Fat Woman Makes Song About How She's A Victim ｜ Pearl Daily Ep. 61
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about a woman who claims she was paid $5 by the pound to lose weight when she was 10 years old. I also talk about how the world does not hide the fact that when you are overweight, the world doesn t hide it either.
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What up guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to Pearl Daily.
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YouTube uses to push out these streams. Also guys, if you want to be the ultimate alpha male
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and have women come up to you left, right, and center, get yourself a women shouldn't vote t-shirt
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today. As you guys know, all of the world's problems started when women got the right to vote.
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Women make terrible decisions and vote for men based on things like how good looking he is.
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Who cares? You know what I mean? So guys, make sure you get a women shouldn't vote t-shirt today.
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People will come up to you left, right, and center. Okay, so on today's topic, you guys already know,
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you already know me. I love Twitter. I am an expert tweeter. In the last six months,
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I'm almost to 400,000 followers on Twitter. And guys, I'm not even that big of a tweeter. I just,
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I just tweet, you know, I tweet, tweet, tweet. And some stuff is more thought out, some stuff isn't,
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whatever, you know, I'm just a tweeter, all right? And I saw this video that came up on my timeline
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and it was of a woman playing guitar talking about what it was like being an overweight kid. And it was by
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a woman that very clearly was in the body positivity movement. And I kind of hated myself a little bit
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when I saw it because the song was so retarded. It was so retarded, but it actually kind of slapped.
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She was kind of good. I was like, I, I hate myself that I kind of liked this song, but let's,
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My grandma paid me by the pound. Said I should try to slim it down. Went to meetings with my mom.
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Less I ate, the more they applauded. Being hungry made me feel so proud.
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Still not full yet, 10 years old. Didn't know why to hate myself. Till I learned it from someone else.
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Didn't see what was wrong with me. Just lived in my body. Did my best to lose the weight.
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Hoping that her would go away. But damn skinny feels just the same. I'll always carry it in my body.
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Okay. So I was doing the math in this and she, she says that she was paid to lose weight,
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$5 by the pound. You know, it's so funny. You tell a man that he's going to, he's going to start
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calculating. That's 50 bucks for 10 pounds. And she's got a lot of weight to lose that you can
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make a good chunk of change off of losing weight. And it's interesting because what I can see here is
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the difference between men versus women. When women are held accountable for poor choices,
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they tend to victimize themselves and play the victim. When really what I saw was an opportunity
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in this situation. You can make like, I mean, she could lose like 50 pounds. That's, that's like
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250 bucks. That's good money. You know? And, and the thing is she puts herself in this victim mentality
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as if her parents were doing this because they didn't want her to love herself. And she would just
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happily love her body if they didn't do that. And it's not true because what would happen is she
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would be big in the future like she is now. And the world would tell her very quickly that she is
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overweight. I'm sorry, but when you are overweight, the world does not hide that from you. They let you
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know really fast. Um, and it would show in her life outcomes. It's going to be harder to date.
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It's going to be harder to play sports. If you want to, it's going to be harder to walk and you're
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going to have health issues the rest of your life. Her parents were trying to do the right thing.
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And the issue is you get the body positivity movement coming in and coddling these women and
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saying, Oh, you poor victims. Your parents were abusive and you would have just loved yourself if they
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didn't do that. And so they'll put the blame on the parents. And really what, what is a parent's job?
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It's to give kids consequences for their actions before the world does. If you go around being an
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asshole, the world will let you know sooner rather than later. So your parents' job is to fix the problem
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before you are on your own and have to deal with it the rest of your life. Because whether she likes it
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or not, she's going to have health issues and it becomes a matter of life and death. Does she
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want to end her life at 45, 50 because of a heart attack? Or does she want to live a long, happy,
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healthy life? So Mr. Based responds to this and he says, victimizing yourself because your parents
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wanted you to lose weight is pathetic. And it is pathetic. In life, there's two kinds of people,
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the people that can take criticism and learn from it, or the people that will victimize themselves
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for a lifetime. And in this situation, she could have lost weight taking the 250 bucks, which 20 years
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ago was a lot of money that, you know, it's still a good chunk of change now, but think about what
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that was like 15 or I don't know, was she in her thirties? So 10 years ago, 15 years ago, that was a good
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chunk of change. Like I can't even, I mean, back then when you said you had 250 bucks, you were rich,
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especially like in high school. And that's my point is the body positivity movement coddles women
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and allows them to believe that you are victims. And if you believe you are a victim, you will be
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one, whether you like it or not. And the truth is the world doesn't owe you understanding and it
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doesn't owe you any special favors. So life is going to hit her in the face and it's going to be harder
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because she's hungry. And it's funny because one of the lyrics was, she's not full yet. I'm like,
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clearly like, I mean, you're huge. What the, it's like, she's like, she's like walking around like
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a big bull, you know, and she's like, I'm not full yet. I'm like, obviously I'll say, I'll say lose
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the weight. If you can't handle fat jokes, lose the weight. If you can't handle your family wanting
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you to be healthy, lose the weight. So this weekend, um, I spent a lot of time thinking about
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what true femininity is. And I thought about how you have these women that sell femininity courses,
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um, and they typically have on a lot of makeup and maybe they sell courses on makeup, um, getting
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your nails done and looking elegant. And really there's nothing wrong with that. Image matters.
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Image is important. But a lot of times I'll meet these women and there's not an ounce of femininity
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in their body. And I was trying to understand like, why are these women not feminine? I can see that
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they're not feminine, but I can't exactly explain to you why. And I thought about how one of the most
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feminine women I have ever met in my life, um, really, she didn't have the latest fashion trends
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and she was overweight. She wasn't what these women sell. And I thought to myself, what makes her
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selfless? And the conclusion I came to was when you think about our great grandmothers and our
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grandmothers, they, they didn't care about the latest fashion trends. They didn't care about being
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all polished and proper. What was most important to them was the men in their lives. True. And this
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is what I tweeted. True femininity is actually women serving men. It has nothing to do with clothes,
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fashion, or having your nails done. If you go get your nails done, they are serving you. Therefore,
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it is not feminine. And my thought process was, is all of these girls that are really into fashion
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typically live very selfish lives. And the things they do are typically for them and therefore it
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makes them unfeminine. So J.O. responded to this and he said, femininity doesn't expand. It enhances
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masculinity. So then I had another tweet. This made some people mad. I said, I heard married wives and
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mothers are getting Botox. Why? He already married you. What more do you need? Spend that money on your
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children. And I thought about the women that invest a lot into their looks. Again, it's not feminine.
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It's one thing if you are investing into your looks for the man in your life. But men have overwhelmingly
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said, we do not want this. We do not want Botox. We do not want fake hair extensions. We do not want
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a ton of makeup. No, no, no. We do not want this. And it really just leads me to the conclusion that
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really most of these wives that are spending all of this money on their appearance are doing it for
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the external validation rather than their husband's validation. Therefore, making it not feminine.
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Women that are getting work done, if you pulled their husbands, what percent of them would say,
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yes, I am so happy my wife is putting in injections into her face, the mother of my children.
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Yes, I am so happy that the mother of my children is tattooing eyeliner. Yes, I am so excited that the
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mother of my children spends two hours every day on her makeup. Do men really want this? And the common
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argument that I hear is, yes, men want it, but they don't know that they want it. And what that tells
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me is, I get more attention from men when I do these things. And my question is, if you're married,
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why do you need attention and validation from the outside world? Why is your husband's opinion not the
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most important? Really, if you want to belong to a guy, the question is, what is he like when I wear it?
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What does he want me to do? And most men look at all of this stuff as an expense. And I expanded on this
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in my tweet. I said, the wives and mothers that are wasting all of this money on Botox, nails, fashion
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are telling on themselves. It shows their priority, themselves, their looks, attention from men, and not
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what? Ding, ding, ding, their family. And we have to talk about ideals on this show. When we talk to women
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that are actually the ideals, that really are the most selfless feminine women that you have met,
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are they typically women that are worried about the latest fashion trends? They are typically worried
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about their children. And typically, they don't want to spend money on themselves. They want to spend
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money on the children. That is a true feminine woman, a woman that puts the family above herself.
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And what we have now is a bunch of Kim Kardashian wives that are playing pretend. It's me, me, me,
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me, me. My career, what I want, and it doesn't matter what my husband wants and the kids want.
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And we saw this when Kim Kardashian and Kanye were married. And Kanye repeatedly told Kim that he
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didn't want her wearing certain types of outfit. And her response is that, well, I was like this when
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you married me. And while that is a valid point, my question is, are we all going to be exactly the
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same all through marriage? And isn't it your job as a wife to submit to your husband's authority,
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even when he changes directions? And again, it shows the problem with the modern wives. It's a
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lack of control. They need to be in control of everything. Everything needs to be the same from
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the day we get married till the day we die. Otherwise, I have been deceived. Now I got a response
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from Free Ashley. She says, women need to work on their appearance through marriage so their husbands
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remain attracted to them physically. Also, women spend too much money worrying about their appearance
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after they are married. Pick one. You can't have both. Yes, I can. And I'm going to tell you how I
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can. When I say worry about your appearance, focusing on fitness and being healthy will actually put you
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in the top 25% of women because 70% of women are overweight in the United States. So you actually
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can't have both. You can focus on your appearance, wanting to look good for your husband without
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spending hundreds of dollars a month on face creams, moisturizers, heavy makeup, and Botox.
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We don't need this. And typically, women that are heavily invested in their looks are not happy
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with the option they have. They simply want a better one. I asked my producers to give me an example of a
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woman in the media that has done a ton of work over time. Do you see on the left how she almost has this
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feminine essence of her? And it's interesting because even when women age and they get older,
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but they don't get work done, there's something more pure about the way they look. There's something
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more feminine. And then on the right, it's almost like an older woman trying to cosplay as a younger
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woman. And we can all see it. Maybe it's more visually attractive slightly, but there's a difference
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between attraction and beauty. And there's something about a woman that has gotten very little work done
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that just ages, I don't want to say better, but more gracefully over time. And you start to see
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these women that are too invested in their looks. And I think a lot of women have been lied to,
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and they end up at 50 just looking kind of nutty, looking kind of crazy, because eventually
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Botox starts to fade. And then, you know, when you think about it, how much money did you spend
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on yourself that you could have really spent on your family? So Monica Crowley, a prominent
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conservative political commentator and talk show host, has been a fixture in the American media for
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decades with a career that spans on radio, television, and various political roles. She's
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gained recognition for her sharp intellect and articulate communication. However, over the years,
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the topic of Monica Crowley's appearance has become a subject of speculation, leading to rumors of
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plastic surgery. I think it's pretty obvious this chick has had plastic surgery. But it's almost like
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they switch, their faces switch from beauty to, I don't even know what to call it, like fake sexy.
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And it's sad because it's like God gives us this natural beauty, and we continue to manipulate what
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God has given us. I would argue this is a telltale sign of a lack of femininity. Most women that have
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had heavy work done, that are ultra focused on their appearance, are not overly feminine,
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because they are focused on themselves and not their husbands, in general. Adam-22 and Destiny have
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just been talking shit about me for months. And it's really interesting because Destiny, if you look up
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Destiny Pearl, there's all of these streams of this man just like seething on stream talking about me.
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I mean, what, what can I say? I'm a character. And, and, um, you know, Destiny has been saying
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for months, Pearl Pearl, you're just falling off. Oh, Pearl Pearl. And it's really interesting because
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I call them the pocket watcher content creators, content creators that are always pocket watching.
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They're like, oh, oh, you're not making enough money. Oh, oh, oh. And they're always speculating how
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much you're making and always, and it's usually because typically they're falling off. I mean,
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I haven't heard of Destiny really doing much. Um, I, if I had to say anyone that's the CEO of
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grifting, I would say that's Destiny. I mean, right now he's currently grifting on war. You know, he,
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he did a debate with Nick Fuentes and, and Destiny and he, Destiny got absolutely destroyed.
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You know, he clearly didn't know what he was talking about. Now he's coming back again and
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pretending to be a war expert, but you know, who, who am I to say? So, so now there's a video going
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viral of Adam 22 interviewing Destiny. Let's pull it up. Do you think your girl would be mad if you
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fucked just pearly things me? Yeah. I don't know. I haven't really thought about it. Like she had like a
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very like rise of star trajectory. And then she just like started talking to like more people and
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then they just, here's, here's the two issues with just pearly things. Okay. One is her growth was
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never as explosive as people thought it was. She hardcore gamed the shorts algorithm. Okay. Like
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that 1.5 million subs, that's like 200,000 subs, right? Cause if you look at her long form content,
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she struggles to get like, I think 150,000 views on a video, um, with like over 1.5 million subs on
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the channel. So that's the first up. Secondly, she was growing in kind of the pocket of all of
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that red pill stuff exploding. And now people have kind of, uh, you know, let the hair out,
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let the air out of the tire a little bit. It's kind of deflating a bit. And so she's like,
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she blew up on these shorts and then she's kind of like drifting here. And then all the other red
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pill stuff is kind of like whatever. And she's just kind of like, Ooh, because she'd, in my opinion,
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not to be mean or rude to her, I don't know if she offers much in terms of her individuality
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that people would want to stick around for her. Right. Like as much as I might not like their
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beliefs, I can understand why people would watch like Myron. I know why people watch freshman.
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I know why people watch Andrew Tate. Well, they have an enduring fan base. Yeah. Yeah. Well,
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yeah. But like even as individuals, even people like Rolo and stuff, I can understand why people
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are fans of those people, but how many people are fans of Pearl? It's interesting. I didn't even
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see this clip until I went on sauce cast in Miami and they read this to me. And I thought it was
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funny because the same month, um, destiny says I I'm falling off. Oh, Pearl's just falling off,
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which I don't really care. You know, I just give my opinions. You guys can take them or leave them,
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you know, whatever. Um, and the same month that destiny says Pearl's just falling off.
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I go on Pierce Morgan. I get one of their most viewed clips of all time. I mean, let me know when
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you come on Pierce Morgan, destiny. I wanted to point out that a lot of times with these content
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creators, they're so focused on what all of the other content creators are doing.
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They almost miss really creating new original content because they're too busy reacting. They're
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too busy pocket watching every other content creator known to man. It's doing pretty good.
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It's better than any of your videos. Yeah, that's for sure. I mean, wait, what is the biggest YouTube
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video you ever dropped? Was it Vape Nation? Yeah. Back when you were like still kind of culturally
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relevant? Yeah. Well, it was cool because you used to make stuff and now you just critique stuff and
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people like me and people like you. Yeah. What happened? I think everyone that's your fan wants
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to know where did it all go wrong? I think people are pretty happy. I don't think so. I think a lot
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of people, I mean, if you look at the cultural relevance and contributions, I mean, you were
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contributing and now you're just kind of coming after. Here's where it is. Yeah. Well, here's where
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it is. Was it the money or was it the fame? It. Funny if you just answered the questions. What do you
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want me to say? What do you want me to say? I want you to tell me why you stopped making
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things. Oh yeah. So, okay. Well, first of all, let me remind you, this is my fucking show.
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Yeah. Well, it sucked. And so I just responded. I'm just a responder. Okay. I am only pointing
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this stuff out because they, they talk about me first. Destiny says nobody cares what I have
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to say yet has been reacting to me for months. I'm like, destiny, you care what I have to
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say. And that's the funny thing. I'm like, all right. Yeah. No one cares. Okay. Anyways.
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So, you know, I'm just busy. I'm busy. You know, I'm just, I'm super busy. Just hating my
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life and falling off and just doing terrible. And it's just so terrible now. Um, so, okay.
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So that's the Twitter beef of the day. Now there was another beef that went viral months
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ago. So months ago, there was a guy named kill to party, bad Billy, I guess he, he tweeted
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that Margot Robbie was mid. Now guys, this took Twitter by storm. There was a bunch of single
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mothers that were very upset with, with Brad for calling Margot Robbie mid. And I'll tell
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you what, and you always notice that it's post wall women that get upset when men call
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women that are more attractive than them mid. So what did I see? I saw a bunch of post wall
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or like 20, 27 plus year old women complaining Margot Robbie is not mid. She is hot. And I wanted
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to point out that when a movie caters to men, so Transformers, Wolf of Wall Street, that had
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a mostly male audience, they'll get a 22 year old hottie. And that's what you saw Margot
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Robbie starring in when she was younger videos that appealed to men. Now she's a little bit
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older and she is doing videos that appeal to women because women don't like to see women
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hotter than them. It just makes us feel bad. I don't know what it is. And so now it's been
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a couple of months and the jury, the judge, everything's out. Margot Robbie is, drum roll,
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mid. I'm sorry, guys. I'm sorry. I didn't say she was still an attractive mid, but I mean,
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look at her at 22 or 23, whenever that was taken and look at her past 30. The truth is we get less
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hot as we age. And the hottest chicks are roughly around 22 years old. I don't shoot the messenger.
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Yes, you get less attractive. Yes, we can see your forehead not moving because you got Botox.
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Yes, we have noticed all the work you have gotten done. No, you don't look that much younger. Maybe
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a year, but Botox cannot save you from aging. So guys, again, I was scrolling through Twitter,
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you know me, always going through Twitter. And I noticed a troll account of me. And if you don't
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know what a troll account is, it's basically when someone takes your profile picture, uses a username
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that's very similar to yours and basically does content to kind of make fun of you, right? So
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I saw this Twitter account, pearly things, P-U-R-L-Y things, where my Twitter account is
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pearl, P-E-A-R-L. And they have done a bunch of content that I thought was so funny trying to be
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me. Worst punishment, jail or marrying a woman. And the funniest part about this poll is almost 40%
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of the people that took this pulse and marrying a woman is worse than jail. I mean, don't shoot the
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messenger. So, okay. And so one commenter said to this, at least in jail, they don't take half of
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your shit after they bend you over. Yes, a woman is the most expensive thing in your life, really,
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if it goes wrong. There was a couple more tweets that went viral. So one thing that I'll do on Twitter
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is people will debate if a chick is attractive. So one debate that's going on on Twitter is,
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are muscular women attractive? And some people are viscerally saying, yes, yes, they are. And
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others are viscerally saying, no, no, they're not. And so there was a pretty woman that came up on my
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timeline, but was pretty jacked. And I said, fellas. And that's always my tweet. So they took this tweet
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and said, bad woman, too muscle, go away. They also tweeted, women bad. Another tweet.
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If women are more nurturing, why did God flood the earth to get rid of them? Another one. I'm glad
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I'm straight and a woman because I'd rather die than date a female. These are kind of funny. And
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I actually think it's important to be able to make fun of yourself and laugh at that stuff. So,
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you know, honestly, guys, go follow this account. This is hilarious. Okay. So finally, guys, I wanted
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to offer a new segment on Pearl Daily, where we actually highlight a top commenter from the last
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video. So the top comment from the last video was Pearl. I'm old enough to be your mother and my
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marriage is as old as you. Despite your youth, you offer a lot of wisdom. I like listening to you
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