JustPearlyThings - June 18, 2023


Female TikToker Exposes Modern Marriages


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

175.2366

Word Count

1,796

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

3

Hate Speech Sentences

1


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 okay i'm going to read the super chats really quick while we're waiting for him to bring it up
00:00:10.080 uh denalva it's so funny they made an account denalva denalva denalva denalva the actual corn
00:00:15.580 industry industry really sold the public a bill of goods uh sold us waste corn and byproducts
00:00:23.380 and surplus and cereal and told us it was healthy um all of those juices are full of sugar that's
00:00:29.500 not what you want a huge contributor to the weight epidemic is propaganda by the food industry sugar
00:00:34.000 and carbs in any form are going to be stored as fat um let me one second guys also make sure you
00:00:42.820 like the video guys again just a reminder we are going to open up the chat at um 1500 likes
00:00:51.100 and then i just want to see how many it was oh is it just the two okay it doubled are you are you
00:00:58.120 ready with it all right
00:00:59.020 and it was all yellow
00:01:14.040 interesting did she make that that's why i won it
00:01:39.640 that's actually it's funny because i'll be like what the hell i've been going unhealthy throughout
00:01:48.920 the years because she's that's the thing there's there's a yes she's celebrating herself but the
00:01:54.520 way it's done with happy music i'd be i'd be actually no i can't say i can't don't want to say anything but
00:02:00.760 i don't know like i've put on up i was 28 stones and one thing that i know i guess people are different
00:02:10.040 and it's good she's celebrating herself but again that's the type of i see how when skinnier people
00:02:17.540 skinnier than me look at this video i can i can imagine what they think so i know that you guys aren't
00:02:24.380 also what do you think they think they think oh gosh she's she's dying she is her insides are growing
00:02:32.860 older and and i'm not gonna lie same with me when i'm when i'm eating certain things i'm thinking oh
00:02:39.260 gosh oh gosh like something and you know with big people as well like yeah let me give some big plus size
00:02:48.380 facts when you have to go to the loo i'm telling you it feels like fireworks are in your belly and
00:02:55.340 and there is a pressure so but like all these plus size okay sorry i think i'm going sorry guys sorry
00:03:01.420 i'm the thing is this for me like so i'm a big fan of love i'm a big fan of like being in love and
00:03:07.500 being in relationship having a good woman in your life and for me like i just maybe this is selfish but
00:03:13.980 like you need to stay skinny so you don't die because i don't want to do this again
00:03:18.220 i don't want to fall in love and lose you and all that so anytime i'm in a relationship with a girl
00:03:23.740 whether she works out or not she's gonna start working out when she's dating me so i would just
00:03:28.060 hate to see that as a person dating someone who is gaining weight and then i have to be like looking
00:03:35.020 and dealing with the health issues that come with that yeah so women are more likely than men to gain
00:03:40.380 weight after marriage so do you guys think it's fair to gain weight after getting married
00:03:48.140 why not i i don't think it's fair i don't think so either you don't think it's fair drop it on them
00:03:52.780 pam drop it on them pam that person met you a certain way oh yeah and obviously that's what
00:04:01.100 they went for and that's what they desired so that's what they will continue to desire and although they
00:04:06.460 would probably still love you they definitely wouldn't find you still as attractive that's just
00:04:11.660 that's just how it would be yeah i think that's just like a lot of i think that's like really
00:04:15.740 common sense that's really not present in today's generation because it's just like
00:04:21.020 it's unfair it's so selfish to just like that's like a guy getting a relationship with a girl
00:04:26.620 like oh you know what i'm gonna quit my job and i want you to take care of me
00:04:33.580 you guys encourage your partners just encourage them with food encourage them exercise why do we
00:04:39.740 have like for example yeah but he probably was encouraging her but she she literally gained
00:04:45.420 120 pounds that's a whole other human but they did it together it feels it seems like they it was
00:04:50.220 their couple goal it was like goals you know couple no no no they didn't she she got bigger and he didn't
00:04:56.140 get that much bigger yeah let's play it we play it again anyway you guys don't know the world of top
00:05:01.900 chasers as well i'm i am big so i can tell you the world of top chasers as well but we're talking about the
00:05:06.300 video like the key i know but again he probably likes big women no no come on he wouldn't have
00:05:11.740 then he would have married listen wait wait wait he would have married a big woman if you wanted a big
00:05:17.100 woman so i think it's one thing if you marry wait if you marry a chick and she's like over i don't know
00:05:23.020 what 200 pounds is here okay that's one thing but it's like if you sign up for one thing and then
00:05:29.100 she bamboozles you later you think that's fair just like if i marry a guy thinking he's gonna pay all the
00:05:34.700 bills and i'm gonna get to be a stay-at-home wife and that's what i thought and then one day he's
00:05:39.180 like you know what yeah i just don't feel like working anymore but i don't feel like being faithful
00:05:47.020 anymore i'm just gonna go fuck every girl i could find now or on her side too it just not be cool i
00:05:54.460 just think that you need to be because i think it's common sense when you get a relationship you're like
00:06:00.300 okay this is what i like so let's try to keep this going or make this better right and if it
00:06:09.580 goes both ways yeah and i think that i've i've been there i've been in a relationship and i've put on
00:06:15.180 weight in that relationship so i'm not just talking you know blindly i've gone up to 16 stone at my
00:06:21.260 heaviest so but i also know that as much as you try to put this body positivity on everything at the
00:06:27.900 particular at that particular point in my life i was very unhappy through a lot of reasons because
00:06:34.220 i knew that i wasn't the same person i was when my partner met me and i didn't feel confident in
00:06:39.180 myself but even though i've lost that weight i've still carried that with me so for the americans at
00:06:45.500 home i was calculating yeah 16 stone is 224 pounds you look great you look 220 pounds 59 like nearly 16
00:06:55.180 stone that's wow you look seriously but i know how i fit so as much as people used to say oh you look
00:07:01.420 good me personally for myself i didn't feel that way but you know i felt i i was like that my whole
00:07:08.780 life but i was just sick and tired of being unhappy i'm like do you know this world is so short yeah and
00:07:15.500 if you can get to that point without that then great but me personally it was just a massive thing
00:07:20.860 for me i couldn't get past it it's amazing how good you look now that's a key because a lot of the
00:07:24.940 majority of people they when they get that big they can't go back it's a large percentage of people
00:07:31.340 that yeah i was at my heaviest i was 19 stone that's more than 16 stone so that wow are you guys friends
00:07:41.980 yeah yeah you guys meet each other did you guys do it together yeah did you lose it together i i i
00:07:47.420 was literally the the fat kid that ate cake i was the food was my comfort it was it was everything to
00:07:53.420 me matilda yeah and and that's that's all i loved and it was an everyday thing but in my head in my mind
00:08:00.700 i was shifting the weight but the reality of it as i wasn't i wasn't motivated and there was nothing to work
00:08:06.380 toward um and i lived with that for most of my childhood i lived with that throughout my early
00:08:12.060 adult years um i i had children when i was young so obviously after having children um you've got the
00:08:19.100 baby weight that stayed on you and then you will have areas of your body then that um that you can't
00:08:25.900 cover up yeah you know that you can't hide um and so that kind of led me to then staying at home
00:08:32.540 um and then there's a cycle after that um where you know you you're at home you're socially excluded
00:08:40.940 from from from places and people um and then you tend to put yourself into a box uh a self-hate
00:08:48.220 then um because whatever trauma that you actually had which got you there starts to manifest as you
00:08:54.620 get older and when you look at the people around you when you look at how people respond to you
00:08:59.500 um you're constantly battling yourself and it is self um and and for me i had to heal first i had
00:09:07.100 to first figure out what was the trauma yeah where's the problem um and with that you don't even know
00:09:13.740 where to begin because you don't know what the problem is um then you have to soul search you have
00:09:18.620 to look who you've got around you you don't have to look at your parents um how you grew up your school
00:09:24.380 days um and all of that you have to calculate and sometimes you are the problem sometimes the way
00:09:30.300 that you've behaved is a problem however the way that you've behaved isn't necessarily because you've
00:09:35.660 wanted to be that way but you was trying to be something that you was not in the first instance
00:09:40.700 so for me once i discovered all of that um and i and i shifted to to some weight and got to a healthy
00:09:47.580 weight i then chose for me to have surgery that was that was the gift to myself so after i'd healed
00:09:55.500 and i'd recognized where the trauma came from and i dealt with that trauma
00:09:59.340 my gift to myself then was to have surgery what kind of surgery i had a tummy tuck good for you i've
00:10:05.020 had liposuction