Feminist Claims That Being A Traditional Woman Is BORING
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a modern woman and a traditional woman, and the pros and cons of being a modern and traditional woman. Do you want a modern man or a traditional man? Are you a modern or traditional woman?
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feel like being traditional is boring like as women i feel like we're constantly being told how
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to be all the time like you have to be like this you have to do this like this is you a feminist
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are you a feminist yeah i guess so like okay okay i'm not i'm not on any one side i'm i'm just
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i think i'm here today to just learn right so do you now think because being a what what is
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boring in being a traditional woman like the whole idea of like staying at home and cooking and like
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looking after the kids like do you think you only think that way because you're exposed to so much
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more you know there's more that you can do okay yes like that's why i said it sorry darling go ahead
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so can i ask the women here do you classify yourself as a modern or a traditional woman
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i think i contrast between both i think most everyone does both yeah i would love to be a
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traditional woman but i don't have that option because maybe i've made decisions or i've gone
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through certain things in life that now i may be deemed by the likes of you guys i'm no longer
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traditional i feel like you can go through periods as well like when you're younger you might be like
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non-traditional and as you get older you start to learn okay maybe there's some value in being
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a bit but that's the whole point yeah decrease in value yeah like the whole point is like girls
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want to sleep around in their 20s and then at 30 run to a man and like but you've lost the things
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you that men value by the time you're 30 you're no longer pure you're no longer youthful and so
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men are kind of tired of it because what happens is they'll date the bad boys the rappers whatever
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in their 20s and then they hit 30 one guy thinks like this is his lucky ticket this girl's super
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into him but she just wants kids and like she really feels like she's settled for him she gets the
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kids and then half the time leaves yeah can i be can i ask the ladies a question in the room do you
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want a traditional man when i say traditional man i mean the kind because if you're going it depends
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how far back you want to go but we're talking like he tells you it's his rules in his house
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right so it's kind of like you utterly submit to him right yeah he's paying the bills he's protecting
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all of those things but like there are pros of being traditional yeah but there's the other side of
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the coin that you have to accept as well so i guess i'm asking do you want do you guys want a
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traditional man so if i'm if i'm honest if i'm honest i think i could have been with that when i
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was younger so when i when i if my ex-husband if he treated me like that he would have got he we
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would be living like that and it would have been fine because we got married young and everything
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and that's all i knew but now that um i've had to grind i've had to go through struggles and stuff
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i've had to put myself in certain situations it will it will take a lot for me to decide to get
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into that i think i'd want a mixture yeah like my husband i think he is a mixture in terms of
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obviously his his word is final but he lets me do what i want to do there's no restriction
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on that on on me so i'm still thinking that's traditional okay i don't think restriction is
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necessarily like if your husband said um like say say they wanted to go somewhere and he said
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no i don't think you should go would you say um i'd ask
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i'd ask i'd ask why and if it was like if he said babe like because he's he's in the security world
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so he's one as when he says risk i sit down and this is what i say sometimes when because me and
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omatoyasi we if i call omatoyasi and she's got a man i say we're going out she says i'm not coming
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i'll be like cool or even if she and this is why so when some people say that um you shouldn't be
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friends who with people who are single because they're bad influenced i don't believe that because
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you see my married friends they can never call me to tell me that we're going to the club together
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i'm not going to no club with you what are you doing there yeah you're an exception though
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no but there's a lot of girls that are like that most girls want their friends to be single so
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they this is why i don't think there's anything wrong with asking your single friend to go to
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never take advice from women because a girl will want to put you in the same situation she's in how
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many girls will get his friends will get a man and they'll be like oh he's taking you away from me
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i agree with i agree with you because i i i mean i think girls have fomo like naturally
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like if if most girls if you see all your friends are going to something you're going to want to go
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and if your dude doesn't want you to go like i've seen it cause problems if i'm happy in my marriage
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if i'm happy listen you guys have fun i'm gonna be my man but in any relationship there's going to
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be times where you're not yeah but and and yeah sorry i keep interrupting sorry sorry no but i'm saying
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so like in any relationship there's going to be times when you're not and i think sometimes like when
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the rubber hits the road like the single friends aren't the best influence and i'm not saying all
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the time but i'd say by and large you wouldn't say most women are probably bad influences on their
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on their married friends i would never tell my friend to leave her husband or do anything that
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will impact her marriage if she's doing something that's wrong i'm gonna tell it it's regardless i'm
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single or not because i think as you get older and you get exposed maybe because we're in the podcast
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world and you have different discussions you realize that look everybody is here for their
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individual things like we didn't come into this world together and we're definitely not going to
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leave together so you have to respect if you love your friend that much you will embrace and make
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sure what they've got going on is as successful as possible if you mean that you're the exception in
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it i genuinely think you are an exception i feel like i think you're like that though no no yeah because
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when we when i'm going through my issues and whatever you is to ride it out yeah i know but
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there's some like that's like talking to you one-on-one okay personal situation i'm saying
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like for example as a single person if my married friend was having issues in her marriage i'm like
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come out with me like let's go do something like let's go to the club to get your mind up with
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things but subconsciously it's a it's not a good influence yeah but you'll be the same person after
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after she's had the fun you'll be the same person to sit her down and tell where she went wrong
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i've seen you do it so many times should i tell you what i i think a big part of it like i i agree
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i think i think if a woman feels that the man that she is with is the top man in the sub she feels like
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she won with him right then i think she's like you know what now i don't feel like i need to i don't
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feel like i'm missing out because i knew how hard it was to find a man yeah but i think if a girl
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is or if a woman is with a man that she feels like she's settled for
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then she can almost see the opportunity of going out and still being able to fish
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but what's the reason for going out then going out and just find
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attention why can't you just go out just to enjoy yourself but i feel women settle all the time
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do you think women would go to clubs do women do women settle or do they get what they can get
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like to me that's the same thing yeah but i'm saying i'm not getting what i want
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i'm getting what i can get so it's a settle to me right but i wouldn't say you're settling if you
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okay if you go to the store and you're worth five dollars and you're bought for five dollars
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you might you might have like you know seen seen a ten dollar product at some point i think it's like
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imagine if you're going to go to uni and you're like oh this is no despair for anyone here but it's
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like oh um i'm going to reading uni like i'm setting him for ready and i want to go to oxford
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it's like okay well did you get into oxford no well then you didn't settle for ready that was the
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best choice for you because we're all selfish by design and this is what happens when the man
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that's a 10 bangs a girl that's a three then you call us deluded because we think we can get a man
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that's a 10. you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this
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