JustPearlyThings - October 24, 2023


Modern Women Are Bad Communicator


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41 minutes

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200.07262

Word count

8,265

Sentence count

22

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Misogyny

108

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103

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In this episode, we talk about the differences between men and women in the dating world. We also discuss the ways that women try to control men through their children and how to deal with it. We hope you enjoy this episode and don t forget to leave us a rating and review!

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00:00:00.000 The family dynamics
00:00:02.100 The household you can see the difference between a child who has both parents at home
00:00:06.260 Yeah, and the difference between a child who has one parent
00:00:09.380 I can hear it in guys voices a lot of the time because they like talk like their mom because they're like
00:00:14.660 That's who they had around them growing up. Yeah, not not always
00:00:17.660 I'm not like a hundred percent
00:00:19.100 But a lot of times like some guys will come on the show and I can just like hear it
00:00:23.220 Sometimes women too. It's like the same thing 1.00
00:00:25.220 But it's like it's like more obvious than men. You know what I was thinking to how our language sort of 0.95
00:00:31.740 We tell on ourselves through our language like I agree if a woman acts like a man 1.00
00:00:36.720 It's not necessarily seen as a bad thing like maybe in dating
00:00:40.020 But it's like it's not as looked down upon as if a man acts like a woman like you say you're acting like a woman right now
00:00:46.900 Like it's like more of a negative than if a woman acts like a man. Yeah, yeah, someone called me sassy the other day
00:00:52.520 I
00:00:54.520 Did it hurt your feelings a little bit?
00:00:56.520 A little bit, yeah. It's all right. It emasculated me a bit. It did.
00:00:59.040 It's all right, yeah
00:01:01.040 And I was just so I was just saying an opinion. What did you say?
00:01:04.980 I was just like whoa, okay, and I just moved on
00:01:09.400 Because I thought like if I said anything about it, I'd be more sassy
00:01:15.040 I'm all right
00:01:18.920 What
00:01:20.920 But what do you think is like the worst ways that women try to control men? 1.00
00:01:27.920 Vagina. Oh, yeah 1.00
00:01:30.920 That's the main
00:01:32.920 I don't think that's enough. That's always been the main thing. You say the worst way. Yeah, like how do you-
00:01:36.920 Through the children. That's the worst thing a woman can do 1.00
00:01:39.480 Is try to control a man through the child. That's one of the lowest lowest things. Have you seen that before?
00:01:44.600 Um, she's done it
00:01:50.600 I completely disagree with any woman who tries to 1.00
00:01:53.600 Um, you know jeopardize any relationship a child has with their other parent because it's evil
00:01:58.600 It is evil and a child needs that parent 0.52
00:02:00.600 I think they should face jail time. Yeah, I think it's disgusting if women that do do that and I have seen it 1.00
00:02:06.600 I mean I've seen it on TV and you know, I've seen it around
00:02:08.600 Yeah, um, but that's I think that's one of the lowest things a woman could do 1.00
00:02:13.600 Yeah, I thought I thought the worst way that you can actually like
00:02:19.600 I feel like abuse is like the worst way especially like emotional abuse or like
00:02:25.600 In other cases like I don't know
00:02:27.600 That's the worst abuse that any man could feel not being able to have access to their children
00:02:30.600 I want to change I want to change my answer
00:02:32.600 I think women can emotionally abuse men but men can't emotionally abuse women
00:02:36.600 And I feel like women are better at emotionally abusing men like when we get the time to do it 1.00
00:02:41.600 Yeah, I do. Yeah
00:02:43.600 What do you think?
00:02:45.600 I think you can emotionally abuse women 1.00
00:02:47.600 Yeah, I don't I don't think so
00:02:49.600 No?
00:02:50.600 Yeah, you could be right. Tell me why I'm wrong
00:02:52.600 I just you can just yeah, you can say things
00:02:55.600 Like what?
00:02:56.600 That chips away at, you know, you're fat as a joke
00:02:59.600 Is she fat? 1.00
00:03:00.600 She's just banal. No, she's kind of fat but it's said as a joke 0.99
00:03:03.600 Okay, well then now you're just truth-telling
00:03:05.600 And then after a while it's just, you know what I mean?
00:03:07.600 You're just truth-telling
00:03:09.600 It goes back to what you said though
00:03:11.600 Because you said um
00:03:13.600 You said before that um
00:03:15.600 You know women can't accept the truth 1.00
00:03:18.600 Yeah
00:03:19.600 So it's like you tell them in a jokey way
00:03:22.600 And it's the truth and it's like fix it
00:03:24.600 But then they like they go
00:03:26.600 It's horrible so I can't accept it
00:03:29.600 It's a joke as well, that's even more people
00:03:31.600 Well, we almost remember you said we have to just take it
00:03:33.600 Whatever the man says we just have to take it
00:03:35.600 And just take it on the chin and just
00:03:36.600 Well, I think that's
00:03:37.600 I think I'm not even saying
00:03:38.600 Or give it back
00:03:39.600 Do you know what I mean?
00:03:40.600 And then we all grow together, do you know what I mean?
00:03:42.600 You know, and I'm not even saying like
00:03:44.600 Anyone's gonna do it perfectly
00:03:46.600 But I think the ideal is just to listen
00:03:49.600 Right, you know
00:03:50.600 Communication, yeah
00:03:51.600 No, no, I think I think more communication is like think about this
00:03:56.600 How's a woman ever like communicated with you? 1.00
00:03:59.600 And like then she's like, oh, I'm happy now
00:04:02.600 I solved the problem
00:04:03.600 There's the but
00:04:04.600 She's never gonna be happy
00:04:05.600 There's always another problem
00:04:08.600 There's always another problem
00:04:10.600 Yeah, so I actually think we should communicate less
00:04:14.600 I think communication is not the key
00:04:17.600 Women love communication 1.00
00:04:19.600 No, cuz we just
00:04:21.600 Guys, guys, if I'm left like any chick
00:04:23.600 If we're just left like
00:04:25.600 Like if the guy lets us communicate as much as we want to
00:04:29.600 We're just never gonna shut the fuck up
00:04:31.600 Like we're just gonna
00:04:33.600 No, I don't think so
00:04:35.600 I feel like communication to an extent would make sense
00:04:39.600 But I feel like if you don't communicate as much to your partner
00:04:43.600 You're never gonna really know your partner
00:04:44.600 It's just gonna be like two people who are gonna be mute in the house
00:04:47.600 You know what's crazy?
00:04:49.600 Have you ever asked a woman how their day was?
00:04:51.600 And it just goes on
00:04:53.600 And on
00:04:55.600 Men hate that
00:04:57.600 It's the polite thing to do but it just goes on
00:04:59.600 And on, it's crazy
00:05:01.600 And what if you don't ask her?
00:05:03.600 Nothing happens
00:05:05.600 But if you stop listening, it's all fucked
00:05:07.600 It's all just fucked up
00:05:09.600 If you don't ask her how her day was
00:05:11.600 Then you're not gonna win either
00:05:13.600 Like Pearl said
00:05:15.600 Maybe less communication, more understanding
00:05:17.600 More understanding
00:05:19.600 Imagine
00:05:21.600 Okay, I have this thought
00:05:22.600 I don't want you guys to hear
00:05:23.600 I want you to
00:05:24.600 I think the world would be a better place
00:05:26.600 Okay, imagine
00:05:27.600 Women got like a talking stick 1.00
00:05:30.600 Okay, and you get like two hours of talk in a day or whatever
00:05:34.600 Like we could we can negotiate what it is
00:05:36.600 And the guy granted you how much you got to talk based on your behavior for that day
00:05:42.600 So it's like if you had sex with him in the morning you get 30 minutes, you know
00:05:46.600 Then it's like okay, so you get then it's like okay, you cooked him lunch or dinner
00:05:51.600 Okay, now you get another hour
00:05:53.600 You see like we just keep adding on
00:05:55.600 What do you do you guys think the world would be a better place if we have that?
00:05:58.600 No, I feel like I feel like men will abuse the stick
00:06:01.600 They'll be like because of your tightness you only get 15 minutes to talk today
00:06:06.600 Like I feel like men will abuse that
00:06:08.600 No, because they're gonna want like
00:06:10.600 So they're gonna abuse it like
00:06:12.600 Yeah, they're gonna
00:06:13.600 The more sex I get the more you can talk 0.99
00:06:15.600 Well
00:06:17.600 I think their true feelings would come out, no?
00:06:20.600 So if they don't want to speak to you you'd find out very quickly
00:06:24.600 Yeah
00:06:25.600 Yeah
00:06:26.600 But they're gonna want sexual favors 1.00
00:06:28.600 But then what if
00:06:29.600 But then what if you got your hair done and you're like
00:06:31.600 Oh, babe
00:06:32.600 Am I okay to use like the stick to just tell you like
00:06:35.600 I just want to ask your opinion on my hair
00:06:38.600 Yeah
00:06:39.600 Maybe you can have like 15 minutes like off the bat
00:06:41.600 Yeah, just like
00:06:42.600 That'll be nice
00:06:43.600 Just like a little venting session about how your hair is
00:06:45.600 And then
00:06:46.600 Maybe ten minutes for the day so you don't talk too much
00:06:48.600 No venting session
00:06:49.600 Two minutes, man
00:06:51.600 Two minutes
00:06:52.600 Two minutes
00:06:53.600 You've got to be quick with it
00:06:54.600 I heard a guy say that he felt like he could have a great relationship with a woman that didn't speak his language
00:07:01.600 Wow
00:07:02.600 And that really changed my view
00:07:04.600 I was like wow men really don't like talking to us that much
00:07:08.600 The thing is women talk about communication so much 1.00
00:07:12.600 But what I've come to realize is it's not actually communication
00:07:15.600 Women just want to talk 1.00
00:07:16.600 Yeah
00:07:17.600 So what it is is I think the stick will work so well
00:07:20.600 Because what will happen is women will start learning how to actually communicate 1.00
00:07:24.600 You've been thinking about the stick?
00:07:25.600 I feel like you've been thinking about the stick
00:07:28.600 I've pitched this before
00:07:30.600 Oh, so he's been thinking about the stick
00:07:32.600 I mean if you've only got 15 minutes you're going to get out the important stuff in 15 minutes
00:07:36.600 Yeah
00:07:37.600 Because I think women are better talkers but men are better communicators 1.00
00:07:43.600 Yeah, they just get straight to the point
00:07:44.600 Yeah, they just get straight to the point
00:07:46.600 Yeah, definitely
00:07:47.600 Literally
00:07:48.600 While we've got that time we just want to get everything out
00:07:50.600 Oh yeah, remember the other day
00:07:51.600 But then I also feel like as women though like
00:07:54.600 You know because women are submissive to our man 1.00
00:07:57.600 Yeah
00:07:58.600 I feel like we want to make our man into like our best friend in a way
00:08:02.600 And we want that person to like
00:08:04.600 You know when they come home like we want to be their piece
00:08:06.600 But we also want them to be like our treasure if that makes sense
00:08:10.600 I think women do like naturally just cut everybody off and just want to be by their man 1.00
00:08:14.600 Yeah
00:08:15.600 I feel like that's a part of being submissive as well because realistically like
00:08:19.600 There's some couples out there when they have problems in the relationships 0.97
00:08:22.600 They don't actually go to their friends or anything like they actually just wear that out in their relationship
00:08:27.600 So I feel like in a way that's what you would naturally do for your man
00:08:31.600 Like you will just cut the world off for your man because you do want to
00:08:34.600 You know what I mean?
00:08:35.600 You want to make sure you can work on problems together
00:08:37.600 Not everyone else can help you work on those problems
00:08:39.600 What did you say?
00:08:40.600 I said I think that's the mistake
00:08:42.600 Like thinking that your partner can be your everything
00:08:44.600 Yeah
00:08:45.600 Yeah absolutely
00:08:46.600 You need your friends separately
00:08:48.600 He needs his friends separately
00:08:49.600 He needs his time
00:08:50.600 You need your time
00:08:51.600 You need your things
00:08:52.600 Yeah
00:08:53.600 He needs his hobbies
00:08:54.600 That's where women go wrong 1.00
00:08:55.600 And you come back together when it's right
00:08:56.600 I feel like to an extent though
00:08:57.600 Yeah
00:08:58.600 To an extent
00:08:59.600 Do you know how much pressure is like just put them in just on a daily basis?
00:09:03.600 There's a lot and then we go home and then just get shit
00:09:07.600 Yeah
00:09:08.600 It's crazy
00:09:09.600 You guys do have a lot to deal with
00:09:11.600 Yeah
00:09:12.600 It's crazy
00:09:14.600 And then
00:09:15.600 We don't have the talking stick so
00:09:17.600 We're fucked
00:09:20.600 I feel like everyone's gonna take that stick idea from today
00:09:23.600 I mean
00:09:24.600 You know once I had a boyfriend
00:09:26.600 And I was telling him a story and he just looked at me and he's like
00:09:29.600 I don't care
00:09:31.600 I was like
00:09:33.600 Did you cry?
00:09:34.600 Did you cry in the walk home?
00:09:35.600 I've done that a lot
00:09:36.600 Yeah yeah
00:09:37.600 I've done that a lot
00:09:38.600 No I just
00:09:39.600 I'm so honest
00:09:40.600 I'm really honest
00:09:41.600 No I kind of respect it
00:09:42.600 I just kind of took it
00:09:43.600 I mean my feelings were a little hurt
00:09:45.600 But I was like
00:09:46.600 Maybe my story wasn't as funny as I thought
00:09:49.600 It never is
00:09:51.600 It never is
00:09:52.600 It never is
00:09:53.600 It never is
00:09:55.600 Women think they're funny 1.00
00:09:57.600 Hey I'm hilarious
00:09:59.600 Okay
00:10:02.600 I'm gonna read super chats really quick
00:10:04.600 Then next we're gonna do another fun whiteboard exercise
00:10:07.600 Where we're gonna decide what
00:10:09.600 Attention is acceptable and unacceptable in relationships
00:10:13.600 Is that before or after you get hit by a pole?
00:10:15.600 Is that a bad joke?
00:10:18.600 Is that a bad joke?
00:10:19.600 Oh
00:10:20.600 Alright
00:10:21.600 Well
00:10:22.600 That poor woman 1.00
00:10:23.600 Alright so
00:10:24.600 Um
00:10:25.600 We have a $5 super chat
00:10:27.600 If women have speech limits they will learn Psy language 1.00
00:10:30.600 You know what it's true you know
00:10:33.600 We'll find another way
00:10:34.600 We'll find another way
00:10:35.600 You know you'll do it too
00:10:37.600 We'll find another way
00:10:38.600 Sign language doesn't seem that hard
00:10:40.600 Sign language doesn't seem that hard
00:10:41.600 Sign language doesn't seem that hard
00:10:42.600 We'll find another way
00:10:43.600 Or a whiteboard
00:10:44.600 Yeah
00:10:45.600 Or a whiteboard
00:10:46.600 We'll like act it out
00:10:48.600 Literally
00:10:49.600 Like you've never seen more motivated than a woman that just wants to express herself 0.95
00:10:54.600 You know what I mean?
00:10:55.600 Like women will express ourselves 1.00
00:10:57.600 We'll um
00:10:58.600 We'll
00:10:59.600 Go to
00:11:00.600 Like I mean Carrie Under did the 1.00
00:11:02.600 Underwood did the
00:11:03.600 I dug my key into the side of his pretty
00:11:05.600 You know
00:11:06.600 Like we'll key his car and shit
00:11:07.600 When we could just say
00:11:08.600 Hey I wish you didn't do that
00:11:09.600 I wish you well
00:11:10.600 Let's break up
00:11:11.600 You know
00:11:13.600 You know
00:11:14.600 Anyways so we got a $100 super chat
00:11:16.600 I love to see Doc the magician looking really hench
00:11:20.600 What does hench mean?
00:11:21.600 Is that like a British 1.00
00:11:22.600 Is that your fire?
00:11:23.600 What?
00:11:24.600 Oh
00:11:25.600 Oh okay
00:11:26.600 He's giving you a compliment
00:11:28.600 Thanks
00:11:29.600 I heard he did you
00:11:31.600 I heard he used to be a dancer
00:11:33.600 Are your guests allowed to challenge opinions?
00:11:36.600 I'm seeing a lot of passive agreeing
00:11:38.600 I said you guys could challenge me, right?
00:11:40.600 Okay
00:11:41.600 Right?
00:11:42.600 You didn't know
00:11:43.600 Yeah
00:11:44.600 I'll challenge you on the therapy
00:11:45.600 Yeah
00:11:46.600 Yeah, we could
00:11:47.600 We could
00:11:48.600 Alright
00:11:49.600 Emmanuel
00:11:50.600 Pearl
00:11:51.600 Forget Vegas and come to Atlanta
00:11:52.600 Since Kevin Samuels passed
00:11:54.600 There's a vacuum for this content
00:11:55.600 And there's endless options of cast members to source for your live shows
00:11:59.600 Plus you can go on a date with me
00:12:02.600 Nonstop read TV
00:12:04.600 The truth is that biologically women are only loyal 1.00
00:12:07.600 Oh we read that one already
00:12:08.600 I just wanted to do
00:12:09.600 We had another $100 super chat
00:12:11.600 Super chat
00:12:12.600 Um
00:12:13.600 Okay
00:12:14.600 I'm gonna refresh it really quick
00:12:17.600 Oh
00:12:18.600 It's the sign language one 0.73
00:12:19.600 Okay
00:12:20.600 So next
00:12:21.600 I just love the whiteboard
00:12:23.600 I can tell
00:12:24.600 I can tell
00:12:25.600 Alright guys so
00:12:26.600 Alright guys so
00:12:27.600 Alright so since there's five of us in here we're gonna do a vote and it's gonna be really
00:12:41.600 fun so we're gonna vote on if this is acceptable in a relationship or unacceptable
00:12:46.600 Like
00:12:47.600 Like
00:12:48.600 I think we're gonna do
00:12:50.600 So
00:12:51.600 Yes
00:12:52.600 No
00:12:53.600 What are we laughing about?
00:13:01.600 I don't get it
00:13:03.600 Okay
00:13:04.600 So
00:13:05.600 Alright
00:13:07.600 Number one
00:13:08.600 Instagram
00:13:10.600 Is it okay for a girl to have an Instagram in a relationship? 0.67
00:13:13.600 Yes
00:13:14.600 Yes
00:13:15.600 Yes
00:13:16.600 Yes
00:13:20.600 Alright
00:13:21.600 Raise your hand if you think yes
00:13:22.600 Yeah
00:13:23.600 If she wants to
00:13:24.600 No
00:13:25.600 I actually think it's unacceptable
00:13:27.600 Oh my god
00:13:28.600 Oh god
00:13:29.600 Well I mean there's exceptions
00:13:33.600 But if I think of a general rule Instagram's the number one dating app
00:13:37.600 So it's kind of interesting cause
00:13:39.600 Really?
00:13:40.600 Okay
00:13:41.600 Now if we go off the premise
00:13:42.600 I'm gonna see if I can get you guys to my side
00:13:44.600 We're gonna do a vote here
00:13:45.600 If we think of the premise that Instagram
00:13:49.600 That
00:13:50.600 Do we agree with the premise
00:13:51.600 Attention is to women as sex is to men?
00:13:54.600 Do you agree with that or disagree?
00:13:56.600 Disagree
00:13:57.600 Okay, why?
00:13:58.600 Because you can get attention at home if you have a man
00:14:00.600 Yeah
00:14:01.600 Not every woman
00:14:02.600 Not every woman likes attention
00:14:03.600 Yeah
00:14:04.600 So not every woman likes attention
00:14:06.600 Okay, so you would pick sex over beauty
00:14:09.600 So if you had to pick between you get to look 21 forever or you get to have sex with whoever like the hottest guy on the planet forever what would you pick?
00:14:20.600 I'd have a sex
00:14:21.600 Really?
00:14:22.600 You pick sex? 0.72
00:14:23.600 Hell yeah
00:14:24.600 Okay, would you pick sex or beauty?
00:14:25.600 Yeah, cause I feel like sex makes you feel beautiful
00:14:26.600 Sex makes you feel, yeah
00:14:27.600 Well if you've got someone that thinks you're beautiful already
00:14:29.600 Do you not agree?
00:14:30.600 No, I'd pick beauty
00:14:31.600 Oh hell no
00:14:32.600 I wanna, if I could look 22 forever
00:14:35.600 One, you can make money off of that
00:14:37.600 Two, like, two, it's like, yeah, I would pick that over sex 0.96
00:14:41.600 Over like, like sex with the hottest guy ever or beauty
00:14:45.600 It depends if it's like how long you're having sex for like, is that the same person you're having sex for for the rest of your life?
00:14:51.600 I think it depends, I think it depends on the person as well
00:14:54.600 Like if it's Michael B. Jordan then yeah, let's do it, but if it's not then
00:14:58.600 Okay
00:14:59.600 Marge Chestnut
00:15:00.600 Um, you guys think sex is to women as to attention or sex is to men as attention is to women
00:15:07.600 I think it depends on the woman 1.00
00:15:09.600 Depends on the woman 1.00
00:15:10.600 Yeah
00:15:11.600 I think it's all women 1.00
00:15:12.600 Yeah, this is just my, my personal thoughts, but okay
00:15:15.600 I'll, I'll tell you why
00:15:16.600 I think that when, alright
00:15:18.600 When a guy sleeps with a girl, he gets some sort of validation, right?
00:15:22.600 Women don't get validation through sex 1.00
00:15:24.600 We get validation through guys like finding us attractive
00:15:28.600 That's true
00:15:29.600 Through like being desired
00:15:30.600 That's true
00:15:31.600 That's why I think it's, that's why I think it's different
00:15:32.600 Like, when we post a picture on Instagram
00:15:35.600 That's us getting validation through being desired
00:15:38.600 Or when a man fucks a bunch of chicks 1.00
00:15:41.600 That's him like, feeling the most desired
00:15:43.600 Because he, or you know, maybe he screwed the hottest chick, right? 0.99
00:15:46.600 It might, for some guys it's just one
00:15:48.600 But, you guys get the idea
00:15:50.600 That's why I think Instagram is cheating
00:15:53.600 Because you're basically putting your beauty on display for other men 0.65
00:15:58.600 But, it's okay, I can, I can be overruled
00:16:00.600 I can be overruled
00:16:01.600 Some women are putting it on display for other women 1.00
00:16:03.600 Some, some people wanna show the kids
00:16:05.600 Like, you know, they wanna show the family that the kids are around
00:16:08.600 I, I think if you look at most, I think we could pull up you guys' Instagram profiles
00:16:13.600 And I think it'll probably look like a dating app a little bit
00:16:16.600 We could, we could do it, it'll be fun
00:16:18.600 If you want
00:16:19.600 I don't think you should
00:16:20.600 I think you should
00:16:21.600 To be honest
00:16:22.600 We could, we could, later, later
00:16:23.600 See some bad bee pics
00:16:25.600 You know
00:16:27.600 Um, alright
00:16:28.600 So
00:16:29.600 Alright
00:16:30.600 We could, we could
00:16:31.600 Anyone change their opinion or same opinion
00:16:33.600 Still acceptable or unacceptable
00:16:35.600 Acceptable
00:16:36.600 Acceptable
00:16:37.600 Alright, I won't sway you today
00:16:38.600 It's alright
00:16:39.600 Alright, um
00:16:40.600 Next
00:16:41.600 No, it makes sense
00:16:42.600 Going
00:16:43.600 It makes sense
00:16:44.600 Are you on my side now?
00:16:45.600 No Instagram?
00:16:46.600 I don't think women should have an Instagram 1.00
00:16:47.600 Wow
00:16:48.600 Alright, well
00:16:49.600 Okay
00:16:50.600 Why?
00:16:51.600 But it depends on the Instagram
00:16:52.600 Yeah, that's what I'm saying
00:16:53.600 Depends on the Instagram
00:16:54.600 I mean, if you were to pull up my wife's Instagram
00:16:55.600 It's, it's
00:16:56.600 There's nothing
00:16:57.600 Yeah
00:16:58.600 Does she post like
00:16:59.600 I'm sure it's about her daily life
00:17:00.600 Or, you know
00:17:01.600 Mom that she wants to share
00:17:02.600 Shouldn't she want to tell you about her date?
00:17:04.600 Like, why does the world need to know about her daily life?
00:17:06.600 It's probably just
00:17:07.600 She's probably got a certain amount of friends on there 0.92
00:17:09.600 That she wants to share her daily life with
00:17:11.600 Instead of putting in the great chat
00:17:12.600 Can we make it, can we get rid of
00:17:13.600 Still validation though, innit?
00:17:14.600 But what if it's for her business?
00:17:15.600 Exactly
00:17:16.600 What if it's for her business as well?
00:17:17.600 Well
00:17:18.600 How much, okay
00:17:19.600 But it's not
00:17:20.600 How much are women really make in a month? 1.00
00:17:21.600 You know the average woman makes like 500 a month on OnlyFans 0.98
00:17:24.600 We can't even sell sex
00:17:26.600 Like most women don't make any money 1.00
00:17:30.600 You know what I mean?
00:17:31.600 Like if maybe she has a real business, you know
00:17:33.600 Yeah, if it's a real business
00:17:35.600 But it's like
00:17:36.600 Do we really?
00:17:37.600 But even then, do you need to post your face?
00:17:39.600 No
00:17:40.600 Depends what your business is
00:17:41.600 That's true
00:17:42.600 What are you selling?
00:17:43.600 But then again
00:17:44.600 Yeah, it depends
00:17:45.600 You could be just selling beauty products
00:17:46.600 Not sure
00:17:47.600 Beauty products
00:17:48.600 But you could be your brand
00:17:49.600 But you could be your brand
00:17:50.600 You could be your brand
00:17:51.600 You don't have to post yourself though
00:17:52.600 Yeah, but you could be the brand
00:17:54.600 Or it could be homemade stuff that you want to promote
00:17:56.600 But Kim Kardashian like she
00:17:57.600 But you don't have to post yourself though
00:17:58.600 She posts herself
00:17:59.600 You could
00:18:00.600 It could probably be a stupid situation
00:18:01.600 Okay, I think if we're gonna use Kim Kardashian
00:18:03.600 That's like the prime example
00:18:04.600 Let's not lose her
00:18:05.600 Let's not lose her
00:18:06.600 Why women shouldn't have an Instagram? 1.00
00:18:08.600 Why?
00:18:09.600 Because she sells sex 1.00
00:18:10.600 Literally
00:18:11.600 She literally, her brand is based on her sex tape 1.00
00:18:13.600 Like that's her life
00:18:14.600 Oh yeah, wow
00:18:15.600 And have you seen
00:18:16.600 Have you seen her Instagram?
00:18:18.600 Look how much money she's made from that 1.00
00:18:20.600 Is women 0.99
00:18:21.600 Is money worth her kids mental health? 1.00
00:18:24.600 No, not at all
00:18:25.600 Okay, so what has that led to for her?
00:18:28.600 Does it seem like the outcomes for her children are gonna be good?
00:18:31.600 When we got the one kid like dancing with ice spice
00:18:35.600 Depends if you're looking at a bank account
00:18:37.600 Or if you're looking at
00:18:38.600 Well, it depends
00:18:39.600 Well, it depends what matters to you
00:18:41.600 Yeah, money or mental health
00:18:42.600 Yeah, like money or your values, right?
00:18:46.600 Cause yeah, she 0.97
00:18:47.600 I mean, I personally think they are quite a put together family
00:18:51.600 Obviously they have their problems like everyone else
00:18:53.600 No, no
00:18:54.600 My personal opinion on that family is
00:18:56.600 They love each other
00:18:57.600 No, they don't
00:18:58.600 They don't
00:18:59.600 Everyone in that family is a money pig
00:19:02.600 Like none of them people have anything substantial
00:19:05.600 The only person that has something substantial is Kylie and Kendall
00:19:08.600 None of them have anything that's grown from the mud
00:19:11.600 All they do is stem off that woman's tape 1.00
00:19:14.600 Literally, there's nothing else to them
00:19:16.600 Well, and they're all single mothers 0.99
00:19:18.600 Literally
00:19:19.600 All of them
00:19:20.600 I think Caitlyn's alright
00:19:21.600 There you go
00:19:23.600 Who's Caitlyn?
00:19:26.600 Bruce
00:19:27.600 Bruce
00:19:28.600 He was a man
00:19:29.600 He used to be a man
00:19:30.600 And now he's a woman 0.99
00:19:31.600 Oh, you got the joke
00:19:32.600 Alright, we got
00:19:37.600 We got Instagram
00:19:38.600 Okay
00:19:41.600 Alright
00:19:44.600 Clubbing
00:19:47.600 Clubbing
00:19:48.600 If you're clubbing with your partner
00:19:50.600 No, like alone
00:19:51.600 Clubbing alone
00:19:52.600 No
00:19:53.600 Nah
00:19:54.600 Depends what age you are as well
00:19:55.600 Yeah
00:19:56.600 If you're young
00:19:57.600 I had a chick on the show that was really confused
00:20:00.600 Why I said she shouldn't club with children anymore 1.00
00:20:02.600 Like she had kids
00:20:03.600 I was like maybe it's time to spend out
00:20:05.600 Like not go to the club anymore
00:20:06.600 Yeah, depends what age you are
00:20:07.600 I think if you're a young mum
00:20:09.600 Alright, so who says acceptable?
00:20:11.600 Who says yes?
00:20:12.600 Oh wait
00:20:13.600 I put this in the wrong one
00:20:14.600 Yes, depending on
00:20:16.600 What stage you are in your relationship
00:20:18.600 Stop
00:20:19.600 Women should stop going to the club 1.00
00:20:21.600 Yeah, I'm asking
00:20:22.600 Is it cheating or not cheating?
00:20:24.600 Like is it
00:20:25.600 Yes, it's acceptable
00:20:26.600 No, it's not acceptable
00:20:27.600 It's not
00:20:28.600 It's not
00:20:29.600 Alright, so raise your hand if you think
00:20:30.600 Think no
00:20:31.600 Not acceptable
00:20:32.600 Traditional clubbing, yeah
00:20:33.600 Like
00:20:34.600 Bars and stuff
00:20:35.600 It depends
00:20:36.600 You think it's acceptable or not acceptable?
00:20:38.600 To go to a bar
00:20:39.600 Or a club
00:20:40.600 If she's in a relationship
00:20:41.600 No, no, no
00:20:42.600 It's fine with a bar
00:20:43.600 Yeah, bars and stuff
00:20:44.600 Depends what you're doing
00:20:46.600 You could be going to your sister's birthday
00:20:48.600 A bar could turn into a club though
00:20:49.600 Yeah
00:20:50.600 You could be going to your sister's birthday to a club
00:20:51.600 Like where you're going to not go
00:20:52.600 Because you're in a relationship
00:20:53.600 You could go to a bar
00:20:54.600 Yeah
00:20:55.600 You lot stay at the restaurant
00:20:57.600 And go home
00:20:59.600 Alright
00:21:00.600 So since we approved Instagram
00:21:02.600 I want to know
00:21:03.600 Selfies
00:21:05.600 Yes
00:21:06.600 What's wrong with a selfie?
00:21:07.600 Is it like a type of selfie?
00:21:08.600 Just a
00:21:09.600 You know
00:21:10.600 Just a face
00:21:11.600 Just your face
00:21:12.600 That's cool
00:21:13.600 Is it a pretty face though?
00:21:15.600 Because if she's ugly 1.00
00:21:16.600 She can post as much as she wants
00:21:18.600 That's fine
00:21:19.600 She's going to be with you, right?
00:21:20.600 So she's got to be a pretty girl 1.00
00:21:22.600 I mean
00:21:23.600 Do you date ugly chicks? 1.00
00:21:24.600 Not always
00:21:25.600 I mean, yeah, man, I don't judge
00:21:26.600 Oh, okay
00:21:27.600 You know
00:21:28.600 Okay, let's see
00:21:29.600 Yeah, she's a pretty chick 1.00
00:21:30.600 Yeah
00:21:31.600 So selfies, yes
00:21:32.600 Who says a selfie is okay?
00:21:33.600 No
00:21:34.600 I think selfies are good
00:21:35.600 Like they're okay
00:21:36.600 Kind of
00:21:37.600 I'm in the middle with that one
00:21:38.600 What do you think?
00:21:39.600 I'm going to say no
00:21:40.600 I'm going to go hard no
00:21:41.600 No selfies
00:21:42.600 Why?
00:21:43.600 Because you're advertising your beauty
00:21:45.600 Why?
00:21:46.600 Why do they got to see you smile?
00:21:48.600 She'll only be smiling for your man 1.00
00:21:50.600 You can't have nothing nice, can you?
00:21:52.600 What if she's not smiling?
00:21:54.600 I mean
00:21:55.600 Yeah
00:21:56.600 Or if she's wearing a title neck
00:21:57.600 And she's just
00:21:58.600 I just want to know like
00:21:59.600 What's the point?
00:22:00.600 Balaclava
00:22:01.600 Yeah
00:22:02.600 Like what is she going to get out of
00:22:03.600 Like what is the point of posting it?
00:22:04.600 I'm not going to lie
00:22:05.600 It would be better for a chick 1.00
00:22:06.600 To post a selfie
00:22:07.600 Than a woman who 0.98
00:22:08.600 Has a fat ass
00:22:09.600 Fat boobs 0.57
00:22:10.600 Beautiful curves
00:22:11.600 To post a full body pic
00:22:12.600 She's going to be more advertising 0.99
00:22:14.600 Well just because there's something worse
00:22:15.600 It doesn't make the selfie good
00:22:17.600 But what's wrong with the selfie?
00:22:18.600 It's still the same premise though
00:22:19.600 So a pic there's a pic
00:22:20.600 That's like saying
00:22:21.600 Well I only did OnlyFans
00:22:22.600 Not porn
00:22:23.600 Like
00:22:24.600 Nah
00:22:25.600 I don't think it matters
00:22:26.600 To be fair
00:22:27.600 It's like taking
00:22:28.600 The question is
00:22:29.600 What is the point of posting the selfie?
00:22:31.600 Because
00:22:32.600 What you're not realising is
00:22:34.600 I can easily compare that to someone addicted to drugs
00:22:37.600 Like why are you posting the selfie?
00:22:38.600 Just to get that dopamine hit
00:22:40.600 Of oh people like your picture
00:22:42.600 Why?
00:22:43.600 It's validation
00:22:44.600 She probably wants to show off 0.99
00:22:45.600 That she bought nice earrings
00:22:46.600 She got her hair done
00:22:47.600 Or
00:22:48.600 You know
00:22:49.600 She got her makeup done
00:22:50.600 Still validation
00:22:51.600 Could be that
00:22:52.600 But at the end of the day
00:22:53.600 Why is she showing it off to strangers?
00:22:55.600 But would it be better for
00:22:56.600 Would it be better for a man to post a selfie? 0.60
00:22:58.600 Is it necessarily strangers?
00:22:59.600 We get less validation
00:23:00.600 Okay then
00:23:01.600 So would it be better for a man to post a full body pic 0.99
00:23:04.600 To obviously advertise his designer wear?
00:23:06.600 That
00:23:07.600 That's
00:23:08.600 We're saying the same thing
00:23:09.600 If it's that
00:23:10.600 If it's that
00:23:11.600 If it's validation
00:23:12.600 If he's selling something
00:23:13.600 Like he's selling the clothes
00:23:14.600 Or he's selling like a fitness plan
00:23:15.600 That's different
00:23:16.600 But if you're just posting it
00:23:17.600 Just so that people can like it
00:23:19.600 But this is the point
00:23:20.600 Like you used to get all that validation
00:23:22.600 And attention from your man
00:23:23.600 And not a million strangers
00:23:25.600 Like I used to watch like 1940s
00:23:27.600 Like wife tips 1.00
00:23:28.600 And it was like
00:23:29.600 Oh get some makeup on
00:23:30.600 Before your husband gets home
00:23:32.600 Like have your hair done
00:23:33.600 So you're like ready to see him
00:23:35.600 But now it's like women will get their makeup done for Instagram 1.00
00:23:38.600 But not their husband
00:23:39.600 They'll look half like homeless
00:23:41.600 But aren't we all seeking that validation
00:23:43.600 Not just women 0.58
00:23:44.600 No I think that women seek out validation much more than men
00:23:47.600 Yeah
00:23:48.600 Partially because we can
00:23:50.600 But
00:23:51.600 But in my opinion
00:23:52.600 I think women 1.00
00:23:53.600 Like men seek sex 1.00
00:23:54.600 So that would
00:23:55.600 The equivalent of that to me
00:23:56.600 Would be men having 1.00
00:23:57.600 Access to easy sex
00:23:59.600 And taking it
00:24:00.600 I think yeah
00:24:01.600 They probably would
00:24:02.600 Like if you had
00:24:03.600 That validation
00:24:04.600 Doesn't necessarily come from the opposite sex always
00:24:06.600 Like it could be
00:24:07.600 Um
00:24:08.600 Your friends could be like
00:24:09.600 Oh cool picture
00:24:10.600 Right
00:24:11.600 Do you know
00:24:12.600 Um
00:24:13.600 I think they could
00:24:14.600 But I would say
00:24:15.600 Typically
00:24:16.600 Women post for attention from high status men 1.00
00:24:19.600 That's
00:24:20.600 That's my opinion
00:24:21.600 Typically
00:24:22.600 Yeah I think
00:24:24.600 Some women actually post for other women 1.00
00:24:26.600 Literally
00:24:27.600 Yeah
00:24:28.600 I think that's the equivalent of when women dress half naked 1.00
00:24:30.600 And they say they do it for themselves
00:24:32.600 But then
00:24:33.600 I just don't really believe it
00:24:34.600 That's why I still have to ask like
00:24:35.600 It's still to the same point
00:24:36.600 What's the difference between a selfie and a full body pic?
00:24:39.600 If you get a girl who's got ass curves, boobs 1.00
00:24:43.600 And she takes a full body picture
00:24:45.600 Is she taking a selfie of just that she just like
00:24:48.600 The face that she just here
00:24:50.600 If you were gonna have a dating profile
00:24:52.600 Would you put a selfie on it?
00:24:53.600 Yeah
00:24:54.600 That's the point
00:24:55.600 That's before
00:24:56.600 I'm just showing myself
00:24:57.600 Because you're getting
00:24:58.600 Correct
00:24:59.600 You're showing yourself
00:25:00.600 And that's the whole point
00:25:01.600 Is you're getting validation from the opposite gender 0.98
00:25:04.600 Well I actually agree with the lady on the right
00:25:07.600 I think women also post for other women 0.98
00:25:09.600 Yeah we do
00:25:10.600 Because
00:25:11.600 It's not even like
00:25:12.600 It's not even just for the validation aspect
00:25:14.600 It still ties back to men 0.99
00:25:15.600 Because it's kind of like a competition
00:25:17.600 Competition
00:25:18.600 Women are very competitive 1.00
00:25:20.600 It still ties back to men 0.99
00:25:21.600 But
00:25:22.600 It's still like
00:25:23.600 There's still a competition between women 1.00
00:25:24.600 Because women want to 1.00
00:25:25.600 Be able to post
00:25:26.600 And have other women 0.93
00:25:27.600 Validate them
00:25:28.600 And say yes you are beautiful
00:25:29.600 Right
00:25:30.600 But then it still ties back to
00:25:31.600 Validation
00:25:32.600 Right
00:25:33.600 They've got the latest cam back
00:25:34.600 Or the latest shoes
00:25:35.600 Or the latest top
00:25:36.600 And say oh well their names got that
00:25:37.600 You know
00:25:38.600 Right
00:25:39.600 But it's
00:25:40.600 Yeah
00:25:41.600 But he's right
00:25:42.600 But it's all to compete for the guys
00:25:43.600 So it still ties back to the men
00:25:45.600 To an extent
00:25:46.600 To an extent
00:25:47.600 To an extent
00:25:48.600 I mean I wouldn't
00:25:49.600 I wouldn't look up
00:25:50.600 I think a lot of men and women
00:25:51.600 Haven't really thought about it like this
00:25:53.600 But again I think most women today are like 1.00
00:25:56.600 Basically this is the average chick 0.99
00:25:58.600 And she's got her phone in her hand
00:26:03.600 You see right there
00:26:04.600 And yeah I just think because of the phone
00:26:07.600 She's getting
00:26:08.600 Usually she's got like 10 guy friends
00:26:10.600 She's getting like 10 million likes from all the guys on Instagram
00:26:14.600 Messaging her every day
00:26:16.600 Trying to date her
00:26:17.600 So it's like we just have this constant validation
00:26:19.600 So we just think we're so amazing and hot
00:26:21.600 Yeah it's true
00:26:22.600 Where the men are just told they ain't shit all the time
00:26:25.600 So it's like not a validation some equal validation
00:26:28.600 And yeah, so I think when we post the selfies
00:26:31.600 It's just we're getting all this attention from the other people
00:26:35.600 And I think we should avoid that if we can
00:26:38.600 So I'm gonna say now
00:26:40.600 Alright, so who says yes to the selfies?
00:26:42.600 Raise your hand
00:26:43.600 I still say yes
00:26:44.600 So yeah
00:26:45.600 I'm overruled today
00:26:47.600 It's alright though
00:26:48.600 So
00:26:51.600 Going back to your dating question
00:26:53.600 Okay go ahead
00:26:54.600 Cause I have to ask
00:26:55.600 If you
00:26:56.600 If I didn't post a picture of myself in a dating app
00:26:59.600 Would you be
00:27:00.600 Would any guy be more attracted to a blank profile
00:27:03.600 Than a natural profile with a picture on that?
00:27:05.600 Depends on your bio
00:27:08.600 Do you go for people's bios more than their look?
00:27:10.600 Well I've never seen one without a selfie ever
00:27:12.600 I don't know
00:27:13.600 So you would need a selfie?
00:27:15.600 No but the point is you're on a dating app for the men
00:27:18.600 So obviously it's acceptable for you to post your picture there
00:27:21.600 But if you claim that you're not on Instagram for men
00:27:24.600 Then why are you posting your picture?
00:27:26.600 Because you could be like I said
00:27:29.600 You could just be posting it for business purposes
00:27:33.600 I see where everyone's coming from
00:27:37.600 But realistically like you want to kind of know who you're speaking to
00:27:41.600 Like why would you not want to know who you're speaking to?
00:27:43.600 I'm sure that also goes into how to be attracted
00:27:46.600 How to attract to someone unless you're like
00:27:48.600 You know you've got a type of
00:27:50.600 Would I say a selfie of sexual?
00:27:52.600 Should be selfie of sexual?
00:27:53.600 Okay but I understand but like
00:27:55.600 If it's like
00:27:56.600 So for instance on my Instagram I have just four posts on there
00:27:58.600 And I'm a videographer as well as a producer
00:28:01.600 But like I make videos
00:28:03.600 But even though I make videos
00:28:04.600 I don't necessarily post so many videos on there
00:28:07.600 Yeah
00:28:08.600 I used to post a lot when I was actually doing my videography
00:28:10.600 And doing a lot of edits
00:28:11.600 But now I don't really post anything because it's like
00:28:13.600 What's the point?
00:28:14.600 Yeah
00:28:15.600 I'm not just going to put a selfie
00:28:16.600 So my point is
00:28:17.600 It's not like you can't have a couple of pictures in there
00:28:19.600 But like when you're posting selfies like today
00:28:21.600 You post a selfie, tomorrow you post a selfie
00:28:22.600 That's what we're talking about
00:28:23.600 We're not just talking about having like the odd selfie here and there
00:28:26.600 Okay
00:28:27.600 That's just someone
00:28:28.600 That's just an attention scene
00:28:29.600 Yeah that's
00:28:30.600 To be posting all the time like that's too much going on
00:28:32.600 That's the average Instagram account
00:28:33.600 We're all valid
00:28:35.600 We all need validation
00:28:36.600 No it's true
00:28:37.600 I think my point is like men used to get like the best of us
00:28:41.600 Because all of our validation and attention was tied to making one guy happy
00:28:46.600 So that was like our focus
00:28:47.600 But now it's like you see these women 1.00
00:28:49.600 You know they have their kids
00:28:50.600 And they're like I saw a video the other day of a woman on her phone
00:28:53.600 And the guy took her baby because she was paying attention to her phone 1.00
00:28:56.600 And he just he just he gave it back to her
00:28:58.600 But it was just to like point out that she wasn't paying any attention to her kid
00:29:01.600 Yeah
00:29:02.600 And I just think like social media has just made us like crazy
00:29:05.600 To the point where we're like dressing up for Instagram
00:29:08.600 But not like like well we'll dress up for like you'll see wives dress up for a girls night out 1.00
00:29:13.600 But not for their husband when he gets home
00:29:15.600 And it's like almost like the Internet's getting the best of us and not the people around us
00:29:19.600 So it's kind of just a weird dynamic
00:29:23.600 Guy friends is that acceptable or unacceptable unacceptable 1.00
00:29:27.600 Just kind of based sorry what do you think?
00:29:30.600 Unacceptable
00:29:31.600 It's unacceptable even if you're out of a relationship
00:29:34.600 No
00:29:35.600 Because everyone's trying to fuck
00:29:37.600 I think it depends like you know my guy friends
00:29:41.600 Two of them obviously they are um
00:29:44.600 They're um homosexual so you know 1.00
00:29:47.600 I don't really have a problem with them
00:29:48.600 However other guy friends I wouldn't really say
00:29:51.600 If I'm in a relationship I would keep up with them to be honest
00:29:53.600 Yeah
00:29:54.600 Even out of a relationship
00:29:56.600 Just respect
00:29:57.600 Nah just respect
00:29:58.600 Like just respect you wouldn't
00:30:00.600 Just out of respect you wouldn't know
00:30:02.600 Every guy is trying to fuck 0.99
00:30:04.600 That's what they say
00:30:05.600 Wait would the gay friends count? 0.96
00:30:08.600 Like would they be okay?
00:30:09.600 Yeah
00:30:10.600 No?
00:30:11.600 Why?
00:30:12.600 I don't have any
00:30:13.600 They don't want any pee
00:30:14.600 They just want the D
00:30:16.600 What?
00:30:17.600 Gay friends are the worst 1.00
00:30:18.600 No
00:30:19.600 They probably move to your man 1.00
00:30:20.600 No
00:30:21.600 No
00:30:22.600 Wait
00:30:23.600 Because then the woman goes to them to spill gossip 1.00
00:30:27.600 And the gay friend is not going to be on the man's side either ways 0.92
00:30:30.600 Nah I think it depends on what type of category they are
00:30:35.600 Um let me just be careful
00:30:37.600 Yeah what does that mean?
00:30:38.600 I feel like it depends what category they are
00:30:39.600 Like if there are someone who is a bit intensely feminine 0.99
00:30:42.600 Then of course they're not going to be um
00:30:45.600 They're not going to really take the man's side 0.73
00:30:47.600 But if there's somebody who can see both
00:30:49.600 Which is like masculine and feminine
00:30:51.600 Either way the right friend will always put you in the right direction
00:30:54.600 Always put you in the place if you're in the wrong realistically
00:30:57.600 So I don't really see it as much of a problem
00:31:00.600 I wouldn't trust I wouldn't trust gay friends like my girl 1.00
00:31:02.600 Simply because
00:31:03.600 Because there's a lot of things that I know women don't think about 1.00
00:31:06.600 First of all
00:31:07.600 You know how women get with their gay friends 0.95
00:31:09.600 There's almost no boundaries
00:31:11.600 You tell them every single secret
00:31:13.600 They look through your phones
00:31:15.600 I might have pictures on there of my naked self on there
00:31:18.600 And then your gay friend has access 0.96
00:31:19.600 It sounds like you know from experience
00:31:21.600 Because this is too much going on
00:31:22.600 This is too much going on
00:31:24.600 Very in depth
00:31:26.600 Very in depth
00:31:27.600 Literally logic
00:31:28.600 I'm thinking like a man 0.93
00:31:29.600 I'm telling you what
00:31:30.600 How men see it 0.69
00:31:31.600 Okay
00:31:32.600 Yeah
00:31:33.600 You know like there's so many things that women just don't think about 0.99
00:31:35.600 Because you're just in the middle of
00:31:36.600 Oh yes my gay friend
00:31:38.600 Ah la la
00:31:39.600 But you don't think about
00:31:40.600 It knock on effects
00:31:42.600 That's the thing
00:31:43.600 And then now
00:31:44.600 When I mention it
00:31:45.600 You're saying
00:31:46.600 It doesn't have to be like an experience
00:31:48.600 It's just logic
00:31:49.600 Like if you really think about it
00:31:50.600 And that's the reason why
00:31:51.600 Like really and truly
00:31:52.600 You shouldn't have too many friends
00:31:54.600 That are so close to you when you have a relationship
00:31:57.600 Because when you have so many people outside of a relationship
00:31:59.600 That you go to
00:32:00.600 With problems
00:32:01.600 Then you're just opening the doors
00:32:02.600 For more problems
00:32:04.600 It's true
00:32:05.600 I agree
00:32:06.600 It's very true
00:32:07.600 Absolutely agree
00:32:08.600 That's why it's like
00:32:09.600 In your relationship
00:32:10.600 It would be best to like solve problems together
00:32:11.600 Rather than
00:32:12.600 Telling other people your problems
00:32:14.600 Like it would make more sense
00:32:16.600 Yeah
00:32:17.600 Yeah I've had friends advise me
00:32:18.600 No you need to leave him
00:32:19.600 No you need to leave him
00:32:20.600 And then when you've left him
00:32:22.600 They're like nowhere to be seen
00:32:24.600 You know
00:32:25.600 Yeah literally
00:32:26.600 The problem you've got though
00:32:28.600 During the fallout
00:32:29.600 You'll go and vent to your friend
00:32:31.600 And then you'll get back with the guy
00:32:32.600 And your friend now thinks you've
00:32:34.600 You guys
00:32:35.600 Yeah exactly
00:32:36.600 You've let him
00:32:37.600 Way too much
00:32:38.600 That's actually
00:32:39.600 That's a big one
00:32:40.600 In a way as well
00:32:41.600 You make your friends offer an opinion
00:32:43.600 When you tell them more about your relationship
00:32:45.600 And they start having an opinion on your person as well
00:32:48.600 Yeah
00:32:49.600 Because remember some friends don't want to see you happy
00:32:50.600 Yeah
00:32:51.600 Remember that
00:32:52.600 Some friends want you to be single
00:32:53.600 Just like
00:32:54.600 Some friends want you to be miserable
00:32:56.600 Just like them
00:32:57.600 And that's just the truth
00:32:58.600 Don't forget when you're venting to a friend
00:33:00.600 You're venting the negatives
00:33:02.600 Yeah
00:33:03.600 You're not speaking about the good times
00:33:04.600 Your friend's just hearing all these negatives
00:33:06.600 Yeah
00:33:07.600 And then when you get back to give all
00:33:09.600 Exactly
00:33:10.600 It's an issue
00:33:11.600 Yeah
00:33:12.600 Exactly
00:33:13.600 It's an issue
00:33:14.600 Okay class
00:33:19.600 Alright
00:33:20.600 So guy friends
00:33:21.600 Raise your hand if you think yes
00:33:22.600 Okay
00:33:23.600 This is a consensus
00:33:24.600 No
00:33:25.600 Not okay
00:33:26.600 Venting to someone
00:33:27.600 Like another guy
00:33:28.600 It's just a woman venting to another guy 1.00
00:33:30.600 Yeah
00:33:31.600 A woman venting to another guy 0.91
00:33:32.600 Absolutely no
00:33:33.600 No
00:33:34.600 No
00:33:35.600 Cause he's going to want to sleep with you 0.88
00:33:36.600 Single women friends
00:33:38.600 Single women friends
00:33:40.600 Single women friends
00:33:41.600 When you're in a relationship
00:33:42.600 When you're in a relationship
00:33:43.600 What's your
00:33:44.600 What's your
00:33:45.600 I know
00:33:46.600 I see you have thoughts on this
00:33:47.600 When you're in a relationship
00:33:48.600 Or when you're not in a relationship
00:33:50.600 When you're in a relationship
00:33:51.600 When you're in a relationship
00:33:52.600 In a relationship
00:33:53.600 What do you think about single women friends 0.99
00:33:55.600 I think you should
00:33:56.600 I think you should
00:33:57.600 Not
00:33:58.600 Wait wait wait wait
00:33:59.600 Not being friends with people who are single 1.00
00:34:00.600 But you have less
00:34:01.600 Let's let him speak
00:34:02.600 I want to hear what he's going to say
00:34:03.600 No I'm cool with that
00:34:04.600 It's just
00:34:05.600 Just
00:34:06.600 How much gets
00:34:08.600 Gets passed on
00:34:09.600 And how much they vent and stuff
00:34:11.600 Because
00:34:12.600 You tend to find single women friends
00:34:14.600 Kind of want
00:34:15.600 The friend to be single with them
00:34:17.600 Yeah
00:34:18.600 They're a bad influence
00:34:19.600 Yeah that's true
00:34:20.600 I want to know from the guys
00:34:21.600 Is there any acceptable venting?
00:34:24.600 As women
00:34:25.600 Like we typically vent to somebody
00:34:27.600 Who is acceptable to vent to?
00:34:30.600 Family
00:34:31.600 Family
00:34:32.600 I don't know
00:34:33.600 I don't know about that
00:34:34.600 I don't think family is a good one
00:34:35.600 Some family
00:34:36.600 I think it depends on the issue
00:34:37.600 Mild venting is fine
00:34:39.600 Yeah
00:34:40.600 I don't know
00:34:41.600 I think you should just keep your problems in the house
00:34:43.600 I think if you're a woman
00:34:44.600 You vent to your dad
00:34:45.600 Because your dad's going to tell you the truth
00:34:47.600 I feel like
00:34:48.600 If you're a man you vent to your mum 0.89
00:34:50.600 That's what I think
00:34:51.600 But then don't you think like
00:34:52.600 When you vent to these people
00:34:53.600 They're going to build their own perception on your partner
00:34:56.600 I feel like you really shouldn't give them a type of like
00:34:59.600 Nobody
00:35:00.600 I don't think you should
00:35:01.600 I don't think you should
00:35:02.600 Give anyone even a say so
00:35:03.600 I think your therapist
00:35:05.600 Nope
00:35:06.600 Yeah but remember sometimes
00:35:07.600 That is a good way
00:35:08.600 I think your therapist
00:35:09.600 Definitely
00:35:10.600 Yeah
00:35:11.600 Or your mentor
00:35:12.600 I think you should come on a punk podcast
00:35:14.600 And vent your talk line
00:35:15.600 Yeah
00:35:16.600 But then your business is going to be out there
00:35:17.600 Like we did today
00:35:19.600 Hey
00:35:20.600 Women shouldn't vote 1.00
00:35:21.600 Oh my gosh
00:35:22.600 So venting no
00:35:23.600 It's a unanimous
00:35:24.600 Single women 1.00
00:35:25.600 Single women 1.00
00:35:26.600 Who says single women 0.99
00:35:27.600 Friends okay
00:35:28.600 Raise your hand
00:35:29.600 No
00:35:30.600 I don't know
00:35:31.600 I would say
00:35:32.600 Don't completely cut them off
00:35:33.600 Because they're your friends
00:35:34.600 You're just thinking
00:35:35.600 If that's your true
00:35:36.600 If that's your true
00:35:37.600 Single friends
00:35:38.600 But hold on
00:35:39.600 You have less access to them
00:35:40.600 Because you're having
00:35:41.600 You have a different lifestyle
00:35:42.600 You know
00:35:43.600 I don't
00:35:44.600 So it could be conflict of interest
00:35:45.600 So I wouldn't say completely
00:35:46.600 Just be like
00:35:47.600 Oh you're not my friend no more
00:35:48.600 Because I'm in a relationship
00:35:49.600 You know
00:35:50.600 You're just going to slowly cut them off
00:35:51.600 Slowly just be like
00:35:52.600 Okay I'm over here doing this
00:35:53.600 You're over there
00:35:54.600 That's so horrible
00:35:55.600 I'm not going to lie
00:35:57.600 I'm not saying cut them off
00:35:58.600 But you've got
00:35:59.600 It's like
00:36:00.600 When you grow up
00:36:01.600 You go and work
00:36:02.600 Do you know
00:36:03.600 Do you know why it makes sense
00:36:04.600 So you're going to slowly ghost your friend
00:36:06.600 Yeah but not in a bad way
00:36:07.600 Do you know
00:36:08.600 It's a bad way
00:36:09.600 No matter how you hate it
00:36:10.600 It makes sense though
00:36:11.600 It makes sense because
00:36:12.600 You see when women have like a bad time 1.00
00:36:14.600 Especially like for example married women 0.99
00:36:16.600 Like
00:36:17.600 Married women will rather go to their single friend 1.00
00:36:19.600 Because their single friend has more time
00:36:20.600 They'll go to them and be like 0.99
00:36:21.600 Oh
00:36:22.600 He did this to me
00:36:23.600 And he pissed me off
00:36:24.600 Whatever
00:36:25.600 But realistically
00:36:26.600 If you're someone who's single
00:36:28.600 And you know
00:36:29.600 You're not really like going out there to go and find someone to marry
00:36:32.600 Or settle down with
00:36:33.600 You are going to give your friend shit advice
00:36:35.600 And I'll be honest with you
00:36:36.600 I've been the person who's giving shit advice
00:36:38.600 But realistically
00:36:39.600 You can't
00:36:40.600 You can't give advice to people who are in a union
00:36:42.600 Like you can't
00:36:43.600 Because you don't even know what that is
00:36:44.600 You don't even know what their union is like
00:36:46.600 At least you know it
00:36:47.600 Because like women always think we give the best advice 1.00
00:36:49.600 I'll be honest with you
00:36:50.600 And we give horrible advice
00:36:51.600 I take relationship advice from women that are married 0.96
00:36:54.600 Because I feel like
00:36:55.600 If I take advice from my single friends
00:36:57.600 They're going to be like
00:36:58.600 Oh city girls 0.99
00:36:59.600 We're going to be outside
00:37:00.600 We're going to do this
00:37:01.600 But I'd rather like
00:37:02.600 Have friends who are single
00:37:03.600 That would be encouraged to actually have a union
00:37:05.600 And I'd rather take advice from women who are actually married 0.99
00:37:08.600 Rather than single friends who are going to
00:37:10.600 You know want me to be outside
00:37:11.600 Like that's just dead
00:37:12.600 If you're a single girl and you want to get married
00:37:14.600 The best thing to do is have four friends that are married
00:37:16.600 Yeah
00:37:17.600 You know they say if you have four friends that are married
00:37:19.600 You're going to become
00:37:20.600 Half the time
00:37:21.600 Half of these girls 0.99
00:37:22.600 Like you know
00:37:23.600 Some men might not see it
00:37:24.600 But they're miserable
00:37:25.600 They look nice when you see them
00:37:26.600 But they're miserable
00:37:27.600 They're upset
00:37:28.600 Like they're not happy
00:37:29.600 So it would be better off to just go to people who are actually in better situations than yourself
00:37:34.600 So single women raise your hands if you think single women friends are okay 1.00
00:37:39.600 Yeah
00:37:40.600 If they're trying to get married
00:37:41.600 If they're trying to get married
00:37:42.600 Yeah
00:37:43.600 Okay
00:37:44.600 No
00:37:45.600 No
00:37:46.600 You know I just like say I just like taking away rights
00:37:49.600 I'm going to say no
00:37:50.600 I'm trying to think if there's anything else I wanted to add
00:37:56.600 I think we covered most of it
00:37:58.600 Anything you guys think we should add to the list of things to ask about?
00:38:02.600 Hmm
00:38:03.600 I'm open to suggestions
00:38:04.600 What about like taking advice from like your mom
00:38:10.600 And your mom's like in a weird situation 0.77
00:38:12.600 Like
00:38:13.600 No
00:38:14.600 No?
00:38:15.600 No I think no
00:38:16.600 I think mothers
00:38:17.600 Mothers it's the natural order 1.00
00:38:19.600 What about girls trips?
00:38:21.600 Oh god yeah
00:38:23.600 What about when you're in a relationship and you have like men's trips and girls trips
00:38:27.600 Is the guys allowed to go on their trips and the girls not?
00:38:30.600 Or can you both see your own
00:38:32.600 Okay
00:38:33.600 Hear me out hear me out
00:38:34.600 I think the men should be allowed to go on the boys trip
00:38:37.600 Oh my god
00:38:38.600 You would say that
00:38:39.600 But the girls can't go on their trips 1.00
00:38:40.600 Why would you even say that?
00:38:41.600 Okay
00:38:42.600 Okay
00:38:43.600 Alright hear me out
00:38:44.600 You guys are thinking the worst
00:38:45.600 You're thinking the worst
00:38:46.600 You know my brothers go hunting and four wheeling
00:38:49.600 And they have a great time
00:38:50.600 I think men 0.84
00:38:51.600 Wait wait wait wait
00:38:52.600 What does that mean?
00:38:53.600 Do they go to Miami or Ivy?
00:38:54.600 No they go hunting and four wheeling
00:38:55.600 They go hunting for like deer and stuff
00:38:56.600 They kill some deer
00:38:57.600 Okay alright cool
00:38:58.600 They kill some you know
00:38:59.600 And they go snowmobile
00:39:00.600 Like I think men
00:39:02.600 Have to be around other men 1.00
00:39:04.600 Like I think they get too feminine 1.00
00:39:06.600 If they're just around women all the time 0.99
00:39:08.600 I think like
00:39:09.600 I don't know
00:39:10.600 There's something where guys just like love to be around each other
00:39:13.600 And like but when women get around each other 1.00
00:39:15.600 We lead towards destruction
00:39:17.600 Now I'm not saying he might
00:39:19.600 He might screw a stripper on that girl's trip 1.00
00:39:22.600 It might happen
00:39:23.600 Cause he is gonna screw a stripper on that trip 1.00
00:39:25.600 It might happen
00:39:26.600 But like it's like alright it's a stripper 0.99
00:39:27.600 You can get through it
00:39:28.600 You know it's not like you got a girlfriend
00:39:30.600 It's really hard to screw strippers
00:39:32.600 Just so you know
00:39:33.600 Yeah I mean
00:39:34.600 Maybe you're right
00:39:35.600 Maybe just a whore 1.00
00:39:36.600 Wow
00:39:37.600 It's not easy
00:39:38.600 But here's the thing
00:39:39.600 If your man can screw a lot of girls 1.00
00:39:42.600 A lot of girls on his man's trip 0.97
00:39:44.600 Then he probably can do that
00:39:45.600 Without even going on the trip
00:39:46.600 That's true
00:39:47.600 Yeah
00:39:48.600 You already have that problem on your hands
00:39:49.600 That's true
00:39:50.600 But for the women 0.79
00:39:51.600 Like
00:39:52.600 How going away is just literally giving her a ticket to go do whatever
00:39:56.600 So what if the man is not going on hunting
00:39:58.600 What if he's going to Magaluf or Marbella
00:40:00.600 Right
00:40:01.600 For like a little party holiday
00:40:02.600 He's gonna more than likely go out and shag?
00:40:06.600 Nah
00:40:07.600 No I'm not lying
00:40:08.600 Like he's gonna more likely shag
00:40:09.600 I think you underestimate how hard it is for men
00:40:11.600 To get sex 0.74
00:40:12.600 It's so hard
00:40:13.600 Unless he's
00:40:14.600 Unless he's really hot
00:40:15.600 It's so hard
00:40:16.600 It's really not that easy
00:40:18.600 It's so hard
00:40:19.600 It's not a joke
00:40:20.600 Yeah
00:40:21.600 He might try
00:40:22.600 I won't lie to you
00:40:23.600 He very well may try
00:40:24.600 100% he's gonna try
00:40:25.600 But then it's
00:40:26.600 It's just him having a good time
00:40:27.600 Ain't it
00:40:28.600 Having a little bit of banter with the boys
00:40:29.600 You know what I mean
00:40:30.600 But they need to get out of their system
00:40:31.600 I think women need to get out of their system 1.00
00:40:32.600 Yeah
00:40:33.600 And like honestly
00:40:34.600 It's like
00:40:35.600 Being brainwashed
00:40:36.600 To think that a guy
00:40:37.600 Cheating on you
00:40:38.600 With a stripper 0.65
00:40:39.600 Is the worst thing ever
00:40:40.600 Or like a whore 1.00
00:40:41.600 Oh no
00:40:42.600 I don't think so
00:40:43.600 It's like you know
00:40:44.600 He was offered the easy sex
00:40:45.600 You'll get over it
00:40:46.600 You know
00:40:47.600 My mistress
00:40:48.600 But I have weird
00:40:49.600 I have weird
00:40:50.600 I have weird
00:40:51.600 But anyway
00:40:52.600 So we're gonna get
00:40:53.600 We're gonna make them separate
00:40:54.600 So
00:40:58.600 All right
00:40:59.600 Girls trips 0.90
00:41:00.600 Who says yes
00:41:01.600 We should be able to go
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00:41:03.600 I was just banned on TikTok
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