JustPearlyThings - April 11, 2023


Feminist DEFENDS what HER VALUES


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Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

195.09737

Word count

1,613

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

13

sentences flagged

Hate speech

11

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the value of a woman in the modern dating world and how to determine what your value is in the eyes of a man. We also discuss what a woman should look for in a man and what a man should not look for a woman.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 question for you how do you determine what your value is right i told you i told you a woman for 0.84
00:00:05.500 me is an independent woman who can stand by his own can pay her bills he has the maturity to
00:00:11.480 understand even when is the right time to have a children because everyone can have a child
00:00:16.620 anytime just you know and then it's also about how we have our you know we kind of parent we are
00:00:23.980 so it's not just about having eggs because honestly i prefer a woman that stay without 1.00
00:00:28.180 children instead that someone that doesn't deal properly so question who is that valuable to
00:00:33.440 what you just listed who is that valuable to you mean who for who yeah who is that valuable to
00:00:39.740 what you just myself i don't care about other people's opinion okay so i i need to like that's
00:00:46.340 just two people that i should like worry about god and myself not about other men you don't know about
00:00:54.740 no no no no what should i care about what men want okay okay i'll finish your line of question
00:01:02.580 okay so so i just want to clarify so you don't care what men want and and the way you determine 1.00
00:01:09.580 your value is what you say yeah isn't that a bit narcissistic no it's not because you only care
00:01:15.720 about yourself and not what anyone else wants no listen the point i didn't say it just about myself
00:01:20.640 just about the people that actually is in in my small circle which is different because when
00:01:26.280 someone comes inside my circles they actually understand my value i don't need to explain to
00:01:30.920 them so that's the point the other point obviously i don't i don't give a shit about any 0.86
00:01:36.900 not offense but really about people that is not in my small circle so like okay i'm not vulnerable
00:01:44.760 okay cool like peace like i'm gonna come back to my life i'm gonna go to work tomorrow i'm gonna
00:01:50.420 keep paying my bills and you know what i mean like okay like you want a man so you you basically turn
00:01:55.900 into the like this is what girls do though like women turn into the men they want to marry so if 0.95
00:02:00.260 you're looking for a guy like all the things you i'm not looking for a guy no no no i know you're not
00:02:04.300 i'm saying but like typically i'm saying in general i don't know you personally but i'm saying in
00:02:08.980 general when women become the men they want to marry so they become all the things that like men want 0.97
00:02:12.920 because what she just described that's the man like that's a man i would date but it's not what
00:02:16.200 women it's not what men want like a guy that's independent that pays his bills like like gets 0.95
00:02:21.200 the back i'm like sign me up but to a man that's like that's that's a red flag you said men don't
00:02:26.520 care what a woman about her career yeah that's what i said so then if she's making money getting her 1.00
00:02:31.600 bag whatever whatever a man wouldn't care no no no they don't care so then her value so then a man 1.00
00:02:37.760 will approach her then a man will want her a man because walk into tesco and see an attractive 1.00
00:02:44.180 girl at the till i agree he wants to change her life a woman will not walk into tesco see an
00:02:50.940 attractive man that's what you think i i get that i agree but i honestly that's that's not the totality
00:02:57.400 it's not the totality i had i've been in relationship with men that honestly
00:03:01.360 less than me they had absolutely nothing and where are they now what does it mean that i like
00:03:08.680 what about other other men that are six foot and they i don't know they billionaire they anyway
00:03:14.120 got like you know if you if you meet a billionaire you're dating a billionaire you fumble the bag
00:03:19.620 listen i actually i actually like comparing i probably had more relationship with people that
00:03:26.840 you know are less rich than someone that i probably didn't give a chance i didn't give a
00:03:32.660 chance to them wait so it's not so you've dated like broke guys is what you're saying i had some
00:03:37.380 not broken but broke they don't they don't i wasn't checking them back out honestly i'm not doing
00:03:43.440 it still now do you think you attract feminine guys because you're more masculine uh no i wouldn't 0.98
00:03:49.520 say feminine honestly just people with balls which is different it's not about being yeah it's not 0.90
00:03:55.020 about being feminine it's about be very confident because when you're standing next to me because
00:03:59.760 i think i'm tough i got strong personality you need both honestly why someone else who prefer a young
00:04:06.260 lady who doesn't work who can be manipulated and can be you know control because you are the strong 1.00
00:04:12.160 in the relationship i need a man it doesn't really is a partnership like we are together we strong in
00:04:18.300 the same way when a man is looking for a younger lady which is virgin who doesn't work it probably 1.00
00:04:23.280 are less than me it's because they need to feel like they are the strongest one they controlling
00:04:29.020 they controlling they they taking the power in the relationship you're just deciding what you
00:04:35.980 believe men no that's my point of view yeah yeah i'm not deciding i'm expressing my point of view as
00:04:42.860 you know you're deciding what you said i'm not deciding you are you said men go for younger
00:04:48.700 women because they feel they're gonna control them and manipulate them what if what if what if men said 1.00
00:04:53.920 that about women they'd be looking so stupid if they're like like women like rich guys because they 1.00
00:04:58.120 want to manipulate and control them people be like that's a cope you just need to go make money
00:05:02.060 and it's the same thing when women say things like that to men like you're shaming them
00:05:05.600 shame guilt like this is like the common tactics are shame guilt insult wait shame guilt shame insult
00:05:11.900 guilt and need to be right yeah no i'm not need to that's the point guys you have like you work
00:05:17.100 like you're walking like a horse you don't see like on the left and the right yes because i are
00:05:23.040 setting your point of view by you saying that i want to control your own man's point of view
00:05:28.440 are you telling the room how they experienced you i never said that sorry i'm saying you're telling
00:05:36.480 the room how they experienced you no no you you're telling me if more than one person if more than one
00:05:42.420 person in the room no you guys are saying like how a man should look at me no i never said your name
00:05:48.820 i don't i don't know what you do no honestly when i say to me i'm saying to women because i belong to
00:05:55.020 the actually i don't know if you guys realize but yeah i'm a girl so the category of win women
00:06:01.560 now me myself so if you belong to women yes and we're talking about what men want from women
00:06:08.120 you then take yourself out of belonging to women to say what you are no you you've been doing that
00:06:14.360 no i just i'm standing you just said yeah i belong to women right and the discussions we're having
00:06:21.040 is what men want from women sorry when you represent the totality of men in this world 0.99
00:06:26.600 come out do you represent the totality of men in this world insult guilt need to be right
00:06:31.820 no i'm the statistics i'm no need to be right i'm no need to be right like which statistic because
00:06:38.720 like it's based on what like honestly speaking all day the majority of there are i could i could i
00:06:45.700 let's say let's say the statistics the statistic is right and you come out with the best number ever
00:06:51.880 okay let's let's say that okay cool so the majority of men think like you right all right cool i'm
00:06:58.640 affecting that you prefer at 20 years old women i just don't give a shit is it clear like i don't 1.00
00:07:04.840 give a shit so you can prefer go out with a 20 years old girl have child married uh whatever you 0.79
00:07:11.760 wish i hope you do i hope you do kid i hope you do i'm accepting go get that 20 year old
00:07:18.060 you know i'm accepting it right cool i just don't give a shit that's fine as you don't give a shit 0.96
00:07:24.060 about what i think so why you cannot just say okay this is just a different point of view as i'm
00:07:29.620 accepting your point of view that's cool that's cool for me like you're quite you're quite angry for
00:07:36.720 being cool no i'm not no love you can't just get confused between have energy and then get
00:07:42.660 i'm pretty energetic i know it doesn't seem like i think i'd be you know i just want to like um
00:07:48.400 community trying to communicate my point which is different i'm not angry to you or like to anyone
00:07:53.840 else just my point i want to make it clear because i think i've been invited for this reason
00:07:58.540 that's the point i'm not angry at all like honestly speaking okay all right cool good good it's passionate
00:08:06.120 yeah there you go i'm just italian guys give me food and conversation i can
00:08:12.340 love that okay are men or women