Her Claims Got DEBUNKED INSTANTLY
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Summary
In this episode, we are joined by our good friend, Jess, as we discuss the modern woman and how she has dealt with the pressures of being a modern woman in the 21st century. We discuss what it means to be a woman, how to deal with it, and how to handle it.
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do you think you represent like the typical modern woman walking out there
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well if you're saying that they're not decent i definitely don't represent that no
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then we should really focus on what the majority is because that's the majority of
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girls walking around you're saying but some people can say that you attract what you are
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do you understand i believe that social media and and the media portrays a certain type i'm in a
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beauty industry and i don't come across just people in the social media that i see in social
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media on a day-to-day basis that isn't just what is out there i don't agree there's no absolutes
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there's no absolute you know what i mean there's no absolutes no one said i don't think all the most
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of the women i don't think majority of the women are just how many women have you dated
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i don't date women exactly so you don't really know what you're talking about all the time it
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doesn't matter what you said it doesn't matter because you don't date them so you don't know
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what you're talking about i do know what i'm talking about but you haven't done it i just
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disagree with the fact that i just i just done it though so i have i just you don't know what
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every woman is though that's the same that's like you're saying that every woman yeah but if i'm
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talking off experience but you haven't been with every woman no but i'm not saying i never said all
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and i said that before i said that before any of that i think that's very that's my that's my
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guesstimate so if okay let's let's why if if that's true why is it that 50 percent of women that
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hit 30 are single and childless i'm not sure i don't know i can't answer that question but i
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just believe because if they were if they were like the women that men wanted they wouldn't be single
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like i don't i don't think men have changed i think women have because when we got birth control
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that's when you see the divorce rate skyrocket if you pull up a chart of like the divorce rate and the
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birth control like the number of women on birth control that's when it skyrockets
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it's when these hoes came to the streets i think both changed i hear i hear what you're saying and
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you made a a point a few minutes ago about how um if a woman doesn't feel secure with a man she's
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gonna do um x y z to feel secure or just leave i think they're i think women have shifted to where
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they are doing stuff on their own doing stuff that men usually would so when a man comes in and
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does that for them they're like i don't need you to do that for me i can do that on my own show me
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something else that you can do for me to for me to have you in my life for me to have you in that place
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and a man's like well i'm doing what i am supposed to do but i'm not able to do it because you're doing
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it as well and you're not being in your femininity for me to be able to show you that i am doing the
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manly thing i need to do so women are like oh he's not this he's not that because he's not doing it and
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it's like how can you have someone do something for you if you're not giving them room enough to do it
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to be them and it's not it's not comfortable for them to do it i think i will say this i think that a
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lot of women like i do get where you're coming from i think that a lot of women don't trust men
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but the reason why a lot of women these days like modern women don't trust men is because they didn't
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have a dad so if you didn't have a dad initially in the foundation yeah and then probably you've
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just seen your mum struggle get money do everything by herself then she's probably taught
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you just oh you know what do it by yourself don't ever depend on a man yeah obviously you're never
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gonna trust a man because the first man in your life wasn't there he he failed you you're saying
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and i think but then if you go deeper into that i think that happens because a lot of times women
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make poor choices in men and so like i don't really want to say oh it's all women's fault or it's all
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men's fault but we have to be realistic in this thing in it do you get what i'm saying um and yeah i
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agree with what jess said you know women women out here are doing more for themselves and that's that
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that boils down to like over consumerism because women spend the most money they they they're
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looking at instagram oh look at that car look at them shoes look at that bag i want that so they
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will go their extra mile to get them things but then when they come across a guy who may be the
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right guy for them but may not be able to buy all those things that's when the conflict comes
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do you get what i'm saying that's when oh i only want to date a guy that's going to take me to
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hackers and novikov and them kind of things but them kind of guys bro they're just going to use you bro
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so again that's more poor choices then the more poor choices you make the more baggage you get
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the more bitter you become and then bruv like you're done because at some point you probably
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become a baby mama at some point and then the guys that you like don't want in don't want nothing
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no commitment with you they just want to use you and the cycle continues and then you bring another
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no any response to that no i agree you've got a point i agree i think like um women definitely do
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make poor choices in men but um the quality of men have kind of gone down i don't think the quality
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of men has gone i really think it's the women but i do i think so in in just regards to like you said
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the father wasn't there this wasn't there but i think sometimes people have to take accountability
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like you said i totally agree about taking poor choices but once something has happened to part
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of being a man is finding solutions you understand and rectifying certain things so you see like like
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if you have a child or something and it might not have been the ideal situation but it's now your
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responsibility to you know to be a good father to your children do you understand what i mean yeah
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so therefore they're not going to grow up with as much daddy issues not just leave them well i i think
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that's the women's fault though like yeah because they picked them like why are you sleeping with
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him like why are you letting him like why aren't you on birth control we have 41 forms of birth control
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pick one and like why are you why are you letting a bad guy that would be a bad dad get you pregnant
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like that's stupid like what you can't change men and like as women i think innately we know who's
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going to stick around we know who isn't so why why would you pick them and really and truly it's a
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small percentage of guys that are out here making baby making machines bruv it's a small percentage
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bro it's the guys like the guys that aesthetically look like derrick jackson bruv do you get what i'm
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saying like the guy the the the five foot five guy is not the one that's causing all the problems out
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here it's not bro it's a six foot three six foot fire for like charming guy do you get what i'm saying
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that is causing a problem so really and truly bro it comes down to girls because initially it's the
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woman who chooses do you get what i'm saying and the women typically leave too like like because
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the the narrative is that like men are the ones leaving and we can't trust men because they might
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leave but women leave more than men do i was going to say as well like i mean i think because you work
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in divorce court or divorce yeah yeah so a major major reason why i see that women are you know men have
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pretty much stayed the same in terms of very not simple in derogative way but they very basic stuff you
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know not have high standards of what a woman should bring but um women have gone to universities got
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degrees and you know all that stuff in in recent years so that has been a major factor in them
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thinking oh you know what i could do better and that's where hypergamy comes in women have never
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had the skills like to this level ever before and um where men have kind of stayed the same you know
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they're the they're the breadwinners but now when the woman can out earn him naturally she'll be
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like oh i could do better than him like what can he offer me and that's really unfair because is that
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his worth like just what he can offer financially if the children are eating the children are fed and
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like bathes closed so when she gets too comfortable with you know what then she starts thinking well i could
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just if i can out earn him like what do i need him for um whether that's good or bad is something
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but then she has that mentality because yeah i i think that's the main reason why women you can
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see the change that women have made men have stayed the same you got you got chicks that are doing only
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fans yeah selling their body online making a lot of money because of simps again and then obviously
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even they will have high expectations because they're oh i'm making 10 racks a month so uh you know i need to
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be with a guy that makes x amount bro like it just kind of messes up the whole game now i have like
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women are looking down on nine to five yeah i'm just like what god can't win i've done so many
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reaction videos to women saying oh no if a guy does nine to five he they would rather they'd actually
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rather date a criminal a scammer yes then date a guy that does nine to five because oh if i just want
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to go to italy at the drop of a hat he can't do that he has to ask his boss and yeah i need a guy
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that's an entrepreneur or a scammer bro this is unrealistic and i've seen too many videos like
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that yeah in the uk and the usa this is normal stuff do you think guys like derrick jackson know
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what they're doing absolutely yeah yeah absolutely their target their their jackson is hitting a
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target audience and the majority of them are black women and he knows that if i can get them i have
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them hooked and it's sad to say but they're going to keep going because i'm not sure if the stat is
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correct but i think that the highest like unmarried demographic is um one of the highest i'll just
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say one of the highest is black women and he knows that if i what he's saying is it feeding into
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everything that is them essentially and it's it's hard to say because i am a black woman and i i remember
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when i first saw him and i was like oh yeah like what he's saying is true like that makes perfect
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sense and then i really started listening to him and i was and then all that stuff happened like i
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said earlier and i was like wait let me actually listen and i had friends who we would talk about
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things that he said and sit down and be like oh did you see his video today and just discuss it and
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it's very it's very disheartening when people hear something but don't actually like listen
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and like think about it but they just take it and they run with it as many of you know i was just
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