JustPearlyThings - May 11, 2023


He Got KICKED Out Of The Show For THIS


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Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

229.44186

Word count

1,928

Sentence count

22

Harmful content

Misogyny

30

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Toxicity

52

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Hate speech

19

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Summary

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In this episode we talk about sex with a woman who says she doesn t want to have sex with you and how to deal with it. We also talk about how to handle situations where a woman tells you she doesn't want sex.

Transcript

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Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 Says I don't have sex with you in love you know and the guys wait in there. Hopefully she changed her mind 1.00
00:00:06.220 Guys had like five other girls that he tried to have sex what she said and then and then you know 1.00
00:00:11.520 Maybe he wasn't expecting it, but she changed her mind later because I've even I've even had guys tell me that like if they tell a
00:00:16.880 Girl, okay fine. That's fine. No, no problem
00:00:19.220 Then she comes back even like harder weirdly enough when he like takes away the attention
00:00:23.120 So it's it's like I think saying that he's a creep is kind of
00:00:26.480 It's not saying that but if a guy's specifically day 0.99
00:00:30.320 Yeah, just the fucker when she says I don't want it and he was there just the fucker then that's not right 0.99
00:00:35.720 I 1.00
00:00:37.720 Just want to say predatorial like that
00:00:41.660 I just tell him no and just say go home like at any point
00:00:45.780 It just proves that you don't have any self-control
00:00:48.860 Listen if you can't do it a lot of people can't do that. I'm saying not to your voice not work
00:00:54.660 I've actually invited goes to my house and been a bit like hesitant to be like actually I don't want you here
00:00:59.660 I want you to leave but I've been a bit hesitant to say leave
00:01:02.580 I feel like girls have been in the same position and book and I've not actually said you should learn how to say leave then
00:01:08.400 But like I think it's like I think I put it on the other person
00:01:11.220 I feel a lot of people like I'm just big I'm just big in like accountability
00:01:13.940 Like if you if you choose to sleep with someone you can't go back and call them a creep later
00:01:17.900 In my opinion if you if you choose to do it if if you didn't choose to do it, then that's one thing 0.99
00:01:23.520 But I'm just not I just think there's a lot of like me too shit. That's kind of 0.99
00:01:28.400 Gone around where we call men creeps when I don't think they're creepy
00:01:31.280 But the thing is that if it goes statistic listen, bro. I'm sweet statistics
00:01:35.600 Listen bro. I'm speaking. Oh, I'm on the podcast. I have to listen. I'll speak in first, bro. Listen
00:01:40.080 Cool. Let's say a girl's there and she told you specifically no. Yeah 0.95
00:01:44.840 Instead of like instead of like choking her hair or whatever you get angry at her. Yeah
00:01:49.460 I know heard that when's this girl gonna give me sex. You know what I'm saying? That's the amateur 1.00
00:01:54.240 That's what little nerds do. You know what I'm saying?
00:01:56.760 And then like she doesn't want it and then she ends up not wanting it because he's angry
00:02:00.080 She he wants to see you get angry exactly
00:02:02.500 You know what I'm saying? But even if he's in his head like oh, I want to fuck this girl so much 1.00
00:02:06.540 Some people just fucked in the head honestly. It's gonna come across like that. Do you know what I'm saying? 1.00
00:02:10.860 But if he's that cool, no worry baby. He's cool. It's fun
00:02:13.460 Like you can go home if you want. Should I drop you home in the car? No problem
00:02:16.620 If you don't have a car then you shouldn't be going for girls anyway, bro 1.00
00:02:19.160 Don't be walking around on the streets of women easy as 1.00
00:02:21.880 If you're in a car and you're like cool
00:02:24.000 Don't walk on the streets of women? I'm confused 1.00
00:02:26.540 Wait, why?
00:02:28.000 You get walked?
00:02:29.000 Listen, listen, listen
00:02:31.100 When there's countless guys with cars
00:02:33.600 With nice houses
00:02:35.000 Oh, and they pull up
00:02:36.200 Wait, it's not even that 0.99
00:02:37.040 Nah, it's still weird though when guys are doing that shit 0.99
00:02:40.220 And they start looking at you 0.99
00:02:40.800 It's weird when they pull up with a car
00:02:42.380 Listen, bro, I'm trying to speak here
00:02:44.920 And they like pull up beside you
00:02:46.420 And they think that you're just gonna get in the car
00:02:48.940 Yeah
00:02:49.320 Anyway, anyway 0.76
00:02:50.000 It's really fucking weird 0.98
00:02:51.080 It's disgusting 0.98
00:02:51.660 When a lot of guys have cars
00:02:53.700 You know what I'm saying?
00:02:54.460 You're walking on the street with a woman
00:02:55.600 Do you not feel embarrassed to work harder, bro?
00:02:58.000 Do you not feel embarrassed to get a car
00:02:59.500 So you can go in a car and go on like drives with her
00:03:03.120 Do you not get embarrassed, bro?
00:03:04.420 Oh, I thought you
00:03:04.980 Sorry, yeah
00:03:05.740 Oh, I was thinking about a slightly different
00:03:07.940 We were talking about a totally different topic
00:03:10.600 I was getting vexed then
00:03:11.620 How was you getting vexed?
00:03:13.000 Because I thought you were talking about the whole thing
00:03:15.160 When you're walking down the street
00:03:16.900 Say us girls are walking down the street
00:03:18.360 And then a guy comes up to you in the car
00:03:20.440 Or like walking behind you quite quickly
00:03:22.480 Yeah
00:03:22.860 And they're like, you're right, babes
00:03:24.400 Yeah, I don't respect that
00:03:25.400 I can't like
00:03:25.980 Like, nah
00:03:26.760 Especially when she's with a guy 1.00
00:03:29.240 I don't respect guys moving to girls
00:03:30.940 When she's with her man 0.97
00:03:32.380 Do you understand?
00:03:33.400 I don't respect that
00:03:34.300 I don't even look at guys
00:03:35.960 When they're with their girl
00:03:37.820 Like, I don't look at girls when they're with their guy 0.99
00:03:39.900 Because I don't go like, oh, she's so sexy 0.94
00:03:41.840 Yeah
00:03:42.160 When she has a man 0.97
00:03:42.840 Because I'm disrespectful
00:03:43.480 I wouldn't want to say anything happening to me
00:03:45.460 Easier
00:03:45.880 It's just simple respect at the end of the day
00:03:47.900 Exactly, bro
00:03:48.440 Exactly
00:03:48.780 When they go like
00:03:49.900 Oh, your boyfriend doesn't have to know
00:03:52.360 Oh, mate 1.00
00:03:53.660 What the fuck? 1.00
00:03:56.260 I think it's about comfortability 1.00
00:03:58.180 Because if a girl comes back to your place 1.00
00:04:00.240 I think it's kind of a mutual understanding
00:04:03.300 Of what's expected
00:04:04.180 Or what's possibly going to happen
00:04:05.980 I think if a girl comes back to your place 1.00
00:04:07.980 And you're vibing
00:04:09.280 And you're doing whatever you're doing
00:04:10.600 And she says, no
00:04:11.480 I think it's a point of, like, comfortability
00:04:15.540 She doesn't feel comfortable with you 0.94
00:04:17.540 If you
00:04:18.060 She walks in
00:04:19.260 She takes her shoes off
00:04:20.500 Let her know right there 1.00
00:04:21.200 Get comfortable
00:04:21.780 Well, I just don't understand
00:04:24.040 Like, what were you doing there in the first place?
00:04:26.800 Like, because if a girl 1.00
00:04:27.540 If you feel pressured or whatever
00:04:28.960 It's like, why'd you go back?
00:04:30.440 Exactly
00:04:30.800 Because there's the comfortability factor
00:04:32.820 Does it have to be sex? 0.73
00:04:34.080 Does it have to be sex? 0.96
00:04:35.200 If a girl comes back 1.00
00:04:35.700 After a certain hour, yeah
00:04:38.440 I just assume
00:04:39.400 That's assumption
00:04:40.920 That's assumption
00:04:41.780 That's not assumption
00:04:42.500 I mean, first of all
00:04:43.340 Any one of you
00:04:44.280 It is
00:04:44.780 If I invited you back to my place
00:04:46.600 In your mind
00:04:49.000 I do think that straight away
00:04:50.340 What's the expectation?
00:04:52.180 What do you think I'm expecting?
00:04:53.460 What do we, what are we doing?
00:04:55.120 What are we doing?
00:04:55.840 Yeah, what are we doing?
00:04:56.640 But you know
00:04:57.160 Are we just chilling
00:04:58.060 If you go back to a man's place 1.00
00:05:01.860 After you've been drinking out
00:05:02.800 Night out in the club
00:05:03.440 With your girls
00:05:04.180 And I'm out with my boys
00:05:05.640 Or whatever
00:05:06.080 Yeah, you think you're just going to sleep
00:05:07.720 We know what it is
00:05:09.440 Oh, I'm delusional enough
00:05:10.580 To actually think that you want to be my friend
00:05:12.160 I think I'm not going to
00:05:15.700 Because you know what it is
00:05:16.460 If you're coming back
00:05:17.420 Then you know what the expectation
00:05:19.320 Why am I inviting you back to my place
00:05:20.780 And we're not going to go there
00:05:21.480 I'm not going to lie, bro
00:05:22.400 I think that's your own expectation
00:05:24.020 I feel like
00:05:24.860 Whatever girl that I go back with 0.97
00:05:26.740 I know whether we're going to just chat and talk
00:05:29.600 Or whether we're going to have sex 0.99
00:05:30.660 At 2am you want to chat, bro? 0.97
00:05:32.180 We're going to do this
00:05:32.980 I know what the situation
00:05:33.900 I think you automatically assuming
00:05:36.380 Oh, if you're back at my place at this time 1.00
00:05:38.580 We have to fuck 1.00
00:05:39.420 I think that's just your expectation, bro 1.00
00:05:41.200 Listen, bro
00:05:41.920 Listen
00:05:42.160 2am in the morning
00:05:43.720 If a girl comes back to your place 1.00
00:05:45.100 She's not there to talk
00:05:46.040 Okay, okay
00:05:46.740 Okay, okay
00:05:47.700 Wait, what world do you live in?
00:05:49.860 I live in the 21st century in London
00:05:51.760 Do you know what I mean?
00:05:53.100 So you bring girls back to your place 1.00
00:05:54.860 Wait, wait, wait
00:05:56.020 I've been back
00:05:57.160 Wait, wait, wait
00:05:58.520 I'm going to ask you a question
00:05:59.960 Land, land
00:06:00.300 So you bring girls back to your place at 2am 1.00
00:06:03.200 And
00:06:04.240 Wait
00:06:06.200 Yeah, yeah, yeah
00:06:07.600 I'm waiting, I'm waiting
00:06:09.220 And what?
00:06:10.780 They just curve you? 0.99
00:06:13.700 Sometimes they have sex with me 0.99
00:06:15.100 Sometimes we eat 0.99
00:06:16.220 Sometimes we do this
00:06:17.240 Sometimes we do that
00:06:18.120 I think it depends
00:06:19.180 It depends on the girl 0.55
00:06:20.680 Do you see what I'm saying?
00:06:22.260 I think if you're going to be like my man
00:06:23.740 And assume that every girl you come back with 1.00
00:06:25.600 You're going to fuck 1.00
00:06:26.660 You're a waste, man 1.00
00:06:27.700 I'm just being real 1.00
00:06:28.640 I agree
00:06:29.140 Bro, this guy here
00:06:30.200 I don't know what you're saying
00:06:30.980 How old are you, my bro?
00:06:31.740 You're 20, yeah?
00:06:32.780 I'm 28
00:06:33.380 So I've got eight more years of understanding
00:06:35.620 Of what it is
00:06:36.900 And you're still a feminist, bro 1.00
00:06:37.840 It's about
00:06:38.140 It's not about being a feminist 1.00
00:06:39.940 You're a feminist, bro 1.00
00:06:40.300 It's not
00:06:40.740 You just has a different perspective
00:06:42.120 You're not being a label
00:06:42.900 When a girl comes to me 0.99
00:06:43.980 You're labelling, bro
00:06:44.920 It's a young ting
00:06:45.720 Labelling people in a bracket
00:06:47.360 It's a young ting, bro
00:06:48.500 Listen, bro, listen
00:06:48.780 So you're telling me
00:06:49.920 When a girl comes to your house 1.00
00:06:51.120 At 2am
00:06:51.740 2am you're going to eat 1.00
00:06:53.020 Fucking pizza 1.00
00:06:53.660 When I'm watching Netflix 1.00
00:06:54.440 Bro
00:06:55.040 Bro, bro
00:06:56.280 Sometimes it's like that
00:06:58.040 Why can't it be like that?
00:06:59.120 Shall I tell you something?
00:06:59.720 Shall I tell you something?
00:07:00.500 You might have a girl 0.60
00:07:01.160 Come back to your yard
00:07:02.000 At 2am
00:07:03.060 And do you know what? 1.00
00:07:04.380 You might try to fuck her 1.00
00:07:05.300 And she don't want to fuck you 1.00
00:07:06.160 And do you know what? 1.00
00:07:06.560 You'll never see her again
00:07:07.400 When some people
00:07:08.920 Might just wait
00:07:09.960 Chill, get to know the girl
00:07:11.400 And in the future 1.00
00:07:12.280 They still will fuck her 1.00
00:07:13.520 Do you get what I'm saying? 1.00
00:07:14.440 What do you mean 1.00
00:07:14.800 If she don't want to fuck her 1.00
00:07:15.700 I'll never fuck her again 1.00
00:07:16.480 Maybe, cool 1.00
00:07:17.540 I'll say, cool
00:07:18.240 No problem, darling
00:07:19.120 That's no problem
00:07:20.280 What do you mean 1.00
00:07:20.820 I'm never going to fuck her again? 1.00
00:07:21.820 I'm not going to force myself onto her 1.00
00:07:23.260 So then why are you asking me a question?
00:07:24.540 If a girl comes to your yard 1.00
00:07:25.380 At 2am
00:07:25.880 You're going to do what?
00:07:26.680 What do you expect to do, bro?
00:07:27.860 Exactly
00:07:28.220 You have an expectation
00:07:29.940 What do you expect to do?
00:07:30.780 You have an expectation
00:07:31.740 In your head
00:07:32.380 It's 2am
00:07:32.940 Because it's 2am
00:07:33.580 Exactly
00:07:33.980 This is exactly what I'm saying
00:07:35.660 Because we live in reality
00:07:37.360 Come on
00:07:38.440 What should we call on?
00:07:39.820 That's basic
00:07:40.620 Wait, wait
00:07:41.180 That's basic
00:07:42.180 Wait
00:07:42.540 Wait
00:07:43.100 That's basic
00:07:43.820 Wait
00:07:44.220 It's your last warning
00:07:45.500 It's your last warning
00:07:46.520 It might have to be
00:07:47.320 It's so
00:07:47.780 It's so
00:07:48.300 It's so
00:07:48.320 All right, go
00:07:49.100 Go
00:07:49.500 Bye
00:07:49.860 Thank you
00:07:50.460 All right
00:07:51.700 Say no more of them
00:07:53.580 Finally, bro
00:07:54.880 Finally, bro
00:07:56.180 Talk in peace, bro 1.00
00:07:58.020 I'm like feminist bitch boy 1.00
00:07:59.420 I'm going to read the super chat 0.99
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