JustPearlyThings - How @realfemsapien TRIGGERED feminists worldwide

00:00:00.000 questions with that being said let's see this video that set the internet ablaze make sure

00:00:04.160 the volume's up please gotcha okay okay ali show me your ring oh here now tell me what you do for

00:00:13.540 a living oh i love my husband and how did you how did you get that awesome job well i became a

00:00:22.580 better human being and i became feminine and also shocking submissive so that was the secret so what

00:00:31.960 are your tips to women that want to be a housewife to embrace it it's an actual job you just can't 0.98

00:00:37.400 get it in the public or private sector like you need you need a man to hire you for it but that's 0.99

00:00:42.620 okay because if you think about it you submit to your boss who makes you clean stupid shelves at 0.98

00:00:47.480 your retail job right like wouldn't it be better if you were cleaning your own shelves at home 0.99

00:00:52.060 you know what i mean and your in your boss wants to sleep with you in a good way in a good way 0.99

00:00:56.940 and where where do you meet these men well i think women should work for the men that they want to 1.00

00:01:03.240 pursue i know that sounds crazy but it's really easy so if you think about it like you want a lawyer

00:01:07.620 right so then you should be a paralegal or if you want a dentist then you should be a dental hygienist

00:01:13.240 but these are considered i guess high high value status prevent professions but i think that's a

00:01:19.120 really good model that not enough women utilize because women will bully the woman who is the 1.00

00:01:25.160 secretary that married the doctor okay but who has the last laugh like her in her mcmansion with her 0.99

00:01:31.120 husband who's high and the baby like that's that's who has the last laugh so boom so that was the video

00:01:37.240 that set things off by the way that was on pearl's instagram or tiktok just pearly things um comments

00:01:44.960 blew up there was a couple more videos let's play that and then we're going to open it up for discussion

00:01:49.220 so they the that was the viral video and then a lot of ladies said or the comments were not exactly 0.99

00:01:55.360 nice the most of them i assume right uh and one said this is heartbreakingly sad so ali had a response

00:02:02.720 to that go ahead the woman that are saying this is heartbreakingly sad i mean i don't know i get

00:02:12.760 my back blown out regularly i am fully paid for survival i have my own autonomy i also do my own

00:02:20.480 work so like i just don't see what's wrong with my situation but they can ask themselves why they're

00:02:25.460 single if they won't ali how do you feel about the woman all right and then there's one more and 0.89

00:02:31.600 then we'll get to the discussion uh the response to my husband is not my boss can we play that one

00:02:37.360 ali what do you what do you say to the women that say my husband isn't my boss there is no need to be 0.62

00:02:45.240 submissive you're a team i understand where they're coming from but these same women don't understand 1.00

00:02:52.340 that oftentimes they'll put their husbands on the back burner for like an actual boss in real life that 1.00

00:02:58.320 they have to submit to and they constantly ask their husbands to modify their lives for that 1.00

00:03:02.180 meanwhile the dude has forgotten he's absolutely sexless and she's feeding him out of the microwave 0.99

00:03:06.660 that's the problem if you can work and love your man equally you want to talk about equalism right if

00:03:11.480 you can do that then good but most women can't most women can't even push the power button on an air fryer 1.00

00:03:16.320 what do you say to the web okay cool so ali yes um how has your life changed since these viral videos

00:03:24.800 like what what kind of response you're getting to this because i think your whole idea is here

00:03:28.520 find a high value man be submissive help him and then create the happy life happy marriage you want

00:03:34.280 do i got that correct i would say that's correct i just want women to be able to marry the men that 1.00

00:03:38.840 they want and then to be able to stay married because i think that's the hardest part is maintaining

00:03:43.480 attraction but if you can get the the guy of your dreams then you should be fine but i don't think my

00:03:48.200 life has changed much other than my message is out there i knew it would get out there in some way

00:03:52.740 shape or form i just didn't think it was going to be in the back of an uber with one of my friends

00:03:56.160 the content creator and i didn't think that it'd be so um so awesome to roast women on the regular 1.00

00:04:01.840 it's it's been a blast gotcha so coco you're sitting back you're watching all this i'm watching how are

00:04:06.260 you processing all this what are your thoughts on her perspective well people can do whatever they

00:04:13.100 want obviously her marriage is her thing and if that works for her that's totally fine i think that 1.00

00:04:19.460 you know if something happens let's say if actually i need to understand first what do you

00:04:24.660 what did what does he do for work and did you do something for work before

00:04:27.700 so i met him when i was in the military uh worked underneath him as a medic so a medical screener he

00:04:34.320 is a medical provider within the military he's a physician's assistant i had a job but then we ended

00:04:40.780 up having a conversation i was like why am i working and he's like okay facts and that was pretty

00:04:45.960 much the end of it and now i make content on youtube so i get to do a job that i enjoy okay

00:04:50.800 so i mean if that works for them that's totally fine i just see a lot when when a woman completely 1.00

00:04:56.540 abandons her life i'm not saying that's you but i'm saying in general when a woman completely

00:05:01.220 abandons her life and she is just a wife or just um like you don't have anything yours going for you 1.00

00:05:08.940 and how how do you know okay you are married but like how do you know that this is going to be

00:05:12.880 forever because marriages do fall apart i'm not saying yours will but um i i had a situation in

00:05:18.880 my life when i was just somebody's girlfriend and i was so happy at a few months in but then later i

00:05:26.740 just realized for me that's not enough and i want people to remember me for me and not for being

00:05:31.260 somebody's plus one got it so you want to respond to that do you think that you would have felt better

00:05:36.780 about that situation had you been that man's wife instead of the girlfriend no maybe it's just

00:05:42.000 the person but um i just me personally like i left my hometown when i was 22 i came to the states

00:05:50.880 alone and if i wanted a life where i'm just gonna be somebody's wife and i'm there's a lot of women 1.00

00:05:57.420 who are totally fine with that and i have a lot of friends who are just housewives and that is a

00:06:02.280 really tough job and raising kids is really difficult and that being like you be with them all the time it's

00:06:07.720 not easy but for me i just wanted something more and i just wanted one i mean at the time there

00:06:15.080 wasn't like youtube i mean there wasn't like tiktok and stuff when i was in that relationship but

00:06:19.180 i it was not enough for me well why don't we do this so so that so the audience is crystal clear on

00:06:25.420 what you guys stand for essentially and we'll have a you know a deeper conversation go down the line

00:06:30.740 here uh start with you coco you talk about raising the women's standards what's your 1.00

00:06:35.300 you know goal as a woman where do you think the role of a woman should be and then we'll go down 1.00

00:06:39.600 the line here to ali and pearl well women have a lot of roles you can't just say a woman has like 1.00

00:06:44.820 what a woman has one role that she should just like live in that role i mean my my whole thing about

00:06:50.380 raising your standards is like don't just marry the first guy you kind of like because you think

00:06:56.520 that your clock is ticking or because you think that you are not whole because you don't have that

00:07:01.560 missing piece or something like why do women think that the highlight of their existence if they're 1.00

00:07:06.340 somebody's wife i don't think that's true i mean some people decide not to get married and they're

00:07:10.820 happily ever after but you just don't have that piece of paper so i don't know if that answers

00:07:15.500 your question okay i got it ali go ahead i'm just trying to address a lot of fear because i hear that

00:07:20.340 argument a lot well if you're just a wife you're gonna lose yourself but if we keep feeding women this 1.00

00:07:24.600 narrative like they're gonna eat it up and they're they're gonna buy it but if you have a man who can 0.75

00:07:28.360 protect provide and cherish you it's like no it's a no-brainer of course you're gonna go ahead and

00:07:32.940 pursue something like that but women are always thinking oh i i lose something in a marriage i lose

00:07:36.900 something in a marriage i'm vulnerable i don't think so i think men take the bigger risk in assuming

00:07:40.780 all of the responsibility for finances within a marriage if you look at the divorce statistics it's

00:07:45.360 pretty cut and dry so like uh sometimes i hear you know what happens if your husband leaves you for

00:07:50.300 someone younger i actually don't worry about that because i know how the family courts are 0.56

00:07:53.500 it's more so the fact that like my women women's satisfaction in marriage we have a lot more 0.90

00:08:00.260 autonomy over that than we think because we end up leaving most of the time i think 80 of the time

00:08:05.200 women are the ones causing the divorce it's 90 of your college educated wow okay so pearl weigh in on 1.00

00:08:12.580 this go ahead because you've been kind of quiet you've been waiting your time but you what you do is

00:08:16.700 you red pill women so but are you married or no no i'm not married okay are you in a serious 0.63

00:08:20.580 relationship right now or no i'm not you're not okay so we have a single woman we have a married

00:08:24.340 woman and a woman in a relationship but not married we couldn't ask for a better panel ladies 1.00

00:08:30.820 and gentlemen shout out to our booker here go ahead pearl um i'm sorry what was the question

00:08:35.880 yeah just basically what you stand for what i stand well i grew up um in a more like traditional

00:08:41.400 family and i really appreciated it that like my goal is to get married and i think my life like

00:08:46.460 it wouldn't be complete if i didn't have a husband and family like that's how i feel about it so

00:08:50.380 you're saying your goal is to get married yes okay that's your goal yeah i mean i have other goals too

00:08:56.580 like what are your other goals um my other goals i want to hit 100 000 subscribers on youtube so you

00:09:02.260 guys should help me out with that just pearl right just pearly things just pearly things let's get that

00:09:07.780 going all right so number one on your list is marriage number two is is that a career yeah you too

00:09:13.440 okay so the career is in a backseat to marriage yeah okay and ali for you is was marriage number

00:09:20.300 one on your list my dream in life was to be a housewife and to do some work some kind of work 0.99

00:09:25.760 from home so i would say like i made it i made it you're living your best life living my best life

00:09:30.440 all i'm missing is the babies they're coming next are they coming next oh yeah yeah we just bought a

00:09:34.500 house so we have to fill it with humans you know you gotta fill that with humans can i can i actually

00:09:38.540 add something else to my my dad is like a top one person like he's very very successful and my mom

00:09:43.620 was actually supposed to be a teacher and she quit that to go work for my dad and they ended up building

00:09:48.360 like a multi-million dollar business and having 10 kids and i just yeah and 10 kids so i you're one

00:09:54.260 of 10 yeah i'm one of 10 what does your dad do um so he owns a software company got it and i just think

00:09:59.480 that you know in order to accomplish anything there's always going to be risk and i got to see the

00:10:05.240 benefits of my mom taking that risk like it might not have worked out she had to move to him she had 0.98

00:10:09.320 to leave her school and quit her job but so your dad is a owner of a software company your mom was

00:10:15.220 going to be a teacher she was a teacher and she said you know what let me jump off the teaching trail

00:10:19.320 i'm gonna go work for my boss who also is my husband and it worked out well yeah okay now coco

00:10:25.400 is what's your goal is it your goal is your top goal to be a wife to be married what's your top goal

00:10:30.220 my top goal is to create a company i mean my goal is to i i work i used to study journalism so i love

00:10:38.380 the media world and i currently i'm starting a podcast so i want to work in the media space but

00:10:43.080 i want this to be my thing and i want this to be something that nobody can take away from me so like

00:10:48.480 if if i'm somebody's wife one day he can just be like okay well what if he what if he bankrupts or

00:10:55.620 something then what your life is over if you don't have anything that you're doing on the side

00:10:59.800 but i also feel like you're not just a housewife because you are doing your content correct

00:11:04.660 but that pales in comparison to the work that i did before like it's it's a night and day difference

00:11:09.860 you said you were in the army yes i was in the united states military okay yeah a lot of women 1.00

00:11:14.580 they'll talk about you know like working hard working hard i'm like have you been to the woods for 30

00:11:18.600 days on end like no shower and not enough food it's not fun so i would say you know yes i work and i do

00:11:25.060 content creation but i'm gonna be real if you're intelligent and you can figure out a business

00:11:28.200 model and you can figure out what people want to hear to to an extent i do like to provide value

00:11:31.840 because i don't want to sell women a lie if you can do that i mean work smarter not harder you can

00:11:36.520 really reduce your work hours so i my husband does so much for me and i don't want to act like that

00:11:41.380 my channel would be possible if i did it myself it's not true like i would refer to him as like my

00:11:46.800 primary financier for my channel like he makes the platform happen and i'm proud of that

00:11:51.040 what do you still work though like you work for your content so you're not just a housewife

00:11:55.340 coco it's not a hard job but what's not a hard job content creation for me so you you think it is a

00:12:02.400 hard job is that what you're saying i think it is definitely because this is your full-time gig

00:12:05.400 yeah you're a content creator full-time yeah your full-time job is being a housewife slash

00:12:11.200 content creator but first job is being a housewife yes well and even if you're just like if you say just a

00:12:17.740 housewife like you're still creating culture like you don't you don't understand what goes 0.99

00:12:22.000 into that like my mom had traditions that we did every single year being a mom like my mom is a great

00:12:28.060 mom she always worked and she always she raised me and my brother like really well i would say

00:12:33.260 and she always worked but she also had time to raise us i know but why do we reduce it to like

00:12:40.080 just a housewife no i didn't say just you said that earlier okay i don't remember well a lot a lot

00:12:46.520 of women do that you know just a housewife just a housewife actually i'm sorry i started to cut you 1.00

00:12:50.380 off i actually said i'm not saying that that's i actually said that being a housewife is a difficult

00:12:54.520 job and raising kids is a difficult i said that so maybe i don't know why as many of you know i was

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JustPearlyThings - May 03, 2023

How @realfemsapien TRIGGERED feminists worldwide

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