JustPearlyThings - June 06, 2023


Feminist Tries To Disprove This Fact


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

225.70953

Word Count

2,354

Sentence Count

2

Misogynist Sentences

38

Hate Speech Sentences

9


Summary

In this episode of the podcast, we discuss the difference between women and men when it comes to homelessness and domestic violence in the UK, and why women are more likely to end up on the streets than men. We also discuss the solar eclipse and whether or not women should be prioritised in the same way as men.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 as 70 of abuse is women against men why do we why do we only hear about violence against women
00:00:08.720 because men don't talk about it enough yeah men don't really complain too much they'll just take
00:00:14.800 and why are there more women's shelters than men because of the consequence of the violence no i
00:00:21.120 i don't think i'm not thinking about it it's a contradiction
00:00:29.280 are you talking about homeless shelters and that because if it is stuff like that as well even
00:00:32.800 with the homelessness in london because i always do like um do stuff for the homeless every year
00:00:37.920 and that and you never really see women on the street and it's always and there's a lot of white
00:00:41.520 men on the street as well so it's not just a thing where it's like boy if you're a man you can be
00:00:45.840 homeless i'm saying i'm saying there's women's shelters but there's not shelter yeah but what
00:00:52.000 kind of shows that's what i'm saying because i know i know there's also women because there's also
00:00:55.680 women's homeless shelters as well so like they get taken into certain places that men don't yes yes
00:01:00.160 i'm saying battered there's battered women's shelters and at those shelters they actively
00:01:03.920 turn down men whoa so sorry go ahead yeah i was just i was just commenting on what he said that we
00:01:09.360 find more uh homeless men than women it's it's it's just because we would take care of women more
00:01:15.680 than them right because but then it goes back to like women don't face consequences if a man's on
00:01:20.880 the street he's homeless if the women's on the street there are many more shelters and resources
00:01:25.280 for her yeah this is that's an interesting point because i think there is you know people talk about
00:01:29.280 that glass ceiling but there's like a cushioned floor that women tend to go to where men don't
00:01:36.560 so if i'm if i'm poor i've as a man i know that no woman is going to marry and marry me and you know
00:01:42.960 raise me up and put me in the house but that that there's a possibility that it could happen to you
00:01:47.280 as a woman so i think you don't know about homosexuals you don't know about men who don't
00:01:54.400 but what's the what's the what's the probability of that sorry what what what is the probability of
00:01:58.400 that there are bare men that don't have housing and they literally find women who have a child and
00:02:04.640 they can move into their house and that is a so so you're right that that definitely is a thing but
00:02:10.000 it's a very small percentage of men that can do that remember like i think you've been here when
00:02:14.320 i've talked about these stats no okay okay so 80 of women actually it's 100 of women want 20 of men
00:02:22.160 so if you look at and we have the data to back this up because you have dating i get i get all of those
00:02:26.560 ones yeah so it's a very small part there are a subset of men that do do that there are the tinder
00:02:32.080 swindlers out there there they're absolutely i'm talking about even less than a tinder swindler
00:02:37.440 literally it's like a normal guy yes road guy yes will turn up but do you remember if we survey
00:02:44.000 women it's they find 90 of men unattractive or 80 of men on it i can't remember the exact number
00:02:49.280 between 80 and 90 of men unattractive like you show a woman 10 men she'll say eight or nine of them now
00:02:54.720 yeah so it's it's a very small percentage of men that could get a woman's interest to begin with so
00:03:01.360 if you add on get to get it like free rent from her like what percent of guys can do that yeah
00:03:10.000 how likely is it but this is something this is something right no you're correct you are correct
00:03:14.640 that does happen but what i'm saying is oftentimes i think when we're trying to make a point you're
00:03:19.040 arguing an exception not the rule yeah and and this is and it's not just you this is like i women do
00:03:24.720 this on my show all the time when we're looking for an exception and it's not the rule but it's a
00:03:28.800 phenomenon that does take place and yes but it's irrelevant to the fact of the point we're trying
00:03:32.880 to make though yeah so does the solar eclipse the point is the point is if i was a girl if i was an
00:03:38.240 attractive girl i know that if i go broke i can get a guy to pay for me i can go and start only fans
00:03:42.880 and i'll be calm but as a guy i can't bank on that no but but the whole point is that women don't have
00:03:49.120 consequences for their actions because the majority of women or the majority of men can't do that it's
00:03:55.200 a very small percentage but the majority of women can't i know if i was homeless tomorrow i could go
00:04:00.080 marry a 60 year old i'd be chilling like and and i and i just think i'm like a normal girl so most girls
00:04:06.560 can do that i agree with you so like the point is women get bailed out if we make bad decisions
00:04:12.720 men end up on the streets yeah even for men that try hard i think it's only 20 to 30 percent of
00:04:18.160 men are actually sexually active yeah so there's a whole other demographic of men that don't even get
00:04:23.840 afforded the chance to have sexual intercourse and that's the rate of women i think it's 90 percent
00:04:33.920 once they reach a certain age yeah it's it's like okay so no matter what you look like
00:04:39.280 is it like 80 or something if you were if you were on the dating market would it be hard to find
00:04:44.800 someone to sleep with you no okay you're dating right are you single single okay would do you
00:04:52.960 think it's hard to find a guy to sleep with you no yeah i would think yeah okay so you think for most
00:04:59.520 what did you say i'll make this point so the most attractive man could still go into a club and come
00:05:05.680 out of no one but one of the most least attractive women could go to a club and still come out with
00:05:08.720 someone to sleep with and there are attractive women that have exactly that same rate and they
00:05:12.960 would be like i'm attracted most people find me attractive i can't get a man that she wants yeah
00:05:18.640 there you go she can't get a man that she wants oh so you're saying that the most attractive man is
00:05:23.920 going to sleep with anyone no i'm saying that he he can go into a club and still walk out empty-handed
00:05:28.720 even if he tries to graft on girls i mean but also to add to that with anyone no but also to add to
00:05:33.840 that with men yo it's different our standards are different for what we will sleep with yeah
00:05:39.840 compared to what we will be in a relationship with like there's a lot of girls that have had
00:05:43.840 sex with guys that are well out of their league because my man just wanted to bust a nut with a
00:05:47.600 woman it's not like that do you know i mean a lot of women have to respect something about
00:05:51.200 you or rate something about you to sleep with you my man could just be like you know what she had a
00:05:54.240 fat back bro so leading on to that that's where some women get up because they start sleeping
00:05:59.520 with their say a five and they start sleeping with a ten and if that's my level my level's the
00:06:03.360 lens but if he doesn't actually want to be in a relationship with you my love that's not your level
00:06:08.640 but the whole the whole point is like as a girl we can just go down and looks right if like so if a
00:06:14.240 girl's a six say she can go down to get get a rich three that's 25 years older be bailed out of any bad
00:06:20.000 decision she's ever made it's not it's not that hard but i think there are men that can no no
00:06:24.080 but i'm saying i'm saying what percent of men do you really think can do that
00:06:28.320 i i don't know what the percentage if you do there are men that can do that but we would agree would
00:06:32.880 you agree it's a very small percentage less than five percent no it's not that you think it's higher
00:06:37.040 so why would you say it's higher than that women that are making good money so so then their ratio of
00:06:42.480 being able to get a woman who is making good money and they can live off her goes up every year the
00:06:48.320 more women that are making so why would you say it's higher than that when dating app data so these are two
00:06:53.360 separate studies right they surveyed women and asked them what men they found attractive and they
00:06:57.360 said less than nine less than 20 of men they found attractive and on dating apps when women swiped
00:07:02.960 right they found less than 20 of men attractive because okay yeah go ahead okay so when you're swiping
00:07:10.800 or the evidence is placed in front of you you're going to be way more in your this is what i'm after
00:07:17.600 now when you're face to face with somebody and you're hearing their baritones and you're feeling
00:07:21.600 their pheromones and they're in front of your face that will probably drop a little bit more okay
00:07:26.240 depending on if you're ovulating if you're horny if they're ready to go things change so data when
00:07:32.640 you're swiping on faces is very one way i i agree with you so i i do think like there are things that
00:07:38.960 men can do right they can be funny they can you know they're like you're right but but i they improve
00:07:44.320 their odds but i would still say it's a minority even if let's say we double it let's give men 40 that's
00:07:50.160 still that's still what percent could actively live off of a girl a small percentage even if we
00:07:57.040 said 40 of men could get a check right what percent what percent are good looking and have enough game
00:08:03.200 to live off of a check i agree or even live off long term yeah some women might take it for a year or
00:08:08.080 two until they're like you know what not whilst a man will a man will take a man will happily marry a
00:08:12.720 woman that works at mcdonald's and you can stay working with the rest of your life and it's not going to
00:08:15.920 trouble in one little bit yeah but it couldn't work in the reverse you're trying to say you don't
00:08:19.920 know anybody any woman that's not the point i'm not talking about every time they're there though
00:08:27.280 again the exception to the rule doesn't make the rule and that's that that's what we need to hammer
00:08:30.880 home here you keep talking on exceptions they're not exceptions because there are you're saying you
00:08:35.760 just said you don't know anybody that's there are loads of women that are funding their whole
00:08:39.920 households and there is a man yeah but also so you know what data also doesn't match up with what you're
00:08:44.800 saying what percent of women make that much money the average woman and the u.s and i know it's
00:08:48.800 similar here makes 35 000 a year that's not enough to take care of a dude it's not 35k that's the
00:08:54.880 average that means half of women make less than that so it's a small percentage of women that can even
00:08:58.960 take care of a guy and then also it depends on the woman's circumstances as well it depends on her
00:09:04.320 circumstances because boy if you're a single mom and you got two huge yeah and you've got a guy yeah
00:09:08.720 that's a bum yeah but he's giving you the wood yeah boy you might settle for that and let man stay in the
00:09:13.040 house because your options ain't really there if you're young but if you're young and you're
00:09:17.680 good looking and you're making money you're not tolerating that so what i'm saying is yeah that
00:09:21.120 guy even yeah my man's just she's just taking whatever she can get because her options are
00:09:25.760 just not for that time being for the time being and then if another guy comes along that's got more
00:09:30.480 money than him she's gone bruv like that's because that's how they that's how they're wired
00:09:35.120 they're always looking for the next best thing and that's okay do you know what i'm saying but that's
00:09:38.880 that comes to the fallacy of choice because you get so much choice you think oh it's fine i'll get
00:09:42.880 someone better and then you keep saying i'll get someone better until you get to that point
00:09:46.320 where you know she's a single mom with two kids and no money so she has to settle for that guy
00:09:52.160 i often say say a woman's dating career follows the life of say like a footballer
00:09:56.880 like when you're 16 17 you get a couple young g's like ronaldo they're shelling it getting again
00:10:01.920 better and better and better then they hit their late 20s 30s and then suddenly you don't get offered a
00:10:07.280 new contract at a top top club then you start scrambling so it's almost like that for women
00:10:11.760 on the dating market then you're in turkey and then you start trying to revive by doing bbls but
00:10:17.840 really you're at the end of your career and you should have just made the best of the clubs that
00:10:21.920 you're at when you had the chance okay i'm gonna read some super