JustPearlyThings - October 29, 2023


Feminist HITS The Wall And HATES Her Life


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8 minutes

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1,473

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183

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31

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1

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11

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Do women have an expiration date? And if so, how old is too old to be considered a good mate? Is there an age where women are considered too old for a relationship? And if there is an age at which women are no longer attractive to men, when is the right time to start a family?

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00:00:00.000 is when do women expire? 1.00
00:00:02.860 Yes, my question is, do women have an expiration date? 1.00
00:00:06.600 And if so, when is it?
00:00:08.080 She's shocked, she's like, oh, no.
00:00:13.580 So we're gonna start with a very nice video,
00:00:18.160 which is amazing and awesome.
00:00:19.560 Let's pull it up, Kate.
00:00:20.980 Oh, nice.
00:00:21.820 That wasn't so pretty cool.
00:00:30.000 Okay, okay, I guess it's, so the reason, okay, I guess I'll tell you how I came up with
00:00:51.620 this awesome topic today.
00:00:53.660 So basically, I tweeted a couple of months ago, and I had a very profound and amazing
00:01:00.660 tweet.
00:01:01.660 And I said, 25-year-old women are hotter than 35-year-old women. 1.00
00:01:06.280 Now to me, I just thought this was basic.
00:01:08.380 She's shocked.
00:01:09.380 She's like, oh, no.
00:01:12.120 To me, I just thought this was basic.
00:01:14.420 Water is wet.
00:01:15.420 The sky is blue.
00:01:16.580 Younger women tend to be more attractive than older women. 0.99
00:01:19.760 And it got me to thinking, you know, is there a date or is there an age where women are
00:01:25.200 over where they're basically considered just for fun for men, where they're too old to start
00:01:30.460 a family with and they would not consider them long-term?
00:01:33.900 I also wondered if there were any exceptions to this, like if she was really hot, like she's 1.00
00:01:38.920 47, but she's an eight. 1.00
00:01:42.340 She looks like J-Lo.
00:01:43.340 Is there an exception?
00:01:45.060 I don't know.
00:01:46.060 I thought we would ask the panel today.
00:01:47.520 So it also was inspired during this video that I saw, which was women documenting their
00:01:53.500 experience really with dating after divorce.
00:01:57.120 Let's pull it up.
00:02:02.400 I can't hear it, King.
00:02:04.340 Know that your best years are ahead of you and life has been more fulfilling for me since
00:02:10.520 my mid-30s than it ever was before that.
00:02:13.260 So just know that your best years are ahead of you and you are never too old and it's
00:02:17.360 never too late.
00:02:18.240 This is probably the loneliest I've ever felt in my life.
00:02:21.860 And I'm in therapy and I'm in a codependency group.
00:02:25.860 I'm so done.
00:02:28.400 You have so much leverage and so many options.
00:02:31.300 I can't even tell you.
00:02:32.240 When the check came, he asked me for $6.
00:02:34.840 That's the thing that I would stay alone forever.
00:02:39.840 My God.
00:02:41.840 Jesus Christ.
00:02:42.840 Are we not opening doors anymore?
00:02:44.840 Are we not doing that?
00:02:45.840 Never used a dating app in your life?
00:02:47.840 Well, the good news is you're about to have so much fun.
00:02:51.840 Yeah, so much fun.
00:02:58.840 Yeah.
00:02:59.840 So there we go.
00:03:01.840 So my question is, is there an age that women expire at starting here and then go around? 0.81
00:03:07.940 I would say no, especially like this day and age we have TikTok and everything and we see
00:03:11.840 like all these older women flaunting, you know, their appearances and everything. 1.00
00:03:16.180 I would say women don't expire. 1.00
00:03:18.840 No.
00:03:19.840 Okay.
00:03:20.840 Go ahead.
00:03:21.840 I know.
00:03:22.840 We've kind of had this conversation before when I've been on the show before and you
00:03:25.840 basically told me after 25, you're done.
00:03:28.140 No, I didn't say after you're 25, you're done.
00:03:30.140 Was it 30?
00:03:31.140 No.
00:03:32.140 It's like, you're basically not worth it.
00:03:33.140 No, no, no.
00:03:34.140 I said it.
00:03:35.140 I said, no, no.
00:03:36.140 This is what I said.
00:03:37.140 I said, if I was a guy.
00:03:38.140 You wouldn't want to date somebody.
00:03:40.140 Yeah.
00:03:41.140 Over 25, because most of the time they're so set in their ways. 1.00
00:03:44.140 It's like, you can't, the feminism is like in the ears and stuff. 1.00
00:03:47.620 There's exceptions though, but mostly no.
00:03:49.620 Yeah.
00:03:50.620 Go ahead.
00:03:51.620 Do women expire? 1.00
00:03:52.620 Wait, what do you think though?
00:03:53.620 Don't, I didn't ask you what I thought.
00:03:55.620 How did you dodge this question?
00:03:58.620 What do you think?
00:03:59.620 I just, I have my opinions.
00:04:01.620 Go ahead.
00:04:02.620 Personally, I think 30.
00:04:03.620 30?
00:04:04.620 Okay.
00:04:05.620 Women are expired. 1.00
00:04:06.620 You're right.
00:04:07.620 You're 30 though.
00:04:08.620 Yeah.
00:04:09.620 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:04:10.620 Can you just put yourself at the game?
00:04:12.620 No.
00:04:13.620 Yeah.
00:04:14.620 I am not.
00:04:15.620 Did you say you're single as well?
00:04:17.620 Yeah. 0.99
00:04:18.620 You just put yourself dirty.
00:04:20.620 There's some humility in this trick.
00:04:22.620 You know, go ahead.
00:04:23.620 When are women expired? 1.00
00:04:24.620 I do think it's individual.
00:04:26.620 I'm older than some of the people here today.
00:04:29.620 Okay.
00:04:30.620 And yeah, I do think it's individual.
00:04:32.620 I think if someone looks after themselves, they look after their appearance and they're
00:04:35.620 a good person, then you know.
00:04:38.620 There's no expiration date.
00:04:40.620 No.
00:04:41.620 I do think there's, there is.
00:04:42.620 Okay.
00:04:43.620 But you can push it a bit further.
00:04:44.620 Okay.
00:04:45.620 So when, when is the expiration date for someone that takes care of themselves?
00:04:48.620 So I don't think I've expired at the age of 40.
00:04:50.620 So that, that's all I can say.
00:04:51.620 Okay.
00:04:52.620 Well, I didn't ask about you.
00:04:53.620 I asked about, when do, I asked when do women expire? 1.00
00:04:57.620 Yeah.
00:04:58.620 So let's say, give me a girl that takes care of herself and a girl that doesn't. 1.00
00:05:01.620 Okay.
00:05:02.620 Okay.
00:05:03.620 So a girl that doesn't take care of herself. 1.00
00:05:05.620 Well, is she ever in the game if she's not taking care of herself? 0.92
00:05:08.620 Is she?
00:05:09.620 Well, I mean, haven't you heard that Patrice O'Neill thing that where it's like a ugly 1.00
00:05:14.620 18 year old is still hotter than a hot 30 year old?
00:05:17.620 No.
00:05:18.620 Yeah.
00:05:19.620 Well, no, I don't agree.
00:05:20.620 I don't agree.
00:05:21.620 Well, older women typically don't. 1.00
00:05:23.620 No offense.
00:05:24.620 Well, that's it.
00:05:27.620 No, because think about it.
00:05:29.620 It's like at 40, at 40 or 45, a guy can't get a kid out of you.
00:05:34.620 The 18 year old can lose weight.
00:05:35.620 No, I think you can have a child at 40.
00:05:38.620 Yeah, but it's not, it's not probable.
00:05:40.620 Hmm.
00:05:41.620 I think it's doable.
00:05:42.620 If you've looked after yourself.
00:05:43.620 It's not likely.
00:05:44.620 You're on the carnival diet.
00:05:45.620 You're good.
00:05:46.620 Okay.
00:05:47.620 Okay.
00:05:48.620 So what age does a woman that takes care of herself expire? 1.00
00:05:51.620 Maybe she needs to be settled down by 45 at the most. 1.00
00:05:59.620 Okay.
00:06:00.620 45.
00:06:01.620 Go ahead.
00:06:02.620 I don't think that we, that women have an expiration date just purely because different 0.87
00:06:08.620 needs are met at different ages.
00:06:12.620 So I might've been really for someone when I was younger, but really even more for them
00:06:18.620 when I'm older, once I've experienced a few more.
00:06:21.620 So I am over 30, but I don't think I'm expired.
00:06:24.620 Okay.
00:06:25.620 I didn't ask about you, but when do women, when do me? 1.00
00:06:29.620 I said, no, no.
00:06:30.620 So they never expire.
00:06:31.620 So at 55, she is equally as wanted on the market as she was at 25.
00:06:37.620 She could be wanted, but it depends on who wants her.
00:06:40.620 This is what I'm saying.
00:06:41.620 So it's like, depends on men.
00:06:43.620 So men of what age?
00:06:45.620 So an older man might appreciate the more older woman. 0.98
00:06:48.620 He might've had enough of the younger.
00:06:50.620 I'll tell you what they surveyed men between the ages of like 20 and 80, and they all found
00:06:54.620 22 year olds, roughly the most attractive.
00:06:57.620 What in women? 1.00
00:06:58.620 Yeah.
00:06:59.620 22.
00:07:00.620 Yeah.
00:07:01.620 I can, I can see why they're youthful.
00:07:02.620 I remember 22.
00:07:03.620 Yeah.
00:07:04.620 Yeah.
00:07:05.620 But it's like, if we, if we don't expire, why do women get Botox to look younger?
00:07:09.620 I don't know.
00:07:10.620 I don't know.
00:07:11.620 They want to be more youthful, reminiscing.
00:07:14.620 Right.
00:07:15.620 But it's like, we almost know that we do because we all try to look young.
00:07:19.620 Yeah, it's true.
00:07:20.620 Okay.
00:07:21.620 So, so we do expire.
00:07:22.620 What age?
00:07:23.620 I don't think we expire.
00:07:25.620 I don't think we expire just because we want to be youthful.
00:07:28.620 Just because we want to be youthful doesn't mean that women expire. 1.00
00:07:31.620 Women do not expire. 0.94
00:07:32.620 Okay.
00:07:33.620 Okay.
00:07:34.620 Women are. 1.00
00:07:35.620 Okay.
00:07:36.620 Go ahead.
00:07:37.620 What about you?
00:07:38.620 Expiration dates.
00:07:39.620 Well, it depends on what, what exactly what she said with the fact that who, again, men,
00:07:44.620 but what's the purpose?
00:07:46.620 So milk can go off, but I'm sure once it's off, you can use it for something else.
00:07:50.620 Well, yeah, that's when they become, that's when like side chicks for sure. 0.97
00:07:53.620 No, not necessarily.
00:07:54.620 You can put 50 year old side chicks. 0.73
00:07:58.620 No, I know.
00:07:59.620 I agree with you.
00:08:00.620 They, they, they tend to, women tend to accept that when they're older. 0.99
00:08:04.620 No.
00:08:05.620 They do.
00:08:06.620 Yeah.
00:08:07.620 I mean, again, I think it depends on what it is that you want out of the person.
00:08:11.620 Well, I would say, I would say for a long-term relationship or marriage, when are women. 1.00
00:08:16.620 Long-term.
00:08:17.620 If you pass the middle age, what is long-term?
00:08:19.620 Long-term these days can be two years.
00:08:22.620 Long-term can be.
00:08:23.620 Okay.
00:08:24.620 So, but when a man is looking for a woman to settle down with, is there an age where women 1.00
00:08:30.620 typically are expired just based on their age?
00:08:33.620 Biologically.
00:08:34.620 Yes.
00:08:35.620 Again, if you look after yourself or not, I'd hope that a woman that's looked after themselves 0.98
00:08:38.620 biologically, hopefully the clock can push to 40 plus.
00:08:43.620 Okay.
00:08:44.620 40, 40.
00:08:45.620 Plus.
00:08:46.620 Okay.
00:08:47.620 So 50, is she expired?
00:08:49.620 Biologically, perhaps.
00:08:51.620 Okay.