JustPearlyThings - Feminist Gets SCHOOLED by This Trad Wife on Family.

00:00:00.000 with me okay I'm like a man I don't do you do you think so I'm just just

00:00:04.000 curious if you ended up not getting married would you regret that decision

00:00:07.980 okay so I'd rather live my life my life happily than with a man unhappily and

00:00:12.480 settling for less because again regardless if you're a man or woman you deserve a 0.97

00:00:15.420 certain you know certain I don't I think you kind of get what you deserve yeah

00:00:19.520 yeah I don't yeah I don't think there's like you deserve anything yeah you get

00:00:23.580 what do you do with so you're 32 and you want to be married as soon as possible

00:00:28.200 do you want kids I want yes okay how many kids do you want depends whatever

00:00:34.200 will come my way okay do you feel like pressure being 32 and not married um no

00:00:40.440 again I I feel the same amount of pressure my parents I did when I was 22 I think

00:00:44.700 my parents come from a generation where they think that you should be 16 married

00:00:48.120 with the kids and move on okay whereas again it's a generational thing and how

00:00:51.780 would you feel if you never got married I'm okay with it okay you're you're fine

00:00:55.200 what's your what's your plan for the second half of your life I can wing it

00:01:01.200 right days it comes because not every day is guaranteed right but you still you

00:01:06.940 need 2.5 million to retire are you on track for that no no absolutely not most

00:01:12.240 so people in this generation I know I know but so my question is more like what

00:01:17.320 happens because like let's say someday the government might stop giving people

00:01:21.960 free money at some point I'm not I'm not saying you did but I'm saying a lot of

00:01:28.480 women are on track to because we're not making enough and we're not going to be 1.00

00:01:32.980 able to work like we used to work so like you're gonna be like because a lot of us

00:01:38.040 make money off of beauty and we don't realize that so it's like you're gonna be

00:01:41.820 65 it's a Walmart greeter oh you can work in a call center it doesn't matter if 1.00

00:01:46.220 you fuck ugly or not you can work in a call center it makes no difference we know 0.97

00:01:50.060 you can work at a call center my point is that these aren't typically desirable 1.00

00:01:54.140 high-income jobs but you don't have to have that you don't not every person spies

00:01:58.380 to have 10 million pound in the bank some people know my point is I think you

00:02:02.700 underestimate how difficult it's going to be to work full-time at an old age what if

00:02:07.880 you get cancer what if you're sick you know especially like with the choices and the

00:02:13.700 food and the water like a lot of us are going to have health issues right so you

00:02:18.600 know what happens if the government doesn't bail us out again if you and my my general

00:02:24.160 consensus is no one has a real plan if you don't have a choice if you don't have a

00:02:27.800 plan you just get out and work if that's your only option you get out and work if

00:02:31.740 that's the only way you go to make money why would you not do it well I I think

00:02:35.320 there's going to be a lot of women that are homeless or men know why would men 0.99

00:02:40.420 not have the same kind of issues women well the difference is the difference is 1.00

00:02:46.140 like women get don't typically or women always typically get bailed out so 1.00

00:02:51.820 there's always a woman's shelter or benefits you can get if you get divorced 1.00

00:02:55.060 you can take his money and my question is what would happen if the system

00:02:58.600 changed where men typically have to face reality there's no men shelters waiting to

00:03:03.020 bail them out some men are on benefits but it's not the majority it's the

00:03:07.040 majority women on benefits so my question is one day if the government 0.88

00:03:12.080 stops bailing us out if men stop bailing us out and we can't make money on beauty 0.97

00:03:16.500 like we used to what are we gonna do look and the thing is women are so 1.00

00:03:22.200 readily they are so ready to take on that risk of doing life on their own with

00:03:28.400 all these crazy things you said but they wouldn't take that risk with a man that's

00:03:32.120 crazy to me that's actually tapped like it's it's like putting the car before

00:03:37.280 the horse it's like you're not even thinking about and it's like you said

00:03:41.240 women don't like a lot of men don't think about the future they think about now

00:03:46.340 and what's happening right around them especially these young ones they think

00:03:49.220 oh I'm beautiful I'm always gonna be beautiful the reality is you might say

00:03:53.540 that now but you actually don't know what your 30s is gonna be like you don't

00:03:57.080 know what you're gonna look like when you're 30 you don't know what you're

00:03:59.280 gonna look like when you're 35 you might be getting all the attention from men

00:04:02.460 now you actually don't know how soon that's gonna change you you're believing

00:04:06.840 that it's gonna stay long enough for you to monetize and do this or that you

00:04:10.740 don't even know if you're gonna fall sick tomorrow and you're not going to be

00:04:13.500 able to do only fans anymore you you have no idea of these things but you would

00:04:16.980 still you're still willing to take that risk on your own done to actually look for a

00:04:21.400 man and take and do life with him if you lived your whole life in fear of you

00:04:26.200 know what's gonna happen tomorrow then you may as well I mean it doesn't have to

00:04:30.220 be fear but it you know maybe I think us women would benefit more with a little 0.97

00:04:35.200 bit of planning I'll give you I'll give you I'll give you an example okay oh this

00:04:39.960 kind of has to do with that you know I think my life probably wouldn't have been

00:04:43.520 better if I didn't chase I chased a volleyball career for like my early 20s and 0.95

00:04:47.740 it's stupid it doesn't even make money you make like negative money playing 0.65

00:04:51.040 volleyball and you know I think in general women we could you know do a 1.00

00:04:55.120 little more planning in general um all right what when do you want to get

00:05:00.100 married uh when I meet somebody I'm in love with I came close to marrying somebody

00:05:10.540 okay what yeah and I was pretty heartbroken for a while so well I'm quite

00:05:15.220 anti-marriage and now I'm kind of what what happened why didn't you marry him um

00:05:19.660 because well he was from Saudi Arabia so it was had quite different ideologies

00:05:27.100 slightly um about male and female roles I guess oh you didn't want to play your

00:05:35.920 role it's slightly different it's not really what's the what's the role of a

00:05:41.020 wife things that were um slightly different in uh what what marriages what 0.67

00:05:49.900 was what was I guess in I can understand that but I'm trying to understand like

00:05:54.640 what was different um I think it was probably on maybe sometimes on the other

00:06:03.100 extreme too much where females can't um have any voice or be able to do anything for 1.00

00:06:09.700 themselves at all what were you it was too much and what were you not allowed to do

00:06:13.660 I just it just wasn't right for me so I just don't I just I didn't see it working yeah as

00:06:23.860 opposed to the western ideology no the thing is that there was well you do realize that in the

00:06:30.640 west women actually like it's actually the reverse yeah what you're talking about in Saudi 1.00

00:06:35.680 Arabia and the west is the reverse so women it's completely different yeah yeah yeah yeah 1.00

00:06:39.640 yeah what the extremities are so so knowing that you guys had different values what made

00:06:44.620 you date him in the first place was he hot well no it wasn't it wasn't it's complex I don't know

00:06:50.320 it's not that complicated like what was it give me like three things that made you date him

00:06:55.240 your values were so different like what were you doing well I think some of our values were the same

00:07:02.380 okay so then why didn't you marry him because I wanted to have a bit more of my own life as well

00:07:11.300 like I didn't want to just be in the shadow of being just with a guy okay you don't think that's a plus

00:07:16.780 to be with a guy of course you're just saying it as a negative that's why I'm asking because it felt

00:07:23.100 like a negative yeah like you don't want to just be with a guy and that's that's your own existence

00:07:27.620 I just found that a little bit when you're married do you think your identity is supposed to be in

00:07:32.020 yourself or your family both you can have your own individual identity and be a have a family unit

00:07:40.460 okay do you think it works that way the more individual identity women have had the better 1.00

00:07:45.980 outcomes we've had I think it depends on how the levels of it you know you don't want to be like

00:07:53.820 the thing is when when you sometimes when couples get together you can be so too much about the

00:07:59.940 other person and then you lose yourself and you don't know your your own self that's a really like

00:08:04.000 feminine point of view because we hate when guys are too into us men like it yeah if they actually like 0.74

00:08:10.680 you they're into that they there's no you're too into me if you're hot enough if you're kind of ugly 0.98

00:08:16.360 they're not Beyonce did a number on women so women have this like with they think they want to be like 0.70

00:08:25.180 Beyonce where the man is important and the woman is important but if you look at the reality of the

00:08:29.320 world the kind of men you want go and look out your wives who knows like Lebron James wife look at 0.99

00:08:36.100 that look out the most important people with Christian Ronaldo look at the president nobody knows that

00:08:42.200 their wives they just know them as the first lady so the reality is if you want a certain kind of man 0.97

00:08:47.120 you're more than likely not going to be as important as him that's the fact yeah and I can speak on that

00:08:52.700 myself like being a married woman I think that there is this notion in society where women want to be at 0.87

00:08:57.620 the forefront women want to have the say they want to be able to control their men and for me like with 1.00

00:09:03.140 my husband he is the leader of our relationship he he leads he provides he protects and I I'm definitely the

00:09:11.060 fan he's a celebrity that's the dynamic that works and I think that that's what we are missing in our

00:09:15.980 society now because it's just like the women want to be at the they want all the attention like who is 1.00

00:09:20.780 it um Curry Steph Curry oh yeah came out and was like I don't get attention from guys and it's like

00:09:26.780 you're married to one of the most powerful like well-respected sportsmen and you're worried about why

00:09:32.000 people don't give you attention and like yes definitely I think we've been we've been told

00:09:43.880 that like we're so important for so long that we just have this propaganda saying that you shouldn't

00:09:48.620 lose anything in marriage and and the truth is important and the truth is you're supposed to lose

00:09:54.980 part of your identity you interrupt a lot you know I'm sorry I just I just I felt quite strongly about

00:10:00.560 I know what if you feel what if you you're told the opposite if you thought the opposite that you're

00:10:04.580 not important like that comes you're not that you're not that important I just don't understand why we

00:10:09.080 have this society where you're so special most people are average most people aren't that important

00:10:14.900 yeah um and I think the family's important I think that's what it's supposed to be the family's more

00:10:20.300 important than you as a whole yeah exactly and also like if you look at how a dynamic in a relationship

00:10:25.820 works if you're both trying to be the boss you're both trying to be the CEO you're both trying to take

00:10:30.500 control of the relationship and lead it there's going to be conflict like and then and there's

00:10:35.240 this notion with feminism now that a woman being under a man is something that's so detrimental to us 1.00

00:10:40.220 when actually having a man to to lead you and that doesn't mean that you're his slave like I think

00:10:46.160 this negative notion that feminism has has sold us is really sad because at the end of the day if you

00:10:51.380 choose a good partner if you vet a guy and you make sure that he is going to be a good leader he has all

00:10:56.000 the right qualities then you don't have to see yourself as second class like my husband's the leader but

00:11:01.200 we discuss things he comes to me for my opinion he respects me so so so so much the same way that I do

00:11:08.460 and it doesn't mean that I'm lesser than him it just means that I accept my role and I I nurture him I make

00:11:14.300 sure that I keep the house tidy I cook I clean I bake I do absolutely everything and I work as

00:11:19.340 well but I know that that's what makes our relationship work well and I'm not trying to

00:11:23.180 fight with him I'm not trying to be the leader I know he's the leader and that creates harmony in

00:11:27.800 our home I think that's beautiful like if you've got a healthy marriage in a healthy relationship I'm

00:11:32.840 all for it I think that's great I just don't think ours was that's why it wasn't but I'm just

00:11:38.000 saying now I'm still open to marriage just that one didn't work I'm curious who taught you that

00:11:43.040 uh he did really yeah I was actually a blue pill before oh my god yeah I used to what where was he

00:11:51.120 from yeah he's Nigerian oh okay yeah I was like over there I was like it can't be here you didn't learn that 0.81

00:11:59.420 yeah I mean he came here when he was seven yeah but he has you know he has his identity in his in his

00:12:06.200 Nigerian heritage but then also his British culture but I was very brainwashed by feminism

00:12:11.000 I believed in you know all of all the things that people tell us nowadays I loved Beyonce I was

00:12:18.020 completely Beyonce is a Beyonce says one thing and does another thing Beyonce tells women that they 0.97

00:12:24.500 should be independent get on to the next man or the single ladies she's married she settled down 1.00

00:12:30.200 with Jay-Z he cheated on her and she still stayed with him so clearly all of the feminist stuff that 1.00

00:12:35.000 she speaks about is not actually how she's living her life so she's keeping us for the for the

00:12:39.800 children though at the end of the day she's been an independent woman but she still stayed so her

00:12:45.680 family came first and her marriage came first so she's saying one thing and doing another and it's

00:12:50.420 contradicting if you know I mean it's just a song though would you stay with your man if he cheated on you

00:12:54.740 if we could work it out yes whatever you just said is why does he just go cheap why does it why is it 0.79

00:13:07.040 irrelevant because it's ridiculous because why should we be submissive to a man that's not even gonna care

00:13:12.620 about your feelings this is the thing like you you are saying that he's not caring about my feelings 0.73

00:13:17.960 obviously like you just didn't hear anything we said about the male biology about the sperm like I

00:13:22.880 live in reality so I know that something might happen and I'm not gonna let that break down my

00:13:27.660 entire life and my you know my entire relationship obviously we have to work on things we have to speak

00:13:32.540 about things but to me it's not the end of the world like Paul said it's not the end of the world but

00:13:37.220 do you expect it do I expect you expect it to happen because because you've given him all the

00:13:42.560 excuses yeah you expect it I'm just curious I'm just living in reality if it it's likely that it

00:13:47.840 would happen it doesn't it doesn't mean it doesn't mean she expects it it's not embarrassing I mean

00:13:54.020 you're a sugar baby you're just like okay my husband's allowed to cheat on me he's just listening

00:14:00.740 no she didn't say no she she didn't say he's allowed to work it out what at the end of the day 0.97

00:14:08.540 what's the point of the matter do you remember do you okay the vows richer for poor and sick

00:14:13.640 isn't the vows to be loyal though is that not one of the main vows no it's not there's no

00:14:18.500 what is the point of the vows then the point of the vow is you make a commitment what does red pill

00:14:24.920 blue pill mean so red pill is basically what pearl does so she talks about reality she talks about 0.79

00:14:31.600 men and women relationships and blue pill is like when everybody else just lives in delusion and they

00:14:36.400 think that men can sleep around like women sorry women can sleep around like men can men and women 0.78

00:14:41.800 are equal the gender pay gap all these lies that society has told us all the propaganda that's blue

00:14:47.240 pill and that's where most people live and then red pill is the truth and that's basically what

00:14:52.020 what am i then because like i don't really like you're purple you're blue you're the exception

00:14:57.020 no i think that delusion you're you're definitely blue we're like orange

00:15:02.020 bro bro what what you guys are just very immature and i was asking a serious question i think that

00:15:11.280 you're immature like okay whatever anyways i'm talking you just want the bbc you don't want a lawyer 0.99

00:15:17.120 don't tell me what i want and don't don't disrespect me don't disrespect my husband like just shut your 0.99

00:15:23.700 mouth who me oh sorry whoever said that whoever said you just want bbc you have no idea what a real 0.98

00:15:29.440 relationship is you just said you don't mind being cheated on love i said no don't misquote me i said

00:15:35.080 that i know the realities of men i know the biological realities and i'm not going to let it break down my

00:15:40.040 family if it were to happen so you're gonna let it happen i feel like it's just a free pass long word

00:15:45.740 don't be misunderstood it is a free pass really like she said she understands the reality of men

00:15:50.960 doesn't mean she didn't vet her man of course you're gonna be on her side mate

00:15:53.780 it's not about being on her side all the other girls you don't vet men before you sleep with them 1.00

00:15:57.720 doesn't mean that everyone does the same thing exactly but i do believe that if like a guy cheats it

00:16:02.380 is a little bit different like because they don't have feelings and stuff so that's the red pill

00:16:06.980 but then i also believe why are you pulling that face gosh it's like you just bit a lemon 0.97

00:16:11.180 because you because of what you just said because it's stupid what so it's different for a guy to 0.99

00:16:16.700 cheat men don't have feelings that's not true no i'm saying that it's different for a guy to cheat 1.00

00:16:20.940 because they don't they can just stick their dick in anything and like they can't like exactly so 0.98

00:16:25.400 then why break up a whole family over it but i don't care about that part what i'm saying but you 0.99

00:16:29.520 just call me stupid for saying that you said that men don't have feelings yeah they don't really have 1.00

00:16:33.240 feelings when they fuck girls because they can just fuck anything and just like so 1.00

00:16:36.960 but you're saying that if you're saying it's okay for your husband to cheat yeah but then you're saying 1.00

00:16:40.120 i never said it was okay for him to cheat but you are saying it's okay for you to cheat in reality

00:16:44.280 i i said that i understand i think she's saying she's met to be prepared 1.00

00:16:47.960 are you guys wait wait i'm just are you guys stupid or deaf 1.00

00:16:50.280 both 1.00

00:16:51.280 both

00:16:52.280 all right all right i'm gonna sorry what were you saying so i'm i'm gonna ask you is it okay for

00:16:58.080 your husband to cheat do you encourage it

00:16:59.960 no i don't okay but you'd let it happen

00:17:03.120 no 0.99

00:17:03.620 she's not telling him to go fucking do it 0.99

00:17:07.120 you would gosh 0.97

00:17:08.280 i think she'll be just more understanding should it happen is that what you're saying

00:17:12.660 saying she's giving him a free pass

00:17:14.120 no that's not what i'm saying i'm saying that i think that this notion of cheating

00:17:18.080 is just it's just a feminist ideology to break down the family because at the end of the day 1.00

00:17:24.100 back in the day people were polyamorous men had or polygamous anyway men had multiple wives 0.94

00:17:29.840 and if you go to saudi arabia and and and parts of africa and lots of parts in the world so it's

00:17:34.660 not the end of the world and if you live in reality you will know that and you'll probably

00:17:38.240 have a better life because you can just accept the reality and you're not going to let something 0.99

00:17:41.320 stupid like that break down your whole family that's my point 0.99

00:17:44.120 would you let him have another y bruh yeah so it's do you know what it's not about me 1.00

00:17:50.520 like you guys don't even listen anyway so i'm not even going to answer you i'm not even gonna 0.95

00:17:53.720 can't argue with stupid i mean so you know how you guys also say 0.98

00:18:01.560 um you also say like oh um you talk about like how women cheat more than men men cheat more than 0.99

00:18:08.280 women and like how nowadays like it's all changed back in the old days like we didn't even used to 1.00

00:18:13.960 have like mobile phones to communicate and like know that someone was cheating on us so like the

00:18:19.240 stats probably would have been a lot different back then had we have known because everything

00:18:23.640 everything gets posted on social media nowadays you go through people's phones you find them

00:18:27.560 cheating etc so how would you even i think i think we can have i think we can have some indication when 0.96

00:18:33.160 you look at pictures of today and you have wives dressed like whores and you look at pictures of a 1.00

00:18:38.680 hundred years ago and they're just because you wear a dress and just because you wear a skirt like 0.94

00:18:43.160 doesn't mean that you're you're more likely to like okay who do you think's more likely to be a

00:18:48.120 whore me the person wait wait wait wait that's not related to what i just said stop stop stop stop no no 0.99

00:18:55.960 no i didn't even finish the question who's more likely to be a whore someone dressed like a whore or 1.00

00:19:00.840 someone not dressed like a whore in general please well is she just like a whore okay right now but 1.00

00:19:08.040 you see these are these are the games women play because it's just like dave chapelle said if you 1.00

00:19:13.160 were walking down the street and someone robbed you and then you saw a man standing down the road

00:19:18.040 wearing a police uniform and you run up to him and we're like oh my god um excuse me officer can you

00:19:22.360 help me and he was like oh just because i'm dressed like a police officer doesn't make me a police officer 1.00

00:19:26.360 this is the stupid games that women play exactly just because yeah if you're dressed like a whore 1.00

00:19:31.240 and you and you and you claim you're not a whore it doesn't matter you're still going to be treated 1.00

00:19:36.360 like one that's why they say dress as you want to be addressed yes it's simple i don't really care 1.00

00:19:41.720 about that to be honest like if you want to get your tits out get your tits out what i'm trying to say 0.99

00:19:46.200 no what i'm trying to say is that back then we used to have to like call someone on our house phone 0.99

00:19:51.800 why are you taking your headphones off stop being rude like i'm talking do you know what i mean listen

00:19:55.640 to what i'm saying okay if i take the headphones off i can still hear you you know that right okay 0.89

00:19:59.320 good my mouth's big get over it you sound retarded anyways what i'm trying to say is that i sound 0.85

00:20:04.600 retarded for saying that okay anyway what i'm trying to say what is wrong with you i know you guys are 0.95

00:20:10.520 listening because you you like trying to because you don't want to hear what i'm saying because i'm

00:20:13.720 saying you're arguing with him let's let's i'm not arguing with anyone i'm saying all right we're

00:20:19.320 gonna let her i'm gonna give you the floor go ahead okay what i'm trying to say is that when like maybe like

00:20:25.160 i don't know how many years ago to meet up with someone you have to like call their house phone

00:20:29.880 and then go and meet up with the person so how would you even know if someone's cheating or whatever

00:20:34.920 like back then because you don't have the technology today to know like you have more technology now to

00:20:40.280 know that someone's cheating x and like it's just like these days and these stats like it just shows

00:20:46.200 that you wouldn't have known if someone was cheating on you back then like you would know now okay so you 0.87

00:20:50.920 think the women dressed like whores are just as i let you i let you talk i let you talk it's it's your 1.00

00:20:58.680 turn to listen all right so you think the women today dressed like whores cheat equally as much as 1.00

00:21:05.080 the women a hundred years ago not dressed like whores that got married about a decade earlier 1.00

00:21:11.240 i'm not saying that no okay so how so wait wait wait so who do you think cheated more the women of 0.52

00:21:17.640 today or the women of yesterday of a hundred years ago well i don't know that no pick one i don't

00:21:24.440 know pick a guess i don't know okay well then i think maybe you need to think a little bit and come

00:21:30.360 back the point you made was valid i get it it's more documented nowadays you've got more accessibility to

00:21:35.160 kind of see who do you think cheated more we're gonna go back 100 okay so then why are it like i just

00:21:40.200 don't know i i don't understand this like i i i i don't understand what like this is a woman thing 1.00

00:21:47.880 like if i say water is wet men don't really argue do you see any of the guys arguing with this

00:21:53.720 but women will nitpick well that's not true entirely there's except we know there's exceptions we know 1.00

00:22:00.440 okay when do you want to be married like literally anytime possible you want to marry your boyfriend i do

00:22:06.840 what how long have you guys been together we literally i know it sounds crazy we literally

00:22:11.720 been dating for like two weeks what why do you want to settle down so quickly would you he proposes

00:22:16.520 that's just how i was raised um i was raised very old school and you've got your whole life to be with

00:22:22.040 someone do you see how okay i have a question i'm just going to point this out do you see how like

00:22:27.560 misery loves company like i'm just no i'm just demonstrating because the the married women did not 1.00

00:22:34.600 say hey you have your whole life but the only fans worker says you have your whole life why would you

00:22:39.960 want to marry someone when you've been dating for two weeks like that's delusional people used to do

00:22:44.520 that all the time it's not delusional though because it's like it's a feeling like if you feel it you

00:22:48.520 know it like and if i choose to get married tomorrow that's my life just like how i said it's your life

00:22:54.040 and you could pop your on the internet if you want to go ahead if i choose to get married there's

00:22:58.920 nothing wrong with that i'm not affecting anyone i'm not hurting anyone i'm not okay have you told

00:23:04.520 him no yeah he knows we're both on the same page about it why did i propose that i was speaking i

00:23:10.040 was actually still talking to her like how before you know how you said it's a beautiful thing like

00:23:14.040 how her marriage is like you see i respect you for that because a lot of like other women today like

00:23:18.520 how she lives her life and how she's married she gets shitted on for that but then people like you 0.98

00:23:23.000 don't get shitted on right majority of the time i do actually we've been getting shot on the whole 0.98

00:23:28.040 book of course but there's still like majority of the people aren't going to shit on you for you 0.99

00:23:32.680 doing only fans no they do definitely every single day girl it's all about girl power today let's be 0.97

00:23:37.800 fucking for real you just said you make power power you just you just said you make six figures a 0.90

00:23:42.200 month isn't that like compensation for the show i don't care about the hate because i've got like 0.99

00:23:47.160 yeah we don't care like and they're making me is like super low so i know i just think you're rude

00:23:52.600 to be honest i'm not being rude i'm just being straight up with you i really don't you know

00:23:57.000 mimicking someone is rude right okay i don't i don't care so then if how are you going to call

00:24:02.120 me rude and then you're rude as well like how are you going to call out rude when you just

00:24:05.480 we're talking about someone's husband when the husband is literally sitting right i well i didn't

00:24:09.240 say that it was someone else um i have a question two weeks um would you well like we've been talking

00:24:15.640 obviously okay for a while but like for everything is like obviously official okay yeah go ahead but

00:24:20.280 how long are you actually you think you both gonna get engaged like no like not like tomorrow obviously

00:24:26.440 like we're going to date for a while but like it's my dream to get married young that's what i want like

00:24:32.040 i don't want to wait till i'm 30 to have kids and do like that like i'd rather do that now at a young

00:24:36.840 age and just get out of the way i feel like i have more energy now to deal with children i'm a nanny as

00:24:41.640 well like i take care of people's kids for living and you know to be a nanny you really generally

00:24:46.680 have to love children to do it i was also a dance teacher so i've always worked with kids and it's

00:24:51.720 just like i feel like that's what my calling is i feel like that's what women are meant to do and 0.93

00:24:56.840 yeah people may be like oh you're crazy because you're young and i i really don't sorry how old

00:25:02.280 are you again i just turned 23 like three months my mom had me at 23 yeah that's yeah so my mom had me at

00:25:07.640 23 as well but it was out of wedlock and this is what i was trying to say before like my parents

00:25:12.440 have been separated on and off my whole entire life got divorced when i was 12. so like honestly

00:25:18.520 people think it's crazy that i'm very like you know red pill and conservative and stuff like that

00:25:22.680 because of how my upbringing was as well but like honestly it's an example like what i don't want to do

00:25:27.400 what my parents did so well and it's unfortunate because i just think that we don't really have places

00:25:33.880 to learn from because honestly the generation before us really was not taught to submit to

00:25:39.400 their husbands and i think it caused i mean i don't know what their problems were but i think

00:25:43.880 the mindset of equality really caused a lot of issues because you can't have two kings of a household

00:25:50.200 someone's got to lead it doesn't work it doesn't it doesn't work inevitable and isn't it about balance

00:25:54.840 though because it just seems so extreme no i about such extreme this is this is this is this is just my

00:26:01.080 view right so i just see what worked and a hundred years ago when women believed in submitting and 1.00

00:26:07.240 serving their husbands that worked and the more we try this equality being equal like i just see women 0.99

00:26:12.840 trying to control men that that's what i keep seeing and i think it doesn't work and i think it's evil and

00:26:18.200 a lot of men live their lives with nagging wives and just are bending to her will for a lifetime and you 0.89

00:26:25.240 know i just think it's sad i don't think i'd want to live my life like that happy wife happy life

00:26:29.960 happy wife if you submit to a man is it okay for them to then control you yeah it is yes that's the 0.98

00:26:37.640 that's the point i think i think i think controlling no in such a bad way like it's really not because 0.99

00:26:42.040 like look at her do you like you look at her you think she's in a toxic ass marriage miserable crying 1.00

00:26:46.680 herself to sleep every night no because when you do submit to your man and your man is leading and 0.97

00:26:52.040 protecting and providing everything naturally falls into place exactly but i think that sounds healthy

00:26:57.560 compared to control i don't think control sounds how it's like she said like control doesn't have to

00:27:01.880 be negative it's just like there's order do you know what i'm saying okay does your boss control you

00:27:10.440 if he gives you an order you listen right not always okay well you're an only fans that doesn't count

00:27:16.360 but when i do have a job because i actually have had very normal i'm not asking i'm asking her when

00:27:22.280 you you know your boss gives you an order you listen right yeah so it's interesting because we'll

00:27:28.120 listen to people that give us money but we won't listen to the father of our kids isn't that kind of

00:27:33.800 backwards who loves you i kind of get what you i do get what you're saying i just i just i think maybe

00:27:39.560 it's just a choice of words of how you say it you should still listen to the the mother of his kids

00:27:44.200 no i don't think i think as women again we've proven this whole show that women really aren't the 0.62

00:27:50.200 smartest and we don't make great decisions and i look i just look at the last hundred years okay

00:27:57.720 and i look at what's worked and what hasn't worked and the truth of the matter is when women get more 1.00

00:28:01.640 power and control we're not very nice with it we tend to break up our families we tend to spend too much

00:28:06.600 money um we we get into a bunch of debt we're super emotional yeah we get we are promiscuous my

00:28:12.360 mom has taught me that my whole life yeah are not that and and i think that's what we live off of yeah

00:28:16.680 and i think they've lied to us because they've told us we can be men and we can't my mom why is the trousers

00:28:21.960 in the relationship i i i guessed that actually i guess that yeah that's that's that's yeah oh they're

00:28:29.240 in a relationship leave them out of it no no but that's that's the one yeah you said which i'm not even

00:28:35.640 trying to be funny you literally said your mom encouraged you to do only fans yeah and if your

00:28:40.760 father wore the pants in the family that would never fly oh dad doesn't mind either i am interested

00:28:46.200 that's his point because your mom wears the pants that's the point some parents love their kids 1.00

00:28:50.840 unconditionally you know yeah yeah no if they did they wouldn't encourage i am interested

00:28:59.720 you know what's funny i knew that about her because i've done so many of these interviews

00:29:03.160 she didn't have enough to say it because whenever you see a household that's super out of order

00:29:07.160 typically the woman is imposing her will on the man because women typically agree because women i mean 0.99

00:29:12.920 you can't be in order if she's doing only fans right um can you mute their mics because they just

00:29:17.240 keep interrupting um so so typically i just think the natural order of the world is god men women

00:29:24.200 children and it sounds extreme when you first hear it but right now we have a society where men and

00:29:29.480 women have been told we're equal right and we have an equal say you just have to find a balance etc 1.00

00:29:33.880 whatever and the issue with that is ever since we've gotten power what's happened we've left our

00:29:38.840 husbands we've gotten into all this debt we've gone on only fans all this right so that tells me women 0.69

00:29:44.360 we don't make wise decisions on our own but we've been told that we do and we really don't we've been

00:29:48.680 told that we're smarter and we're really not and i think that leaves us to live in delusion when i think

00:29:54.040 you're supposed to trust the guy you have kids with to follow his judgment if you were at work and

00:29:58.680 every time your boss wanted to make a decision you argued that would never work right so we'll give

00:30:03.640 the best of us to our boss but we won't give it to the person we're having a family with it's backwards 1.00

00:30:11.160 but then okay no yeah no i i i i don't disagree with what you're saying i think it's interesting if

00:30:16.520 you were the right man yeah i was going to say that first of all find the right man right for starters

00:30:21.560 yeah who's gonna do this amazing leading yeah for the family yeah that's very difficult in the

00:30:29.560 modern age right from the beginning what you said about finding that i'll tell you the problem though

00:30:34.600 so women we find 80 of men is ugly not okay not unattractive but ugly that's why i know we're all

00:30:40.120 sleeping with the same guys because women find them all ugly the difference was before you did as 0.98

00:30:45.080 many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on

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JustPearlyThings - October 09, 2023

Feminist Gets SCHOOLED by This Trad Wife on Family.

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