Evil Woman RUINS Man's Life By Doing This...
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Summary
In this episode we talk about falsely accused of grapes and how this has affected our lives and the impact it has had on our lives. We also talk about sexual assault and how it has affected us and how we have dealt with it.
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I was actually gonna ask if anyone in the room like knows a guy that's been falsely accused of a crime
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What I mean like falsely accused of grapes like yeah, like I'm talking about
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So I went to college in the in the u.s. A small d2 school called UVU my first college and a bunch of Colombian guys went out
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Did their thing it was three American girls and three Colombian guys
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Things happened that night. They were embarrassed and kind of ashamed of it. It's went on for like a couple months and at the end
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They were accused of eating grapes and then once it happened
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They got deported back to Colombia lost her scholarship lost everything and it came and it came out
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One of the girls snitched and said that she it was all false and nothing happened to them after and yet
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They still stayed in Colombia and they get a chance for education lost her scholarship everything
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It happens all you'll be surprised happens all the time. My boy managed to get like get it settled
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When it happened cuz like good on the man. It was my first this is my first year in America
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Yeah, so basically they went back to the crib did it it it did it did the meat you know
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You know that the the build-up stage in it the movies and that and the green light so they both went to their different rooms and
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Cool one of my boys gets police come into his door a few hours later
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Did it it it it it and then boom oh, yeah, we're here to talk to you about a potential red at it
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So I called him anyway the next morning like yo what happened what happened? It was like, oh, yeah
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And I feel like she felt a type of way. I don't know why but anyway, she left next thing
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I know I'm getting police at my door now after get a statement
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Rhea tete tete tete tete so now he has to go back to coach to get us a statement from coaches
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He has to go to teachers in the school to get a statement statement from other players and stuff like that
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Unfortunately, unfortunately, he stayed and all the allegations got um dropped
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Like going up my father to tell me like going like going to cause like look do not do anything
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There's so many times where I went to a girl's place and I had done nothing just in case like me and her
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Or times where I've literally recorded been like okay
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Sorry to be such a weirdo, but do I have consent to do this because me being a six foot four six foot five black guy
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If I do this and she says yes, then she turns around and goes actually, you know what?
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Judgingly me or her like the five foot five girl
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Yeah, but on the flip side though. Do y'all think that women could sell grapes to men?
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Majority of the time I've heard it as the girl was older than the guy
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What really and truly you have no idea what's going on
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But it was on the news where a teacher had a relationship with a younger student in her school
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And they classed that as great because obviously he was younger and she was a lot older
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Do you ever notice how we always take accountability off of women even in our like language?
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Because I always hear men or men and women use the term I'm not picking on you
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But like fell pregnant like it sounds like it just like happened
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Obviously I don't mean it like that but it's just how I speak
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It's even like here it's so common for you guys use partner
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But it's like do you want to be in a partnership like an equal partnership?
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Because like partner implies that we're equal and I don't think women are equal to men
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Especially in relationships because women date up
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Like do you want a guy that's broker than you, dumber than you, and fatter than you?
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No, I want someone who's going to elevate and grow with me
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Women say this and I don't even know what it means
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He's on his journey, I'm on my journey where we can help each other, we can
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But he's not, I don't owe him and he don't own me
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And that also means that they might get to a pick
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Like because sometimes we say this stuff like yeah like grow with me
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Because like in marriage aren't you supposed to grow together?
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Yeah, but it's not always like that all the time
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Yeah, because of feminism and like modern mentality
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Like I think this is where we've like kind of brainwashed women that like we're equal
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Um let's say potentially uh the woman she is uh she wants to be a director
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So basically both these two people are driven by both their aspirations and dreams
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And it's not necessarily too tough about their living situation
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How many holidays they go they go on because that's not what
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It's more or less of their journey that they're going together
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Oh, yeah, meets this person networks. Oh, babe, I met this guy
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Not able to help you out bow bow boom now she's on the next thing
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She might get a higher role marvel, all right, babe, just got into this marvel room
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I mean, yeah, I feel like people I feel like some people might be in these situations
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No, I mean if this is a common thing I just want to know like that just like
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Sometimes I feel like like women when we say things it just sounds like like la la land like even that you said this one
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It's like what percent of couples are film directors and actresses and at the end of the day
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I think this is like the problem in society is like our goal is a career instead of a family
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Like because you can't do everything, but you literally can't someone's got to give up their shit if you have kids
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Exactly, and who's it gonna be who's better with kids?
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It's a woman who should be home with the children, you know
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So that's why I just don't understand when it's like this equal like we're gonna grow together like it just sounds like that's part of the journey as well
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Because when it when like you said when it comes to building a family
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That's a journey that we're doing individually and together because
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As well, so that's another journey that my whoever who I'm with may not have met at the beginning because that's a different
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When you enter being a parent, that's like a different part that you're experiencing as well
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So when I'm talking about journey not necessarily
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in someone that you connect with because there's you're not going to work for someone that you don't understand or