JustPearlyThings - EX Girlfriend Turns Her Boyfriend Gay

00:00:00.000 so today i want to learn about what is dating like in miami right yes yes

00:00:08.040 wow there's no gaydar actually going off you might you might i'm gonna i'm gonna give this 0.98

00:00:14.620 to you she turned him gay oh she turned him think about that you're such a bad girlfriend that 1.00

00:00:22.040 your boyfriend went yay what do you buy so he's yeah he likes both yeah does that happen no there's 0.99

00:00:29.280 no such thing as bisexual men you're homosexual no if you like does he look show him does he 1.00

00:00:34.380 look gay to you he doesn't look gay to me yes really what what gives it away what is it 0.96

00:00:40.820 yeah he doesn't talk let me see yeah yeah yes yes i'm i'm telling you look at his look come 0.72

00:00:49.040 on jesus that looks that looks great that looks crazy okay see that i said let me see i said

00:00:55.500 the same thing but see do you see let's see all the all the men all the men could point

00:01:00.680 it out so i guess this is why you ask the guys the way we would look at it is i wouldn't

00:01:04.620 hang around that dude yeah i wouldn't hang out with him no i wouldn't hang around him just

00:01:09.000 the way he looks yeah you would i'm telling you he's that person now because you already

00:01:11.800 gave it away that's my question oh that's the reason why i mean i have three dudes i hang

00:01:15.700 with i don't really hang around dudes anyway so yeah men no circle's really small but yeah

00:01:21.260 like he he gives me the the radar man i just couldn't probably probably he's too beautiful

00:01:26.440 wow you think he's too beautiful you know when a guy's like too good you think he's too

00:01:31.160 beautiful oh yeah when a guy's like too good looking they're gay yeah but he wasn't that's 1.00

00:01:37.320 what like he wasn't perfect how does it i don't how does it feel that like us women are doing 0.95

00:01:43.440 so bad that the men are turning to other men to be women better thank you

00:01:47.500 men have been uh doing this for forever yeah now it's just more open because it's accepted

00:01:59.520 like that's why they're doing it more it's accepted by women it's accepted by no men don't accept

00:02:05.540 but let's not forget that women are going turning into men because women are more masculine than ever

00:02:11.140 nowadays in the west you're pointing at her but you gotta no he's making a good point okay but

00:02:17.460 why why are women more masculine yeah why why have they been tricked by what's going on in society 1.00

00:02:22.940 with everything that's going on it's trick no they've been put in the position on the feminist

00:02:26.560 movement but yeah i can go on and on all night for that okay i would argue it's because um women 1.00

00:02:32.900 have just decided to be men and we suck at being men yeah yeah yeah i don't think it's about us 0.60

00:02:39.080 deciding to be men i think that we have literally been put in a position because men used to stick 0.97

00:02:43.700 around men used to take care of the household no women leave overwhelmingly now now because they're 1.00

00:02:49.120 not in a position to where they need so so now already it's already it's men's fault we're only

00:02:53.180 like two minutes in and it's men's fault it is men's fault you know the men the men the men aren't

00:02:56.960 hanging around in the home though because you guys started leaving like in the 70s you guys started

00:03:02.140 most divorces are initiated by women yeah so in this day and age but men started creating single 0.89

00:03:11.000 moms back in the 80s 90s where men started leaving relationships what percent what percent of men 0.77

00:03:15.840 create single mothers i don't like have multiple baby mothers oh i'm not sure i don't know it's funny 1.00

00:03:21.820 it's funny that it's men's fault it's funny that is if if it's men's fault it's because it's under

00:03:26.420 men's control yeah so at the end exactly so at the end of the day you still need men for it to be

00:03:31.400 their fault that's what you don't understand you don't need men to be for it to be their fault it's

00:03:35.840 your fault because you guys are leaving the home you guys are creating you guys create and if you

00:03:40.480 don't need if you don't need men are the ones leaving men aren't leaving if they're leaving see

00:03:45.460 her argument her argument is that the reason a woman had to stick around in order to live the life 1.00

00:03:51.380 that she wanted to live because like she couldn't work that's not necessarily true like there was um

00:03:55.820 there were still instances of divorce even before the 60s i know but not as much as now because now

00:04:00.300 we're in a better position like there's there's right now there's writings who gave you that

00:04:03.580 position though the 1800s of women like of men complaining about divorce court it was just more 0.99

00:04:09.680 culturally shamed honestly and women tend to go with like what the culture does so it's not it was 0.98

00:04:16.380 really like imposed by society the culture religion and everything back then wasn't it and those

00:04:20.480 things have slowly eroded over time and now it's kind of a free-for-all so now we're in miami and 0.73

00:04:23.900 everyone's just partying and fucking each other and you know we're in this kind of card cardi b world 0.85

00:04:27.880 now that we all inhabit but but no women are the ones leaving so i think so i think it's women's 0.90

00:04:32.920 fault it's not women i don't i also don't think i also i would imagine i mean we'd have to check the

00:04:37.800 stats of this but i i can't see that it was always men leaving back then and now it's suddenly

00:04:43.320 majority women i think it was probably women who were getting dissatisfied in marriages even back then 1.00

00:04:47.680 yeah i think it's both but i'm saying a lot of men were not stepping up to be fathers that's why

00:04:52.720 we have so many women that are single mothers because men are quick to leave that's not true

00:04:57.420 women are women are they get what what is making the men leave like they're just walking out they 1.00

00:05:02.400 just wake up one day and say hey i'm gonna leave or is the women's the fact that they have too many 1.00

00:05:06.020 opportunities there's only only only 10 of men report having more than one sexual partner in a

00:05:12.360 year yeah that's what i was gonna say that so even even if you even if you even if you double it that's

00:05:19.540 still only 20 of men like 30 30 of men and um have said that at some point in their lives they'd have

00:05:26.360 they've had multiple sexual partners in a year but only 10 in a given year will say they've had

00:05:30.760 multiple sexual partners but that was done that was that that was surveyed um in the past year and

00:05:35.780 it was over 5 000 men so it was a relatively large sample size it was the united states yeah yeah see

00:05:40.980 like i'm talking about like here in miami like in florida in florida yeah don't guys leave there's

00:05:46.860 too many options they don't stick around well but again but i'm saying that's like only what percent

00:05:51.800 of men even father multiple kids a lot most of them no no it's like 15 percent of men it's because

00:05:57.760 again you guys are all swiping you're all dating the same guys so that's why so it's like if you

00:06:02.680 want a guy that's six foot what percent of men is that 15 if you want a guy that makes six figures 0.98

00:06:07.060 what percent of men is that 10 if you want a guy that's good looking what percent of men is that 0.63

00:06:11.220 you only find 20 of men attractive so a guy that's got all three that's five three two percent

00:06:16.780 so so that's my point but it doesn't take away the fact that men are leaving like men yeah but again

00:06:22.680 you're looking at this you're looking at this student you're looking at this through the miami filter

00:06:26.700 again though because you're saying oh men have got these opportunities and they're going to leave

00:06:29.280 because they've got these opportunities that is really the very very top percentile of men i mean

00:06:33.480 like five percent probably less than five percent of dudes have those opportunities a lot of those

00:06:38.340 guys probably do live in miami or maybe they live in la or new york or whatever but the vast majority

00:06:42.300 of men are invisible to women so the vast majority of normal dudes they don't have all these multiple 0.98

00:06:47.080 opportunities that they think you do but you guys don't see those men because you're not you know

00:06:50.700 you you're barely visible to you because that you're not attracted to them you don't think

00:06:54.080 they're cool so it's not the case for most guys no i'm saying back in the um 1980s 1990s

00:07:00.060 men the the family dynamic changed men started men started cheating a lot more they started not

00:07:06.840 even being they get women what what evidence do you have of that it's just it's just facts no no

00:07:11.540 it's just facts it's just facts everyone knows that like tupac even like wrote admission in one

00:07:18.260 of his songs tupac yeah tupac tupac tupac tupac hey tupac died tupac died at 25 his brain wasn't 0.85

00:07:28.560 even fully developed as a man tupac was young reckless and dumb that's why he got killed and 0.68

00:07:33.300 you're basing your facts off of tupac no i'm just saying he made a statement about it when because 0.86

00:07:37.880 he was back in that time okay what was the 90s um uh we're having a race of babies that don't 0.99

00:07:44.180 hate the ladies or something like that you're quoting a rap yes because back then the family 0.67

00:07:49.640 dynamic miss you're quoting the family dynamic was already disintegrating back then it's only

00:07:55.380 gotten worse over time that's what i'm saying you know you know why the problem though i'm gonna i'm

00:07:59.940 gonna tell you something all of this stuff is just painting a picture to lie to you and to make

00:08:04.940 to to create a gender war and make us think that men are the problem and really we're the problem 0.99

00:08:10.160 you know they they make millions and millions of dollars off leaving this bullshit like it's not 0.90

00:08:16.460 i've tried to save her for the last few months she's unsavable i promise you bro both unsavable 0.93

00:08:24.100 even if we go based off of facts right again this is a 2023 study or it's either 2023 or 2022 so

00:08:32.660 relatively new and they they serve it 5 000 men only 10 of men report having multiple sexual

00:08:40.060 partners in a year so it's only 10 of men that are sleeping around like that no it's not she's

00:08:47.880 telling you the fact she's telling you a fact that she researched she took the time to research

00:08:52.560 and you don't believe these guys went on there and said that they just said it well okay okay i'll tell

00:08:58.780 you i'll tell you how we know it's a fact because you you use multiple data sources so then you back

00:09:04.980 that up with dating app stats where five percent of men get most of the swipes that that backs up what 0.99

00:09:11.300 the men are also saying then you find other other surveys that say the same thing in different areas

00:09:16.960 it's roughly 10 maybe some you'll find 15 maybe we'll even go crazy and say it's 20. can we circle

00:09:23.900 back real quick on when you said that most women are the ones that are leaving the relationship it's 1.00

00:09:29.880 not men do you have an answer as to why why do you think women are choosing to leave relationships

00:09:36.680 because they get bored and they want to something else they want the next shiny shiny bright thing

00:09:40.520 hypergamy that is not choice you're failing hypergamy okay wait wait actually i want i want

00:09:45.960 her to say that go say that on the mic yeah yeah so why do you why do you think why do you think women 1.00

00:09:51.000 are leaving the reason why i think women are leaving is because back then women were put in a position 1.00

00:09:54.920 to where well men had set the life up to where they had more power women needed a man to live the life 1.00

00:10:01.300 or provide the life that she wanted now that women can provide the life that they want they don't have 1.00

00:10:05.720 to stick around when a man is being disloyal disloyal to you he's not being honest he's in and

00:10:10.440 out of the house and living life on his own accord okay also trying so so your your impression is

00:10:15.660 that 50 50 of marriages fail right and on top of that if we included long-term relationships most

00:10:22.100 fail do you know the statistics for how long relationships last so so it depends if it's if

00:10:26.640 you don't if you get married it's like seven eight years if you're in just a normal relationship it's

00:10:31.400 roughly three okay so so and your impression is that they are just disloyal men that are failing

00:10:39.340 well no i think it's just men before women were put in a position to where they needed a man more

00:10:44.240 now we're not in a position where we need it as much so we're so we're quicker to leave because we

00:10:48.740 don't

JustPearlyThings - October 31, 2023

EX Girlfriend Turns Her Boyfriend Gay

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