Housewife are in HIGH DEMAND
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the lack of women wanting to become wives, what women should look for in a potential wife, and why it's so hard to find a good one. We also discuss what it means to be a good wife and what it takes to become one.
Transcript
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for you why do you think there's a shortage of um wives i think i don't i i think they're uh
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jeopardizing their chances to be wives but i think there's a lot of potential husbands
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but you could also make the argument there's shortage of both because they're being turned
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off because does that make sense because of the law yeah yeah and so yeah but i think more women
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are jeopardizing their uh potential to be wives but but i think there's loads of potential husbands
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who can actually get into the husband role like they could be but it's just they don't have the
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right girl to become that exactly what what mistakes do you see girls make that takes them
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out of the running to be wives um i don't know i just want to if i could just simply say it well
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if they're if they could easily get sucked into things like feminism like you know overall yeah
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i know people say oh but there's this type of feminism you know i think we could all agree that
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all this like men are trash and all that stuff that's probably the biggest mistake if you can
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if you can allow that in you know in your mindset and think that that's okay that's probably the
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biggest one that turns men off because you can even just say that's that that's enough because
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in feminism they say you don't have to do this he could just accept you the way you are you don't
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have to do anything you just have to exist and going back to the actual topic of what we're talking
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about the bar is set very just ridiculously high for men to the point where i i used i think that
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they deliberately do that to take the piss it's just so high it's unattainable but for women i feel
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like there is no but it doesn't even exist so you can see that you see the girls on my 300 pound life
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with a man is that monthly i haven't even seen that i personally i personally think that the problem
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these days in modern culture whatever you want to call it is that people is actually focusing on the
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wrong things so these girls are talking about and i think there was recently these guys who came in and
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said they're high value men and they wear flashy stuff they act you know a certain way and i can
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tell you that a high value woman the ones that you actually the good ones that you want as a wife
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they're not going to say yes to that guy because they're going to see him and be like oh he's so
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insecure he needs to drive a lambo in order to feel slightly slightly better about himself slightly
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because guess what big under all those cologne nice shirts whatever gucci bells whatever you want to
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call it it's a very insecure person who needs that physical reassurement because guess what the the real
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men the real value men they don't wear anything flashy you don't even know they have money that's the
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beauty they wear same t-shirt every day and they're the true men with the values they're the ones who
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they're dangerous they they know their stuff and if they want to inflict danger they know but the
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beauty about them is that they have that that that everything's under control so if anyone wants to
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mess with them you know you're gonna get burned but because they're so in control and in their king
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energy they they they the girls know that he is a good person to be with because he can protect me but
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he also will respect me and love me so i think yeah sorry paul um so quick question um this is just
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from the chat um have you had a bdsm relationship personally me no but it's something that you saw
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50 shades of gray and you're like sign me up no no sign me up can i just put it out there that 50 shades
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of gray is the worst depiction of bdsm there is okay ever it is it is a completely wrong and that is an
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abusive relationship that is not bdsm that is not a relationship every woman fancy what's the guy's
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name because i know they was all reading the book on the train oh mr gray yeah it's the same thing
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girls like the handmaid's tale this is the thing like so girls are attracted to they're that's the
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thing they're confused what they want is the healthy relationship the king who is you can tell he can
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inflict you know trauma and real real real real things like he can protect his family he can protect
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his people but he controls it he's in control of himself these girls are fooled because they don't
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we sometimes when you're young and you don't know better you're fooled by these girls you know girls
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intuition we're not fooled let's not use that language because it's not correct women women's
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intuition is so freaking i'm not saying we're not we're not we're not like that that's like when we
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say words like fooled it's implying that we don't know what we're doing and that it's a cop-out for
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women it's like oh we're fooled by the flashy stuff come on okay i'm not trying to say that i'm not trying
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to say that everyone's like that but from personal experience i i was i i was i am a person who fell for
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someone who i thought was a king he tried you didn't see a single red flag because i would i
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didn't know how to see it you didn't okay this is the thing i was young i'm just being like i'm just
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being real with you it just sounds like excuses no no no i of course i believe you yeah and actually
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for the longest time i noticed that i attracted the same type of guys men that unfortunately didn't
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think about me it was all about them it wasn't about me and and and you know what i realized that
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what what's the constant here me yeah that's the one thing that hasn't changed so why am i getting
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the same experiences so rather than try to say that it's their fault i looked at myself and i said
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what am i not what am i missing right how long did it take you to get there though like what age did
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you start looking at yourself because that's what i encourage all my female friends to just look at
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themselves and see the problems within themselves before they start pointing a finger yeah look you should
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start start whenever i mean the thing is is that like i was always a bit late in dating scene
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anyways like my first and only boyfriend was when i was 22 i was with him for two years i honestly
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thought this was someone i was going to marry that's how serious i was but guess what he was a narcissist
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he gaslighted me all the time his whole family was was he diagnosed um he's very self-centered and
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everything was about but he was never diagnosed because okay because again this in a way is an
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excuse like with that women use because if he hasn't seen a therapist and he hasn't been
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professionally diagnosed you can't diagnose him as a narcissist i think it's difficult because i
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know it's not it's not it's not difficult you know it's like if he if he's not hasn't been
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diagnosed as a narcissist we can't just go around calling people narcissists so i'm gonna say
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narcissistic traits what that means is that a person is coming across a certain way but they're not
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diagnosed i apologize if anyone takes offense to that i think i want to answer pearl's question
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um with regards to what are the mistakes women make um in becoming a wife so i think personally
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today's women think that identifying with feminism is a good long-term strategy and it's clearly not
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because as you said men appreciate youth men appreciate fertility so i think the biggest problem
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feminism for me is that feminism encourages independence right and in today's society
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for females independence means in my opinion incredibly promiscuous so they end up sleeping
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with multiple guys figuring to do the same thing as men because ultimately independence me you can do
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what you want right by yourself but it's clearly not working out for anyone i mean suppose all the
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statistics about i mean what age are women getting married now what age are women having kids now
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like it's not working out for women at all so go ahead can i mention that that video i mean
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is it a big deal like what they were mentioning they're exaggerating like the light thing like come on
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i i i that's what i was like what if he was like let me just try to guess like if anything it's more
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yeah like the point is that girls make every sob story out of everything
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i don't understand why that's a subs i'm sorry i might be a bit slow but i genuinely don't understand
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but you see the men you see the men enabling them too yeah because the men are the men are saying
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oh like all you have to do is be nice to a girl
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but it's funny because the girl the second guy the girl was just using like she was using for
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attention he walked away after the date and then she wanted the attention got a set like got another
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date out of him and then i was like eh this is where we have to speak about men a bit this is where
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we have to speak about men a bit because i think men i think there's a lot of delusional men too as
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much as um this probably the only bit i'll stick out for me so i might as well get out of the way now
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um i've seen men in just just going out night clubs and such i've seen men get upset when they
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can't get the baddest girl in the club and i'm looking at them thinking like what do you what
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are you what what's what are you like are you an average looking dude for starters do you have swag
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do you have money and you're upset that you can't get the baddest girl in a club like
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it's like yeah there's a lot of delusional men too i can't just throw it all on women i've seen