Feminism DESTROYED Modern Women
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In this episode, we discuss the dangers of women in the modern society and how they are influenced by social media, social media and the culture. We also discuss the difference between women and men in the 21st century.
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this um this prince charming fairy tale like i don't i don't understand where it's come from
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because it's not something because we're consumers okay so and we are probably one
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of the biggest consumers so we consume a lot of things we consume and women are one of the
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biggest consumers and debt consumers yeah 70 we spend more even though we make less we make 70
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to 80 percent of consumer buying decisions so roughly 10k less so i've always said never
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underestimate the ability to sell a woman a dream i would like women get sold dreams on a daily
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basis like they watch um the kardashians they watch jay-z and beyonce they watch sierra they watch
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rihanna and they continuously dream because he was saying in that clip right about hafiz was saying
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about oh one percent and there's a 99 and it's like for me he was having very um female talking points
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if i'm totally honest yeah i like when you mentioned patrick but david that's someone
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that obviously that i follow on social media and obviously i like the way he's set up and he talks
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about how he came from obviously iran and coming american doing all the different things and his
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family unit so i understand what you guys are saying about how danger is for men but i i'm just still
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talking from a point of where i have okay so in my friendship group minimum amount of people that
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are married but the ones that are the ones that are their relationships are strong and you can see
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why they they're married and obviously they've got their kids together and the family and then but
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the ones that haven't the amount of dysfunction already that is there it's like it is that was
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there even before before anything else so when i'm looking at what i see personally um so would you
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would you on looking at that clip would you be on do you think you'd be on the side of hafiz or
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coach greg adam no so um hafiz he was was the one talking about patrick david and that talking about
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still he was the one in the suit yeah he was the one advocating yeah yeah yeah so here you'd be
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yeah because i i just i know it's a risk everything that you guys say it makes sense like i'm not
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stupid like it all makes sense but at some point i'm still willing to put that risk up like i could
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be one of those people that could be saying later on i'm like oh man don't do what i did i was foolish
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but at the same time i would still say i put that risk out and i went out there because what i've seen in
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my life what happens for having a strong family unit and a good woman in your life in actual fact
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you do way more coming from my sisters being those types of women coming from my mom being that type
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of woman how old are your sisters uh this my younger sister is 33 and then they go up go off from that
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age yeah yeah so um like growing up from what i've seen of my sisters and obviously not just my sisters
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my family like the ones around and like yeah i've seen more dysfunction in people that haven't been
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being married and and i also think it's the type of girl that you marry as well right there's some
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girls that that's what they were saying yeah so i think there's some girls that marrying is a come
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up for them like it's a it's a dream you know like it was so far away from them for for out of their
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league and then you've picked them and you're chosen to get married and you're chosen to yeah but you
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can't you can't find a girl that's not going to be influenced by the culture no and so you can't
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you can't take away social media you can't take away tv you can't take away
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no any of that i'm not saying to take it away but i'm just saying end of the day is like a lot of
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so like i'm saying women are a roll of the dice like women women women are master manipulator in
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general no i'm not i'm not disputing that and so the men i i think the men in this society are less
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manipulated by the social media they're less manipulated by hollywood women are addicted to
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social media men are addicted to video games right exactly like we'll complain always on video games
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yeah what's your screen time yeah and so if if men are being influenced generally by computer games
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and women are being influenced generally by social media and they both come together right
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my thing is online gaming no but my thing is when the tradition when we we speak about traditional
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relationships you know i mean we have these shows we but if the generations are not even both of them
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both men and women are not even looking to be traditional like the men are i've always said
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men have lost their purpose young boys are engrossed in computer games young women are engrossed in
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social media and corn yeah computer games and corn that's what young men are engrossing women are
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engrossed in um social media and corn also as a matter of fact right so what happens when you come
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together this is why i'm talking about nutritional um our traditional relationships dead because i don't think
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either side understand what it is to be in a traditional relationship i'm curious from
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youtube what did you guys think of the clip i don't really have much to say about the clip because i
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was listening to it but not fully like it wasn't i wasn't really focused okay okay what about you
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it's the same here to be honest yeah so uh so are you guys on your phones yeah
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social media yeah see there you go social media it's like the point no no
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there you like are you pro-marriage like are you pro-marriage or
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you're pro-marriage you'd want to get married one day yes but it's just not something that's in my
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thought right now like i've got many years to go until i think about marriage why how are you 22
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why would you say many years because i just feel like i'm not where i want to be in life like i'm not
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where i want to be in life so i need to work on myself get to that position and then i can more
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focus on men but right now men it's not my main focus okay i've got things that i need to do i'm
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not where i need to be in life yet so if you if you were to get a man do you think that you'd know
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what a man wants in a woman yeah which is because obviously i'd be dating doesn't mean that i want
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to get into a relationship no but just at this moment do you think you know what men want from a
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woman right now yeah not everything but most things what name some stuff name name three
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things that you think men want from women someone that's family orientated someone that's ambitious
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and there's someone who knows to show love and affection is that a good enough answer for you
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no i'm just saying like um a lot of the time when women speak the reason i'm asking these questions
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is it was quite probing is because a lot of time women think they know what men want and they actually
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don't like men don't care if you're they don't care if you're ambitious i promise to god they don't
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care what i'm telling you i'm very ambitious i work i work very hard like i put this whole podcast
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they don't give a shit yeah but listen there's no way you can struggle to get a man like what's wrong
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with you nothing so so oh no so so so what you're doing is yeah you're you're you're judging women
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you're judging men how you look at but we don't actually so we don't care about if you're ambitious you
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care for man's ambitious yeah for us you have an ambition doesn't doesn't make it what we care
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it's like a shoe collection so we care if a guy has a shoe collection you don't care
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right yeah so that's that's what it is to men like our work we care about how you look we care
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about loyalty um femininity and low low body count that's these are things that most men okay can
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i just say something about the low body count why do you care so much about a woman's body count
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because you men you can be like 20 and your body counts at 50 and you might get a good girl that's
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only that only has a body count of two and what like what are you because because historically men
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had to ensure paternity it's like we can't we have biological reasons for the for the reasons we
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feel the way we feel like women like muscles and we like tall men because we want a guy to protect us
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right but men like a girl that hasn't slept around because um they could ensure paternity historically
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because we didn't have paternity tests in the old days but so they can't undo that gut feeling they get
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when they like they know you said you say why does low body count matter have you watched the maury show
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yes yeah right so you can't ask a man like when you've seen that in real time why do we prefer a
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low body count a woman who probably has more of a high body count is more likely like you said to have a
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child that is not ours right so that is our that is that is men's worst fear one of men's worst
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fears is a child coming into the world and we us believing that child is ours and it's not or or
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or it also signifies loyalty right like okay would you say what do you think women fall in love through
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like how do women fall in love would you say personality well me i do do you do you think women
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fall in love through sex come on like do you think like the best the best sex you've ever had
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did you ever go back um no never no never so i'll say why body can't see thinking about it
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but but the point is like like the more guys you've been with like the more like like i don't know
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there's just more problems so like there's more you're more likely to cheat so so the reason the
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reason you're 22 right and you want to know why body count so i'll give you a bit of information and
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you should say no i'm going to give you a bit of information about body count i'm not asking you
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for your body i'm going to tell you why body counts important but you sorry to cut your channel but you
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said you don't understand why men do you think body count matters yes i think it does oh you do okay
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okay i think it matters but i think a man shouldn't really care too much about a woman's body
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but you care because no because nine times out of ten your body count is higher than hers anyway so
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like why do you care okay so let me no that's not true so let's so let me explain it right in order
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for me to get sex in order for um sarah to get sex we need to have some type of value about us we need
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to be able to have something present i just walk out on the street baby i'm not like you man i mean i
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wish i could be like you man i'm lying i'm lying so that includes having um finance being good looking
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being six four being basically having um six or two i'm sorry six six deuce baby basically having
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all the things that women find attractive right in order for us to sleep with high quality women
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or any women in actual fact um in order for you three women here to sleep with a man all you have to
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do is basically say i want to sleep with you and there'll be men that will want to sleep with you
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so in order for you to sleep with 100 men and and me to sleep with 100 women is completely different
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you can literally do this and this is why a lot of the times women think that men are having so much
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sex because they equated to what they can get but that's not the truth of the matter the truth of
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the matter is i'm gonna have to take a girl out i'm gonna have to three dates i'm gonna have to do
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all these types of things in order to have sex but all you have to do is say i want to have sex
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and a man will have sex and that wait i think can i just say right like there's two women here right
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yeah that are in i'm gonna use this as an analogy there's two women here and you got hoodies on
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right women can walk out on the street you women can walk out the street and just hoodies
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and even your bonnet right and you can still and you can still garner attention from it you
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men will still be like yo no it's actually shocking it's actually shocking but the thing is
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men don't get that they don't get afforded that if a man walks out looking quote unquote bummy
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no one don't give a damn do you get what i'm saying but women can women can be mothers of five
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children and go on a school run right in their in their pajamas and men will still holler yeah
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men do not get afforded that same thing one in three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in
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the past year yeah so it's not the most men aren't really getting laid like that i think that it goes
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back to what we were saying earlier about what we see until we get told these things that you know
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body count i think when more people accept that men and women are built differently we are just we
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are completely we're built differently genetically the way you guys just get up and kind of put it in
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anywhere we know as women sorry you know what i'm saying no wait you know what i'm saying it's easy to
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just do to do that as a woman if you're doing that like that you kind of have to look at you sideways
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because it's a different experience for us though that we experience it is different and i think for ages
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i used to get all funny about the body count thing because i think oh yes nasty but not saying that
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i want to be with somebody that has had a million bodies would you mean it's not nasty under what the
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man said no yeah that's what i'm saying i used to be like oh man's got too many bodies yeah but now i
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know how men i have three brothers yeah so the way men operate is different as a woman when you're
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accepting of that you see things differently but you know i say to you women don't want a man without
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sexual experience that's the only that's the thing same thing so would you want a virgin exactly i'm
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saying so the fact i would so the fact that right but the thing is that's the difference between men
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and women yeah that's it yeah men want a woman who has a lower body count and would prefer to teach
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her yeah right what sex is women want a man to come to them and know her body right and a man and a man
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can't know your body unless he's had sexual experience see when you come with that got got 3000 we're
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like we're enjoying it but we're like where did you learn that from at the end of the day you're
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supposed to learn no but this is the thing no one no one because we're enjoying it we're like damn
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but we're like damn where did she learn how many guys and then your brain starts doing the whole
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thing so for us men we don't prioritize sexual experience as anything in actual fact the less
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sexual experience you have the better for us we don't look at we don't look at you as sex as being
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something as a selling point for women they think they is but we don't for men you actually look at it
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it's like i want a man that knows what what to do but for us we don't actually want that so a lot
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of the times when we're trying to speech we're trying to say that whoever's told you this it's
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a fallacy it's a lie like men don't do not prize sexual experience when we're looking for women we
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look at femininity we look at loyalty we look at low body count some of these other things um obviously
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like um family family oriented but not once have we ever said you know what i want to know know what
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i had head techniques like but there's a flip side to me go on let me hear it we know that
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there's a there's a reason why men go to strip clubs yeah right there's a reason why men indulge
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in corn right to such so interesting sorry to this degree it's because they fantasize about these
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women that can do all of these things right we do we fantasize about the women that can do all of
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these things but then when we go into our relationship we don't want a woman like that
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because that's going to be our wife but there's that there's that okay if a woman can show you
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sexual experience and she can show you all of these things we get turned on this turned on by
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it so there is literally there's a there's a bit of a dichotomy there with men and and i think i
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think a lot of women struggle to understand that so we understand it as men no i fully like like i
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fully hear what you're saying and you're right and i've heard women say oh but why do you guys like
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these like all these girls pictures on instagram yeah yeah you're looking at you're looking at one night
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versus a lifetime exactly so if you want to be the girl for what there's so many girls like the
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girl for one night you know like they don't get the ring they don't get the life they don't get
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none of these things they just get the one night they get the they get the champagne bottles they
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get the sparklers they get their back blown out and that's it they might even get a bag from one of
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these guys they don't get anything other than that and at some point even those girls want something
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more you know i'm trying to say to you so i think a lot of the times you're just looking at things
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from a different from a different angle and that's why i agree with you a lot but men we just want these
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things for now not for a lifetime and you what would you rather be a girl for now or go for the
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lifetime so i've always said to women like do you think that you can differentiate attention from men
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like do you understand when a guy is looking at you and it's giving you attention because he wants to
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you basically or can you differentiate it when a guy wants to actually make you his long-term partner
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that i think a lot of women i think a lot but i think a lot of women struggle with that like they
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struggle with differentiating between that type of attention especially depending on the setting
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and stuff as well yeah and yeah i know that i agree and so what happens is because it is attention
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and women like attention they think a lot of the guys that are trying to pursue them which is why a
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lot of women think oh i can back this type of guy because blah blah blah no he will show you attention
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because he wants to you but he's not showing you the attention because he wants to be of you long term
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and so a lot of women have had attention from guys who are of that top percentage and they
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think oh i can bag me that guy it's like no but he will you and that is a hard pill to swallow for a
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lot of women they don't get that they're the woman that guys just want to and they
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don't want to have a long-term relationship with do you know what i mean like there's a lot of
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comment do you think there's someone for everyone what i said there's someone for everyone
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how how how how when women make up 55 of the population yeah there's more of us than there
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yeah but yeah choices i genuinely think someone's got to be the hookers
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someone's got to do it by sheer numbers the world's oldest profession someone's got to do it
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hell by sheer numbers i would never want someone i love to do it but but someone will and someone's
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gotta but what you say there's by sheer numbers someone's gonna have to share a man yeah because
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just if you paired everybody up one one with each other there's gonna be how many millions of women
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on the sideline like yo but what about me question for the ladies you you have a guy six feet six figures
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six inches would you share him they want more than six inches yeah i'd share him you'd share yeah
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i'd share him with how many just one other like what if it was like oh two as long as i'm honest
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like living in the mansion yeah you know got the kids driving the bentley yeah i'm happy like see no
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evil here no evil most people are actually doing that now anyways it's not it's nothing new yeah so
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then that goes back to the traditional relationship are they dead so you're saying as a woman you'd be
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you'd be like okay cool i can share it man that's not a traditional relationship no but i would argue
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that probably yeah way back yeah i would argue yeah i would argue like sorry that's it is a little
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but even if they didn't like what pearl used to say like they had you know they had whole families
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across the road like they didn't back in the day so they just wasn't so it only only 40 of um
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men have reproduced historically or it's either 40 or 60 i can't remember off the top of my head but
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there's a good portion of men that have not reproduced there's a reason why i'm asking this because
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are polygynous and polygamy i actually think those are traditional relationships that human
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beings have engaged in since i think i think for a small percentage yeah i don't think like
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by and large pull it like that makes sense for societies but i think it does make sense for the
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small percentage i think i think the western world came in if you there's a book called um out of edom
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by a guy called um uh robert barash and he he and in that he shows that the majority of
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humans whether you go to asia middle east africa prior to the coming of like the western type of
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relationship they were living in some kind of polygamous or polygynous type relationship and so
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if this new um if this new type of one man and one woman even though if you look at it biblically
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there were certain people in the bible that had more than one do you know what i mean if it's new
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is it correct but sarah like how many how many people share baby fathers now that's what i'm trying
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to say like and they will actively know let's see me personally if a girl's got if girls got a kid i don't
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touch her like that's just me personally i don't i don't date with more kids i'm not going to be the
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step i just know i just don't do that that's something i won't do um so what do you mean for
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long term you mean oh well at this stage i know you had sex with a woman who's got children no no no
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let's be honest no no so that's not dating like what what like if you want to get your back you
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wouldn't touch her that's why i was like you know what i'm saying i'm like no no okay okay okay let me um
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let me reiterate right and still now i wouldn't touch now i wouldn't touch her because i have like
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i just i don't once once i hear a kid i leave that for the guys with the kids and the you know
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i mean i'm sick i don't have any kids so why am i going to entertain a woman right okay and that's
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and that's my thing and and that's my thing but if a woman had a child there's no way i'll be saying
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by another man that you know i'm going to give you another child but women will happily have a baby
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with a guy that they know has got a baby mother two other baby mothers and a guy that left his
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woman already like or left are like like there's difference between a lot of a lot of times man
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just have babies with girls and just keep it moving because it's in that top 20 yeah but then
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you will still go and do that so women always share baby fathers and that because one guy will have
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one but that's why women are always fighting with other women over the man yeah so that polygamy thing
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they do it whether or not they they do it like consciously they accept it when they say you know
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what you've got a kid i'm going to chat to you the moment a man says to you he's got a kid you're
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supposed to tell him to move on i don't deal with you but you women will still chat to him the moment
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you still chat to him it's the moment you agree with it me personally you got a kid now that that's
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never going to happen because i know i'm not going to be a step there that's so you're saying people
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with children should deal with people with children people without children to do people without
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children yeah like see blending family that's all good like if you got if i got a kid you got a kid
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we get together you know i mean brady bunch whatever you want to call it but personally if i come out
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single i hate being out in an in in single environments and meeting people with kids because i'm like
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where's your like why are you listen i don't i don't disagree i i think you know i i think
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everyone should set their own standard yeah do you know i mean like if you don't want to do like if
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women don't want to deal with me because i've got a child so they're gonna they're gonna want to
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no but here's the thing they're gonna want to deal with you that's the and and this is the real thing
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in real life right a lot of the times i don't know your situation i don't know if they they're full
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time with you um but a lot of times is is my co-parent okay there's no benefits as many of you know i was just
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