How @realfemsapien TRIGGERED feminists worldwide
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the viral video that set the internet ablaze and how to become a better housewife. Join us as we discuss how to find a high value man, be submissive, and work for the man you want to pursue and then create the marriage you want.
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questions with that being said let's see this video that set the internet ablaze make sure
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the volume's up please gotcha okay okay ali show me your ring oh here now tell me what you do for
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a living oh i love my husband and how did you how did you get that awesome job well i became a
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better human being and i became feminine and also shocking submissive so that was the secret so what
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are your tips to women that want to be a housewife to embrace it it's an actual job you just can't
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get it in the public or private sector like you need you need a man to hire you for it but that's
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okay because if you think about it you submit to your boss who makes you clean stupid shelves at
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your retail job right like wouldn't it be better if you were cleaning your own shelves at home
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you know what i mean and your in your boss wants to sleep with you in a good way in a good way
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and where where do you meet these men well i think women should work for the men that they want to
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pursue i know that sounds crazy but it's really easy so if you think about it like you want a lawyer
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right so then you should be a paralegal or if you want a dentist then you should be a dental hygienist
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but these are considered i guess high high value status prevent professions but i think that's a
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really good model that not enough women utilize because women will bully the woman who is the
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secretary that married the doctor okay but who has the last laugh like her in her mcmansion with her
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husband who's high and the baby like that's that's who has the last laugh so boom so that was the video
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that set things off by the way that was on pearl's instagram or tiktok just pearly things um comments
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blew up there was a couple more videos let's play that and then we're going to open it up for discussion
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so they the that was the viral video and then a lot of ladies said or the comments were not exactly
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nice the most of them i assume right uh and one said this is heartbreakingly sad so ali had a response
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to that go ahead the woman that are saying this is heartbreakingly sad i mean i don't know i get
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my back blown out regularly i am fully paid for survival i have my own autonomy i also do my own
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work so like i just don't see what's wrong with my situation but they can ask themselves why they're
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single if they won't ali how do you feel about the woman all right and then there's one more and
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then we'll get to the discussion uh the response to my husband is not my boss can we play that one
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ali what do you what do you say to the women that say my husband isn't my boss there is no need to be
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submissive you're a team i understand where they're coming from but these same women don't understand
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that oftentimes they'll put their husbands on the back burner for like an actual boss in real life that
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they have to submit to and they constantly ask their husbands to modify their lives for that
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meanwhile the dude has forgotten he's absolutely sexless and she's feeding him out of the microwave
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that's the problem if you can work and love your man equally you want to talk about equalism right if
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you can do that then good but most women can't most women can't even push the power button on an air fryer
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what do you say to the web okay cool so ali yes um how has your life changed since these viral videos
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like what what kind of response you're getting to this because i think your whole idea is here
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find a high value man be submissive help him and then create the happy life happy marriage you want
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do i got that correct i would say that's correct i just want women to be able to marry the men that
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they want and then to be able to stay married because i think that's the hardest part is maintaining
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attraction but if you can get the the guy of your dreams then you should be fine but i don't think my
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life has changed much other than my message is out there i knew it would get out there in some way
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shape or form i just didn't think it was going to be in the back of an uber with one of my friends
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the content creator and i didn't think that it'd be so um so awesome to roast women on the regular
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it's it's been a blast gotcha so coco you're sitting back you're watching all this i'm watching how are
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you processing all this what are your thoughts on her perspective well people can do whatever they
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want obviously her marriage is her thing and if that works for her that's totally fine i think that
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you know if something happens let's say if actually i need to understand first what do you
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what did what does he do for work and did you do something for work before
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so i met him when i was in the military uh worked underneath him as a medic so a medical screener he
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is a medical provider within the military he's a physician's assistant i had a job but then we ended
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up having a conversation i was like why am i working and he's like okay facts and that was pretty
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much the end of it and now i make content on youtube so i get to do a job that i enjoy okay
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so i mean if that works for them that's totally fine i just see a lot when when a woman completely
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abandons her life i'm not saying that's you but i'm saying in general when a woman completely
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abandons her life and she is just a wife or just um like you don't have anything yours going for you
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and how how do you know okay you are married but like how do you know that this is going to be
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forever because marriages do fall apart i'm not saying yours will but um i i had a situation in
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my life when i was just somebody's girlfriend and i was so happy at a few months in but then later i
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just realized for me that's not enough and i want people to remember me for me and not for being
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somebody's plus one got it so you want to respond to that do you think that you would have felt better
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about that situation had you been that man's wife instead of the girlfriend no maybe it's just
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the person but um i just me personally like i left my hometown when i was 22 i came to the states
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alone and if i wanted a life where i'm just gonna be somebody's wife and i'm there's a lot of women
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who are totally fine with that and i have a lot of friends who are just housewives and that is a
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really tough job and raising kids is really difficult and that being like you be with them all the time it's
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not easy but for me i just wanted something more and i just wanted one i mean at the time there
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wasn't like youtube i mean there wasn't like tiktok and stuff when i was in that relationship but
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i it was not enough for me well why don't we do this so so that so the audience is crystal clear on
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what you guys stand for essentially and we'll have a you know a deeper conversation go down the line
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here uh start with you coco you talk about raising the women's standards what's your
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you know goal as a woman where do you think the role of a woman should be and then we'll go down
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the line here to ali and pearl well women have a lot of roles you can't just say a woman has like
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what a woman has one role that she should just like live in that role i mean my my whole thing about
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raising your standards is like don't just marry the first guy you kind of like because you think
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that your clock is ticking or because you think that you are not whole because you don't have that
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missing piece or something like why do women think that the highlight of their existence if they're
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somebody's wife i don't think that's true i mean some people decide not to get married and they're
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happily ever after but you just don't have that piece of paper so i don't know if that answers
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your question okay i got it ali go ahead i'm just trying to address a lot of fear because i hear that
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argument a lot well if you're just a wife you're gonna lose yourself but if we keep feeding women this
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narrative like they're gonna eat it up and they're they're gonna buy it but if you have a man who can
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protect provide and cherish you it's like no it's a no-brainer of course you're gonna go ahead and
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pursue something like that but women are always thinking oh i i lose something in a marriage i lose
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something in a marriage i'm vulnerable i don't think so i think men take the bigger risk in assuming
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all of the responsibility for finances within a marriage if you look at the divorce statistics it's
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pretty cut and dry so like uh sometimes i hear you know what happens if your husband leaves you for
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someone younger i actually don't worry about that because i know how the family courts are
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it's more so the fact that like my women women's satisfaction in marriage we have a lot more
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autonomy over that than we think because we end up leaving most of the time i think 80 of the time
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women are the ones causing the divorce it's 90 of your college educated wow okay so pearl weigh in on
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this go ahead because you've been kind of quiet you've been waiting your time but you what you do is
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you red pill women so but are you married or no no i'm not married okay are you in a serious
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relationship right now or no i'm not you're not okay so we have a single woman we have a married
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woman and a woman in a relationship but not married we couldn't ask for a better panel ladies
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and gentlemen shout out to our booker here go ahead pearl um i'm sorry what was the question
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yeah just basically what you stand for what i stand well i grew up um in a more like traditional
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family and i really appreciated it that like my goal is to get married and i think my life like
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it wouldn't be complete if i didn't have a husband and family like that's how i feel about it so
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you're saying your goal is to get married yes okay that's your goal yeah i mean i have other goals too
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like what are your other goals um my other goals i want to hit 100 000 subscribers on youtube so you
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guys should help me out with that just pearl right just pearly things just pearly things let's get that
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going all right so number one on your list is marriage number two is is that a career yeah you too
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okay so the career is in a backseat to marriage yeah okay and ali for you is was marriage number
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one on your list my dream in life was to be a housewife and to do some work some kind of work
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from home so i would say like i made it i made it you're living your best life living my best life
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all i'm missing is the babies they're coming next are they coming next oh yeah yeah we just bought a
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house so we have to fill it with humans you know you gotta fill that with humans can i can i actually
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add something else to my my dad is like a top one person like he's very very successful and my mom
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was actually supposed to be a teacher and she quit that to go work for my dad and they ended up building
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like a multi-million dollar business and having 10 kids and i just yeah and 10 kids so i you're one
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of 10 yeah i'm one of 10 what does your dad do um so he owns a software company got it and i just think
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that you know in order to accomplish anything there's always going to be risk and i got to see the
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benefits of my mom taking that risk like it might not have worked out she had to move to him she had
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to leave her school and quit her job but so your dad is a owner of a software company your mom was
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going to be a teacher she was a teacher and she said you know what let me jump off the teaching trail
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i'm gonna go work for my boss who also is my husband and it worked out well yeah okay now coco
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is what's your goal is it your goal is your top goal to be a wife to be married what's your top goal
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my top goal is to create a company i mean my goal is to i i work i used to study journalism so i love
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the media world and i currently i'm starting a podcast so i want to work in the media space but
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i want this to be my thing and i want this to be something that nobody can take away from me so like
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if if i'm somebody's wife one day he can just be like okay well what if he what if he bankrupts or
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something then what your life is over if you don't have anything that you're doing on the side
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but i also feel like you're not just a housewife because you are doing your content correct
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but that pales in comparison to the work that i did before like it's it's a night and day difference
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you said you were in the army yes i was in the united states military okay yeah a lot of women
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they'll talk about you know like working hard working hard i'm like have you been to the woods for 30
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days on end like no shower and not enough food it's not fun so i would say you know yes i work and i do
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content creation but i'm gonna be real if you're intelligent and you can figure out a business
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model and you can figure out what people want to hear to to an extent i do like to provide value
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because i don't want to sell women a lie if you can do that i mean work smarter not harder you can
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really reduce your work hours so i my husband does so much for me and i don't want to act like that
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my channel would be possible if i did it myself it's not true like i would refer to him as like my
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primary financier for my channel like he makes the platform happen and i'm proud of that
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what do you still work though like you work for your content so you're not just a housewife
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coco it's not a hard job but what's not a hard job content creation for me so you you think it is a
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hard job is that what you're saying i think it is definitely because this is your full-time gig
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yeah you're a content creator full-time yeah your full-time job is being a housewife slash
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content creator but first job is being a housewife yes well and even if you're just like if you say just a
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housewife like you're still creating culture like you don't you don't understand what goes
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into that like my mom had traditions that we did every single year being a mom like my mom is a great
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mom she always worked and she always she raised me and my brother like really well i would say
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and she always worked but she also had time to raise us i know but why do we reduce it to like
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just a housewife no i didn't say just you said that earlier okay i don't remember well a lot a lot
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of women do that you know just a housewife just a housewife actually i'm sorry i started to cut you
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off i actually said i'm not saying that that's i actually said that being a housewife is a difficult
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job and raising kids is a difficult i said that so maybe i don't know why as many of you know i was
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