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00:00:00.000 for you why do you think there's a shortage of um wives i think i don't i i think they're uh 1.00

00:00:07.780 jeopardizing their chances to be wives but i think there's a lot of potential husbands 0.81

00:00:11.800 but you could also make the argument there's shortage of both because they're being turned

00:00:16.860 off because does that make sense because of the law yeah yeah and so yeah but i think more women 1.00

00:00:23.320 are jeopardizing their uh potential to be wives but but i think there's loads of potential husbands 1.00

00:00:28.160 who can actually get into the husband role like they could be but it's just they don't have the

00:00:32.920 right girl to become that exactly what what mistakes do you see girls make that takes them

00:00:38.720 out of the running to be wives um i don't know i just want to if i could just simply say it well

00:00:46.200 if they're if they could easily get sucked into things like feminism like you know overall yeah 1.00

00:00:52.640 i know people say oh but there's this type of feminism you know i think we could all agree that 1.00

00:00:57.820 all this like men are trash and all that stuff that's probably the biggest mistake if you can 0.77

00:01:04.120 if you can allow that in you know in your mindset and think that that's okay that's probably the 0.97

00:01:12.500 biggest one that turns men off because you can even just say that's that that's enough because

00:01:18.880 in feminism they say you don't have to do this he could just accept you the way you are you don't 1.00

00:01:23.040 have to do anything you just have to exist and going back to the actual topic of what we're talking

00:01:27.300 about the bar is set very just ridiculously high for men to the point where i i used i think that

00:01:34.340 they deliberately do that to take the piss it's just so high it's unattainable but for women i feel

00:01:40.880 like there is no but it doesn't even exist so you can see that you see the girls on my 300 pound life 0.59

00:01:47.340 with a man is that monthly i haven't even seen that i personally i personally think that the problem

00:01:57.240 these days in modern culture whatever you want to call it is that people is actually focusing on the

00:02:02.940 wrong things so these girls are talking about and i think there was recently these guys who came in and

00:02:07.960 said they're high value men and they wear flashy stuff they act you know a certain way and i can

00:02:17.660 tell you that a high value woman the ones that you actually the good ones that you want as a wife 1.00

00:02:23.060 they're not going to say yes to that guy because they're going to see him and be like oh he's so

00:02:27.840 insecure he needs to drive a lambo in order to feel slightly slightly better about himself slightly

00:02:34.840 because guess what big under all those cologne nice shirts whatever gucci bells whatever you want to

00:02:42.260 call it it's a very insecure person who needs that physical reassurement because guess what the the real

00:02:51.100 men the real value men they don't wear anything flashy you don't even know they have money that's the

00:02:57.120 beauty they wear same t-shirt every day and they're the true men with the values they're the ones who

00:03:02.700 they're dangerous they they know their stuff and if they want to inflict danger they know but the

00:03:07.680 beauty about them is that they have that that that everything's under control so if anyone wants to

00:03:13.480 mess with them you know you're gonna get burned but because they're so in control and in their king

00:03:18.460 energy they they they the girls know that he is a good person to be with because he can protect me but

00:03:26.300 he also will respect me and love me so i think yeah sorry paul um so quick question um this is just

00:03:32.080 from the chat um have you had a bdsm relationship personally me no but it's something that you saw

00:03:40.560 50 shades of gray and you're like sign me up no no sign me up can i just put it out there that 50 shades

00:03:45.920 of gray is the worst depiction of bdsm there is okay ever it is it is a completely wrong and that is an

00:03:52.580 abusive relationship that is not bdsm that is not a relationship every woman fancy what's the guy's 1.00

00:03:58.520 name because i know they was all reading the book on the train oh mr gray yeah it's the same thing

00:04:02.140 girls like the handmaid's tale this is the thing like so girls are attracted to they're that's the 1.00

00:04:09.140 thing they're confused what they want is the healthy relationship the king who is you can tell he can

00:04:15.820 inflict you know trauma and real real real real things like he can protect his family he can protect

00:04:23.140 his people but he controls it he's in control of himself these girls are fooled because they don't 0.92

00:04:29.960 we sometimes when you're young and you don't know better you're fooled by these girls you know girls

00:04:34.420 intuition we're not fooled let's not use that language because it's not correct women women's 1.00

00:04:39.060 intuition is so freaking i'm not saying we're not we're not we're not like that that's like when we

00:04:44.060 say words like fooled it's implying that we don't know what we're doing and that it's a cop-out for

00:04:49.560 women it's like oh we're fooled by the flashy stuff come on okay i'm not trying to say that i'm not trying

00:04:54.160 to say that everyone's like that but from personal experience i i was i i was i am a person who fell for

00:05:02.140 someone who i thought was a king he tried you didn't see a single red flag because i would i

00:05:09.400 didn't know how to see it you didn't okay this is the thing i was young i'm just being like i'm just

00:05:13.360 being real with you it just sounds like excuses no no no i of course i believe you yeah and actually

00:05:18.680 for the longest time i noticed that i attracted the same type of guys men that unfortunately didn't

00:05:24.960 think about me it was all about them it wasn't about me and and and you know what i realized that

00:05:30.040 what what's the constant here me yeah that's the one thing that hasn't changed so why am i getting

00:05:35.720 the same experiences so rather than try to say that it's their fault i looked at myself and i said

00:05:42.380 what am i not what am i missing right how long did it take you to get there though like what age did

00:05:48.320 you start looking at yourself because that's what i encourage all my female friends to just look at 1.00

00:05:51.860 themselves and see the problems within themselves before they start pointing a finger yeah look you should

00:05:57.100 start start whenever i mean the thing is is that like i was always a bit late in dating scene

00:06:01.340 anyways like my first and only boyfriend was when i was 22 i was with him for two years i honestly

00:06:07.720 thought this was someone i was going to marry that's how serious i was but guess what he was a narcissist

00:06:12.700 he gaslighted me all the time his whole family was was he diagnosed um he's very self-centered and

00:06:20.960 everything was about but he was never diagnosed because okay because again this in a way is an

00:06:26.660 excuse like with that women use because if he hasn't seen a therapist and he hasn't been

00:06:30.540 professionally diagnosed you can't diagnose him as a narcissist i think it's difficult because i

00:06:34.860 know it's not it's not it's not difficult you know it's like if he if he's not hasn't been

00:06:39.100 diagnosed as a narcissist we can't just go around calling people narcissists so i'm gonna say

00:06:43.800 narcissistic traits what that means is that a person is coming across a certain way but they're not

00:06:47.920 diagnosed i apologize if anyone takes offense to that i think i want to answer pearl's question

00:06:52.440 um with regards to what are the mistakes women make um in becoming a wife so i think personally

00:06:59.940 today's women think that identifying with feminism is a good long-term strategy and it's clearly not 1.00

00:07:08.640 because as you said men appreciate youth men appreciate fertility so i think the biggest problem

00:07:15.520 feminism for me is that feminism encourages independence right and in today's society 1.00

00:07:22.900 for females independence means in my opinion incredibly promiscuous so they end up sleeping 1.00

00:07:29.380 with multiple guys figuring to do the same thing as men because ultimately independence me you can do

00:07:34.040 what you want right by yourself but it's clearly not working out for anyone i mean suppose all the

00:07:40.920 statistics about i mean what age are women getting married now what age are women having kids now

00:07:46.780 like it's not working out for women at all so go ahead can i mention that that video i mean 1.00

00:07:52.160 is it a big deal like what they were mentioning they're exaggerating like the light thing like come on

00:08:00.860 i i i that's what i was like what if he was like let me just try to guess like if anything it's more

00:08:06.040 concentrated so yeah this is the issue

00:08:08.280 yeah like the point is that girls make every sob story out of everything 1.00

00:08:15.240 i don't understand why that's a subs i'm sorry i might be a bit slow but i genuinely don't understand

00:08:19.840 but you see the men you see the men enabling them too yeah because the men are the men are saying

00:08:25.100 oh like all you have to do is be nice to a girl

00:08:27.360 but it's funny because the girl the second guy the girl was just using like she was using for

00:08:33.360 attention he walked away after the date and then she wanted the attention got a set like got another 0.89

00:08:37.860 date out of him and then i was like eh this is where we have to speak about men a bit this is where

00:08:43.000 we have to speak about men a bit because i think men i think there's a lot of delusional men too as

00:08:49.240 much as um this probably the only bit i'll stick out for me so i might as well get out of the way now

00:08:52.580 um i've seen men in just just going out night clubs and such i've seen men get upset when they

00:09:00.240 can't get the baddest girl in the club and i'm looking at them thinking like what do you what

00:09:04.520 are you what what's what are you like are you an average looking dude for starters do you have swag

00:09:08.660 do you have money and you're upset that you can't get the baddest girl in a club like 0.86

00:09:12.840 it's like yeah there's a lot of delusional men too i can't just throw it all on women i've seen

JustPearlyThings - April 12, 2023

Housewife are in HIGH DEMAND

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