JustPearlyThings - July 10, 2023


FASHION MODELS Use Men for Their NEEDS


Episode Stats

Length

12 minutes

Words per Minute

182.46489

Word Count

2,317

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

28

Hate Speech Sentences

5


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 so how did you get into this space so when i was in germany uh during the lockdown i put some
00:00:08.100 videos up in it and it went and it went viral what were the viral videos about talking about
00:00:14.000 they were just like they were more like business education videos okay and then uh and then from
00:00:21.780 there i just noticed after a while like people are like what content should you make to do well
00:00:27.280 on social media if you want to create content on social media i think it's pretty i mean you do it
00:00:32.500 really well but i would say just look at what video out of 50 videos what videos did the best
00:00:40.020 right right so like i wanted to do just crypto blockchain finance content because i was coming
00:00:46.400 from private equity and and i and uh then i realized that the videos that i was you know playing around
00:00:52.440 more did the best so then i just did more of that so where are you from originally new york did you
00:00:59.040 say i lived in new york about 15 years okay new york city and where before that like where were you
00:01:04.000 yeah yeah so i lived i lived in i lived in dc i lived in uh i lived actually lived here for i lived in
00:01:10.200 europe for about a couple months prior to getting a home here for the last few years
00:01:13.140 uh and i lived in dc i lived in atlanta la uh new york but new york city is where i lived the longest
00:01:20.660 about 15 years okay and is that because you're in you said finance private equity i did yeah but i
00:01:25.580 also worked in the nightclubs okay so i was working for about 10 years i work with fashion models in new
00:01:31.720 york city nightclubs wow yeah yeah so i was going i would go to castings and i would meet the women
00:01:39.100 and i would get their number i would exchange information and then i would invite them out to
00:01:43.900 the nightclub and then i would charge a fee for bringing them out and it was a good situation
00:01:49.020 because the women wouldn't feel obligated to owe me anything and i would get a fee from the from the
00:01:55.660 nightclub so i would charge like a thousand dollars let's say bring like eight models and then i'd bring
00:02:01.800 like five ten other women who weren't models but tall generally speaking uh or pretty and and uh and
00:02:08.840 then i'd it's like i'd bring like 10 15 people like a crew we would take a table we get bottle
00:02:13.540 service that's where i learned a lot about women okay that was really like my phd and understanding
00:02:20.560 women because my women were essentially my entire clientele i didn't get paid to bring guys i only
00:02:25.820 got paid for bringing well i'd imagine too you have to learn so much dealing with like the top 10 20
00:02:32.900 percent of women in terms of likes i'd imagine if they're in new york modeling they're probably the top
00:02:37.480 would you say 20 percent of beauty in the world right so it's like those are the women that have
00:02:42.900 so much sexual agency and sexual power so much more than the average chick so it must have been
00:02:49.460 interesting to see like what they did with it like would you say that those women when selecting
00:02:56.820 like boyfriends were did they typically select like good boyfriends did they sleep around like what
00:03:02.300 did they do with does that question make sense with all that like power in a way yeah um i think a lot
00:03:10.520 of men and you know just for the record uh you know you could just so you know i'm not lying like you
00:03:18.620 could go on new york post new york daily news and see that in around 2012 2013 i had a monday night
00:03:24.040 party okay and that was peak because that was a party where the supermodels victoria's secret models
00:03:29.640 hollywood celebrities billionaires would actually come it was known as the top party in that new york
00:03:35.980 in that in that period i didn't keep it for long the nightclub ended up closing just to get to that
00:03:41.880 point is top of the pyramid of new york nightlife that's very hard to get to so i was able to see a
00:03:47.780 lot and one thing i saw was how some men could be so good at making money but bad with women yeah yeah
00:03:57.420 and i would see it over and over and over and over and over again to the point where i was mystified
00:04:04.020 at hey man i wish i back then i didn't make much money bro so i thought how can this guy and these
00:04:11.720 are not necessarily all dorks you know what i'm saying dorks i don't like call anybody a dork but
00:04:16.940 just a dorky character right okay uh and he was very good at making money and you know he had the
00:04:28.960 material items but with the women he was a complete idiot like it was like that part of his brain
00:04:35.360 didn't work you know it was sort of like a guy that's great with computers but he doesn't have
00:04:40.180 sales ability or a guy who's great with sales but he can't cook he can't fix a tire if it goes flat
00:04:46.640 you know he can't put furniture together but he's a great salesman he doesn't know how to fix the
00:04:51.300 computer those guys so would they be sexless or would it be more like they just couldn't keep women
00:04:57.680 i think a lot of them would struggle i think a lot of them would struggle to get women i think a lot of
00:05:03.540 them would become bitter that um you know that they would get played and i think a lot of them i think
00:05:11.800 it's hard for a lot of these guys to be honest uh because i think that they face the most viciousness
00:05:18.240 when they're at new york city nightclubs it's tough to get women you know it's also easy to get women
00:05:23.140 because there's a lot of women but it's also nasty it's cold and i would approach women at a casting
00:05:28.580 so that's like one o'clock on a tuesday you know on spring street in soho their models coming out for
00:05:35.920 like two hours i'm going up to them like talking to them or right there in the street and i'm a you
00:05:40.740 know about six three guy you know i'm middle eastern i'm a dark guy these girls are coming from
00:05:46.520 like russia they're coming from like poland ukraine they've never seen a dark man like me before and
00:05:52.780 the ones they have were the ladies guys that take the women and go to eastern europe you know they have
00:05:58.160 a name for that and uh i'm not gonna say it but so they may have viewed that i was trying to do
00:06:03.340 something like that there was that stereotype of men like me so i'm approaching them right in the
00:06:09.440 street there's no music there's no ambiance and i would have to be able to get them get their phone
00:06:15.060 number and then invite them out to a nightclub then i'd go pick them up with like a car take them
00:06:20.020 out to a nice dinner but the best restaurants would like a lot of the best restaurants would
00:06:23.660 compass and take them out so imagine the power of going up with like models from img ford next in new
00:06:30.380 york you know that's that's high caliber models new york and paris you know these are girls that
00:06:35.740 modeled in paris london new york milano tokyo and you go to the nightclub and then you see a table
00:06:41.940 they would put me right next to another table 5 10 15 000 table bottle service guys spending money
00:06:47.980 that guy spends 15 000 and the girl won't even look at him you know what i mean right so like so they
00:06:54.920 would get attention from women but it would be very like like the the the girls were kind of using
00:07:01.300 them basically the guys that were like bad with chicks anyways but you know this this gets even
00:07:06.920 there's even another facet there's so many dimensions to this so so so the so the brazilian models
00:07:12.400 this is these are all called this is generalizations first of all i mean you have yeah you can't have a
00:07:18.480 conversation about anything without generalization yeah well but well it's still because it's fascinating
00:07:24.140 because like everyone everyone gets mad over them oh you can't general well you can yeah yeah i mean
00:07:29.620 yeah you know it's yeah yeah yeah so so so the brazilian models okay would have tension with the
00:07:36.200 russian models and like if they would have these model apartments where maybe there's one part of them
00:07:42.340 a russian one part of them a brazilian it's not always exactly like this but this is a general idea
00:07:47.040 and what i noticed was that the brazilian models in general were much more easygoing relaxed more
00:07:56.120 open whereas the eastern european models were more traditional they didn't give a shit how a man looked
00:08:04.200 they cared way more about money about money okay but they were also in that way like treat me like a
00:08:11.280 woman you're gonna do this this this and this for me but in return i will do x y and z for you
00:08:18.340 and okay with being a traditional woman and being submissive and i thought that was more honest
00:08:26.320 than someone that would even if i didn't like it i think that that's more honest than saying i do want
00:08:33.120 x y and z but i but when it suits me i also want this right you know like yeah i'm happy
00:08:41.500 to you know have these benefits of being independent but then i but then when the when the tab comes i want
00:08:49.000 you to pay which one is it i'm curious did they end up getting married like i'm just curious like the
00:08:55.400 women because you're how old you're i'm 42 so you're 42 so i'd imagine how old were you when
00:09:00.460 you were doing this man i was i was like in my 20s early 30s okay so now you can kind of see like
00:09:07.320 what happened to them like if if it ended up good or bad so i'm just curious do women in the top 20
00:09:13.940 percent of beauty tend to get married or do they waste their beauty
00:09:17.480 i would find that a lot of the fashion models that would come out to the nightclubs after two
00:09:26.380 three years a lot of them drop off and uh and i think that what happens is a lot of them settle
00:09:32.020 down okay i do think a lot of them would settle down i think in the i think when you're in your
00:09:37.440 early 20s that's just you're raging you know like me in my 20s working five nights a week throwing
00:09:45.160 parties right it was impossible for me to settle down until my my late 30s so when i see young
00:09:50.780 men talk about going out being with women i get it you know it's do i think it's degenerate yeah but
00:09:56.560 i'd i'd be a hypocrite if i if i attacked them for sleeping around with a bunch of women not being
00:10:02.640 in a relationship um i've become a traditional man because you became a traditional man yeah i'm 42
00:10:11.120 years old you know i'm i'm i do believe in a monogamous relationship i am against adultery
00:10:16.920 i never make jokes against about adultery or homosexual that i'm a homosexual because i don't
00:10:22.020 i think i would never make a joke that i'm a homosexual or that i cheat on my wife
00:10:26.360 because that's my daughter because how my daughter one day will get older
00:10:29.900 and i don't want my daughter to ever say to me why did you cheat on mom
00:10:34.700 you know my daughter is the most precious thing to me in my life you know and my relationship with
00:10:41.540 my wife is the most important relationship put her front and center my but my wife is traditional
00:10:48.940 you know she's a teacher by training she's a college graduate she's a teacher by training her
00:10:53.860 mother's traditional her grandma in german they call it oma she was traditional her sister's
00:10:59.680 traditional where where i live in germany where i have a home it's traditional women
00:11:05.620 and these are women that are great at keeping the home organized cleanliness preparing meals
00:11:14.620 and they're happy this way this is this is this is what this was crazy to people in the united
00:11:20.840 states maybe you live in a small city and by the way my wife is not from new york i didn't meet her
00:11:27.660 in the new york nightclub you know i'm a small city and even within the small city in the most
00:11:32.360 rural part of that small city we got cows horses and pigs in my neighborhood in germany where i have
00:11:38.480 my home so over there the women it's almost a cultural norm in that part of germany to be married
00:11:47.500 have one man they're cooking cleaning and it's not outrageous to say it they actually want to do it
00:11:57.380 and they take pride in it but the man works he takes care of it and for my from my wife her mom
00:12:06.680 her grandma her older sister her cousins her aunt she has so many examples and that's actually a pretty
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