JustPearlyThings - Feminist Claims That She Is A Wife Material

00:00:00.000 i have a question i i would say if i'm still looking after him and doing all the things that

00:00:05.560 a wife should do but yeah i just gained a few pounds or whatever i said a hundred 1.00

00:00:09.540 yeah i'm still looking after him he can't say nothing i'm still a good wife

00:00:14.140 all right i mean they're the same person like does it change other than their weight look at

00:00:20.720 piers bros brosman is that his name his wife the old james bond his wife was stunning when they

00:00:27.120 were young and now if you look at her she's gained a lot of weight and he told them he was like i

00:00:31.740 didn't fall in love with her because of the way she looked he was like i fell in love with her soul

00:00:34.980 yeah yeah i think that sounds like i don't know why men cap you he would not have approached her

00:00:39.820 come on like they sell us this fairy tale you know i'm not saying that she can't provide other things

00:00:46.420 but that action all right can we just sorry that action is that a good wife i didn't talk about her 1.00

00:00:52.180 cooking i didn't talk about if you don't care in the media as well like if you don't care and

00:00:56.780 there's no backline issue to why you've done that no it's a bad way yeah it's a because if you don't

00:01:03.040 care and you've gone you should love me the way i am if that's how it was in the beginning then

00:01:07.140 that's why maybe i'm coming across a bit strong she was oh she was real who said they're real she's

00:01:12.560 the realist so far okay okay next one on my list all right if you refuse to have sex with your 0.89

00:01:19.880 husband good wife or bad wife bad okay thank you thank you good for bad refused yeah i'm gonna

00:01:29.020 say i need context yeah like i i have no idea what that means i think i think in a stereotypical

00:01:36.200 sense is what she's saying when a woman refuses is because there's an emotional disconnect or

00:01:40.160 there's something that's seriously gone wrong then should you still should you still be married then

00:01:44.680 or should you've got married and first that one i mean no but i mean i have a question do good

00:01:50.800 wives put their feelings above what's best for the family yeah oh it's me well i don't i don't feel

00:01:57.080 right so let me just not sleep with my husband because of the way i feel is that a good wife my 1.00

00:02:04.560 feelings before everybody else's i mean as long as you express that to your partner and he's okay with

00:02:09.980 that no i don't have to be open okay i just i just don't have a question i'm just just yeah

00:02:15.320 are you guys okay oh with with having do you think most men would be okay with having a wife that

00:02:24.260 does not have sex with them no no okay no i think it would be a problem okay yeah okay okay so because

00:02:31.400 you guys were like well maybe if i explained to him why i'm not is there a reason they could give you

00:02:35.880 you're like you know what i'm super happy to just not have sex i think that would be rubbing salt 0.60

00:02:41.420 into the wound to be honest i think that might make it worse if she's trying to justify it it's

00:02:45.320 like because the problem is what the guy's given you is his commitment he's given you his commitment

00:02:49.080 i'm not going to sleep with anyone else and then he's and then if you're also not having sex with 0.97

00:02:53.620 him then obviously that's going to leave him in a deficit hit yeah but there's obviously a reason

00:02:58.220 but it depends yeah it really has to depend what that reason is for example if she's with like an

00:03:04.700 abusive man but that's that's a completely that's one of those extremities that we're talking about

00:03:09.560 this is stereotypical i just have a question why do we keep going to the extreme when we're talking

00:03:13.440 about the norm i think she's looking at stereotypical terms because women only refuse the intimacy if 1.00

00:03:20.900 there is a problem no i say that because women use it sometimes as a weapon we do yeah yeah i don't 0.96

00:03:28.240 think that's okay yeah that's not okay but she's probably using it as a weapon because there is a

00:03:32.880 valid reason but could she be not wanting to be intimate with him because just because the butterflies

00:03:37.280 are gone just because she's like no see that's wrong you're sure yeah that's wrong i mean like

00:03:42.160 something really like oh you mean it's wrong if she does that but why do you guys okay yeah why don't

00:03:46.660 keep adding things to avoid the actual question is not sleeping if you're a good wife if you refuse

00:03:52.000 to sleep with your husband that is the question it's not if you're an abusive relate if that that

00:03:56.640 that it's just are you a good wife if you won't have sex with your husband without the extremities 0.82

00:04:01.020 i think is what she's trying to say okay that's so confusing to me i'm trying to put my my i'll tell

00:04:06.040 you so i have a friend he's a 20 year divorce attorney he says it's very common that women get the two

00:04:11.060 kids they want and they just stop sleeping with the husband they got what they want okay no that's wrong 0.95

00:04:14.640 and and a lot of times it's not for a really good reason as women we have stupid like it depends 1.00

00:04:20.320 where we are in our cycle we're crazy come on you've never gotten mad at your boyfriend where

00:04:26.680 for something stupid yes all the time and like every day you don't think good wives know that you 1.00

00:04:33.840 know we can be crazy we can be emotional so we put the family before us feelings yeah yeah yeah anyone

00:04:42.260 disagree with that no okay okay so good wives have sex even when they don't want to yes or no 1.00

00:04:48.140 i think that's a connection

00:04:49.760 i don't know

00:04:53.040 yeah

00:04:54.520 yes

00:04:57.260 yes

00:04:57.900 yes she she doesn't she's fighting it

00:05:01.780 she's fighting it it's hard because i don't agree with it

00:05:05.420 so yeah i'll say yeah yeah whatever you guys are saying

00:05:08.800 yeah but i i it depends on what kind of time of frame you're like time frame that you're talking

00:05:18.320 about if you just mean in general yeah they should even if you're not feeling totally up to it but you

00:05:26.140 haven't had it in a while it's a respect thing like you're married to them give like i would want

00:05:32.280 the same for them so yeah back and forth in it but if there was some in it underline

00:05:37.660 i know irish would have we got a london slang

00:05:41.280 love that

00:05:42.000 but yeah yeah i think if if it's a just you know it's a back and forth in it like you have to

00:05:50.080 i have another question okay how many meals if we're talking to a student the best wives 0.97

00:05:58.040 how many meals should a good wife cook for her husband a day a good a student 0.99

00:06:04.880 no how many

00:06:06.820 one

00:06:08.620 no that's an a

00:06:10.240 okay what about you

00:06:12.000 one

00:06:12.640 one that's an a student okay i'm gonna say two

00:06:15.600 that's okay that's an a a okay

00:06:18.000 how many meals

00:06:19.560 yeah how many meals there's three meals lunch and dinner

00:06:22.140 yeah how many meals snacks

00:06:23.860 you're actually getting up for breakfast

00:06:27.520 you're gonna

00:06:28.360 oh are you

00:06:29.800 sometimes um

00:06:31.340 uh i'm gonna say one and a half like

00:06:35.040 you do the prep he does the cook

00:06:39.220 yeah

00:06:39.600 all right what about you

00:06:40.600 um i quite like cooking so i do three

00:06:43.780 three good wife okay 0.99

00:06:44.880 don't what would you say that a good husband pays a hundred percent of the bills a plus husband 0.97

00:06:51.100 no

00:06:54.140 no

00:06:54.700 a plus

00:06:55.260 like like this is the the ideal

00:06:57.100 like again we're always i'm talking about

00:06:58.980 ideal

00:06:59.240 ideal

00:07:00.060 i don't think you should pay for everything

00:07:02.300 like

00:07:02.620 no

00:07:02.880 okay

00:07:03.420 i think his money is our money my money is my money

00:07:07.580 and his money is your money

00:07:09.400 i like you

00:07:10.080 high five

00:07:10.580 oh no

00:07:11.520 i'm sorry but i found it that's way

00:07:14.620 okay do good wives look at their money as the family money or as their own money 1.00

00:07:20.060 the a plus wives 0.87

00:07:22.860 family

00:07:23.500 family

00:07:24.000 yeah

00:07:24.540 like where does this where does this mean like you don't think that's a selfish mentality

00:07:29.280 it is

00:07:29.880 yeah

00:07:30.100 it is

00:07:30.760 no if i if i if i can't be a's in everything it's all right

00:07:34.100 yeah so like um if my husband has money and i have money like it's for the family

00:07:40.920 okay

00:07:41.740 basically

00:07:42.680 if i've answered that

00:07:43.920 and you you high-fived her why why

00:07:46.100 why

00:07:46.680 um

00:07:48.220 because i kind of agree with that

00:07:51.060 like yeah like my money is my money

00:07:53.180 he knows that i can do what i want with that

00:07:55.920 obviously because i'm a good wife 0.98

00:07:57.900 i am gonna invest that in

00:07:59.480 yeah i'm gonna i'm not gonna spend it i'm probably gonna invest it in my kids

00:08:02.600 i'll maybe have like 20 for me to go get my hairs done

00:08:06.000 i gotta look good for my man

00:08:07.720 you know

00:08:08.180 of course

00:08:08.640 so would you

00:08:09.220 and can i can i in return he gets one meal a day

00:08:12.380 he gets two for me

00:08:14.600 two for me

00:08:15.000 he's gonna have to buy the food as well

00:08:16.820 he gets one meal a day

00:08:18.280 all right he gets two he gets lunch and dinner but breakfast is off the cards i wake up late

00:08:22.760 so would you spoil your man

00:08:25.500 would you spoil your man

00:08:26.660 yeah

00:08:26.940 because you said that your money's your own so

00:08:28.540 would you just spend it yourself or you would you

00:08:30.400 no i'm gonna spoil my man

00:08:32.400 spoil my man

00:08:33.160 what do you mean like special occasions

00:08:34.780 with your money

00:08:34.920 i just mean on a random

00:08:37.200 i valentize that

00:08:37.980 you know you see something that he really likes you're like you know what i'm gonna get this one

00:08:41.040 yeah

00:08:41.540 with my money

00:08:42.680 are you gonna are you gonna buy him let's say

00:08:44.400 what's an expensive watch

00:08:46.460 buy him a nice watch

00:08:47.580 listen

00:08:48.320 no honestly if i'm making that type of money i will buy him his favorite watch

JustPearlyThings - June 07, 2023

Feminist Claims That She Is A Wife Material

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