JustPearlyThings - Feminist Tries To Disprove This Fact

00:00:00.000 as 70 of abuse is women against men why do we why do we only hear about violence against women

00:00:08.720 because men don't talk about it enough yeah men don't really complain too much they'll just take 0.95

00:00:14.800 and why are there more women's shelters than men because of the consequence of the violence no i 1.00

00:00:21.120 i don't think i'm not thinking about it it's a contradiction

00:00:29.280 are you talking about homeless shelters and that because if it is stuff like that as well even

00:00:32.800 with the homelessness in london because i always do like um do stuff for the homeless every year

00:00:37.920 and that and you never really see women on the street and it's always and there's a lot of white 1.00

00:00:41.520 men on the street as well so it's not just a thing where it's like boy if you're a man you can be

00:00:45.840 homeless i'm saying i'm saying there's women's shelters but there's not shelter yeah but what

00:00:52.000 kind of shows that's what i'm saying because i know i know there's also women because there's also 0.94

00:00:55.680 women's homeless shelters as well so like they get taken into certain places that men don't yes yes 1.00

00:01:00.160 i'm saying battered there's battered women's shelters and at those shelters they actively

00:01:03.920 turn down men whoa so sorry go ahead yeah i was just i was just commenting on what he said that we

00:01:09.360 find more uh homeless men than women it's it's it's just because we would take care of women more

00:01:15.680 than them right because but then it goes back to like women don't face consequences if a man's on 0.99

00:01:20.880 the street he's homeless if the women's on the street there are many more shelters and resources 0.96

00:01:25.280 for her yeah this is that's an interesting point because i think there is you know people talk about

00:01:29.280 that glass ceiling but there's like a cushioned floor that women tend to go to where men don't 1.00

00:01:36.560 so if i'm if i'm poor i've as a man i know that no woman is going to marry and marry me and you know

00:01:42.960 raise me up and put me in the house but that that there's a possibility that it could happen to you

00:01:47.280 as a woman so i think you don't know about homosexuals you don't know about men who don't

00:01:54.400 but what's the what's the what's the probability of that sorry what what what is the probability of

00:01:58.400 that there are bare men that don't have housing and they literally find women who have a child and

00:02:04.640 they can move into their house and that is a so so you're right that that definitely is a thing but

00:02:10.000 it's a very small percentage of men that can do that remember like i think you've been here when

00:02:14.320 i've talked about these stats no okay okay so 80 of women actually it's 100 of women want 20 of men

00:02:22.160 so if you look at and we have the data to back this up because you have dating i get i get all of those

00:02:26.560 ones yeah so it's a very small part there are a subset of men that do do that there are the tinder

00:02:32.080 swindlers out there there they're absolutely i'm talking about even less than a tinder swindler 0.98

00:02:37.440 literally it's like a normal guy yes road guy yes will turn up but do you remember if we survey

00:02:44.000 women it's they find 90 of men unattractive or 80 of men on it i can't remember the exact number

00:02:49.280 between 80 and 90 of men unattractive like you show a woman 10 men she'll say eight or nine of them now

00:02:54.720 yeah so it's it's a very small percentage of men that could get a woman's interest to begin with so

00:03:01.360 if you add on get to get it like free rent from her like what percent of guys can do that yeah

00:03:10.000 how likely is it but this is something this is something right no you're correct you are correct

00:03:14.640 that does happen but what i'm saying is oftentimes i think when we're trying to make a point you're

00:03:19.040 arguing an exception not the rule yeah and and this is and it's not just you this is like i women do 1.00

00:03:24.720 this on my show all the time when we're looking for an exception and it's not the rule but it's a

00:03:28.800 phenomenon that does take place and yes but it's irrelevant to the fact of the point we're trying

00:03:32.880 to make though yeah so does the solar eclipse the point is the point is if i was a girl if i was an

00:03:38.240 attractive girl i know that if i go broke i can get a guy to pay for me i can go and start only fans 1.00

00:03:42.880 and i'll be calm but as a guy i can't bank on that no but but the whole point is that women don't have 1.00

00:03:49.120 consequences for their actions because the majority of women or the majority of men can't do that it's

00:03:55.200 a very small percentage but the majority of women can't i know if i was homeless tomorrow i could go 1.00

00:04:00.080 marry a 60 year old i'd be chilling like and and i and i just think i'm like a normal girl so most girls 0.98

00:04:06.560 can do that i agree with you so like the point is women get bailed out if we make bad decisions 1.00

00:04:12.720 men end up on the streets yeah even for men that try hard i think it's only 20 to 30 percent of

00:04:18.160 men are actually sexually active yeah so there's a whole other demographic of men that don't even get

00:04:23.840 afforded the chance to have sexual intercourse and that's the rate of women i think it's 90 percent 0.98

00:04:33.920 once they reach a certain age yeah it's it's like okay so no matter what you look like

00:04:39.280 is it like 80 or something if you were if you were on the dating market would it be hard to find

00:04:44.800 someone to sleep with you no okay you're dating right are you single single okay would do you

00:04:52.960 think it's hard to find a guy to sleep with you no yeah i would think yeah okay so you think for most

00:04:59.520 what did you say i'll make this point so the most attractive man could still go into a club and come 1.00

00:05:05.680 out of no one but one of the most least attractive women could go to a club and still come out with 1.00

00:05:08.720 someone to sleep with and there are attractive women that have exactly that same rate and they 1.00

00:05:12.960 would be like i'm attracted most people find me attractive i can't get a man that she wants yeah 1.00

00:05:18.640 there you go she can't get a man that she wants oh so you're saying that the most attractive man is

00:05:23.920 going to sleep with anyone no i'm saying that he he can go into a club and still walk out empty-handed

00:05:28.720 even if he tries to graft on girls i mean but also to add to that with anyone no but also to add to

00:05:33.840 that with men yo it's different our standards are different for what we will sleep with yeah

00:05:39.840 compared to what we will be in a relationship with like there's a lot of girls that have had 1.00

00:05:43.840 sex with guys that are well out of their league because my man just wanted to bust a nut with a 0.99

00:05:47.600 woman it's not like that do you know i mean a lot of women have to respect something about 1.00

00:05:51.200 you or rate something about you to sleep with you my man could just be like you know what she had a 0.84

00:05:54.240 fat back bro so leading on to that that's where some women get up because they start sleeping 1.00

00:05:59.520 with their say a five and they start sleeping with a ten and if that's my level my level's the

00:06:03.360 lens but if he doesn't actually want to be in a relationship with you my love that's not your level

00:06:08.640 but the whole the whole point is like as a girl we can just go down and looks right if like so if a

00:06:14.240 girl's a six say she can go down to get get a rich three that's 25 years older be bailed out of any bad 1.00

00:06:20.000 decision she's ever made it's not it's not that hard but i think there are men that can no no

00:06:24.080 but i'm saying i'm saying what percent of men do you really think can do that

00:06:28.320 i i don't know what the percentage if you do there are men that can do that but we would agree would

00:06:32.880 you agree it's a very small percentage less than five percent no it's not that you think it's higher

00:06:37.040 so why would you say it's higher than that women that are making good money so so then their ratio of 1.00

00:06:42.480 being able to get a woman who is making good money and they can live off her goes up every year the 0.98

00:06:48.320 more women that are making so why would you say it's higher than that when dating app data so these are two 1.00

00:06:53.360 separate studies right they surveyed women and asked them what men they found attractive and they

00:06:57.360 said less than nine less than 20 of men they found attractive and on dating apps when women swiped

00:07:02.960 right they found less than 20 of men attractive because okay yeah go ahead okay so when you're swiping

00:07:10.800 or the evidence is placed in front of you you're going to be way more in your this is what i'm after

00:07:17.600 now when you're face to face with somebody and you're hearing their baritones and you're feeling

00:07:21.600 their pheromones and they're in front of your face that will probably drop a little bit more okay

00:07:26.240 depending on if you're ovulating if you're horny if they're ready to go things change so data when

00:07:32.640 you're swiping on faces is very one way i i agree with you so i i do think like there are things that

00:07:38.960 men can do right they can be funny they can you know they're like you're right but but i they improve

00:07:44.320 their odds but i would still say it's a minority even if let's say we double it let's give men 40 that's

00:07:50.160 still that's still what percent could actively live off of a girl a small percentage even if we 0.99

00:07:57.040 said 40 of men could get a check right what percent what percent are good looking and have enough game

00:08:03.200 to live off of a check i agree or even live off long term yeah some women might take it for a year or 1.00

00:08:08.080 two until they're like you know what not whilst a man will a man will take a man will happily marry a 0.85

00:08:12.720 woman that works at mcdonald's and you can stay working with the rest of your life and it's not going to 1.00

00:08:15.920 trouble in one little bit yeah but it couldn't work in the reverse you're trying to say you don't

00:08:19.920 know anybody any woman that's not the point i'm not talking about every time they're there though

00:08:27.280 again the exception to the rule doesn't make the rule and that's that that's what we need to hammer

00:08:30.880 home here you keep talking on exceptions they're not exceptions because there are you're saying you

00:08:35.760 just said you don't know anybody that's there are loads of women that are funding their whole 1.00

00:08:39.920 households and there is a man yeah but also so you know what data also doesn't match up with what you're

00:08:44.800 saying what percent of women make that much money the average woman and the u.s and i know it's 1.00

00:08:48.800 similar here makes 35 000 a year that's not enough to take care of a dude it's not 35k that's the

00:08:54.880 average that means half of women make less than that so it's a small percentage of women that can even 0.99

00:08:58.960 take care of a guy and then also it depends on the woman's circumstances as well it depends on her 1.00

00:09:04.320 circumstances because boy if you're a single mom and you got two huge yeah and you've got a guy yeah

00:09:08.720 that's a bum yeah but he's giving you the wood yeah boy you might settle for that and let man stay in the 1.00

00:09:13.040 house because your options ain't really there if you're young but if you're young and you're

00:09:17.680 good looking and you're making money you're not tolerating that so what i'm saying is yeah that

00:09:21.120 guy even yeah my man's just she's just taking whatever she can get because her options are 0.98

00:09:25.760 just not for that time being for the time being and then if another guy comes along that's got more

00:09:30.480 money than him she's gone bruv like that's because that's how they that's how they're wired 1.00

00:09:35.120 they're always looking for the next best thing and that's okay do you know what i'm saying but that's

00:09:38.880 that comes to the fallacy of choice because you get so much choice you think oh it's fine i'll get

00:09:42.880 someone better and then you keep saying i'll get someone better until you get to that point

00:09:46.320 where you know she's a single mom with two kids and no money so she has to settle for that guy 1.00

00:09:52.160 i often say say a woman's dating career follows the life of say like a footballer

00:09:56.880 like when you're 16 17 you get a couple young g's like ronaldo they're shelling it getting again

00:10:01.920 better and better and better then they hit their late 20s 30s and then suddenly you don't get offered a

00:10:07.280 new contract at a top top club then you start scrambling so it's almost like that for women

00:10:11.760 on the dating market then you're in turkey and then you start trying to revive by doing bbls but

00:10:17.840 really you're at the end of your career and you should have just made the best of the clubs that

00:10:21.920 you're at when you had the chance okay i'm gonna read some super

JustPearlyThings - June 06, 2023

Feminist Tries To Disprove This Fact

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