JustPearlyThings - July 24, 2023


He Doesn’t Care If His Girl Slept With Drake


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8 minutes

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1,687

Sentence count

189

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Misogyny

22

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Toxicity

17

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9

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In this episode, the guys talk about the Drake/Melissa Yajia situation and if it's a good or bad thing that she slept with 3 men but one of them is Drake. Do you think she should have slept with him or not?

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00:00:00.000 For me it's just I feel like women with high body count 1.00
00:00:03.120 kind of like, because I'm a guy and I'm thinking
00:00:05.080 even me as a man, so many flashbacks got to deal with.
00:00:09.160 How do you even, even if you find a person for you,
00:00:13.000 like your soulmate, you still got to deal with
00:00:14.520 all the sexual encounters you've actually been through,
00:00:16.280 all the experiences, all the sobering,
00:00:19.040 and all the connection you've had
00:00:20.080 with so many different people.
00:00:21.400 How do you then just settle with one person?
00:00:23.560 Yeah, you can, you could be with them
00:00:25.440 because you like them, but there's still so many things
00:00:27.400 dragging you around.
00:00:28.320 Okay, question.
00:00:29.760 She slept with three men, but one is Drake.
00:00:34.760 I really don't care about that.
00:00:36.640 And then, okay, the guy doesn't matter.
00:00:38.400 Yeah, it doesn't really matter. 0.98
00:00:39.240 Okay, so if he was a loser or the best guy ever.
00:00:42.280 I mean, I think I'd rather Drake, 1.00
00:00:44.000 because to me that's like, oh shit. 0.99
00:00:46.240 Oh, okay. 1.00
00:00:47.080 Yeah, I feel like, yeah, but if he's a loser then I feel like. 0.89
00:00:49.760 So the celebrities would be like a better.
00:00:52.520 Yeah, I mean, better, I mean, yeah,
00:00:54.120 better someone is, I feel like, okay, cool,
00:00:56.360 like, hey, you're short rather than some gal thinking 1.00
00:00:59.800 you didn't have any self-value.
00:01:01.840 Like, okay.
00:01:02.800 Do you agree with that?
00:01:04.680 With what?
00:01:05.240 With his opinion.
00:01:06.440 Like, you know.
00:01:07.080 Of which part?
00:01:07.800 Like, of the, you know, sleeping with Drake.
00:01:09.640 It's like, I don't care about all that.
00:01:11.000 Do you feel like that's a problem?
00:01:12.280 I don't know the type of gal that's gonna sleep with Drake. 1.00
00:01:15.640 It's like, I mean.
00:01:16.800 Yeah, I mean, I don't care about it.
00:01:19.240 Like, I mean, like.
00:01:21.240 She slept with three guys, one of them is Drake.
00:01:23.240 Yeah.
00:01:24.240 I mean, I think most guys will take three, though.
00:01:27.120 They're like, all right, that's like damn near, 0.88
00:01:28.920 that's damn near a virgin nowadays. 1.00
00:01:30.520 They're like. 0.87
00:01:31.440 So it's okay, yeah?
00:01:32.640 It's okay.
00:01:33.480 No, I didn't say okay.
00:01:34.480 Actually, I think it depends on,
00:01:37.080 on what relationship she had with Drake, though.
00:01:39.800 Oh.
00:01:41.520 And how Drake sees her.
00:01:43.280 Is it that as well, or no?
00:01:44.520 If she didn't date Drake, then she's cancelled excommunicado.
00:01:48.400 Yeah, but there's still three, though.
00:01:50.360 There are some girls dating uncle, whatever, anyone can hit it. 1.00
00:01:54.360 So if it's Drake, I don't know.
00:01:55.960 To me, it doesn't matter if she was Drake's stylist or whoever she was.
00:01:58.600 The point is, like, if she's a girl that has ever slept with a guy for money 0.98
00:02:03.280 or clout or any of that crap, it doesn't matter if it's Drake
00:02:06.640 or if he's like uncle down the road. 0.56
00:02:09.080 Yeah, but what I'm saying is,
00:02:10.720 if she is 30, let's say 25, and the body count is free, 0.99
00:02:13.720 and one of them girls with Drake,
00:02:15.160 personally, I would not trip about that.
00:02:17.560 Yeah, I get what you're saying, but I'm saying...
00:02:19.400 I'm not even going to ask her.
00:02:20.320 I'm saying if she was the type of girl that was like a groupie, bruv. 0.95
00:02:24.320 Oh, okay, but if she's a groupie, then I'm sure her body count would be higher, 1.00
00:02:26.920 because Drake's not the only celebrity,
00:02:28.280 so that means she does smash some of her celebrities as well. 1.00
00:02:31.480 So I guess, to me, the body count is what I'm looking at.
00:02:33.880 If it's free and Drake is in there,
00:02:35.920 probably Drake probably saw their dreams.
00:02:37.200 She probably just...
00:02:38.560 You know what I'm saying?
00:02:39.080 Like, oh, yeah, it's Drake.
00:02:40.000 And yeah...
00:02:41.000 Melissa don't know who Drake is.
00:02:42.000 See?
00:02:43.000 Now, that's how you know.
00:02:44.000 I'm the only person in the world who doesn't know who Drake is.
00:02:46.000 No, it's good. It's good.
00:02:47.000 You're setting an example.
00:02:48.000 Not everyone is in the life that everyone thinks that everyone's in.
00:02:51.000 Does this make sure?
00:02:52.000 Yeah? 0.99
00:02:53.000 She's a sex worker. 1.00
00:02:54.000 She's a sex worker. 1.00
00:02:55.000 That's literally the whole... 0.99
00:02:56.000 No, no, no.
00:02:57.000 I'm not trying to be rude.
00:02:58.000 No, it isn't.
00:02:59.000 She don't know who Drake is, but...
00:03:00.000 All right, all right, all right.
00:03:02.000 Ask most guys. 0.97
00:03:03.000 Sex worker, but doesn't know who Drake is, like... 0.99
00:03:06.000 Yeah. 0.80
00:03:07.000 Is that confusing?
00:03:08.000 It's another world.
00:03:09.000 No, no, no.
00:03:10.000 Okay.
00:03:11.000 So deal breakers for you.
00:03:14.000 I think someone who's not very educated.
00:03:19.000 I don't really like people that are not really...
00:03:22.000 So a plumber?
00:03:24.000 High school diploma, plumber?
00:03:27.000 In terms of career, I'm not really bothered, as long as you...
00:03:32.000 No, you said educated, so I'm saying high school diploma, but plumber.
00:03:36.000 Yeah, I would say, all right, then, to correct what I'm saying, then.
00:03:40.000 Someone who can't communicate.
00:03:42.000 Yeah, like someone who has literally no communication.
00:03:48.000 He's teaching no communication skills.
00:03:50.000 Okay.
00:03:52.000 Is that it?
00:03:53.000 Any other deal breakers?
00:03:54.000 Um...
00:03:55.000 So he communicates, and you're good.
00:03:57.000 That's it.
00:03:58.000 Yeah, because if you can communicate, then you can work problems out.
00:04:01.000 So he's 300 pounds, 5'4", but he can communicate.
00:04:05.000 Um...
00:04:08.000 I'm just asking, like, what are your deal breakers?
00:04:11.000 So if he's obese, deal breaker, yes or no?
00:04:13.000 Oh, yeah, that would be a deal breaker.
00:04:15.000 Okay, deal breaker if he's obese.
00:04:16.000 What else?
00:04:18.000 Um...
00:04:20.000 Aggressive.
00:04:21.000 What's with the...
00:04:22.000 Okay, you guys just...
00:04:23.000 Sorry, you just changed abusive to aggressive.
00:04:25.000 I didn't call you out.
00:04:26.000 I let you go.
00:04:27.000 When it was aimed at me.
00:04:29.000 Like...
00:04:30.000 You both.
00:04:31.000 It's like, why abusive?
00:04:33.000 You were on the men's side, didn't it?
00:04:35.000 I'm not on anyone's side.
00:04:37.000 I'm on reality's side.
00:04:39.000 Like, that's the side I'm on.
00:04:41.000 Um...
00:04:42.000 Okay, so no obese.
00:04:43.000 How much money?
00:04:44.000 Um...
00:04:45.000 I don't know.
00:04:46.000 Just so long as you can, like, feed yourself, clothe yourself, run a house, um, get the necessities,
00:04:56.000 etc.
00:04:57.000 Like, oh no, I'm not really that hooked up in money.
00:05:00.000 Okay, so 20,000 pounds?
00:05:01.000 It's average.
00:05:02.000 Yes or no?
00:05:03.000 20,000 pounds would you date?
00:05:05.000 Yeah.
00:05:06.000 Okay.
00:05:07.000 Okay, so 15,000 pounds would you date?
00:05:09.000 I'm not gonna really, like, date a guy because of what he's got, because I can look after myself.
00:05:15.000 Mm-hmm.
00:05:16.000 But, but we all agree there's, there's a number that's too low.
00:05:18.000 Like, 12, like, 10 pounds an hour.
00:05:19.000 Are you dating?
00:05:20.000 Well, what if that's all the job that he can do and he gets 10 pounds an hour?
00:05:22.000 At least he's trying.
00:05:23.000 Like, why not a man that's trying?
00:05:24.000 Mm-hmm.
00:05:25.000 Some guys, that's probably the only job that he can get.
00:05:26.000 So what?
00:05:27.000 Is he less valuable?
00:05:28.000 Uh-oh.
00:05:29.000 Okay, if that's what you want to date, I'm just asking.
00:05:30.000 I'm not saying that's a guy with a date.
00:05:31.000 Unemployment.
00:05:32.000 I'm not saying that's a guy with a date.
00:05:33.000 Unemployment.
00:05:34.000 I'm not saying that's a guy with a date.
00:05:35.000 I'm not saying that's a guy with a date.
00:05:36.000 But what if there's guys out there, like, that are trying to do something?
00:05:48.000 But we're not, we're not talking about the exception.
00:05:49.000 We're talking about the rule.
00:05:50.000 So I'm asking, on average, how much does a guy...
00:05:53.000 Unemployable is not really desirable though, is it really?
00:05:55.000 It's not desirable.
00:05:56.000 I'm not shaming anyone for wanting a man with a job.
00:05:59.000 I think we should pursue men with jobs.
00:06:01.000 I'm trying to figure out what your floor is.
00:06:03.000 I'm not really bothered about what a guy earns.
00:06:07.000 Okay, but I need a number from you.
00:06:09.000 Oh, jobless.
00:06:10.000 So, unemployed, there's a homeless shelter down the street.
00:06:13.000 Are you dating them?
00:06:15.000 Clearly not.
00:06:16.000 Okay, okay, right.
00:06:17.000 So what's the minimum?
00:06:22.000 Why is it so hard to answer these questions?
00:06:24.000 I have a very interesting theory.
00:06:26.000 I actually think women really don't care about money. 1.00
00:06:29.000 Like, in the way that a lot of men think.
00:06:32.000 The reality is women just care about shiny things. 1.00
00:06:35.000 So if a man is able to present that facade of,
00:06:38.000 Oh, I have shiny things.
00:06:40.000 I can do this.
00:06:41.000 I can do that.
00:06:42.000 Women will go for it. 1.00
00:06:43.000 And they really don't understand the concept of,
00:06:45.000 Okay, money here.
00:06:47.000 And you need to use it to do this when it comes to men.
00:06:50.000 Obviously, when it comes to them and buying their things,
00:06:52.000 they understand money.
00:06:53.000 But when it comes to men, it's all about the shiny things.
00:06:55.000 I disagree though.
00:06:56.000 I think women just want security. 1.00
00:06:58.000 Not the shiny things.
00:06:59.000 Maybe the shiny things might symbolize that,
00:07:01.000 Okay, he has money.
00:07:02.000 But what they want actually is someone who will give them security.
00:07:04.000 Amen.
00:07:05.000 I'm talking about what they actually respond to in real life.
00:07:09.000 Look, a wise man once said,
00:07:12.000 Don't listen to what women say. 1.00
00:07:14.000 Watch what they do.
00:07:15.000 Watch what they do.
00:07:16.000 So a woman can come and tell you, 1.00
00:07:18.000 Oh, yeah, I love this.
00:07:20.000 Bruv, watch what she does. 1.00
00:07:21.000 I get what you're saying now.
00:07:22.000 I get what you're saying.
00:07:23.000 What I'm saying is, in a nutshell,
00:07:24.000 it's not the flashy things that you're attracted to.
00:07:26.000 It's just the skew to the thing that the flashy things may bring.
00:07:28.000 That's what I'm trying to get.
00:07:29.000 Exactly.
00:07:30.000 Because I've met some women who actually don't like guys who are flashy,
00:07:32.000 who they think, Oh, this guy's too loud.
00:07:34.000 So what about those women? 1.00
00:07:36.000 They look at guys with all that.
00:07:37.000 What are we talking about?
00:07:38.000 The rule or the exception?
00:07:40.000 I'm just asking this question.
00:07:42.000 No, but you're bringing up the exceptions.
00:07:44.000 I would argue that even the guys that you claim are not flashy,
00:07:48.000 they are still flashy in the ways women would respond to, 1.00
00:07:51.000 in terms of like their status.
00:07:53.000 Yeah, but it's not shiny.
00:07:54.000 It is shiny.
00:07:55.000 Status is a shiny thing, bro.
00:07:56.000 How many people have status?
00:07:57.000 I agree with me.
00:07:58.000 It's bright in the eyes of women. 1.00
00:08:00.000 I get what you mean.
00:08:01.000 I mean, I get what you're saying.
00:08:03.000 I think the word shiny kind of took me over,
00:08:05.000 but you just mean like just credible.
00:08:07.000 I mean, I'm a philosopher at the end of the day.
00:08:09.000 Come on.
00:08:10.000 You're a philosopher.
00:08:11.000 Yeah.
00:08:12.000 I get what you're saying,
00:08:13.000 but I still feel like women are attracted to security.
00:08:15.000 It's just like you said,
00:08:16.000 it's just in their biological nature to draw to these things.
00:08:19.000 Yeah.
00:08:20.000 Yeah.