JustPearlyThings - July 25, 2023


Women Will NEVER UNDERSTAND This Male Struggle


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

191.48936

Word Count

1,662

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

23

Hate Speech Sentences

11


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 and and so it's like guys don't want to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to not get
00:00:05.080 their kid the deadbeat dad thing it's a myth i really don't believe it but you're talking like
00:00:09.720 about someone that has money right many guys don't have money at all right so it's not just
00:00:15.200 financial and that's why a lot of the men that don't have money don't fight because they don't
00:00:20.580 want to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars just to not get their kids lawyers will advise
00:00:24.620 them against it and another thing i want to add because you asked something a question yeah is
00:00:30.100 depends who is the woman for example and why is there isn't we we get divorced who is the woman
00:00:34.980 and then i will also decide if i want to fight or not because as a father which i'm not but thinking
00:00:41.720 i would like the best for the kid yeah so if the mother was capable and it was potentially my fault
00:00:47.560 or some careful but she's still capable of being a mother i wouldn't really fight you know
00:00:52.360 makes sense it's hard work it's hard work looking after kids but if she was a good woman then you
00:01:01.400 would let the kids stay with her i would in any case let the kids stay with you unless it's a really
00:01:07.300 good reason not to well and the point is they don't have a choice women get custody 90 percent of the
00:01:12.740 time they do not have a choice so unless the woman's bad right like it has bad sort of intentions or
00:01:18.440 doesn't always neglect you need to prove it i'm saying i'm saying it doesn't really matter because
00:01:22.800 the courts are so one-sided like like a girl so if you're in a relationship with a guy and you make
00:01:28.480 one phone call you can get him kicked out of the house for a year before you go to trial then you
00:01:32.080 go to trial and what they'll tell you is oh why haven't you been in the kid's life for a year
00:01:35.520 and the problem is she can get a restraining order so if she tries to if he tries to see the kid
00:01:40.280 he gets arrested and then he gets punished in court they're like why haven't you been in the
00:01:45.140 kid's life and if they're like working now if they're not even working and they're spending time
00:01:50.420 with the kids you'd be called a bitch by not working it's it's so funny because we want men
00:01:55.640 that protect and provide and then if they do it they're punished in court it's like they can't win
00:02:00.660 that is true it's very high they'll say oh he spent more she spent more time with the kid but if
00:02:06.900 they cared about the kid why wouldn't they go off through out off of the statistics that single
00:02:11.280 father homes go far far fair better than single mother homes men really really suffer you know in
00:02:20.400 these situations and women don't really understand it but they have really difficult time I'm not
00:02:25.920 saying from experience but from what I see is like women have a lot of control nowadays it's western
00:02:31.680 society when it comes to this matter and in the UK you get a free lawyer if you accuse a guy of
00:02:38.460 abuse if he's been arrested you get a free lawyer so women have like incentive to accuse men of abuse
00:02:43.800 and you can kind of see what's real and what's not by looking at who's who has pressed criminal charges
00:02:48.720 and it's less than 10 percent the lawyer still works for the government he doesn't privately work for you
00:02:53.400 unless you pay him what the lawyer works like he's a solicitor he's a public defender yeah like they say
00:03:01.200 in the states he doesn't work for you in your favor so he'll go based off jurors based off and the other
00:03:08.220 issue too is their number one client is from the women's shelters so if they if they win too many cases
00:03:13.620 for the men it kind of backfires because then they don't get clients from the women's shelters
00:03:17.100 it's like a whole money it's really crazy I'm doing a whole documentary on it it's so insane
00:03:22.220 in comparison to like UK and US I mean it's or just in general like nation like well I'm focusing
00:03:29.520 more on the UK because it's like it's it's definitely I would say worse here across the board but
00:03:34.580 the US it kind of depends on the state you're in um and I've heard Ireland is like worse than here
00:03:40.960 but yeah I'm doing it mostly in the UK with a couple stories from the US um I forgot what question
00:03:48.740 we were even asking it's about cheating oh I remember um so you what no no it was the cheating
00:04:00.820 I think if uh if you don't sleep with your husband oh yeah yeah yes that's the one so so what you you
00:04:07.260 agreed with me right that if a girl gets cheated on because she doesn't have any reason yeah like if
00:04:12.240 she doesn't have any reason and she doesn't offer to her husband yeah what the husband needs as well
00:04:17.320 what would be a good reason for a woman not to sleep with her husband
00:04:20.320 what would be a good reason for a woman not to sleep with her husband that she just gave her birth
00:04:29.040 she doesn't love him anymore that's a good reason that is a good reason oh if she doesn't love him
00:04:34.200 anymore well then she shouldn't be with him right yeah no she should but we don't know why she's
00:04:39.140 isn't that a bit subjective like wouldn't you say feelings change every day yes you could hate
00:04:46.780 someone one day love them the next so then then should we not should we deny a guy's sex based on
00:04:52.440 our feelings if they change every day you think that's fair should he protect us if when he feels like
00:05:00.840 it why so quiet i don't know i'm just asking i think fundamentally he should protect us like and
00:05:15.020 we but like i said it goes back to like your your one your your communion you're together right
00:05:20.360 so like you gotta give and take i just think the feelings don't matter at all no i mean if you're
00:05:25.760 really like you know having a bad day and all he wants is like to canoodle like you might just be
00:05:31.000 like dude seriously yeah i mean once in a while guys are understanding yeah you know but for like
00:05:36.760 months on end or for like years no that's just not right there's guys that haven't been like had sex
00:05:41.100 in like years in marriage yeah no no no that's not true right guys are pretty simple they're food
00:05:46.880 banging it's true it's true that's all you need what about you um i don't know why someone would
00:05:55.720 want to have sex with someone that doesn't really want to have sex with them so i think if
00:05:59.460 i think if the answer is no then that's that debate there can you cheat then if she says no
00:06:07.420 i think he can ask for permission to cheat could he just do it he shouldn't just do it oh i don't
00:06:13.060 know i'm not an expert on that maybe if the girl's not having sex for such a long time maybe she's
00:06:17.940 cheating as well how long can a girl not sleep with her husband before she's deemed a bad wife
00:06:25.540 wow depends what is normal to have how no no no i'm just saying in general how long three months
00:06:34.560 three months is bad wife what if there's still a show involved three months there's still there's
00:06:42.460 still some sort of exhibition amongst partners but it's not full intercourse and you just show for
00:06:49.340 each other a show wow like this just be naked it could be naked it could be okay okay we're
00:06:57.920 we're just talking about sex i'm not i'd say that um three months in a active relationship is
00:07:06.340 probably quite a long time to go without okay so without a valid reason like a baby or something
00:07:11.100 okay and so then he can cheat no no he has to have a conversation but i'm not an expert on it so
00:07:16.700 no you don't have to be an expert it's just opinions it's just an opinion show you know i can't speak
00:07:22.160 from experience so then i feel a bit funny about saying okay okay that's all right what about you
00:07:27.320 should can a guy cheat if his wife won't sleep with him i don't think anybody should cheat
00:07:34.900 male or female wife or husband if they can't sleep with each other whether it's from physical
00:07:42.500 deformity or whatever it is okay communicate it and if not then just split how how long can a woman
00:07:48.960 not sleep with her husband till she's a bad wife eternity forever eternity so she's a
00:07:57.160 good wife still if she doesn't sleep with him for a year
00:07:59.820 other way around she's a bad wife if she doesn't sleep with him for a year yeah okay so so if it's
00:08:11.360 a month is she a bad wife no we no she feels a certain type of way she's on her period maybe
00:08:17.120 it could be many things one month three months is she a bad wife six months ten months a year but
00:08:21.680 at least communicate tell me why okay and then she says i don't want to
00:08:25.720 tell me why you don't exactly again why there has to be some sort of reason even if you tell me okay
00:08:32.400 i don't feel it it's a reason but if you tell me i don't know that's literally not a reason
00:08:39.460 sex a duty in marriage
00:08:40.740 sex a duty in marriage