JustPearlyThings - How Much Makeup Add and Subtract in Women

00:00:00.000 You guys look at, like, how much makeup she wears.

00:00:03.140 Yes.

00:00:04.080 How much can that subtract or add to a girl? 1.00

00:00:07.140 Make or break.

00:00:08.280 Yeah.

00:00:09.640 Like, what does it do?

00:00:12.320 At least four points.

00:00:14.080 Three to four.

00:00:15.100 Subtraction?

00:00:15.660 Yeah.

00:00:16.040 Why?

00:00:18.120 Because, I mean, it's a preference thing, but also you're almost dealing with a different person at that point.

00:00:24.900 Like, you can look like two completely different people.

00:00:28.100 So, it's just a little bit inauthentic, in my opinion.

00:00:31.860 Have you guys ever gone on a date with a girl and you, like, woke up and she looked completely different?

00:00:37.660 No?

00:00:38.180 No.

00:00:38.660 Fortunately, no.

00:00:39.240 I think seeing people with or without makeup can be night and day difference.

00:00:44.820 Yeah.

00:00:45.740 Unrecognizable a lot of the time.

00:00:46.800 Really?

00:00:47.340 Yeah.

00:00:47.920 You're nodding really hard.

00:00:49.520 No, I mean, look, like, women are going to wear makeup. 1.00

00:00:51.660 Like, that's just how it is.

00:00:52.660 And there should be a level that you take care of yourself.

00:00:54.460 But, obviously, you know, the trend right now, like, every time I come to England, I see these weird puffer face.

00:00:59.140 Like, it's just fake.

00:01:00.360 They shave their...

00:01:01.000 I don't know what the hell's going on.

00:01:02.540 The drawn-on eyebrows.

00:01:04.600 Well, I don't know.

00:01:05.620 I, like, it was crazy doing this show for so long because girls would follow me after the show. 1.00

00:01:10.540 And a lot of times I'll follow people back, but, like, sometimes I wouldn't recognize them.

00:01:13.900 I'm like, wait, is that the girl that was on?

00:01:18.220 Because they'll tag me in their stories.

00:01:19.800 And I'm like, oh, my God, I didn't even notice.

00:01:21.940 But then I was like, this is why the guys are complaining on the dating apps, huh?

00:01:26.440 Have you guys ever gone on, like, a date with a girl from a dating app and she looked different?

00:01:31.360 No?

00:01:31.840 I've been on a date with a guy on a dating app and he looked...

00:01:34.560 Height?

00:01:34.980 Was it height?

00:01:36.140 Do you know what?

00:01:36.600 No, he said he was, like, six foot three and he was about six foot three.

00:01:39.240 So that I was quite pleased with.

00:01:40.580 But he didn't look nothing like his five sides.

00:01:43.100 Like, at all.

00:01:44.580 Like, at all.

00:01:45.560 Like, there's catfishing and then there's that.

00:01:47.660 Like, they were him, but I don't know why.

00:01:50.140 I don't know what he...

00:01:50.860 But it was, like, from, like, ten years ago.

00:01:52.540 He was a bit older as well.

00:01:53.820 He said to me he was 24.

00:01:55.460 This is when I was, like, 22.

00:01:57.080 Oh, he lied about his age.

00:01:58.000 Yeah, he was about 35, 36.

00:01:59.620 And obviously, each to their own, do you know what I mean?

00:02:02.220 Everyone has their own preference and whatever.

00:02:04.540 I completely understand.

00:02:05.260 And I completely respect that.

00:02:06.340 But I was just...

00:02:07.540 Do you know when you're just a bit shocked?

00:02:08.640 You're like, God, what am I going to do here?

00:02:11.440 Like, I'm too nice to run away.

00:02:13.600 And then, no, I am.

00:02:15.120 Oh, I was.

00:02:15.760 I had to sit there and withstand, like, the whole...

00:02:17.600 I knew such an account for a drink after.

00:02:19.060 I'm like, yeah, I've got to go home.

00:02:20.760 I've got to work somewhere and say...

00:02:22.120 I've done that before where you're like, oh, I want to leave.

00:02:25.060 But you're, like, you don't want to...

00:02:26.360 Yeah, you don't want to hurt someone's feelings.

00:02:28.240 And it's like, because I know I wouldn't like someone to do it to me, personally.

00:02:31.460 But I just couldn't do it to someone else.

00:02:33.140 And that look of, like, disheartened.

00:02:35.260 And they've been together for eight years now.

00:02:39.240 What is the perfect age to date for you guys?

00:02:46.460 Two years.

00:02:47.720 Two years older?

00:02:48.620 Two years older, two...

00:02:49.540 Maybe a year younger, two years older.

00:02:51.340 Okay.

00:02:51.740 Three years, maybe.

00:02:53.040 Four.

00:02:53.440 That's no more than that.

00:02:54.660 Okay.

00:02:55.080 I'd say.

00:02:55.400 What about you?

00:02:56.620 Yeah, I'll say two years older.

00:02:59.080 Okay.

00:03:01.600 I have to say plus, minus two.

00:03:05.260 But I think the issue with my age range is a lot of people have a little bit maturity differences.

00:03:12.780 So, yeah, I'd say plus, minus two.

00:03:15.760 Well, I'm married for 10 years.

00:03:16.960 We're the same age.

00:03:17.880 We're both 40.

00:03:18.600 Yeah.

00:03:18.980 If you were to date again, what age would you do?

00:03:22.920 Be careful, Dimitri.

00:03:24.040 No, that's actually...

00:03:25.540 That's fine.

00:03:26.600 Like, no, like, that's actually a really interesting question.

00:03:28.580 There's some depth to it.

00:03:29.440 You know, I'll tell you...

00:03:30.320 Or you could even say if you had a friend dating at your age.

00:03:32.320 No, no.

00:03:32.560 I would say this.

00:03:33.480 Like, when I was, let's say, 25, 26, and I was to be asked if I find 40-year-old women 0.99

00:03:38.400 attractive, I would have said no.

00:03:40.060 Like, it would just be weird to think that way.

00:03:41.940 But I've noticed myself now, like, I still find my wife very beautiful.

00:03:46.520 Like, I do.

00:03:47.140 And if I didn't, like, we'd have a problem.

00:03:50.600 And I think, like, for me, like, as I've gotten older, I found...

00:03:54.380 Like, now I look at a 20-year-old chick, and I'm like, that just looks like a teenager to me.

00:03:57.920 It's like, you know when you're in high school and you see a college kid, they look massive?

00:04:00.860 It becomes the opposite when you get older.

00:04:02.380 I just look at 20.

00:04:03.100 I'm like, are you, like, 15?

00:04:03.920 Like, I can't really tell that well anymore.

00:04:05.400 It's crazy.

00:04:06.720 But, I mean, realistically, as a 40-year-old man, probably anything...

00:04:11.860 Like, 24, let's say, and up is pretty reasonable.

00:04:17.260 Like, chicks... 1.00

00:04:17.860 A lot of it's like, the chicks still go for it. 1.00

00:04:19.620 Yeah, they do.

00:04:21.160 So, they're pretty wide range.

00:04:22.760 I mean, look at Pacino.

00:04:23.680 He just had a kid with, like, 27-year-old.

00:04:26.080 He's, like, 77, 78.

00:04:27.620 80, 80.

00:04:28.260 He's 80.

00:04:28.560 I'm curious.

00:04:29.440 How old would you guys be if he looked good?

00:04:32.040 Would you date a 45-year-old?

00:04:33.860 No.

00:04:34.380 No?

00:04:35.340 40?

00:04:36.000 No.

00:04:36.600 35?

00:04:37.280 No.

00:04:37.780 30?

00:04:38.060 Oh, she's... 1.00

00:04:38.860 You nod.

00:04:39.440 35?

00:04:40.060 Yeah.

00:04:40.640 Like, 32.

00:04:41.860 Probably, 33.

00:04:43.120 32, 33.

00:04:43.680 No, come on. 0.85

00:04:44.440 Like, the most beautiful women in the world are, like... 0.96

00:04:46.780 Look at Anthony Kiedos from the Red Hot Chili Peppers.

00:04:49.400 I agree.

00:04:50.020 He's, like, 60.

00:04:50.920 I'm surprised.

00:04:51.320 I wouldn't have a problem.

00:04:52.460 40-year-old.

00:04:53.520 Schwarzenegger's girlfriend's, like, 38 or something.

00:04:55.460 He's 76.

00:04:56.620 Like, but you say no because you want a virtue signal.

00:04:59.000 But, come on.

00:04:59.640 These guys aren't dating ugly 30-year-olds.

00:05:01.480 They're dating beautiful 30-year-olds.

00:05:03.200 Yeah, but is it because of their status?

00:05:04.740 Obviously, it is.

00:05:05.860 Obviously, it is.

00:05:06.840 I'm not saying why would it not be.

00:05:07.940 Of course, it is.

00:05:08.840 So, if a man is high status enough, you're going to be like,

00:05:10.980 No, I'm sorry, like, Schwarzenegger.

00:05:13.740 Like, it's like, no.

00:05:14.640 You're going to be, like, cool.

00:05:17.020 But I do not think it depends on what someone,

00:05:19.240 or what depends on the individual wants in the relationship.

00:05:22.980 Probably, yeah.

00:05:24.620 But, again, we're looking at high status, very old men 1.00

00:05:28.040 that are, like, pushing 80 or are 80,

00:05:29.960 and they still have seemingly have no problem

00:05:32.440 getting 26 and 30-year-old women to want to be with them.

00:05:36.160 So, like, I'm just looking at the big data, right?

00:05:38.080 But then, like, say if you were to bring, like,

00:05:39.420 a gold digger situation.

00:05:40.620 Oh, sorry, go ahead.

00:05:40.940 I know you're okay.

00:05:41.800 You know what age men peak on dating apps for plenty of fish?

00:05:47.220 Probably around 42 would be my guess.

00:05:48.820 I'd say late 30s, 37.

00:05:50.780 It's crazy.

00:05:51.420 I was so surprised when I saw this.

00:05:53.500 Yeah, I'd say about 35.

00:05:55.740 I'd say probably 40, 45.

00:05:57.780 50.

00:05:58.700 Really?

00:05:59.060 Really?

00:05:59.800 Yeah, I know.

00:06:00.760 Guess what age women peak? 1.00

00:06:02.300 22.

00:06:03.880 28.

00:06:05.800 I bet it's older.

00:06:07.000 I bet it's actually nicer.

00:06:07.740 I'll probably say the same.

00:06:09.060 For women? 0.89

00:06:09.620 18.

00:06:10.800 Yeah, I bet you're right.

00:06:11.700 18?

00:06:12.900 18?

00:06:13.340 No way.

00:06:14.100 Yeah, yeah.

00:06:14.960 Well, they've done smell tests for men,

00:06:17.980 and men will still pick younger women just based on smell. 0.95

00:06:21.640 Yeah.

00:06:22.280 Wow.

00:06:22.960 But for the men, the 50-year-olds that are on,

00:06:25.280 there has to be, like, a selected amount.

00:06:27.800 Like, it has to be all silver foxes.

00:06:29.980 Is there a higher percentage?

00:06:31.020 Because you wouldn't assume there's that many average or below average 50-year-olds on Tinder, you know?

00:06:37.100 I mean, there aren't most people on, it was plenty of fish,

00:06:42.580 but I think, like, didn't you say 80% of people on dating apps, like, don't get any swipes?

00:06:46.340 Yeah, 50% of people.

00:06:47.520 Like, if you get one match on, like, Tinder, then you're in the top 50%.

00:06:51.280 You're, like, like, half of men never get a match.

00:06:54.240 Ever.

00:06:54.460 I think I read this, or I see this somewhere online, and it's true. 1.00

00:06:59.700 Like, if you're most compatible, you will show up to more people,

00:07:02.140 whereas if you don't get swiped at all, you're not going to go, you're not getting it.

00:07:05.280 Well, women only swipe right 5% of the time. 1.00

00:07:08.400 So if you go on a date with a guy from a dating app,

00:07:11.060 it's probable that he, like, he has a ton of options,

00:07:14.820 because if you got on the date, that means, like,

00:07:17.060 he's part of the 5% that women are swiping on, most likely. 1.00

00:07:21.100 Scary, isn't it? 0.99

00:07:21.920 Yeah, but that's why relationships are so fucked up, 0.98

00:07:25.580 because, like, that's the number one way people are meeting under 30 nowadays. 0.99

00:07:29.340 That's the number one way, yeah, is dating apps.

00:07:31.860 So it's, like, all the girls are going on the same dates with the same guys.

00:07:35.140 I mean, haven't you seen those stories on, like, TikTok,

00:07:37.240 where the girls are like, oh, my God, we went on the date with the same guy.

00:07:40.360 You know, you know?

00:07:41.300 What a great opportunity, though, like, for a man that is a little bit more brave,

00:07:44.820 a little bit more cunning, like, to learn how to approach and talk to women in real life. 0.92

00:07:49.840 Like, the premium on that now, the amount of points you get for doing that now,

00:07:53.440 because when I was growing up, right, like, again, I'm from, I'm the pretender generation.

00:07:57.480 Like, I met my wife in real life.

00:07:58.600 That's how people dated. 0.99

00:07:59.460 We'd walk around with blue balls, and we'd have to, like, be desperate and approach women. 0.96

00:08:02.860 No, but I grew up in a time, too, like, we didn't have high-speed internet when I was, like, 18. 0.87

00:08:06.440 That was just coming in, right?

00:08:08.120 And so there was no visual stimulation to get yourself off. 0.75

00:08:10.860 So you're just always horny.

00:08:11.900 And that, like, that desperation, you're just like,

00:08:14.360 I'm just going to approach and talk to women, 1.00

00:08:15.660 because otherwise I'm never going to see a boob. 0.90

00:08:17.600 So it's like now, you know, that's been completely, like, destroyed, right?

00:08:20.680 Men are just destroying their own testosterone and drive and risk-seeking behavior.

00:08:24.440 But for a guy that's, like, a little bit more ambitious,

00:08:26.520 if you learn that skill to, like, approach women,

00:08:28.760 the premium you get in status is insane because nobody's doing it.

00:08:32.400 I agree.

00:08:33.560 I completely agree with you on that.

00:08:35.560 I completely agree.

00:08:36.300 If I was to be approached somewhere, because no one does it.

00:08:39.660 No one does anything like that nowadays at all.

00:08:42.560 Well, it's that chivalry is pretty much in the pan. 0.98

00:08:46.360 Yeah, because women killed it. 1.00

00:08:48.240 Yeah, they have. 0.99

00:08:49.220 And I think it's probably a really popular opinion coming from a woman,

00:08:54.020 but they have.

00:08:54.900 They totally have.

00:08:55.800 They have.

00:08:56.420 Because it's like women will call men creepy if they approach. 0.94

00:09:00.180 Like, I know so many guys that have gotten,

00:09:01.860 I don't want to say so many,

00:09:02.940 but I've met guys that have, like, gotten kicked out of gyms

00:09:05.380 just for, like, looking at a girl too long.

00:09:07.760 Like, someone will go to the manager.

00:09:09.080 I know more than one guy that's happened to.

00:09:11.280 Yeah, but notice that they're getting kicked out for not approaching.

00:09:15.100 That's actually a big misconception.

00:09:16.500 You're like, oh, they're getting kicked out for approaching.

00:09:18.720 No, they're getting kicked out.

00:09:19.700 Like, it's like the friend zone thing.

00:09:20.820 Like, you're not in the friend zone because you asked her out

00:09:23.200 and made your intent clear.

00:09:24.320 You're in the friend zone because you didn't and you didn't.

00:09:26.960 Right?

00:09:27.200 So that's actually a really important distinction.

00:09:30.560 Like, if you approach a chick in the gym,

00:09:32.040 and you're like, hey, you're really cute.

00:09:33.160 I know it's the gym.

00:09:33.780 This is crazy.

00:09:34.260 Okay, whatever you say, I'm not purporting to be a POA.

00:09:36.800 You guys do your thing, right?

00:09:37.660 But getting that tension out of the way gets that tension out of the way. 0.60

00:09:42.900 Like, you're being told you're creepy because you are being damn creepy. 0.84

JustPearlyThings - July 19, 2023

How Much Makeup Add and Subtract in Women

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