Feminist Claims That She Is A Wife Material
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss what a good wife does when it comes to sex with her husband and what a bad one does when she doesn t want to have sex with him. We discuss the pros and cons of not sleeping with your husband and how to deal with a wife who doesn't want sex with their husband.
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i have a question i i would say if i'm still looking after him and doing all the things that
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a wife should do but yeah i just gained a few pounds or whatever i said a hundred
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yeah i'm still looking after him he can't say nothing i'm still a good wife
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all right i mean they're the same person like does it change other than their weight look at
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piers bros brosman is that his name his wife the old james bond his wife was stunning when they
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were young and now if you look at her she's gained a lot of weight and he told them he was like i
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didn't fall in love with her because of the way she looked he was like i fell in love with her soul
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yeah yeah i think that sounds like i don't know why men cap you he would not have approached her
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come on like they sell us this fairy tale you know i'm not saying that she can't provide other things
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but that action all right can we just sorry that action is that a good wife i didn't talk about her
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cooking i didn't talk about if you don't care in the media as well like if you don't care and
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there's no backline issue to why you've done that no it's a bad way yeah it's a because if you don't
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care and you've gone you should love me the way i am if that's how it was in the beginning then
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that's why maybe i'm coming across a bit strong she was oh she was real who said they're real she's
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the realist so far okay okay next one on my list all right if you refuse to have sex with your
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husband good wife or bad wife bad okay thank you thank you good for bad refused yeah i'm gonna
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say i need context yeah like i i have no idea what that means i think i think in a stereotypical
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sense is what she's saying when a woman refuses is because there's an emotional disconnect or
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there's something that's seriously gone wrong then should you still should you still be married then
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or should you've got married and first that one i mean no but i mean i have a question do good
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wives put their feelings above what's best for the family yeah oh it's me well i don't i don't feel
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right so let me just not sleep with my husband because of the way i feel is that a good wife my
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feelings before everybody else's i mean as long as you express that to your partner and he's okay with
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that no i don't have to be open okay i just i just don't have a question i'm just just yeah
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are you guys okay oh with with having do you think most men would be okay with having a wife that
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does not have sex with them no no okay no i think it would be a problem okay yeah okay okay so because
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you guys were like well maybe if i explained to him why i'm not is there a reason they could give you
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you're like you know what i'm super happy to just not have sex i think that would be rubbing salt
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into the wound to be honest i think that might make it worse if she's trying to justify it it's
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like because the problem is what the guy's given you is his commitment he's given you his commitment
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i'm not going to sleep with anyone else and then he's and then if you're also not having sex with
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him then obviously that's going to leave him in a deficit hit yeah but there's obviously a reason
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but it depends yeah it really has to depend what that reason is for example if she's with like an
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abusive man but that's that's a completely that's one of those extremities that we're talking about
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this is stereotypical i just have a question why do we keep going to the extreme when we're talking
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about the norm i think she's looking at stereotypical terms because women only refuse the intimacy if
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there is a problem no i say that because women use it sometimes as a weapon we do yeah yeah i don't
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think that's okay yeah that's not okay but she's probably using it as a weapon because there is a
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valid reason but could she be not wanting to be intimate with him because just because the butterflies
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are gone just because she's like no see that's wrong you're sure yeah that's wrong i mean like
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something really like oh you mean it's wrong if she does that but why do you guys okay yeah why don't
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keep adding things to avoid the actual question is not sleeping if you're a good wife if you refuse
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to sleep with your husband that is the question it's not if you're an abusive relate if that that
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that it's just are you a good wife if you won't have sex with your husband without the extremities
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i think is what she's trying to say okay that's so confusing to me i'm trying to put my my i'll tell
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you so i have a friend he's a 20 year divorce attorney he says it's very common that women get the two
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kids they want and they just stop sleeping with the husband they got what they want okay no that's wrong
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and and a lot of times it's not for a really good reason as women we have stupid like it depends
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where we are in our cycle we're crazy come on you've never gotten mad at your boyfriend where
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for something stupid yes all the time and like every day you don't think good wives know that you
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know we can be crazy we can be emotional so we put the family before us feelings yeah yeah yeah anyone
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disagree with that no okay okay so good wives have sex even when they don't want to yes or no
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she's fighting it it's hard because i don't agree with it
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so yeah i'll say yeah yeah whatever you guys are saying
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yeah but i i it depends on what kind of time of frame you're like time frame that you're talking
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about if you just mean in general yeah they should even if you're not feeling totally up to it but you
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haven't had it in a while it's a respect thing like you're married to them give like i would want
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the same for them so yeah back and forth in it but if there was some in it underline
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but yeah yeah i think if if it's a just you know it's a back and forth in it like you have to
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i have another question okay how many meals if we're talking to a student the best wives
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how many meals should a good wife cook for her husband a day a good a student
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yeah how many meals there's three meals lunch and dinner
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don't what would you say that a good husband pays a hundred percent of the bills a plus husband
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i think his money is our money my money is my money
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okay do good wives look at their money as the family money or as their own money
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like where does this where does this mean like you don't think that's a selfish mentality
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no if i if i if i can't be a's in everything it's all right
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yeah so like um if my husband has money and i have money like it's for the family
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yeah i'm gonna i'm not gonna spend it i'm probably gonna invest it in my kids
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i'll maybe have like 20 for me to go get my hairs done
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and can i can i in return he gets one meal a day
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all right he gets two he gets lunch and dinner but breakfast is off the cards i wake up late
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would you just spend it yourself or you would you
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you know you see something that he really likes you're like you know what i'm gonna get this one
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no honestly if i'm making that type of money i will buy him his favorite watch