Being A SINGLE Parent DOWNGRADES Your Dating Value
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Summary
In this episode we talk about single fathers and single motherhood and how it affects women and how to deal with it. We also talk about the importance of a single father and why a single mother is not a bad thing.
Transcript
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i'll say the same thing and it's not controversial and the men won't get upset a single father isn't
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my first choice most most women most women don't care because because the thing is like when a man
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has multiple children it signals to to most women that other women have selected him and like
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actually i've heard from single dads that they get more women after they have kids so i'm not
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the norm but i i can i've said on this podcast multiple times single father not my first choice
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and it's not controversial but like women get triggered i don't know why no but the thing is
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i'm a father and i understand this is what i have a child and i understand i'm not women's first
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choice and i'm cool with you i understand can i say something no no no wait let me finish though
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i'm a single father and i understand that i'm not women's it's real because i've got a child and i
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may have quote-unquote baggage that i'm bringing with me true when you say that to a woman ah oh my
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god it's like yo yo but hang on but but but why don't you understand the same thing that's
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that's the selfishness of women coming out i hear it i hear it women are selfish women are selfish
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i hear it but i don't go to say that um a woman that has a child is less valuable in your eyes
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maybe a woman that has a child is less valuable to a man
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not to hang on wait wait wait not to not to herself and not to her girlfriends yeah and that's
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what i said women need to step out of their echo chambers and start asking men hang on you need to
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start asking men what they value and the problem is when you start asking men shout out rest in peace
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kevin samuels okay he he highlighted this and he highlighted that when men speak and when men think
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and when men feel and when men express their opinions right women that are single mothers
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of like two three four or however many children fat chicks too right you have to understand how men
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speak and how men feel and it offends you that's not our problem can i ask you but men are allowed
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to have their standards i can't lie it doesn't offend me wait wait wait wait wait wait when a man when a
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woman has standards men are not offended if you say you don't want to shoot guys we're like all right
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cool you don't want to shoot guys when a man says i don't want a baby mother oh my god what do you want
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to offend me it's like you get offended it's like it's crazy like men are allowed to have standards too
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i'm not gonna lie i don't want a baby that evil he a man could actually have all the things that he
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everything and if he has kids i'm like no dead that straight away and i respect a man that actually
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says raw listen i don't want this this is not what i want but you as a woman have to understand that
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that's not his standard no but i tell you something so would you you will break all of your rules for
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the right guy if you ask kids fuck no no you will break all of your rules for the right guy i have
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been in a situation are you a virgin are you a virgin let me just ask you a question are you a virgin no
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yeah right so if you're not a virgin and you turn around and say oh that guy that guy has a baby
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all right so i'm not gonna i'm not gonna be in a relationship but then at the same time you're not
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even a virgin no no no no no no can i say why can i say why i would not give a guy the chance
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they cannot can i say why i would not give a guy that has kids because me as a person i know
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myself and i can't give those kids the love that they require that's the reason why i can't i can't
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be around someone else's child that i know he's had another woman and i already know as a man you
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know you're gonna go and do your little ting ting with your baby mom let's be real now no i believe
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it all comes down when you go pick up them kids them little cheeky little kisses not all men in it
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don't look it look it i i agree with you like a single thought like again it wouldn't be my first
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choice it wouldn't because i just think there's baggage that comes with that exactly but you get
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it but like why why when sarah was saying the same thing you guys were like but that doesn't make her
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less valuable didn't it no because the way he said that just sounded mad didn't it that's the only
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reason hang on wait wait that's the only you know you know you just got to you got to feelings
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no that's true i did i don't know wait i did as facts we don't care we don't give a fuck about
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your feelings we're talking about the facts the facts is i understand as a man that being a father
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of another child i understand that a lot of women may say i'm a curb that guy i'm not taking that guy
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because he's got a child i understand that and i'm cool with that and that's a fact my feelings don't
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come into that situation the problem is is that when you say the same thing to women oh but i feel like
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we don't give a fuck about your feelings but this is why can i say something because the bottom line
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is hang on because you know why it's the same thing but your feelings no but do you know why
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but your feelings tend to take precedent over the facts do you know why i think it's different do you
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know why though okay okay okay let that is you can go for a second then you can go i think the
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difference is why all the girls were saying but but but but but and it goes back to what he said
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your guy you could two are saying if a girl has a child she's a five but it completely depends on
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the child the relationship with the child like i might meet a guy his baby mom's tapped always
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involved that's a that's a fall immediately no no no no you said okay okay so so you're so you're
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saying it depends based on the girl that's what you're saying and it depends on how the person
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let's if you have someone that doesn't let you parent their child at all how can that ever work
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okay so you're looking at it from a woman's point of view yes because for us it depends
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based on because my mom let a guy parent me your mom i'm gonna choose him okay i don't i don't i
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don't i don't i don't know i don't know your personal situation i'm not going to speak on like
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your life i don't know it but i'm saying i'm saying in general it's not men's first choice
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my dad let the other guy parent me though you guys are saying this
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and it really doesn't matter the situation i i don't know who your stepdad is but typically
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it's lower status men that don't have a ton of options because if you look at the men
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with the money and the power and that have the most options they tend to pick young single childless
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women you want low status my stepdad can i can i comment on that again i that's what i said i don't
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know your life can i comment on that no i totally agree with you i've been brought up with boys like
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men my uncle my dad so i fully understand that i feel like it doesn't matter what color caliber a man
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is that whether he's got money or poor or whatever they still do go for the same thing whether
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it's pure innocent they still go for the same thing because at the end of the day
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as i said before earlier what i was trying to touch on is that in our nature men want to be a provider
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they want to so therefore they want to their legacy to go on and therefore right to their kids
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exactly to their kids exactly and therefore where as women we are like we are look printers we we're
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gonna imprint no we are we are human printers we're gonna print that man so therefore he's gonna
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look at us and we're like better than others yes so so not not all of them you know one girl
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might get minus five or let's say seven points because her baby daddy was you know in jail but
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and one might and one might get no but the point is no but but the point is but you're missing the
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point the point is regardless if you have a child you get points i know i know that's why that's what
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i was saying i know i know i know that's what i said no that's what i said no that's what i would
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sir sir who's got a child okay you got a child yes bro how old is your child he's three he's three
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how old are you i'm 21 okay so hang on this is this is great so no no but you're a 21 year old
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yeah with a three year old yeah which means you had your child at 18 yes okay ask her how hang on
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no no it's not even that i'm saying do you think so the type of man that you're looking for the type
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of man that you may be looking for yeah right you have to understand that that man he because you're
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21 yeah you may be looking for a 27 year old maybe at this point in time right i will be looking
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in so yeah like you might be looking for a guy who's like 27. someone who's mature yeah but a bit
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a bit more older than you yeah if a guy's 27 yeah that means he's in his quote-unquote prime of life
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okay he's building that he's building himself up to be a man yeah do you think a man he's building
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himself up to be a man he's looking to take on another man's child to be honest is that what you think
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like i said then it all comes down to different like everyone's different and everyone's mind's
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different everyone's mindset generally do you think generally you think a single 27 year old
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generally no he probably is looking for a single without a woman without any children that's up
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exactly as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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