JustPearlyThings - Her Claims Got DEBUNKED INSTANTLY

00:00:00.000 do you think you represent like the typical modern woman walking out there

00:00:04.580 well if you're saying that they're not decent i definitely don't represent that no

00:00:08.100 then we should really focus on what the majority is because that's the majority of

00:00:12.140 girls walking around you're saying but some people can say that you attract what you are

00:00:16.360 do you understand i believe that social media and and the media portrays a certain type i'm in a

00:00:23.440 beauty industry and i don't come across just people in the social media that i see in social

00:00:27.360 media on a day-to-day basis that isn't just what is out there i don't agree there's no absolutes

00:00:32.480 there's no absolute you know what i mean there's no absolutes no one said i don't think all the most

00:00:36.600 of the women i don't think majority of the women are just how many women have you dated 0.77

00:00:39.840 i don't date women exactly so you don't really know what you're talking about all the time it

00:00:44.700 doesn't matter what you said it doesn't matter because you don't date them so you don't know

00:00:48.580 what you're talking about i do know what i'm talking about but you haven't done it i just

00:00:52.100 disagree with the fact that i just i just done it though so i have i just you don't know what

00:00:56.820 every woman is though that's the same that's like you're saying that every woman yeah but if i'm 0.95

00:01:00.200 talking off experience but you haven't been with every woman no but i'm not saying i never said all

00:01:04.620 and i said that before i said that before any of that i think that's very that's my that's my

00:01:09.360 guesstimate so if okay let's let's why if if that's true why is it that 50 percent of women that 1.00

00:01:17.720 hit 30 are single and childless i'm not sure i don't know i can't answer that question but i

00:01:25.340 just believe because if they were if they were like the women that men wanted they wouldn't be single 1.00

00:01:29.560 like i don't i don't think men have changed i think women have because when we got birth control

00:01:36.040 that's when you see the divorce rate skyrocket if you pull up a chart of like the divorce rate and the

00:01:40.320 birth control like the number of women on birth control that's when it skyrockets 1.00

00:01:43.380 it's when these hoes came to the streets i think both changed i hear i hear what you're saying and 0.99

00:01:53.120 you made a a point a few minutes ago about how um if a woman doesn't feel secure with a man she's

00:02:01.660 gonna do um x y z to feel secure or just leave i think they're i think women have shifted to where 1.00

00:02:11.760 they are doing stuff on their own doing stuff that men usually would so when a man comes in and

00:02:17.260 does that for them they're like i don't need you to do that for me i can do that on my own show me

00:02:22.220 something else that you can do for me to for me to have you in my life for me to have you in that place

00:02:29.000 and a man's like well i'm doing what i am supposed to do but i'm not able to do it because you're doing

00:02:35.620 it as well and you're not being in your femininity for me to be able to show you that i am doing the

00:02:43.080 manly thing i need to do so women are like oh he's not this he's not that because he's not doing it and

00:02:48.800 it's like how can you have someone do something for you if you're not giving them room enough to do it

00:02:54.540 to be them and it's not it's not comfortable for them to do it i think i will say this i think that a

00:03:00.720 lot of women like i do get where you're coming from i think that a lot of women don't trust men 0.98

00:03:05.200 but the reason why a lot of women these days like modern women don't trust men is because they didn't

00:03:10.220 have a dad so if you didn't have a dad initially in the foundation yeah and then probably you've

00:03:16.380 just seen your mum struggle get money do everything by herself then she's probably taught 0.98

00:03:21.240 you just oh you know what do it by yourself don't ever depend on a man yeah obviously you're never

00:03:26.120 gonna trust a man because the first man in your life wasn't there he he failed you you're saying

00:03:30.800 and i think but then if you go deeper into that i think that happens because a lot of times women 1.00

00:03:36.800 make poor choices in men and so like i don't really want to say oh it's all women's fault or it's all

00:03:44.320 men's fault but we have to be realistic in this thing in it do you get what i'm saying um and yeah i

00:03:49.620 agree with what jess said you know women women out here are doing more for themselves and that's that

00:03:54.700 that boils down to like over consumerism because women spend the most money they they they're 1.00

00:04:00.100 looking at instagram oh look at that car look at them shoes look at that bag i want that so they

00:04:04.200 will go their extra mile to get them things but then when they come across a guy who may be the

00:04:07.840 right guy for them but may not be able to buy all those things that's when the conflict comes

00:04:13.440 do you get what i'm saying that's when oh i only want to date a guy that's going to take me to

00:04:17.560 hackers and novikov and them kind of things but them kind of guys bro they're just going to use you bro

00:04:21.620 so again that's more poor choices then the more poor choices you make the more baggage you get

00:04:26.840 the more bitter you become and then bruv like you're done because at some point you probably

00:04:31.720 become a baby mama at some point and then the guys that you like don't want in don't want nothing

00:04:36.400 no commitment with you they just want to use you and the cycle continues and then you bring another

00:04:40.580 generation that does the same thing yeah

00:04:43.900 no any response to that no i agree you've got a point i agree i think like um women definitely do 1.00

00:04:54.340 make poor choices in men but um the quality of men have kind of gone down i don't think the quality

00:05:01.540 of men has gone i really think it's the women but i do i think so in in just regards to like you said

00:05:07.800 the father wasn't there this wasn't there but i think sometimes people have to take accountability

00:05:12.540 like you said i totally agree about taking poor choices but once something has happened to part

00:05:18.000 of being a man is finding solutions you understand and rectifying certain things so you see like like

00:05:24.140 if you have a child or something and it might not have been the ideal situation but it's now your

00:05:28.740 responsibility to you know to be a good father to your children do you understand what i mean yeah

00:05:34.060 so therefore they're not going to grow up with as much daddy issues not just leave them well i i think

00:05:38.920 that's the women's fault though like yeah because they picked them like why are you sleeping with 1.00

00:05:44.280 him like why are you letting him like why aren't you on birth control we have 41 forms of birth control

00:05:48.900 pick one and like why are you why are you letting a bad guy that would be a bad dad get you pregnant 0.99

00:05:53.620 like that's stupid like what you can't change men and like as women i think innately we know who's 0.99

00:05:59.980 going to stick around we know who isn't so why why would you pick them and really and truly it's a 1.00

00:06:05.000 small percentage of guys that are out here making baby making machines bruv it's a small percentage

00:06:10.640 bro it's the guys like the guys that aesthetically look like derrick jackson bruv do you get what i'm

00:06:16.260 saying like the guy the the the five foot five guy is not the one that's causing all the problems out

00:06:21.060 here it's not bro it's a six foot three six foot fire for like charming guy do you get what i'm saying

00:06:27.880 that is causing a problem so really and truly bro it comes down to girls because initially it's the 0.98

00:06:33.960 woman who chooses do you get what i'm saying and the women typically leave too like like because 1.00

00:06:39.220 the the narrative is that like men are the ones leaving and we can't trust men because they might

00:06:42.900 leave but women leave more than men do i was going to say as well like i mean i think because you work 0.68

00:06:48.860 in divorce court or divorce yeah yeah so a major major reason why i see that women are you know men have 1.00

00:06:56.880 pretty much stayed the same in terms of very not simple in derogative way but they very basic stuff you

00:07:03.340 know not have high standards of what a woman should bring but um women have gone to universities got 1.00

00:07:11.440 degrees and you know all that stuff in in recent years so that has been a major factor in them

00:07:18.680 thinking oh you know what i could do better and that's where hypergamy comes in women have never 1.00

00:07:23.980 had the skills like to this level ever before and um where men have kind of stayed the same you know

00:07:29.960 they're the they're the breadwinners but now when the woman can out earn him naturally she'll be 1.00

00:07:34.960 like oh i could do better than him like what can he offer me and that's really unfair because is that

00:07:39.800 his worth like just what he can offer financially if the children are eating the children are fed and

00:07:44.640 like bathes closed so when she gets too comfortable with you know what then she starts thinking well i could

00:07:50.480 just if i can out earn him like what do i need him for um whether that's good or bad is something

00:07:57.880 but then she has that mentality because yeah i i think that's the main reason why women you can 1.00

00:08:04.500 see the change that women have made men have stayed the same you got you got chicks that are doing only 0.92

00:08:10.140 fans yeah selling their body online making a lot of money because of simps again and then obviously

00:08:17.000 even they will have high expectations because they're oh i'm making 10 racks a month so uh you know i need to

00:08:23.240 be with a guy that makes x amount bro like it just kind of messes up the whole game now i have like

00:08:29.680 women are looking down on nine to five yeah i'm just like what god can't win i've done so many

00:08:36.940 reaction videos to women saying oh no if a guy does nine to five he they would rather they'd actually

00:08:42.600 rather date a criminal a scammer yes then date a guy that does nine to five because oh if i just want

00:08:48.800 to go to italy at the drop of a hat he can't do that he has to ask his boss and yeah i need a guy

00:08:54.500 that's an entrepreneur or a scammer bro this is unrealistic and i've seen too many videos like

00:09:00.220 that yeah in the uk and the usa this is normal stuff do you think guys like derrick jackson know

00:09:06.820 what they're doing absolutely yeah yeah absolutely their target their their jackson is hitting a

00:09:13.880 target audience and the majority of them are black women and he knows that if i can get them i have

00:09:20.940 them hooked and it's sad to say but they're going to keep going because i'm not sure if the stat is

00:09:29.600 correct but i think that the highest like unmarried demographic is um one of the highest i'll just

00:09:38.500 say one of the highest is black women and he knows that if i what he's saying is it feeding into

00:09:45.320 everything that is them essentially and it's it's hard to say because i am a black woman and i i remember

00:09:58.000 when i first saw him and i was like oh yeah like what he's saying is true like that makes perfect

00:10:05.140 sense and then i really started listening to him and i was and then all that stuff happened like i

00:10:09.400 said earlier and i was like wait let me actually listen and i had friends who we would talk about

00:10:14.360 things that he said and sit down and be like oh did you see his video today and just discuss it and

00:10:21.360 it's very it's very disheartening when people hear something but don't actually like listen

00:10:28.020 and like think about it but they just take it and they run with it as many of you know i was just

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JustPearlyThings - March 24, 2023

Her Claims Got DEBUNKED INSTANTLY

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