JustPearlyThings - July 19, 2023


How Much Makeup Add and Subtract in Women


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

213.26869

Word Count

2,082

Sentence Count

223

Misogynist Sentences

16

Hate Speech Sentences

13


Summary

In this episode, the guys talk about how makeup can make or break a woman, and what age is the perfect age to start dating. We also talk about catfishing, and how old is too old to date?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 You guys look at, like, how much makeup she wears.
00:00:03.140 Yes.
00:00:04.080 How much can that subtract or add to a girl?
00:00:07.140 Make or break.
00:00:08.280 Yeah.
00:00:09.640 Like, what does it do?
00:00:12.320 At least four points.
00:00:14.080 Three to four.
00:00:15.100 Subtraction?
00:00:15.660 Yeah.
00:00:16.040 Why?
00:00:18.120 Because, I mean, it's a preference thing, but also you're almost dealing with a different person at that point.
00:00:24.900 Like, you can look like two completely different people.
00:00:28.100 So, it's just a little bit inauthentic, in my opinion.
00:00:31.860 Have you guys ever gone on a date with a girl and you, like, woke up and she looked completely different?
00:00:37.660 No?
00:00:38.180 No.
00:00:38.660 Fortunately, no.
00:00:39.240 I think seeing people with or without makeup can be night and day difference.
00:00:44.820 Yeah.
00:00:45.740 Unrecognizable a lot of the time.
00:00:46.800 Really?
00:00:47.340 Yeah.
00:00:47.920 You're nodding really hard.
00:00:49.520 No, I mean, look, like, women are going to wear makeup.
00:00:51.660 Like, that's just how it is.
00:00:52.660 And there should be a level that you take care of yourself.
00:00:54.460 But, obviously, you know, the trend right now, like, every time I come to England, I see these weird puffer face.
00:00:59.140 Like, it's just fake.
00:01:00.360 They shave their...
00:01:01.000 I don't know what the hell's going on.
00:01:02.540 The drawn-on eyebrows.
00:01:04.600 Well, I don't know.
00:01:05.620 I, like, it was crazy doing this show for so long because girls would follow me after the show.
00:01:10.540 And a lot of times I'll follow people back, but, like, sometimes I wouldn't recognize them.
00:01:13.900 I'm like, wait, is that the girl that was on?
00:01:18.220 Because they'll tag me in their stories.
00:01:19.800 And I'm like, oh, my God, I didn't even notice.
00:01:21.940 But then I was like, this is why the guys are complaining on the dating apps, huh?
00:01:26.440 Have you guys ever gone on, like, a date with a girl from a dating app and she looked different?
00:01:31.360 No?
00:01:31.840 I've been on a date with a guy on a dating app and he looked...
00:01:34.560 Height?
00:01:34.980 Was it height?
00:01:36.140 Do you know what?
00:01:36.600 No, he said he was, like, six foot three and he was about six foot three.
00:01:39.240 So that I was quite pleased with.
00:01:40.580 But he didn't look nothing like his five sides.
00:01:43.100 Like, at all.
00:01:44.580 Like, at all.
00:01:45.560 Like, there's catfishing and then there's that.
00:01:47.660 Like, they were him, but I don't know why.
00:01:50.140 I don't know what he...
00:01:50.860 But it was, like, from, like, ten years ago.
00:01:52.540 He was a bit older as well.
00:01:53.820 He said to me he was 24.
00:01:55.460 This is when I was, like, 22.
00:01:57.080 Oh, he lied about his age.
00:01:58.000 Yeah, he was about 35, 36.
00:01:59.620 And obviously, each to their own, do you know what I mean?
00:02:02.220 Everyone has their own preference and whatever.
00:02:04.540 I completely understand.
00:02:05.260 And I completely respect that.
00:02:06.340 But I was just...
00:02:07.540 Do you know when you're just a bit shocked?
00:02:08.640 You're like, God, what am I going to do here?
00:02:11.440 Like, I'm too nice to run away.
00:02:13.600 And then, no, I am.
00:02:15.120 Oh, I was.
00:02:15.760 I had to sit there and withstand, like, the whole...
00:02:17.600 I knew such an account for a drink after.
00:02:19.060 I'm like, yeah, I've got to go home.
00:02:20.760 I've got to work somewhere and say...
00:02:22.120 I've done that before where you're like, oh, I want to leave.
00:02:25.060 But you're, like, you don't want to...
00:02:26.360 Yeah, you don't want to hurt someone's feelings.
00:02:28.240 And it's like, because I know I wouldn't like someone to do it to me, personally.
00:02:31.460 But I just couldn't do it to someone else.
00:02:33.140 And that look of, like, disheartened.
00:02:35.260 And they've been together for eight years now.
00:02:39.240 What is the perfect age to date for you guys?
00:02:46.460 Two years.
00:02:47.720 Two years older?
00:02:48.620 Two years older, two...
00:02:49.540 Maybe a year younger, two years older.
00:02:51.340 Okay.
00:02:51.740 Three years, maybe.
00:02:53.040 Four.
00:02:53.440 That's no more than that.
00:02:54.660 Okay.
00:02:55.080 I'd say.
00:02:55.400 What about you?
00:02:56.620 Yeah, I'll say two years older.
00:02:59.080 Okay.
00:03:01.600 I have to say plus, minus two.
00:03:05.260 But I think the issue with my age range is a lot of people have a little bit maturity differences.
00:03:12.780 So, yeah, I'd say plus, minus two.
00:03:15.760 Well, I'm married for 10 years.
00:03:16.960 We're the same age.
00:03:17.880 We're both 40.
00:03:18.600 Yeah.
00:03:18.980 If you were to date again, what age would you do?
00:03:22.920 Be careful, Dimitri.
00:03:24.040 No, that's actually...
00:03:25.540 That's fine.
00:03:26.600 Like, no, like, that's actually a really interesting question.
00:03:28.580 There's some depth to it.
00:03:29.440 You know, I'll tell you...
00:03:30.320 Or you could even say if you had a friend dating at your age.
00:03:32.320 No, no.
00:03:32.560 I would say this.
00:03:33.480 Like, when I was, let's say, 25, 26, and I was to be asked if I find 40-year-old women
00:03:38.400 attractive, I would have said no.
00:03:40.060 Like, it would just be weird to think that way.
00:03:41.940 But I've noticed myself now, like, I still find my wife very beautiful.
00:03:46.520 Like, I do.
00:03:47.140 And if I didn't, like, we'd have a problem.
00:03:50.600 And I think, like, for me, like, as I've gotten older, I found...
00:03:54.380 Like, now I look at a 20-year-old chick, and I'm like, that just looks like a teenager to me.
00:03:57.920 It's like, you know when you're in high school and you see a college kid, they look massive?
00:04:00.860 It becomes the opposite when you get older.
00:04:02.380 I just look at 20.
00:04:03.100 I'm like, are you, like, 15?
00:04:03.920 Like, I can't really tell that well anymore.
00:04:05.400 It's crazy.
00:04:06.720 But, I mean, realistically, as a 40-year-old man, probably anything...
00:04:11.860 Like, 24, let's say, and up is pretty reasonable.
00:04:17.260 Like, chicks...
00:04:17.860 A lot of it's like, the chicks still go for it.
00:04:19.620 Yeah, they do.
00:04:21.160 So, they're pretty wide range.
00:04:22.760 I mean, look at Pacino.
00:04:23.680 He just had a kid with, like, 27-year-old.
00:04:26.080 He's, like, 77, 78.
00:04:27.620 80, 80.
00:04:28.260 He's 80.
00:04:28.560 I'm curious.
00:04:29.440 How old would you guys be if he looked good?
00:04:32.040 Would you date a 45-year-old?
00:04:33.860 No.
00:04:34.380 No?
00:04:35.340 40?
00:04:36.000 No.
00:04:36.600 35?
00:04:37.280 No.
00:04:37.780 30?
00:04:38.060 Oh, she's...
00:04:38.860 You nod.
00:04:39.440 35?
00:04:40.060 Yeah.
00:04:40.640 Like, 32.
00:04:41.860 Probably, 33.
00:04:43.120 32, 33.
00:04:43.680 No, come on.
00:04:44.440 Like, the most beautiful women in the world are, like...
00:04:46.780 Look at Anthony Kiedos from the Red Hot Chili Peppers.
00:04:49.400 I agree.
00:04:50.020 He's, like, 60.
00:04:50.920 I'm surprised.
00:04:51.320 I wouldn't have a problem.
00:04:52.460 40-year-old.
00:04:53.520 Schwarzenegger's girlfriend's, like, 38 or something.
00:04:55.460 He's 76.
00:04:56.620 Like, but you say no because you want a virtue signal.
00:04:59.000 But, come on.
00:04:59.640 These guys aren't dating ugly 30-year-olds.
00:05:01.480 They're dating beautiful 30-year-olds.
00:05:03.200 Yeah, but is it because of their status?
00:05:04.740 Obviously, it is.
00:05:05.860 Obviously, it is.
00:05:06.840 I'm not saying why would it not be.
00:05:07.940 Of course, it is.
00:05:08.840 So, if a man is high status enough, you're going to be like,
00:05:10.980 No, I'm sorry, like, Schwarzenegger.
00:05:13.740 Like, it's like, no.
00:05:14.640 You're going to be, like, cool.
00:05:17.020 But I do not think it depends on what someone,
00:05:19.240 or what depends on the individual wants in the relationship.
00:05:22.980 Probably, yeah.
00:05:24.620 But, again, we're looking at high status, very old men
00:05:28.040 that are, like, pushing 80 or are 80,
00:05:29.960 and they still have seemingly have no problem
00:05:32.440 getting 26 and 30-year-old women to want to be with them.
00:05:36.160 So, like, I'm just looking at the big data, right?
00:05:38.080 But then, like, say if you were to bring, like,
00:05:39.420 a gold digger situation.
00:05:40.620 Oh, sorry, go ahead.
00:05:40.940 I know you're okay.
00:05:41.800 You know what age men peak on dating apps for plenty of fish?
00:05:47.220 Probably around 42 would be my guess.
00:05:48.820 I'd say late 30s, 37.
00:05:50.780 It's crazy.
00:05:51.420 I was so surprised when I saw this.
00:05:53.500 Yeah, I'd say about 35.
00:05:55.740 I'd say probably 40, 45.
00:05:57.780 50.
00:05:58.700 Really?
00:05:59.060 Really?
00:05:59.800 Yeah, I know.
00:06:00.760 Guess what age women peak?
00:06:02.300 22.
00:06:03.880 28.
00:06:05.800 I bet it's older.
00:06:07.000 I bet it's actually nicer.
00:06:07.740 I'll probably say the same.
00:06:09.060 For women?
00:06:09.620 18.
00:06:10.800 Yeah, I bet you're right.
00:06:11.700 18?
00:06:12.900 18?
00:06:13.340 No way.
00:06:14.100 Yeah, yeah.
00:06:14.960 Well, they've done smell tests for men,
00:06:17.980 and men will still pick younger women just based on smell.
00:06:21.640 Yeah.
00:06:22.280 Wow.
00:06:22.960 But for the men, the 50-year-olds that are on,
00:06:25.280 there has to be, like, a selected amount.
00:06:27.800 Like, it has to be all silver foxes.
00:06:29.980 Is there a higher percentage?
00:06:31.020 Because you wouldn't assume there's that many average or below average 50-year-olds on Tinder, you know?
00:06:37.100 I mean, there aren't most people on, it was plenty of fish,
00:06:42.580 but I think, like, didn't you say 80% of people on dating apps, like, don't get any swipes?
00:06:46.340 Yeah, 50% of people.
00:06:47.520 Like, if you get one match on, like, Tinder, then you're in the top 50%.
00:06:51.280 You're, like, like, half of men never get a match.
00:06:54.240 Ever.
00:06:54.460 I think I read this, or I see this somewhere online, and it's true.
00:06:59.700 Like, if you're most compatible, you will show up to more people,
00:07:02.140 whereas if you don't get swiped at all, you're not going to go, you're not getting it.
00:07:05.280 Well, women only swipe right 5% of the time.
00:07:08.400 So if you go on a date with a guy from a dating app,
00:07:11.060 it's probable that he, like, he has a ton of options,
00:07:14.820 because if you got on the date, that means, like,
00:07:17.060 he's part of the 5% that women are swiping on, most likely.
00:07:21.100 Scary, isn't it?
00:07:21.920 Yeah, but that's why relationships are so fucked up,
00:07:25.580 because, like, that's the number one way people are meeting under 30 nowadays.
00:07:29.340 That's the number one way, yeah, is dating apps.
00:07:31.860 So it's, like, all the girls are going on the same dates with the same guys.
00:07:35.140 I mean, haven't you seen those stories on, like, TikTok,
00:07:37.240 where the girls are like, oh, my God, we went on the date with the same guy.
00:07:40.360 You know, you know?
00:07:41.300 What a great opportunity, though, like, for a man that is a little bit more brave,
00:07:44.820 a little bit more cunning, like, to learn how to approach and talk to women in real life.
00:07:49.840 Like, the premium on that now, the amount of points you get for doing that now,
00:07:53.440 because when I was growing up, right, like, again, I'm from, I'm the pretender generation.
00:07:57.480 Like, I met my wife in real life.
00:07:58.600 That's how people dated.
00:07:59.460 We'd walk around with blue balls, and we'd have to, like, be desperate and approach women.
00:08:02.860 No, but I grew up in a time, too, like, we didn't have high-speed internet when I was, like, 18.
00:08:06.440 That was just coming in, right?
00:08:08.120 And so there was no visual stimulation to get yourself off.
00:08:10.860 So you're just always horny.
00:08:11.900 And that, like, that desperation, you're just like,
00:08:14.360 I'm just going to approach and talk to women,
00:08:15.660 because otherwise I'm never going to see a boob.
00:08:17.600 So it's like now, you know, that's been completely, like, destroyed, right?
00:08:20.680 Men are just destroying their own testosterone and drive and risk-seeking behavior.
00:08:24.440 But for a guy that's, like, a little bit more ambitious,
00:08:26.520 if you learn that skill to, like, approach women,
00:08:28.760 the premium you get in status is insane because nobody's doing it.
00:08:32.400 I agree.
00:08:33.560 I completely agree with you on that.
00:08:35.560 I completely agree.
00:08:36.300 If I was to be approached somewhere, because no one does it.
00:08:39.660 No one does anything like that nowadays at all.
00:08:42.560 Well, it's that chivalry is pretty much in the pan.
00:08:46.360 Yeah, because women killed it.
00:08:48.240 Yeah, they have.
00:08:49.220 And I think it's probably a really popular opinion coming from a woman,
00:08:54.020 but they have.
00:08:54.900 They totally have.
00:08:55.800 They have.
00:08:56.420 Because it's like women will call men creepy if they approach.
00:09:00.180 Like, I know so many guys that have gotten,
00:09:01.860 I don't want to say so many,
00:09:02.940 but I've met guys that have, like, gotten kicked out of gyms
00:09:05.380 just for, like, looking at a girl too long.
00:09:07.760 Like, someone will go to the manager.
00:09:09.080 I know more than one guy that's happened to.
00:09:11.280 Yeah, but notice that they're getting kicked out for not approaching.
00:09:15.100 That's actually a big misconception.
00:09:16.500 You're like, oh, they're getting kicked out for approaching.
00:09:18.720 No, they're getting kicked out.
00:09:19.700 Like, it's like the friend zone thing.
00:09:20.820 Like, you're not in the friend zone because you asked her out
00:09:23.200 and made your intent clear.
00:09:24.320 You're in the friend zone because you didn't and you didn't.
00:09:26.960 Right?
00:09:27.200 So that's actually a really important distinction.
00:09:30.560 Like, if you approach a chick in the gym,
00:09:32.040 and you're like, hey, you're really cute.
00:09:33.160 I know it's the gym.
00:09:33.780 This is crazy.
00:09:34.260 Okay, whatever you say, I'm not purporting to be a POA.
00:09:36.800 You guys do your thing, right?
00:09:37.660 But getting that tension out of the way gets that tension out of the way.
00:09:42.900 Like, you're being told you're creepy because you are being damn creepy.