah because you love your boyfriend you're attracted to him today
00:07:06.000 tomorrow is changing your body's changing his body's changing partnership but that but that seems like
00:07:11.600 it's 50 50 and to me i don't i don't want to okay if you like 50 50 relationships i i prefer
00:07:17.920 relationships that are a little bit in more traditional roles where i can like trust my husband's
00:07:21.760 decision making but that would still be a partnership wouldn't it imagine you had a
00:07:25.120 business partnership and his his interest in your business was 20 it's still technically a partner
00:07:29.920 i think for me partnership just means someone willing to work with you for the ups and the downs
00:07:34.400 for the good and the bad that's partnership see but partnership like that it sounds like you have
00:07:38.960 the same roles and the same input decision making where when it's a husband and a wife that's very
00:07:44.400 clear it's like different roles like the man's at the head yeah yeah but here's the thing right and
00:07:48.400 i've seen it happen to my mom what if your your husband is making the rules today but he can't
00:07:54.480 make them tomorrow because he's sick he got a stroke he've done it so you have to step up in his shoes
00:07:59.360 and continue the journey yeah i mean we honor of him that's partnership i mean we could we could talk
00:08:04.160 about exceptions but i'm talking about the rule which is like most people are healthy this is it yeah it's
00:08:09.280 for better worse sickness and health yeah yeah um to me it's just when you when i hear partnership
00:08:16.240 it just sounds like 50 50. i just don't like the word so i just wonder why it's so common here
00:08:22.480 like i don't want a husband i don't want to partner i think it's just more figure of speech
00:08:30.160 can i ask about the one-sided yeah yeah okay yeah sure okay so you you guys do a little bit
00:08:36.400 unconventional of a relationship right yeah totally can you tell me about it so yeah so in
00:08:40.960 the beginning you know i'll admit it you're gonna make me sound like a dick but in the beginning like
00:08:45.520 i was like seeing girls behind her back and then eventually we came to terms with the fact that you
00:08:50.640 know we're just like what made it work the best was that i'm just fully upfront and honest about all
00:08:54.720 of it and then we have like certain rules so like i don't have girls sleep over i don't go on dates
00:09:00.000 with girls um i shower if i see a girl you know i shower afterwards and stuff like that
00:09:05.440 um but i'll let you speak to it because it was like a big process in the beginning
00:09:08.960 i mean it's definitely not normal no it was like step by step you know like um like i used to like
00:09:17.920 before i i've always liked girls so it wasn't like a big deal for me like be actually attracted for girls
00:09:25.520 so and i don't think it was like a trend like for me at the time because like i would look different so
00:09:32.400 uh two girls that's what i mean and was like step by step so first thing like uh actually we started
00:09:40.960 our relationship really fast was like we started like dating for real like in two three weeks it was
00:09:47.600 like super super fast and was like one thing at the time one time at a time i wasn't like okay with
00:09:54.240 everything but like i think the way that we built this thing this like relationship with a lot of like
00:10:00.160 um um like uh rules like try and air was like i decided to stay through all of that and we're really
00:10:11.120 happy now but it's like of course it's not like she had never had a threesome prior to prior to dating
00:10:16.720 me she never had a threesome and now she's had like over 75 right so like like even last night
00:10:22.000 right like we we go to the ministry of sound we see a girl we like and then she approaches the girl
00:10:27.440 likes us she comes back with us and it's cool but like it's more just like a fun thing for us but i also
00:10:32.640 see girls on the side by myself right but all the like love and affection and companionship is with
00:10:38.640 her and other girls are more just for fun didn't you guys do as many of you know i was just banned
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