JustPearlyThings - How Women can Make their Husband Happy

00:00:00.000 are women skeptical and reluctant to sleep with drake now here is the thing right this is the

00:00:09.360 thing um definitely i will just answer the question it's a no-no right and they're not

00:00:15.680 yes what about i'm gonna ask you another what about rappers but here's the thing

00:00:22.080 who are they going for yeah listen if they're going for a certain type of girls that's like 1.00

00:00:28.080 unknown they earn less than them um they kind of like structure yeah they will not hesitate in two

00:00:37.440 seconds and and drake had a kid with a stripper but high quality women will definitely not sleep with 1.00

00:00:44.480 drake and so many other rappers and they'd be i don't know if i would agree you don't have to you

00:00:50.880 don't have to high quality women like let's say what is but that's the thing like what is a high 1.00

00:00:55.760 quality i will tell you like i'm sorry i'm just like people from the parliament people in the in

00:01:01.280 the in the politicians they won't do that they would don't want their names associated with

00:01:08.480 they keep it low-key but here's the thing the other men they keep it low-key you there's a respect put

00:01:13.440 respect on the name you realize like and put the respect on my name as well nba players have women

00:01:18.400 that like actively pursue them to the point they'll like buy hotel rooms like at the places look to look

00:01:25.040 for where they hang out and also like know everything about like they literally pursue them this is

00:01:30.720 what they do i'll tell you what they do right watch out this info because i okay cool i know i know about

00:01:38.320 this info because i have personal assist a lot of influencers and some celebs in the uk so i've seen

00:01:46.560 some behind the scenes of what goes on and how it works is that i don't know like an artist or an nba

00:01:54.880 player so i've never worked with mpa but i'm just saying someone of that status will go through someone

00:02:01.600 else and say i'm requesting a girl that's this age this and this they will scout for the girl oh yeah 0.88

00:02:07.360 they will say call this person um wants you for the night they require x y and z and that's how it works

00:02:15.280 it's not even always it wouldn't be just drake himself they all do it they all do it contracts

00:02:21.840 there's so many contracts and that contracts will have nda to not mention that that's what i'm saying

00:02:26.800 but this is what i'm saying about it sharing about it openly does damage your partner name

00:02:31.680 and their you know quality of who they are now not necessarily it depends on your lane right but if

00:02:38.480 you're going to so many serious i would say um position it will impact you you know i'm not saying

00:02:46.080 men don't cheat women cheat most of the time you don't know about it and just life keep going on

00:02:51.280 and you said you're okay with that right like not not to like use him as an example but like if he

00:02:55.920 were to cheat and you didn't know about it would you be okay with it would i listen logically right

00:03:00.000 i come from a culture when right i i would i'll be angry if i knew but like i will accept it i will

00:03:08.640 accept it i have to say there's so much qualities about my partner if he done one mistake in so many

00:03:14.960 years i'll just keep a blind eye i get one pass can i ask you a question do you feel like do you feel

00:03:21.680 like you respect your i don't know how long ago your previous girlfriends were when you was living

00:03:27.440 together but did do you think you respect them the same as you do your now girlfriend yeah why no

00:03:32.960 equally her a lot more okay because she's changed she's like everything i'm looking for like in terms

00:03:39.520 of you know like she's very intelligent she's hyper analytical like me so are these other girls just

00:03:44.400 fantasies sorry are these other girls just fantasies like you're like like your playground 0.99

00:03:51.280 oh the the side girls yeah yeah because i i enjoy going through almost like someone that got good

00:03:56.080 at chess and it sounds weird i just have one question for you yeah when you was looking for a

00:04:00.240 wife did you want to be with someone that was bisexual to allow those things yes that's a requirement 1.00

00:04:07.280 yeah that's that was like your requirement right there's like a whole list of it has to come from

00:04:11.600 a good family that's why it works so if you're happy yeah and i was up front with it and she could have 0.91

00:04:16.400 left yeah i like the fact that you're up front with it yeah i think there's authenticity i think everyone's

00:04:21.600 relationship is going to work for them i just wonder how it would work sorry i'm curious girls

00:04:27.040 who would sign up for something like that anyone i personally wouldn't in that exact dynamic but i

00:04:33.840 would like to say i respect you so much because you had to in a way lower your ego to be able to have

00:04:40.000 him happy if he's happy then that's what makes you happy and i feel like in our society now that's

00:04:46.160 women's problem including myself the fact that we don't want to lower our ego in order to make our 1.00

00:04:52.000 partner or our boyfriend or our husband happy because we're always trying to level level up

00:04:56.400 even be on the same level with them i'll be even higher and that's ruining our relationship for me

00:05:01.440 it's not like lowering my ego i don't see it like that i see like i don't i don't i i'm sorry if

00:05:07.360 i don't understand you properly but i don't see this as lowering my ego whatsoever because it's like

00:05:14.080 i'm seriously okay it's like because i believe that for men that's my concept that's my belief

00:05:21.680 i believe for me like oh no you like to bang go bang that makes you happy so go be happy she's like

00:05:28.640 very selfless as well like she it's not something that's gonna be like oh my god is oh you are talking

00:05:34.880 to no sometimes like like you see a girl like a beautiful girl walking and say oh my god she's so 0.85

00:05:40.800 beautiful it's like i think sometimes it's like uh we miss empathy it's like you know when you go

00:05:48.320 like to nightclubs and like someone is like doing bad like is in a bad moment i always see like

00:05:55.280 something that i like to see i always feel like girls coming up to that person say hey dude are you

00:05:59.760 fine yeah hey can i get you something or someone in the bathroom can you know and like you're seeing

00:06:06.000 that environment because people are like relax you know and so when i say like oh go be happy

00:06:12.480 it's not that i'm trying to like me learn my ego but it's like i believe like if you're both like in

00:06:18.960 the same page like what do you like we can like do things together and keep like easy because i think

00:06:25.040 like the world outside is already so hard yeah it's like it's already gonna try to beat you to beat you so

00:06:31.680 much if you cannot get home and like be with a person that like truly like like understands you

00:06:38.080 like have you by your side you know to be like peaceful it's gonna be really hard you know yeah

00:06:43.920 can i think you can be like more like empathic like this you know so if he if he was um banging

00:06:50.880 other girls and accidentally he maybe got one impregnated how would i have a vasectomy 1.00

00:06:56.560 oh okay 2014 so almost 10 years okay question yeah that solves that problem yeah stds oh um i

00:07:04.160 mean i've run you know like most of the guys i know that i've been you know with a lot of girls like

00:07:07.760 usually it's like chlamydia like one to five times or something i'm not like bragging about it but like

00:07:11.520 gone in a week with a pill not that big video i've done videos and stds one in two people get that

00:07:16.640 yeah it's pretty common but like she also gets like turned on like hearing about me with girls and

00:07:21.440 she wants to see like what would the girl look like and stuff like that i i think the way you've 0.73

00:07:26.480 gone about it i say more power to you you know i think there's a lot of men will be watching this

00:07:30.160 thinking this guy's really the honesty and coming to to terms with like the rules and stuff like that

00:07:39.040 like i'm not getting emotionally attached with these other girls yeah i'm not taking them how do you stop

00:07:42.960 that though what if you just meet someone that's incredible and you know but men can easily detach

00:07:47.680 they're not there but people think that men don't have emotions you do what if you just met someone

00:07:51.520 just thought i just want to spend time with her more and more we've had that we've had that happen

00:07:55.440 a couple times so it has like the argentina there was an argentinian girl that was like she was like 0.98

00:07:59.520 argentinian polish and ukraine ukrainian so like eastern european with the south american yeah she was 1.00

00:08:04.960 like great so you fell in love with her no i didn't fall in love but like i was like seeing her a

00:08:10.000 bunch and like she got jealous of liz because she liked me a lot yeah the thing is usually they get jealous

00:08:15.120 of me not me getting jealous i opened my house it's like you want to come like yeah it's like

00:08:21.360 no not because of this because i believe like dude if they are both cool so okay you're very powerful

00:08:28.080 you've clearly done a hell of work on yourself to be that powerful emotionally and then like she got

00:08:34.240 there and i was like okay like but she knows at the end of the day like like we have we have like a

00:08:39.120 very loving relationship and like all the stuff that you'd expect like with from a partner we have all that

00:08:43.840 i know this is like this other thing on the side but it's not but it doesn't really detract it's just

00:08:47.280 like something it's a special circumstance it's my job yeah i i am just so curious though what if

00:08:53.120 she said i had a personal trainer started to like him and she did want to engage with him what is it

00:08:59.360 about the rules that would stop you allowing her to be the guy this is like 100 off limits from my

00:09:03.840 side but why it's so it is i get it as a bloke i tell them i tell them i tell them why i don't want

00:09:10.880 some guy banging my chick yeah i get it i think it's double standards i'd say it's not it's a 0.52

00:09:15.200 double standard but i'm just wondering okay but even as women like do you want to bang a bunch of 1.00

00:09:18.880 dudes no no like that's the thing we don't want to sometimes it's like i can say like oh sometimes 0.95

00:09:25.920 uh like john arrives and then oh let's you know let's have sex sometimes i'm like so tired and it's like 0.73

00:09:33.040 um can you like you know so i i i i'm fine if i say like oh not tonight you know because i know he's

00:09:40.240 gonna be fine and i'm not like you know cutting him like so you know and it's not like something

00:09:46.160 that's like i feel i need so much because i'm there's so many activities that i want to do that's

00:09:53.120 the truth there's so many things like oh i want to do that i want to do that i want to do that so

00:09:58.160 when he goes and bangs and like come back happy it's like oh this is this is done check so this is

00:10:05.120 fine and then i'm so i can do my stuff so we have like this thing together you know like we want help 0.88

00:10:10.800 each other like you know when i say activities i say like stupid like painting i love painting every

00:10:16.240 guy wants to be john right now but i do want to know how does he help you so you help a lot yeah yeah 0.60

00:10:21.440 yeah he is awesome he's like he's really helping financially yes like i used to have a job uh-huh

00:10:31.200 and it was like that thing uh they don't make much in brazil my job i do she was like a high-end

00:10:36.480 engineer right i did love my job seriously i love my job but the problem is being inside of my job and

00:10:43.360 having to take care of like the house john like the dogs it was like just like too much for me why

00:10:50.240 because like i would do everything like kind of and i hate that feeling because it like really

00:10:56.240 starts to like uh stress me out so and then he was like dude you can like do these little things here

00:11:03.600 and this because he provides you give back that way exactly like i understand no yeah so it's like it's

00:11:10.560 it's not hard privilege yeah it's not it's not like a hard thing you know babe we need that so god

00:11:17.200 forbid he lost his job he's gonna have to get back to monogamy real quick but it's like when i first

00:11:25.280 met him to be honest like today we have like our maids we have people to walk the dogs we have everything

00:11:31.600 but when i first met him and you have everything that we can buy it wouldn't buy and you don't care

00:11:36.640 about so many uh expensive so for us it's easy you know like we uh he makes uh some amount that we

00:11:45.040 don't even have time to spend like let's say like that so it's easy it's not like oh but like when i

00:11:51.120 first met him like three years ago he wasn't rich he didn't have like that much money and he was like

00:11:58.080 he did this stuff like we always tried to help and it wasn't like less you have to do this you have

00:12:03.280 to do no it was like uh i can do this so you can do that i can do this you can do that there was a

00:12:11.120 point that like his company was doing bad and i was like my job and i was just thinking dude if it goes

00:12:17.360 bad because like he likes some stuff but i was just saying oh am i able to take us with my wage for some

00:12:26.080 time and i was to say okay so i need to work a little bit more here so i was willing to do that

00:12:31.600 because like i chose for it's how it's like for his mind you know i think his mind is really

00:12:37.840 fascinating for me well i found i found that the girls that say like he has to he has to earn my

00:12:43.600 submission or he has to make him a bunch of money they're just keeping score yeah like relationships

00:12:48.160 aren't good if you're keeping score of what he's doing for you and what you're doing for him

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JustPearlyThings - April 15, 2023

How Women can Make their Husband Happy

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