JustPearlyThings - April 20, 2023


HEATED DEBATE： @JWALLER DESTROYS Oppressed Feminist


Episode Stats

Length

16 minutes

Words per Minute

237.91985

Word Count

3,811

Sentence Count

24

Misogynist Sentences

28

Hate Speech Sentences

30


Summary

In this episode, we discuss racism, feminism and why it's important to be a feminist. We also discuss the importance of letting go of the attachments that keep us stuck in the old ways of thinking and how we need to let go of them.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I get what you guys are trying to say in terms of my mindset
00:00:03.760 I definitely believe that what you think is what will manifest but what I'm trying to understand is
00:00:07.700 Are you guys trying to say that racism does not exist that's all and it's just this fantasy not as much as we're talking about it
00:00:13.940 right now and not as much as the
00:00:16.620 oppression of women and as much as feminists believe that feminists like are held back and that we need to be empowered to ask like what
00:00:22.720 How do we empower women? Oh motherhood. Okay. Mothers have always been respected
00:00:27.320 So it's a lot of this people like to have and this is what wokeness does
00:00:30.880 We like to have reasons to justify our existence and where our place in the world like we're held back because of white
00:00:38.400 Oppression, I'm a feminist. I'm an immigrant and this is why I'm where I'm at
00:00:41.620 It makes us feel better about our position in life
00:00:43.720 But if you let go of those attachments and just understand that the world is what you make it you will succeed and you will be better
00:00:48.880 These ways so like racism and it's all garbage
00:00:52.320 It's all meant to keep us like down and at the bottom the black lives matter movement for example
00:00:56.480 It was all garbage all the psyop all that was a scam same with the feminist movement
00:01:00.420 Any of these ideologies that people grasp on to feel better same thing with all these people talking about Ukraine and Russia
00:01:05.860 Like you're not gonna change it
00:01:07.040 Just go get some money and start a family and just stop attaching yourself to stuff that you have no control over and that and that's the point
00:01:12.940 He's dead on because like for example
00:01:15.680 People get all up flustered about who wins a presidency. Oh Trump's president. I can't do I don't give a fuck who wins present
00:01:22.480 You could be president tomorrow. I'm still gonna win men bet your fucking ass. I don't care what the condition is
00:01:27.480 I don't care who's in office you do any of you could be president tomorrow
00:01:30.460 And I'm still gonna get up and go to work the next day
00:01:31.860 Can I tell you something very interesting? Do you know why racism actually exists because nobody said it didn't exist it's not a way to lead your identity
00:01:38.860 It's actually very annoying because what people don't understand is that sometimes you're walking amongst black people or even sometimes a black person will go into a shop and the
00:01:47.200 Security guard will look at them and follow them. They don't even know they're looking at prints because that's a pattern recognition
00:01:52.200 No, this is the only problem pattern recognition. No, no, no listen listen
00:01:56.820 Yeah, the problem is that with this whole idea of racism what people talk about for me
00:02:01.380 I find racism to be an insult because people look at the skin that color of my skin and they assume I'm lower than what I am
00:02:07.000 Actually, but why they don't know they actually do they actually do
00:02:10.480 But coming from the two girls that brought up race though, that's the thing you bring up race immediately the show been going on five minutes
00:02:18.480 Of course because you both bring up black. I'm never
00:02:20.480 Never in my mind was I like
00:02:22.480 Can I ask you a question?
00:02:24.480 Can I ask you a question?
00:02:25.480 You said it like they who is they just overall the general population in this country at least
00:02:31.480 So would you say like everyone would you say like everyone in this room?
00:02:35.480 I don't think that's true. I don't think that's true in London
00:02:37.480 No, I'll explain to you why I'll explain to you why they hear my accent a lot of the time they see my skin
00:02:43.980 I just want to know who they wait wait who is people just people in general?
00:02:46.480 I guess so I met you in London, so I'm asking you like they is that the okay room is that like everyone in here just met you today
00:02:53.280 They I mean this is this is the people that don't matter to me
00:02:56.780 I don't know this is this is and I'm just saying this is a good sample size of people
00:03:00.380 These are all random people like okay, you know, and I know we know each other but of course outside of that
00:03:05.080 I relate to a lot of these girls
00:03:07.080 Could you be projecting?
00:03:08.080 Insecurities on to other people that make you assumptions about what no think about you
00:03:11.580 Because when I met you I didn't think I didn't think oh, she's lower or she's anything else. You know, whatever
00:03:15.480 I mean, I just thought yeah cool girl. I thought good TV
00:03:21.580 I'll explain to you why and this is the same thing with then that goes perhaps that links more into feminism is that
00:03:27.580 I just don't like the fact that people assume less of my capabilities based on something
00:03:36.080 I'll tell you who her she's the one that put it out in the universe
00:03:38.580 No, let me tell you let me tell you let me tell you
00:03:44.580 My biggest comments yet guys you guys are troublesome than my biggest comments like look at this stupid girl
00:03:49.980 What does she know? I told mr. King riches that I could fix a Bentley and he laughs. Well, how could you?
00:03:55.080 Be why because I'm a girl
00:03:57.080 That's the thing so feminism what I think feminism is King riches
00:04:01.080 Then why not say why not say why not say why not respond to King rich and say because I have the skill set?
00:04:06.080 Yes, and that's the whole point doesn't that's why feminism as well what the girls are trying to say is the point
00:04:12.080 Listen, listen what I believe girls are trying to say is that listen don't look at the fact that I'm a girl
00:04:16.080 I've got the skill set so respect me for my skill set then lead with it. That's it
00:04:20.080 And I leave with that I have the skills
00:04:22.080 Of course and the only reason why I'm
00:04:24.080 I don't separate myself from
00:04:26.080 Most women don't have the skill set to fix a car. Can we just call a spade a spade?
00:04:30.080 It's not it's not feminism holding us back
00:04:33.080 It's us choosing not to get that skill so people assume that but I don't know how you claim that to me saying that feminism is holding
00:04:40.080 No, you because you were you were saying that like people assume that you couldn't fix a BM or some people assume that you couldn't fix a BMW
00:04:47.080 Yeah, and somehow that's tied to fem who cares?
00:04:50.080 No, it doesn't matter that's what feminism doesn't matter girls just want credit for what they can do
00:04:55.080 I will give you 200 pounds if you can fix a BMW we can do a video
00:05:00.080 I'll match it I'll match it because I love that and if you can know I'll match it
00:05:09.080 I'm actually doing a series guys make sure that you subscribe to my channel
00:05:12.080 I love that
00:05:13.080 And watch me fix the car I fix the battery change tires fix the electric system
00:05:19.080 Why because I know how to use Google very well, and I practice and I did it love it. Love it. I think anyone who hasn't experienced racism shouldn't say anything about it
00:05:27.080 Full stop. Well, okay, cool. So I grew up quite a while five years five years in a black neighborhood
00:05:34.080 I got in a fight every other day for it. Okay, but that's because I had red hair they call me rooster
00:05:37.580 I literally got in fights every day
00:05:39.580 So you got bullied
00:05:40.580 That's not racism
00:05:41.580 Exactly
00:05:42.580 It's discrimination based on what it is
00:05:44.580 It's exactly what racism is
00:05:46.580 It's not racism
00:05:47.580 He wasn't oppressed. We were the ones that oppressed so you can't call that racism
00:05:50.080 How are you oppressed?
00:05:51.080 No, but I'm not
00:05:52.080 In 2023 how are you oppressed? Because I got news for you, honey
00:05:55.080 If you had a skill set that was worth something to somebody you would be the richest fucker in here
00:05:59.080 So slavery didn't exist?
00:06:00.080 That slavery exists?
00:06:01.080 Slavery exists, yeah
00:06:02.080 It also is it also existed for the IRS
00:06:04.080 I'm not trying to belittle what happened to black people
00:06:06.080 I would never know I'm not
00:06:07.080 Why are people in the UK talking about slavery?
00:06:09.080 No, no, no, no, no, no
00:06:10.080 Here's why
00:06:11.080 Hey, there was no slaves here
00:06:13.080 Here's why
00:06:14.080 No, this is very important
00:06:15.080 Can we stop?
00:06:16.080 This is very important to me
00:06:17.080 I have a lot of young black men that follow me
00:06:19.080 There's no fucking way on earth
00:06:21.080 I'm gonna let them believe
00:06:22.080 That they have a lesser chance than anybody else if they just work their ass off
00:06:26.080 There's no fucking way
00:06:27.080 I'm not shitting on their dreams like that
00:06:28.080 I'll be damned
00:06:29.080 You call me a racist if you want
00:06:30.080 That's fine, but we have to work harder
00:06:31.080 You call me a racist all day
00:06:32.080 I'm not
00:06:33.080 I don't care
00:06:34.080 There's no way I'm letting those young men believe that shit
00:06:35.080 100%
00:06:36.080 Because I know plenty of black guys
00:06:37.080 Look, King Rich is here right now
00:06:38.080 He's a fucking winner
00:06:39.080 100%
00:06:40.080 He didn't let that shit happen
00:06:41.080 100%, but we have to work harder
00:06:42.080 And that's the fact of the matter
00:06:43.080 What about all of our friends that are black that are very, very successful
00:06:46.080 King Rich is why do people listen to you when they see you?
00:06:48.080 Bro, looking at racism is for broke people
00:06:51.080 No
00:06:52.080 Not a lie
00:06:53.080 It's just an insult
00:06:55.080 I just find it insulting
00:06:57.080 It's not insulting
00:06:58.080 You lead with it
00:06:59.080 Get a new identity
00:07:00.080 Especially as a black woman, we are at the bottom
00:07:03.080 I'm a black girl
00:07:05.080 What?
00:07:06.080 You're so much more than that
00:07:07.080 You're so much more than that
00:07:08.080 Then don't lead with it
00:07:09.080 It's bullshit
00:07:10.080 It's bullshit
00:07:11.080 I didn't lead with it
00:07:12.080 I use it as a comparison for me to explain why I'm not the same as every girl that puts themselves in one thing
00:07:16.080 Then why not tell us the skills you have and the person you are
00:07:19.080 Why don't you lead with that?
00:07:21.080 I don't like racism
00:07:22.080 Because they think someone can't speak four languages
00:07:23.080 Lead with the person you are
00:07:25.080 It's given that you guys hate women
00:07:27.080 That's the vibes right now
00:07:28.080 No
00:07:29.080 No
00:07:30.080 No
00:07:31.080 No
00:07:32.080 No
00:07:33.080 No
00:07:34.080 No
00:07:35.080 No
00:07:36.080 No
00:07:37.080 No
00:07:38.080 Let me say something
00:07:39.080 It's not a thing where they hate women
00:07:40.080 If anything they love women
00:07:41.080 For a man to tell you to think positively
00:07:43.080 How is that hatred?
00:07:44.080 The people are literally telling us that what we think is what's going to manifest
00:07:48.080 So therefore think positive thoughts and positive things will happen to you
00:07:52.080 You guys on this table who are talking about feminists
00:07:54.080 You're all negative because why would you focus so much on comments?
00:07:57.080 Why would you focus so much on who's looking at your hairstyle, your accent or whatever?
00:08:01.080 And then someone comes to tell you actually focus on the positive and you guys are saying they hate you
00:08:05.080 No
00:08:06.080 You can focus on it because just the other day a man applied for a job and they told him he can't get the job because of his afro so you can't tell us to not focus on it when it is the focus
00:08:15.080 That didn't happen
00:08:16.080 Yes it did happen
00:08:17.080 It literally happened the other day
00:08:18.080 Yeah but that's his experience but if he was smart he's not going to let that hold him back
00:08:22.080 Of course not
00:08:23.080 That's the whole point
00:08:24.080 That's why he went on the news and he spoke up about it
00:08:25.080 I'm not being held back
00:08:26.080 But you can't tell us to not focus on it when if I walk into a certain place of my afro the first thing people are going to do is stare at me
00:08:31.080 And certain places won't want to give me the job just because I have an afro so you can't tell me
00:08:33.080 You want me to tell you something?
00:08:34.080 Yeah but that's your mindset
00:08:35.080 That's your mindset
00:08:36.080 Try to change it
00:08:37.080 You can't tell me it's my mindset if they have told me I am not giving you the job because of my afro
00:08:40.080 Do you know why?
00:08:41.080 Then go to another job
00:08:42.080 My point is that shouldn't happen point blank period
00:08:44.080 That is my point
00:08:45.080 Yeah but the world is evil
00:08:47.080 You can't say that's evil
00:08:49.080 Guys guys guys guys guys wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait stop wait thank you
00:08:59.080 Do you know why you saw that in the news?
00:09:01.080 Because they want you to believe that racism is a real problem
00:09:04.080 It wasn't even on the news so you're lying
00:09:05.080 She just said that it was in the news
00:09:07.080 It was not only on the news it went viral on twitter let's fact check now
00:09:11.080 I said it was on the news so you're just adding to it
00:09:13.080 No no but you're saying only why you saw it on the news
00:09:16.080 Yeah that's why I saw it so you're adding to it
00:09:18.080 They share these stories like George Floyd and like that afro nonsense that you saw on the news in order for you to believe that there's a system that's holding you back
00:09:25.080 It's not
00:09:26.080 And you saw here we're talking about race
00:09:28.080 Hold on so the man went online and was like I didn't get the job sat there and didn't have it at this point when he got on the news
00:09:33.080 They pick and chose to run that story because it gives people like you a reason to feel
00:09:36.080 Not people like me
00:09:37.080 Exactly people like you
00:09:38.080 They used to want to give my mom free food in the market because they didn't believe that white woman could have three little kids with afros
00:09:45.080 They used to give her food because they used to think they were little African children that suffer
00:09:49.080 These times we were quite wealthy
00:09:51.080 So for example
00:09:52.080 Okay my overall point is that people like to have a victim mindset especially
00:09:57.080 It's not a victimization I'm just saying it exists
00:09:58.080 Okay
00:09:59.080 That's it
00:10:00.080 That's my point is that we hear this victimized mindset right now in order to give you a way to navigate the world that justifies a lot of your thoughts and beliefs
00:10:07.080 We're talking about race and you're like it's giving misogyny
00:10:10.080 It is
00:10:11.080 No you
00:10:12.080 You are
00:10:13.080 What is calling out the victimization of the race
00:10:16.080 I feel the vibration
00:10:17.080 You feel the vibrations of misogyny
00:10:19.080 Of your mentality
00:10:21.080 Your mentality is one of your type of man
00:10:24.080 That's what
00:10:25.080 What type of man
00:10:26.080 No sister they just here trying to make you look stupid
00:10:28.080 That's what their job is
00:10:29.080 It's not that hard
00:10:30.080 They like to make girls look dumb
00:10:31.080 That's it
00:10:32.080 It's not that fucking hard
00:10:33.080 Don't take it personal they literally just want to catch you out
00:10:35.080 I'm asking you I'm trying to get to what she really believes
00:10:38.080 King which has changed me for this
00:10:39.080 All right
00:10:40.080 What what are the vibrations that I'm giving you that
00:10:42.080 Let's give them misogynist
00:10:43.080 Why
00:10:44.080 What did we say you
00:10:45.080 I'm not being funny if what what value do you see and what what how do you value women?
00:10:49.080 Do you see the value of women?
00:10:50.080 Like are you for
00:10:51.080 I explained it five minutes ago
00:10:53.080 You didn't I said that I'm against feminism and I said that
00:10:55.080 Yeah, but if you're gonna call him a misogynist
00:10:58.080 If she asked me a question
00:10:59.080 I'm finished like I said the value of a woman is motherhood is in raising children
00:11:02.080 I said that we respect mothers
00:11:04.080 I opened the show by saying that
00:11:06.080 So what did I say that makes you think that I'm a misogynist
00:11:08.080 That's a serious allegation
00:11:09.080 I said it's given misogynist
00:11:11.080 What is giving misogynist?
00:11:12.080 Your vibration
00:11:13.080 My vibrations?
00:11:14.080 Yeah, the vibes
00:11:15.080 You're vibrating misogyny right now?
00:11:16.080 The vibes
00:11:17.080 So are you vibrating with racism too?
00:11:19.080 No, you're moving a little bit mean though
00:11:20.080 Like what goes on in women
00:11:22.080 We're moving a little bit mean that's why
00:11:23.080 I'm moving mean?
00:11:24.080 A little bit
00:11:25.080 No, you're trying to put your masculinity into
00:11:27.080 Insertive
00:11:28.080 And I don't like that
00:11:29.080 That's a bit misogynist
00:11:30.080 Comes a bit aggressive right?
00:11:31.080 He's gonna be like
00:11:33.080 It's the masculinity
00:11:34.080 I can feel it
00:11:35.080 And it's like you're trying to suppress my feminine
00:11:37.080 Chill
00:11:38.080 No, he's not
00:11:39.080 He needs to be a bit more specific
00:11:40.080 He's trying to suppress your feminine feminine
00:11:41.080 He's trying to suppress your dickhead
00:11:43.080 Like come on bro
00:11:44.080 Y'all look
00:11:45.080 Y'all are all smart pretty young women
00:11:47.080 You can do anything you want to in this fucking world
00:11:49.080 That's fine
00:11:50.080 My message is this Oprah
00:11:51.080 Listen
00:11:52.080 Fucking
00:11:53.080 Here's the thing
00:11:54.080 I'm not
00:11:55.080 And you swear a lot
00:11:56.080 I do
00:11:57.080 A lot
00:11:58.080 I'm sorry
00:11:59.080 I do
00:12:00.080 I know
00:12:01.080 I do
00:12:02.080 I'm gonna keep doing that
00:12:03.080 So here's the thing
00:12:04.080 I just
00:12:05.080 There's no planet where I'm gonna allow particularly a young black man to think
00:12:06.080 That he can't go out
00:12:07.080 What about a young white man?
00:12:08.080 Young white man?
00:12:09.080 Yeah, go on
00:12:10.080 No, basically sister don't worry
00:12:11.080 Because we're talking about race particularly right now and I like no planet
00:12:22.080 Do I want to ever put out into the universe are allowed to it be put out in the universe
00:12:26.080 That a young black man is going to not be able to be successful in his life because of his skin color
00:12:31.080 There's no chance and I'll sit here and you can call me whatever you want
00:12:36.080 But I just know too many of them and I know too many that have been successful
00:12:39.080 Yeah, but you're one of a few
00:12:41.080 You're not
00:12:42.080 But you have to understand how many people watch his show
00:12:44.080 And how many people watch our channel
00:12:46.080 It's important
00:12:47.080 No, you're not
00:12:48.080 You're not
00:12:49.080 I understand that
00:12:50.080 But in general it doesn't stop you but it does make a little challenge
00:12:54.080 A bit harder in the world
00:12:55.080 Just a little bit
00:12:56.080 Can I
00:12:57.080 He's like
00:12:58.080 You're one of the first white men that I've met who have this mentality
00:13:01.080 No
00:13:02.080 No, not one of the first
00:13:03.080 You know what I honestly
00:13:04.080 I think most white men
00:13:05.080 Chew to Mike's experience
00:13:06.080 Chew to Mike's
00:13:08.080 Prejudice exists
00:13:09.080 Maybe not racism
00:13:10.080 Let's adjust the word
00:13:11.080 Not racism
00:13:12.080 Prejudice
00:13:13.080 Is something different
00:13:14.080 I do
00:13:15.080 I believe that
00:13:16.080 And I think there's prejudice all over the world
00:13:17.080 There you go then
00:13:18.080 I was just a little bit strong and a bit more negative
00:13:20.080 And a bit lowly
00:13:21.080 Sure
00:13:22.080 And in countries like Japan that are very, you know
00:13:25.080 Homogenous
00:13:26.080 Homogenous
00:13:27.080 They won't even let you in the restaurant
00:13:29.080 Unless you're Japanese
00:13:31.080 Like you guys
00:13:32.080 You think you've seen racism
00:13:33.080 Bro, there's some places in this world
00:13:35.080 I've been that are
00:13:36.080 Turbo racist
00:13:38.080 Outwardly
00:13:39.080 And get away with it
00:13:40.080 I think a black person today
00:13:42.080 Has a better chance than they've ever had
00:13:44.080 Is it completely fair?
00:13:45.080 No, I don't think so
00:13:46.080 But I don't think life is completely fair
00:13:48.080 At all
00:13:49.080 And there's no way I'm gonna let somebody mentally handicap themselves
00:13:51.080 From the jump
00:13:52.080 And you know
00:13:53.080 It's true
00:13:54.080 Would you guys
00:13:55.080 I don't think it's an impairment to me
00:13:57.080 I know it made me
00:13:58.080 It made me a bit stronger
00:13:59.080 But I know it exists
00:14:00.080 And it actually wasn't an obstacle
00:14:01.080 Then for you it's a super power
00:14:02.080 Yeah
00:14:03.080 Right?
00:14:04.080 I just want to reframe it
00:14:05.080 Thank you
00:14:06.080 And have a different relationship with it
00:14:07.080 For me
00:14:08.080 Well because she led with it
00:14:09.080 Because she led with it
00:14:11.080 I'm leading with my super power
00:14:12.080 What do you want me to do?
00:14:13.080 Yeah as she said she's leaving
00:14:14.080 I agree with that
00:14:15.080 Yeah but it didn't sound like a super power then did it?
00:14:16.080 No because you didn't allow me to finish
00:14:17.080 You start saying you're leading with that
00:14:18.080 What does that have to do?
00:14:19.080 You became challenging
00:14:20.080 And this is the problem
00:14:21.080 This is why she said
00:14:22.080 You guys are feeling a little bit like misogyny
00:14:24.080 But that's not what she means
00:14:25.080 No no
00:14:26.080 You're gonna be very aggressive
00:14:27.080 And very challenging
00:14:28.080 They're just talking
00:14:29.080 They're just talking with passion
00:14:30.080 Because it's important
00:14:31.080 But it's not beef
00:14:32.080 It's important because
00:14:33.080 You have to go out into the world
00:14:35.080 With the absolute mindset
00:14:36.080 That regardless of your circumstances
00:14:38.080 Regardless of your background
00:14:39.080 Or your racial ethnicity
00:14:41.080 Or anything
00:14:42.080 That you can go out
00:14:43.080 And you can make a success of your life
00:14:44.080 That's true
00:14:45.080 We all have to do that 100%
00:14:46.080 And that's why they're getting so impassioned about it
00:14:47.080 You know what real love
00:14:48.080 Because it's really important
00:14:49.080 No he's dead on
00:14:50.080 You know what real love looks like
00:14:53.080 In my opinion
00:14:54.080 Real love is dark
00:14:55.080 And real love takes risks
00:14:56.080 So let's say you're fucking up
00:14:57.080 And let's just say it was racism
00:14:59.080 I'm willing to step in front of you
00:15:01.080 And have you be angry with me
00:15:03.080 So I can somehow change where you're fucking up
00:15:06.080 And you can be mad at me if you want
00:15:07.080 Because most people
00:15:08.080 People that don't give a shit about you
00:15:09.080 Will let you leave and be like
00:15:10.080 That bitch is fucking up
00:15:11.080 I would much rather get into a heated argument with you
00:15:14.080 And have the courage to sit in front of you
00:15:15.080 And tell you my truth
00:15:16.080 And have the thought of somebody thinking
00:15:18.080 That I'm racist on the internet
00:15:20.080 I'd rather do that
00:15:21.080 Than let the young men that follow me
00:15:23.080 Believe they don't have a shot
00:15:24.080 I'd much rather sit in that
00:15:26.080 And to me
00:15:27.080 That's the only kind of friends I want
00:15:29.080 It's people that are going to tell me the truth
00:15:30.080 And when I'm fucking up
00:15:31.080 So you get mad at me
00:15:32.080 But I just hate to see it led that way
00:15:34.080 I'd much rather hear about the skills you have
00:15:36.080 And I'm with you Pearl
00:15:38.080 I'll triple the 200
00:15:39.080 And then are you going to say well done to my skills
00:15:40.080 Or are you going to say
00:15:41.080 Go be in the kitchen
00:15:42.080 Fuck yeah
00:15:43.080 Fuck yeah no
00:15:44.080 You know how much
00:15:45.080 As many of you know
00:15:46.080 I was just banned on TikTok
00:15:48.080 And we are demonetized on a daily basis
00:15:51.080 On this platform
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